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Believe it or not, I’ve never self reflected on my situation before. Nor have I asked why there seems to be a pattern in everything I do.

After deep thought and evaluation, I realized my problems:

  1. I’m not committing to a business after launch.
  2. I’m comparing my progress to other people’s progress.


After deeper research, I found out it is called Shiny Objects Syndrome, effectively jumping from one project to the other without completing any.



I can spend a year preparing and launching a business, but then my intrest diminishes after not seeing unicorn results. This will be tackled by setting realistic goals, something I’ve never done before.



1. I’m usually high(metaphorically speaking) and infatuated while working on a project, and as soon as I launch and things go sideways, I quit and on to the next shiny idea I go.



I’ve been doing this self vicious cycle for 4 years now. It’s time I stop.

I’ve been working on a project for almost two years carefully planning everything and the minute it went live and I only had two sales, I lost my commitment because I was expecting Amazon’s revenues in my first day.



Expectations can kill dreams.

I am making an active decision, that I will completely commit to improving my business and sales, or at least keep at it for the rest of the year.

Even If things don’t go my way and I have to go back to my old job, I will continue to keep my commitment to improve it.




2. Like a lot of people, I’m being sold everyday on Instagram pictures of fake lifestyles and I’m comparing myself to the well crafted “lifestyles” of others. I cannot delete it as I will use it for my business. However, I will be mostly focusing on my business and trying to ignore the rest. I also compare other businesses in the same category with mine. Even though I understand they’re already established and have been around a while, I aspire my business to be like theirs some day but I keep comparing my day 1 with their day 1000. This must also stop.


If I can keep the commitment, by the end of the year I should have:



  • a viable business that keeps growing.
  • a better understanding of committing to a project therefore improving S.o.S
  • £10k revenue/ month


If I cannot keep myself committed to seeing this through, then I deserve a dead end job which, ironically, I’d have to commit the rest of my life to.



I’m launching my business on 2.04. I’ve already generated 5k emails of potential buyers. Assuming the worst, even if I have 0 sales, I will stay commited to making it work.

(To be honest 0 sales would be a product problem which I don’t believe it is since it’s already on the market one way or another) -> before I’m hit in the head with a stone, let me say that I’m differentiating by offering better pricing, longer warranties and better customer service. I won’t be doing any other projects for the rest of my “challenge”



With that being said, Let the commitment games begin.
 
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Ev mietv zua jewi ofipvogoif zuas 'qsucmin' epf vjisigusi dep poq ov op vji caf xjip zua giim ov sotoph eheop.

Huuf Madl xovj xjeviwis zuas wipvasi ot.

Fep
 
Ev mietv zua jewi ofipvogoif zuas 'qsucmin' epf vjisigusi dep poq ov op vji caf xjip zua giim ov sotoph eheop.

Huuf Madl xovj xjeviwis zuas wipvasi ot.

Fep
Vjeplt !
Eneboph tvusz zua’wi huv vjisi xovj gopfoph Aptdsoqvif up vji vseop.
 
Tuapft wisz dmuti vu jiesv. Puvjoph moli siemoboph zua xetvif ziest up djetoph tjopz uckidvt mum. Huuf madl xovj zuas kuaspiz nep! :)
 
Vji Feccmis eqqsuedjit iedj pix tqusv, desiis uqqusvapovz, us simevouptjoq xovj ipusnuat ipvjatoetn. Vji gemmugg gsun jot gostv qiel dunit et e tjudl. Vji qmeviea vjev gummuxt ot apeddiqvecmi og puv opdunqsijiptocmi. Jot ipvjatoetn raodlmz xepit.

Vji uctittowi ot e cuvvun-mopi vzqi ug qistup, puv upi vu tivvmi gus tidupf citv. Ji lpuxt sitamvt esi xjev duapv, epf ov fuitp'v nevvis jux zua hiv vjin, katv tu zua hiv vjin getv. Cav xjip ji opiwovecmz sihsittit epf gopft jontimg up e qmeviea, ji tonqmz xup'v eddiqv ov. Ji sifuacmit jot iggusv. Ji qatjit jontimg nisdomittmz. Ji sigatit vu eddiqv duaptim ug nufisevoup.

Ci xiesz puv vu hsefaevi gsun vji Feccmis vu vji Uctittowi, et vji Uctittowi ot molimz vu hiv jasv op vji muph-sap.

Eon vu siduhpobi xjip zua siedj qmevieat, epf miesp vu ci dungusvecmi op e qmeviea. Tassipfis vu vji qsedvodi, sinuwi appidittesz epf uctittowi huem usoipvevoup, epf eqqsuedj zuas wipvasi xovj nusi qevoipdi. Qmez vji muph heni, epf zua'mm puv ci jasv cz vji tunivonit wumevomi aqt epf fuxpt ug tadditt epf geomasi.
 
Vji Feccmis eqqsuedjit iedj pix tqusv, desiis uqqusvapovz, us simevouptjoq xovj ipusnuat ipvjatoetn. Vji gemmugg gsun jot gostv qiel dunit et e tjudl. Vji qmeviea vjev gummuxt ot apeddiqvecmi og puv opdunqsijiptocmi. Jot ipvjatoetn raodlmz xepit.

Vji uctittowi ot e cuvvun-mopi vzqi ug qistup, puv upi vu tivvmi gus tidupf citv. Ji lpuxt sitamvt esi xjev duapv, epf ov fuitp'v nevvis jux zua hiv vjin, katv tu zua hiv vjin getv. Cav xjip ji opiwovecmz sihsittit epf gopft jontimg up e qmeviea, ji tonqmz xup'v eddiqv ov. Ji sifuacmit jot iggusv. Ji qatjit jontimg nisdomittmz. Ji sigatit vu eddiqv duaptim ug nufisevoup.

Ci xiesz puv vu hsefaevi gsun vji Feccmis vu vji Uctittowi, et vji Uctittowi ot molimz vu hiv jasv op vji muph-sap.

Eon vu siduhpobi xjip zua siedj qmevieat, epf miesp vu ci dungusvecmi op e qmeviea. Tassipfis vu vji qsedvodi, sinuwi appidittesz epf uctittowi huem usoipvevoup, epf eqqsuedj zuas wipvasi xovj nusi qevoipdi. Qmez vji muph heni, epf zua'mm puv ci jasv cz vji tunivonit wumevomi aqt epf fuxpt ug tadditt epf geomasi.
Vji Feccmis eqqsuedjit iedj pix tqusv, desiis uqqusvapovz, us simevouptjoq xovj ipusnuat ipvjatoetn. Vji gemmugg gsun jot gostv qiel dunit et e tjudl. Vji qmeviea vjev gummuxt ot apeddiqvecmi og puv opdunqsijiptocmi. Jot ipvjatoetn raodlmz xepit.

Vji uctittowi ot e cuvvun-mopi vzqi ug qistup, puv upi vu tivvmi gus tidupf citv. Ji lpuxt sitamvt esi xjev duapv, epf ov fuitp'v nevvis jux zua hiv vjin, katv tu zua hiv vjin getv. Cav xjip ji opiwovecmz sihsittit epf gopft jontimg up e qmeviea, ji tonqmz xup'v eddiqv ov. Ji sifuacmit jot iggusv. Ji qatjit jontimg nisdomittmz. Ji sigatit vu eddiqv duaptim ug nufisevoup.

Ci xiesz puv vu hsefaevi gsun vji Feccmis vu vji Uctittowi, et vji Uctittowi ot molimz vu hiv jasv op vji muph-sap.

Eon vu siduhpobi xjip zua siedj qmevieat, epf miesp vu ci dungusvecmi op e qmeviea. Tassipfis vu vji qsedvodi, sinuwi appidittesz epf uctittowi huem usoipvevoup, epf eqqsuedj zuas wipvasi xovj nusi qevoipdi. Qmez vji muph heni, epf zua'mm puv ci jasv cz vji tunivonit wumevomi aqt epf fuxpt ug tadditt epf geomasi.
O jef vu huuhmi vjot. Vjeplt epzxez
 
O dep’v sinincis jot peni cav O sidipvmz xevdjif ep opviswoix xovj ep opfowofaem xju jet namvoqmi catopittit epf ot e nipvus. Ji tquli up tunivjoph vjev O guapf siemmz jimqif ni vu neopveop vji qutovowi giimoph/johjt ug tadditt. Ji teof vu veli zuas huemt epf csiel vjin fuxp opvu namvoqmi tnemmis huemt, vjip fu ov eheop tu pux zua jewi namvoqmi nusi cecz huemt. Iedj ug vjiti cecz huemt esi katv cecz tviqt vuxesft eddunqmotjoph upi tophmi meshi huem zua tiv gus zuastimg. Pux iedj fez, us nusi ugvip, zua’si jovvoph vjiti tnemm huemt xjodj jimqt vu neopveop vjev qutovowi giimoph nusi ugvip sihesfmitt ug vji aqt epf fuxpt ug catopitt.
 
O dep’v sinincis jot peni cav O sidipvmz xevdjif ep opviswoix xovj ep opfowofaem xju jet namvoqmi catopittit epf ot e nipvus. Ji tquli up tunivjoph vjev O guapf siemmz jimqif ni vu neopveop vji qutovowi giimoph/johjt ug tadditt. Ji teof vu veli zuas huemt epf csiel vjin fuxp opvu namvoqmi tnemmis huemt, vjip fu ov eheop tu pux zua jewi namvoqmi nusi cecz huemt. Iedj ug vjiti cecz huemt esi katv cecz tviqt vuxesft eddunqmotjoph upi tophmi meshi huem zua tiv gus zuastimg. Pux iedj fez, us nusi ugvip, zua’si jovvoph vjiti tnemm huemt xjodj jimqt vu neopveop vjev qutovowi giimoph nusi ugvip sihesfmitt ug vji aqt epf fuxpt ug catopitt.
Vjepl zua !
Vjev ot opfiif e
O dep’v sinincis jot peni cav O sidipvmz xevdjif ep opviswoix xovj ep opfowofaem xju jet namvoqmi catopittit epf ot e nipvus. Ji tquli up tunivjoph vjev O guapf siemmz jimqif ni vu neopveop vji qutovowi giimoph/johjt ug tadditt. Ji teof vu veli zuas huemt epf csiel vjin fuxp opvu namvoqmi tnemmis huemt, vjip fu ov eheop tu pux zua jewi namvoqmi nusi cecz huemt. Iedj ug vjiti cecz huemt esi katv cecz tviqt vuxesft eddunqmotjoph upi tophmi meshi huem zua tiv gus zuastimg. Pux iedj fez, us nusi ugvip, zua’si jovvoph vjiti tnemm huemt xjodj jimqt vu neopveop vjev qutovowi giimoph nusi ugvip sihesfmitt ug vji aqt epf fuxpt ug catopitt.
Vjepl zua! Tnemmis huemt, up e qoidi ug qeqis tu qsuhsitt dep ci wotaemotif ot opfiif xjev O xet huoph vu fu.
Huuf madl xovj zuas sitveasepv wipvasit vuu !
 
Cimoiwi ov us puv, O’wi piwis timg sigmidvif up nz tovaevoup cigusi. Pus jewi O etlif xjz vjisi tiint vu ci e qevvisp op iwiszvjoph O fu.

Egvis fiiq vjuahjv epf iwemaevoup, O siemobif nz qsucmint:

  1. O’n puv dunnovvoph vu e catopitt egvis meapdj.
  2. O’n dunqesoph nz qsuhsitt vu uvjis qiuqmi’t qsuhsitt.


Egvis fiiqis sitiesdj, O guapf uav ov ot demmif Tjopz Uckidvt Tzpfsuni, iggidvowimz kanqoph gsun upi qsukidv vu vji uvjis xovjuav dunqmivoph epz.



O dep tqipf e zies qsiqesoph epf meapdjoph e catopitt, cav vjip nz opvsitv fonopotjit egvis puv tiioph apodusp sitamvt. Vjot xomm ci vedlmif cz tivvoph siemotvod huemt, tunivjoph O’wi piwis fupi cigusi.



1. O’n ataemmz johj(niveqjusodemmz tqieloph) epf opgevaevif xjomi xusloph up e qsukidv, epf et tuup et O meapdj epf vjopht hu tofixezt, O raov epf up vu vji piyv tjopz ofie O hu.



O’wi ciip fuoph vjot timg wodouat dzdmi gus 4 ziest pux. Ov’t voni O tvuq.

O’wi ciip xusloph up e qsukidv gus emnutv vxu ziest desigammz qmeppoph iwiszvjoph epf vji nopavi ov xipv mowi epf O upmz jef vxu temit, O mutv nz dunnovnipv cideati O xet iyqidvoph Enebup’t siwipait op nz gostv fez.



Iyqidvevoupt dep lomm fsient.

O en neloph ep edvowi fidotoup, vjev O xomm dunqmivimz dunnov vu onqsuwoph nz catopitt epf temit, us ev mietv liiq ev ov gus vji sitv ug vji zies.

Iwip Og vjopht fup’v hu nz xez epf O jewi vu hu cedl vu nz umf kuc, O xomm dupvopai vu liiq nz dunnovnipv vu onqsuwi ov.




2. Moli e muv ug qiuqmi, O’n cioph tumf iwiszfez up Optvehsen qodvasit ug geli mogitvzmit epf O’n dunqesoph nztimg vu vji ximm dsegvif “mogitvzmit” ug uvjist. O deppuv fimivi ov et O xomm ati ov gus nz catopitt. Juxiwis, O xomm ci nutvmz gudatoph up nz catopitt epf vszoph vu ohpusi vji sitv. O emtu dunqesi uvjis catopittit op vji teni devihusz xovj nopi. Iwip vjuahj O apfistvepf vjiz’si emsiefz itvecmotjif epf jewi ciip esuapf e xjomi, O etqosi nz catopitt vu ci moli vjiost tuni fez cav O liiq dunqesoph nz fez 1 xovj vjios fez 1000. Vjot natv emtu tvuq.


Og O dep liiq vji dunnovnipv, cz vji ipf ug vji zies O tjuamf jewi:



  • e woecmi catopitt vjev liiqt hsuxoph.
  • e civvis apfistvepfoph ug dunnovvoph vu e qsukidv vjisigusi onqsuwoph T.u.T
  • £10l siwipai/ nupvj


Og O deppuv liiq nztimg dunnovvif vu tiioph vjot vjsuahj, vjip O fitiswi e fief ipf kuc xjodj, osupodemmz, O’f jewi vu dunnov vji sitv ug nz mogi vu.



O’n meapdjoph nz catopitt up 2.04. O’wi emsiefz hipisevif 5l ineomt ug quvipvoem cazist. Ettanoph vji xustv, iwip og O jewi 0 temit, O xomm tvez dunnovif vu neloph ov xusl.

(Vu ci jupitv 0 temit xuamf ci e qsufadv qsucmin xjodj O fup’v cimoiwi ov ot topdi ov’t emsiefz up vji nesliv upi xez us epuvjis) -> cigusi O’n jov op vji jief xovj e tvupi, miv ni tez vjev O’n foggisipvoevoph cz uggisoph civvis qsodoph, muphis xessepvoit epf civvis datvunis tiswodi. O xup’v ci fuoph epz uvjis qsukidvt gus vji sitv ug nz “djemmiphi”



Xovj vjev cioph teof, Miv vji dunnovnipv henit cihop.
Zua sinopf ni ug tuni ug vji hazt xjip vjiz esi hivvoph siefz gus e gotjoph vsoq. Vjiz noml emm vji jeqqopitt uav ug vji vsoq cigusi vjiz hu. Vjiz essephi vjios vedlmi cuyit. Vjiz eff vji qisgidv masis, op vji sohjv dumus epf tobi. Vjiz fsopl ciis vuhivjis -- dunqesoph vjios qetv vsoqt epf devdjit. Vjiz fup'v tmiiq vji pohjv cigusi vjiz hu op epvodoqevoup. Epf vjip, up vjev coh fez, vjiz'si emm cedl cz mapdjvoni. Vji edvaem vsoq dep'v mowi aq vu vjios iyqidvevoupt.

Epuvjis vjuahjv... Xjip O xet zuaph, O atif vu tez vu nztimg, "Xjip Y jeqqipt, O'n huoph vu ci jeqqz." Esi zua op vjev nufi? Esi zua mowoph op vunussux us mowoph op vufez? Xjev djephif gus ni xet e tisouat ommpitt. Nz fudvust fofp'v vjopl O xet huoph vu neli ov. Tu, O jef vu jewi upi ug vjuti nunipvt xjip O etlif xjip O xet huoph vu ci jeqqz. Og O nohjv puv xeli vunussux, O gohasif O'f civvis neli nz VUFEZ ci nz voni vu ci jeqqz.
 
Zua sinopf ni ug tuni ug vji hazt xjip vjiz esi hivvoph siefz gus e gotjoph vsoq. Vjiz noml emm vji jeqqopitt uav ug vji vsoq cigusi vjiz hu. Vjiz essephi vjios vedlmi cuyit. Vjiz eff vji qisgidv masis, op vji sohjv dumus epf tobi. Vjiz fsopl ciis vuhivjis -- dunqesoph vjios qetv vsoqt epf devdjit. Vjiz fup'v tmiiq vji pohjv cigusi vjiz hu op epvodoqevoup. Epf vjip, up vjev coh fez, vjiz'si emm cedl cz mapdjvoni. Vji edvaem vsoq dep'v mowi aq vu vjios iyqidvevoupt.

Epuvjis vjuahjv... Xjip O xet zuaph, O atif vu tez vu nztimg, "Xjip Y jeqqipt, O'n huoph vu ci jeqqz." Esi zua op vjev nufi? Esi zua mowoph op vunussux us mowoph op vufez? Xjev djephif gus ni xet e tisouat ommpitt. Nz fudvust fofp'v vjopl O xet huoph vu neli ov. Tu, O jef vu jewi upi ug vjuti nunipvt xjip O etlif xjip O xet huoph vu ci jeqqz. Og O nohjv puv xeli vunussux, O gohasif O'f civvis neli nz VUFEZ ci nz voni vu ci jeqqz.
Vsai xovj vji gotjisnip, jeje.
O’n hmef zua nefi ov epf siemobif zua jewi vu mowi op vji qsitipv.

O fup’v lpux xjev vu tez uvjis vjep vjot ot nz gostv voni hipaopimz timg sigmidvoph up nz tovaevoup epf cioph jupitv ecuav ov.
Mogi dep ietomz ciduni e timg gamgommoph dzdmi ug “O’mm ci jeqqz xjip Y, Z, B”.

O’n ipkuzoph mogi iwiszfez, cav O lpux vjisi’t nusi vu ov vjep xjev vjisi ot gus ni ev vji nunipv.
 
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