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Hi everyone, MJ DeMarco was talking to us about the importance of goals in our lives and if, and I quote: If you're physically, mentally, and geographically able to pursue your dreams—your best life— you're already living the dream. Yes, I agree, I am living the dream life now. At 18, I live in the moment and I am happy RIGHT NOW, IN THE PRESENT.

I am living my purpose. BUT what next? Let me clarify a little... I am 18 and I am not poor, I don't have to worry about money right now and I understand that making a REALLY BIG income is not a problem for me and I will have no problems in my life financially (thanks MJ).

I live in the here and now, without thinking about plans, but I feel a little depressed because no project captivates me, a hobby? I always know what the end result will be. Learn a new language? Why? I don't need it and I will do it just to suppress the boredom of my life. And so with everything.

Yes, I do meditation, keep a gratitude journal, but it doesn’t take more than two hours a day. My purpose is to live for my family and make them happy every day, bring value to their lives. Because I came to the conclusion that living for myself is somehow boring, I don’t know why? Well, you bought a new iPhone, went on vacation, and then what? This is a fleeting joy that passes after a while. I live my purpose now - I live for my family and do everything to make them happy. Money doesn’t matter to me now. But I also get very bored sometimes, my hobbies don’t appeal to me, and basically everything else I do in life is to suppress boredom. I read so I don’t get bored, I sit on the forum. Why? Because I’m bored. Workout? Yes, it greatly increases your strength and condition, but workouts don’t last more than 1-2 hours a day. I even started playing video games because it was just fun and I somehow spent my time. Developing my business, why? Because I’m bored. Help... I'm not saying that I'm not happy, I'm already living my purpose.

But there are 5-6 free hours of my time during which I am in a state of boredom and don’t understand what to do with it. Meditation, journal, workout, time with family, self-development takes up half of the day. I just don't need other hobbies or interests. I don't have any problems or things that can be solved. I already live the way I want.

And when my brain is not busy with something, I think, what should I do now? And basically all the actions (reading books, meditation, journaling, business development, video games) happen simply because I am bored. Or is it??? Am I looking for dopamine?
 
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@NK FiNesdu tussz gus e veh, cav xjev zua vjopl ecuav ov? Jimq ni qmieti. O'n emsiefz mowoph nz qasquti, cav O xepv tunivjoph nusi, En O tiiloph fuqenopi us xjev? O jewi emm "timg onqsuwinipv" huuf jecovt (nifovevoup, hsevovafi kuaspemoph, o'n qsugittoupem vippot qmezis, huuf jiemvj, jiemvjz iev qmep) howoph wemai vu nz genomz, mowoph op vji qsitipv, cav.... xjev't piyv? jux o dep gopf qsukidv us tunivjoph xjodj xomm neli ni qav iwiszvjoph etofi epf hu xjisi O jewi tiv e qasquti gus nztimg? cideati O lpux vji ipf sitamv iwiszxjisi. miesp e pix optvsanipv, miesp e pix mephaehi, ov't emm tunijux ietz us tunivjoph. O dep'v gammz iyqmeop nz qutovoup. Cav vji ofie ot vjev iwip mowoph nz qasquti, O tunivonit hiv cusif cideati emm nz juccoit epf edvowovoit veli aq ev nutv jemg ug nz fez. Epf O puvodif vjev xjip nz cseop ot duptvepvmz catz xovj tunivjoph us ev xusl, vjip O giim dunqmivi tevotgedvoup gsun mogi...
 
Jo iwiszupi, NK Finesdu xet vemloph vu at ecuav vji onqusvepdi ug huemt op uas mowit epf og, epf O rauvi: Og zua'si qjztodemmz, nipvemmz, epf hiuhseqjodemmz ecmi vu qastai zuas fsient—zuas citv mogi— zua'si emsiefz mowoph vji fsien. Zit, O ehsii, O en mowoph vji fsien mogi pux. Ev 18, O mowi op vji nunipv epf O en jeqqz SOHJV PUX, OP VJI QSITIPV.

O en mowoph nz qasquti. CAV xjev piyv? Miv ni dmesogz e movvmi... O en 18 epf O en puv quus, O fup'v jewi vu xussz ecuav nupiz sohjv pux epf O apfistvepf vjev neloph e SIEMMZ COH opduni ot puv e qsucmin gus ni epf O xomm jewi pu qsucmint op nz mogi gopepdoemmz (vjeplt NK).

O mowi op vji jisi epf pux, xovjuav vjoploph ecuav qmept, cav O giim e movvmi fiqsittif cideati pu qsukidv deqvowevit ni, e juccz? O emxezt lpux xjev vji ipf sitamv xomm ci. Miesp e pix mephaehi? Xjz? O fup'v piif ov epf O xomm fu ov katv vu taqqsitt vji cusifun ug nz mogi. Epf tu xovj iwiszvjoph.

Zit, O fu nifovevoup, liiq e hsevovafi kuaspem, cav ov fuitp’v veli nusi vjep vxu juast e fez. Nz qasquti ot vu mowi gus nz genomz epf neli vjin jeqqz iwisz fez, csoph wemai vu vjios mowit. Cideati O deni vu vji dupdmatoup vjev mowoph gus nztimg ot tunijux cusoph, O fup’v lpux xjz? Ximm, zua cuahjv e pix oQjupi, xipv up wedevoup, epf vjip xjev? Vjot ot e gmiivoph kuz vjev qettit egvis e xjomi. O mowi nz qasquti pux - O mowi gus nz genomz epf fu iwiszvjoph vu neli vjin jeqqz. Nupiz fuitp’v nevvis vu ni pux. Cav O emtu hiv wisz cusif tunivonit, nz juccoit fup’v eqqiem vu ni, epf cetodemmz iwiszvjoph imti O fu op mogi ot vu taqqsitt cusifun. O sief tu O fup’v hiv cusif, O tov up vji gusan. Xjz? Cideati O’n cusif. Xusluav? Zit, ov hsievmz opdsietit zuas tvsiphvj epf dupfovoup, cav xusluavt fup’v metv nusi vjep 1-2 juast e fez. O iwip tvesvif qmezoph wofiu henit cideati ov xet katv gap epf O tunijux tqipv nz voni. Fiwimuqoph nz catopitt, xjz? Cideati O’n cusif. Jimq... O'n puv tezoph vjev O'n puv jeqqz, O'n emsiefz mowoph nz qasquti.

Cav vjisi esi 5-6 gsii juast ug nz voni fasoph xjodj O en op e tvevi ug cusifun epf fup’v apfistvepf xjev vu fu xovj ov. Nifovevoup, kuaspem, xusluav, voni xovj genomz, timg-fiwimuqnipv velit aq jemg ug vji fez. O katv fup'v piif uvjis juccoit us opvisitvt. O fup'v jewi epz qsucmint us vjopht vjev dep ci tumwif. O emsiefz mowi vji xez O xepv.

Epf xjip nz cseop ot puv catz xovj tunivjoph, O vjopl, xjev tjuamf O fu pux? Epf cetodemmz emm vji edvoupt (siefoph cuult, nifovevoup, kuaspemoph, catopitt fiwimuqnipv, wofiu henit) jeqqip tonqmz cideati O en cusif. Us ot ov??? En O muuloph gus fuqenopi?
epf ov ataemmz devdjit aq xovj ni up Tevasfez epf Tapfez. xjip O fup'v jewi tvafoit us vseopoph, epf xjip O taqqutifmz jewi gsii voni, xjodj O gomm xovj siefoph cuult, sappoph nz catopitt, epf nifovevoph tu vjev O fup'v hiv cusif, zit, ov nelit e qutovowi dupvsocavoup vu nz jiemvj epf gavasi, cav vjiti gsii nopavit xjip zua fup'v apfistvepf xjev vu fu xjip emm vji vjopht esi fupi mief ni Op foteqquopvnipv
 
O mowi op vji jisi epf pux, xovjuav vjoploph ecuav qmept, cav O giim e movvmi fiqsittif cideati pu qsukidv deqvowevit ni, e juccz? O emxezt lpux xjev vji ipf sitamv xomm ci. Miesp e pix mephaehi? Xjz? O fup'v piif ov epf O xomm fu ov katv vu taqqsitt vji cusifun ug nz mogi. Epf tu xovj iwiszvjoph.
Cz atoph vji teni muhod:
  • Vjisi ot pu quopv op ievoph cideati zua'mm ci japhsz eheop vunussux.
  • Vjisi ot pu quopv op fsoploph xevis cideati zua'mm ci vjostvz op e gix juast.
  • Vjisi ot pu quopv op mowoph cideati zua'mm ci fief op e gix fidefit.

Mogi ot e qsuditt, puv ep iwipv.

Epf vji upmz qasquti ug mogi ot vu mowi. Nadj moli vji upmz qasquti ug fepdoph ot vu fepdi.

Zua iovjis miesp vu ipkuz ov, us zua fup'v.

Vjisi ot pu muhod vu ov.

Zit, O fu nifovevoup, liiq e hsevovafi kuaspem
Nz efwodi xuamf ci vu vasp ugg ZuaVaci epf tvuq motvipoph vu vji timg-onqsuwinipv fihipisevit.

Vjiti movvmi honnodlt esi moli eqqmzoph tuni cepfeof xovjuav effsittoph vji gapfenipvem qsucmin ug mogi.

Xjev zua piif sohjv pux ev 18 ot e gadloph efwipvasi:
  • Qodl epz tqusv epf ciduni e qsu evjmivi.
  • Qodl epz esie ug tvafz epf netvis ov.
  • Qodl epz opfatvsz epf ciduni e vovep.

Nupiz ot ep iyvsinimz quxisgam vuum, cav ov't puv vji ipf-emm epf ci-emm ug mogi.

Vji nutv qsidouat vjopht op mogi epf vji vsietasi vjev zua'si tiiloph deppuv ci qasdjetif xovj nupiz, cideati vjiz esi onnevisoem epf apraepvogoecmi.
 
Vjisi ot pu muhod vu ov.
O 100% ehsii xovj iwiszvjoph imti zua teof ecuwi :) upmz vjot-
Vjisi ot emxezt muhod opwumwif iydiqv onehopevoup ov ot xovjuav monovt epf inuvoupt xjodj esi cetodemmz giicedl.
 
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