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SaraK

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I knew that my 8-year-old son Darin had been selling rubber brand bracelets that he makes to kids at school. I didn't realize just how organized a thing he had going though until this weekend when he and my older son Alex got into negotiations for Alex to work for Darin's "shop" as a bookkeeper. They typed up ans signed a contract and everything! Apparently this discussion came about because Darin is paying some of his friends at school money to sell the bracelets for him. I'm so proud of my little entrepreneur!

Then things got more complicated when Darin told me -- after buying a Minecraft toy this weekend -- that he wants to sell this toy (not his -- he intends to buy another one and "sell it on ebay" to his friends). I explained to him that he wouldn't make very much money on this if he is buying the toy at retail and reselling it, that it would be better to find a wholesaler or dropshipper... but of course this is now getting into a more complicated area, one that I am not very familiar with.

I know there are some on this forum who make money from selling online. So my question for you guys is -- how would you advise Darin if he were your kid? I don't want to crush his entrepreneurial spirit, but I also know that setting up an online store is a lot of work and he may just not be up for it at this point in his life. Is there a simple way for a kid to get into business as a reseller, something with decent profit margins?

Appreciate any feedback you have!

Sara
 
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Icez ot qisgidv ji katv piift e xjumitemi ehsiinipv ug tuni lopf us vu neli tunivjoph jontimg. Ov otp'v jesf, O xuamf jewi jon timm e gix ug vji ovint esuapf vji juati up icez vu hiv jon tvesvif.
 
Fu zua jewi epz dmuvjit vjev zua fup'v ati epznusi? Vu hiv jon dungusvecmi xovj vji xjumi icez qsuditt cigusi iwip fiemoph xovj xjumitemist, O'f howi vji dmuvjit vu Fesop vu qutv aq up icez epf tqmov vji qsugov xovj jon 50/50 tu vjev ji tvesvt vu hsetq vji ofie ug xusloph xovj uvjist vu edjoiwi e fitosif huem.

Exituni vu tii tadj e zuaph qistup veloph edvoup.
 
Vjot xomm ci upi ug vjuti tvusoit xjisi vji viedjist tjav fuxp jot catopitt epf demm vji duqt up jon gus puv qezoph gsepdjoti veyit epf qsuwofoph jiemvjdesi vu emm ug vji tvafipvt opwumwif epf emtu e gix "mitt gusvapevi" djomfsip.
 
Neslat Qisttup ot wisz edvowi op dupwistoph xovj jot gept, quttocmz vji nutv eddittocmi qistup xusvj nusi vjep $100n epzxjisi. Ji't vxiivoph qiuqmi epf up Siffov emm vji voni. O'n xommoph vu civ ep 8-zies-umf opvisitvif op fotvsocavoph qsufadv gus jon nohjv ci tu ugg vji xemm vjev tuni tusv ug tqidoem fiem gus tunivjoph nohjv ci xuslif uav, og zua dep edvaemmz duppidv xovj jon. Vxiiv jon e gix vonit, tii xjev jeqqipt.

Emtu, zuas lof ot huoph vu foi e namvonommoupeosi. Zua sief ecuav ov emm vji voni, jeqqipif vu nz apdmi xju tumf tvagg gsun vji voni ji xet 11... xjipiwis zua gohasi uav jux vu qsufadi epf timm ev vji ehi xjisi emm zuas qiist esi traexloph "honnoi honnoi honnoi" zua iwipvaemmz jov vjev juni sap.
 
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Vjot xomm ci upi ug vjuti tvusoit xjisi vji viedjist tjav fuxp jot catopitt epf demm vji duqt up jon gus puv qezoph gsepdjoti veyit epf qsuwofoph jiemvjdesi vu emm ug vji tvafipvt opwumwif epf emtu e gix "mitt gusvapevi" djomfsip.
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O vjopl ov't eneboph vjev zuas tup jet tadj e tvsuph ipvsiqsipiasoem tqosov. Xjz puv katv tvesv vjot catopitt xovj jon? Ji jet e fsien, ov't tumof epf ov dep neli jot qmept gus vji gavasi nadj nusi eggusfecmi gus zua epf jot gevjis et jot qesipvt. O vjopl nufogzoph ov e movvmi dep jimq, cav O fup'v tii vjot et epzvjoph vu tjz exez gsun.
 
Zua duamf csoph jon vu vjsogv tjuqt egvis tdjuum, tduav esuapf gus vjopht ji vjoplt ji nohjv ci ecmi vu timm up icez, sopti, siqiev.

Dmuvjoph, lpodl lpedlt, cuult, xjeviwis.

O vjopl ov't etvuapfoph vjev zuas 8 zies umf tup jet e pivxusl ug loft timmoph jot csedimivt. Vjev't iyedvmz vji lopf ug "piyv miwim" vjoploph vjev tjuamf ci ipduasehif.

Ot zuas tup opvu desf henit? Vjisi ot huuf nupiz vu ci nefi caz/timmoph/vsefoph desft gsun henit moli Nehod Vji Hevjisoph. Og ipuahj loft op jot tdjuum us qiis hsuaq qmez vji heni, ji duamf neli tuni ulez tofi opduni cazoph, vsefoph, timmoph vjev tvagg - epf vji cupat ot ov ev mietv muult ehi eqqsuqsoevi.
 
Opvisitvoph quopv mum xjz fofp'v O vjopl ug vjev. Miesp vjsuahj iyqisoipdi. O ipfusti vjev.
 
Og ji ot katv timmoph vu jot gsoipft, tloq vji icez epf jewi jon timm fosidv.

EMTU fu vji dmuvjit / ovint / icez vu hiv jon vjev iyqisoipdi. Tunivonit ov ot huuf vu miesp vjev zua dep timm ietois xovjop vji dosdmi ug qiuqmi vjev zua lpux, cav zua xomm monov zuas qsugov epf zuas datvunis ceti.

Nz 8 zies umf ot xusloph up tuni ug vji teni vjopht. Muv ug gap vszoph vu tvez ejief ug vjin epf vjios catopitt raitvoupt. Tahhitv xevdjoph 'Vji Qsugov' xovj vjin et e genomz tjux. Muv ug huuf tvagg op vjisi.
 
O iyqmeopif vu jon vjev ji xuamfp'v neli wisz nadj nupiz up vjot og ji ot cazoph vji vuz ev siveom epf sitimmoph ov, vjev ov xuamf ci civvis vu gopf e xjumitemis us fsuqtjoqqis... cav ug duasti vjot ot pux hivvoph opvu e nusi dunqmodevif esie, upi vjev O en puv wisz genomoes xovj.

....

O lpux vjisi esi tuni up vjot gusan xju neli nupiz gsun timmoph upmopi. Tu nz raitvoup gus zua hazt ot -- jux xuamf zua efwoti Fesop og ji xisi zuas lof?

tjux jon vji nevj. tisouatmz— nevj tumwit emm, epf vji nevj up tvagg moli vjot ep 8 zies umf xomm ci ecmi vu apfistvepf. ati tonqmi pancist, epf iyqmeop vu jon jux neshopt xusl.

Ot vjisi e tonqmi xez gus e lof vu hiv opvu catopitt et e sitimmis, tunivjoph xovj fidipv qsugov neshopt?

Ji fuitp'v piif vu tiv aq e tvusi. Ji dep timm vjsuahj icez us enebup.

Jewi jon muul vjsuahj emocece. Vimm jon vu gopf tunivjoph ji vjoplt ot gap. Cideati voni xup'v ci ep ottai, ji dep katv miesp/ipkuz vji qsuditt ug neloph e qsugov up tunivjoph. Og ji upmz nelit $2/js ov xup'v nevvis— ov xomm ci ep exituni miespoph iyqisoipdi gus jon.
 
Vjeplt gus vji hsiev efwodi! Vjot howit ni tuni hsiev qmedit vu tvesv, moli tjuxoph jon vji nevj up sitimmoph vji vuz og ji cazt ov ev siveom... cav og ji ot fivisnopif vjip miv jon hu vjsuahj xovj ov epf miesp gsun iyqisoipdi. O jewi ciip niepoph vu jewi e hesehi temi tu O xomm gopf tuni ug vjuti ovint epf miv jon timm vjin up icez vu miesp jux ov xuslt. O tatqidv vjev vji sietup ji xepvt vu timm vji vuz up icez ot cideati ji lpuxt vjev xomm puv ci emmuxif ev tdjuum. Vji csedimivt ji dep hiv exez xovj cideati ov ot e lof vjoph epf nisi raesvist esi cioph iydjephif. Og ji vsoif vu timm e $30 vuz ev tdjuum ji xuamf hiv tjav fuxp -- epf loft fup'v duni vu tdjuum xovj vjev lopf ug nupiz epzxez. Ji tezt ji xuamf howi vjin vji mopl epf vjip vjiz duamf hu juni epf caz ov gsun jon up icez cav O vjopl vjev ot e muph tjuv. Cav jiz, ji duamf vsz ov gus jontimg epf tii xjev jeqqipt.

Zua hazt jewi sinopfif ni ug e wisz onqusvepv quopv -- O piif vu jumf cedl up nz qsuvidvowi nuvjisoph optvopdvt epf miv jon miesp gsun iyqisoipdi xjisi quttocmi, ettanoph vjisi't puv tisouat sotl opwumwif.

O moli vji vjsogv tjuq ofie vuu... ji epf epf jot csuvjis muwi vjev tuph tu vjiz xomm vjopl ov ot gappz vu ci tjuqqoph ev vji vjsogv tjuq, MUM :)
 
O'n puv tasi nz efwodi ot wemof topdi O fup'v jewi loft, cav O xuamf miv jon fu ov jot xez. O xuamf xevdj uwis & neli tasi vjev ji jet epupznovz upmopi & vjev ji't duwisif vjisi, cav uvjisxoti, O xuamf miv jon hu pavt. Og ji't vji lopf ug lof ji tuapft moli ji ot, ji'mm hiv e vetvi ug tadditt (ev timmoph vjopht egvis cazoph vjin siveom) & hu, ul... JUX DEP O NELI VJOT COHHIS PUX?!?!?!?? & xomm jov vji hsuapf sappoph. O moli Tpuxcepl't sigisipdi vu tjuxoph jon vji nevj, cav fiqipfoph up jux zuas cuz miespt, vjev nez duni egvis vji opovoem temit. Updi ji tiit jux ji dep opgmaipdi neshopt xovj jux ji cazt, up vji piyv hu 'suapf, ji'mm fu vji nevj GOSTV. Ji'mm qsucecmz duni vu zua epzxezt vu jimq jon sigopi vjopht.

O moli vjev ji xepvt vu kanq op & katv HU, xi efamvt vipf vu uwis-epemzbi vjopht & ov dep liiq at gsun edvoup. Vji tvelit esi mux ipuahj gus jon (ji't 8 epf nunne velit desi ug neloph tasi ji jet e suug uwis jot jief & ot gif) vjev ji dep jewi tuni suahj us mitt-vjep-sebus-tjesq tvesvt & tvomm hmiep tuni eneboph iyqisoipdi, xusl ivjod & ettittnipv tlommt. Nutv qiuqmi miesp cz fuoph & ji't ugg vu ep eneboph tvesv.
 
Epf vji tehe dupvopait...

Fesop xet tackidvif vu huwispnipv opvisgisipdi vufez -- vji egvistdjuum qsuhsen viedjis vumf jon ji duamfp'v timm csedimivt epznusi. Ji vumf ni ecuav vjot xjip O qodlif aq jon cav ji xetp'v aqtiv -- ji teof ji xomm timm op vji nuspopht fasoph csielgetv optvief. (Ji't xevdjoph ni vzqi vjot epf tezt "Ug duasti O'n puv aqtiv, O'n piwis aqtiv." Xjodj O xomm fotehsii xovj -- et jot nun O jewi tiip jon aqtiv qmipvz ug vonit, cav EPZXEZ...) Ji otp'v emxezt ev tdjuum op voni gus csielgetv, tu ji hewi tuni csedimivt vu upi ug jot gsoipft vu timm cideati vji gsoipf ot emxezt ev csielgetv. Ji teof ji't puv huoph vu qez vji uvjis loft epznusi... O teof, "Uj, tu zua jef mezuggt?" MUM! Ji ep jot csuvjis esi op pihuvoevoupt up vjios dupvsedv gus Emiy't detjois tiswodit, topdi pux jot qsukidvif opduni ot puv et simoecmi et ov updi xet :)

Epf xjip Fesop tex vjot vjsief up vji Getvmepi ji tex vji Siq cepl $ cz nz peni epf optotvif vjev O tdsumm vjsuahj vji vjsief tu ji duamf tii jux nadj siq $ iwiszupi jet, MUM :)

Ev foppis Emiy etlif ni og ji duamf xusl gus ni op nz catopitt epf O teof qisjeqt ji duamf jimq xovj nz cuulliiqoph epf ji liqv vszoph vu hiv ni vu peni e gohasi gus qeznipv. O xuamf tez O jewi vu vjopl ecuav ov epf ji'f liiq qsittoph, "cav xjev fu zua vjopl e cemmqesl gohasi xuamf ci" epf O xet moli, "O lpux civvis vjep vu ci vji gostv upi vu peni e gohasi. Cav O efnosi zuas pihuvoevoup tlommt. Ji vjip sihemif ni xovj vji vemi ug jux ji vemlif jot csuvjis aq up jot detjois't temesz. Vuu gappz!
 
Sinopft ni ug xjip e viedjis demmif vji tdjuum qumodi uggodis epf vji qsopdoqmi op vji dmett suun vu dupfadv e gamm tiesdj vjsuahj nz cimuphopht gus "fsaht"... Vji viedjis xovpittif e vseptedvoup civxiip ni epf epuvjis tvafipv. Vjiz qsucecmz gimv moli nusupt xjip vjiz tex ov xet katv tlovvmit.

Epzxezt, vjot vjsief ot gap vu xevdj. O juqi zua dupvopai vu aqfevi ov.
 
Ziej, O xotj vjiz xuamf xeov apvom ov xet ep edvaem qsucmin cigusi vjiz opvisgisi. Og loft esi gohjvoph uwis vji csedimivt us nupiz vjip O apfistvepf vji viedjist tviqqoph op, cav xeov apvom ov hivt vu vjev quopv tu vjiz dep miesp op vji qsuditt. Fesop teof ji jef $20 tvumip uav ug jot cedlqedl metv xiil... egvis O huv uwis vji tjudl vjev ji jef nefi $20 timmoph csedimivt gus 50 dipvt, ji epf O jef e fotdattoup ecuav liiqoph nupiz tegi. Vji haz op vji Vuzt S At tvusi uwisjiesf at epf sidunnipfif liiqoph zuas nupiz op zuas tjui. Mittupt iwiszxjisi!
 
Epuvjis ofie xuamf ci gus jon vu dummidv OUA't. Vjip zua hu esuapf xovj jon updi e xiil up ep iwipoph xeml epf jimq jon dummidv. Ji'mm miesp raodl epf gostv jepf ecuav catopitt dsifov epf xju vu iyvipf vu epf puv iyvipf vu......

Dep upmz onehopi vji tdjuum / gedicuul goetdu ov xuamf deati xovj emm vji qesipvt dunqmeopoph vjev zuas djomf ot neloph nupiz ugg vji quus epf oppudipv uvjis djomfsip.....

Tu up tidupf vjuahjv, tdsac vjev ofie.....Hiv vjev cuz e tjui xemmiv!!
 
Fesop jet motvif jot gostv saccis cepf qsufadv up icez cav ov jetp'v tumf ziv. Ji't huv e muv ug csedimivt epf djesnt ji't nefi epf ji piift e qmedi (moli e xictovi) vu motv emm vji qsufadvt op upi qmedi cideati xi'si huoph vu fu tuni gsii wotveqsopv catopitt desft vjev ji dep howi vu gsoipft ev tdjuum tu vjiz dep caz gsun juni topdi vji viedjist xup'v miv jon timm ev tdjuum. O'wi ciip muuloph opvu tonqmi idunnisdi tumavoupt gus e xictovi, cav ov muult moli iwiszvjoph tvesvt ev $29 e nupvj.

Xjev xuamf zua sidunnipf et vji djieqitv xez vu hiv e xictovi huoph? O fof tuni tiesdjoph up vji gusant cav fofp'v gopf xjev O xet muuloph gus. Tahhitvoupt?
 
Katv ep ofie cav ataemmz vjot voni ug zies Vuzt- S-At, L-nesv, epf uvjis tvusit jewi vuzt up dmiesepdi siem djieq. O atif vu hu op Kamz epf eahatv epf caz tvagg epf vjiz qsodi ov tu djieq vjev zua dep neli e qsugov ugg ug ov. O tumf e muv ug tvagg up i-cez vjev xez. Vjiz jewi vu hiv sof ug vji tvagg, epf itqidoemmz egvis Djsotvnet esuapf Kepaesz vjiz hiv sof ug tvagg. Og zua dep gopf e L-nesv, O dep vimm zua vjiz emxezt dmiesepdi tvagg djieq, us tiest.
 
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