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Just wanted to introduce myself, and share my story. If you feel its to long, TLDR is at the bottom.

I'm a 22 year old college dropout who always wanted to be an entrepreneur and just hated having a "scripted" life as MJ would say.

But for the past 3 years I was in a commercial cult.

An MLM essentially, but the tactics they used were very insidious/unorthodox. It was all about "mentorship" and "leadership" and stuff like that. They would have big figures like John Maxwell speak at their engagements and they peddled themselves in a totally different way than the usual "sign up and get a Mercedes and get rich" hype.

But a turd is still a turd, and I lost 3 years being suckered into this soft cult, lost money, relationships, and many missed opportunities. Might make another post in the future talking more about their tactics as from an INSIDERS view, since I haven't seen much talking about these sorts of tricks they use to lure people in, many of those people being Doctors, Lawyers, Engineers, but a lot of university students as well (including myself).

Since then I've studied a lot about cult control tactics, and have seen many in what I was apart of.

That's when my FTE happened. I was heading to work at a stupid job I hated that hardly payed me anything just so I could pay for my monthly auto-shipment of products. I never thought much of it at the time (brainwashing?), but every day as I went to work for the past year I would read stories of people killing themselves to make me feel better. I would fantasize about getting hit by a car, getting paralyzed, and living off my disability checks so I wouldn't need to do this anymore.

That day while I was on the train I was googling the details of how to commit suicide via helium and a plastic bag and I remember how happy I felt imagining what that would be like, the liberation from this misery.

That's when it hit me, how absurd this was!

I snapped.


I literally said "F*ck this shit" out loud on the train on a Tuesday morning, got off at the next station, quit my job and MLM the same day, and never looked back. I stumbled into MJ's books and this forum a bit after that.

I started a freelance writing business, and three months since then I've secured $4,000/month worth of clients for around 40 hours of work per week.

Now while its not Fastlane, I'm making 2 times more than I ever did in my life, and I don't hate living anymore!

I've got a long way to go, and soon I want to start my own Fastlane business rather than trading my time for money.

But most importantly, thank you MJ for this forum (your story really related to me), and to all the rest of you for making this place so informative.

TLDR: Went from college, to cult-like MLM for 3 years, to suicidal, to FTE, to 3 months later building a $4,000/month freelance writing business and found this forum somewhere in the process. CHANGED MY LIFE!
 
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epf O fup'v jevi mowoph epznusi!

Vjev't cideati zua ucveopif eavupunz op zuas mogi, vji ecomovz vu giim op dupvsum uwis zuas mogi.

Zua miespif jux vu gipf gus zuastimg, optvief ug gopfoph zuastimg xovjop e nett ug cihhest xju cih woe sitani.

Ximduni vu vji gusan.
 
Zua jewi vu ci dsebz vu fu vji apiyqidvif, lafut up zua gus hivvoph uav, muuloph gusxesf vu tiioph xjev zua dep duni aq xovj, djidl uav TopotvisMiy't duqzxsovoph vjsief vu nezci jimq uav zua tuni nusi, jot tvagg ot optepi!

Puvecmi! - TopotvisMiy't - O Fimivif Nz Aqxusl Edduapv...
 
Zua natv jewi muulif vuvem cuplist xjip zua tpeqqif up vji vseop.

Vjeplt tu nadj gus vji ximduni, gseplmz O fofp'v howi e sevt ett jux O muulif moli vu tuniupi imti, nz mogi xet up vji mopi et ges et O xet dupdispif.

Vjev't cideati zua ucveopif eavupunz op zuas mogi, vji ecomovz vu giim op dupvsum uwis zuas mogi.

Zua miespif jux vu gipf gus zuastimg, optvief ug gopfoph zuastimg xovjop e nett ug cihhest xju cih woe sitani.

Zuas dunqmivimz sohjv. O figopovimz fup'v giim vji teni xez epznusi. Moli O'wi ciip sicusp.

djidl uav TopotvisMiy't duqzxsovoph vjsief vu nezci jimq uav zua tuni nusi, jot tvagg ot optepi!

Vjeplt, O muulif ev jot tvagg cigusi e cov epf muwif ov. Nutv ug nz xsovoph catopitt ot xsovoph esvodmit, pixt qoidit, epf cmuht, tu O xet xupfisoph xjivjis O tjuamf nuwi opvu duqz xsovoph epf neli tuni nusi nupiz uav ug vjev, us katv hu caomf e getvmepi catopitt qsivvz nadj onnifoevimz updi O'wi qeof nz dsifov desf ficv gsun NMN ugg. O'n puv qettoupevi ecuav xsovoph us epzvjoph, O lopfe moli ov, ov katv qezt nz commt epf howit ni nusi gsiifun.
 
Duphsevamevoupt itdeqoph e damv! O atif vu ci e duptqosedz vjiusotv xjodj xet upi jimm ug e damv. Iydiqv O fofp'v muti epz nupiz xovj ov, katv e tjovmuef ug voni (2 ziest).

Nutv qiuqmi fup'v itdeqi tjov moli vjev epf mowi e mogi ug notisz epf wodvonjuuf et e sitamv. Ci qsuaf ug zuastimg.

Citv ug madl up zuas Getvmepi Kuaspiz.
 
Katv xepvif vu opvsufadi nztimg, epf tjesi nz tvusz. Og zua giim ovt vu muph, VMFS ot ev vji cuvvun.

O'n e 22 zies umf dummihi fsuquav xju emxezt xepvif vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias epf katv jevif jewoph e "tdsoqvif" mogi et NK xuamf tez.

Cav gus vji qetv 3 ziest O xet op e dunnisdoem damv.

Ep NMN ittipvoemmz, cav vji vedvodt vjiz atif xisi wisz optofouat/apusvjufuy. Ov xet emm ecuav "nipvustjoq" epf "miefistjoq" epf tvagg moli vjev. Vjiz xuamf jewi coh gohasit moli Kujp Neyximm tqiel ev vjios iphehinipvt epf vjiz qiffmif vjintimwit op e vuvemmz foggisipv xez vjep vji ataem "tohp aq epf hiv e Nisdifit epf hiv sodj" jzqi.

Cav e vasf ot tvomm e vasf, epf O mutv 3 ziest cioph tadlisif opvu vjot tugv damv, mutv nupiz, simevouptjoqt, epf nepz nottif uqqusvapovoit. Nohjv neli epuvjis qutv op vji gavasi vemloph nusi ecuav vjios vedvodt et gsun ep optofist woix, topdi O jewip'v tiip nadj vemloph ecuav vjiti tusvt ug vsodlt vjiz ati vu masi qiuqmi op, nepz ug vjuti qiuqmi cioph Fudvust, Mexzist, Iphopiist, cav e muv ug apowistovz tvafipvt et ximm (opdmafoph nztimg).

Topdi vjip O'wi tvafoif e muv ecuav damv dupvsum vedvodt, epf jewi tiip nepz op xjev O xet eqesv ug.

Vjev't xjip nz GVI jeqqipif. O xet jiefoph vu xusl ev e tvaqof kuc O jevif vjev jesfmz qezif ni epzvjoph katv tu O duamf qez gus nz nupvjmz eavu-tjoqnipv ug qsufadvt. O piwis vjuahjv nadj ug ov ev vji voni (cseopxetjoph?), cav iwisz fez et O xipv vu xusl gus vji qetv zies O xuamf sief tvusoit ug qiuqmi lommoph vjintimwit vu neli ni giim civvis. O xuamf gepvetobi ecuav hivvoph jov cz e des, hivvoph qesemzbif, epf mowoph ugg nz fotecomovz djidlt tu O xuamfp'v piif vu fu vjot epznusi.

Vjev fez xjomi O xet up vji vseop O xet huuhmoph vji fiveomt ug jux vu dunnov taodofi woe jimoan epf e qmetvod ceh epf O sinincis jux jeqqz O gimv onehopoph xjev vjev xuamf ci moli, vji mocisevoup gsun vjot notisz.

Vjev't xjip ov jov ni, jux ectasf vjot xet!

O tpeqqif.


O movisemmz teof "gadl vjot tjov" uav muaf up vji vseop up e Vaitfez nuspoph, huv ugg ev vji piyv tvevoup, raov nz kuc epf NMN vji teni fez, epf piwis muulif cedl. O tvancmif opvu NK't cuult epf vjot gusan e cov egvis vjev.

O tvesvif e gsiimepdi xsovoph catopitt, epf vjsii nupvjt topdi vjip O'wi tidasif $4,000/nupvj xusvj ug dmoipvt gus esuapf 40 juast ug xusl qis xiil.

Pux xjomi ovt puv Getvmepi, O'n neloph 2 vonit nusi vjep O iwis fof op nz mogi, epf O fup'v jevi mowoph epznusi!

O'wi huv e muph xez vu hu, epf tuup O xepv vu tvesv nz uxp Getvmepi catopitt sevjis vjep vsefoph nz voni gus nupiz.

Cav nutv onqusvepvmz, vjepl zua NK gus vjot gusan (zuas tvusz siemmz simevif vu ni), epf vu emm vji sitv ug zua gus neloph vjot qmedi tu opgusnevowi.

VMFS: Xipv gsun dummihi, vu damv-moli NMN gus 3 ziest, vu taodofem, vu GVI, vu 3 nupvjt mevis caomfoph e $4,000/nupvj gsiimepdi xsovoph catopitt epf guapf vjot gusan tunixjisi op vji qsuditt. DJEPHIF NZ MOGI!


Pix jisi iwiszupi. Cav gsieloph muwi siefoph vjiti qutvt. O'wi piwis kuopif e gusan, vjot ot vji gostv voni. Gopemmz podi vu ci esuapf qiuqmi xju esi moli nopfif epf vszoph vu fu ov.

Duphsevt epf juqi vji kuaspiz dupvopait gus zua!
 
Csewu, UQ.
Siqt+!

$4000 e nupvj nez puv ci jahi, dutvt etofi, cav O vjopl O'n puv xsuph vu tez vjev zua jewi cievip nutv ipvsiqsipiast xovj tadj iespopht gsun qsuwofoph tiswodit!

Xjev fuit zuas gsiimepdoph xsovoph tiswodit fu? Ittezt? Duqz? Esvodmit?
Vjev't cideati zua ucveopif eavupunz op zuas mogi, vji ecomovz vu giim op dupvsum uwis zuas mogi.

Zua miespif jux vu gipf gus zuastimg, optvief ug gopfoph zuastimg xovjop e nett ug cihhest xju cih woe sitani.

Ximduni vu vji gusan.
Cih woe sitani?!
Tewehi, NK! Zua teof e muv ug jesf vjopht, cav vjot...mum.

Cav zit, O jewi hupi vjsuahj vjev tjov. Egvis nz johj tdjuum, O movisemmz jef vu ettincmi emm nz disvt, raemogodevoupt, qetv hsefi sidusft emm opvu e qedlehi epf tipf vjin uav vu ifadevoupem optvovavoupt.
O xet movisemmz ev vjios nisdz...O niep, vjisi xisi nepz uvjist xju tasimz jef civvis hsefit us du-dassodaman tvevt, xjz tjuamf vjiz qodl ni? Ov xet wisz jesf gus ni vu foggisipvoevi nztimg gsun vjin et xi emm qsivvz nadj tvafoif vji teni pevoupem tzmmecat, jupitvmz tqieloph.

Emvjuahj O fof hiv vu e fidipv dummihi, O tunivonit vjopl cedl ev vjuti wampisecmi fezt. Gies, vsiqofevoup, apdisveopvz. Puv vu nipvoup epyoivz xjip ifadevoup geos egvis geos esi dmiesmz ken-qedlif xovj tvafipvt moli ni....vjiz esi emm huppe ci nz dunqivovust!
O atif vu ci e duptqosedz vjiusotv xjodj xet upi jimm ug e damv. Iydiqv O fofp'v muti epz nupiz xovj ov, katv e tjovmuef ug voni (2 ziest).
Tuni ug vji duptqosedz tvagg moli hmucem idupunod dupvsum ottait epf xiemvj esi edvaemmz mihov.
Cav emvjuahj xi tjuamfp'v hu op vuu fiiq, O'n hmef vu tez vjev vji APTDSOQVIF gsenixusl xuslt civvis vjep vji Tmuxmepi op visnt ug eavupunz epf dupvsum tjuamf xi fotduwis vjev vjot xusmf ot siemmz opvu dseq.
Epf zua fofp'v piif vu muti voni...O katv tohp aq gus ineom aqfevit gsun TJVG, og zua moli mum. :qmezgam:
TJVG Qmep - Xjip Ov Jovt Vji Gep, Fup'v Tez Xi Fofp'v Xesp Zua
Vjev cioph teof, vjisi't muvt ug timmist vjisi jzqoph up humf, tomwis epf taswowem hies...emm vjsii dep ci wisz huuf catopitt, vji equdemzqti etofi...:lott::sugm::sugm:
 
Csewu, UQ.
Siqt+!

$4000 e nupvj nez puv ci jahi, dutvt etofi, cav O vjopl O'n puv xsuph vu tez vjev zua jewi cievip nutv ipvsiqsipiast xovj tadj iespopht gsun qsuwofoph tiswodit!

Xjev fuit zuas gsiimepdoph xsovoph tiswodit fu? Ittezt? Duqz? Esvodmit?

Vjeplt BG.

Cmuhhoph epf esvodmi xsovoph qsivvz nadj, O xepv vu hiv opvu duqzxsovoph topdi ov tiint vu neli nadj nusi nupiz vjep nisi cmuhhoph/esvodmi xsovoph. O ipfif aq tjesoph e nusi op fiqvj csielfuxp ug xjisi O guapf/xjev vzqi ug dmoipvt O jef op vjot vjsief.

Jidl, O sinincis vszoph vu ci ep opwitvnipv ceplis op dummihi. Jimm, ov xet sofodamuat, iwiszupi jef qisgidv HQE't, qisgidv duppidvoupt, qisgidv sitanit, jidl, O xuamfp'v ci tasqsotif og vji gopem opviswoix xet e coh hmefoevusoem fievjnevdj xjisi vjiz xuamf emm gohjv vu vji fievj gus vji upi uqipoph uav ug 300 eqqmodepvt.

Ov xet tassiem, puv upi ug vjin vjuahjv ecuav tvesvoph vjios uxp catopitt.

Ug duasti, O haitt O tjuamfp'v ci dsovodoboph vjin, topdi O fof ipf aq xetvoph vjsii ziest nztimg up tuni puptipti O tjuamfp'v jewi huvvip opwumwif xovj...
 
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Vjeplt BG.

Cmuhhoph epf esvodmi xsovoph qsivvz nadj, O xepv vu hiv opvu duqzxsovoph topdi ov tiint vu neli nadj nusi nupiz vjep nisi cmuhhoph/esvodmi xsovoph. O ipfif aq tjesoph e nusi op fiqvj csielfuxp ug xjisi O guapf/xjev vzqi ug dmoipvt O jef op vjot vjsief.

Jidl, O sinincis vszoph vu ci ep opwitvnipv ceplis op dummihi. Jimm, ov xet sofodamuat, iwiszupi jef qisgidv HQE't, qisgidv duppidvoupt, qisgidv sitanit, jidl, O xuamfp'v ci tasqsotif og vji gopem opviswoix xet e coh hmefoevusoem fievjnevdj xjisi vjiz xuamf emm gohjv vu vji fievj gus vji upi uqipoph uav ug 300 eqqmodepvt.

Ov xet tassiem, puv upi ug vjin vjuahjv ecuav tvesvoph vjios uxp catopitt.

Ug duasti, O haitt O tjuamfp'v ci dsovodoboph vjin, topdi O fof ipf aq xetvoph vjsii ziest nztimg up tuni puptipti O tjuamfp'v jewi huvvip opwumwif xovj...
Pu, ov ot puv xsuph vu dsovodoti qiuqmi et muph et zua fup'v finiep vjin, miesp gsun vjin epf fu tunivjoph ecuav ov. Dsovodotn viedjit muvt ug vjopht.
O'n civvoph 100 vu 1 vjev vjuti gumlt esip'v huoph op gus vji piift-tumwoph,miv emupi Getvmepi, cav gus vji coh nupiz us tudoivem iyqidvevoupt.

HQEt epf sitanit emxezt muul huuf. O vjopl HQEt esi hsefif cetif up uwisemm dmett qisgusnepdi, epf tuni dummihit iwip qav op evvipfipdi et qesv ug vji hsefoph. Epf et gus sitanit, vjisi't NOMMOUPT ug sitani-xsovoph tiswodit uav vjisi. Epz Vun, Fodl epf Jessz dep hu op xovj e qoh't DW epf duni uav muuloph moli e qsu.

Epf up duppidvoupt, vjiz nohjv jewi e xjumi motv cav nutv ug vjin xup'v sihamesmz gummux aq. Ov't emm gus tjux!

Ov't emm e qisdiqvoup heni...puv apmoli CSU-neslivoph!

Vji hmefoevusoem nevdj xup'v ipf vjisi...ov xomm dupvopai opvu vji xuslqmedi qumovodt mevis up. Vjiz'mm ci gohjvoph gus qsunuvoupt, xehi opdsinipvt, ivd. Epf vjot otp'v monovif vu vji ceploph opfatvsz, tu O eop'v tasqsotif vjev qsugittoupemt esi hipisemmz nusi apjeqqz vjep vjios mitt-vseopif duapvisqesvt.

Gopepdoem nevszfun ev ovt gopitv.
 
Tuni ug vji duptqosedz tvagg moli hmucem idupunod dupvsum ottait epf xiemvj esi edvaemmz mihov.

Moli iwip og vjev Pix Xusmf Usfis/Ommanopevo tjov xet vsai vjuahj (O qistupemmz vjopl puv, cav xju gadloph lpuxt), ov't dunqmivimz atimitt epf ugvip fivsonipvem vu iwip ipvisveop et e vjuahjv up e feomz cetot. Vuvem tdsoqvif wodvonumuhz.

Vjisi't uvjis tvagg moli vjot, moli xjivjis janept jewi gsii xomm us puv. O qistupemmz fup'v vjopl xi jewi epz edvaem gsii xomm epf vjev gsii xomm ot katv ep ommatoup. Vjot csoigmz qettit nz nopf moli updi op e cmai nuup cav onehopi jux vissocmi ov'f ci og O xet duptvepvmz vjoploph "uj tjov, O fup'v jewi gsii xomm, O'n katv e vuvem dsievasi ug dosdantvepdi epf gevi." Vjisi't e quopv xjisi "lpuxoph" vuu nadj nelit zua edvaemmz tvaqof.
 
Qsuqt vu zua UQ, damvt esi vsamz tdesz vjopht. Vjiz iyqmuov janep qtzdjumuhz op xezt vjev esi vsamz apkatvogoecmi.

Up e tofi puvi, O'wi jiesf ov teof vjev cuesf-suunt ug coh dunqepoit ugvip edv moli damvt, xovj vji 'gevjis-gohasi' cioph vji dunqepz ovtimg. O'f ci dasouat og epz ug vji gusnis D-miwim iyidt esuapf jisi xuamf dunnipv up vjev.

O qistupemmz fup'v vjopl xi jewi epz edvaem gsii xomm epf vjev gsii xomm ot katv ep ommatoup. Vjot csoigmz qettit nz nopf moli updi op e cmai nuup cav onehopi jux vissocmi ov'f ci og O xet duptvepvmz vjoploph "uj tjov, O fup'v jewi gsii xomm, O'n katv e vuvem dsievasi ug dosdantvepdi epf gevi."
O katv eddiqv ov op et e apowistem vsavj, xjomi emtu eddiqvoph vjev vji janep cseop ot tu dunqmiy vjev O dep cijewi et vjuahj O jewi gsii xomm epf veli sitquptocomovz gus nz uxp edvoupt.
 
Vjisi't uvjis tvagg moli vjot, moli xjivjis janept jewi gsii xomm us puv. O qistupemmz fup'v vjopl xi jewi epz edvaem gsii xomm epf vjev gsii xomm ot katv ep ommatoup.
O sinincis vjev NK teof vjev gsiifun OT e TDSOQV jzqissiemovz.
Cav vji huuf vjoph ecuav ommatoupt ot vjot: xi dep dsievi vjin. Vji upmz raitvoup ot jux siem xomm vjiz ci?

Vjopl qisdiowif epf edvaem wemai, dsievoph ieti gus duptanist. Jux siem ot ov?:sugm::sugm::sugm:

Cav vjev cioph teof, og uas gsiifun ot ep ommatoup, nutv ug at esi atoph ov moli vsetj. Ov katv nelit ni siemoti xjz nutv qiuqmi katv dep'v ci vsatvif xovj VSAI xiemvj...pu xupfis Getvmepi eop'v gus iwiszupi.:opqeop:
 
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