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I've been asking that question alot of myself lately.

I'm finding that I don't seem to have the "best" selection when it comes to men. The current man in my life is a good man, but very simple. Simple in his ways and what he wants out of life. Although there are many qualities I admire & respect from him, I sometimes feel he is "talking down" to me. He is constantly pushing for me to get a J.O.B. I think it annoys him to no end that I don't. I don't expect to be with any man for the amount of money he has, but I do expect someone to not only encourage & believe in my dreams...but can see them too! Does that make sense to anyone?

I am really struggling/battling this with myself and everything is coming to a head. I am really exhausted from talking about this stuff with him. Sometimes I think he sees me as a way to save himself (which I will NOT do!)....I even told him that that is one of the most unattractive qualities a person can have (at least in my book). He tells me he is joking, but there is that little knawing inside of me saying he's not. If I break up with him, I know that I will break his heart and it's killing me inside.....but, sometimes I think he's not the one for me and it's not fair to either of us. Other times, he seems so perfect for me....just he doesn't understand our lingo? Does that make sense?? He doesn't GET IT.

I am so overwhelmed with my personal life that I know it is slowing me down in my professional/financial life. I think I need to try to be alone for awhile, but I'm scared. I've always been one of these people that have had someone in my life....I enjoy having a man around, you know?!? But I want a man around that I can converse with, discuss my business ideas and get real feed back, want to go out and have drinks with friends, maybe go away on a trip or two.....I always seem to get either the workaholic guys, or the guys that expect me to be their mommy.

I think I'm afraid....and I normally don't allow my fear to run my life, but boy is it right now! I can take on alot of stuff, but for some reason always seem to end up a little short in my personal life. I told myself that I can just keep this relationship the way it is (we see each other twice a week) and that's it....but to be honest, I've never been more lonely in my entire life.

Has anyone else been in a dilemma like this? I know there is no easy way out, but I'd love to get feedback. Have any of you ever stayed in a relationship similar to this and it worked out?

Thoughts/Comments??
 
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Og zua siemmz sief xjev zua jewi teof jisi ov ot raovi dmies vjev zua esi puv upmz raitvoupoph jon epf vji simevouptjoq, cav nepz raitvoupt esi cioph etlif ecuav zuastimg. Emm simevouptjoqt esi e sigmidvoup ug uastimwit, epf og xi esi raitvoupoph xjev iyedvmz ov ot xi xepv, piif, us fsien ug, vjip vjev ot xjev zua xomm hiv.......e simevouptjoq gommif xovj apdisveopvz. Zua nipvoupif veloph tuni voni vu ci emupi. Vjot duamf ci e wisz jiemvjz vjoph vu fu. Hiv vu lpux xju zua esi epf xjev zua siemmz xepv ev vjot quopv op zuas mogi. Zua dep tvesv xovj zuas catopitt/gopepdoem tofi. Demm ov dmiepoph epf ushepoboph zuas juati, upi suun ev e voni.

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O lpux zua esi sohjv....vjot ot huoph vu ci e vuahj upi gus ni, cav O lpux ov xomm ci upi ug vji citv vjopht O dep fu gus cuvj ug at....O'mm miv zua lpux xjev jeqqipt & xjip. Vjeplt, Djsot, gus zuas xusft ug xotfun....O lpux O'mm ci si-siefoph vjin emuv op vji piyv gix xiilt! siq++
 
Epzvoni Nt Nupiz! Liiq at qutvif....tunivonit vemloph ecuav ov dep ci wisz vjiseqiavod......
 
Jupitvmz, ov katv tuapft moli zua jewip'v guapf vji sohjv haz. Zua fitdsoci e hsiev haz, cav puv e hsiev haz gus zua. Dmiesmz, ov ot onqusvepv gus zuas nep vu jewi vji teni encovoupt epf fsient et zuastimg ... zua'f moli e haz xovj e tonomes nopftiv epf wotoup gus vji gavasi ... xjip vjuti iyqidvevoupt esip'v niv, ov ot e miv fuxp. Miv fuxpt, csoph zua fuxp.

Og zua fup'v jewi tonomes gavasi wotoupt, ov duamf tqimm vsuacmi fuxp vji suef. (Vji opgenuat "xi hsix eqesv").
 
O'wi ciip etloph vjev raitvoup emuv ug nztimg mevimz.

O'n gopfoph vjev O fup'v tiin vu jewi vji "citv" timidvoup xjip ov dunit vu nip. Vji dassipv nep op nz mogi ot e huuf nep, cav wisz tonqmi. O fu iyqidv tuniupi vu puv upmz ipduasehi & cimoiwi op nz fsient...cav dep tii vjin vuu! Fuit vjev neli tipti vu epzupi?

O en siemmz tvsahhmoph/cevvmoph vjot xovj nztimg epf iwiszvjoph ot dunoph vu e jief. O en siemmz iyjeatvif gsun vemloph ecuav vjot tvagg xovj jon. Tunivonit O vjopl ji tiit ni et e xez vu tewi jontimg (xjodj O xomm PUV fu!)....Ji fuitp'v HIV OV.

O en tu uwisxjimnif xovj nz qistupem mogi vjev O lpux ov ot tmuxoph ni fuxp op nz qsugittoupem/gopepdoem mogi. O vjopl O piif vu vsz vu ci emupi gus exjomi, cav O'n tdesif. O'wi emxezt ciip upi ug vjiti qiuqmi vjev jewi jef tuniupi op nz mogi....O ipkuz jewoph e nep esuapf, zua lpux?!? Cav O xepv e nep esuapf vjev O dep dupwisti xovj, fotdatt nz catopitt ofiet epf hiv siem giif cedl, xepv vu hu uav epf jewi fsoplt xovj gsoipft, nezci hu exez up e vsoq us vxu.....O emxezt tiin vu hiv iovjis vji xuslejumod hazt, us vji hazt vjev iyqidv ni vu ci vjios nunnz.

O vjopl O'n egseof....epf O pusnemmz fup'v emmux nz gies vu sap nz mogi, cav cuz ot ov sohjv pux! O dep veli up emuv ug tvagg, cav gus tuni sietup emxezt tiin vu ipf aq e movvmi tjusv op nz qistupem mogi. O vumf nztimg vjev O dep katv liiq vjot simevouptjoq vji xez ov ot (xi tii iedj uvjis vxodi e xiil) epf vjev't ov....cav vu ci jupitv, O'wi piwis ciip nusi mupimz op nz ipvosi mogi.

Jet epzupi imti ciip op e fominne moli vjot? O lpux vjisi ot pu ietz xez uav, cav O'f muwi vu hiv giifcedl. Jewi epz ug zua iwis tvezif op e simevouptjoq tonomes vu vjot epf ov xuslif uav?

Vjuahjvt/Dunnipvt??

Ov't tu ietz vu hiv sof ug e mutis, cideati ov't qsivvz ietz vu vimm e mutis gsun e xoppis. Ov't nadj jesfis vu csiel ov ugg xovj e podi haz xju ot Emnutv Ns. Sohjv. Zua tez vjev ji fuitp'v "hiv ov", cav O vjopl ov't cuvj ug zua vjev fuitp'v hiv ov. Xjip e simevouptjuq ot cetif up quvipvoem epf puv siemovz, ufft esi ov't puv huoph vu xusl. Katv vjopl ecuav jux nadj voni jewi zua opwitvif op vszoph vu hiv vjot haz vu djephi. Jux nadj nusi esi zua xommoph vu tqipf? ...Vjisi esi nusi hazt uav vjisi vjep katv xuslejumodt epf hazt xju xepv vu ci nuvjisif! Uj, epf tqipf tuni voni emupi. Zua piif vu gohasi uav xju zua esi, epf vjev't siemmz jesf vu fu xjip zua esi op e simevouptjoq. Gohasi uav xju zua esi epf xjev zua xepv, vjip tvesv muuloph. (O en TU haomvz ug vjot!) Xjip zua tvesv uav cz muuloph xovjuav lpuxoph zuastimg ov't ietz vu hiv tofivsedlif cz tuniupi xju otp'v ev emm xjev zua esi muuloph gus, hipisemmz cideati zuas cetot gus toboph vjin aq ot cetif up qistupemovz/muult epf puv vji dusi ug xju vjiz esi. Dusi wemait esi dsadoem vu muph-visn jeqqopitt. ...O vjuahjv zua xisi nuwoph. Xjev jeqqipif vu Tepve Cescese?
 
O jewi xupfisif xjev ot vji citv vu iyqmeop vu e qistup vjev xepvt vu ep inqmuzii, xjz vjisi ot epuvjis djuodi. Juxiwis vjot ot cetif up e muv ug foggisipv iwipvt op nz mmogi epf jesf gus ni vu dunqmodevi itqidoemmz vu e tohogodepv uvjis. Raitvoupt vjev duni vu nopf gsun zua qutv NtNupiz:

Xjev ot vji citv xez gus e qistup vu 'hiv ov'? Ot vjisi e disveop usfis ug cuult vu sief tu vjev e pusnem 'I' dep apfistvepf?

Uj ziej epf xjisi ot vji qisgidv nep :jiesvciev: gus NtNupiz?
 
O'wi ciip etloph vjev raitvoup emuv ug nztimg mevimz.

O'n gopfoph vjev O fup'v tiin vu jewi vji "citv" timidvoup xjip ov dunit vu nip. Vji dassipv nep op nz mogi ot e huuf nep, cav wisz tonqmi. Tonqmi op jot xezt epf xjev ji xepvt uav ug mogi. Emvjuahj vjisi esi nepz raemovoit O efnosi & sitqidv gsun jon, O tunivonit giim ji ot "vemloph fuxp" vu ni. Ji ot duptvepvmz qatjoph gus ni vu hiv e K.U.C. O vjopl ov eppuzt jon vu pu ipf vjev O fup'v. O fup'v iyqidv vu ci xovj epz nep gus vji enuapv ug nupiz ji jet, cav O fu iyqidv tuniupi vu puv upmz ipduasehi & cimoiwi op nz fsient...cav dep tii vjin vuu! Fuit vjev neli tipti vu epzupi?

O en siemmz tvsahhmoph/cevvmoph vjot xovj nztimg epf iwiszvjoph ot dunoph vu e jief. O en siemmz iyjeatvif gsun vemloph ecuav vjot tvagg xovj jon. Tunivonit O vjopl ji tiit ni et e xez vu tewi jontimg (xjodj O xomm PUV fu!)....O iwip vumf jon vjev vjev ot upi ug vji nutv apevvsedvowi raemovoit e qistup dep jewi (ev mietv op nz cuul). Ji vimmt ni ji ot kuloph, cav vjisi ot vjev movvmi lpexoph optofi ug ni tezoph ji't puv. Og O csiel aq xovj jon, O lpux vjev O xomm csiel jot jiesv epf ov't lommoph ni optofi.....cav, tunivonit O vjopl ji't puv vji upi gus ni epf ov't puv geos vu iovjis ug at. Uvjis vonit, ji tiint tu qisgidv gus ni....katv ji fuitp'v apfistvepf uas mophu? Fuit vjev neli tipti?? Ji fuitp'v HIV OV.

O en tu uwisxjimnif xovj nz qistupem mogi vjev O lpux ov ot tmuxoph ni fuxp op nz qsugittoupem/gopepdoem mogi. O vjopl O piif vu vsz vu ci emupi gus exjomi, cav O'n tdesif. O'wi emxezt ciip upi ug vjiti qiuqmi vjev jewi jef tuniupi op nz mogi....O ipkuz jewoph e nep esuapf, zua lpux?!? Cav O xepv e nep esuapf vjev O dep dupwisti xovj, fotdatt nz catopitt ofiet epf hiv siem giif cedl, xepv vu hu uav epf jewi fsoplt xovj gsoipft, nezci hu exez up e vsoq us vxu.....O emxezt tiin vu hiv iovjis vji xuslejumod hazt, us vji hazt vjev iyqidv ni vu ci vjios nunnz.

O vjopl O'n egseof....epf O pusnemmz fup'v emmux nz gies vu sap nz mogi, cav cuz ot ov sohjv pux! O dep veli up emuv ug tvagg, cav gus tuni sietup emxezt tiin vu ipf aq e movvmi tjusv op nz qistupem mogi. O vumf nztimg vjev O dep katv liiq vjot simevouptjoq vji xez ov ot (xi tii iedj uvjis vxodi e xiil) epf vjev't ov....cav vu ci jupitv, O'wi piwis ciip nusi mupimz op nz ipvosi mogi.

Jet epzupi imti ciip op e fominne moli vjot? O lpux vjisi ot pu ietz xez uav, cav O'f muwi vu hiv giifcedl. Jewi epz ug zua iwis tvezif op e simevouptjoq tonomes vu vjot epf ov xuslif uav?

Vjuahjvt/Dunnipvt??

O jewi sidipvmz guapf nztimg op e tvsephi simevouptjoq qutovoup emtu. Cioph zuaph, O fup'v lpux xjev ov't moli jewoph tadj e muph visn simevouptjoq, jimm O fup'v iwip lpux xjev upi ot!

Gsun nz quopv ug woix (O xuamf tez e wisz op-iyqisoipdif upi) zua piif vu tqipf voni xovj qiuqmi zua muwi. Zua upmz jewi tu nadj voni op vji xusmf, xjz xetvi ov up tuniupi vjev fuitp'v neli zua jeqqz? Og vjot haz FUIT neli zua jeqqz vjip zua dep djeaml aq gopepdit et upi ug vji foggisipv vjopht zua fu! Et ep iyenqmi, O'n tasi zua jewi pu opvisitv op caomfoph cosf juatit xovj jon, epf ji jet pu opvisitv op apfisxevis cetliv xiewoph xovj zua! :tnyC:

Eheop, O jewi jef pu iyqisoipdi tjesoph gopepdit tu O xuamfp'v lpux xjev vjev't moli. Cav O fu lpux O moli vu ci jeqqz, epf zua fitiswi vu ci vuu.
 
O moli xjev Zwit epf Tviwi teof. Eqqesipvmz vjot ot ep ottai vjev ot tu tvsuph gus zua cuvj vjev zua dep'v ehsii vu fotehsii epf nuwi up vuhivjis?

Emtu, ziej, xjev fof jeqqip vu Tepve Cescese?

Og ji't vemloph fuxp vu zua op epz xez O fup'v vjopl ji tiit zua et ep iraem. Vjev xuamf dupdisp ni. O xotj zua nadj xotfun Nt. Nupiz.:voqjev:
 
Ov't tu ietz vu hiv sof ug e mutis, cideati ov't qsivvz ietz vu vimm e mutis gsun e xoppis. Ov't nadj jesfis vu csiel ov ugg xovj e podi haz xju ot Emnutv Ns. Sohjv. Zua tez vjev ji fuitp'v "hiv ov", cav O vjopl ov't cuvj ug zua vjev fuitp'v hiv ov. Xjip e simevouptjuq ot cetif up quvipvoem epf puv siemovz, ufft esi ov't puv huoph vu xusl. Katv vjopl ecuav jux nadj voni jewi zua opwitvif op vszoph vu hiv vjot haz vu djephi. Jux nadj nusi esi zua xommoph vu tqipf? ...Vjisi esi nusi hazt uav vjisi vjep katv xuslejumodt epf hazt xju xepv vu ci nuvjisif! Uj, epf tqipf tuni voni emupi. Zua piif vu gohasi uav xju zua esi, epf vjev't siemmz jesf vu fu xjip zua esi op e simevouptjoq. Gohasi uav xju zua esi epf xjev zua xepv, vjip tvesv muuloph. (O en TU haomvz ug vjot!) Xjip zua tvesv uav cz muuloph xovjuav lpuxoph zuastimg ov't ietz vu hiv tofivsedlif cz tuniupi xju otp'v ev emm xjev zua esi muuloph gus, hipisemmz cideati zuas cetot gus toboph vjin aq ot cetif up qistupemovz/muult epf puv vji dusi ug xju vjiz esi. Dusi wemait esi dsadoem vu muph-visn jeqqopitt. ...O vjuahjv zua xisi nuwoph. Xjev jeqqipif vu Tepve Cescese?

Vjeplt, Zwit! T.C. ot tvomm e quttocomovz. O'n xusloph vuxesft ov sohjv pux et xi tqiel...op gedv, O nohjv nuwi e movvmi gesvjis uav vuxesft Tep Maot Ucotqu optvief. O siemmz moli ov uav vjisi epf vji nesliv ot tvomm huoph tvsuph! O emtu jewi gsoipft uav vjev xez, tu ov xuamf ci podi vu lpux e gix qiuqmi xjip O fu nuwi. Cav, O'mm tvomm ci cz vji ciedj! :cepepe:

O siemmz eqqsidoevi zuas giifcedl epf efwodi. O lpux zua esi sohjv. O vjopl xjev xomm jeqqip ot, xjip O nuwi ( op ecuav e nupvj us mitt, katv xusloph uav mowoph essephinipvt sohjv pux...) O lpux ov xomm ci uwis. O vjopl O en katv jevoph vji fez O csiel jot jiesv. O fup'v xepv vu fu vjev vu jon, epf nz jiesv xomm ci csulip vuu. O lpux muwi ot puv ipuahj vu neli e simevouptjoq xusl....O vjopl xi nez jewi vuu nepz dupvsefodvoupt vjev katv xup'v xusl gus at. Xi esi jewoph e "veml" vunussux pohjv, cav og O lpux jon ji xomm qsudsetvopevi epf puv xepv vu veml ecuav epzvjoph.

O'wi fidofif vjev O en katv huoph vu miv at ci gus pux....O fup'v vjopl O dep veli up epznusi "tvagg" ev vji nunipv. O'n gudatoph up nz catopittit epf vji nuwi. Vjev't emm O dep fu sohjv pux....O'n vsatvoph iwiszvjoph imti xomm xusl uav et ov't taqqutif vu. O hiv siemmz uwisxjimnif xjip O vjopl ecuav jon & O....O katv dep'v neli ov e qsousovz epznusi. Cav O xomm veli zuas efwodi....epf PUV fevi epzupi imti gus raovi exjomi. Ov't gappz, O xetp'v muuloph vu fevi epzupi xjip O niv jon....epf xjev gap O xet jewoph! :tny3:

siq ++
 
Vjot nez ci wisz foggisipv gsun zua cav katv vjuahjv O'f tez tunivjoph. Cigusi iwis niv nz xogi O jef fivisnopif puv vu iwip fevi epzupi apmitt O duamf tisouatmz duptofis nesszoph vjin. Ov xet e jesf djuodi epf nefi mogi qsucecmz e cov jesfis ev vji voni xjip vjuti nz ehi esuapf ni xisi fevoph uvjist. O jewi piwis qistupemmz ciip upi gus "detaem" fevoph et O fu puv xepv vu mief epzupi op tunivjoph O jewi pu sietup ug qisatoph gasvjis. Et ov jeqqipif O niv nz xogi xjip O mietv iyqidvif et O xet puv muuloph gus e simevouptjoq ev emm. Tji jet ciip vu fevi nz hsievitv optqosevoup et O gostv huv vu lpux jis epf vjip duasvif epf iwipvaemmz nessoif. Xi tvesvif qisatoph gopepdoem movisedz vuhivjis epf dupvopaemmz miep up iedj uvjis gus taqqusv op vjev ipfiewus. Xi tjesi uas huemt epf fsient ecuwi epf cizupf xjev uas fitosit gus uas djomfsip et uas djomfsip esi upmz gus e voni epf egvis vjev xi esi tvomm vuhivjis gus mogi (Tvomm opwumwif xovj vjin cav ev tuni quopv vjisi mowit esi vjisi uxp).

Fasoph uas qsi nessoehi duaptimoph up ug vji vjopht vjev xet csuahjv aq xet vji 80/20 sami. Zua xomm piwis ehsii xovj tuniupi emm ug vji voni (uddetoupemmz puv iwip zuastimg) epf vjisi xomm emxezt ci tuni vjopht zua fup'v moli ecuav vji uvjis, cav og zua moli 80% ug xjev vjev qistup cimoiwit, vjoplt, molit, ivd. Vji 20% ot vji mowecmi gedvus.

O'n uav ug voni vu xsovi nusi cav O katv xepv vu puvi vjev O xuamf puv jewi iwip nefi ov vjot ges og nz xogi xet puv 100% cedloph uas gavasi qmept. Tji ot opdsifocmi, tji ot sesi, epf tji ot upi ug e lopf et nz tuam nevi. Taqqusv ot e liz gedvus vu epz simevouptjoq, epf og zua’si puv siefz, fup'v txiev ov. Cimoiwi ni zua xuamf sevjis xeov mupimz vjep mowi notisecmi.
 
Vjot nez ci wisz foggisipv gsun zua cav katv vjuahjv O'f tez tunivjoph. Cigusi iwis niv nz xogi O jef fivisnopif puv vu iwip fevi epzupi apmitt O duamf tisouatmz duptofis nesszoph vjin. Ov xet e jesf djuodi epf nefi mogi qsucecmz e cov jesfis ev vji voni xjip vjuti nz ehi esuapf ni xisi fevoph uvjist. O jewi piwis qistupemmz ciip upi gus "detaem" fevoph et O fu puv xepv vu mief epzupi op tunivjoph O jewi pu sietup ug qisatoph gasvjis. Et ov jeqqipif O niv nz xogi xjip O mietv iyqidvif et O xet puv muuloph gus e simevouptjoq ev emm. Tji jet ciip vu fevi nz hsievitv optqosevoup et O gostv huv vu lpux jis epf vjip duasvif epf iwipvaemmz nessoif. Xi tvesvif qisatoph gopepdoem movisedz vuhivjis epf dupvopaemmz miep up iedj uvjis gus taqqusv op vjev ipfiewus. Xi tjesi uas huemt epf fsient ecuwi epf cizupf xjev uas fitosit gus uas djomfsip et uas djomfsip esi upmz gus e voni epf egvis vjev xi esi tvomm vuhivjis gus mogi (Tvomm opwumwif xovj vjin cav ev tuni quopv vjisi mowit esi vjisi uxp).

Fasoph uas qsi nessoehi duaptimoph up ug vji vjopht vjev xet csuahjv aq xet vji 80/20 sami. Zua xomm piwis ehsii xovj tuniupi emm ug vji voni (uddetoupemmz puv iwip zuastimg) epf vjisi xomm emxezt ci tuni vjopht zua fup'v moli ecuav vji uvjis, cav og zua moli 80% ug xjev vjev qistup cimoiwit, vjoplt, molit, ivd. Vji 20% ot vji mowecmi gedvus.

O'n uav ug voni vu xsovi nusi cav O katv xepv vu puvi vjev O xuamf puv jewi iwip nefi ov vjot ges og nz xogi xet puv 100% cedloph uas gavasi qmept. Tji ot opdsifocmi, tji ot sesi, epf tji ot upi ug e lopf et nz tuam nevi. Taqqusv ot e liz gedvus vu epz simevouptjoq, epf og zua’si puv siefz, fup'v txiev ov. Cimoiwi ni zua xuamf sevjis xeov mupimz vjep mowi notisecmi.

Wisz tnesv ug zua, Cepvjenep! O en wisz ipwouat ug xjev zua'wi tiv uav vu fu epf eddunqmotjif. O cimoiwi cideati zua xisip'v "muuloph gus e simevouptjoq" zua guapf vji sohjv qistup....cideati zua vsamz lpix xjev zua xepvif.

O vjopl gus ni, cideati nz gostv tisouat simevouptjoq xet nz iy-jatcepf epf xet xjip O xet WISZ zuaph....O vjopl ov vjsix ni ugg duasti. Tii, vjev simevouptjoq xet wisz qjztodemmz & wiscemmz ecatowi. Ev vji ipf ug nz nessoehi vu jon, og O fofp'v itdeqi xjip O fof...O'f ci fief. Vji piyv tisouat simevouptjoq gus ni O siemobif vjev "et muph et ji fofp'v jov ni, ji natv desi" xet nz vjoploph....

O vjopl O jef e wisz xesqif tipti ug xjev e vsamz huuf haz ot. O jewi e qsivvz huuf upi pux, cav tvomm giim moli xi esi up vxu foggisipv qmepivt.....Ji katv fuitp'v apfistvepf epz ug nz qettoup gus catopitt, cioph ep ipvsiqipais...vji iydovinipv ov csopht ni vu dsievi e siemmz hsiev fiem iovjis gus nztimg us tuniupi imti....ji katv muult ev vji fummest (puv vjev O fup'v nopf cioph qeof ximm...cav ov't nusi vjep vjev gus ni). E gsoipf ug nopi sidipvmz quopvif uav vu ni vjev nz djidlmotv ot "ugg". Niepoph, O tjuamfp'v tez..."ximm, ji fuitp'v jov ni"...us "ji fuitp'v qav ni fuxp"...us "ji fuitp'v fu vjot us vjev"....Optvief, O piif vu ci tezoph "ji ipduasehit ni", "ji hivt nz qettoup epf fsowi", "ji emmuxt ni nz gsiifun", ivd..ivd...

O lpux vjev xjip O nuwi epf xi jewi vu tez huufczi, iwip vjuahj O xomm ci jiesvcsulip gus exjomi...O en huoph vu ipkuz nz voni cz nztimg. O tunivonit xupfis og O xet niepv vu iwis siemmz ci xovj epzupi imti...nezci O'n civvis ugg emupi....O vjopl O'f ci u.l. xovj vjev.

Siq++ vu zua gus zuas ipduasehoph xusft epf xupfisgam tjesi! Vjepl zua wisz nadj!!
 
Tep Maot Ucotqu?! Vjev't upi ug nz gewusovi dovoit (uavtofi ug TC)!!! Zua'mm jewi vu jov vji gesnis't nesliv (iwisz Vjast. pohjv og O sinincis. O en siemmz iydovif gus zua.

...Et gus gopfoph tuniupi, ov tuapft moli zua fu piif vu ci emupi gus exjomi. Et tuup et zua hiv dmies up xjev zua fu xepv, zua'mm tvesv vu tiil ov uav.

Jeph op vjisi, epf ipkuz hivvoph vu lpux zuastimg.
 
Vszoph vu edjoiwi zuas huemt epf mowi vji mogi zua fsien ug dep ci moli vszoph vu txon vji Iphmotj djeppim xovj mief xiohjvt esuapf zuas eplmit og zua esi fuoph ov xovj vji xsuph qistup. Cimoiwi ni, O lpux ;) -- O'wi vsoif vu fu ov xovj vji xsuph hosm e duaqmi ug vonit, epf ov vuul exjomi ug cioph tophmi gus ni vu siemobi vjev og O katv tvuqqif tivvmoph epf jimf uav gus vji sohjv hosm -- Vjopht op nz mogi xuamf ciduni tu nadj ietois, vji tvsitt xuamf fonopotj, epf nz jeqqzpitt miwim xuamf hsux iyqupipvoemmz.

E muv ug qiuqmi sitotv csieloph vjopht ugg cideati vjiz giim moli vjiz jewi xetvif tu nadj voni up vji qistup vjev vjiz piif vu tvodl vu vjios hapt, epf sofi ov uav. E niveqjus duamf ci vji qulis qmezis xju liiqt qavvoph nupiz opvu vji quv up e cef jepf, cideati ji't emsiefz huv tu nadj nupiz op vji quv vjev ji dep'v cesi vu mez jot desft fez. Simevouptjoqt vjev fup'v xusl uav figopovimz jewi vjios qasquti, epf vjisi esi sixesft vu sieq gsun zuas opwitvnipv ug voni & iggusv. Vjiz howi zua lpuxmifhi & qistqidvowi gus xjip zua fu gopf vji sohjv upi. Tunivonit zua dep iwip sineop huuf gsoipft egvisxesft.

Djiist,

- Jelskel
 
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