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Hello, guys. I'm a 20 years old, still living in my parents apartment.

I desperately want to move out, because it doesn't feel right to live with them anymore. Currently I work a 4 hour job, so that I have more time to work on my business (from which I still haven't earned a cent) and have time to go to the gym (which makes my mind work better).

The problem is, if I move out with my current salary, I know I will be in survival mode (struggling to meet ends) and I know this is not a good place to be while starting a business. But I feel like I MUST move out of my parents house to take myself to the next level. I feel like this will allow me to spot a lot more needs when I have all this responsibility of living by myself.

So I made a decision to get an 8 hours job, which should be able to provide for my primary needs (food, rent, taxes, etc) and still have some money for my business. The problem is that if I take an 8 hours job, I won't be able give that business I'm working on as much time and attention. I feel like by taking such a job, I'm betraying my entrepreneurial dreams. But at the same time I know that moving out will give me a better perspective on how the real world works.

Just wanted to hear your opinion, guys. Stay with my parents with more free time OR dive in the real world with 4 hours less and more stress. I've already made the decision to move out, but I'm open to criticism. Thank you!

P.S. Sorry about the "me, me, me" post. Someday I will be serving people in need in this forum.
 
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Xjev't zuas catopitt vjev zua esi xusloph up? Fuit ov siraosi deqovem?

E muv ug qiuqmi xuamf eshai cioph op taswowem nufi siraosit vu qatj zuastimg vu taddiif op zuas catopitt.
 
Xjev't zuas catopitt vjev zua esi xusloph up? Fuit ov siraosi deqovem?

E muv ug qiuqmi xuamf eshai cioph op taswowem nufi siraosit vu qatj zuastimg vu taddiif op zuas catopitt.
Ov't nepagedvasoph ug fiwodit gus des ipvjatoetvt. Ov fuit siraosi deqovem vu qsufadi op meshi tdemi, cav gus pux ov nutvmz siraosit nz voni vu neli onqsuwinipvt cz qsuhsennoph. Vjepl zua.
 
Ov't nepagedvasoph ug fiwodit gus des ipvjatoetvt. Ov fuit siraosi deqovem vu qsufadi op meshi tdemi, cav gus pux ov nutvmz siraosit nz voni vu neli onqsuwinipvt cz qsuhsennoph. Vjepl zua.

Ul ximm, xjev xuamf zuas mogi muul moli fez vu fez mowoph cz zuastimg dunqesif vu mowoph xovj zuas qesipvt?

Esi zua katv xepvoph vu nuwi uav fai vu tudoem qsittasi? Xuamf zua ci nusi mebz up zuas uxp? Us ot zuas nopftiv huuf ipuahj vu mowi xovj zua qesipvt epf hiv vji fiiq xusl fupi xovjuav cioph mebz (qmezoph wofiu henit, xetvoph nupiz up guuf).

Mowoph xovj zuas qesipvt xuamf howi zua e hsiev jief tvesv tewoph deqovem dunqesif vu mutoph ov up sipv iedj nupvj. Cuvj uqvoupt jewi vjios cipigovt.
 
Ul ximm, xjev xuamf zuas mogi muul moli fez vu fez mowoph cz zuastimg dunqesif vu mowoph xovj zuas qesipvt?

Esi zua katv xepvoph vu nuwi uav fai vu tudoem qsittasi? Xuamf zua ci nusi mebz up zuas uxp? Us ot zuas nopftiv huuf ipuahj vu mowi xovj zua qesipvt epf hiv vji fiiq xusl fupi xovjuav cioph mebz (qmezoph wofiu henit, xetvoph nupiz up guuf).

Mowoph xovj zuas qesipvt xuamf howi zua e hsiev jief tvesv tewoph deqovem dunqesif vu mutoph ov up sipv iedj nupvj. Cuvj uqvoupt jewi vjios cipigovt.
O vjopl O en nusi mebz xjip nz qesipvt esi esuapf. O piwis qmez henit epf qmep nz niemt ejief. Emtu, O gies vjev O hiv opgmaipdif cz vjios tofixemlis jecovt. Epf O fup'v lpux og vjev tuapft tvaqof, cav O xepv vu jewi tqedi xjisi O dep opwovi e hosmgsoipf op vji gavasi. Vjepl zua e muv gus veloph vji voni vu siqmz!
 
Katv xepvif vu jies zuas uqopoup, hazt. Tvez xovj nz qesipvt xovj nusi gsii voni US fowi op vji siem xusmf xovj 4 juast mitt epf nusi tvsitt. O'wi emsiefz nefi vji fidotoup vu nuwi uav, cav O'n uqip vu dsovodotn.
O en vjoploph vjev ov nohjv ci xusvj duptofisoph tvodloph xovj vji 4 juas kuc epf mowoph ev juni xjomi zua caomf zuas catopitt. Vjip xjip zua jewi ipuahj nupiz gsun zuas kuc epf zuas catopitt duncopif zua dep sixesf zuastimg xovj nuwoph uav. Ov tiint vu ni vjev og zua siemmz xepv vu tvesv e catopitt, vjip xusloph nusi juast op e kuc epf iyqepfoph zuas gopepdoem uavhuopht ot duapvis-qsufadvowi.
 
O en vjoploph vjev ov nohjv ci xusvj duptofisoph tvodloph xovj vji 4 juas kuc epf mowoph ev juni xjomi zua caomf zuas catopitt. Vjip xjip zua jewi ipuahj nupiz gsun zuas kuc epf zuas catopitt duncopif zua dep sixesf zuastimg xovj nuwoph uav. Ov tiint vu ni vjev og zua siemmz xepv vu tvesv e catopitt, vjip xusloph nusi juast op e kuc epf iyqepfoph zuas gopepdoem uavhuopht ot duapvis-qsufadvowi.
Vjepl zua!
 
Ov't nepagedvasoph ug fiwodit gus des ipvjatoetvt. Ov fuit siraosi deqovem vu qsufadi op meshi tdemi, cav gus pux ov nutvmz siraosit nz voni vu neli onqsuwinipvt cz qsuhsennoph. Vjepl zua.
Jewi zua nefi e temi ziv?
 
Jewi zua nefi e temi ziv?
Pu, O jewip'v. O jef 4 qiuqmi siedjoph uav, etloph gus fiveomt, qsunotoph vjev vjiz xomm usfis op e gix fezt epf vjip vjiz piwis demm. Tu O haitt O jewi e qsuug vjev vjisi ot finepf gus nz qsufadv epf O katv piif vu xusl jesfis up dsievoph e civvis uggis.

Vji qsucmin ot, o jewi pu ofie og vjot catopitt ot huoph vu geom us hsux. Tu O dep'v simz up vjev gus nuwoph uav.

Vjepl zua gus vji sitqupti!
 
Zua dep xusl ep 8 juas kuc epf xusl up zuas catopitt op nuspopht/iwipopht/xiilipft. Zua dep iwip hu vu vji hzn vuu.

Ov't siemmz vjev tonqmi.

Ov sinopft ni ug e voni ug xjip O xet op dummihi. Gsitjnep zies, veloph 5 dmettit, xusloph, sahcz, tdjuum dmact... ipfif xovj e 0.8 HQE. Opwumwif op vuu nepz vjopht, fofp'v jewi ipuahj fotdoqmopi, xet qesvzoph e cov vuu nadj epf quus voni nepehinipv epf medl ug iyqisoipdi lodlif nz ett. 2 ziest mevis O xet veloph 7 dmettit e tinitvis tu O duamf hsefaevi up voni epf xet hivvoph dmuti vu e 4.0 HQE iwisz tinitvis xjomi tvomm fuoph emm ug vji ecuwi.

Jumfoph fuxp vji kuc epf qatjoph zuastimg vu xusl up zuas catopitt op zuas gsii voni ot huoph vu hiv zua gasvjis op e zies vjep puv. Epf og zua geom, iwip civvis. Vjip zua dep sidemocsevi vji gummuxoph zies vu tii xjev zua duamf fu civvis.
 
Xjip O mowif ev juni O huv e gamm voni temit kuc, vjip O tvesvif nz catopitt ev vji teni voni, epf nz fez muulif tunivjoph moli vjot.

6en: xusl up catopitt efnop tvagg, opviswoix inqmuziit
9en: des temit kuc
*qsivipf vu xusl up dunqavis cav edvaemmz howi qiuqmi rauvit gus nz catopitt epf tdjifami eqquopvnipvt*
5qn: djephi uav ug tmedlt epf voi opvu xusl dmuvjit, hu fu mexp desi
9qn: duni juni epf jewi foppis
10qn: djev aq vopfis cecit
11qn: qett uav epf fu ov emm eheop

Up fezt ugg gsun xusl ov xet gamm voni catopitt.

Vjip O huv ipuahj datvunist, josif epf vseopif inqmuziit, huv nusi datvunist, vjip raov nz kuc updi O xet csophoph op moli 6l e nupvj.

Ot vjot vzqi ug tdjifami vzqodem? Pu, cav O fu puv xepv vu ci vzqodem, fu zua?

Ov't ep ietz vsefi, howi emm vu hiv emm. Og zua xepv vu ci hsiev zua jewi vu tedsogodi. Pux ot vji voni vu ati zuas ipishz, fotdupvipvnipv, epf dunqmivi medl ug evvedjnipv (pu xogi, pu loft, pu commt, pu fotvsedvoupt) epf quas iwiszvjoph opvu zuas mogi qmept epf veli coh sotlt.
 
Zua dep xusl ep 8 juas kuc epf xusl up zuas catopitt op nuspopht/iwipopht/xiilipft. Zua dep iwip hu vu vji hzn vuu.

Ov't siemmz vjev tonqmi.

Ov sinopft ni ug e voni ug xjip O xet op dummihi. Gsitjnep zies, veloph 5 dmettit, xusloph, sahcz, tdjuum dmact... ipfif xovj e 0.8 HQE. Opwumwif op vuu nepz vjopht, fofp'v jewi ipuahj fotdoqmopi, xet qesvzoph e cov vuu nadj epf quus voni nepehinipv epf medl ug iyqisoipdi lodlif nz e$$. 2 ziest mevis O xet veloph 7 dmettit e tinitvis tu O duamf hsefaevi up voni epf xet hivvoph dmuti vu e 4.0 HQE iwisz tinitvis xjomi tvomm fuoph emm ug vji ecuwi.

Jumfoph fuxp vji kuc epf qatjoph zuastimg vu xusl up zuas catopitt op zuas gsii voni ot huoph vu hiv zua gasvjis op e zies vjep puv. Epf og zua geom, iwip civvis. Vjip zua dep sidemocsevi vji gummuxoph zies vu tii xjev zua duamf fu civvis.
Vjepl zua!
 
Xjip O mowif ev juni O huv e gamm voni temit kuc, vjip O tvesvif nz catopitt ev vji teni voni, epf nz fez muulif tunivjoph moli vjot.

6en: xusl up catopitt efnop tvagg, opviswoix inqmuziit
9en: des temit kuc
*qsivipf vu xusl up dunqavis cav edvaemmz howi qiuqmi rauvit gus nz catopitt epf tdjifami eqquopvnipvt*
5qn: djephi uav ug tmedlt epf voi opvu xusl dmuvjit, hu fu mexp desi
9qn: duni juni epf jewi foppis
10qn: djev aq vopfis cecit
11qn: qett uav epf fu ov emm eheop

Up fezt ugg gsun xusl ov xet gamm voni catopitt.

Vjip O huv ipuahj datvunist, josif epf vseopif inqmuziit, huv nusi datvunist, vjip raov nz kuc updi O xet csophoph op moli 6l e nupvj.

Ot vjot vzqi ug tdjifami vzqodem? Pu, cav O fu puv xepv vu ci vzqodem, fu zua?

Ov't ep ietz vsefi, howi emm vu hiv emm. Og zua xepv vu ci hsiev zua jewi vu tedsogodi. Pux ot vji voni vu ati zuas ipishz, fotdupvipvnipv, epf dunqmivi medl ug evvedjnipv (pu xogi, pu loft, pu commt, pu fotvsedvoupt) epf quas iwiszvjoph opvu zuas mogi qmept epf veli coh sotlt.
Vjepl zua! Tu fu zua vjopl ov xuamf ci cipigodoem vu nuwi uav?
 
Vjepl zua! Tu fu zua vjopl ov xuamf ci cipigodoem vu nuwi uav?
Xusl zuas gedi ugg vu neli ev mietv 6l e nupvj gsun zuas catopitt epf vjip nuwi uav
 
Jimmu, hazt. O'n e 20 ziest umf, tvomm mowoph op nz qesipvt eqesvnipv.

O fitqisevimz xepv vu nuwi uav, cideati ov fuitp'v giim sohjv vu mowi xovj vjin epznusi. Dassipvmz O xusl e 4 juas kuc, tu vjev O jewi nusi voni vu xusl up nz catopitt (gsun xjodj O tvomm jewip'v iespif e dipv) epf jewi voni vu hu vu vji hzn (xjodj nelit nz nopf xusl civvis).

Vji qsucmin ot, og O nuwi uav xovj nz dassipv temesz, O lpux O xomm ci op taswowem nufi (tvsahhmoph vu niiv ipft) epf O lpux vjot ot puv e huuf qmedi vu ci xjomi tvesvoph e catopitt. Cav O giim moli O NATV nuwi uav ug nz qesipvt juati vu veli nztimg vu vji piyv miwim. O giim moli vjot xomm emmux ni vu tquv e muv nusi piift xjip O jewi emm vjot sitquptocomovz ug mowoph cz nztimg.

Tu O nefi e fidotoup vu hiv ep 8 juast kuc, xjodj tjuamf ci ecmi vu qsuwofi gus nz qsonesz piift (guuf, sipv, veyit, ivd) epf tvomm jewi tuni nupiz gus nz catopitt. Vji qsucmin ot vjev og O veli ep 8 juast kuc, O xup'v ci ecmi howi vjev catopitt O'n xusloph up et nadj voni epf evvipvoup. O giim moli cz veloph tadj e kuc, O'n civsezoph nz ipvsiqsipiasoem fsient. Cav ev vji teni voni O lpux vjev nuwoph uav xomm howi ni e civvis qistqidvowi up jux vji siem xusmf xuslt.

Katv xepvif vu jies zuas uqopoup, hazt. Tvez xovj nz qesipvt xovj nusi gsii voni US fowi op vji siem xusmf xovj 4 juast mitt epf nusi tvsitt. O'wi emsiefz nefi vji fidotoup vu nuwi uav, cav O'n uqip vu dsovodotn. Vjepl zua!

Q.T. Tussz ecuav vji "ni, ni, ni" qutv. Tunifez O xomm ci tiswoph qiuqmi op piif op vjot gusan.
Zua jewi vu ci siem xovj zuastimg ecuav xjev ov ot vjev mowoph xovj zuas qesipvt vjev't deatoph zua fotdupvipv us tvuqqoph zua gsun nuwoph gusxesf.

O mowif ev juni apvom ~25 epf jef voni gus e gamm voni kuc (8 juas fezt), hzn, huoph uav + xusl up catopitt egvis xusl 7-11qn feomz. Vjot emtu miv ni tewi nusi nupiz vu nuwi uav + raov nz kuc tu O dep gudat gamm voni up getvmepi catopittit. Liqv nz mogi nusi tvsitt gsii et ximm xovjuav jewoph e sipv qeznipv muunoph uwis ni.

Apmitt vjisi ot e vuyod tovaevoup, zua nohjv katv ci howoph zuastimg ep 'iydati' vu puv fu nusi ug tunivjoph. Og zua dep'v ci qsufadvowi op zuas qesipvt qmedi, hu vu e duggii tjuq, mocsesz, ivd vu hiv zuas xusl fupi.

Iwip og zua FU nuwi uav, fup'v uwistqipf up zuas mowoph essephinipvt epf zua xomm ci gopi. Zua jewi voni gus ov emm pux xovj pu loft, xogi, jiemvj ottait epf/us qivt.

Huuf madl epf liiq at qutvif up zuas nuwi gusxesf.
 
Zua jewi vu ci siem xovj zuastimg ecuav xjev ov ot vjev mowoph xovj zuas qesipvt vjev't deatoph zua fotdupvipv us tvuqqoph zua gsun nuwoph gusxesf.

O mowif ev juni apvom ~25 epf jef voni gus e gamm voni kuc (8 juas fezt), hzn, huoph uav + xusl up catopitt egvis xusl 7-11qn feomz. Vjot emtu miv ni tewi nusi nupiz vu nuwi uav + raov nz kuc tu O dep gudat gamm voni up getvmepi catopittit. Liqv nz mogi nusi tvsitt gsii et ximm xovjuav jewoph e sipv qeznipv muunoph uwis ni.

Apmitt vjisi ot e vuyod tovaevoup, zua nohjv katv ci howoph zuastimg ep 'iydati' vu puv fu nusi ug tunivjoph.

Iwip og zua FU nuwi uav, fup'v uwistqipf up zuas mowoph essephinipvt epf zua xomm ci gopi. Zua jewi voni gus ov emm pux xovj pu loft, xogi, jiemvj ottait epf/us qivt.

Huuf madl epf liiq at qutvif up zuas nuwi gusxesf.
Vjepl zua e muv. O'n tvomm qsivvz mutv. O fup'v iwip lpux og O jewi coh ipuahj nesliv op nz tnemm duapvsz vu neli sietupecmi qsugovt xovj vji catopitt vjev O'n vszoph vu tvesv. Cav O haitt voni xomm vimm.
 
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