Hello everyone. Thanks for adding me to the forum. After looking at a lot of these kind of pages and books and courses etc… this forum seems like a bit of fresh air. The get rich quick mass marketing stuff has always seemed insane to me. There are supposed “marketing” experts with 800 Twitter followers. It blows my mind. Yet they’ll sell you their course for $199 bucks or whatever.
My story.
I’ve been a musician since I first touched a guitar when I was 10 years old (now in my late 30s). I knew the moment I touched it, I was hooked. Prior to picking up the guitar, I was very much into art, particularly drawing, but essentially dropped it. I’m still hooked (and I still draw).
At 19 I moved to NYC to play music and live the dream, for a multitude of reasons, I got stuck in the rat race of working all the time, but not working towards something. NY has a way of holding you back while taunting you with grandiose. After 4 year or so I moved away. However, I moved there with basically no money, wouldn’t take support from my family even when they offered it, and made it myself, on my own, paying every one of my bills. There were times at first when I remember only eating a bag of “party mix” as my entire meal for the day while I slept on a couch at some persons house. I was determined.
I met my wife and we got married in Ohio. We eventually moved back to NYC and I was taking crappy job after crappy job. After reading about Richard Feynman and his way of seeing Calculus, it opened the door for me to explore engineering. I had at that point done random work for sound design, creating sound systems for churches and clubs in NYC. I always knew how to turn the knobs, but never knew how the knobs actually worked. I decided to study electrical engineering.
I’ve worked in this field for some time now, and at the same time I maintain a pretty regular music schedule. My bands have toured the eastern US and some Europe. I also became an engineer because I finished a degree in jazz and classical music as well. Like I said, I’m obsessed with music.
So why am I here?
You know, when you’re an artist, people always say to you, “when are you going to grow up?” As an engineer, working my safe and good job, all I can think to myself is, “yo, when are you going to grow up and do something with your life?”
I think about my children, they see my wife and me working for the “man”. Just doing what we’re told. I want to inspire them to do whatever they want, but I’d be a fraud to not do it myself. I keep thinking, “when are you going to do something with your life?”
So here I am.
In the last few weeks I’ve started structuring plans for 2 businesses and finishing a book I’ve always meant to write.
The first business I created came out of an argument with my wife. We determined that we were very average. It was tough to swallow, but frankly we are just following suit. We are currently on pace to pay off our student debt in 25 years, our new mortgage in 29 years and basically just be in debt the rest of our lives. Even if we completely excel at our current employers, we might only be able to take a few years off of those estimates, but once our children go to college, all bets are off. We are wage slaves.
The first business we started is a blog/branding opportunity based on the idea that we accept that we are average, we know everything we do will probably suck, we accept it, and you know what, we don’t have to be perfect. We just need to move forward and do something. We are using this first business to be our guinea pig as we test marketing strategies, blog writing, and the principle of breaking the procrastination. I’ve maintained writing blog posts daily, and I’m rather loving it. It’s letting me explore a lot of ideas I’ve had. The theme of the brand is to get people to ignore their egos and just ‘go for it”
The second business I’m working on is finally building up the engineering company I’ve always wanted to make. I am an idea guy, I’m a problem solver. I see how much horrible work is done out there and I know we can compete. You might be surprised at the level of crappy engineering out there. I think we can help. I think we can do something great. At some point I'd like to see what I'm doing incorporate my love of music, but I want to be focused as much as possible here for now.
I’m also 20,000 words into a 50,000 plus word book on musical theory concepts that I’ve been developing for the last 25 years. I have written a chapter every day and making good progress. I’ve got the assistance of many high level musicians to help me edit the book, and I’m excited to share some things. I’m writing this, if for nothing else, for my children. If they ever decide to get into music, they’ll know where my head is, honestly though, I think it is shaping up into something actually really good and missing from the market place. I’m a conceptual thinker, and these concepts aren’t well represented at all.
I have not read the books yet, though, before I knew I could get anything free, had ordered the Kindle and Audio versions of the book which I will begin today for Unscripted . Looking forward to it.
Thanks again, and I appreciate you reading.
Cheers.
My story.
I’ve been a musician since I first touched a guitar when I was 10 years old (now in my late 30s). I knew the moment I touched it, I was hooked. Prior to picking up the guitar, I was very much into art, particularly drawing, but essentially dropped it. I’m still hooked (and I still draw).
At 19 I moved to NYC to play music and live the dream, for a multitude of reasons, I got stuck in the rat race of working all the time, but not working towards something. NY has a way of holding you back while taunting you with grandiose. After 4 year or so I moved away. However, I moved there with basically no money, wouldn’t take support from my family even when they offered it, and made it myself, on my own, paying every one of my bills. There were times at first when I remember only eating a bag of “party mix” as my entire meal for the day while I slept on a couch at some persons house. I was determined.
I met my wife and we got married in Ohio. We eventually moved back to NYC and I was taking crappy job after crappy job. After reading about Richard Feynman and his way of seeing Calculus, it opened the door for me to explore engineering. I had at that point done random work for sound design, creating sound systems for churches and clubs in NYC. I always knew how to turn the knobs, but never knew how the knobs actually worked. I decided to study electrical engineering.
I’ve worked in this field for some time now, and at the same time I maintain a pretty regular music schedule. My bands have toured the eastern US and some Europe. I also became an engineer because I finished a degree in jazz and classical music as well. Like I said, I’m obsessed with music.
So why am I here?
You know, when you’re an artist, people always say to you, “when are you going to grow up?” As an engineer, working my safe and good job, all I can think to myself is, “yo, when are you going to grow up and do something with your life?”
I think about my children, they see my wife and me working for the “man”. Just doing what we’re told. I want to inspire them to do whatever they want, but I’d be a fraud to not do it myself. I keep thinking, “when are you going to do something with your life?”
So here I am.
In the last few weeks I’ve started structuring plans for 2 businesses and finishing a book I’ve always meant to write.
The first business I created came out of an argument with my wife. We determined that we were very average. It was tough to swallow, but frankly we are just following suit. We are currently on pace to pay off our student debt in 25 years, our new mortgage in 29 years and basically just be in debt the rest of our lives. Even if we completely excel at our current employers, we might only be able to take a few years off of those estimates, but once our children go to college, all bets are off. We are wage slaves.
The first business we started is a blog/branding opportunity based on the idea that we accept that we are average, we know everything we do will probably suck, we accept it, and you know what, we don’t have to be perfect. We just need to move forward and do something. We are using this first business to be our guinea pig as we test marketing strategies, blog writing, and the principle of breaking the procrastination. I’ve maintained writing blog posts daily, and I’m rather loving it. It’s letting me explore a lot of ideas I’ve had. The theme of the brand is to get people to ignore their egos and just ‘go for it”
The second business I’m working on is finally building up the engineering company I’ve always wanted to make. I am an idea guy, I’m a problem solver. I see how much horrible work is done out there and I know we can compete. You might be surprised at the level of crappy engineering out there. I think we can help. I think we can do something great. At some point I'd like to see what I'm doing incorporate my love of music, but I want to be focused as much as possible here for now.
I’m also 20,000 words into a 50,000 plus word book on musical theory concepts that I’ve been developing for the last 25 years. I have written a chapter every day and making good progress. I’ve got the assistance of many high level musicians to help me edit the book, and I’m excited to share some things. I’m writing this, if for nothing else, for my children. If they ever decide to get into music, they’ll know where my head is, honestly though, I think it is shaping up into something actually really good and missing from the market place. I’m a conceptual thinker, and these concepts aren’t well represented at all.
I have not read the books yet, though, before I knew I could get anything free, had ordered the Kindle and Audio versions of the book which I will begin today for Unscripted . Looking forward to it.
Thanks again, and I appreciate you reading.
Cheers.
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