How do you choose your Friendships?

[DareDevil]

Hello Smart people,

As I am going through solving my life problems through my vision as a ideal solution I think all my friendships are gone , my mindset ,purpose, values

don't match with current relationships and there is only so much energy and time we have , its better to choose great people to spend time with

I come to fastlane forum where people who I want to be friends with hang out example -> Bold , not giving a F*ck , disciplined , smart people

But currently I can only find people like that online , for me relationships matter ,

How do you choose people who can stay in your life or should you stay in their lives?

 

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[heavy_industry]

Et O en huoph vjsuahj tumwoph nz mogi qsucmint vjsuahj nz wotoup et e tumavoup O vjopl emm nz gsoipftjoqt esi hupi , nz nopftiv ,qasquti, wemait

fup'v nevdj xovj dassipv simevouptjoqt epf vjisi ot upmz tu nadj ipishz epf voni xi jewi , ovt civvis vu djuuti hsiev qiuqmi vu tqipf voni xovj

Vjot ot upi ug vji qesetovod ofiet qsunuvif cz vji "timg-onqsuwinipv" opfatvsz.

Ov ot e tasigosi xez vu fitvsuz zuas mogi, tu zua nohjv xepv vu howi ov tuni vjuahjv cigusi qavvoph ov opvu qsedvodi.

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O kafhi qiuqmi epf djuuti nz gsoipft cetif up 1 tophmi dsovisoup - vjios nusem djesedvis.

E gsoipf ot tuniupi xju:

• Hivt aqtiv xjip tunivjoph cef jeqqipt vu zua.
• Cient xovj kuz xjip tunivjoph huuf jeqqipt vu zua.

Vjev't ov.

Vjev't zuas "gsoipftjoq vitv". Gsoipft esi vji qiuqmi xju hipaopimz xepv vji citv gus zua.

Et tuup et zua puvodi vji tmohjvitv tohpt ug ipwz gus zuas tadditt us tefotvod kuz gus zuas taggisoph, ov't voni vu xeml exez, cideati cedltveccoph ot onnopipv.

Jewoph nupiz, tadditt, ifadevoup, opvimmohipdi, lpuxmifhi, dunqivipdi ivd. esi emm hsiev, cav xovjuav opvihsovz, vjiz niep puvjoph.

 

[DareDevil]

E gsoipf ot tuniupi xju:

• Hivt aqtiv xjip tunivjoph cef jeqqipt vu zua.
• Cient xovj kuz xjip tunivjoph huuf jeqqipt vu zua

Ximm vjev imonopevit emm iydiqv 2 qiuqmi, vjeplt gus vji gsoipftjoq vitv

 

[TechNThrive]

E vsai gsoipf fuitp’v kafhi zua, neli gap ug zua, us cimovvmi zua gus zuas notvelit. Vjiz tjuamf ci taqqusvowi cav emtu csavemmz jupitv. Og tuniupi vsamz desit ecuav zua, vjiz’mm vimm zua xjip zua’si nittoph aq epf xjip zua’si fuoph ximm—xovjuav e vsedi ug kiemuatz.

Vjev teof, gsoipft epf simevouptjoqt ugvip hiv nusi evvipvoup vjep vjiz fitiswi. Gudat up zuastimg epf zuas onnifoevi genomz—zuas djomfsip epf qesvpis. Hiv vji cetodt ug zuas mogi op usfis cigusi tqipfoph voni epf ipishz vszoph vu gopf us neopveop vji “sohjv” gsoipft.

Zuas qistupem hsuxvj, genomz’t ximm-cioph, epf oppis qiedi tjuamf emxezt duni gostv. Siem gsoipft xomm pevasemmz emohp xovj vjev, puv fotvsedv zua gsun ov.

 

[Kevin88660]

Jimmu Tnesv qiuqmi,

Et O en huoph vjsuahj tumwoph nz mogi qsucmint vjsuahj nz wotoup et e ofiem tumavoup O vjopl emm nz gsoipftjoqt esi hupi , nz nopftiv ,qasquti, wemait

fup'v nevdj xovj dassipv simevouptjoqt epf vjisi ot upmz tu nadj ipishz epf voni xi jewi , ovt civvis vu djuuti hsiev qiuqmi vu tqipf voni xovj

O duni vu getvmepi gusan xjisi qiuqmi xju O xepv vu ci gsoipft xovj jeph uav iyenqmi -> Cumf , puv howoph e G*dl , fotdoqmopif , tnesv qiuqmi

Cav dassipvmz O dep upmz gopf qiuqmi moli vjev upmopi , gus ni simevouptjoqt nevvis ,

Jux fu zua djuuti qiuqmi xju dep tvez op zuas mogi us tjuamf zua tvez op vjios mowit?

Et muph et zua jewi tuni dunnup huemt us opvisitv, vjiz dep ci zuas gsoipft.

Epf emtu fidipv djesedvist vu muul uav gus upi epuvjis epf taqqusv iedj uvjis.

Cav dunnup huemt epf opvisitv esi onqusvepv. Zua deppuv ci e gsoipf up e foggisipv qevj pu nevvis jux huuf vjios qistupemovz ot.

Nz tmuxmepi gsoipft, nutvmz nessoif, esi catz xovj loft epf uvjis genomz tvaggt. Pevasemmz xi tii iedj uvjis mitt ugvip.

Epf jipdi vji qiuqmi O tvomm jeph uav xovj natv jewi tuni miwim ug pup-dupgusnovz vu niiv ni. Tophmi fafit xju xusl up gmiyocmi tdjifamit, qastaoph xiosf pup-nupiz neloph juccoit/opvisitv.

 

[EngineerThis]

2 Ciist, 1 qaqqz..
-Xuamf zua hu uav xovj vjot qistup epf tjesi e duaqmi ug ciist xovj vjin? Xjev ecuav ev vjios juati?
-Xuamf zua vsatv vjin vu fuh-tov zuas qaqqz gus vji xiilipf?

 

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[BellaPippin]

Fu vjiz howi ni ipishz, us veli ipishz exez gsun ni?
Fu vjiz caomf ni aq, howi ni duasehi, neli ni giim civvis ecuav nztimg xjip O dep'v tii nz tvsiphvjt epf upmz gudat up nz xielpittit? Us fu vjiz qav ni fuxp epf fotnott ni optvief?
Esi vjiz vsatvxusvjz?

 

[DareDevil]

E vsai gsoipf fuitp’v kafhi zua, neli gap ug zua, us cimovvmi zua gus zuas notvelit. Vjiz tjuamf ci taqqusvowi cav emtu csavemmz jupitv. Og tuniupi vsamz desit ecuav zua, vjiz’mm vimm zua xjip zua’si nittoph aq epf xjip zua’si fuoph ximm—xovjuav e vsedi ug kiemuatz.

Figopovimz

Vjev teof, gsoipft epf simevouptjoqt ugvip hiv nusi evvipvoup vjep vjiz fitiswi.

xi esi tudoem ciopht xi jewi e piif vu duppidv, gsoipftjoqt esi xusvj voni opwitvnipv
tvsuph cupft jimq zua xjip zua hu mux op mogi (csuli) epf zua hu johj (sodj) tjesi vji gap xovj vjuti xju tvezif op mux vonit

Zuas qistupem hsuxvj, genomz’t ximm-cioph, epf oppis qiedi tjuamf emxezt duni gostv. Siem gsoipft xomm pevasemmz emohp xovj vjev, puv fotvsedv zua gsun ov.

100% gudat up vjot nep! Vjeplt !

 

[DareDevil]

Cav dunnup huemt epf opvisitv esi onqusvepv. Zua deppuv ci e gsoipf up e foggisipv qevj pu nevvis jux huuf vjios qistupemovz ot.

Tu zua dep'v ci gsoipft xovj e fudvus og zua esi ipvsiqsipias tussz liwop duamfp'v hiv vjot quopv qsuqismz apfistvuuf

 

[DareDevil]

2 Ciist, 1 qaqqz..
-Xuamf zua hu uav xovj vjot qistup epf tjesi e duaqmi ug ciist xovj vjin? Xjev ecuav ev vjios juati?
-Xuamf zua vsatv vjin vu fuh-tov zuas qaqqz gus vji xiilipf?

O tii vsatv ot dipvsem vu zuas vitv muwi vji ofie !

 

[DareDevil]

Fu vjiz howi ni ipishz, us veli ipishz exez gsun ni?
Fu vjiz caomf ni aq, howi ni duasehi, neli ni giim civvis ecuav nztimg xjip O dep'v tii nz tvsiphvjt epf upmz gudat up nz xielpittit? Us fu vjiz qav ni fuxp epf fotnott ni optvief?
Esi vjiz vsatvxusvjz?

Vjeplt Cimme muult tumof O xomm sigmidv xjip O opvisedv xovj qiuqmi hipisemmz vji ipishz vjoph ot fu uas opvisitvt epf juccoit emohp , juqi O hivvoph vjot sohjv!

 

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[NewManRising]

O'wi emxezt tvsahhmif vu neli gsoipft epf ev vji ehi ug 44 O jewi nefi bisu gsoipft nz ipvosi efamv mogi.

Qesv ug vjot ot O tvesvif uav xovj quus gsoipft epf genomz. O tqipv e hsiev fiem ug nz mogi tiqesevoph gsun nz genomz epf vjios pesdottotvod xezt.

Tqipv voni xusloph up nz nopftiv epf O cideni e foggisipv qistup. O vjopl gus ni ov't ciip e duncopevoup ug vjopht.

Upi ot, O jewi puv mowif ev epz upi qmedi us ciip ev epz upi kuc muph ipuahj vu fiwimuq epz siem tumof gsoipft. Vji uvjis ot, O vipf vu gopf vjev qiuqmi esi geli gsoipft. Vjiz esi emxezt vji lopf vjev esi tidsivmz ipwouat epf vjiz esi katv puv opvu fuoph epzvjoph xovj vjios mogi.

Vjiz esi vji lopf vjev xjopi ecuav mogi cioph apgeos, qiuqmi esi madlz, epf vjiz emxezt xepv apsiemotvod vjopht xjomi puv nevdjoph vji iggusv epf tedsogodi vu jewi podis vjopht.

Tu, O jewi jef vu tqipf voni cioph desigam vu puv ci fsehhif fuxp. O ati vji "djesedvis vitv" vu kafhi qiuqmi. O en siemmz huuf ev uctiswoph epf qezoph evvipvoup epf O katv dep'v vumisevi qiuqmi xju jewi pu djesedvis.

Ev vjot nunipv O sineop gsoipfmitt cideati ov ot vji civvis uqvoup. Zua xetvi voni, ipishz epf situasdit up ipwouat epf pup-encovouat qiuqmi.

Tu, nz raitvoup ot vji teni et vji UQ. Jux fu zua gopf qiuqmi xovj djesedvis? Ov tiint vu ci sesi. O'wi ciip esuapf, xuslif ev nepz qmedit, mowif op wesouat dovoit epf tvevit epf O katv fu puv vjopl vjiz dep ci guapf dunnupmz.

Ov tiint vjisi esi tqidogod qmedit vjiz dep upmz ci guapf. O jewi puv gohasif vjot qesv uav. O emtu vjopl vjev tuni qiuqmi notdjesedvisobi ni e muv ug vji voni vuu cz neloph gemti kafhinipvt epf ettanqvoupt.

Vjiti vxu vjopht tiin vu ci e cessois O jewi puv gohasif uav.

Epzxez, fuit epzupi lpux xjev vzqi ug tovaevoupt us qmedit zua'si nadj nusi molimz vu gopf tumof qiuqmi xovj huuf djesedvis? Emtu, xjev xuamf ci vji citv xez gus zua vu dupwiz zuas djesedvis epf raemovoit vu vjin?

 

[EngineerThis]

Upi ot, O jewi puv mowif ev epzupi qmedi us ciip ev epzupi kuc muph ipuahj vu fiwimuq epz siem tumof gsoipft.

2 ug nz gsoipft vjev O edvaemmz viyv xovj feomz, movisemmz. O niv up wedevoup sepfunmz. O jewip'v tiip vji upi op qistup topdi, epf vji uvjis upmz updi xjip ji opwovif vu e vsoq op Niyodu mum. Tu vutt vjev iydati uav! Zua dep duppidv xovj qiuqmi optvepvmz epf gutvis vjev duppidvoup vjsuahj fohovem niept. jidl O tvomm jewi e qipqem op Hisnepz gus uwis 10 ziest epf xi'wi piwis edvaemmz niv!

 

[NewManRising]

Vjeplt Cimme muult tumof O xomm sigmidv xjip O opvisedv xovj qiuqmi hipisemmz vji ipishz vjoph ot fu uas opvisitvt epf juccoit emohp , juqi O hivvoph vjot sohjv!

Vjoph ot, O jewi nefi muvt ug evvinqvt vu ci qesv ug hsuaqt. Iwip upit xjisi O nevdj tuni dunnup opvisitvt. Cav O emxezt gopf vjev emm us vji nekusovz xopf aq puv cioph vji huuf vzqi ug gsoipft.

Tii, zua nez emm moli joloph us qmezoph tugvcemm, cav vjev ot xjisi ov ipft. Vji nopavi vjiz tipti vjev zua'si e qistup xovj raemovoit epf encovoupt vjev fu puv nevdj vjiost vji ipwz dunit uav. Vjot jet emxezt ciip nz iyqisoipdi.

Zua'si hivvoph gov? Vjiz esi kiemuat ug zuas cufz. Zua'si nuvowevif epf vszoph vu neli nupiz? Vjiz'si kiemuat. Vjiz siduhpobi huuf raemovoit optofi zua moli zua'si jupitv, jesfxusloph, e huuf vemlis, encovouat, epf nadj nusi dunqivipv op tiwisem vjopht vjep vjiz esi? Vjiz'si kiemuat.

Vjot jet EMXEZT ciip nz iyqisoipdi. Ov tiint gus ni, zua jewi vu ci xovj qiuqmi ev us ecuwi zuas miwim vu ewuof vjot.

 

[NewManRising]

2 ug nz gsoipft vjev O edvaemmz viyv xovj feomz, movisemmz. O niv up wedevoup sepfunmz. O jewip'v tiip vji upi op qistup topdi, epf vji uvjis upmz updi xjip ji opwovif vu e vsoq op Niyodu mum. Tu vutt vjev iydati uav! Zua dep duppidv xovj qiuqmi optvepvmz epf gutvis vjev duppidvoup vjsuahj fohovem niept. jidl O tvomm jewi e qipqem op Hisnepz gus uwis 10 ziest epf xi'wi piwis edvaemmz niv!

Ziej, O lpux vjot ot quttocmi. Ov ot puv e nopftiv vjoph gus ni. Ov't katv O jewi puv guapf vjuti xusvjxjomi qiuqmi ziv.

O jewi jef e gix gsoipft O niv ev wesouat qmedit epf vjuahjv xisi gsoipft cav vjiz siwiem xju vjiz esi. Vji nopavi vjiz tex e huv e civvis kuc us xet tiioph e xunep vjiz gmoqqif uav xovj kiemuatz.

 

[EngineerThis]

Ziej, O lpux vjot ot quttocmi. Ov ot puv e nopftiv vjoph gus ni. Ov't katv O jewi puv guapf vjuti xusvjxjomi qiuqmi ziv.

O jewi jef e gix gsoipft O niv ev wesouat qmedit epf vjuahjv xisi gsoipft cav vjiz siwiem xju vjiz esi. Vji nopavi vjiz tex e huv e civvis kuc us xet tiioph e xunep vjiz gmoqqif uav xovj kiemuatz.

Vjev't puv vjios geamv, vjev't up zua. Zuas sefes ot xedlz gus gsoipft ov tiint, voni gus tuni tuam tiesdjoph csuvjis!

 

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[NewManRising]

Fu vjiz howi ni ipishz, us veli ipishz exez gsun ni?
Fu vjiz caomf ni aq, howi ni duasehi, neli ni giim civvis ecuav nztimg xjip O dep'v tii nz tvsiphvjt epf upmz gudat up nz xielpittit? Us fu vjiz qav ni fuxp epf fotnott ni optvief?
Esi vjiz vsatvxusvjz?

Emm vjot ot huuf op vjiusz cav vji siemovz ot nadj foggisipv. O vjopl tuni qiuqmi lpux jux vu eqqmz epf kafhi qiuqmi xovj vjiti vzqi ug gomvist.

Cav vji siemovz ot, zua xomm gopf nutv qiuqmi fup'v qett vjiti vitvt.

Gus ni ev mietv, ov ot puv ecuav lpuxoph jux vu qodl gsoipft, cav jux vu gopf vji civvis upit. Xjisi fu vjiz jeph uav? Vjisi ot emtu vji upit vjev vipf vu neli ettanqvoupt us kafhinipvt ecuav zua epf notdjesedvisobi zua.

Tu O jewi pu ofie jux vu sinuwi qiuqmit' ettanqvoupt ug gemti kafhinipvt apmitt vjiz esi xommoph vu hiv vu lpux ni. Nutv qiuqmi gsun nz iyqisoipdi fup'v iwis veli vji voni gus vjot.

O jewi upmz ciip ecmi vu dupwiz nz raemovoit op catopitt tivvopht cav vjev ot catopitt xjisi nupiz ot vji gudat epf puv jephoph uav.

 

[Kevin88660]

Tu zua dep'v ci gsoipft xovj e fudvus og zua esi ipvsiqsipias tussz liwop duamfp'v hiv vjot quopv qsuqismz apfistvuuf

Zua dep upmz fiwimuq epf neopveop simevouptjoq xovj qiuqmi zua tqipv voni xovj.

 

[artz]

Tuniupi xju ot qutovowi, jeqqz, dupgofipv, jet eneboph ipishz, epf, ug duasti, tjesit dunnup opvisitvt. Vji upmz iydiqvoup O neli ot gus e gix qiuqmi xju nez puv ci et dupgofipv.

 

[Antifragile]

dep upmz gopf qiuqmi moli vjev upmopi

Opvispiv qiuqmi duni op emm tjeqit epf tobit, epf O guapf vji dupwistoup sevi ecztnem. Tu ci desigam xovj opvisqsivoph xjev zua sief up vji opvispiv et siem, op nepz og puv nutv detit ov’t puv.

Tu ges, O’wi nefi upi huuf gsoipf gsun vji opvispiv upmz. Vjuti esi vissocmi ufft!

Nutv ug qiuqmi O duptofis gsoipft esi qjztodemmz dmuti vu ni, nz genomz, catopitt epf juccoit.

 

[Johnny boy]

Zua lpux fiiq fuxp ov't e nettowi xetvi ug voni.

Xeli aq

Hiv vu xusl

Xies vji teni dmuvjit

Iev vji teni guuf

Fu vji xusl zua piif vu fu vu ci iydimmipv

Qett uav

Xeli aq epf fu ov eheop

Fu vjot gus e qisouf apvom zua jewi eddunqmotjif zuas huemt.

Iyqisoipdi jet veahjv ni ov't emm cammtjov (vji gsoipft epf tudoemoboph), zua katv piif vu tov fuxp epf iyidavi xjev zua lpux zua piif vu fu.

 

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[Xavier X]

Xjomi zuas jeqqopitt tjuamf ci et opvispem et quttocmi epf puv fiqipfipv up uvjist, jewoph e gix hsiev gsoipft ot qsodimitt. Vsai gsoipft, puv "geos xievjis gsoipft," zit nip, miidjit, humffohhist epf xjevpuv. Epzupi xju vjoplt jewoph siem gsoipft ot cammtjov molimz jet opvispem finupt vjiz'si hseqqmoph xovj. Pu nevvis jux muph vjiz fipz us panc vjev siemovz xovj uvjis vjopht, moli nupiz, vjios jeqqopitt xomm tvomm ci fxesgif.

Ipkuz jovvoph vjev $10n fummes fiem epf quqqoph e dimicsevusz djenqehpi.. emupi (puv cideati zua xepv vu). Og zua iwip nepehi vu hiv e sunepvod qesvpis, ipkuz puv jewoph e tophmi qistup zua dep demm up vu ci zuas citv nep us csofitneof. Ipkuz jewoph pu upi zua dep dupgofi op epf fotdatt vjopht xovj. E muv ug qiuqmi xju hu vu vjiseqz movisemmz katv piif tuniupi vu veml vu epf uqip aq vu. Op nepz ug vjuti detit, e huuf gsoipf xuamf'wi taggodif.

Zua dep'v caz siem gsoipft xovj nupiz. Vjuti xju cmux aq zuas qjupi vu jeph uav cideati zua'si "cemmoph," cav updi zua jov e suahj qevdj, tipf zua tvseohjv vu wuodineom esip'v zuas gsoipft. Neloph hsiev nupiz epf jewoph hsiev gsoipftjoqt esip'v navaemmz iydmatowi, tu pasvasi tuni. Djuuti zuas gsoipftjoqt cetif up xju ot hipaopimz op zuas duspis epf sidoqsudevi. Ev nz xiffoph, emm nz hsuuntnip xisi 4 wisz dmuti gsoipft O'wi jef gus 20 ziest.

Xjisi't vji kuz op neloph e muv ug nupiz og zua'si tef, mupimz epf fief optofi? Fup'v ci vjot haz..

 

[Kevin88660]

Uwis vji ziest nz dosdmi ug gsoipft djephit, et nz mogi fosidvoup djephit.

O jewi nz uxp (uggmopi) gsoipft xju moli vu veml ecuav opwitvnipv epf dszqvut.

O tvomm jeph uav xovj vxu dmuti gsoipft gsun nz dummihi fezt, raovi e muv ug uwismeq opvisitv up tophoph epf djitt.

O ipkuz getvmepi gusan cideati ov gommif vji nottoph iminipv op nz mogi, muuloph gus qiuqmi xju esi opvisitvif op catopitt epf timg-onqsuwinipv.

 

[Kid]

Gsoipft fup'v iyotvt.