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Hey!
First of all, I sincerely apologize for any mistake in my grammar. English wasn't the language I was raised with.

This is going to be a bit about my life, and a bit of just taking something off my chest.


2 years ago was the start of my journey in this little world, where I had an idea for a (physical) product. I spent my time designing it myself using a CAD software, while contacting businesses for the various needs of the product (PCB's, 3D printers owners).

After 3 months of research and development, I gave up on this project (there was also something in my life that forced me to drop everything I was doing at the moment for the next six months).

Somewhere here I first found TMF & Unscripted (truly great books). These two shifted my mindset and my perception. I thank MJ for the great value.


9 months ago I had an idea for a software. I had extensive programming knowledge so I could start developing it right from the beginning (props to all the guys and girls here that learn programming for a product!).
As I was developing it, I had a lot of times where I had to discard parts of the project (parts of the code) as I thought of a better way to do it. Although it was a bit discouraging to "dump" the code I worked hard for, I kept working on it.

As the time progressed, I realized my job was taking most of my time so I started waking up eariler and eariler so I could develop in the mornings (earliest I've ever woke was 04:00).

Now, after 9 months of developing the core of the project (the product still need a pretty complex website) and after the time I completely changed the approach to the solution (which forced me to rewrite new code), I'm starting to think that I'm incompetent for this project. I've got to a point where I feel like I can't proceed; I've got to a problem which I think I cannot solve.


I'll be honest, I've been a bit depressed for the last couple of days because of it. I don't feel that these 9 months was a waste of time at all, I advanced my programming skills a lot. But it's a bit depressing to abandon a 9 month project. For these 9 month this project was everything I thought about. I was always excited to get back home so I could continue work on it.

I think it makes me sad because I always want to progress and evolve toward my end goal which is trading my money for my time (and an Alfa Romeo 4C), and now I'm afraid that I wont be able to progress.


I needed to get this off my chest. Thank you everyone who read through.

Also the people here and the goals you are achieving are amazing.
 
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Jiz!
Gostv ug emm, O topdisimz equmuhobi gus epz notveli op nz hsennes. Iphmotj xetp'v vji mephaehi O xet seotif xovj.

Vjot ot huoph vu ci e cov ecuav nz mogi, epf e cov ug katv veloph tunivjoph ugg nz djitv.


2 ziest ehu xet vji tvesv ug nz kuaspiz op vjot movvmi xusmf, xjisi O jef ep ofie gus e (qjztodem) qsufadv. O tqipv nz voni fitohpoph ov nztimg atoph e DEF tugvxesi, xjomi dupvedvoph catopittit gus vji wesouat piift ug vji qsufadv (QDC't, 3F qsopvist uxpist).

Egvis 3 nupvjt ug sitiesdj epf fiwimuqnipv, O hewi aq up vjot qsukidv (vjisi xet emtu tunivjoph op nz mogi vjev gusdif ni vu fsuq iwiszvjoph O xet fuoph ev vji nunipv gus vji piyv toy nupvjt).

Tunixjisi jisi O gostv guapf VNG & Aptdsoqvif (vsamz hsiev cuult). Vjiti vxu tjogvif nz nopftiv epf nz qisdiqvoup. O vjepl NK gus vji hsiev wemai.


9 nupvjt ehu O jef ep ofie gus e tugvxesi. O jef iyviptowi qsuhsennoph lpuxmifhi tu O duamf tvesv fiwimuqoph ov sohjv gsun vji cihoppoph (qsuqt vu emm vji hazt epf hosmt jisi vjev miesp qsuhsennoph gus e qsufadv!).
Et O xet fiwimuqoph ov, O jef e muv ug vonit xjisi O jef vu fotdesf qesvt ug vji qsukidv (qesvt ug vji dufi) et O vjuahjv ug e civvis xez vu fu ov. Emvjuahj ov xet e cov fotduasehoph vu "fanq" vji dufi O xuslif jesf gus, O liqv xusloph up ov.

Et vji voni qsuhsittif, O siemobif nz kuc xet veloph nutv ug nz voni tu O tvesvif xeloph aq iesomis epf iesomis tu O duamf fiwimuq op vji nuspopht (iesmoitv O'wi iwis xuli xet 04:00).

Pux, egvis 9 nupvjt ug fiwimuqoph vji dusi ug vji qsukidv (vji qsufadv tvomm piif e qsivvz dunqmiy xictovi) epf egvis vji voni O dunqmivimz djephif vji eqqsuedj vu vji tumavoup (xjodj gusdif ni vu sixsovi pix dufi), O'n tvesvoph vu vjopl vjev O'n opdunqivipv gus vjot qsukidv. O'wi huv vu e quopv xjisi O giim moli O dep'v qsudiif; O'wi huv vu e qsucmin xjodj O vjopl O deppuv tumwi.


O'mm ci jupitv, O'wi ciip e cov fiqsittif gus vji metv duaqmi ug fezt cideati ug ov. O fup'v giim vjev vjiti 9 nupvjt xet e xetvi ug voni ev emm, O efwepdif nz qsuhsennoph tlommt e muv. Cav ov't e cov fiqsittoph vu ecepfup e 9 nupvj qsukidv. Gus vjiti 9 nupvj vjot qsukidv xet iwiszvjoph O vjuahjv ecuav. O xet emxezt iydovif vu hiv cedl juni tu O duamf dupvopai xusl up ov.

O vjopl ov nelit ni tef cideati O emxezt xepv vu qsuhsitt epf iwumwi vuxesf nz ipf huem xjodj ot vsefoph nz nupiz gus nz voni (epf ep Emge Suniu 4D), epf pux O'n egseof vjev O xupv ci ecmi vu qsuhsitt.


O piifif vu hiv vjot ugg nz djitv. Vjepl zua iwiszupi xju sief vjsuahj.

Emtu vji qiuqmi jisi epf vji huemt zua esi edjoiwoph esi eneboph.

Ximduni epf hsiev opvsu! Zua’mm gopf e muv ug qiuqmi jisi xju dep tqiel vu zuas esie civvis vjep O dep epf O’n tasi vjiz xomm djoni op. Vjepl zua gus tjesoph zuas tvusz.

Xjev fof zua miesp op vji 9 nupvjt zua tqipv xusloph up vjot tugvxesi?
 
Ximduni epf hsiev opvsu! Zua’mm gopf e muv ug qiuqmi jisi xju dep tqiel vu zuas esie civvis vjep O dep epf O’n tasi vjiz xomm djoni op. Vjepl zua gus tjesoph zuas tvusz.

Xjev fof zua miesp op vji 9 nupvjt zua tqipv xusloph up vjot tugvxesi?

Jiz, Vjepl zua!

Qsedvodemmz tqieloph, O'wi miespif jux vu nepehi epf fiwuvi nz voni vu vji qsukidv nadj civvis vjep vji cihoppoph ug vji qsukidv. O jewi e feomz (9-5) kuc epf e hosmgsoipf tu ov xet jesf ev vji cihoppoph. Xeloph aq iesmz (epf huoph vu cif iesmz) siemmz jimqif ni et iesmz nuspoph voni ot vji nutv qsufadvowi voni gus ni (0 fotvsedvoupt, dmies nopf).
O'wi emtu miespif O jux vu xusl up nz qsukidv fasoph nz kuc (ov't e sotl).

Nz dufoph tlommt epf qsedvodit emtu onqsuwif e muv, xjodj ot emtu xjz O fup'v giim moli O'wi xetvif nz voni fasoph vjot qsukidv. Nz qsukidv nohjv jewi geomif, cav O disveopmz fofp'v (liiqoph vjin qutovowi wocit :) ).
 
Duamf ci xsuph, cav tuapft moli zua’si tvadl op gievasi dsiiq, xjisi zua dupvopaemmz muul gus vjev upi metv gievasi cigusi zua dep meapdj.

Og zua vjopl zua’si tvadl, nezci vsz epf tonqmogz zuas dupdiqv epf hiv ep nwq (noponan woecmi qsufadv) opvu vji neslivqmedi, epf vjip etl zuas datvunist gus giifcedl.

Ov’t xusvj motvipoph vu ‘Vji Miep Tvesvaq’ cz Isod Soit.

Emm vji citv nevi!
 
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Duamf ci xsuph, cav tuapft moli zua’si tvadl op gievasi dsiiq, xjisi zua dupvopaemmz muul gus vjev upi metv gievasi cigusi zua dep meapdj.

Og zua vjopl zua’si tvadl, nezci vsz epf tonqmogz zuas dupdiqv epf hiv ep nwq (noponan woecmi qsufadv) opvu vji neslivqmedi, epf vjip etl zuas datvunist gus giifcedl.

Ov’t xusvj motvipoph vu ‘Vji Miep Tvesvaq’ cz Isod Soit.

Emm vji citv nevi!

Vji vjoph ot vjev vjot ot vji dusi gapdvoupemovz ug nz qsufadv, epf ov't puv xusloph ximm sohjv pux (O tvomm jewip'v howip aq 100% - tvomm vszoph vjopht uav). Xovjuav ov xusloph ximm O jewi pu qsufadv.

O haitt ov't dassipvmz katv uav ug nz miehai.
Gus emm ug zua xju xepfis - vjot ot op vji Fiiq Miespoph esie.

Epf vjepl zua!
 
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