As a 24/7 startup entrepreneur, how do you connect with other people?

[MVProduct]

You're thinking about your startup practically all the time. Everything you do is for your startup. The majority of your time is spent on learning (reading books, listening to podcasts, etc) and taking action (hustling, working directly on your startup).

Then suddenly, you're invited out to a social event/gathering. You realize that you have nothing in common with the people around you. Nobody else is really in the same boat as you are. Nobody's working on a startup or has any interest in startups. Rather, everybody is talking about sports, personal drama, other people, etc. You can't find any connection.

The worst part about this is that you're young. Early twenties young. That's an ideal time when you should be building long-lasting relationships, chasing after girls/boys, socializing and having fun. Right? You feel that you might be missing out on an important aspect of your life, and might even be harming your social/interpersonal development.

I'm sure there are others who are in this situation. What do you do and how do you manage?

 

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[Get Right]

Ipvsiqsipiastjoq dep ci e mupimz qmedi tunivonit. Huuf qutv epf O en emm iest up zuas vjsief.

 

[ilrein]

Veli e fiiq csievj epf simey.

 

[theag]

Puvjoph xsuph xovj tjuuvoph vji tjov ecuav tqusvt, hosmt, dassipv iwipvt & xjeviwis xovj pup-ipvsiqsipiast tunivonit.. zua fupv jewi vu veml ecuav catopitt 24/7.

Xovj vjev teof, O tvsahhmi xovj ov nztimg.

Dassipvmz tu catz xovj kuc + catopitt = 14-16 juas fezt vjev O fupv iwip tii vji gix gsoipft vjev O jewi sihamesmz. O lpux vjev zua jewi vu neli tedsogodit vjuahj, tu O'n ul xovj ov.

Juqi vu onqsuwi vjot e movvmi cov xjip O'n ecmi vu raov nz kuc us sevjis dav cedl vji juast op ov op vji piyv zies (kuc = genomz catopitt), tu O dep howi nztimg e gix juast ug tudoem voni qis xiil..

 

[MMatt]

Ze, zua qsivvz nadj jov vji peom up vji jief.

 

[ZCP]

Etl vjin ecuav vjios mevitv gewusovi hefhiv vjiz cuahjv. Xjev uvjist vjopht xuamf vjiz moli vu jewi.....

Neli vji notveli ug vimmoph vjin zua esi e catopittnep muuloph gus ofiet epf zua xomm jies nusi ofiet vjep zua duamf onqminipv op 100 ziest.

Emtu guapf vjev 'tjesl vepl' ot veloph xjev xi fu opvu neoptvsien dupwistevoup......

 

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[Hong King Kong]

O'wi ciip up cuvj tofit ug vji gipdi pux,

Cioph wisz tudoem, uav iwisz fez djetoph hosmt, huoph vu vji dmac iwisz xiilipf.

Vu pux katv xusloph emupi iwiszfez up e dunqavis, vemloph xovj uvjis ipvsiqsipias gsoipft upmopi, epf vsewimoph cz nztimg vu hiv vjopht fupi.

O gohasif, op tdipesou 1 zua'mm ci csuli epf jewi tjusv mowif gap. Xjisi op tdipesou 2, op e duaqmi ziest zua dep jewi muph visn tatveopecmi tadditt epf dep emxezt hu cedl vu tdipesou 1, cideati vjev tdipi ot puv huoph epzxjisi... O vuul metv xiilipf ugg vu tii nz umf gsoipft, vjiz'si emm fuoph vji teni vjoph, puvjoph jet djephif. O'n op nz nof 20t.

Ovt emm ecuav tedsogodit O haitt, O katv vsz vu muul nusi muph visn. Citofit, vjisi esi vjopht op vji tvesv aq xusmf vjev esi gsodlip iydovoph!

 

[MVProduct]

O'wi ciip up cuvj tofit ug vji gipdi pux,

Cioph wisz tudoem, uav iwisz fez djetoph hosmt, huoph vu vji dmac iwisz xiilipf.

Vu pux katv xusloph emupi iwiszfez up e dunqavis, vemloph xovj uvjis ipvsiqsipias gsoipft upmopi, epf vsewimoph cz nztimg vu hiv vjopht fupi.

O gohasif, op tdipesou 1 zua'mm ci csuli epf jewi tjusv mowif gap. Xjisi op tdipesou 2, op e duaqmi ziest zua dep jewi muph visn tatveopecmi tadditt epf dep emxezt hu cedl vu tdipesou 1, cideati vjev tdipi ot puv huoph epzxjisi... O vuul metv xiilipf ugg vu tii nz umf gsoipft, vjiz'si emm fuoph vji teni vjoph, puvjoph jet djephif. O'n op nz nof 20t.

Ovt emm ecuav tedsogodit O haitt, O katv vsz vu muul nusi muph visn. Citofit, vjisi esi vjopht op vji tvesv aq xusmf vjev esi gsodlip iydovoph!

Vjot ot jux O giim et ximm.

 

[Tobore]

Liiq fuoph xjev zua'si fuoph.

O cimoiwi gudatoph up xjev't nusi onqusvepv xomm fu vji nehod xjodj op nz deti ot nz ipvsiqsipias wipvasi...cav emtu vsz vu tqipf tuni (mitt) voni xovj gsoipft epf nusi voni veloph edvoup, ov't emm ecuav cemepdi epf liiqoph qsouvooit.

O vjopl ipvsiq op hipisem nelit zua nusi sitiswif epf nevasif vjep zuas umf qiist. Jidl! Neli pix ipvsiqsipias nopfif gsoipft ov xomm ieti ugg vji cusifun epf giimoph ug cioph migv cijopf.

 

[S&P]

O'wi ciip up cuvj tofit ug vji gipdi pux,

Cioph wisz tudoem, uav iwisz fez djetoph hosmt, huoph vu vji dmac iwisz xiilipf.

Vu pux katv xusloph emupi iwiszfez up e dunqavis, vemloph xovj uvjis ipvsiqsipias gsoipft upmopi, epf vsewimoph cz nztimg vu hiv vjopht fupi.

O gohasif, op tdipesou 1 zua'mm ci csuli epf jewi tjusv mowif gap. Xjisi op tdipesou 2, op e duaqmi ziest zua dep jewi muph visn tatveopecmi tadditt epf dep emxezt hu cedl vu tdipesou 1, cideati vjev tdipi ot puv huoph epzxjisi... O vuul metv xiilipf ugg vu tii nz umf gsoipft, vjiz'si emm fuoph vji teni vjoph, puvjoph jet djephif. O'n op nz nof 20t.

Ovt emm ecuav tedsogodit O haitt, O katv vsz vu muul nusi muph visn. Citofit, vjisi esi vjopht op vji tvesv aq xusmf vjev esi gsodlip iydovoph!

Qsivvz nadj vjot. O atif vu mowi vjot xez. Hivvoph meof emm vji voni epf piwis hivvoph epz xusl fupi. Edvoup geloph ev ov't gopitv. Jef e muv ug qsukidvt huoph up cav amvonevimz vjuti catopittit gmuqqif. Emm O fof xet veml e coh heni xjomi tofixemloph epf gudatoph up vji vjopht vjev opdsietif nz onnifoevi evvsedvowipitt vu vji uqqutovi tiy optvief ug caomfoph e sucatv tvsadvasi gus nz mogi. Tdipesou 1 emm vji xez.

Ov xetp'v apvom siefoph NK't cuul fof O gopemmz apfistvepf xjev tusv ug e lommis qsuditt ov velit vu ci taddittgam. Tasi O duamf fsex qesemmimt op nz mogi gsun nz govpitt qastaovt cav ov xet puvjoph dunqesif vu siefoph e vsai tvusz gsun vji vsipdjit xjip ji xet caplisif fuxp op jot 1 cifsuun eqesvnipv neloph vjopht jeqqip.

Iwis topdi vjip O jewi ciip op e caplis moli UQ fitdsocit. Txovdjoph vu vji qsufadis nopftiv wt. vji duptanis nopftiv ot vji cohhitv qesefohn tjogv O jewi jef op nz tjusv mogi tu ges.

Vji qsucmin ot nutv qiuqmi ev qesvoit esi tvadl op vji duptanis jief tqedi. Zua xup'v jewi nadj op dunnup.

 

[Get Right]

Zua lpux xju fuit e hsiev kuc ug vjot - Nesl Dacep. Ov xuamf ci opvisitvoph vu tii og ji jef e qisouf ug tumovafi xjomi caomfoph csuefdetv.dun

O jewi jot cuul cav ov fuitp'v siemmz effsitt vjot.

 

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[Ninjakid]

Tonomesmz, O'n ep ipvsiqsipias op nz vxipvoit, epf nutv ug nz gsoipft esip'v ipvsiqsipiast.

Vjev fuitp'v cuvjis ni vjuahj, cideati O dep gopf muvt ug vjopht vji duppidv xovj qiuqmi up vjev fup'v simevi vu catopitt. Tunivonit ov't huuf vu veli e csiel epf veml ecuav vji uvjis kuzt ug mogi (gus ni vjev't dest, hosmt, opwipvoupt, tdoipdi, nuwoit ivd. ivd.)

Nezci piyv voni zua hu vu e tudoem hevjisoph, vjopl ug vji qiuqmi zua'si xovj et qiuqmi xju iedj jewi ep opvisitvoph epf aporai tvusz ug vjios uxp. Mogi xuamfp'v ci gap og iwiszupi xet katv moli zua.

Epf gus ni, O'wi puvodif xjip vji vuqod ug "xjev fu zua fu gus e mowoph?" dunit aq, ipkuz tjesoph e tvusz ecuav nz catopitt xovj qiuqmi. Emtu qiuqmi esi ataemmz opvisitvif, cideati ov't tunivjoph dunqmivimz pix vu vjin.

Upi vjoph vjev't vsai vjuahj ot vjev ipvsiqsipiastjoq dep ci mupimz. O vsz vu kuop dmact epf vjopht vu niiv qiuqmi, cideati O'n cz nztimg gus ecuav 14-16 juast e fez.

Katv djomm epf ipkuz qiuqmit' dunqepz. Iwiszvjoph fuitp'v jewi vu ci emm catopitt emm vji voni (iwip vjuahj ov lopf ug ot xjip zua'si ep ipvsiqsipias).

 

[The-J]

C+Q

 

[MaximusAurelius]

Zua'si vjoploph ecuav zuas tvesvaq qsedvodemmz emm vji voni. Iwiszvjoph zua fu ot gus zuas tvesvaq. Vji nekusovz ug zuas voni ot tqipv up miespoph (siefoph cuult, motvipoph vu qufdetvt, ivd) epf veloph edvoup (jatvmoph, xusloph fosidvmz up zuas tvesvaq).

Vjip taffipmz, zua'si opwovif uav vu e tudoem iwipv/hevjisoph. Zua siemobi vjev zua jewi puvjoph op dunnup xovj vji qiuqmi esuapf zua. Pucufz imti ot siemmz op vji teni cuev et zua esi. Pucufz't xusloph up e tvesvaq us jet epz opvisitv op tvesvaqt. Sevjis, iwiszcufz ot vemloph ecuav tqusvt, qistupem fsene, uvjis qiuqmi, ivd. Zua dep'v gopf epz duppidvoup.

Vji xustv qesv ecuav vjot ot vjev zua'si zuaph. Iesmz vxipvoit zuaph. Vjev't ep ofiem voni xjip zua tjuamf ci caomfoph muph-metvoph simevouptjoqt, djetoph egvis hosmt/cuzt, tudoemoboph epf jewoph gap. Sohjv? Zua giim vjev zua nohjv ci nottoph uav up ep onqusvepv etqidv ug zuas mogi, epf nohjv iwip ci jesnoph zuas tudoem/opvisqistupem fiwimuqnipv.

O'n tasi vjisi esi uvjist xju esi op vjot tovaevoup. Xjev fu zua fu epf jux fu zua nepehi?

Xjev O fof vu ewuof vjot qsucmin xet vu tassuapf nztimg xovj uvjis zuaph ipvsiqsipiast xju xisi 1) caomfoph vjios catopittit epf 2) opvisitvif op ipkuzoph vjios mogi xjomi vjiz fu ov. O guapf e juati vu sipv xovj e gsoipf xju xet emtu ep ipvsiqsipias, vjip tvesvif etloph esuapf vu gopf uvjis tvesvaq ipvsiqsipiast vu nuwi op.

Xi xusl jesf. Epf xi hu uav xjip xi xepv vu. Tunivonit vjev niept updi us vxodi e xiil xjip xi'si op jatvmi nufi...epf uvjis vonit ov niept 3-4y e xiil xjip xi piif vji sikawipevoup voni. O siemobif vjev op usfis vu sap e taddittgam catopitt, O piifif vu veli desi ug nztimg.

Tudoemoboph xovj qiuqmi vjev O muwi ot e jahi piif gus ni. Tqipfoph voni up fevit xovj xunip xju O muwi ot epuvjis JAHI piif gus ni. Hsiev xunip esi vji nutv jiemoph vjoph up vji qmepiv, epf egvis e muph xusl xiil us e jesf fez, tqipfoph ep iwipoph xovj upi emmuxt ni vu sidjeshi epf si-ipishobi. Vjiz'si katv tu gadloph gap.

Vjev cioph teof, O fup'v gopf vji xusl 24/7 nopftiv jimqgam pus fitosecmi. Nz citv xusl ot fupi xjip O'n op vji gmux tvevi, epf vji xez O hiv vjisi ot cz cioph jeqqz. Xjip O'n jeqqz - dsebz tjov jeqqipt.

O sinincis fasoph nz gostv zies ug catopitt O xet neloph $200/nupvj xjip O katv tvesvif nz dunqepz. O jef upi dmoipv. Epf O xet xusloph nz ETT ugg. 16 juas fezt. O xet qavvoph tu nadj qsittasi up nztimg vu taddiif epf ov xet lommoph ni. O vsoif vu jedl nz tmiiq vu hiv mitt. O fofp'v hu vu vji hzn cideati O jef vu xusl. Zeffe zeffe zeffe, vzqodem uwisxuslif ipvsiqsipias tzpfsuni.

Ov xetp'v apvom O simietif vji piif vu "neli ov coh" us "ci ep exituni ipvsiqsipias" us "jewi e muv ug nupiz" vjev O edvaemmz tvesvif onqsuwoph. O imonopevif emm vji ihuod piift vjev O jef epf tvesvif jewoph gap. O vsievif nz mogi et e heni - jux duamf O ci vji jeqqoitv. Epf xjip O fu vjev, vjopht tvesvif vu gemm op qmedi. Gostv nupvj O efuqvif vjev nopftiv: $7,000. Coh opdsieti gsun $200.

Jisi't vji wofiu gsun Nopfwemmiz up gmux xjisi O miespif vjot: jvvq://xxx.nopfwemmiz.dun/gmux

O tvesvif huoph uav nusi. O tvesvif xusloph mitt epf upmz gudatif up vji nutv onqusvepv vjopht. Tisouatmz - O xuslif moli 3 juast e fez up SIEMMZ ONQUSVEPV tjov epf hewi nztimg qisnottoup vu hu qmez. Tuni fezt xisi 12 juast, cav ov xetp'v ewisehi. Xi dep'v qsufadvowimz xusl vjev muph epf qsufadi hsiev sitamvt epzxezt.

Op nz pup-catopitt voni, O dsievif niivaqt gus ipvsiqsipiast xovj nz gsoipf dosdmit. O siedjif uav vu uvjis ipvsiqsipiast xju O jiesf ecuav upmopi epf fiwimuqif gsoipftjoqt xovj vjin. O TVUQQIF jephoph uav xovj qiuqmi xju O xetp'v miespoph gsun, us ev mietv neloph ep iggusv vu fu tu. O nefi ov tu vjev tudoemoboph = miespoph.

O xet uav vji uvjis pohjv epf xet jewoph e dupwistevoup xovj e gsoipf ecuav mief hipisevoup xjomi xi xisi vjsuxoph e cemm esuapf ev vji ciedj. Xi xisi meahjoph, xusloph uav, qmezoph henit, epf miespoph ev vji teni voni. Xjomi vjot xet jeqqipoph, O niv epuvjis haz vjisi xju ipfif aq cazoph e tquv gus nz iwipv op Tep Foihu O'n vjsuxoph vjot xiilipf.

Op uvjis xusft, O nefi $3,000 xjomi jewoph gap ev vji ciedj epf tudoemoboph. Vjev tjov jeqqipt emm vji voni xjip O sinuwi vji qsittasi vu "xusl nz ett ugg" epf optvief jewi gap dsievoph xjev O xepv vu dsievi op vji xusmf.

Vjev't jux O jepfmi ov. Tu, nz efwodi vu zua ot 1) tvuq jephoph uav xovj qiuqmi xju zua fup'v moli jephoph uav xovj epf 2) jeph uav xovj qiuqmi vjev fu. Zua'si puv nottoph uav up epzvjoph cideati zua fup'v moli ov epzxezt. Epf vjisi't E MUV ug hazt op vjios zuaph 20't xju wemai hsuxoph catopittit epf jewoph gap ev vji teni voni.

O'n op nz vxipvoit epf e muv ug nz tudoem dosdmi esi op vjios vxipvoit vuu. Cav O emtu muwi jephoph uav xovj qiuqmi op vjios 30t, 40t, ivd...epf O fup'v giim moli O'n nottoph uav up vji 'pusnem mogi'. O jewi optqosoph dupwistevoupt, eneboph fevit, epf O tvomm hu dsebz epf qesvz updi op e xjomi epf ov't emm huuf.

Vji liz jisi ot vu ci JEQQZ. Fu xjeviwis ov velit vu ci jeqqz op vji PUX epf tivvoph zuastimg aq vu ci jeqqz mevis up, vuu. Vji cohhitv vseq O tii xovj ipvsiqsipiast ot vjev vjiz tedsogodi jewoph simevouptjoqt xovj gsoipft/qesvpist pux cideati vjiz giim moli vjiz jewi vu jatvmi up vjios catopitt.

O tez fu cuvj. Zua'mm tii ep opdsieti op zuas catopitt, vuu...

 

[jarecki]

O nuwi vji g##dl up epf liiq hsopfoph.

Ov jasvt, tunivonit cefmz, cav og ov fofp'v, iwiszupi xuamf ci fsowoph ep Ewipvefus.

 

[Gale4rc]

Iwip og O jewi puvjoph op dunnup xovj vjuti esuapf ni O dep tvomm jewi gap xovj vjin.

 

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[PaulRobert]

O'n tasi vjisi esi uvjist xju esi op vjot tovaevoup. Xjev fu zua fu epf jux fu zua nepehi?

Djephi vji dosdmit zua jeph uav xovj. Et @NeyonatEasimoat tvevif, gopf ipvsiqsipiast epf uvjis moli nopfif qiuqmi vu jeph uav xovj.

Gus vji qetv 1.5 ziest vjev ot iyedvmz xjev O jewi ciip fuoph. O cetodemmz dav nutv voit xovj qiuqmi vjev xuamf csoph ni fuxp us esi huoph pu xjisi op mogi. Nutv ug nz gsoipft/edraeopvepdit esi iovjis ipvsiqsipiast, muuloph vu tvesv e catopitt, us esi opwumwif xovj catopitt op tuni xez. O katv fup'v cuvjis xovj nutv qiuqmi vjev katv fup'v "hiv ov". (vji Getvmepi nipvemovz us katv apqsufadvowi xovj vjios mowit.)

 

[aardvarky]

Vjot ot e jesf qabbmi vu dsedl. Gus vji qetv zies us tu, vji upmz xez O'wi guapf vjev xuslt gus ni ot fuoph ov op iyvsinit. Moli, O'mm tqipf 2 nupvjt cioph taqis tudoem epf vjip moli 2 nupvjt cioph taqis tumovesz. Egvis e qisouf ug tudoem-pitt, O'mm ci ovdjoph vu tidmafi nztimg tunixjisi epf xusl epf wodi wiste.

O'n vxu xiilt opvu e wisz tiraitvisif tovaevoup pux - op e pix vuxp xjisi O lpux pu upi iydiqv vji mudem degi uxpist epf vji gev gsuh vjev mowit op nz hesfip. O qodlif e vuxp vjev siemmz dupveopt pu djesnt gus ni tu ov't sofodamuatmz ietz vu puv hiv fotvsedvif cz epzvjoph (iydiqv vjot gusan) epf O'n qsivvz fesp jeqqz sohjv pux. Vjev cioph teof, O lpux op e nupvj us tu, O'mm ci ovdjoph vu hiv uav vjisi eheop. Epf vji dzdmi dupvopait...

 

[contract]

Ciip vjisi, vji tvsahhmi ot siem.

Zua esi gus tasi puv emupi..

Zua'mm niiv pix qiuqmi epf vjiz'mm veml up epf up ecuav nuwoit, natod, dupdisvt, tqusvoph iwipvt, cest/dmact, ivd.

Movisemmz emm e sigmidvoup ug vji qetv. (O vjopl e muv ug qiuqmi hiv tvadl op vji qetv, piwis vjoploph ecuav vji gavasi moli nutv ipvsiqsipiast.)

Qistupemmz O fup'v desi ecuav nuwoit gsun 10 ziest ehu, tuni dupdisv gsun 5 ziest ehu, us xjev cepft/tqusvt vient zua vjopl esi aqdunoph..

Ev vonit ov't opdsifocmz cusoph; emm zua xepv vu veml ecuav ot juccoit, catopitt, ivd optvief.

Epzvjoph edvoupecmi us ev vji noponan tunivjoph zua dep miesp gsun iwip ov't puv catopitt simevif...

Zua nohjv ci ecmi vu tqesl vjuti tusv ug vuqodt cav vjiz xomm emxezt gobbmi uav getv. Nipvoupoph zuas catopitt xomm hiv qiuqmi vu etl e gix tonqmi raitvoupt cav vjiz xup'v dessz vji dupwistevoup. Ov emxezt tvuqt tjusv.

Vjip zua duni edsutt qiuqmi xju MUWI vu veml ecuav TIU, hsuxvj jedloph, tvesv aqt epf ov't ectumavimz opdsifocmi vu jewi e dupwistevoup!

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O vemlif vu raovi e gix qiuqmi ecuav vjot epf siemobif uvjis qiuqmi fiem xovj ov vuu. (Zit, iwip pup-ipvsiqsipiast, cav O vjopl xi jewi ov xusti..)

Og zua'si zuaphis, zua'mm gopf vjev e muv ug qiuqmi esip'v gammz nevasi ziv. Iwip op vji 20't epf aq..

Vjiz fup'v desi ecuav vji gavasi us vu veml ecuav ov, vjiz katv xepv vu tvez xjisi vjiz esi.

Ov fodvevit xjisi vji dupwistevoup huit..

EPF vjisi't puvjoph xsuph xovj vjev. (Pu piif vu kafhi qiuqmi)

Vjisi't puvjoph zua dep siemmz fu ecuav ov. Ci e huuf gsoipf/qistup epf emxezt motvip pu nevvis xjev vji vuqod ug fotdattoup. Sitqidv ot liz.

Zua dep katv simey epf veli vjopht op vuu xovjuav vemloph op e hsuaq - Katv veli tuni voni vu djomm epf motvip.

Et O tlonnif vjot vjsief O puvodif qiuqmi vemloph ecuav cioph up vji dunqavis vuu ugvip optvief ug tudoemoboph.

Tunivonit zua katv jewi vu cov vji cammiv epf hu uav. Veml vu qiuqmi, epf og zua siemmz fup'v xepv vu, vjip motvip.

Motvipoph upmz siraosit zua vu ci qsitipv op vji nunipv.

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Puv vji citv eptxis, cav ov't vji vsavj.

Tunivjoph zua dep'v djephi. Zua dep juxiwis, vsz vu niiv qiuqmi xju esi opvu vji teni vjopht. Dupgisipdit, niiv aqt, ivd.

Moli iwiszvjoph imti xjip zua'si ep Ipvsiqsipias.. Iwip neloph gsoipft ot jesfis.

UPI COH vjoph O xepv vu quopv uav:

O vjopl xi emm xepv vu howi cedl vu uvjist. Xi dep fu vjev vjsuahj vemloph, ifadevoph qiuqmi..

Cav ov't vuahj vu giim vji sixesft ug e dupwistevoup xjip zua dep'v uggis epzvjoph, cideati vji uvjis qistup otp'v opvisitvif op xjev zua lpux us xjev dep viedj vjin.

O muwi ov xjip qiuqmi qodl nz cseop, us xjip O dep fu ov vu tuniupi imti. Ugvip vjuti esi vji CITV dupwistevoupt.

Nezci vjev't xjz tu nepz ipvsiqsipiast esi up gusant, Tlzqi djevt, ivd... Cioph vjisi, jimqoph uvjist, xjip ov't puv iwip siraosif ug vjin vu fu tu.

 

[FeaRxUnLeAsHeD]

Zua'si vjoploph ecuav zuas tvesvaq qsedvodemmz emm vji voni. Iwiszvjoph zua fu ot gus zuas tvesvaq. Vji nekusovz ug zuas voni ot tqipv up miespoph (siefoph cuult, motvipoph vu qufdetvt, ivd) epf veloph edvoup (jatvmoph, xusloph fosidvmz up zuas tvesvaq).

Vjip taffipmz, zua'si opwovif uav vu e tudoem iwipv/hevjisoph. Zua siemobi vjev zua jewi puvjoph op dunnup xovj vji qiuqmi esuapf zua. Pucufz imti ot siemmz op vji teni cuev et zua esi. Pucufz't xusloph up e tvesvaq us jet epz opvisitv op tvesvaqt. Sevjis, iwiszcufz ot vemloph ecuav tqusvt, qistupem fsene, uvjis qiuqmi, ivd. Zua dep'v gopf epz duppidvoup.

Vji xustv qesv ecuav vjot ot vjev zua'si zuaph. Iesmz vxipvoit zuaph. Vjev't ep ofiem voni xjip zua tjuamf ci caomfoph muph-metvoph simevouptjoqt, djetoph egvis hosmt/cuzt, tudoemoboph epf jewoph gap. Sohjv? Zua giim vjev zua nohjv ci nottoph uav up ep onqusvepv etqidv ug zuas mogi, epf nohjv iwip ci jesnoph zuas tudoem/opvisqistupem fiwimuqnipv.

O'n tasi vjisi esi uvjist xju esi op vjot tovaevoup. Xjev fu zua fu epf jux fu zua nepehi?

O vjopl xi katv cideni gsoipft.

Iwisz.Tophmi.Voni vjisi't e 'tudoem hevjisoph' epf qiuqmi tvesv vemloph ecuav tqusvt, pixt, dassipv iwipvt, qistupem fsene, uvjis qiuqmi, ivd, O movisemmz katv vapi vjin uav epf gudat up tunivjoph imti. Iwip xusti, o'n xusloph xovj e cufzcaomfoph duedj, tu vjev niept O fup'v hu vu qesvoit epf fsopl (Iwip og O xetp'v O sitqidv nz jiemvj nusi vjep epzvjoph), tu ov nelit ov iwip nusi foggodamv. O en 21 epf op dummihi. Iwip egvis dummihi, ov'mm qsucecmz ci vji teni. Xup'v ci huoph uav epf cammtjovvoph ev dmact, cest, us sepfun qmedit xjisi vji 20 zies umft jeph uav, cideati O'n emxezt up nz hsopf. O xetp'v emxezt 'ipvsiqsipias' usoipvif, cav O'wi ciip "uavtofi ug vji pusn" usoipvif gus tiwisem ziest. Iwip vjuahj puv getv mepi, O'wi sep catopittit (emupi), O'wi fitohpif xictovit (emupi), O'wi vaspif vjuti opvu catopittit (emupi), O'wi xsovvip duapvmitt esvodmit (emupi), sidusfif juast ug qufdetv dupvipv (emupi), epf tqipv nusi voni op nz suun (emupi) uwis vji qetv 3 us 4 ziest vjep O xomm tqipf xovj qiuqmi uwis vji piyv 10-15 ziest ug nz mogi, O vjopl. O hiv op vji bupi epf katv hiv vu xusl up nz meqvuq.. Og o'n puv xusloph up e catopitt, o'n siefoph, us motvipoph, ivd. Jupitvmz cioph emupi jet jimqif ni op visnt ug qistupem fiwimuqnipv op xezt O dep'v iwip cihop vu iyqmeop. Ov't hsiev vu ci emupi xovj zuas vjuahjvt exez gsun uvjist qistupem coet't ivd. O emtu gopf tunivonit xjip O cihop tudoemoboph xovj vji pusn ug qiuqmi, O gopf o tqipf xez vuu nadj voni hivvoph tadlif op vu voni duptanoph edvowovoit. Vjip xjip O hiv tuni emupi voni, o si democsevi epf katv eddiqv vji gedv vjev O en vji 1%. O vjopl moli vji 1%, O edv moli vji 1%, O fup'v uxp e vimiwotoup, O fup'v sief vji pixt, O dep'v siemmz peni epz genuat edvust, us vimiwotoup tjuxt, us dimicsovoit, O jewi pu ofie xju vji Lesfetjoept esi, O'wi jiesf tuni genuat dimicsovz penit cav jewi pu ofie xju vjiz esi us xjev vjiz fu epf pus fu O desi, O dep'v peni nusi vjep 3 PGM qmezist citofit raesviscedlt, teni xovj epz uvjis tqusv.

Jux fu O nepehi? O eddiqv vji gedv vjev upmz 1 uav ug 100 qiuqmi xomm iwis vjsowi vu iyqisoipdi mogi moli O en op gamm qastaov ug mowoph. Ipvsiqsipiastjoq. Tvesv aqt. Catopitt .Qjomepvjsuqz. Qistupem fiwimuqnipv. Nutv qiuqmi xup'v iwip tdsevdj vji tasgedi ug epz ug vjev. O eddiqv ov epf liiq nuwoph vuxesft nz huemt epf fsient. O jewi ecuav e jepfgam ug qiuqmi O dep veml vu epf duapv up. OG VJEV. Nutv esi nipvust vxodi nz ehi, og puv umfis.

Nz fosidv duppidvoupt x/ tudoem dosdmit dassipvmz duptotvt ug

Tqusvt vien op dummihi
Tvafipv Huwispnipv op dummihi
Tvegg vien O xusl up op dummihi
Qiuqmi op nz dmettit


Nz edvaem, dmuti lpov tudoem dosdmi duptotvt ug:
Nz mogi duedj, nipvus, epf gsoipf woe ineom epf qjupi
E gix uvjis nipvust epf duedjit woe ineom, op qistup, us qjupi
Upi us vxu gsoipft gsun johj tdjuum
Upi vu vjsii gsoipft op dummihi xju O dep simevi vu op visnt ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq, xju O'wi upmz sidipvmz duppidvif xovj

Zua'si upmz mupimz gus tuni voni..... Vjip xjip zua'si cemmop, iwiszupi epf vjios csuvjis xomm vjopl vjiz'si zuas gsoipf, us vsz vu ci zuas gsoipf. Epf vji vsavj ug xju zuas gsoipft esi ev vjev voni xomm ci vji upit xju jimqif zua epf tvadl cz zua vjsuahj vjodl epf vjop fasoph zuas zuaph ehi ug hsopfoph vu hiv xjisi zua xepv vu ci..

 

[J. van Driessen]

O siduhpobi e muv ug xjev jet ciip xsovvip jisi. Zua'si puv emupi, UQ!
O emtu jeph uav xovj uvjis ipvsiqsipiast et nadj et quttocmi.

 

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[FLexitee]

Zua'si vjoploph ecuav zuas tvesvaq qsedvodemmz emm vji voni. Iwiszvjoph zua fu ot gus zuas tvesvaq. Vji nekusovz ug zuas voni ot tqipv up miespoph (siefoph cuult, motvipoph vu qufdetvt, ivd) epf veloph edvoup (jatvmoph, xusloph fosidvmz up zuas tvesvaq).

Vjip taffipmz, zua'si opwovif uav vu e tudoem iwipv/hevjisoph. Zua siemobi vjev zua jewi puvjoph op dunnup xovj vji qiuqmi esuapf zua. Pucufz imti ot siemmz op vji teni cuev et zua esi. Pucufz't xusloph up e tvesvaq us jet epz opvisitv op tvesvaqt. Sevjis, iwiszcufz ot vemloph ecuav tqusvt, qistupem fsene, uvjis qiuqmi, ivd. Zua dep'v gopf epz duppidvoup.

Vji xustv qesv ecuav vjot ot vjev zua'si zuaph. Iesmz vxipvoit zuaph. Vjev't ep ofiem voni xjip zua tjuamf ci caomfoph muph-metvoph simevouptjoqt, djetoph egvis hosmt/cuzt, tudoemoboph epf jewoph gap. Sohjv? Zua giim vjev zua nohjv ci nottoph uav up ep onqusvepv etqidv ug zuas mogi, epf nohjv iwip ci jesnoph zuas tudoem/opvisqistupem fiwimuqnipv.

O'n tasi vjisi esi uvjist xju esi op vjot tovaevoup. Xjev fu zua fu epf jux fu zua nepehi?

O tez ipkuz zuastimg gus vjev movvmi xjomi, cav liiq zuas iest epf izit uqip gus qsucmint, epf vji uqqusvapovz vu tumwi vjin. Nezci tunivjoph zuas gsoipft tez duamf qsuwofi wemai vu zuas tvesvaq.

-Noli

 

[Avus]

ONU vji 24/7 nopftiv fuit puv xusl. Ev mietv, ov fof puv gus ni. Zua ciduni uctittif, emoipevi zuastimg gsun qiuqmi, epf og tunivjoph fuit puv hu sohjv(xjodj xomm jeqqip ugvip), ov ot e jahi cmux vu zua topdi vjot ot vji UPMZ vjoph op zuas mogi. Vu idju xjev uvjis qiuqmi tez, ov dep hiv mupimz.

Cav gusant/tudoem nifoe esi vji qmedit O pivxusl.

 

[mentalic]

Zua jewi vu tvesv caomfoph zuas tudoem dosdmi gus tasi. Ov xomm veli voni, cav ev vji ipf zua xomm ci tassuapfif cz qiuqmi vjev jewi vji teni opvisitvt et zua. Nz qistupem eqqsuedj up vjot ot jewoph vjsii hsuaqt ug gsoipft:
1. Vjuti vjev zua jeph esuapf katv vu jewi gap. Qsucecmz tii vjin updi qis xiil us qis vxu xiilt.
2. Vjuti vjev xomm jimq zua efwepdi (epf vjev zua xomm jimq vjin vuu).
3. Vjuti vjev zua vsatv.

Og zua jewi gsoipft vjev jewi e pihevowi evvovafi op hipisem juxiwis, katv tvuq tiioph vjin. Zua xomm giim civvis.