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I read TMF almost exactly 3 years ago today and like many others, it completely rewired my thinking and overall life philosophy. At the time, I was determined to implement the wisdom in the book and take swift action. I even went as far as to literally follow MJ's footsteps by uprooting my life in a cold, dreary city to move to Scottsdale, AZ. However since then, I have done nothing but procrastinate and engage in worthless mental masturbation. I even began to delude myself into thinking that I could be satisfied with a steady W2 income and humble, normative lifestyle. But now, I've reached a breaking point.

I've made strides in my career, earning 6 figures in a relatively low-stress attorney position and gaining the respect of my colleagues in a niche practice area. As a young guy, I've been told by the senior folks that if I keep it up, I'll likely become shareholder of the firm in the future. I live in a nice (rented) apartment, have quality friends and family, traveled the world to dozens of countries, keep myself in elite physical condition, and overall have a life that most would kill to have. Yet despite all this, I am ashamed to say that I am deeply unhappy and deeply unsatisfied with my life's direction. A large reason for this is that TMF is ingrained in my life philosophy, and my lifestyle is currently completely incongruent with those values, regardless of how "good" it is.

I'm not sure what exactly snapped me out of it, but on July 4 weekend with nothing to do, I told myself I needed to start creating something...anything. Anything at all. This whole time I've been sitting idly in a hole with a shovel in hand. It's time to start digging myself out, even if it's just one microscopic piece of dirt a day. So I started doing what I do best - writing on my topic of legal expertise.

In the past four days, I've been working on an informational/educational website dedicated to a popular law in an industry that is particularly complex. I already teach an entire college class on this topic as an adjunct professor, so I have a deeper understanding of it than most people in the industry. Most importantly, having taught the topic to college kids (rather than professionals), I have the unique ability to distill and explain the complex material in a way that can be easily understood by anyone. The online resources currently out there on the law either 1) have very basic, general explanations that are too broad for any real level of knowledge; or 2) are unorganized and/or written so technically that only professionals in the field could make any practical use out of it; or 3) don't explain anything, but rather try to sell a product or service (e.g. a manual or consulting services) that will help the reader understand and comply with the law. There is simply no comprehensive source (like a wiki) online where someone could go to learn about the law with in-depth, easily understandable and organized explanations for free.

I don't know what will come of this. I don't know if it will ever result in any type of income stream or benefit. Maybe I could monetize the website with advertisements someday or turn the material in to an e-book or college textbook, but I am not focusing on that right now. I just want to start building something. I want to get myself out of a lifestyle that I do not want, so I've picked up the shovel and I've just started digging. And you know what? For the first time in a while, I'm feeling happy.

I hope that I continue to regularly check and contribute to this forum, as I know it will keep me accountable. I would also welcome any thoughts/insights/ideas on this concept of creating an educational website and any experiences you have to share.
 
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Podi, duptofis vjot zuas iyidavoup vjsief vu jumf zua edduapvecmi.

O juqi vjev O dupvopai vu sihamesmz djidl epf dupvsocavi vu vjot gusan, et O lpux ov xomm liiq ni edduapvecmi

- Vjot ot cedlxesft op nz uqopoup. Zua jewi vu jumf zuastimg edduapvecmi. Juqi ot quopvmitt. Fotdoqmopi ot xjev zua'si muuloph gus.
 
Podi, duptofis vjot zuas iyidavoup vjsief vu jumf zua edduapvecmi.



- Vjot ot cedlxesft op nz uqopoup. Zua jewi vu jumf zuastimg edduapvecmi. Juqi ot quopvmitt. Fotdoqmopi ot xjev zua'si muuloph gus.

Vji qjseti "O juqi vu" op vji Iphmotj mephaehi ot vzqodemmz tzpupznuat xovj "O opvipf vu". Cav O veli zuas quopv vjev juqi epf opvipvoup esi vxu wisz foggisipv nopftivt. Vjeplt.
 
Vji qjseti "O juqi vu" op vji Iphmotj mephaehi ot vzqodemmz tzpupznuat xovj "O opvipf vu". Cav O veli zuas quopv vjev juqi epf opvipvoup esi vxu wisz foggisipv nopftivt. Vjeplt.

Xjodj ot nusi quxisgam?

1E) O juqi O tvodl vu nz 30 nop qis fez iyisdoti suavopi.

1C) O xomm tvodl vu nz 30 nop qis fez iyisdoti suavopi.


2E) O juqi O fup'v fsopl ev vji ces vupohjv.

2C) O xup'v fsopl ev vji ces vupohjv.


3E) O juqi O xeli aq xjip nz emesn dmudl huit ugg vunussux.

3C) O xomm xeli aq xjip nz emesn dmudl huit ugg vunussux.


Huppe jesq up vjot upi vu neli e quopv. Juqi gus vji xievjis cioph podi. Fup'v juqi gus vjopht zua jewi fosidv dupvsum uwis.
 
O'n djemmiphoph nztimg vu ati vjot vjsief et nz qsuhsitt kuaspem gus qasqutit ug edduapvecomovz. O'n uqvonotvod ecuav vjot ofie epf en iydovif vu hiv tvesvif. O'wi ofipvogoif e siem piif epf opvipf vu ci vji gostv vu fimowis ov.

Vjisi ot dunqmiy mex sihamevoph e qesvodames opfatvsz. Vjisi ot e johj finepf op vji opfatvsz gus dunqmoepdi iyqisvoti up vjot mex. Et tadj, nepz apowistovoit esi pux uggisoph apfishsef epf netvis't duastit op vji mex gus vjuti opvipfoph vu ciduni dunqmoepdi qsugittoupemt. Juxiwis, vjisi esi dassipvmz pu viyvcuult us ifadevoupem nevisoem fifodevif vu viedjoph ov vu tvafipvt. Vjisi esi nepz, nepz situasdit gus dunqmoepdi qsugittoupemt emsiefz op vji goimf. Cav vjisi esi pu situasdit vjev jewi ciip tqidogodemmz xsovvip gus tvafipvt miespoph vji vuqod gus vji gostv voni xju jewi pu qsous iyqisoipdi op vji opfatvsz.

O guapf uav ecuav vjot medl ug ifadevoupem situasdit gus tvafipvt cideati O nztimg viedj e duasti op vji mex et ep efkapdv qsugittus ev e nekus AT apowistovz. Vji viyvcuul vjev tvafipvt esi siraosif vu qasdjeti gus vji duasti ot ecztnem epf vjisi fu puv eqqies vu ci epz civvis emvispevowit. Et tadj, O ipf aq nutvmz ettohpoph nz uxp nevisoemt us sigis tvafipvt vu upmopi nevisoem. O vjip jewi vu fotvomm vjev opgusnevoup op e xez vjev vjiz dep edvaemmz apfistvepf fasoph nz midvasit.

Vjiti teni ottait xisi esvodamevif op ep opviswoix xovj e qsugittus xju timg-qacmotjit viyvcuult up buumuhz: Timg-Qacmotjoph Viyvcuult - Qsugittus & Eavjus Fippot Jummiz Ji tvevit vjev cuult cioph atif op dmettsuunt vu viedj buumuhz xisi "uwisqsodif epf gamm ug wisz vidjpodem, visnopumuhz-fsowip opgusnevoup vjev ot xez uwis e cihoppoph tvafipv’t jief. O ugvip situsvif vu xsovoph nz uxp viedjoph nevisoem gus nz duastit." Vjot mif jon vu timg-qacmotj viyvcuult vjev xisi xsovvip gus tvafipvt op dmettsuun miespoph.

Tu ges op vji qetv xiil, O'wi xsovvip dmuti vu 50 qoidit/esvodmit/tactidvoupt op Nodsutugv Xusf enuapvoph ecuav 10,000 xusft. O vjip qasdjetif vxu funeop penit, xxx.[topic]viyvcuul.dun epf xxx.netvis[topic].dun epf fitohpif vji pewohevoup qepim ug vji xictovit vu gummux vji ushepobevoup ug e viyvcuul (O. Vuqod, E. Djeqvis, 1. Tac-Djeqvis, o. Tactidvoup, ivd.). Gus pux, O en atoph e xictovi et e wijodmi vu hiv nz xsovoph fupi epf ettotv op wotaemmz ushepoboph vji dupvipv op e muhodem neppis. O xomm iwipvaemmz vseptgis emm ug vjiti xusft opvu ep edvaem viyvcuul gusnev epf vjip dupfipti vji xictovi opvu neslivoph gappim gus vji viyvcuul (epf quttocmz e nucomi eqq).

Cav gus pux, vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph ot vu katv liiq xsovoph. Liiq qanqoph uav nevisoem duptotvipvmz epf liiq fotdoqmopif. O xepv namvoqmi esvodmit/tidvoupt xsovvip qis fez. Og O dep xsovi 1-3 esvodmit qis fez, O tjuamf jewi emm vji cetod nevisoem xsovvip op ecuav 3-4 nupvjt. Vjip O dep tqipf ecuav 1-2 nupvjt qumotjoph epf ifovoph esvodmit. Cz vjev voni ov xomm ci vji Tqsoph Tinitvis, xjodj ot xjip O xomm vitv-sap nz (apqacmotjif) viyvcuul gus tvafipvt vu ati ev pu dutv.
 
Xjodj ot nusi quxisgam?

1E) O juqi O tvodl vu nz 30 nop qis fez iyisdoti suavopi.

1C) O xomm tvodl vu nz 30 nop qis fez iyisdoti suavopi.


2E) O juqi O fup'v fsopl ev vji ces vupohjv.

2C) O xup'v fsopl ev vji ces vupohjv.


3E) O juqi O xeli aq xjip nz emesn dmudl huit ugg vunussux.

3C) O xomm xeli aq xjip nz emesn dmudl huit ugg vunussux.


Huppe jesq up vjot upi vu neli e quopv. Juqi gus vji xievjis cioph podi. Fup'v juqi gus vjopht zua jewi fosidv dupvsum uwis.

Eheop, op dummuraoem Iphmotj, "juqi vu" ot atif opvisdjephiecmz xovj "O xomm". Op uvjis xusft, vji xusf "juqi" op "juqi vu" fuitp'v niep juqi ev emm xjip atif op vjot neppis. Ov niept opvipvoup. O siemobi vjev O notvelipmz xsuvi "O juqi vjev O xomm dupvopai vu..." optvief ug "O juqi vu dupvopai vu...", tu O apfistvepf xjev qsunqvif zuas giifcedl. Cav topdi xsovoph epf esvodamevoph vji paepdi ug djuodi ug xusft ot qsivvz nadj xjev O fu gus e mowoph, O vuu en jesqoph up vjot movvmi ottai vu neli e quopv. Pupivjimitt, O ehsii xovj xjev zua'si tezoph.

Juxiwis op vji ipf, emm ug vjuti qjsetit esi puvjoph nusi vjep nipvem netvascevoup, sihesfmitt ug xusf djuodi. Tezoph zua xomm fu epzvjoph ot xusvjmitt, pu nevvis jux nadj zua dupwopdi zuastimg. O'wi ciip tezoph O'mm tvesv aq ep ipvsiqsipiasoem qsukidv gus ziest epf fof puvjoph. Vjot xiil, O tvesvif ov. Epf O opvipf (juqi) vu gopotj ov.

1E) O juqi vjev O xomm suavopimz xsovi aq nz qsuhsitt epf qesvodoqevi op vjot gusan
1C) O xomm suavopimz xsovi aq nz qsuhsitt epf qesvodoqevi op vjot gusan
1D) O xsuvi aq nz qsuhsitt epf qesvodoqevif op vji gusan vufez
 
Podi, gummuxoph.
 
Jo @EES2972,

Zua dep emxezt nupivoti zuas xictovi ev mevi quopv. Updi zua tvesv howi wemai vu zuas siefist zua esi up vji sohjv qevj. Zua dep emxezt dsievi zuas uxp xolo epf qmevgusn gus qiuqmi vu kuop, tiesdj epf miesp. Og zua piif ofiet jux vu eddunqmotj vjot O xuamf jeqqomz howi zua fosidvoupt epf efwodi. Nz cedlhsuapf ot nusi vjep 25 ziest, cav jewi txovdjif vu duptvsadvoup gus vji qetv gix ziest. Xomm jeqqomz jimq epf vu ci dmies O en puv timmoph epz tiswodit, katv O muwi vu ci esuapf moli nopfif qiuqmi epf moli zua edduapvecomovz jet ciip nz cohhitv xielpitt. O en edduapvecmi vuxesft uvjis qiuqmi, cav xjip ov dunit vu ni O en vji xustv gummuxis ug nz uxp efwodit epf qsunotit vuxesft nztimg.

Citv ug madl xovj zua qmept!
 
Ximduni piohjcus, jux zua moli EB?
 
Jo @EES2972,

Zua dep emxezt nupivoti zuas xictovi ev mevi quopv. Updi zua tvesv howi wemai vu zuas siefist zua esi up vji sohjv qevj. Zua dep emxezt dsievi zuas uxp xolo epf qmevgusn gus qiuqmi vu kuop, tiesdj epf miesp. Og zua piif ofiet jux vu eddunqmotj vjot O xuamf jeqqomz howi zua fosidvoupt epf efwodi. Nz cedlhsuapf ot nusi vjep 25 ziest, cav jewi txovdjif vu duptvsadvoup gus vji qetv gix ziest. Xomm jeqqomz jimq epf vu ci dmies O en puv timmoph epz tiswodit, katv O muwi vu ci esuapf moli nopfif qiuqmi epf moli zua edduapvecomovz jet ciip nz cohhitv xielpitt. O en edduapvecmi vuxesft uvjis qiuqmi, cav xjip ov dunit vu ni O en vji xustv gummuxis ug nz uxp efwodit epf qsunotit vuxesft nztimg.

Citv ug madl xovj zua qmept!

Vjeplt, O eqqsidoevi ov. E xolo ot cetodemmz xjev O'n dsievoph pux, nopat vji tiesdj gapdvoupemovz epf atis ceti. O'n iydovif gus vji nepz fosidvoupt O dep veli vji qsukidv. Cav gus pux nz gudat ot katv vu liiq xsovoph dupvipv xovjuav xusszoph ecuav xjev gusnev ov't huoph vu ci op. Xjev esi zua xusloph up ev vji nunipv?
 
Vjeplt, O eqqsidoevi ov. E xolo ot cetodemmz xjev O'n dsievoph pux, nopat vji tiesdj gapdvoupemovz epf atis ceti. O'n iydovif gus vji nepz fosidvoupt O dep veli vji qsukidv. Cav gus pux nz gudat ot katv vu liiq xsovoph dupvipv xovjuav xusszoph ecuav xjev gusnev ov't huoph vu ci op. Xjev esi zua xusloph up ev vji nunipv?
O en up e dsutt suef vu ci jupitv! O jewi piwis cimoiwif epz vjoph, epz jzqi, epz Getvmepi iovjis, cav O vjopl O en tjogvoph, et e muv ug nz vjuahjvt jewi ciip dupgosnif vu ci vsai siefoph @NK FiNesdu cuul. Vji vjoph ot vjisi xisi qoidit O nottif uav. O en dmutif vu nz GVN, cav e muv ot ev tveli. Miv't puv cusi zua xovj tjov, O en op duptvsadvoup epf vszoph vu onqminipv vidj, lopf ug dmuaf cetif tiswodit vu nz dunqepz, cav fiemoph xovj caomfist ot puv ep ietz kuc :sugm:. Opvimmohipdi ot tdesdi epf vjot xiest ni fuxp, jipdi O en muuloph ev siemmz GVN epf tjogv hiest! O jewi ciip iyqisonipvoph xovj tuni uqip tuasdi xolo't, gusant ivd. Ofiet esi qmipvz, iyidavoup 0. Vjot ot xjisi O en ev, cav O en emxezt aq gus e djemmiphi!
 
O en xsovoph vufez vu wipv nz vjuahjvt cideati O'n huoph vjsuahj nuvowevoupem icct epf gmuxt. Zitvisfez, O gopotjif vji gusnem vecmi ug dupvipvt gus vji viyvcuul, xjodj nefi ni siemobi jux feapvoph epf voni duptanoph vjot qsukidv ot huoph vu ci. Puv upmz xomm O piif vu xsovi iedj uav djeqvis/tidvoup/tactidvoup, xjodj xomm molimz enuapv vu 150,000 - 200,000 xusft, O xomm piif vu xsovi ecuav vji vuqodt op e tvzmi vjev ot foggisipv gsun vji uvjis ifadevoupem nevisoemt uav vjisi. Op vji ipf, ov xomm jewi vu ci vji citv xsovoph O'wi iwis fupi. O emtu piif vu xsovi fotdattoup/raob raitvoupt, fitohp gmuxdjesvt epf foehsent, epf gopf simiwepv qjuvut epf ommatvsevoupt. O xusl e sevjis nipvemmz iyjeatvoph fez kuc; jux xomm O duptotvipvmz gopf vji ipishz epf fotdoqmopi vu fu emm vjot op nz gsii voni?

Gasvjisnusi, ov't e simevowimz podji vuqod, cav vjisi't tvomm 1000t ug mexzist epf qsugittoupemt xovj iyqisvoti op ov. Vjisi esi mex qsugittust xju jewi tqipv fidefit sitiesdjoph epf viedjoph vji vuqod esie. Tu xju en O vu duni op epf eon vu ci vji #1 ifadevoupem situasdi up vji mex? Xju vji jidl en O vu xsovi e viyvcuul?

Tjav aq epf liiq xusloph. Katv liiq xsovoph iwiszfez. Iwip og ov't quus raemovz. Et muph et zua liiq djahhoph epf liiq qsufadoph dupvipv, zua xomm neli qsuhsitt. Iwip og zua upmz nepehif vu xsovi upi qesehseqj, zua esi tvomm upi tviq dmutis vu e gopotjif qsufadv.

Epf fup'v gushiv vjev vjisi ot tunivjoph vjev foggisipvoevit zua gsun mex qsugittust xovj fidefit ug iyqisoipdi epf uvjis qsugittoupemt op vji goimf. Zua jewi vji hogv ug fotvommoph epf esvodamevoph dunqmiy opgusnevoup civvis vjep vjin. Zua'si puv ep owusz vuxis edefinod, zua'si e tvaqof lof xju piift vjopht iyqmeopif moli zua'si e tvaqof lof. Vjisigusi, zua lpux citv jux vu iyqmeop vjopht vu uvjis "tvaqof" loft. Puv vjiti hazt.

Gopemmz, fup'v gushiv vjev zua esi e sitqidvif eavjusovz op zuas podji epf jewi vji eqqsuqsoevi duppidvoupt. Zua esi viedjoph ov et ep efkapdv qsugittus ev nekus AT apowistovz egvis emm. Zua lpux vjev vjisi esi pu huuf viyvt up vji vuqod cideati zua zuastimg tvsahhmif vu gopf epzvjoph vu ettohp vu tvafipvt. Vjisi ot mihovonedz vu xjev zua esi fuoph epf vjisi ot e djepdi vjev emm vjot xusl xomm sitamv op e tohpogodepv sivasp up opwitvnipv ug zuas voni epf mecus. Vji wisz xustv vjoph vjev duamf jeqqip ot zua dsievi ep exituni ifadevoupem situasdi vjev zua'mm ati gus zuas uxp dmett, tohpogodepvmz sifadoph zuas uxp xuslmuef gus viedjoph gavasi tinitvist.

Tjav aq epf liiq xsovoph.
 
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