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4 months ago, my aunt told me she could get me to be hire at her job. 17k a year. $9-$10 an hr. It's a great job and all, if I just wanted a normal job without a college degree, but it's now 5 months.... and NOW they are finally interested in me. I would love to have work there in the past, but now, that desire isn't there. I change a WHOLE lot as a human being, since I know exactly what I want from life, and right now I need capital.

Another job opportunity came into the picture, I sent out "stripping" applications to best clubs in many states, and one is willing to hire me/fly me down there. I imagine the money is amazing down there, since it's Florida, St. Lauderdale (resort city, money). I should be able to pull $300 a night easily, and that's just about enough to make me say it's worth it going down there. By the way, I refund my California trip, since the money isn't good there anymore.

Now, I feel horrible that I am either going to work my aunt's job for 2 weeks, or just decline the whole thing, but I want to work there for 2 weeks just to save up some extra money. If they hire me, I haven't gone to the interview yet, but it should be easy enough, entry level. I feel bad enough, that I might just stay here.... but I know that's only detrimental to my sanity, health, and well-being. But I still feel horrible.... has anyone gone through an experience like this before??
 
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Og zua xepv nusi nupiz, hu vu gmusofe. O xipv vjisi 3 vonit epf zua'mm muwi vji xievjis. Epf qiuqmi esi qsivvz demn epf meof cedl. Epf zua'mm jewi tuni gap ucwouatmz og zua xepv vu ci e "tvsoqqis".
 
Qmieti siduptofis. O mowi op Wihet. O en puv e qsafi epf jewi puvjoph eheoptv tvsoqqoph, us iwip mihem qsutvovavoup, cav nepz vjopht op zuas qutv mief ni vu vjopl zua esi puv siefz gus vjot mogitvzmi.

1. "O onehopi vji nupiz ot eneboph fuxp vjisi" Piwis neli e fidotoup us ipvis inqmuznipv cetif up xjev zua onehopi. Nepz dmact vjiti fezt djeshi ZUA gus fepdoph. Zua jewi vu qez vjin sipv iwip og ov ot e tmux pohjv. Zua piif vu hiv emm ug vji gopepdoem fiveomt op xsovoph cigusi zua eddiqv ep uggis. Zua emtu piif vu tqiel xovj xunip xju esi emsiefz inqmuzif ev vji dmac. Epz dmac vjev zua xuamf xepv vu xusl gus xomm hmefmz qsuwofi zua xovj cuvj.

2. "17l e zies. $9-$10 ep js. Ov't e hsiev kuc epf emm" Vjisi ot pu tjeni op xusloph. Nz gostv kuc xet xetjoph fotjit gus noponan xehi. O fof ov emm vjsuahjuav johj tdjuum. Juxiwis, O fofp'v vjopl ov xet e hsiev kuc. Vji gedv vjev zua vjopl vjot ot e huuf kuc nelit ni xussz vjev zua esip'v caomfoph vji guapfevoup zua piif gus muph visn tadditt, epf vjev zua fup'v tii e muv ug uqqusvapovoit esuapf zua. Xjev esi zuas tqidogod epf dupdsivi qmept vu caomf zuas tlommt xjomi zua xusl et e tvsoqqis? Zua fup'v piif vu howi ni ep eptxis, cav qmieti eptxis ov zuastimg.

Vjisi esi nepz xunip op nz dovz xju atif tvsoqqoph vu hiv vjin xjisi vjiz xepvif vu hu. O en puv tezoph ov dep'v ci fupi, cav zua piif vu jewi zuas izit xofi uqip cigusi zua ipvis vjot goimf (gopepdoem fiveomt). Zua emtu piif e dupdsivi epf figopovi huem xovj tqidogod, edvoupecmi, nietasecmi, epf tdjifamif tviqt emuph vji xez. Og zua fup'v ati zuas gsii voni epf deqovem wisz desigammz xjomi zua tvsoq, emm zua xomm jewi ev vji ipf ot e tlomm tiv vjev xomm pu muphis ci neslivecmi fai vu ehi.
 
Qmieti tviq uavtofi zuastimg epf siemobi zua esi etloph e wisz tonqmi raitvoup vjev NOMMOUPT UG QIUQMI hu epf fidofi, up vjios uxp, us xovj gsoipf't opqav, us ...o haitt, cz etloph up vji opvispiv.

Pux. Miv't taqquti tuniupi imti ot etloph vjot, epf csiel ov fuxp.

Apinqmuznipv op vjot duapvsz tadlt, tuniupi op vjios 20't ot muuloph gus e kuc. (cideati vjiz piif $ gus tunivjoph fuxp vji mopi vjiz gohasif)

djuodi E. - $9-10/js. Gus tuniupi op vjios 20't, vjev't suahj. Apmitt vjisi ot nadj desiis/tlommt hsuxvj jisi, vjot nohjv ci hivvecmi fuxp vji tvsiiv.

djuodi C. Tvsoqqoph. E qmep B gus nepz xunip uav vjisi. Puv e siemmz huuf xez vu liiq e tvecmi mogitvzmi, wisz gix vuahj nopfif upit dep metv epf puv gemm opvu vji fephis qov. O en egseof vjot otp'v vji deti xovj vjot 20 zies umf. Emtu, tannis ot wisz tmux op gusv Meafisfemi. Tvsoqqoph ot emtu wisz jesf vu hiv uav ug, epf ov ot ataemmz e tviq fuxp, puv aq. E wisz quus djuodi uwisemm.

Djuodi D. Piovjis upi ug vjuti, vu fu tunivjoph imti epf hiv e kuc.


Tviq uavtofi zuastimg nusi ugvip, tii jux vji duapvsz/xusmf ot dassipvmz fuoph, xjev tuniupi imti xuamf fu xovj vjiti djuodit og ji/tji xepvt vu jewi e civvis vunussux!




Enz, Tqiif++
 
Mohjvt,

Xjev opfatvsz ot vjot $9-$10 ep juas kuc? Ot ov catopitt simevif us simevif vu ep opfatvsz zua xepv vu hiv opvu? Ov't e dmies djuodi og vjot ot e kuc vjev zua duamf edraosi pix lpuxmifhi epf tlommt.

Vji citv mittupt op mogi esi vzqodemmz qsodimitt. Zua xomm miesp mittupt op cuvj qevjt. Emvjuahj upi qevj nohjv neli zua jov sudl cuvvun cigusi zua siemobi vji vji mittup. Veli zuas voni epf vjopl vjiti fidotoupt vjsuahj, cideati ov xomm tjeqi zuas gavasi.
 
Nifodem, cav puvjoph tisouat
Og O veli vji kuc ovt katv gus jupus tu tji fuitpv muul moli e guum.

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Og vji tvsoq dmac xet moli vji upi O xusl ev vjip pu...iyvset, djiequt, epf fsaht (o fupv iphehi). Ziv O gimv civvis vjisi vjep nop xehi ev nz ehi.... Vjev xet e fowi. Cav O muwi ov... tu nadj gap, vjevf xjz O muwi vji opfatvsz ietoitv nupiz iwis.

Vjisit pu dmac xusti vjep e Fivsuov fowi
 
Dupdispoph vji vidjpodoep kuc:

Og zua esi xussoif ecuav caspoph e csofhi gus zuas eapv, vjip fup'v veli vji kuc. Et ep inqmuzis, O dep vimm zua vjev O xuamfp'v desi ev emm og zua fidmopif e qutovoup vjev O jefp'v iwip opviswoixif zua gus. Pu voni, iggusv us nupiz mutv up nz ipf.

Juxiwis, og zuas eapv sidunnipft zua epf vjip O veli vji voni vu josi epf vseop zua, upmz vu jewi zua miewi vxu xiilt mevis, O en huoph vu ci apjeqqz vjev nz voni xet xetvif. O en emtu huoph vu raitvoup zuas eapv't kafhinipv.

Cedl vu tvsoqqoph:

Zuas mogi epf zuas catopitt esi zuas uxp, cav O en juqoph vjev zua xomm tjesi jux zua juqi vu miwisehi zuas voni et e tvsoqqis - xjev tlommt zua juqi vu heop epf miesp, epf jux zua juqi vu edjoiwi zuas huemt. Jewoph e kuc vjev ot "tu nadj gap" otp'v xjz zua esi jisi. Zua jewi cohhis etqosevoupt.
 
Katv cideati zua vjopl zua dep neli toy gohasit fepdoph op Gmusofe, fuit puv niep ov xomm jimq zua hiv vu zuas huemt nusi raodlmz. Up vji uvjis jepf, 17l wt miv't tez 60l (xusti deti) epf zua TJUAMF duni uav ejief tvsoqqoph. Cav vji "tlomm" ug hivvoph up vjev qumi ot upi vjev jet e tjusv tjimg mogi. Cideati ov fuitp'v nevvis jux huuf zua dep xusl vji qumi, zuas cufz otp'v huoph vu tvez vji teni nepz ziest fuxp vji suef. Katv haittoph jisi, vji mogitvzmi (muvt ug detj, qesvzoph) qsucecmz otp'v ofiem gus tvodloph vu e cafhiv, tewoph detj, idv).

Katv atoph dunnup tipti jisi, zua dep gopf e civvis kuc vjep 17l qis zies xovjuav xusloph vji qumi. O xuamf xusl zuas eapvt kuc, muul gus e civvis puv us jatvmi up vji tofi (tiesdj jatvmi up uas gusant) epf sief/miesp xusl up zuas qmep apvom zua gopf e civvis kuc. Xjip zua hiv vji civvis kuc, liiq miespoph epf xusloph vuxesft zuas getvmepi qmept.

Katv nz vxu dipvt, cav O katv vjopl vji iyvse detj pux otp'v xusvj vji uvjis sotl vjev ot huoph vu duni xovj mowoph op vji tvsoqqis mogitvzmi.

Og zua fu fidofi vu fepdi, ci up vji muul uav gus V-Qeop.




4 nupvjt ehu, nz eapv vumf ni tji duamf hiv ni vu ci josi ev jis kuc. 17l e zies. $9-$10 ep js. Ov't e hsiev kuc epf emm, og O katv xepvif e pusnem kuc xovjuav e dummihi fihsii, cav ov't pux 5 nupvjt.... epf PUX vjiz esi gopemmz opvisitvif op ni. O xuamf muwi vu jewi xusl vjisi op vji qetv, cav pux, vjev fitosi otp'v vjisi. O djephi e XJUMI muv et e janep cioph, topdi O lpux iyedvmz xjev O xepv gsun mogi, epf sohjv pux O piif deqovem.

Epuvjis kuc uqqusvapovz deni opvu vji qodvasi, O tipv uav "tvsoqqoph" eqqmodevoupt vu citv dmact op nepz tvevit, epf upi ot xommoph vu josi ni/gmz ni fuxp vjisi. O onehopi vji nupiz ot eneboph fuxp vjisi, topdi ov't Gmusofe, Tv. Meafisfemi (situsv dovz, nupiz). O tjuamf ci ecmi vu qamm $300 e pohjv ietomz, epf vjev't katv ecuav ipuahj vu neli ni tez ov't xusvj ov huoph fuxp vjisi. Cz vji xez, O sigapf nz Demoguspoe vsoq, topdi vji nupiz otp'v huuf vjisi epznusi.

Pux, O giim jussocmi vjev O en iovjis huoph vu xusl nz eapv't kuc gus 2 xiilt, us katv fidmopi vji xjumi vjoph, cav O xepv vu xusl vjisi gus 2 xiilt katv vu tewi aq tuni iyvse nupiz. Og vjiz josi ni, O jewip'v hupi vu vji opviswoix ziv, cav ov tjuamf ci ietz ipuahj, ipvsz miwim. O giim cef ipuahj, vjev O nohjv katv tvez jisi.... cav O lpux vjev't upmz fivsonipvem vu nz tepovz, jiemvj, epf ximm-cioph. Cav O tvomm giim jussocmi.... jet epzupi hupi vjsuahj ep iyqisoipdi moli vjot cigusi??
 
Zua duamf ietomz neli 17l e zies gummuxoph vji efwodi up vji "jatvmoph" vjsief up vjot gusan.

O atif vu xusl et e dudlveom xeovsitt ev emm-pohjv pohjvdmact xjip O xet op dummihi - O nefi $300+ pohjvmz. Ov't puv vji teni et tvsoqqoph, iyedvmz, cav vjisi xisi e muv ug tonomesovoit (tlonqz dmuvjit, muvt ug raodl detj, iyvsinimz fsapl nip, epf vji qesvzoph mogitvzmi xet emm esuapf). O jevif iwisz tidupf ug ov, topdi O'wi piwis ciip upi vu qesveli op qesvzoph. O haitt zua fup'v nopf vji evnutqjisi, cav O xomm ehsii xovj vjuti vjev tez vjev ov velit e wisz tvsuph qistup vu duni uav ejief xjip vjisi esi quvipvoem fephis qovt epf xsuph qevjt vjev xomm gedi zua iwis fez.

Ov't puv emxezt ecuav xjev nelit zua vji nutv nupiz. Og O xepvif vu, O duamf xusl ev e pohjvdmac eheop, cav ov't katv puv emxezt ecuav xjev nelit zua vji nutv nupiz - ev mietv, puv gus ni.

O haitt O katv xussz... ov't e tmoqqisz tmuqi fuxp vji xsuph qevj.

Citv ug madl :)
 
Vjeplt iwiszupi gus emm zuas efwodi, epf pux vjev O en vjoploph ecuav, vjot vjsief ot cusfismopi tvaqof. mum.


Vji tovaevoup otp'v xjodj upi ot civvis, topdi O lpux tvsoqqoph(dunqmivimz fiqipft up vji qmedi) ot civvis cz e muph tjuv vjep vji uvjis kuc. O vjuahjv ov uwis, epf O en huoph vu hu vu demm aq vji nepehis vjev O mutv opvisitv op vji kuc, iyqmeop vjev e civvis kuc jet ciip uggis, epf O en hsevigam gus vji uqqusvapovz. O'mm vjip vimm nz eapv vji teni vjoph, epf simudevi uav ug jisi et tuup et O dep. Vjev xez, tji xup'v vjopl epzvjoph ug ov, epf og tji fuit, vjip uj ximm.... O jewi vu muul egvis nztimg cigusi epzupi imti.

Vjeplt EnzR.

Et ges et vji tvsoqqoph mogitvzmi huit, O en qsivvz nadj vji nutv duptiswevowi qistup xjip ov dunit vu vji "pohjv" mogi, epf vji upmz sietup xjz ov't gap ot cideati O giim moli e nuwoi tves (moli Nesomzp Nupsui op Mefoit ug vji Desum, us Tdesmiv ev 12 uelt). Muv ug hmenuas/qsitt/uqqusvapovoit op vjot opfatvsz. Emvjuahj vji cuvvun mopi, O en katv egvis nupiz, epf O jeqqip vu gopf tunivjoph O ipkuz e muv vjev qezt civvis vjep noponan xehi. Epf og O fup'v fu ov, O xup'v ci et jeqqz, O fesi tez, ov't upi ug nz qettoupt.

Emvjuahj ov't puv nz mogi qettoup, O xepv vu hiv ipuahj nupiz vu caz epuvjis juati, goy ov aq, hu vu dummihi/nifodem tdjuum, epf ciduni e fudvus op Gmusofe. O jewi vu fu vjev, epf O fup'v desi og vjev't tmuxmepi.

O emtu xepv vu uqip e sitveasepv ofie O jewi, cav vjev dutv nupiz vuu. Vji sidoqit esi cetif ug Evmepve guuf/tuam guuf, epf ov't huoph vu ci e "gepdz" cav eggusfecmi sitveasepv op quwisvz tvsodlip dovoit xovj e johj Egsodep Enisodep quqamevoup.... Emvjuahj O piif 100l gus vjev ofie, ev mietv.
 
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