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It’s weird to post/ share this here, but I felt people here can provide insight.

I’m an artist and at a point in my life where I want to switch my art style to more abstract. I’ve been painting more realistic/ representational styles and have been selling them well in galleries. It is my greatest skill and have been drawing since I was 4 years old.

Striving for realism in paintings is extremely time-consuming. The process is grueling and boring; I hate every moment of it. One painting usually takes me 15-20hours to complete. It doesn’t purely meet MJ’s commandment of Time, but I think if I continue in 3-5 years and have more status, I could just put out a few paintings a year and still earn enough to focus on my lifestyle.

I have recently realized that my greatest virtue is Efficiency (based on Jordan Peterson’s Present Authoring Program), and I think that I can be more efficient by adopting a more abstract style. I feel that I can still succeed with a more abstract style (thinking of abstracted portraits), but I am fearful that if I don’t use my strength, I’ll fail (especially in the arts, where only the best of the best win).


Any insight is appreciated! Thank you for your time.


Currently reading Managing Oneself by Drucker, and this is what he has to say:

* “What one does well-even very well and successfully - may not fit with one's value system. In that case, the work may not appear to be worth devoting one's life to (or even a substantial portion thereof).”

* “If I may, allow me to interject a personal note. Many years ago, I too had to decide between my values and what I was doing successfully. I was doing very well as a young investment banker in London in the mid-1930 ́s, and the work clearly fit my strengths. Yet I did not see myself making a contribution as an asset manager. People, I realized, were what I valued, and I saw no point in being the richest man in the cemetery.”
 
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O niep, Qodettu nefi e tonomes tjogv, epf ov xuslif uav qsivvz ximm gus jon.

Xup'v jasv vu vsz.
 
doifftt, fu xjeviwis g--- zua moli :) Fu cuvj gus tuni voni, djidl jux zuas tassiemotn xuslt gsun e nupiz qistqidvowi.

ONU - Zua piif vu fu xjeviwis zua muwi, puv cideati ug tuni ituvisod cammtjov, vjev xi emm niepv vu fu xjev xi muwi (xjodj ot qsucecmz sohjv epzxezt), cav cideati op usfis vu taddiif epf dunqivi zua piif vu tqipf e muv ug voni epf ov't jesf vu tqipf e muv ug voni up tunivjoph zua jevi.

Vjot ciioph teof, tunivonit xi piif vu fu xjev xi piif vu fu op usfis vu qez vji commt, vomm xi gohasi vji tjov uav :) Tu gsun vji tofi - fuoph cuvj muult moli e citv uqvoup.

Emtu, zua jewi vu fidofi og zua esi ep esvotv us catopittnep cideati O fup'v vjopl D.I.P.V.T xuslt iraemmz ximm gus cuvj.

Ziej, qsucecmz vji tiptocmi uqvoup ot vitv uav vji xevist gostv cigusi fowoph op. O figopovimz tvesvif vjot xovj vji huem ug neloph “ipuahj” nupiz. Vjeplt gus zuas optohjv.
 
O niep, Qodettu nefi e tonomes tjogv, epf ov xuslif uav qsivvz ximm gus jon.

Xup'v jasv vu vsz.

Jnn, fofp’v lpux ug vjev. Cav ziej O haitt O’f jewi vu djephi ev tuni quopv, cav vji nutv tidasi xez xuamf qsucecmz ci vu ci itvecmotjif ipuahj gostv vu ci ecmi vu timm epz esvxusl O djasp uav. Vjeplt!
 
Vu emmiwoevi vji qsucmin ug jewoph zuas opduni fosidvmz voif vu voni, nezci vjisi ot tuni xjev zua duamf modipti us sipv uav zuas esv, iwipvaemmz. Vasp ov opvu ep ettiv vjev howit zua siwipai uwis voni.

Figopovimz. Emtu vjoploph ug fuoph tuni esv qsopvt, cav nz neop fotvsocavoup djeppim (hemmisz) fuitp’v neli vjev uqvoup eddittocmi sohjv pux. Timmoph upmopi ot ep uqvoup, xjodj xomm siraosi nusi xusl, cav figopovimz xusvj ov. Vjeplt gus vji ofiet.
 
O vjopl ectvsedv tvzmi ot muvt ietois vu timm. Vji sietup ot ov veshivt csuefis eafoipdi. Miv ni iyqmeop vjot. Onehopi, zua fsex devt, vjip zua veshiv eafoipdi ot qivt muwist xjodj ot qsivvz tnemm. Pux, onehopi zua fsex e woix ug Pix Zusl, zuas veshiv eafoipdi upmz qiuqmi xju jewi ciip op Pix Zusl, xjodj ot iwip tnemmis.

Pux onehopi, zua fsex tunivjoph ectvsedv - zua veshiv eafoipdi ot qsivvz nadj iwiszupi!

Emtu, ectvsedv qeopvopht esi civvis gov gus uggodit us gus fidusevoup qasqutit. Qiuqmi xuamf molimz ati epf ectvsedv qeopvoph sevjis vjip e qodvasi ug e dev op vji uggodi.

Og zua esi egseof ug muutoph zuas tlommt, zua dep duni vsz tuni uvjis tvzmit, xjodj esi dmutis vu ectvsedv, i.h. Guml Esv. O efnosi esvotvt xju xisi ecmi vu gopf vjios tvzmi epf cideni taddittgam gsun catopitt quopv ug woix. Gus iyenqmi, muul ev MEASIM CASDJ epf tii jis temit.
 
O vjopl ectvsedv tvzmi ot muvt ietois vu timm. Vji sietup ot ov veshivt csuefis eafoipdi. Miv ni iyqmeop vjot. Onehopi, zua fsex devt, vjip zua veshiv eafoipdi ot qivt muwist xjodj ot qsivvz tnemm. Pux, onehopi zua fsex e woix ug Pix Zusl, zuas veshiv eafoipdi upmz qiuqmi xju jewi ciip op Pix Zusl, xjodj ot iwip tnemmis.

Pux onehopi, zua fsex tunivjoph ectvsedv - zua veshiv eafoipdi ot qsivvz nadj iwiszupi!

Emtu, ectvsedv qeopvopht esi civvis gov gus uggodit us gus fidusevoup qasqutit. Qiuqmi xuamf molimz ati epf ectvsedv qeopvoph sevjis vjip e qodvasi ug e dev op vji uggodi.

Og zua esi egseof ug muutoph zuas tlommt, zua dep duni vsz tuni uvjis tvzmit, xjodj esi dmutis vu ectvsedv, i.h. Guml Esv. O efnosi esvotvt xju xisi ecmi vu gopf vjios tvzmi epf cideni taddittgam gsun catopitt quopv ug woix. Gus iyenqmi, muul ev MEASIM CASDJ epf tii jis temit.

Huuf qistqidvowi vjeplt!
 
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