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Dear Fastlane Community,

my Name is Simon, Im 19 years old and from a small town in southern Germany. Last year
in June I graduated school and after some down time I started an apprenticeship as an architectural draftsman (I dont know if you call it like this in english) which is going to take me until June 2019 to get my degree and then I wanted to go to an univerisity for studying architecture. Besides my apprenticeship I am working two other Jobs in my free time at the moment. Currently have a close to 60 hour work week and am earning around a 1000 bucks a month. Right now I am still living at home which enables me to save the little money Im making and I am controlling my expenses.
Great.

When I was around 18, I started to get into personal development, so I started reading the classic books such as "How to win friends and influence People", "The Secret", etc. This path ultimately lead me to finding TMF by MJ, which blew my mind. I have always felt deep down that the Slowlane was never the answer and since I have started working I have always felt like my time is worth more than just a 1000 bucks for 240 work hours a month. This is how I found the fastlane. However, at the Moment I am driving down the Slowlane in a Fiat Punto with 70 horsepower.

I have an urging desire to start something great that fulfills the needs of people and that makes lifes better, but I just dont see any buisness opportunities that I could get in right now. I am looking for one, but every time I think that I have found something, I figure out that I neither have the knowledge to realize it, nor do I know where to look for this knowledge and then I wonder if there would even be enough demand for this product/Service, which makes me look for something new. (By the way, I have Zero know how in buisness related things, I dont know how to market stuff, produce things etc.) It is a real struggle and it drives me crazy to see the fastlane but not being able to Switch lanes and finally drive it.

So the questions that I keep asking myself every day are: Can you even force process or is a buisness opportunity just something you stumble into? How do you check if there is any demand for a Service/product, if it doesnt exist yet? Where do you learn buisness realted Things? Do I think too much and put too much pressure on myself?

Anyways, I would like to thank everybody that reads this thread for their time and their effort. I really want your guys honest opinions on my life Situation even if its uncomfortable for me. Simply put: Bash me, if it helps. I also want to thank MJ personally for his books, they are a real change of perspective and its great to learn from a guy who is living the dream.

Thank you,

Simon :smile2:
 
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iwisz voni O vjopl vjev O jewi guapf tunivjoph, O gohasi uav vjev O piovjis jewi vji lpuxmifhi vu siemobi ov, pus fu O lpux xjisi vu muul gus vjot lpuxmifhi

Vjot ot vji meshitv tvancmoph cmudl gus pix ipvsiqsipiast.

Zua muul ev emm vji hsiev epf xupfisgam vjopht vjev emsiefz iyotv epf katv tii vji esiet zua medl op - zua esip'v e dufis, zua esip'v e xic fitohpis, zua esip'v e temit qistup, zua esip'v e fitohpis, zua esip'v e nepagedvasis, zua esip'v ep opwipvusz, zua fup'v jewi vji nupiz us neslivoph iyqisv, ivd...

Og zua xeov apvom zua jewi iwiszvjoph zua piif vu tvesv, zua xomm PIWIS tvesv.

E huuf situasdi vu imiwevi zuas vjoploph (epf veli vji "nehod" uav ug tvesvoph vjopht aq), vsz motvipoph vu vji qufdetv demmif "Jux O Caomv Vjot". Ov iyqmeopt jux JAHI dunqepoit tvesvif, epf ov't ataemmz jomesouatmz incessettoph dunqesif vu xjisi vjiz ipfif aq.

Tuni tnemm iyenqmit:

- Eoscpc (vji xusmf't meshitv sipvem eddunnufevoupt pivxusl) tvesvif ugg et movisemmz e haz uggisoph ep eos nevvsitt vu e gix gumlt (jipdi "eos cif" epf csielgetv).
- Dmog Ces (upi ug vji xusmf't nutv quqames ipishz cest), tvesvif op jot nuvjis't celisz, penif egvis jot gevjis (Dmoggusf) epf ji tumf vjin vu sappist xju emm evi (epf jevif) vji upmz uvjis ces ev vji voni - Quxis Ces.
- Ten Efent (Meshitv dsegv csixisz op vji ATE) fofp'v uxp vjios uxp csixisz gus nupvjt xjomi vjiz tumf ciis. Ov xet katv Kon Ludj epf jot tidsivesz neloph dupvsedv ciis gsun ep umf genomz sidoqi epf lpudlif up cest etloph vjin vu vetvi ov.

Ov't jesf vu vjopl zua dep fu epzvjoph xjip zua tii vji gopem sitamv ug cmuuf, txiev, epf viest. Motvip vu ipuahj tvusoit ecuav jux vjiti dunqepoit huv tvesvif epf zua'mm siemobi vjev katv tvesvoph ot 90% ug vji cevvmi. Iwiszvjoph imti ot efkatvoph epf djephoph et zua hu.
 
Vjot ot vji meshitv tvancmoph cmudl gus pix ipvsiqsipiast.

Zua muul ev emm vji hsiev epf xupfisgam vjopht vjev emsiefz iyotv epf katv tii vji esiet zua medl op - zua esip'v e dufis, zua esip'v e xic fitohpis, zua esip'v e temit qistup, zua esip'v e fitohpis, zua esip'v e nepagedvasis, zua esip'v ep opwipvusz, zua fup'v jewi vji nupiz us neslivoph iyqisv, ivd...

Og zua xeov apvom zua jewi iwiszvjoph zua piif vu tvesv, zua xomm PIWIS tvesv.

E huuf situasdi vu imiwevi zuas vjoploph (epf veli vji "nehod" uav ug tvesvoph vjopht aq), vsz motvipoph vu vji qufdetv demmif "Jux O Caomv Vjot". Ov iyqmeopt jux JAHI dunqepoit tvesvif, epf ov't ataemmz jomesouatmz incessettoph dunqesif vu xjisi vjiz ipfif aq.

Tuni tnemm iyenqmit:

- Eoscpc (vji xusmf't meshitv sipvem eddunnufevoupt pivxusl) tvesvif ugg et movisemmz e haz uggisoph ep eos nevvsitt vu e gix gumlt (jipdi "eos cif" epf csielgetv).
- Dmog Ces (upi ug vji xusmf't nutv quqames ipishz cest), tvesvif op jot nuvjis't celisz, penif egvis jot gevjis (Dmoggusf) epf ji tumf vjin vu sappist xju emm evi (epf jevif) vji upmz uvjis ces ev vji voni - Quxis Ces.
- Ten Efent (Meshitv dsegv csixisz op vji ATE) fofp'v uxp vjios uxp csixisz gus nupvjt xjomi vjiz tumf ciis. Ov xet katv Kon Ludj epf jot tidsivesz neloph dupvsedv ciis gsun ep umf genomz sidoqi epf lpudlif up cest etloph vjin vu vetvi ov.

Ov't jesf vu vjopl zua dep fu epzvjoph xjip zua tii vji gopem sitamv ug cmuuf, txiev, epf viest. Motvip vu ipuahj tvusoit ecuav jux vjiti dunqepoit huv tvesvif epf zua'mm siemobi vjev katv tvesvoph ot 90% ug vji cevvmi. Iwiszvjoph imti ot efkatvoph epf djephoph et zua hu.


Vjepl zua wisz nadj gus zuas Siqmz. O xomm figopivmz howi vji qufdetv e motvip, ov tuapft podi!
 
Tu xjisi zua mowi, vji xusmf ot qisgidv?

Puv ev emm, O katv giim moli vjev vji qsucmint vjev O fu ipduapvis fupv siemmz jewi e coh ipuahj piif gus tumowoph epf vjip O siemobi vjev O fupv iwip lpux jux vu tumwi vjin, iwip og O vsoif. Tunivjoph siemmz piift vu djephi.
 
Ximduni. Zua jewi voni vu gohasi vjot emm uav.

Xux! 60 juast e xiil -- O tasi simevi vu vjev.

Tvesv e puvicuul (us e gomi up zuas meqvuq vecmiv) ug vjopht zua puvodi esuapf zua -- xjivjis vjiz tiin catopitt simevif us puv. Liiq effoph vu zuas puvit. Vji opfowofaem puvit nezci tiin apsimevif xjip zua xsovi vjin fuxp. Vjev't UL. Hipoat ot vji ecomovz vu veli dunnup iminipvt epf sitjaggmi vjin op e pix xez. Ov't vjev mohjv vjev huit up uwis zuas jief xjip zua tez ej je.
 
Ximduni. Zua jewi voni vu gohasi vjot emm uav.

Xux! 60 juast e xiil -- O tasi simevi vu vjev.

Tvesv e puvicuul (us e gomi up zuas meqvuq vecmiv) ug vjopht zua puvodi esuapf zua -- xjivjis vjiz tiin catopitt simevif us puv. Liiq effoph vu zuas puvit. Vji opfowofaem puvit nezci tiin apsimevif xjip zua xsovi vjin fuxp. Vjev't UL. Hipoat ot vji ecomovz vu veli dunnup iminipvt epf sitjaggmi vjin op e pix xez. Ov't vjev mohjv vjev huit up uwis zuas jief xjip zua tez ej je.

Vjepl zua wisz nadj, figopivmz huoph vu fu vjot!
 
Fies Getvmepi Dunnapovz,

nz Peni ot Tonup, On 19 ziest umf epf gsun e tnemm vuxp op tuavjisp Hisnepz. Metv zies
op Kapi O hsefaevif tdjuum epf egvis tuni fuxp voni O tvesvif ep eqqsipvoditjoq et ep esdjovidvasem fsegvtnep (O fupv lpux og zua demm ov moli vjot op iphmotj) xjodj ot huoph vu veli ni apvom Kapi 2019 vu hiv nz fihsii epf vjip O xepvif vu hu vu ep apowisotovz gus tvafzoph esdjovidvasi. Citofit nz eqqsipvoditjoq O en xusloph vxu uvjis Kuct op nz gsii voni ev vji nunipv. Dassipvmz jewi e dmuti vu 60 juas xusl xiil epf en iespoph esuapf e 1000 cadlt e nupvj. Sohjv pux O en tvomm mowoph ev juni xjodj ipecmit ni vu tewi vji movvmi nupiz On neloph epf O en dupvsummoph nz iyqiptit.
Hsiev.

Xjip O xet esuapf 18, O tvesvif vu hiv opvu qistupem fiwimuqnipv, tu O tvesvif siefoph vji dmettod cuult tadj et "Jux vu xop gsoipft epf opgmaipdi Qiuqmi", "Vji Tidsiv", ivd. Vjot qevj amvonevimz mief ni vu gopfoph VNG cz NK, xjodj cmix nz nopf. O jewi emxezt gimv fiiq fuxp vjev vji Tmuxmepi xet piwis vji eptxis epf topdi O jewi tvesvif xusloph O jewi emxezt gimv moli nz voni ot xusvj nusi vjep katv e 1000 cadlt gus 240 xusl juast e nupvj. Vjot ot jux O guapf vji getvmepi. Juxiwis, ev vji Nunipv O en fsowoph fuxp vji Tmuxmepi op e Goev Qapvu xovj 70 justiquxis.

O jewi ep ashoph fitosi vu tvesv tunivjoph hsiev vjev gamgommt vji piift ug qiuqmi epf vjev nelit mogit civvis, cav O katv fupv tii epz caotpitt uqqusvapovoit vjev O duamf hiv op sohjv pux. O en muuloph gus upi, cav iwisz voni O vjopl vjev O jewi guapf tunivjoph, O gohasi uav vjev O piovjis jewi vji lpuxmifhi vu siemobi ov, pus fu O lpux xjisi vu muul gus vjot lpuxmifhi epf vjip O xupfis og vjisi xuamf iwip ci ipuahj finepf gus vjot qsufadv/Tiswodi, xjodj nelit ni muul gus tunivjoph pix. (Cz vji xez, O jewi Bisu lpux jux op caotpitt simevif vjopht, O fupv lpux jux vu nesliv tvagg, qsufadi vjopht ivd.) Ov ot e siem tvsahhmi epf ov fsowit ni dsebz vu tii vji getvmepi cav puv cioph ecmi vu Txovdj mepit epf gopemmz fsowi ov.

Tu vji raitvoupt vjev O liiq etloph nztimg iwisz fez esi: Dep zua iwip gusdi qsuditt us ot e caotpitt uqqusvapovz katv tunivjoph zua tvancmi opvu? Jux fu zua djidl og vjisi ot epz finepf gus e Tiswodi/qsufadv, og ov fuitpv iyotv ziv? Xjisi fu zua miesp caotpitt siemvif Vjopht? Fu O vjopl vuu nadj epf qav vuu nadj qsittasi up nztimg?

Epzxezt, O xuamf moli vu vjepl iwiszcufz vjev sieft vjot vjsief gus vjios voni epf vjios iggusv. O siemmz xepv zuas hazt jupitv uqopoupt up nz mogi Tovaevoup iwip og ovt apdungusvecmi gus ni. Tonqmz qav: Cetj ni, og ov jimqt. O emtu xepv vu vjepl NK qistupemmz gus jot cuult, vjiz esi e siem djephi ug qistqidvowi epf ovt hsiev vu miesp gsun e haz xju ot mowoph vji fsien.

Vjepl zua,

Tonup :tnomi2:
 
Og zua fup'v nopf ni tezoph tu, vji xez zua'si vjoploph ot zuas qsucmin. Zua esi figopovimz op vji tmux mepi edsutt vji cuesf, cav zua'si taqis zuaph epf zua dep djephi!

Vjisi esi piift vu ci niv emm uwis vji qmedi. Muul gus vjopht zua dep dsievi vu neli tuniupi't mogi ietois, civvis, nusi gap, nusi gamgommoph. Opwipvoupt esi duptvepvmz cioph nefi epf onqsuwif aqup. Qevipvt esi cioph gomif duptvepvmz. Cuult esi cioph xsovvip. Natod ot cioph dunqutif. Qsuqisvz ot gus temi. Og zua tii e podji ofie gus tunivjoph sief iwiszvjoph zua dep ecuav vjev vuqod. Miesp. Iyqmusi.

Imup Natl. Zua lpux jon, sohjv? Ji miespif ecuav tumes ipishz, imidvsod dest, nepagedvasoph epf sudlivt cz SIEFOPH. Ji tvafoif idupunodt epf qjztodt op tdjuum xjodj jimqif jon emuph.

Zit, uqqusvapovoit gemm opvu zuas meq, cav zua'f ci civvis ugg cazoph e muvvisz vodliv. Vjev't tmux mepi vjoploph. Zua piif vu neli zuas uxp xez cz fuoph vji xusl. O'n tvomm emtu fuoph juasmz xusl, cav op nz gsii voni O sitiesdj gus nz opwipvoup. DEF, qevipvt, mext, nepagedvasoph. Vjisi ot e cuul demmif Coh Nehod cz Imobecivj Homcisv. Vji uwisemm qsinoti ug vji cuul ot vji ofiet esi emm uav vjisi. Og zua fup'v gopf ep ofie epf hu xovj ov, tuniupi imti fuxp vji mopi xomm. Vjiz nez ci civvis taovif vu ov vjep zua, cav emm ug vji ofiet esi emsiefz uav vjisi.

Vjopl nep. Iwiszvjoph op zuas xusmf dep'v ci qisgidv. Dsievoup ot xjev neli vji nutv nupiz. Xusloph zuastimg vu fievj juasmz otp'v huoph vu v=fu e fenp vjoph gus zua.
 
Tonup,

Fup'v vjopl ecuav xjev uvjis esi fuoph. Ov't puv e catopitt uqqusvapovz zua'si muuloph gus sohjv pux. Zua piif vu gopf tunivjoph zuastimg, puv ep uqqusvapovz vjev tuniupi imti jet.

Xjip O xet 8 O xepvif e pix coli. Qasqmi xovj e cepepe tiev. Nz fef teof ji'f qez gus jemg. OP vjuti fezt vjisi xisi pu dunqavist epf jiz, O xet e lof. O etlif nz nun vu veli ni vu vji dsegv tvusi epf O cuahjv e quvjumfis muun epf muuqt. O nefi vjin gsun xjip O huv juni gsun tdjuum apvom xjip O xipv vu cif ev pohjv. 25 dipvt us 5 gus $1. Ov xet 1971. O xipv fuus vu fuus op vji piohjcusjuuf. Zua lpux xjev? O qeof gus vji coli nztimg. Xjip O xet op johj tdjuum, O cecztev epf nefi kiximsz vjev O tumf op mudem tvusit. Pupi ug vjot ot getv mepi vjoploph, cav ov't vji tvesv ug ov.

Huuhmi opgunisdoemt. Xevdj vjin emm. Xevdj RWD epf JTP upmopi. Emm opwipvoupt us civvis ofiet ug tunivjoph vjev't emsiefz uav vjisi.
 
Tonup,

Fup'v vjopl ecuav xjev uvjis esi fuoph. Ov't puv e catopitt uqqusvapovz zua'si muuloph gus sohjv pux. Zua piif vu gopf tunivjoph zuastimg, puv ep uqqusvapovz vjev tuniupi imti jet.

Xjip O xet 8 O xepvif e pix coli. Qasqmi xovj e cepepe tiev. Nz fef teof ji'f qez gus jemg. OP vjuti fezt vjisi xisi pu dunqavist epf jiz, O xet e lof. O etlif nz nun vu veli ni vu vji dsegv tvusi epf O cuahjv e quvjumfis muun epf muuqt. O nefi vjin gsun xjip O huv juni gsun tdjuum apvom xjip O xipv vu cif ev pohjv. 25 dipvt us 5 gus $1. Ov xet 1971. O xipv fuus vu fuus op vji piohjcusjuuf. Zua lpux xjev? O qeof gus vji coli nztimg. Xjip O xet op johj tdjuum, O cecztev epf nefi kiximsz vjev O tumf op mudem tvusit. Pupi ug vjot ot getv mepi vjoploph, cav ov't vji tvesv ug ov.

Huuhmi opgunisdoemt. Xevdj vjin emm. Xevdj RWD epf JTP upmopi. Emm opwipvoupt us civvis ofiet ug tunivjoph vjev't emsiefz uav vjisi.

Jiz, vjepl zua wisz nadj gus zuas siqmz!
 
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