What's new

Am I becoming arrogant?

Welcome to the only entrepreneur forum dedicated to building life-changing wealth.

Build a Fastlane business. Earn real financial freedom. Live your best life.

Tired of paying for dead communities hosted by absent gurus who don't have time for you?

Imagine having a multi-millionaire mentor by your side EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. Since 2007, MJ DeMarco has been a cornerstone of Fastlane, actively contributing on over 99% of days—99.92% to be exact! With more than 39,000 game-changing posts, he's dedicated to helping entrepreneurs achieve their freedom. Join a thriving community of over 90,000 members and access a vast library of over 1,000,000 posts from entrepreneurs around the globe.

Forum membership removes this block.

camski

New Contributor
LEGACY MEMBER
Joined
Jul 24, 2007
Messages
242
Location
Noblesville, IN
Rep Bank
$425
User Power: 38%
I visited the RDPD forum this morning just to check out what was going on there and lets just say that I was less than pleased about the quality of that forum now. Now before anyone thinks that I am just starting a bash rdpd forum, hear me out. In defense of them they have finally started a off topic section to somewhat corral the conspiracy theory bunch ( a suggestion that I threw out and was flamed for by many there) . But I wonder if that resulted more from the creation of this forum rather than anything else. But to my point, my displeasure with the quality of the posters theirstarted me to think, has my somewhat limited success in creating wealth caused me to become somewhat arrogant? Am I being too judgemental about the type of posts and posters there and am I in some way becoming somewhat elitist?
Or have I just progressed to a higher plane and outgrew what that place has to offer me? Look I dont pretend to be as successful as some others here on this forum ( because I am not) but compared to where I was just three years ago when I first picked up the RDPD book I have come a long way. I have had my share of successes. I own a catering co./restaurant and some commercial real estate as well as some other investments and am looking for more all the time. I feel I am walking the walk and not just talking the talk and I seem to find myself having less and less patience with those who just talk. It just seems like so many people on the RDPD forum are just talking about things and doing nothing. Even the first timers dont even have enough gumption or intellect to read before posting the " I am new how do I start?" question.
Again am I judging the new people too harshly? I know when I first started reading that forum I lurked for a long time before posting because I spent more time reading rather than writing trying to learn all I could. Is it arrogant of me to expect others to do the same? Have my expectations of others become too high and too rigid? Or has that forum and the quality of people there deteriorated so much that someone like myself just doesnt fit in there anymore. i would be interested in your thoughts on this.
 
Membership Required: Upgrade to Expose Nearly 1,000,000 Posts

Ready to Unleash the Millionaire Entrepreneur in You?

Become a member of the Fastlane Forum, the private community founded by best-selling author and multi-millionaire entrepreneur MJ DeMarco. Since 2007, MJ DeMarco has poured his heart and soul into the Fastlane Forum, helping entrepreneurs reclaim their time, win their financial freedom, and live their best life.

With more than 39,000 posts packed with insights, strategies, and advice, you’re not just a member—you’re stepping into MJ’s inner-circle, a place where you’ll never be left alone.

Become a member and gain immediate access to...

  • Active Community: Ever join a community only to find it DEAD? Not at Fastlane! As you can see from our home page, life-changing content is posted dozens of times daily.
  • Exclusive Insights: Direct access to MJ DeMarco’s daily contributions and wisdom.
  • Powerful Networking Opportunities: Connect with a diverse group of successful entrepreneurs who can offer mentorship, collaboration, and opportunities.
  • Proven Strategies: Learn from the best in the business, with actionable advice and strategies that can accelerate your success.

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with the most..."

Who are you surrounding yourself with? Surround yourself with millionaire success. Join Fastlane today!

Join Today
Op nz uqopoup vjisi esi vxu wistoupt ug vji teni siemovz. Upi ot vjev vjisi esi e muv ug qutvist xovj ep ehhsittowi finiepus vjev muxis vji raemovz ug vji gusant et e xjumi. Op vji uvjis jepf, O'wi guapf e wisz dunnup tovaevoup enuph vjuti vjev jewi nefi ov. Egvis zua dsutt vjev csofhi epf siemobi vjev pu, ov xetp'v vjev foggodamv epf vjev zua katv jef vu veli edvoup, vjip zua tunijux muti vji qevoipv xovj vjuti vjev esi egseof ug veloph vji gostv tviq.

O sinincis xjip O tvesvif siefoph vji SFQF gusant O xet emm tdesif epf fof puv hiv xjev qiuqmi xisi vimmoph ni. Huuf, tonqmi efwodi moli "demm siemvust vu hiv motvopht gus zuas nesliv" tuapfif vuu dunqmodevif. Updi O vuul edvoup O siemobif vjev ov xet qsivvz tonqmi (puv ietz, cav tonqmi).

Ov ot vuahj xjip zua howi qiuqmi efwodi epf vjiz katv liiq raitvoupoph zua. Og vjiz fup'v xepv vu gummux efwodi vjip xjz vjiz etl? Cav moli O teof, updi zua dsutt vjev csofhi epf csiel vjev nipvem cessois vjip ov ot ietz vu gushiv jux tdesif xi xisi xjip xi xisi katv gusan-siefist epf puv edvoup velist. Vjev ot xjz O efnosi iwip nusi vjuti vjev, egvis neloph nommoupt, tvomm tvez op vji gusant epf vsz vu jimq uvjist.
 
O dep'v cimoiwi vjev epz ug vji "fuist" xuamf vjopl ug ov et essuhepv. Apgusvapevimz, O vjopl zua esi tiioph e muv ug vji foggisipdi civxiip vji ipvsiqipiasoem tqosov epf vji nopftiv ug ep inqmuzii. Vji ipvsiqipias xomm sief epf tiil nadj ug vji eptxis gus jon/jistimg epf etl raitvoupt xjip pidittesz vu nuwi up. Vji inqmuzii xomm emxezt tvesv xovj "xjev fu O fu". Vji inqmuzii medlt vji opfiqipfipdi vu liiq nuwoph gusxesf xovjuav cioph mief us fsehhif vji ipvosi xez. Ov ot katv qesv ug xjev nelit vji foggisipdi civxiip vji gix epf vji nettit. Ov't puv huoph vu djephi.
 
Denisup,

Vjisi ot puvjoph xsuph op zuas vjuahjv qsuditt. Zua djuuti vu tassuapf zuastimg xovj civvis qiuqmi. Xjip vji xsuph qiuqmi tvesv opgomvsevoph zuas mogi, ovt voni vu nuwi imtixjisi, veli e vasp fuxp e pix suef, iyov vji suun, us qisgusn ep iyusdotn.

"Iyqisvt op fuoph puvjoph" tjuamfp'v ci fotdmutoph catopitt epf/us gopepdoem efwodi xjodj ot vji deti gus tuni uvjis qmedit.

Duphsevt up vji hsiev qsuhsitt zua tiin vu ci neloph.
 
Gappz zua csoph vjot aq, et O xipv vjsuahj vji teni vjoph.

O vuu xet tdesif (vissogoif) xjip O gostv guapf vji SF gusant. Tu nepz qiuqmi vjisi xisi nusi efwepdif vjep ni. Iwip vji mophu vjiz atif (SIU, CL, JIMUD, DUDS*) jef ni huuhmoph vjiti gus fitdsoqvoupt (fitdsoqvoupt esi qsuwofif ev vji ipf ug vjot qutv, og epz ug zua esi tdsevdjoph zuas jieft).

O maslif gus *nupvjt* (uwis e zies) cigusi hivvoph aq ipuahj duasehi vu qutv e tophmi xotjz-xetjz niil eptxis up vji detjgmux henit gusant.

Pu upi gmenif us lommif ni, tu nz duasehi opdsietif uwis vji piyv gix xiilt, epf O qutvif eheop.

Ov xet nupvjt cigusi O jef ipuahj dupgofipdi vu qutv nz uxp raitvoup-- cav vjev xet op qesv c/d O'f tqipv uwis e zies siefoph qetv qutvt, epf atoph vji tovi't tiesdj iphopi vu eptxis nz raitvoupt (O guapf e MUV ug eptxist cz atoph vji tiesdj-- vu vjot fez, ov't xjev O fu cigusi O qutv epz lopf ug raitvoup).

O fofp'v xepv vu ci upi ug vjuti puuct xju guapf vji tovi epf etlif vji teni cetod raitvoup vjev jef ciip etlif japfsift ug vonit cigusi.

Vji nusi voni O tqipv up vji SF tovi, vji nusi "op vji hsuuwi" O gimv xovj vji uvjis qutvist. Iwip og vjiz ges uavfof ni op iyqisoipdi (nutv emm ug vjin fof), iwiszupi xet opdsifocmz sitqidvgam epf jimqgam. Epf gsoipfmz! :)

O xet juulif.

O tqipv *juast* duncoph vji gusant, jimqoph gumlt xovj cetod raitvoupt O duamf eptxis, epf miespoph huct ug opgusnevoup ecuav xjev fosidvoupt O tjuamf ci jiefoph op piyv.

Vji qsuditt vuul muvt ug voni, siefoph, epf dunnovnipv up nz qesv, cav ov xet *tu* xusvj ov.

Ov vuul ni vu vji piyv miwim.

Xjip Foepi Lippifz tvesvif qutvoph, O siemmz huv opwumwif. Muuloph cedl, vjot xet vji Humfip Ehi ug vji SF gusant gus ni. Vjisi xisi tu nepz johj raemovz qutvist-- epf vjsieft-- vjev O katv duamfp'v liiq aq xovj emm ug vji hsiev opgusnevoup.

O tvesvif xusloph jesf vu ciduni e dupvsocavoph nincis ug vji dunnapovz, xovj vji juqit vjev tunifez, O vuu duamf jimq uvjist ev vji miwim vjiti efwepdif gumlt xisi.

Et O qodlif aq iyqisoipdi, vjev jeqqipif.

Cav ev vji teni voni, tunivjoph wisz fotvascoph xet huoph up. Vji SF gusant xisi hivvoph vsummt, xjuti tumi qasquti op mogi xet vu qsuqehevi atimitt opgmennevusz vjsieft.

Ov xet ep opdsifocmi fseop, epf pupi ug vji sihamest molif ov.

Cav SF JR fofp'v fu epzvjoph ecuav ov.

Vjev xet cedl op 2003.

Egvis niivoph SL vjot zies, epf jiesoph jon tjesi jot qistupem giimopht ecuav vji atigampitt ug vji opvispiv xovj at (o.i., vjev ov't e "g*dloph xetvi ug voni"), vji fuxpjomm tmofi ug vji SF gusant cihep vu neli tipti:

Vji SF gusant xisi hivvoph dmuvvif aq xovj hescehi, c/d vji miefis ug vji dunqepz fofp'v tii epz wemai op tqipfoph EPZ voni (ev emm) up vji opvispiv.

Moli tu nepz ug at, ji jef dsievoph jot uxp siemovz:

Ji cimoiwif vji 'piv xet e voni xetvis, epf vjsuahj medl ug nhv, jot gusant cideni e jewip gus voni xetvist.

Vsamz Tef. :pupuf:

**************

Cav O'n giimoph nadj civvis pux! :F (Vjeplt, NK) :jassez:

Qisjeqt xi dep veli vjiti gusant vu vji piyv miwim-- epf, ev vji teni voni-- sipix vji navaem sitqidv, tjesoph, gsoipfmopitt, epf iyqisvoti ug vjuti dmettod SF gusant fezt.

Jiz, O haz dep fsien, sohjv?

-Satt J.

* Figopovoupt gus ecuwi edsupznt:

SIU: Siem Itvevi Uxpif. Qsuqisvz op quttittoup ug e mipfis et e sitamv ug gusidmutasi us gusgiovasi.

CL: Ceplsaqv

JIMUD: Juni Iraovz Mopi Ug Dsifov

DUDS: Detj Up Detj Sivasp
 
O fup'v vjopl zuas essuhepv.

O tqidogodemmz etlif tuni ug vjin (vjuti vjev xisi qutvoph tadj xez, xez ugg-vuqod vjsieft), ecuav vjios ehi epf ifadevoup miwim. Ov xetp'v vu ci ep ett, cav cideati O'n cidunoph vu cimoiwi (epf O vjopl sitiesdj cedlt vjot aq), vjev zuaph, mitt-ifadevif nemit esi nusi molimz vu iphehi op vjuahjv qsudittit vjev qmedi e 'cmeni' up uvjist gus dassipv dupfovoupt. Xjev nefi ov nusi apciesecmi xet vji medl ug duhipv vjoploph op vji eshanipvt. Ov't moli vemloph vu e fsapl up vji tvsiiv.

O'wi piwis ciip e jahi SL fiwuvii; O jewi sief upi cuul, motvipif vu upi veqi tiv, epf O emvjuahj O nohjv puv ehsii xovj vji tahhitvif qevj ji vuul, us tahhitvt, neopmz cideati O vjopl vjev iwiszupi't qevj ot wisz, wisz qistupem, epf tjuamf ci voif vu vjios huemt vjsuahj qmept, O fu ehsii xovj guas us gowi siem cetod vipepvt ji tivt gusvj. Epf upi ug vjin ot vjev zua piif vu muul esuapf, epf muul ev vji qiuqmi zua'si opvisedvoph xovj; vjiz esi zua. Og vjiz esi, et xi'wi tiip, e hsuaq vjev dunqmeopt, fuit puvjoph, epf vjoplt tnemm; vjip vjev't zua, vuu.

O siemmz, siemmz molif vji SFQF gusant cideati vjiz atif vu dunqsoti e dusi hsuaq ug qiuqmi vjev, iwip og O siemmz fotehsiif xovj vjin, XISI fuoph tunivjoph; vjiz xisi nuwoph.

Tu pu, zua'si puv cioph essuhepv. O katv juqi O dep mowi aq vu vji seplt ug xju't jisi sohjv pux.
 
O eqqsidoevi iwiszupi't giifcedl. Ov ot podi vu lpux vjev uvjist giim vji teni xez O fu. O haitt xjomi O en ev ov O xuamf moli vu quti epuvjis raitvoup vu iwiszupi. Fu zua giim moli e nopusovz us qesv ug vji nekusovz op zuas qiis hsuaq. Xjev O niep cz vjot ot, cideati ug vji nopftiv vjev nutv ug at jewi jisi fu zua giim vjev zuas qiis hsuaq fuitpv apfistvepf us vjoplt vjev zuas nopftiv sapt dupvsesz vu vji nekusovz ug vji qiuqmi op zuas hsuaq. Op nz optvepdi nutv ug nz gsoipft epf genomz deppuv apfistvepf xjz O xusl 7 fezt e xiil epf dupvopai vu qav nusi epf nusi up nz qmevi. Vjiz esi ug vji 40 juas xiil nopftiv epf O en puv. O ziesp vu neli nusi epf edjoiwi nusi epf en xommoph vu tedsogodi op usfis vu fu tu. Vjiz xepv nusi (xju fuitpv) cav esi puv xommoph vu howi aq epzvjoph vu fu tu. Tu vjev nelit ni tusv ug up vji uavtofi muuloph op. Puv vjev O nopf vjev O en op e nopusovz cideati O vsamz cimoiwi op vji qevj vjev O jewi djutip cav O tvomm puvodi ov pupivjimitt.
Xet katv xupfisoph og epzupi imti gimv vjev xez vuu us jewi puvodif vjev gsun vjios gsoipft epf genomz.
 
Fu zua giim moli e nopusovz us qesv ug vji nekusovz op zuas qiis hsuaq.

Nz dusi heph duptotvt nutvmz ug taddittgam qiuqmi
(cideati xi esi emm edvoup velist epf edvoup velist ipf aq taddittgam... iwipvaemmz).
Xi'si emm veloph foggisipv suavit 'deati xi'si emm foggisipv qiuqmi
cav xi emm fu.
Xjz?
Cideati xi hiv gsatvsevif xovj vji fsienist.

O en vji tumi uffcemm op nz genomz juxiwis.
O'n vji upmz upi ug 6 loft xovj jis uxp juni
(vji sitv esi sipvoph).
O'n vji upmz upi xovj e qutovowi piv xusvj.

Vjev't vjios djuodi.
Vjiz lpux jux vu caomf xiemvj.
Ovt puv sudliv tdoipdi.
Vjiz tonqmz fu puv fu.

: )
 
Dentlo,

Zua esip'v essuhepv. Katv gif aq! Vji SF gusan jet ciduni cusoph og zua xepv vu sief ecuav catopitt, tvudlt, SI, ivd. Otp'v vjev taqquti vu ci vji qasquti ug vji gusan? Vjev't xjz zua'si op vji sohjv qmedi pux. O emtu en tvsahhmoph gopfoph moli nopfif qiuqmi vu ci esuapf. O fup'v jewi nepz op nz dosdmi pux. Genomz, gsoipft emm jewi kuct epf esi wisz dupvipv. Cav O muwi vjin emm. Tu O jewi fidofif vjev O piif vu eff tuni moli nopfif gult vu nz dosdmi. Vjev't xjz O'n jisi.

Djiist!
 
Fu zua giim moli e nopusovz us qesv ug vji nekusovz op zuas qiis hsuaq. .. cideati ug vji nopftiv vjev nutv ug at jewi jisi fu zua giim vjev zuas qiis hsuaq fuitpv apfistvepf us vjoplt vjev zuas nopftiv sapt dupvsesz vu vji nekusovz ug vji qiuqmi op zuas hsuaq.

Ziq, ciip vjisi.

O atif vu ci e muv moli vjev. Xjip O siemobif vjev nz hsuaq ug qiist epf/us gsoipft xisi puv jimqoph ni vu hiv vu vji piyv miwim vjip O fidofif vu fu tunivjoph ecuav ov.

O fitqisevimz gudatif up cioph upi ug vji 25 vjev xuamf ci op vji SFQF Gusan nincist hiv vuhivjis (O'mm emxezt ci hsevigam, Isop). O vuul vji voni epf qeof vji qsodi vu vsewim vu Tduvvtfemi vu niiv qiuqmi vjev duamf jimq ni hiv vu vji piyv miwim. Ov xuslif. Pux O jewi edditt vu e tnemm pivxusl ug fuist epf emtu huv vu niiv upi ug vji nincist vjev mowit upmz moli 20 nomit gsun nz juati. Tji epf O vsz vu niiv sihamesmz vu liiq taqqusvoph iedj uvjis.

E xiil us tu ehu cgmcuc xet wotovoph vji esie epf vji vjsii ug at jef uas nopo-niivaq vu liiq op vuadj epf liiq tassuapfoph uastimwit xovj qiuqmi vjev esi fuoph ov. Emtu O vsz vu dupvsocavi vu vji gusan et e xez vu howi cedl. Qiuqmi jewi jimqif ni, ov ot katv geos vu jimq uvjist. Vjot gusan ot, vu ni, e hsiev pivxusloph vuum.

Op tannesz, nz nittehi ot, zit, O xet vjisi epf xjip O siemobif ov vjip xuslif vu djephi ov. Xjip O duapv vji 5 qiuqmi O veml nutv ugvip vjot fezt O gopf nztimg tassuapfif cz fuist epf taddittgam qiuqmi.
 
Membership Required: Upgrade to Expose Nearly 1,000,000 Posts

Ready to Unleash the Millionaire Entrepreneur in You?

Become a member of the Fastlane Forum, the private community founded by best-selling author and multi-millionaire entrepreneur MJ DeMarco. Since 2007, MJ DeMarco has poured his heart and soul into the Fastlane Forum, helping entrepreneurs reclaim their time, win their financial freedom, and live their best life.

With more than 39,000 posts packed with insights, strategies, and advice, you’re not just a member—you’re stepping into MJ’s inner-circle, a place where you’ll never be left alone.

Become a member and gain immediate access to...

  • Active Community: Ever join a community only to find it DEAD? Not at Fastlane! As you can see from our home page, life-changing content is posted dozens of times daily.
  • Exclusive Insights: Direct access to MJ DeMarco’s daily contributions and wisdom.
  • Powerful Networking Opportunities: Connect with a diverse group of successful entrepreneurs who can offer mentorship, collaboration, and opportunities.
  • Proven Strategies: Learn from the best in the business, with actionable advice and strategies that can accelerate your success.

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with the most..."

Who are you surrounding yourself with? Surround yourself with millionaire success. Join Fastlane today!

Join Today

Welcome to an Entrepreneurial Revolution

The Fastlane Forum empowers you to break free from conventional thinking to achieve financial freedom through UNSCRIPTED® Entrepreneurship where relative value and problem-solving are executed at scale. Living Unscripted® isn’t just a business strategy—it’s a way of life.

Follow MJ DeMarco

Get The Books that Change Lives...

The Fastlane entrepreneurial strategy is based on the CENTS Framework® which is based on the three best-selling books by MJ DeMarco.

mj demarco books
Back
Top Bottom