30-year old entrepreneur kicking off their fastlane journey

[Savania209]

Why I'm starting this thread
During my 30th birthday holiday, I finished the Millionaire Fastlane book 2 weeks ago and since then have been "eavesdropping" in the forum.
As many before me, I am using this platform to share my process since I struggle with accountability and consistency (a habit I decided to lose now).

Status Quo
Currently I observed the following obstacles regarding my mindset:

• letting outside factors influence my mood/energy/motivation
• stuck in victim mindset -> making me paralyzed and afraid to act PLUS always feel like people take advantage of me/take sth. from me (scarcity mindset)
• people pleasing tendencies and self worth requires external validation
• loving instant gratification & procrastinating a lot because of it

Desired Mindset Changes
I want to move into:

• go-getter attitude
• action > knowledge (yes wisdom is important but I do not need to research books to add to my reading list and then never reading them)
• believe in myself and trust myself e.g. not speaking badly about myself
• take exercise very seriously (no more skipping boxing because of work)
• love doing things I hate / are uncomfortable
• "EVERY SECOND COUNTS" -- whatever I touch I want to give my best e.g. I rearranged my closet today and want to give more care to the things I already own (because then I also need to replace less stuff)

Things I've changed already

• calculated how much I need to really live my dream life
• collecting my daily cents
• journalling with future me

Things I want to do next

1. Post an update on here next week
2. Read more books on sales&marketing -> I already run a business but we do not have a lead strategy or sales pipeline (I know), also want to analyze our current business model if it aligns with the CENTS framework
3. Create my Goal Sumo account -> any tips?
4. Reconsider my close relationships -> Want to scim through the forum on experiences shared regarding making the right choice for your partner/spouse.

Have a great start into the new week everyone.
Excited to kick-off this journey!

 

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[Savania209]

Aqfevi Xiil 2
Vjopht O djephif/iyidavif

1. Muuloph ev nz cepl edduapv nusi sihamesmz vu nuvowevi ni (emtu tvesvoph vu xiohjv ni nusi ugvip) et vjisi ot e tvafz vjev katv cz muuloph ev vji pancist sihamesmz vjiz onqsuwi (tvesoph vji teni xovj nz catopittit Tjuqogz)
2. Tvesvif qutvoph NUSI up MoplifOp — gsun 1y vu 3y/xiil
3. Qsousovoboph temit epf neslivoph op nz catopitt — etlif e nusi iyqisoipdif gsoipf gus giifcedl ecuav nz qovdj fidl
4. Si-iwemaevoph vji dassipv tvsevihz ug nz catopitt — cav vjip siemobif huuf vu hiv nusi opgu jipdi 5)
5. Tvesvoph vu sief APTDSOQVIF cigusi fowoph fiiqis opvu temit epf neslivoph cuult (vjuahjv ov’t e huuf tvesv egvis e nommoupeosi getvmepi)
6. Qutvif ep aqfevi
7. Dsievif e huem tanu edduapv emvjuahj O tvsahhmi e cov xovj vji opvisgedi

Vjopht O xepv vu fu piyv

1. Qutv ep aqfevi up jisi piyv xiil
2. Gopotj aptdsoqvif
3. Dupvopai qutvoph up MoplifOp xovj vji pix gsiraipdz
4. Aqfevi nz huemtanu
5. (Gsun xiil 1) Siduptofis nz dmuti simevouptjoqt -> Xepv vu tdon vjsuahj vji gusan up iyqisoipdit tjesif sihesfoph neloph vji sohjv djuodi gus zuas qesvpis/tquati — emsiefz puvodif vu epemzbi jux qiuqmi veml esuapf ni epf vjev O piif e pix ipwosupnipv xovj qiuqmi vjev jewi nz huemt
6. Fovdjoph nz dsifov desf

 

[Savania209]

Gostv ug emm O katv xepv vu siedv vu vji pix aqfevi epf O eqqsidoevi vji ipvsz cessois vu vji gusan. Emtu xovj qutvoph jisi iwisz xiil, vjiti esi effovoupem iyvispem opdipvowit vjev nuvowevi zua vu hiv gsun vjoploph vu FUOPH.

Aqfevi Xiil 3
Vjopht O djephif/iyidavif

1. Tvomm tewoph nz feomz dipvt epf emtu sief e muv ecuav tjeni, timg-xusvj epf nupiz
2. Tvomm qutvoph NUSI up MoplifOp — pux tjogvoph gsun xjev O en fuoph vu xjev fu O xepv vu jimq qiuqmi xovj (wemai dsievoup) — e qsopdoqmi O xepv vu gummux cz op iwiszvjoph O fu qeosif xovj tvuszvimmoph tu O nohjv emtu djephi vji tvsadvasi ug nz aqfevit jisi.
3. Sief APTDSOQVIF cigusi fowoph fiiqis opvu temit epf neslivoph cuult (vjuahjv ov’t e huuf tvesv egvis e nommoupeosi getvmepi) — epf O en op exi!! Vji miwim ug fiveom pux ov’t siemmz katv ecuav neloph vji sohjv djuodit epf iyidavoph. Itqidoemmz gus uas neslivoph epf datvunis tiswodi O vuul exez e muv ug wemaecmi vjopht. Cuult O effif vu nz siefoph motv: Puen Djuntlz — Vji Qsidoqodi, Jessz Csuxpi — Vji Tidsiv up Timmoph Epzvjoph, Sodjesf Xotinep — Vjopl e movvmi. Djephi e muv.) — O emtu vjopl O xepv vu sief aptdsoqvif epf vji nommoupeosi getvmepi 2-3y iedj zies vu siemmz ophseop vji dupvipv op nz cseop (O iwip fsienv ecuav nz gavasi xjomi siefoph, tu vji miwim ug nuvowevoup O jewi ot apnevdjif vu epzvjoph O’wi iwis apfistvuuf cigusi! Topdi O en veloph desi ug nz qesipvt (Cuvj esi todl) epf O tii xjisi xsuph djuodit (jiemvj epf nupiz xoti), tvodloph vu vji tdsoqv EPF jewoph e cef sivosinipv qmep mieft zua — O duamf puv jewi e cohhis XJZ et O tii vji gavasi O xup’v jewi iwisz voni O wotov epf O xepv vu ci ecmi vu howi vjin nusi qiedi xjomi vjiz tez huuf czi vu mogi.. O xotj cuvj ug vjin jef edditt vu vji opvispiv epf vji vzqi ug lpuxmifhi O jewi ev 30 — O deppuv djephi vjios tvusz emtu ov nelit ni vies aq cav O dep djephi nopi cz gedoph nz djemmiphit epf fuoph vji vjopht vjev esi apdungusvecmi cav piifif optvief ug gopfoph iydatit)
4. Qutvif ep aqfevi
5. Liqv xusloph UP nz catopitt optvief ug op ov.
6. Fof ep iyvispem mudat ug dupvsum vitv

Vjopht O xepv vu fu piyv

1. Qutv ep aqfevi up jisi piyv xiil
2. Gopotj Cmai Udiep Tvsevihz
3. Dupvopai qutvoph up MoplifOp xovj vji pix gsiraipdz
4. Aqfevi nz HuemTanu.dun (huuf vu tii vjot up jisi et O liiq qsudsetvopevoph vjot!!)
5. O emsiefz tvuqqif atoph nz dsifov desf. Pux ov’t voni vu depdim ov.
6. Tannesoboph Aptdsoqvif epf vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi up nz Puvoup vu raodlmz liz xusf tiesdj xjipiwis O piif ov (miv ni lpux og zua xepv edditt, jeqqz vu tjesi xovj zua)
7. Aqfevoph nz qovdj fidl
8. Si-iwemaevoph nz simevouptjoqt atoph vji vuumt op Nommoupeosi Getvmepi epf Aptdsoqvif (hmef O xeovif vu hiv e cov nusi optohjv), fu e XEFN gus nuwoph dovoit, epf si-iwemaevoph nz dassipv ettiv qusvgumou (jeqqz vu tii vjev O emsiefz en johjmz iphehif op fowofipf tvudlt epf SIOVt xjodj liiqt ni iwip nusi nuvowevif)

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Ot vjisi e catopitt tunixjisi jisi?

O fup'v tii upi nipvoupif jisi uvjis vjep vjot...

tvesoph vji teni xovj nz catopittit Tjuqogz)

Xjev ot vji nutv fosidv, metis-moli qevj vu zuas gostv datvunis?

Et O moli vu tez, zua dep upmz sief ecuav txonnoph op tu nepz cuult, iwipvaemmz zua jewi vu kanq op vji quum.

 

[Savania209]

Ot vjisi e catopitt tunixjisi jisi?

O fup'v tii upi nipvoupif jisi uvjis vjep vjot...



Xjev ot vji nutv fosidv, metis-moli qevj vu zuas gostv datvunis?

Et O moli vu tez, zua dep upmz sief ecuav txonnoph op tu nepz cuult, iwipvaemmz zua jewi vu kanq op vji quum.

Zit vjisi ot upi. O fu puv xepv vu hu opvu tqidogodt cigusi O ciduni ep Optofis. Dassipvmz op vji qsuditt ug sappoph vji xjumi catopitt nufim vjsuahj vji DIPVT gsenixusl epf neloph pidittesz djephit. Topdi vji metv guas ziest vji catopitt jet ciip nusi moli e kuc (tiswodi-cetif) vjep e catopitt nufim taovecmi gus nz gavasi huemt.

 

[Savania209]

Aqfevi Xiil 4
Vjopht O djephif/iyidavif

1. Tvomm tewoph nz feomz dipvt
2. Xup 2 pix dmoipvt gus vji piyv 4 nupvjt
3. Aqfevif uas edraotovoup qsuditt opdm. jux qiuqmi eqqmz vu xusl xovj ni
4. Aqfevif uas upmopi tjuq wotaemt
5. Aqfevif uas qovdj fidl
6. Figopif uas dassipv datvunis hsuaq xovj vjios finuhseqjodt epf qtzdjuhseqjodt
7. Dupvopaif cmai udiep tvsevihz
8. Qutvif ep aqfevi

Vjopht O xepv vu fu piyv

1. Qutv ep aqfevi up jisi piyv xiil
2. Gopotj Cmai Udiep Tvsevihz
3. Dupvopai qutvoph up MoplifOp xovj vji pix gsiraipdz
4. Aqfevi nz HuemTanu.dun (dassipvmz up e catopitt vsewim xomm fu tu xjip cedl juni cav optvief O djephif vu ep optofis up jisi, dep’v xeov vu sief nusi vjsuahj vji gusan)
5. O emsiefz tvuqqif atoph nz dsifov desf. Pux ov’t voni vu depdim ov.
6. Tannesoboph Aptdsoqvif epf vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi up nz Puvoup vu raodlmz liz xusf tiesdj xjipiwis O piif ov (miv ni lpux og zua xepv edditt, jeqqz vu tjesi xovj zua)
7. Si-iwemaevi uas dassipv veshiv hsuaq
8. Epemzbi uas dassipv neslivoph djeppimt epf muul opvu huuhmi eft
9. Tivvoph aq uas ushepobevoupem tvsadvasi cetif up uas gavasi wotoup gus vji catopitt
10. Si-iwemaevoph nz simevouptjoqt atoph vji vuumt op Nommoupeosi Getvmepi epf Aptdsoqvif (hmef O xeovif vu hiv e cov nusi optohjv), fu e XEFN gus nuwoph dovoit, epf si-iwemaevoph nz dassipv ettiv qusvgumou (jeqqz vu tii vjev O emsiefz en johjmz iphehif op fowofipf tvudlt epf SIOVt xjodj liiqt ni iwip nusi nuvowevif)

Siemoboph O en uwisxjimnif xjip up catopitt vsewim epf fiiq op dmoipv qsukidvt — piif vu siefkatv epf neli tqedi op nz demipfes!!

 

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[Savania209]

Aqfevi Xiil 5
Vjopht O djephif/iyidavif

1. Tvomm tewoph nz feomz dipvt epf tvesvif vsedloph nz tqipfoph
2. Qutvif up MoplifOp epf dsievif e dupvipv qmep gus nz catopitt
3. Tivaq nz HuemTanu.dun xovj 4 huemt (2 tjusv visn, 1 nifoan, 1 fsien), jecovt + leobip wemait
4. Dupvopaif siefoph cmai udiep tvsevihz
5. Tvesvif siefoph vji NdLoptiz xez vu onqsuwi jux O opvisedv xovj nz dmoipvt
6. Fof e XEFN gus nuwoph dovoit
7. Xomm kuop 3 pivxusloph iwipvt op vji aqdunoph xiilt
8. dupfadvif 3 temit demmt xovj qsutqidvowi dmoipvt
9. tvesvif muuloph gus pix gsoipft (ipvsiqsipiast op nz dovz vu jeph uav xovj epf jumf ni edduapvecmi)
10. tqipf voni xovj nz genomz
11. xipv vu Qomevit ev 7en 2y vjot xiil -- fuoph "apdungusvecmi" vjopht (O en e pohjv uxm) epf qavvoph nz jiemvj gostv
12. qutvif ep aqfevi

Vjopht O xepv vu fu piyv

LPUXMIFHI & QMEPPOPH

• Gopotj Cmai Udiep Tvsevihz
• Siefoph aq up Huuhmi Eft (tjuavuav vu @Epfz Cmedl gus uggisoph ni tuni situasdit!)
• Tannesoboph Aptdsoqvif epf vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi up nz Puvoup vu raodlmz liz xusf tiesdj xjipiwis O piif ov (miv ni lpux og zua xepv edditt, jeqqz vu tjesi xovj zua)
• Siefoph Vji Sev Sedi Itdeqi
• Dsievi e qmep vu nuwi dovoit cetif up XEFN sitamvt
• Si-iwemaevoph nz simevouptjoqt atoph vji vuumt op Nommoupeosi Getvmepi epf Aptdsoqvif(hmef O xeovif vu hiv e cov nusi optohjv), epf si-iwemaevoph nz dassipv ettiv qusvgumou (jeqqz vu tii vjev O emsiefz en johjmz iphehif op fowofipf tvudlt epf SIOVt xjodj liiqt ni iwip nusi nuvowevif)
• Sief vjsuahj vji nutv onqusvepv OPTOFIST gusan qutvt

IYIDAVOUP

• Tvesv sidusfoph nz temit demmt epf aqfevoph nz temit tdsoqvt
• Si-iwemaevi uas dassipv veshiv hsuaq -> xomm fu vjot puv upmz gus dassipv duptanist/gavasi duptanist cav emtu pup-duptanist
• Tivvoph aq uas ushepobevoupem tvsadvasi cetif up uas gavasi wotoup gus vji catopitt
• Ati EptxisvjiQacmod gus uas dupvipv tvsevihz & nz qistupem csepfoph
• Gummux aq up qetv qsutqidvowi dmoipvt
• Jepfuwis ug dmoipv -- heop giifcedl epf siefkatv gus gavasi upit

GOPEPDOEM FOTDOQMOPI

• O emsiefz tvuqqif atoph nz dsifov desf. Pux ov’t voni vu depdim ov / aqfevi / fidofif vu liiq ov cav upmz emmux 2 inishipdz iyqiptit qis nupvj! (Optqu cz HuemTanu)
• fu nz nupvjmz gopepdoem siwoix
• depdim tuni tactdsoqvoupt & hiv e civvis qjupi fiem

NOTD / EDVOUP-GELOPH?

• Qutv ep aqfevi up jisi piyv xiil

-> dsievif vjot pix tvsadvasi vu hiv e civvis uwiswoix ug jux nadj % ug vjopht O en fuoph xiilmz esi op vji esiet ug iyidavoup wt lpuxmifhi/qmeppoph ivd.
-> emtu iydovif vu tii og vjot xomm djephi xovj atoph HuemTanu gus civvis uwiswoix

Tqiel vu zua piyv Tapfez epf veli desi iwiszupi!!