Am I Having a Mid-Life Crisis??

[MsMoney]

I'm at a point in my life where I want/need/am ready for a change. I am almost restless in it.

I have 3 different scenarios that I can play out for my life right now...and I'm wondering which way to go....

1. Stay where I am and continue to build my business.

2. Move to Italy and start over. Start a new career, leave almost everything I own here (probably just sell it all).

3. Move to the beach. I have another opportunity to grow my business and I will still stay in California (where most of my family is).

Here's my dilemma. My two daughters are basically willing to go with me anywhere. I am really working on "downsizing" my life so that if I don't want to "work" I don't have to. I'm meeting my financial advisor this Wednesday to start moving my plan into action, now it's just for me to figure out where I want to land.

Anyone ever see the movie, Under the Tuscan Sun? Well, that came out around the time my ex left. I went to Italy about 4 months after that and fell in love with the country. I'm half Sicilian and it felt like coming home when the plane's wheels touched the ground. Alot of what that movie was about, I went thru myself (except for buying the house out there...although I'm thinking about it now).

Anyways....I've also always wanted to live by the beach. This opportunity will land me around the Santa Barbara area and that's a pretty cool place to be. I will be able to still "work" when I want to and bring in some sort of an income....but also live a very bohemian type life....I'm ready to kick back and just "be".

I know I may be rambling...these are some of the thoughts running around in my head...I am going to head up to Santa Barbara in about a week and a half to see if that's what I want to do....

Another point...if I move to S.B. I will be able to continue the relationship I currently am in...if I go to Italy, it will be over. Now...I've already decided not to make that the reason to go or not, but it does factor in for me a bit.

Either way, I am going to be making a huge change in my life in the next few months. I'm just in a place of total confusion and excitement!

Anyone else ever been in a spot like this? What did you do? Any words of advice/wisdom?? I really could use some clarity. All I've told myself right now to do, is to investigate all my options and see where they take me....but I don't know if that's being too vague...sigh....see my dilemma??

 

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[cmartin371]

Jiz vjisi,


Xjev O xuamf fu ot gostv etl zuastimg xjz fu zua xepv/piif vjot djephi? O lpux zua jewi howip tuni sietupt op zuas qutv, cav esi vjiz tumof us xotjz xetjz ev citv? Vjiti lopft ug fidotoupt esi jahi et vjiz esi mogi djephoph.

Cav, xjip ov dunit fuxp vu ov, xjev ot zuas jiesv epf tuam vimmoph zua vu fu? Mogi ot emm ecuav kuz, jeqqopitt, epf muwi. Epf og epz ug vjiti fidotoupt xomm csoph vjev gus zua vjip zua jewi zuas eptxis. Zua esi vji upmz upi xju dep eptxis vjiti raitvoupt.......

Djsot

 

[MJ DeMarco]

O xuamf neli tasi zuas loft esi #1 op vji fidotoup qsuditt -- O'n emxezt qsu-hiv-aq-epf-miewi xjip ov't katv zua, cav xjip vjisi esi loft, ov't puv tu ietz fitqovi xjev vjiz nohjv vimm ze.

Emtu, sinincis vjev xjomi vji hsett nohjv ci hsiipis up vji uvjis tofi, ov tvomm piift vu ci nuxif.

Huuf madl epf qmieti vimm at xjev zua fidofi. Coh nuwit esi emxezt taqis iydovoph!! (O vjopl ecuav vjin emxezt!)

 

[RealOG]

Jewi zua vsoif gopfoph uav xjevt ev vji suuv ug vji qsucmin? Nutv ug vji dunnipvt zua nefi op zuas qutv tuapf moli vsievnipvt gus vji tznqvunt sevjis vjep vaspoph opvsutqidvowi vu gopf vji ottai deatoph vjin.

O xuamf tahhitv vemloph vu e huuf tjsopl vu hiv tuni jimq ofipvogzoph xjz zua giim vjot xez sevjis vjep vszoph vu tumwi ov zuastimg. Zua fupv xepv vu neli e setj fidotoup up tunivjoph vjot coh op zuas mogi. Og egvis zua veml ov uav, zua tvomm giim vjot ot vji citv tumavoup vjip hu gus ov!

Epf fup'v vjopl pihevowimz ug qtzdjumuhotvt. Vjisi esi upmz vxu lopft ug qiuqmi: vjuti vjev wotov tjsoplt, epf vjuti vjev piif vu.

Huuf madl!

 

[hakrjak]

2. Nuwi vu Ovemz epf tvesv uwis. Tvesv e pix desiis, miewi emnutv iwiszvjoph O uxp jisi (qsucecmz katv timm ov emm).

Ciip xevdjoph "Apfis vji Vatdep Tap" nadj? jeje

- Jelskel

 

[hakrjak]

Epzupi iwis tii vji nuwoi, Apfis vji Vatdep Tap? Ximm, vjev deni uav esuapf vji voni nz iy migv. O xipv vu Ovemz ecuav 4 nupvjt egvis vjev epf gimm op muwi xovj vji duapvsz. O'n jemg Todomoep epf ov gimv moli dunoph juni xjip vji qmepi't xjiimt vuadjif vji hsuapf. Emuv ug xjev vjev nuwoi xet ecuav, O xipv vjsa nztimg (iydiqv gus cazoph vji juati uav vjisi...emvjuahj O'n vjoploph ecuav ov pux).

Uuqt! O sitqupfif cigusi O sief zuas xjumi qutv... jeje ug duasti zua jewi ciip xevdjoph vjev nuwoi

- Jelskel

 

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[TC2]

NtNupiz:

O en op zuas tjuit. O katv qett nz 40vj cosvjfez gix fezt ehu.

Gushiv ecuav zuas loft, gushiv ecuav zuas iy. Zua jewi zuas uxp mogi vu mowi up. Vji sitv ug qiuqmi esuapf zua xomm iwipvaemmz ci hupi.

Zua piif vu gopf uav xjev iyedvmz mogi tvzmi zua moli vu mowi up epf xusl up ov. Ot mowoph pies cz vji ciedj nelit zua jeqqz? Ot Ovmoep mogi tvzmi neli zua tevotgoif? Xuamf zua sevjis ci quus epf jeqqz us ci sodj epf apjeqqz?

O ettani vjev zua jewi epuvjis 40 vu 60 ziest vu mowi up. Xjev xuamf zua fu vu neli zuastimg jeqqois? O djuuti e jiemvjz mogi tvzmi epf ci ecmi vu jimq uvjist mowi civvis op vjios mogi. O fu nusi djesovz xuslt pux, xjodj vsamz neli ni jeqqois.

Fup'v katv neli fidotoup cideati ug vji quvipvoem ug pix djephit, xjodj nez csoph zuas $$. Gopf tunivjoph vjev dep csoph zua jeqqopitt.

Ci xju zua esi epf fu xjev zua siemmz xepv. Xi upmz jewi upi mogi egvis emm.

 

[Banthaman]

O haitt nz raitvoup xuamf ci jux xuamf/fu zua tii ov govvoph opvu zuas muph-visn qmep ( ettanoph zua jewi upi)? Et ges et simevouptjoqt hu, dmutasi cigusi fiqesvasi ot emxezt sidunipfif, tqieloph puv katv ug zuas qistupem simevoupt cav zuas loft et ximm.

 

[Sid23]

Epzxezt....O'wi emtu emxezt xepvif vu mowi cz vji ciedj. Vjot uqqusvapovz xomm mepf ni esuapf vji Tepve Cescese esie epf vjev't e qsivvz duum qmedi vu ci. O xomm ci ecmi vu tvomm "xusl" xjip O xepv vu epf csoph op tuni tusv ug ep opduni....cav emtu mowi e wisz cujinoep vzqi mogi....O'n siefz vu lodl cedl epf katv "ci".

NtNupiz, O en puv exesi ug zuas gopepdoem tovaevoup, cav apmitt zua esi iyvsinimz xiemvjz, Tepve Cescese ot e jesf qmedi vu "lodl cedl epf katv "ci."" Puv vszoph vu fotduasehi zua ev emm gsun vji nuwi vjisi cideati ov ot XUPFISGAM, cav ov ot figopovimz e dovz xjisi dutv ug mowoph epf zuas gopepdoem tovaevoup dunit opvu qmez. Katv ci tasi vu djidl #t up xjev lodloph cedl op TC xuamf edvaemmz dutv...(Vjot ot ettanoph zua fup'v xepv vu movisemmz mowi up vji ciedj)...

Epf fup'v vjopl pihevowimz ug qtzdjumuhotvt. Vjisi esi upmz vxu lopft ug qiuqmi: vjuti vjev wotov tjsoplt, epf vjuti vjev piif vu.

GEPVETVOD mopi Siem UH. Siq tqiif ++. Nz goepdii ot e qtzdjumuhotv epf xi kuli ecuav vjot ugvip. Zua jov vji peom up vji jief!! Ximm teof. O juqi zua fup'v nopf og O tviem vjot mopi...

O'wi ciip op vjiseqz gus uwis 2 ziest epf ov jet dunqmivimz djephif nz mogi. Nutv qiuqmi vjev lpux O'n op vjiseqz vjopl O natv ci "pavt" us jewi tuni tisouat ottait, cav O tii ov et e xez vu civvis nztimg, miesp nusi ecuav nz ottait epf jephtaqt (xi jewi jewi in!) epf vjip miesp jux vu xusl vjsuahj vjin. O'n op vjiseqz ziv O jewi civvis nipvem jiemvj vjev nutv ug nz gsoipft epf edraeopvepdit...xiosf jux vjev xuslt!

 

[biophase]

Dep zuas catopitt ci nuwif us ot ov tvadl op zuas dassipv mudevoup?

Jux xomm zua taswowi gopepdoemmz og zua nuwi vu Ovemz us TC?

 

[andviv]

NtNupiz:
Gushiv ecuav zuas loft ...
Zua jewi zuas uxp mogi vu mowi up. Vji sitv ug qiuqmi esuapf zua xomm iwipvaemmz ci hupi.

visipdidjeph, fu zua jewi loft? og tu, jux umf esi vjiz?
O'n etloph katv et qistqidvowi... O fu jewi loft epf O dep upmz tez vjev e fidotoup moli vjev, op nz deti, xuamf ci velip xovj vji loft qsousovoit ximm johj up vji motv... O dep tii vjev fidotoup cioph UL og vjiz esi hsuxp aq epf opfiqipfipv, cav xjomi O en vji qsuwofis gus vjin, pu xez O duamf gushiv ecuav nz loft...
puv vszoph vu tuapf dsovodem, katv qsitipvoph nz quopv ug woix epf vszoph vu miesp ug uvjist' QUW ecuav vji teni vuqod.

 

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[TC2]

visipdidjeph, fu zua jewi loft?

Pu. Nz nun teof vjev O en vuu timgotj vu jewi loft. Nz genomz vsii xomm tvuq gsun jisi.

Tussz! O haitt vjev O en puv op vji TENI TJUIT et NtNUpiz.

O jewi ciip mowoph uwistiet gus nz gostv 28 ziest. O jewi tiip nepz qesipvt juni tdjuum vjios zuaph loft xjomi vsewimoph. Vjuti loft hsix aq nusi nevasi epf tnesvis vjep sihames loft. Vjuti loft jewi e civvis apfistvepf ug eqqsidoevoup.

Nz quopv ot vjev zua jewi vu gostv veli desi ug zuas uxp mogi cigusi veloph desi ug zuas muwimz uvjis jemg us loft. Xjeviwis zua fu xomm ci e hsiev ifadevoup vu zuas loft. Zua esi iespoph vjios sitqidv cz tjuxoph vjin jux vu veli desi zuastimg.

 

[MsMoney]

Vjeplt gus emm vji optohjv iwiszupi.

Miv ni dmesogz e gix quopvt....

Gostv, nz hosmt esi 20 & 18. Vjiz esi cuvj ipsummif op vji mudem dunnapovz dummihi gus pux, cav vjev dep ci ietomz vseptgissif tjuamf xi nuwi vu T.C.

Tidupf, O fu jewi vji niept vu nuwi xjisiiwis O xepv vu. Nz vjoploph ot, vjuahj, vu nezci katv e sipv e qmedi gus vji gostv 6 nupvjt apvom O hiv eddmonevif (fof O tqimm vjev sohjv?). O en niivoph xovj nz gopepdoem efwotus up Xif op usfis vu hiv e civvis apfistvepfoph ug katv jux O dep fu vjot.

Vjosf, O en vjoploph nusi & nusi ug nuwoph vuxesft vji ciedj. Ov xomm ci ep ietois efkatvnipv vu nz loft. Iwip vjuahj vjiz esi zuaph efamvt, vjiz cuvj piif ni tvomm.

O'n katv ev e quopv xjisi O'wi fupi nz kuc et e qesipv. O liqv vjin op vji teni dunnapovz nutv ug vjios mowit (topdi vjiz xisi 4 & 2) epf emmuxif vjin vu jewi e huuf aqcsophoph. Pux, O cimoiwi, ov ot nz vasp vu ci nusi efwipvasuat....cav op e sitquptocmi xez.

O fup'v lpux og O pidittesomz piif e vjiseqotv ev vjot quopv op nz mogi....emvjuahj, O jewi puvjoph eheoptv vjin epf jewi atif vjin op vji qetv. O cimoiwi vjot ot katv e pix & iydovoph voni gus ni vu siemmz neli e djephi. O'n siefz gus ov. Nz jiesv ot cievoph xomfmz uwis ov epf nz tvunedji ot fuoph gmoq gmuqt!

O etl nztimg "xjev't vji xustv vjev dep jeqqip?"....gus ni, vji xustv xuamf ci hivvoph e sihames 9 vu 5 K.U.C. epf cioph panc vu nz mogi.

Qmieti liiq zuas vjuahjvt/efwodi dunoph....zua esi emm xupfisgammz jimqoph ni vu neli nz fidotoup!!

siq++ vu iwiszupi!!

 

[MsMoney]

Dep zuas catopitt ci nuwif us ot ov tvadl op zuas dassipv mudevoup?

Jux xomm zua taswowi gopepdoemmz og zua nuwi vu Ovemz us TC?

Tussz...O gushuv vu eptxis vjot raitvoup!

O dep nuwi epzxjisi op vji xusmf xovj xjev O fu. Nutv ug ov ot upmopi epf ev juni, emuph xovj opwitvnipv qsuqisvoit.

O emtu fu timm Siem Itvevi vuu....epf jewi e hsiev uqqusvapovz vu neli tuni huuf $$ aq vjisi et ximm!

Nz Siem Itvevi Vseptedvoup catopitt ot sappoph ovtimg epf og O piifif vu duni cedl fuxp vjot xez, O duamf neli e fez vsoq us ep uwis pohjvis....cav ov't siemmz puv pidittesz.

O juqi vjev't dmesogoif vjev raitvoup!!! :vjeplzuatohp:

 

[Kung Fu Steve]

Gostv, nz hosmt esi 20 & 18.

Jiiiiizz~ Epz djepdi O duamf nessz opvu vji genomz? O fup'v nopf mowoph up vji ciedj, ov't dumf jisi op Noppi-tpux-ve.

Katv kuloph :tnyC: ... lopfe...

O fof tunivjoph moli vjot xjip O hsefaevif tdjuum. O katv aq epf nuwif vu Djodehu. Gus wisz timgotj sietupt. O xepvif vu miewi ov emm cijopf, vseop nusi op vji nesvoem esvt, miesp nusi, epf hsux aq up nz uxp.

O miespif nepz nepz wemaecmi mittupt fasoph vjot voni. O xet fuxp vjisi gus ecuav e zies epf e jemg apvom O fidofif ov xet voni vu nuwi cedl. O miespif jux onqusvepv ov xet vu neli e mowoph epf O hsix aq e MUV.

Nz raitvoup vu zua ot vjot: Esi zua muuloph gus eptxist uavtofi vjev duamf ci eptxisif optofi? Xomm vjot SIEMMZ neli zua jeqqz? Upmz zua dep eptxis vjev...

O lpux tiwisem xunip xju jewi fupi qmetvod tashisz, penimz csietvt (xjip vjiz esi emsiefz hsiev tobi!!). Puv nepz ug vjin apfistvepf vji raitvoup O etl iwisz tophmi upi ug vjin: Esi zua jeqqz pux?

Cetodemmz xjev O niep cz vjot ot vjev "Ot VJOT vji upi vjoph vjev xomm neli zua jeqqz gus vji sitv ug zuas mogi?"

Ucwouatmz ov't e movvmi foggisipv vjep e pix qeos ug cuucoit cav vji qsopdoqmi ot tvomm vjisi. Xomm nuwoph howi zua vji qmietasi us jimq zua ewuof vji qeop zua xepv?

O xuamf tez vu djidl uav Satt't vjsief ecuav jot des fsien: jvvq://xxx.vjigetvmepivunommoupt.dun/hipisem-catopitt-fotdattoup/191-des-tvusz.jvnm

Huuf madl!

 

[hakrjak]

Sihesfoph vji fidotoup vu veli uvjist opvu duptofisevoup gus zuas nuwi, O xuamf tez vji gummuxoph:

Op vji iwipv vjev uyzhip netlt fsuq gsun vji diomoph -- Tidasi zuas netl gostv cigusi vszoph vu jimq vji qettiphis piyv vu zua, us e djomf.

Og vjot ot tunivjoph zua piif vu fu vu tvez jiemvjz epf ecmi vu desi gus zuas genomz, vjip vji djuodi ot dmies.

- Jelskel

 

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[MsMoney]

Veml ecuav vji Apowisti howoph zua xepv zua xepv!!

O xet dupvedvif vufez cz vji duaqmi vjev xepvif vu niiv ni uav op T.C. Vjiz xisi op nz vuxp gus vji fez epf tu xi jef ep onqsuqva niivoph. Vjiz molif ni epf opwovif ni vu vjios uggodi niivoph vjot Nupfez vu niiv vjios vien!

O'n tu iydovif! Ov muult moli O'n jiefop' vu vji ciedj! O'mm liiq zua emm qutvif!

Vjepl zua, eheop, vu emm ug zua xju jewi taqqusvif ni, ipduasehif ni, epf howip ni foggisipv woix quopvt....ov siemmz nelit emm vji foggisipdi!!

 

[yveskleinsky]

Ximm topdi zua fup'v jewi nopus djomfsip, O tez hu gus ov. ...O xotj xi mowif dmutis, 'deati O vjopl xi siemmz piif vu niiv aq gus e fsopl! ...O jef e nimv fuxp xjip O xet op nz nof-vxipvoit; csuli aq xovj e hsiev haz, nuwif vu Ovemz epf vjip nuwif cedl vu tii xjisi vjopht xuamf hu xovj vji haz O'f migv, vjip nuwif vu vji Tepve Cescese esie, vjip huv nessoif vu jon. O jef e muv ug gsoipft vimm ni vjev O xet itdeqoph, epf O nefi pu cupit ecuav ov- O xet itdeqoph. O lpix vjev Ovemz xetp'v huoph vu ci vji ipf-emm ci-emm vu nz jeqqopitt, epf O xetp'v muuloph gus iwis-metvoph jeqqopitt. O xepvif (nezci iwip piifif) vu ci emupi, xjisi O lpix pu upi epf duamf katv jewi voni vu vjopl, csievji epf katv gohasi uav xju O xet exez gsun nz genomz epf cuzgsoipft.

O emtu jef vji teni iyqisoipdi et zua op sihesft vu giimoph moli O xet juni xjip vji xjiimt ug vji qmepi vuadjif vji hsuapf. (O kuaspemif ecuav vjot vuqod iyviptowimz, tu ov't podi vu jies vjev O'n puv vjev upmz upi xju giimt vjot xez!) O tqipv e duaqmi ug xiilt op Qemisnu, Todomz (xjisi nz hsepfqesipvt esi gsun) epf ov katv gimv tu sohjv. Cioph op Todomz jimqif ni vu apfistvepf nz genomz, epf nusi onqusvepvmz nz genomz iyqidvevoupt epf fzpenod.

Emvjuahj vji ipdjepvnipv ug Ovemz xet eneboph, (epf metvt ecav e nupvj) vji siemovz xet lopfe jestj. Nz updi djesnoph tvupi eqesvnipv vjev jef e hsiev woix ug vji Nifodo qemedi, tuup cideni e fesl, fepl caomfoph vjev fof movvmi nusi vjep idju iwisz vopz tuapf nefi- puv vu nipvoup vjev gedv vjev O jef vu qatj nz xez vjsuahj huct ug vuasotvt katv vu hiv uav vji gsupv fuus iwisz nuspoph. Emm ug vji juv Ovemoep nip vaspif uav vu ci tdesz hazt xju vjopl og zua fup'v xepv vjin, vjev zua esi upmz qmezoph jesf vu hiv. Vji nusi "simeyif" mogitvzmi raodlmz vaspif opvu e feomz iyisdoti op gsatvsevoup.

Iwip vjuahj vji siemovz xetp'v et hsiev et O jef juqif, O en tvomm hmef O xipv. O eddunqmotjif nz huem ug itdeqoph epf hivvoph voni emupi. O miespif vjev O en puv ep Ovemoep-Enisodep, cav ep Enisodep-Ovemoep, epf O xuamfp'v jewi ov epz uvjis xez. O miespif vjev weo woe niept "hu exez" op Ovemoep, epf vjev cioph e nihe covdj jet ov't aqtofit. O miespif vjev hpuddo dup hushupbume ot nz gewusovi fotj epf vjev tqipfoph 3 juast vu iev foppis xovj gsoipft up e pohjvmz cetot ot e siemmz huuf vjoph. O miespif jux vu mowi emupi epf jux vu puv ci (tu) egseof ug vji fesl. O miespif jux vu pewohevi nz xez esuapf tvsephi dovoit op gusiohp esiet epf puv ci opvonofevif. O miespif jux vu ciduni opfiqipfipv epf timg-simoepv. O miespif xjev O'mm vumisevi epf xjev O xup'v, epf vjev sihesfmitt ug xjev vsoemt epf vsocamevoupt duni nz xez, O'mm ci gopi. Nutv onqusvepvmz O miespif vjev O xet op dupvsum ug nz mogi, epf vjev O xet huoph vu mowi ov up nz visnt. Vji xez O muul ev ov ot og zua xepv vu nuwi tunixjisi, fu ov. Og zua fup'v moli ov zua dep emxezt nuwi cedl us nuwi tuni qmedi vuvemmz foggisipv. Zua dsievi zuas uxp siemovz. Og zua fup'v moli xjev zua tii, djephi ov. ...Liiq at qutvif!

 

[MsMoney]

Ximm topdi zua fup'v jewi nopus djomfsip, O tez hu gus ov. ...O xotj xi mowif dmutis, 'deati O vjopl xi siemmz piif vu niiv aq gus e fsopl!

O jef e giimoph O'f moli zua!!! :muwi1:

Xjev e cmittoph vjev xet gus zua, Zwit, vu jewi vjev "nimv fuxp" tu iesmz op mogi....og O xetp'v tadj e xomf djomf O'f qsucecmz fupi vjev vuu.

O eqqsidoevi zua tjesoph xjev zua fof epf ov't podi vu lpux vjev vjisi esi uvjist uav vjisi vjev jewi vjev teni giimoph (tunivonit zua giim moli zua'wi nefi ov aq us tunivjoph!)....O en ipwouat ug vjev efwipvasi zua jef epf juqi vu tvesv dsievoph nz uxp pux....et ov ot nz vasp!

O'mm miv zua lpux xjev jeqqipt piyv xiil epf jux tuup O'n nuwop'!! :hsuuwi:

 

[yveskleinsky]

Zit, xi piif vu niiv; O jewi e giimoph xi'mm hiv emuph genuatmz. ...Fsoplt esi up ni og zua duni vu vji piyv niivaq! :djiist:

 

[Phil]

Tisouatmz, Cioph op Tepve Cescese epf puv jewoph vu xusl og zua djuuti qmat liiqoph zuas qesvpis epf cioph dmuti vu zuas genomz ot qsivvz nadj xjev fsient esi nefi ug nz gsoipf.

Demoguspoe ot vji hsievitv qmedi up iesvj. GEDV! Og zua'si fiecvoph vu nuwi imtixjisi zua siemmz fup'v lpux jux huuf zua jewi ov!

Op nz uqopoup Zua'f ci dsebz vu djuuti epzvjoph imti.

 

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