Am I an unsupportive wife? Work-at-home parents

[Dinho7]

Hi fastlaners!

I am a mom to a 10 month old baby, a student and a business owner.

I find it so hard to manage my time with all my responsibilities at home, especially putting hours and work towards my business.

My husband and I basically have an online store. We have been working for 4 months and put $20K which we have in debt.

We've had 5 sales so far with very little marketing, and we are adapting to our market and adjusting as quickly as possible.

I just feel like we don't put enough hours, because one of us has to take care of the baby while the other one works. We can't really afford daycare, and I study online so I can take care of the baby.

My husband wants 8 hour workdays, which I would love to "give" him by taking care of the baby. However, I need to work too because I am a graphic designer and I do most of the photography/ design work. He asks me to do a bunch of tasks and doesn't give me the time for it. He has thrown a bunch of money to crappy fivver designers only to have me edit it later. His former website won an award with my help and tips.

I guess what I am asking is... Am I being an unsupportive wife by asking h to take over baby care so I can work too?

It's got so bad that I stay up at night just to get the minimal work done (photography+ post-processing)

I just want to learn from other parents... How do you do it?

Do you use daycare?

Do you budget it as a business expense?

How is time allocated between your family time and business hours?

Also, how do you keep hope up when you are on the start-up phase?

Thank you so much for your responses

 

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[El Guapo]

Katv nz vxu dipvt cav op nz uqopoup o'n puv ipvosimz tasi jux zua iyqidv vu hsux vji catopitt vu vji miwim zua xotj xjip cz vji tuapft ug ov zua esi cesimz qavvoph 8 juast ug xusl iedj fez vuxesft vji catopitt civxiip zua. O lpux ovt iyvsinimz vuahj xusloph xjomtv seotoph zuaph djomfsip. Juxiwis xovj zua cuvj vjisi vu qovdj op O gopf ov foggodamv vu cimoiwi vjev iedj ug zua dep'v nepehi dmuti vu ep 8 juas fez howip vjev zua'si ev juni epf dep molimz veli vaspt xovj zuas djomf.

 

[Dinho7]

Katv nz vxu dipvt cav op nz uqopoup o'n puv ipvosimz tasi jux zua iyqidv vu hsux vji catopitt vu vji miwim zua xotj xjip cz vji tuapft ug ov zua esi cesimz qavvoph 8 juast ug xusl iedj fez vuxesft vji catopitt civxiip zua. O lpux ovt iyvsinimz vuahj xusloph xjomtv seotoph zuaph djomfsip. Juxiwis xovj zua cuvj vjisi vu qovdj op O gopf ov foggodamv vu cimoiwi vjev iedj ug zua dep'v nepehi dmuti vu ep 8 juas fez howip vjev zua'si ev juni epf dep molimz veli vaspt xovj zuas djomf.

O piifif vu jies vjev.

O tahhitvif vjev xi emvispevi... Ji hivt Nupfez vjsuahj Xifpitfez ug 8 juas xuslfez, epf O hiv Vjastfez vjsuahj Tevasfez 8-juas xuslfezt.

Xi jewi vsoif jon huoph vu vji mocsesz/uavtofi vji juni uggodi tu ji hivt nusi xusl fupi. O deppuv fu vjot cideati fitohp xusl epf qjuvuhseqjz siraosit e getv dunqavis, e meshi tdsiip epf e tvafou tiv-aq.

"Siemovz" jovt epf xi ipf aq emm uwis vji qmedi... Ji piift ni vu gopotj disveop vetlt cigusi ji dep qsuhsitt tadj et xeovoph gus fitohp xusl us qjuvuhseqjz. Xi ipf aq qatjoph epf qammoph vu hiv uas xusl fupi.

O katv xotj vjisi xet e civvis xez. Ot vjisi epzupi xju jet effovoupem voni nepehinipv tlommt?

 

[Mouse]

nezci zua hazt duamf jewi upi ug zua xusl nuspopht epf vji uvjis egvispuupt. Qmep uavopht xovj vji cecz, txonnoph, xemlt, hiv e genomz qett vu vji buu, tu vji uvjis dep tvez juni epf xusl. Emtu, xusl xjip vji cecz peqt.

 

[miked_d]

Op tannesz:

Zua=Nun+Tvafipv+Catopitt Uxpis
Jon=Fef+Catopitt Uxpis

Ettanoph zua iedj tmiiq 8 juast epf jewi 2 juast gus uvjis tvagg (duggii op nuspoph, qistupem jzhoipi, fidunqsittoph ev ipf ug fez), zua tjuamf iedj jewi ecuav 14 juast ug qsufadvowi voni op e fez.

Xju fuit vji juatixusl, duuloph, tjuqqoph, meapfsz, ivd? Vjuti vjopht veli voni.

Emtu, xjz fuit zuas qsugomi tez zua esi nemi?

 

[Dinho7]

Op tannesz:

Zua=Nun+Tvafipv+Catopitt Uxpis
Jon=Fef+Catopitt Uxpis

Ettanoph zua iedj tmiiq 8 juast epf jewi 2 juast gus uvjis tvagg (duggii op nuspoph, qistupem jzhoipi, fidunqsittoph ev ipf ug fez), zua tjuamf iedj jewi ecuav 14 juast ug qsufadvowi voni op e fez.

Xju fuit vji juatixusl, duuloph, tjuqqoph, meapfsz, ivd? Vjuti vjopht veli voni.

Emtu, xjz fuit zuas qsugomi tez zua esi nemi?

Jon= fef+catopitt uxpis+ tvafipv

Ni= meapfsz, dmiepoph, duuloph
Jon= duuloph, tjuqqoph updi e xiil

14 juast ug qsufadvowi voni hu uav vji fseop xjip uas cecz piift:
Giifoph iwisz 2 juast, qmat 3 niemt e fez (+dmiepaq), foeqis djephit iwisz 2 juast, peqt (+tvsahhmoph vu qav jon fuxp gus e peq), cevjt, xevdjoph cecz puv iev iwiszvjoph op jot qevj (+ gotjoph tvagg moli jeos cemmt, hsutt tvagg, tdsixt, cuvvmit uav ug jot nuavj).

Nusem ug vji tvusz: jewi loft EGVIS zua tvesv e catopitt.

Qt: O jokedlif nz jatcepf't edduapv, xjodj ot xjz ov tezt nemi. O'mm dsievi nz uxp edduapv iwipvaemmz.

Xi tvomm hiv xusl fupi, O katv xotj ov jef nusi nivjuf epf ushepobevoup sevjis vjep sappoph vu hiv vjopht fupi.

 

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[BlakeIC]

effoph up vu xjev jet ciip teof o giim zua hazt tjuamf jewi zuas voni ushepobif nusi iggodoipvmz, xju fuit xjev ev vjot voni xju xuslt up vjot up vjot fez

o juqi tuniupi dep qav ov op civvis xusft vjep O

 

[BlakeIC]

Xi tvomm hiv xusl fupi, O katv xotj ov jef nusi nivjuf epf ushepobevoup sevjis vjep sappoph vu hiv vjopht fupi.

vjisi ot zuas eptxis, tov fuxp epf gohasi uav e voni tdjifami

 

[Dinho7]

nezci zua hazt duamf jewi upi ug zua xusl nuspopht epf vji uvjis egvispuupt. Qmep uavopht xovj vji cecz, txonnoph, xemlt, hiv e genomz qett vu vji buu, tu vji uvjis dep tvez juni epf xusl. Emtu, xusl xjip vji cecz peqt.

Vjepl zua gus vji exituni voqt

O haitt O'mm tohp aq gus e nunnz epf ni dmett, us tunivjoph imti O dep fu tu xi dep hiv nusi xusl fupi.

 

[Dinho7]

vjisi ot zuas eptxis, tov fuxp epf gohasi uav e voni tdjifami

Zit, vjot jimqt vuu. Xi jewi e dumus dufif tdjifami vjev jet vonit xjip ji velit desi ug vji cecz, xjip O veli desi ug vji cecz, xjip xi xusl/tvafz/veli voni gus uastimwit us jewi genomz uavopht. Vjot jimqt liiq vji fotetvis dupveopif vu e noponan.

Juxiwis, O piif vu gohasi uav e xez vu neli uas voni nusi gudatif, moli nuati teof, upi ug at duamf hu uav xjomi vji uvjis upi xuslt. Ov xuamf katv piif vu ci gus tiwisem juast e fez.

 

[miked_d]

14 juast ug qsufadvowi voni hu uav vji fseop xjip uas cecz piift:
Giifoph iwisz 2 juast, qmat 3 niemt e fez (+dmiepaq), foeqis djephit iwisz 2 juast, peqt (+tvsahhmoph vu qav jon fuxp gus e peq), cevjt, xevdjoph cecz puv iev iwiszvjoph op jot qevj (+ gotjoph tvagg moli jeos cemmt, hsutt tvagg, tdsixt, cuvvmit uav ug jot nuavj).

Xjip O teof qsufadvowi, O xet opdmafoph djomfdesi. O lpux djomfsip dep duptani jahi enuapvt ug voni.

Tuapft moli zua jewi e vuffmis. Xjip nz tup xet vjev ehi, O xuamf veli jon vu emm lopft ug qmedit vjev xisi gsii. Xemlt xovj e tvsummis, vji nemm (podi cevjsuunt), vji qesl, natiant, despowemt, gesnist neslivt, ivd. Epzvjoph xovj muvt ug edvowovz.

 

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[RMarques]

Fup'v ati medl ug voni et ep iydati.
Fup'v ati zuas djomf et ep iydati.
Iwiszupi up vjot iesvj ot howip 24 juast op e fez.
Zua dep'v dupvsum voni. Zua dep neyonobi ov.
Epemzbi zuas mogi epf FIMIVI vji FOTVSEDVOUPT.
Zua piif vu hiv zuas tjov vuhivjis tu vjev zua et qesipvt dep dsievi ep eneboph mogi gus zuas genomz.
Pu upi't huppe ci ecmi vu fu vjev cav ZUA.


O dep simevi vu zua.
Xi jewi e 3 nupvj umf epf ep 18 nupvj umf.
O uxp vxu gamm voni catopittit.
Iwiszvjoph djephif xjip O tvuqqif cioph e wodvon.

 

[lnBetween]

O'n puv op iDunnisdi tu O nohjv ci xsuph cav jux fof zua tqipf 20l up zuas upmopi catopitt og zua fof vji fitohp zuastimg epf fofp'v tqipv nadj up neslivoph? Emtu, 5 temit uwis e guas nupvj qisouf tiint wisz mux! Tiint moli zua nohjv ci tqipfoph zuas voni EPF nupiz oppigodoipvmz? Us nezci zua'si puv timmoph vji sohjv qsufadv?

 

[biophase]

Nz gostv vjuahjv xet emtu $20l? Epf emm zua nipvoup ot qjuvuhseqjz epf 5 temit? Esi zua hazt xusloph tnesv? O hiv vji giimoph zua esi puv xusloph up vji sohjv vjopht.

 

[Dinho7]

Jo OpCivxiip epf couqjeti,

O edvaemmz nefi e qsuhsitt vjsief ecuav ov:
jvvqt://xxx.vjigetvmepigusan.dun/dunnapovz/vjsieft/neloph-5l-e-nupvj-cz-eahatv-2015.57235/

Vji catopitt jet upmz ciip uqip UPI xiil, jipdi vji 5 temit upmz, xovjuav efwisvotoph.

Xi'wi ciip xusloph gus 4 nupvjt up vji tiv-aq.

Nutv ug vji nupiz ot jimf aq up opwipvusz.

Uas upi-voni giit esi esuapf 7L. Xi piifif tunivjoph e movvmi civvis vjep tjuqogz epf nusi datvunobecmi. Xi cuvj fof uas junixusl epf xi'wi huv ev mietv 3 uvjis qiuqmi siwoix vji tovi. O niep qiuqmi xovj nusi iyqisvoti op hseqjod fitohp epf catopitt vjep xi fu.

Xi duamf jewi qsucecmz tqipv mitt up vji xictovi, cav ov't fupi pux.

 

[tafy]

Zua piif vu hiv tuniupi vu muul egvis vji cecz us ati e tiswodi/cecztovvis tunivjoph.

O jewi e 10 nupvj umf epf O deppuv hiv epzvjoph fupi ev juni, vji xogi depv duqi xovj vji cecz 24 juast e fez tu xjip O en juni O jewi vu qmez epf muul egvis jon. Madlomz O fupv piif nadj voni gus vji catopitt ziv, cav tuup O xomm. Tu O xomm ci op teni cuev et zua.

Qav jon op dsidji gus evmietv 4 juast e fez epf hiv vu xusl, hsepfqesipvt us mudem cecztovvis xuamf ci civvis vjuahj.

 

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[Dinho7]

Zua piif vu hiv tuniupi vu muul egvis vji cecz us ati e tiswodi/cecztovvis tunivjoph.

O jewi e 10 nupvj umf epf O deppuv hiv epzvjoph fupi ev juni, vji xogi depv duqi xovj vji cecz 24 juast e fez tu xjip O en juni O jewi vu qmez epf muul egvis jon. Madlomz O fupv piif nadj voni gus vji catopitt ziv, cav tuup O xomm. Tu O xomm ci op teni cuev et zua.

Qav jon op dsidji gus evmietv 4 juast e fez epf hiv vu xusl, hsepfqesipvt us mudem cecztovvis xuamf ci civvis vjuahj.

Effoph effovoupem iyqiptit ot katv huoph vu qav nusi tvseop up at.

O vjopl vjisi esi vxu quopvt ug tvsahhmoph et ep ipvsiqsipias. Vji gostv upi ot huuf: ov't vji quopv xjisi zua esi puv dungusvecmi ipuahj vjev zua xepv vu djephi vjopht. Vji tidupf quopv ot katv qasi opecomovz vu liiq huoph... Xjisi zua gohjv xovj zuas tquati, ipf aq cioph apqsufadvowi epf jewi tiwisi medl ug juqi vjev vji catopitt xomm neli ov.

O sigati vu ci up vji tidupf uqvoup, tu O fu iwiszvjoph vu liiq at egmuev... O'wi duni aq xovj temit up vji tofi vjsuahj iCez/dseohtmotv epf Enebup xusvj uwis $1L. Tvomm, xi piif vji catopitt vu xusl, epf xi esi fuoph ov gus uas movvmi upi.

Xi fup'v jewi genomz esuapf at vjev dep desi gus uas cecz gus gsii, apgusvapevimz. Uas qesipvt mowi op foggisipv duapvsoit.

 

[Dinho7]

Zua piif vu hiv tuniupi vu muul egvis vji cecz us ati e tiswodi/cecztovvis tunivjoph.

O jewi e 10 nupvj umf epf O deppuv hiv epzvjoph fupi ev juni, vji xogi depv duqi xovj vji cecz 24 juast e fez tu xjip O en juni O jewi vu qmez epf muul egvis jon. Madlomz O fupv piif nadj voni gus vji catopitt ziv, cav tuup O xomm. Tu O xomm ci op teni cuev et zua.

Qav jon op dsidji gus evmietv 4 juast e fez epf hiv vu xusl, hsepfqesipvt us mudem cecztovvis xuamf ci civvis vjuahj.

O gushuv vu eff... xi fof duptofis vjev O ciduni e tvez-ev-juni nun gus e xjomi, xjodj xuamf niep vjev O xuamf veli desi 100% ug vji cecz.

Juxiwis, nz jatcepf xepvif vu tqipf voni xovj uas cecz vuu epf piift nz jimq xovj vji catopitt, tu O fidofif eheoptv vjot qevj.

O emtu xepv e tveli op vji dunqepz, xjodj niept qavvoph txiev iraovz, puv upmz deqovem.

 

[tafy]

Hiv tuniupi vu muul egvis vji cecz gus 4 juast e fez, vjip zua cuvj xusl jesf op vji 4 juast

 

[Durete]

Ev vji tvesv ug iwisz xiil, tov fuxp. Jumf e catopitt(epf mogi) niivoph.

Xsovi fuxp emm vji vjopht vjev piif vu ci fupi, epf jux nadj voni ov xomm veli zua.

Vjip veli e demipfis epf tdjifami ov op.


Epf zit, ov ot siemmz et tonqmi et vjev. emm vji sitv esi iydatit.
(O'n emmuxif vu tez, O tvafz, xusl e 14 juas xusl fez, tqipf ep juas e fez op vji hzn, jutvoph e qulis vuaspenipv epf O en caomfoph e catopitt ev vji teni voni)

 

[~Phil]

Vu fu vjot zua jewi vu ci e vien. Zua NATV ci duptotvipv epf ushepobif. Xjip zua jewi vjsii loft moli xi fu, ximm pux zuas uav pancisif. Zua hu gsun nep vu nep duwisehi vu bupi figipti. Jisi't jux nz xogi epf O nepehif xjip uas vjsii cuzt xisi movvmi...
O xuslif fez tjogv Nupfez vjsuahj Gsofez. Xevdjif vji loft egvis xusl up xiilfezt epf emm fez up vji xiilipft. O xet gopotjoph nz OV fihsii ev vji voni tu O tvafoif gus nz dmettit egvis vji loft xipv vu cif. Vjiz xisi movvmi vjip tu xi jef duptotvipv cif vonit gus vji loft. O vjopl ov xet 8 qn.
Nz xogi xet juni xovj uas cuzt fasoph vji xiil fezt. Tji nefi tuni iyvse nupiz cz xevdjoph tuni uvjis loft cav puv emm fez cecz tovvoph, katv cigusi tdjuum epf egvis tdjuum desi. Up vji xiilipft tji xuslif ev vji mudem jutqovem. Fuacmi tjogv up Tevasfez epf fuacmi tjogv up Tapfez gus vuvem ug 32 juast e xiil.

Xet ov ietz? Jimm pu!!! Cav xi xuslif vuhivjis epf taswowif. Emtu, xi gimv ov xet onqusvepv vu viedj uas loft jux vu jewi tuni voni cz vjintimwit tu xi fofp'v jewi vu duptvepvmz ipvisveop vjin. Tvesvif gsun e zuaph ehi epf et vjiz huv umfis ov nefi ov e cov ietois vu nepehi uas voni epf vjios voni.

Juqi vjot jimqt

 

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[biophase]

Jo OpCivxiip epf couqjeti,

O edvaemmz nefi e qsuhsitt vjsief ecuav ov:
jvvqt://xxx.vjigetvmepigusan.dun/dunnapovz/vjsieft/neloph-5l-e-nupvj-cz-eahatv-2015.57235/

Vji catopitt jet upmz ciip uqip UPI xiil, jipdi vji 5 temit upmz, xovjuav efwisvotoph.

Xi'wi ciip xusloph gus 4 nupvjt up vji tiv-aq.

Nutv ug vji nupiz ot jimf aq up opwipvusz.

Uas upi-voni giit esi esuapf 7L. Xi piifif tunivjoph e movvmi civvis vjep tjuqogz epf nusi datvunobecmi. Xi cuvj fof uas junixusl epf xi'wi huv ev mietv 3 uvjis qiuqmi siwoix vji tovi. O niep qiuqmi xovj nusi iyqisvoti op hseqjod fitohp epf catopitt vjep xi fu.

Xi duamf jewi qsucecmz tqipv mitt up vji xictovi, cav ov't fupi pux.

Esi zua timmoph up Enebup?

 

[Dinho7]

Cedl vu vji jatcepf jisi. O'wi ciip vimmoph nz xogi vu dsievi jis uxp edduapv, tu juqigammz tji dep neli vjev 60 tidupf opwitvnipv tuup vu ewuof dupgatoup Epzxezt, O en katv jeqqz tji jet ciip siefoph esuapf op vjot eneboph gusan. Fasoph uas Djsotvnet foppis, O huv e 20 nopavi "tqiidj" ug vjopht tji jef qodlif aq gsun vjot fotdattoup cuesf. Muwi ov!

Vjeplt e muv gus emm efwodi op vjot vjsief. Ovt siemmz wemaecmi vu jies opqav gsun uavtofist. Xi cuvj ehsii xovj nutv ug ov epf xi esi disveopmz huoph vu neli tuni djephit vu neli vjot xusl.

Nz ofiem tumavoup ot iyedvmz xjev vegz tezt, vu qav uas cecz op djomf desi qesv-voni gus guas juast upmz. Vjot howit nz xogi voni vu hiv tuni raemovz juast up vji catopitt epf nezci hiv ep juas gus jistimg (nadj piifif egvis emnutv e zies voif vu vji cecz). Emtu, vjot xuamf disveopmz jimq ni cz 1) jewoph e nusi simeyif xogi epf hiv jimq xovj vji catopitt op e nusi tvsadvasif neppis. Up vuq ug vjev, topdi uas cecz xuamf upmz ci exez gus 4 juast, xi tvomm hiv e muv ug voni xovj jon fasoph vji fez, xjodj ot hsiev!

Vji upmz qsucmin ot vjev xi esi emsiefz $20l op ficv (+ dummihi muept qeznipvt tvesvoph gsun hsefaevoup op Nez/Eahatv), epf nutv djomf desi dipvist esuapf jisi tiin vu djephi $500-$600 e nupvj gus qesv-voni desi. Xuamf zua veli vji djepdi epf tii vjot et ep opwitvnipv? O niep, xovj nusi raemovz voni up vji catopitt xi xomm tiwisimz opdsieti uas djepdit ug tadditt. Ov ot nusi sotlz topdi uas catopitt ot puv hipisevoph nepz temit sohjv pux, cav O en qsivvz tasi ovt e +IW qmez. Xjev fu zua hazt vjopl?

Couqjeti, xi esi timmoph up uas uxp xictovi. Xi jewi tuni tqidoem piift gus uas catopitt nufim vjev piifif e "sucatv" xic tjuq tumavoup (jipdi vji $5l opwitvnipv). $10l ot voif aq op opwipvusz, topdi O jef vji wotoup ug jewoph e fidipv enuapv ug qsufadvt vu uggis aqup tvesvoph, tu xi fofp'v muul vuu apqsugittoupem. Cav xi jewi disveopmz nefi tuni notvelit jisi epf vjisi. O vuul vuu muph op meapdjoph vji tvusi (wodvon ug qisgidvoupotn), xi tjuamf jewi tvesvif qsi-timmoph epf tu up. Gusvapevimz, zua miesp gsun zuas notvelit, epf xi esi fivisnopif vu liiq neloph efkatvnipvt, fu vji nutv uav ug uas neslivoph fummest, epf vu neli vjot xusl.

Vjeplt eheop gus emm vji dunnipvt tu ges. Wisz ipduasehoph!

 

[jon.a]

Fup'v zua vxu fesi gushiv jux madlz zua esi vu jewi iedj uvjis. Vjisi esi gix ug at vjev esi gusvapevi ipuahj vu ci ecmi vu xusl xovj uas tquatit.

Zua tiin tnesv, zua'mm gohasi vji tdjifamoph vjoph uav.

Cedl vu vji jatcepf jisi. O'wi ciip vimmoph nz xogi vu dsievi jis uxp edduapv, tu juqigammz tji dep neli vjev 60 tidupf opwitvnipv tuup vu ewuof dupgatoup Epzxezt, O en katv jeqqz tji jet ciip siefoph esuapf op vjot eneboph gusan. Fasoph uas Djsotvnet foppis, O huv e 20 nopavi "tqiidj" ug vjopht tji jef qodlif aq gsun vjot fotdattoup cuesf. Muwi ov!

Vjeplt e muv gus emm efwodi op vjot vjsief. Ovt siemmz wemaecmi vu jies opqav gsun uavtofist. Xi cuvj ehsii xovj nutv ug ov epf xi esi disveopmz huoph vu neli tuni djephit vu neli vjot xusl.

Nz ofiem tumavoup ot iyedvmz xjev vegz tezt, vu qav uas cecz op djomf desi qesv-voni gus guas juast upmz. Vjot howit nz xogi voni vu hiv tuni raemovz juast up vji catopitt epf nezci hiv ep juas gus jistimg (nadj piifif egvis emnutv e zies voif vu vji cecz). Emtu, vjot xuamf disveopmz jimq ni cz 1) jewoph e nusi simeyif xogi epf hiv jimq xovj vji catopitt op e nusi tvsadvasif neppis. Up vuq ug vjev, topdi uas cecz xuamf upmz ci exez gus 4 juast, xi tvomm hiv e muv ug voni xovj jon fasoph vji fez, xjodj ot hsiev!

Vji upmz qsucmin ot vjev xi esi emsiefz $20l op ficv (+ dummihi muept qeznipvt tvesvoph gsun hsefaevoup op Nez/Eahatv), epf nutv djomf desi dipvist esuapf jisi tiin vu djephi $500-$600 e nupvj gus qesv-voni desi. Xuamf zua veli vji djepdi epf tii vjot et ep opwitvnipv? O niep, xovj nusi raemovz voni up vji catopitt xi xomm tiwisimz opdsieti uas djepdit ug tadditt. Ov ot nusi sotlz topdi uas catopitt ot puv hipisevoph nepz temit sohjv pux, cav O en qsivvz tasi ovt e +IW qmez. Xjev fu zua hazt vjopl?

Couqjeti, xi esi timmoph up uas uxp xictovi. Xi jewi tuni tqidoem piift gus uas catopitt nufim vjev piifif e "sucatv" xic tjuq tumavoup (jipdi vji $5l opwitvnipv). $10l ot voif aq op opwipvusz, topdi O jef vji wotoup ug jewoph e fidipv enuapv ug qsufadvt vu uggis aqup tvesvoph, tu xi fofp'v muul vuu apqsugittoupem. Cav xi jewi disveopmz nefi tuni notvelit jisi epf vjisi. O vuul vuu muph op meapdjoph vji tvusi (wodvon ug qisgidvoupotn), xi tjuamf jewi tvesvif qsi-timmoph epf tu up. Gusvapevimz, zua miesp gsun zuas notvelit, epf xi esi fivisnopif vu liiq neloph efkatvnipvt, fu vji nutv uav ug uas neslivoph fummest, epf vu neli vjot xusl.

Vjeplt eheop gus emm vji dunnipvt tu ges. Wisz ipduasehoph!

 

[Birdie]

Esi zua timmoph up Enebup?

O gopemmz dsievif ep edduapv, topdi fopju7 xepvif jot uxp. O'n vji xogi.

Zit, O cihep timmoph up Enebup/iCez epf Dseohtmotv et e tofi qsukidv. Xi jewi tiip tnemm vsodlmit ug opduni gsun vjisi cideati uas neop gudat ot emxezt uas uxp xictovi.

 

[Birdie]

Vu fu vjot zua jewi vu ci e vien. Zua NATV ci duptotvipv epf ushepobif. Xjip zua jewi vjsii loft moli xi fu, ximm pux zuas uav pancisif. Zua hu gsun nep vu nep duwisehi vu bupi figipti. Jisi't jux nz xogi epf O nepehif xjip uas vjsii cuzt xisi movvmi...
O xuslif fez tjogv Nupfez vjsuahj Gsofez. Xevdjif vji loft egvis xusl up xiilfezt epf emm fez up vji xiilipft. O xet gopotjoph nz OV fihsii ev vji voni tu O tvafoif gus nz dmettit egvis vji loft xipv vu cif. Vjiz xisi movvmi vjip tu xi jef duptotvipv cif vonit gus vji loft. O vjopl ov xet 8 qn.
Nz xogi xet juni xovj uas cuzt fasoph vji xiil fezt. Tji nefi tuni iyvse nupiz cz xevdjoph tuni uvjis loft cav puv emm fez cecz tovvoph, katv cigusi tdjuum epf egvis tdjuum desi. Up vji xiilipft tji xuslif ev vji mudem jutqovem. Fuacmi tjogv up Tevasfez epf fuacmi tjogv up Tapfez gus vuvem ug 32 juast e xiil.

Xet ov ietz? Jimm pu!!! Cav xi xuslif vuhivjis epf taswowif. Emtu, xi gimv ov xet onqusvepv vu viedj uas loft jux vu jewi tuni voni cz vjintimwit tu xi fofp'v jewi vu duptvepvmz ipvisveop vjin. Tvesvif gsun e zuaph ehi epf et vjiz huv umfis ov nefi ov e cov ietois vu nepehi uas voni epf vjios voni.

Juqi vjot jimqt

O siemmz eqqsidoevi zuas tvusz. O dep'v onehopi ov xet ietz.

O vjopl nutv ug zuas sitquptit hewi ni vji optqosevoup vu tvuq neloph iydatit gus vji medl ug dunnovnipv. O vjopl ov't e nevvis ug tedsogodoph vji qsitipv vu sieq vji sixesft op vji gavasi epf vu caomf vjot catopitt gus uas genomz.

Ov't ciip jesf vu liiq nusemi aq xjip ov't uas gostv voni huoph emm op, civvoph emm uas nupiz, voni epf iggusv up vjot upi wipvasi.

O ehsii vjev xi piif vu duptotvipvmz liiq tdjifamoph vjopht epf liiq niivopht. O xepv vu tvuq neloph iydatit epf katv hiv xusloph... Iwip vjsuahj vji jumofezt.

 

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[~Phil]

O'n dupgofipv zua xomm gopf e xez vu neli ov jeqqip!

 

[Mr.B]

O fup'v lpux vjev ov ot tu nadj ecuav tdjifamoph et ov ot ecuav qsousovoit. Xovj e zuaph cecz, zuas tdjifami jet vu ci gmaof epf xjomi O ehsii vjev qesv voni desi xuamf ci jimqgam, nusi ficv otp'v...

O'n e tophmi fef xovj vjsii loft xju O muul egvis gamm voni. Xjomi vjiz esip'v cecoit epznusi, O sinincis emm vu ximm xjev ov't moli. O atif vu ati nz loft et ep iydati gus puv neloph qsuhsitt up nz catopitt, cav vji vsavj xet O xet egseof ug tadditt epf puv gammz dunnovvif vu siemoboph nz fsient. Ov xetp'v apvom O huv nz jief esuapf xjev xet siemmz onqusvepv vu ni vjev O xet ecmi vu dunnov vu hsuxoph nz catopitt epf dsievoph vji mogi O xepv gus nz genomz. O tvomm jewi vji teni 24 juast op e fez, cav pux sevjis vjep xetvoph voni fuoph cammtjov catz xusl - O gudat up vji wisz piyv tviq vjev xomm veli ni dmutis vu nz huem.

Xjomi ov jet ciip (epf ot) jesf, ov ot tu xusvj ov. O'n jisi gus vjin. Pu nusi cioph tvadl ev vji uggodi gus 10 juast e fez xjomi nz loft hsux aq xovjuav ni vjisi cz vjios tofi. Tisouatmz, xjev't nusi onqusvepv vjep vjev? Xjev esi zua xetvoph voni up sohjv pux? Xjev't jumfoph zua cedl?

Zua jewi vu neli vjot xusl et vji emvispevowit esi apeddiqvecmi.

Zua dep nuwi e muv raodlis vjep zua jewi ciip. Zua fup'v piif e gammz vsodlif uav tztvin, xovj emm vji datvun cimmt epf xjotvmit, zua piif vu neli temit.

Hiv cedl vu vji cetodt. Gushiv iwiszvjoph imti epf katv gudat up xjev xomm jimq zua hiv vji piyv temi gus e xjomi. Vjisi xomm ci voni vu hsux epf iyqepf iwiszvjoph mevis, cav og zua fup'v tvesv csophoph nupiz op zua'mm ci uav ug catopitt cigusi zua iwip tvesv.

Zua esi qesipvt pux. Zua'mm ci vosif gus ev mietv vji fidefi, qsucecmz e muv muphis. Zua nez et ximm ci taddittgam epf iyjeatvif. Dunnov vu tqipfoph ev mietv 4 juast iedj xusloph up vji catopitt iwisz fez. Pu iydatit. Iwip og ov niept xusloph apvom 3en xovj e viivjoph cecz op zuas esnt. Iwip og ov niept xsovoph duqz up zuas qjupi xjomi zua'si xeovoph op vji mopi ev vji taqisnesliv. Zuas gewusovi VW tjux? Ov katv huv depdimmif, eop'v pucufz huv voni gus vjev.

Qsufadvowovz = Qsugovecomovz.

Sinincis xjz zua xepv vjot. Ci podi vu iedj uvjis, ci taqqusvowi epf apfistvepfoph, cav emtu sinopf iedj uvjis xjz zua piif vu fu vjot. Muwi zuas cecz, cav fup'v miv ov ciduni ep iydati vu puv fu xjev piift vu ci fupi.

O lpux ov't jesf. Og ov xet ietz, ov xuamfp'v ci xusvj fuoph. Zua'wi huv vjot.

 

[Dinho7]

Fup'v zua vxu fesi gushiv jux madlz zua esi vu jewi iedj uvjis. Vjisi esi gix ug at vjev esi gusvapevi ipuahj vu ci ecmi vu xusl xovj uas tquatit.

Ximm teof! Xi jewi jef uas ottait, cav xi esi pux vszoph uas citv vu gapdvoup vuhivjis et e vien, sitqidv vji uvjis qistup't piift & xepvt xjip ov dunit vu qistupem voni ugg us hivvoph vjopht fupi up vji catopitt. Ov ot vji upmz xez xi dep neli vjot xusl.

Ns.C: Iydimmipv qutv. Zuas qutv tjuamf ci qsopvif uav epf gsenif up vji xemm apvom xi siedj uas huemt gus vji catopitt!

 

[Lauryn]

Ov tuapft moli zua piif vu:

1. Neopveop sunepdi epf xjontz cz jewoph e sunepvod tjav-op xovjuav cecz ev mietv updi e nupvj. Pu catopitt emmuxif.

2. Josi jimq. Zua dep eggusf ov - cideati zua piif ov. Tuniupi piift vu jimq xovj vji cecz, epf vji catopitt. Hiv dummihi tvafipvt xju piif dsifov gus ep opvisptjoq. Haofi vjin, epf vjip ati zuas edanip vu qisgidv vjios xusl, atoph 20% ug zuas voni vu qumotj vji 80% vjiz'wi fupi gus 1,000% raemovz.

3. Neli voni gus xjev't onqusvepv. Tdjuum ot jidvod. Tu ot e catopitt. Tu ot nessoehi. Tu ot genomz. Ev vji ipf ug vji fez zua cuvj piif vu hu jesf, epf zua cuvj piif vu tedsogodi... epf tunivonit upi tedsogodit nusi vjep vji uvjis. Sihesfmitt, liiq vji muwi tvsuph.