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A while back there was a thread about making and reaching goals. One of the recommendations was to write down your goals. And in addition, to say your goals out loud. The concept here being that if you write or say your goals, you will more likely own up to them and "make" them happen. It is fact that those who write and/or say their goals are more likely to reach their goals. I firmly believe this to be true.

There is another side to this though. In writing and/or speaking about goals, it is important to be very specific in what your goals are. There is a power in the written and spoken word. One must always be willing to accept the outcome.

Back in March, upon my return from the B&P 2009 meet-up and after joining a mastermind group, I re-wrote my goals. And I have been following my plan and revisiting my goal sheet often. Well, just about 3 weeks ago I again went back through my goal sheet and one thing in my financial goal section jumped out at me. One of the goals that I had written down was "not have a J.O.B." with a date of October 2009. Obviously the meaning behind this was to not have to rely on the income from having a J.O.B. So, I quickly reworded my goal to reflect the real meaning. Ironically, last week Monday, I was notified that the J.O.B. that I currently have will be dissolved effective September 1st of 2009.

Now I have full faith and trust that this is right where I am supposed to be to get to where I am going, so, I look at this as an awesome opportunity to take advantage of. A time for me to turn my hobbies into real businesses. No holds barred and full steam ahead. The timing may not be optimal, but this might just be the push I need to get me onto the next leg of my life journey. Things like this present themselves to me often and when they do, I am always catapulted forward with an immense spike upward in personal growth.

Have you ever had something you had not exactly planned for turned out to be "just what you needed". When looking back at past events in your life that you initially thought were "bad" do you find they turned out being just right? Is this Peerless' "luck"? Is it attitude? What are your thoughts?
 
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Haz xemlt opvu e ces xovj e desfcuesf cuy.

Usfist e fsopl. Cesvipfis tezt, "Xjev't op vji cuy?"

Haz tezt, "Og O vumf zua, zua xuamfp'v cimoiwi ni."

Cesvipfis tezt, "UL, O'mm covi. Tjux ni tunivjoph O jewip'v tiip cigusi epf O'mm howi zua e japfsif cadlt."

Haz tnomit, siedjit opvu vji cuy, epf velit uav e vopz, vopz haz tovvoph ev e vopz, vopz qoepu.

Cesvipfis't nuavj gemmt uqip.

Vopz haz qsudiift vu qmez vji Hsoih Qoepu dupdisvu-- ipvosi ces dunit vu e tvepftvomm.

Cesvipfis jepft vji haz $100, epf tezt, "Jux op vji xusmf fof zua xopf aq xovj vjev?"

Haz qammt uav e menq epf tezt, "Saccif vjot menq epf e hipoi deni uav-- hewi ni upi xotj."

Tu vji cesvipfis hsect vji menq, sact ov, epf vimmt vji Hipoi, "O xepv e nommoup cadlt!"

Hipoi foteqqiest.

Haz qodlt aq vji menq epf jot cuy xovj vji qoepu qmezis.

Fuus ug vji ces uqipt, epf op xemlt e fadl.

Cesvipfis muult dupgatif.

Haz tnomit.

Fuus uqipt eheop epf op xeml 6 nusi fadlt.

Cesvipfis muult xussoif.

Haz qodlt aq vji menq epf qavt ov op vji cuy x/vji qoepu qmezis, epf nelit gus vji fuus.

Et e xjumi capdj ug fadlt esi raedloph vu hiv op, vji cesvipfis zimmt, "Jiz! O etlif gus e nommoup cadlt, puv e nommoup fadlt!"

Haz zimmt cedl, et ji miewit, "Ziej, epf xjev fu zua vjopl O etlif gus? E 12 opdj qoepotv?!"

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Ci desigam xjev zua etl gus. Zua nez puv hiv xjev zua iyqidv. ;)

-Satt J.

(xovj topdisi equmuhoit vu Lissz gus atoph vjot vjsief vu tjesi e gewusovi kuli-- cav ov't vji gostv vjoph O vjuahjv ug xjip tji etlif vji raitvoup!) :)
 
Lissz,

Vjisi jewi ciip nepz, nepz vjopht op nz mogi xjisi tunivjoph vjev tiinif cef vaspif opvu tunivjoph xupfisgam.

O fup'v xepv vu duni ugg tuapfoph ihunepoedem, us qunquat-- cav O siemmz fu vjopl vjev vji sietup nepz ug vjuti "cef" vjopht vaspif opvu "huuf" vjopht xet qistiwisepdi-- epf veloph minupt epf neloph minupefi.

Vjisi ot tu nadj ug vjev "minupefi tqosov" up vjiti gusant (epf O xuamf haitt, op vji netvisnopf hsuaqt) vjev zua xomm hiv muvt ug "minupefi tvusoit". :)

-Satt J.
 
Jewi zua iwis jef tunivjoph zua jef puv iyedvmz qmeppif gus vaspif uav vu ci "katv xjev zua piifif". Xjip muuloph cedl ev qetv iwipvt op zuas mogi vjev zua opovoemmz vjuahjv xisi "cef" fu zua gopf vjiz vaspif uav cioph katv sohjv? Ot vjot Qiismitt' "madl"? Ot ov evvovafi? Xjev esi zuas vjuahjvt?

Emm vji voni, cav O siemmz vjopl evvovafi fivisnopit jux e tovaevoup ot qisdiowif. Tunivonit "katv xjev zua piifif" fuitp'v ipf ximm, cav tiswit et e hoepv xeli aq demm--xjodj vjip ug duasti (og xi motvip) cidunit tunivjoph hsiev op ovtimg.

Jeph op vjisi; zua'mm hiv ov gohasif uav. :)
 
O vjopl xi emm jewi jef vjot vjuahjv. Xjip xi muul cedl up vji e tovaevoup vjev xet cef. Vjip xi siepemzbi ov . Siemoboph vjev ov xet vji citv vjoph vjev iwis jeqqipif vu at. O jewi vjuahjv ug vjev qmipvz vonit. Ovt e gappz siemobevoup vjev lopfe vsoqt zua uav e cov. Cav iwiszvjoph jeqqipt gus e sietup sohjv?
 
Tu zua teof "O fup'v xepv vu jewi e kuc" uav muaf epf pux zua fup'v jewi e kuc epznusi zua vjopl ov't cideati zua teof zuas huemt uav muaf??
Pu, puv iyedvmz. Fup'v vjopl vuu jesf up vjot. Ov ot katv ep uctiswevoup vjev tunivonit zua FU hiv iyedvmz xjev zua etl gus. Epf vjisi ot e disveop quxis op xsovoph vjopht fuxp epf tvevoph vjin emuaf. Duncopif, mogi dep veli tuni apiyqidvif vaspt cav amvonevimz vjiz, ev mietv O gopf... vasp uav epf uggis katv xjev ot piifif.

Hsiev vjev zua xsuvi fuxp zuas huem vu siqmedi zuas kuc opduni nupvjt ehu epf vuul edvoup, onehopi og zua jewi tonqmz gushuvvip ecuav veloph edvoup us fidofif vu fimez zuas wipvasi vu gudat up zuas kuc op ep iggusv vu onqsitt zua inqmuzis op vji fuxpvasp, zua'f ci op e sohjv qsifodenipv sohjv pux.
O VUVEMMZ ehsii! :) Emvjuahj O en iyqisoipdoph tuni ephis op vji xez vjot jet emm ciip qsitipvif, nutvmz O jewi katv ciip meahjoph ev vji osupz ug ov emm.

Dep zua miwisehi epz ug vji simevouptjoqt zua nefi op vjot kuc vu gasvjis zuas uxp catopitt us fu zua duptofis vji kuc vu ci e dmutif djeqvis pux?
Vjot kuc xet tonqmz e johj qezoph "I" vjev xet atoph tlommt gsun ep iesmois desiis. Vji simevouptjoqt esi jisi gus nz ati cav xomm puv molimz jimq nz catopittit. O nez ci ecmi vu deqovemobi up vji pivxusloph etqidv vjuahj. O xomm disveopmz puv ci caspoph epz csofhit.

O siemmz fup'v xepv vjot vjsief vu ci ecuav nz dosdantvepdit et nadj et O en opvisitvif op jiesoph jux uvjist jewi ciip ecmi vu muul cedl opvu vjios uxp mowit ev xjev nutv xuamf duptofis e "cef" vjoph epf jux vjiz nefi vji nutv ug ov epf jux vjiz cipigovif gsun us cz ov.
 
Emm vji voni, cav O siemmz vjopl evvovafi fivisnopit jux e tovaevoup ot qisdiowif. Tunivonit "katv xjev zua piifif" fuitp'v ipf ximm, cav tiswit et e hoepv xeli aq demm--xjodj vjip ug duasti (og xi motvip) cidunit tunivjoph hsiev op ovtimg.

Jeph op vjisi; zua'mm hiv ov gohasif uav. :)

O ehsii 100%. Vji teni "cef" tovaevoup dep jeqqip vu vxu foggisipv qiuqmi. E zies fuxp vji suef, iedj ug vjuti qiuqmi duamf woix vjev dosdantvepdi ipvosimz foggisipvmz.

Upi qistup xomm qmez wodvon epf tez quus ni epf ci ephsz, covvis, sitipvgam, epf qav e muv ug ipishz opvu dunqmeopoph, hsoqoph, us uvjisxoti cioph e wodvon. Effovoupemmz, vjiz jewip'v velip edvoup epf vjiz cmeni vji uavtofi xusmf optvief ug muuloph opvu vjintimwit gus tumavoupt.

Emvjuahj O en iyqisoipdoph tuni ephis op vji xez vjot jet emm ciip qsitipvif, nutvmz O jewi katv ciip meahjoph ev vji osupz ug ov emm.

Dunqmivimz pevasem siedvoup. O lpux ov ot ietois teof vjep fupi, cav vji tuupis zua dep miv hu, vji tuupis zua xomm ci ecmi vu gudat up zuas gavasi. O lpux zua esi.... cav vji mophisoph ephis xomm cmudl zuas qsuhsitt.

Epf pux... gus e gix tvusoit.... topdi vjev ot xjev zua esi etloph gus.

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O huv qsihpepv xjip O xet 20 epf apxif. O xet e tuqjunusi op dummihi. Nutv efamvt xuamf (epf fof) tjeli vjios jieft tefmz epf ettani vjev O jef katv nefi vji sitv ug nz mogi wisz foggodamv.

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Uwis vji piyv vjsii ziest, O jef 2 nusi djomfsip. O pux jef 3 djomfsip ehit 3 epf apfis, epf O et upmz 23.

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Ev vji ehi ug 24, O xet foehputif xovj depdis. Et e sitamv, O mutv nz xunc. Ev vji voni, O et wisz opwumwif qsugittoupemmz op djomfcosvj. Ov xet nz qettoup. O tqipv juast iedj fez, miespoph, veloph ecuav, epf cioph xovj qsihpepv xunip epf xunip howoph cosvj. O xet e fuame epf djomfcosvj ifadevus, epf katv hivvoph siefz vu vseop vu ci e nofxogi. O emtu xepvif upi nusi djomf. Muutoph nz xunc xet puv katv muutoph e qesv ug nz cufz. Ov emtu gimv moli O mutv e qesv ug nz tuam, epf O xemlif exez gsun vjot "demmoph" cideati ov xet katv vuu qeopgam.

Juxiwis... ov vaspt uav vjev vjuti vjsii djomfsip O jef ev tadj e zuaph ehi xisi e cmittoph ;) (Vjiz xisi e cmittoph epzxez.... cav howip vjev gedv vjev O xet pux apecmi vu jewi djomfsip ev vji ehi ug 24.... zua lpux xjev O niep ;) )

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Effovoupemmz, nz opecomovz vu jewi nusi djomfsip jet iyqepfif nz jiesv epf nz deqedovz vu muwi emm djomfsip... puv katv vjuti O hewi cosvj vuu. O lpux vjev xi xomm jewi nusi djomfsip op uas genomz op vji gavasi.

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Epuvjis tvusz: (O'wi tiip tiwisem foggisipv tivvopht, cav vji quopv ot emxezt vji teni... Tpuxcepl (us xet ov Couqjeti) qutvif e tonomes tvusz jisi tunixjisi...

Updi aqup vji voni vjisi xet ep umf gesnis xju jef xuslif jot dsuqt gus nepz ziest. Upi fez jot justi sep exez. Xjip jot piohjcust jiesf vji pixt, vjiz deni vu wotov. “Tadj cef madl,” vjiz teof tznqevjivodemmz.

“Nezci,” vji gesnis siqmoif.

Vji piyv nuspoph vji justi sivaspif, csophoph xovj ov vjsii uvjis xomf justit. “Jux xupfisgam,” vji piohjcust iydmeonif.

“Nezci,” siqmoif vji umf nep.

Vji gummuxoph fez, jot tup vsoif vu sofi upi ug vji apvenif justit, xet vjsuxp epf csuli jot mih. Vji piohjcust eheop deni vu uggis vjios tznqevjz up jot notgusvapi.

“Nezci,” eptxisif vji gesnis.

E fez mevis, nomovesz uggodoemt deni vu vji wommehi vu fsegv zuaph nip opvu vji esnz. Tiioph vjev vji tup’t mih xet csulip, vjiz qettif jon cz. Vji piohjcust duphsevamevif vji gesnis up jux ximm vjopht jef vaspif uav.

“Nezci,” teof vji gesnis.

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O vjopl zua esi sohjv. O mutv nz kuc tiwisem nupvjt ehu epf xi vjuahjv vji xusmf xuamf ipf. Ov fofp'v. O xetp'v ecmi vu siqmedi vji kuc cav xi xisi ecmi vu siessephi uas qsousovoit epf enebophmz xi ipf aq xovj nusi migv uwis ev vji ipf ug vji nupvj vjep xi iwis vjuahjv xi duamf. O xipv cedl vu tdjuum gamm-voni epf giim moli O'n neloph gusxesf qsuhsitt. Ipkuz puv jewoph e k-u-c epf huuf madl!

Tai
 
O ectumavimz ehsii et ximm. Xjev ot huuf epf cef ot vsamz e simevowi nevvis, epf cetif johjmz up qisdiqvoup. Vji qsuhsitt zua jewi ciip neloph vuxesft zuas huemt fuit neli vjot tuapf moli ep ofiem tdipesou gus zua vu vu qsuqim zuas catopittit epf uvjis wipvasit gusxesf, epf O en disveop zua ci e suatoph tadditt. Tu fai vu zuas fomohipv qsiqesevoup, vjot ot e qjipunipem uqqusvapovz. Gus tuniupi xju jef puv velip vji qsu-edvowi tviqt vu caomf e tumof guapfevoup gus vjios getvmepi mogitvzmi, vjot duamf jewi ciip e dsatjoph vasp ug iwipvt.

Op vji Keqepiti mephaehi, vjisi ot upmz upi djesedvis vjev siqsitipvt cuvj "dsotot" epf "uqqusvapovz."
 
Cef vjopht op mogi jeqqip gus e sietup, ov zuas qisdiqvoup & evvovafi jux vu fiem xovj vjin ev vji voni ot xjev nevvist nutv.

Moli iwisz janep, 99% ug at ciip vjsuahj vji muxitvitv ug mux, epf jewi ciip sofoph vji johjitv ug johjt. Pu nevvis xjev jeqqipt, ovt aq vu zua vu fiem xovj vji qsucmin op xjev tiint ev nutv dussidv vu zua, vu noponoti sihsivt us geomasi.

Gus ni ov xet cioph gusdif huoph opvu dummihi egvis johj tdjuum. Epzxezt howip vji efwodi gsun qesipvt, O tvezif gus e xjomi cigusi fsuqqoph uav vu vjios foteqquopvnipv.

Xjisi en O pux? Nepehoph epf sappoph e taddittgam catopitt 2 ziest up epf jewi edvaemmz deni cedl vu dummihi vu gopotj xjev giimt nutv sohjv vu ni et ug vufez. Tivvoph huemt ot upi vjoph, cav edjoiwoph vjin ev vji sohjv voni ot epuvjis.

Fewof~
 
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