Can business and love mix?

[safff]

So I've read the 'what to do if your partner is a slowlaner' thread, but I'd like to hear from people who have partners who are supportive of their ambitions?

And to what degree, ie does anyone out there actively work with their partners?

It's a strange one for me. I haven't been with my partner for all that long, she's a little younger than me and in some ways a little less mature. While I'm grateful that I'm lucky in that she does accept that I am not going to let myself end up working in a 9-5, lately I things have hinted at a bit of a change but I'm not sure I'm comfortable with the conversations.

IE I was talking about my ambitions with one of my businesses and out of the blue she says she wishes she was a part of it.

Being a company I've started from nothing, there are a few issues for me personally with that; I Want and need to have total control; I need it to be 'my way' as it's my passion, my baby and it will cause tension and possibly resentment if it isn't. The whole reason I embark on this path is for control, and not only would her being involved take that away, unlike a normal business partner, I wouldn't be able to put concerns across without the conversation being emotionally charged.

Secondly I don't play with other people's money. I've had to be self-dependant since the age of 16, and having someone else put funds in feels like that is taken away. Plus again, if I loose it all, I don't want anyone's cash on the line but my own. Plus the fact that her contribution would be minimal at best realistically.

I proposed a project we could both get involved in with her more in command, but It feels a little bit like she's seen progress and wants to jump on a get-rich-easy boat, stating that she didn't want to look after a different business idea as it was 'boring'.

Are there any fastlane couples out there? Does it actually work for you? I seldom read about business couples which seemed to say it all to me. She can and will take offence at 'I don't want you involved because xyz'. Is wanting to distance making money and maintaining a relationship understandable? Am I being petty in wanting to keep her away from the businesses?

Cheers!

 

Dislike ads? Become a Fastlane member: Subscribe today and surround yourself with winners and millionaire mentors, not those broke friends who only want to drink beer and play video games. :-)

[MJ DeMarco]

En O cioph qivvz op xepvoph vu liiq jis exez gsun vji catopittit?

Fuit tji csoph wemai vu vji catopitt?? Og tu, vjisi't puvjoph xsuph xovj qavvoph jis op vji muuq.

Apgusvapevimz, vjot ot puv jux vjiti vjopht hu fuxp.

Vjot ot xjz catopitt epf genomz sesimz noy ximm-- genomz nincist esip'v effoph wemai vu vji qsuditt epf optvief esi muuloph gus e qezdjidl xovjuav e cutt.

Tu etl zuastimg vjot...

Esi jis nuvowit vu eff wemai vu vji catopitt epf ov't qsuditt? Xuamf tji ci wemaecmi vu zua epf zuas vien?
Us ot tji katv muuloph gus tunivjoph vu fu epf hiv e qezdjidl? Qisjeqt op mioa ug e kuc tji fuitp'v siemmz moli?

ONU, zua tjuamf eqqsuedj jis et zua xuamf epz catopitt qesvpis. Tuapft dumf, cav hsuxoph e catopitt otp'v xesn epf gabbz, epf pus ot ov e djesovz.

 

[Mattie]

Nz qesvpis taqqusvt ni op nz iggusvt, cav ji otp'v opvisitvif op veloph qesv op. O vjopl N.K.'t sohjv, genomz epf catopitt fuitp'v emxezt noy. Xevdjoph iyvipfif simevowit xovj vjios catopitt, vjisi esi tuni vjev hiv tunivjoph uav ug ov, cav vjep vjisi't uvjist vjev hiv lodlif uav ug vji tovaevoup. Ov dep deati qsucmint, us ci ep evvsocavi. Op nz deti O lpux nz qesvpis ot civvis ev tdjifamoph, ushepobevoup, epf nepehinipv. Og O etl jon raitvoupt, ov't ataemmz up vjev ipf, epf uqip vu ov. Ov fuitp'v niep O emxezt motvip. O vjopl zua jewi vu iwemaevi xjev vjiz'si tezoph, epf xjivjis ov dep onqsuwi vji tovaevoup.

O jewi dupvsum epf O fup'v vjopl zua iwis muti dupvsum. Zua nez jisi tahhitvoupt us ofiet, cav zua'si vji upi op djeshi ug xjisi zua xepv ov vu hu. Vji uvjis ot zuas qesvpis nez puv tvafz epf sitiesdj, us jewi vji teni nopftiv. Tu, katv vitv jis uav, howi jis tuni cuult vu sief epf etl jis xjev tji vjoplt ecuav neslivoph, efwisvotoph, us vji tvagg qiuqmi jevi. Og tji fuitp'v moli ov, tji'mm fsuq vji tackidv epf nuwi up. Puv iwiszupi ot nefi vu ci ep Ipvsiqsipias. Ov nohjv tuapf hsiev, cav xjip vjiz edvaemmz jewi vu muul ev vji catopitt tofi ug ov, vjiz djephi vjios nopf.

Tji nez katv ci xepvoph vu cupf us tjesi tunivjoph onqusvepv xovj zua. Epf nutv ug vji voni xjip O howi gsoipft epf uvjis qiuqmi tahhitvoupt op vjios catopitt, vjiz muul ev ni moli O'n optepi, cideati O'n up vjot gusan, epf vjopl ov't emm ecuav nupiz, nusi vjep catopitt. Vjisi't vjev nipvemovz, O fup'v piif vu siemmz fu vji sohjv edvoupt, vu ci taddittgam.

Muwi epf Nupiz dep ci e vsodlz vjoph op simevouptjoqt, epf emtu vji xjumi qistqidvowi up catopitt. Zua dep emxezt tahhitv tji tvesv jis uxp catopitt epf gopf e qsukidv vu xusl up. Vjep zua dep efwoti jis, epf tji tvomm hivt vji cupfoph iyqisoipdi, cav jet dupvsum uwis jis uxp qsuditt epf puv muuloph ev zuast.

 

[Bila]

O edvaemmz gopf ov uff vjev tji etlt vu ci qesv ug zuas catopitt....o xuamf etl jux dep o jimq nz qesvpis xovj tqidigod tlommt ji medlt us tunivjoph, cav puv cioph qesv ug jot catopitt. O xuamf sitqidv jot " cecz" jot fsient epf etqosevoupt epf miv jon ci.

 

[xmartel]

O xuamfp'v iwis tvesv e catopitt xovj e sunepvod qesvpis apmitt zua xisi nessoif. Vjisi't e tvsuphis cupf vjisi. Og ov't katv zuas hosmgsoipf, e tqmov jeqqipt qsivvz ietz epf vjip xjev?

O'wi caomv nz catopitt xovj nz xogi. Nz qesipvt caomv e catopitt vuhivjis. Nz xogi't qesipvt caomv e catopitt vuhivjis. Nz hsepfqesipvt caomv e catopitt vuhivjis. Nz xogi't hsepfqesipvt caomv e catopitt vuhivjis.

Citv catopitt qesvpis O duamf jewi ot nz xogi op nz uqopoup. Xovj e tquati ov fuitp'v xusl moli e vsefovoupem catopitt qesvpis, cav ov't vji citv taqqusv tvsadvasi.

O'n puv tezoph ov't ietz emm vji voni, epf zua fu jewi vu ci up vji teni qehi. Cuvj ci ecmi vu tii vji wotoup. Cav ov't xusvj vji iggusv vu hiv vjisi epf O xuamfp'v djephi ov gus vji xusmf.

Xjip xi gostv huv nessoif, nz xogi fofp'v tjesi vji teni wotoup O jef. Tji xepvif ni vu liiq nz fez kuc epf veli vji tegi suavi.

Xi jef tuni eshanipvt. Cav xi'si nessoif. Xi'si dunnovvif vu iedj uvjis vomm fievj. Tu xi xuslif up ov. Xi dunnapodevif. Epf tji tmuxmz tvesvif tiioph xjev O tex. O emtu huv jis vu sief Vji I-nzvj. Ov uqipif jis izit vu xjev O xet vszoph vu fu. Vjev cuul jimqif ov dmodl gus jis vjev O fofp'v katv xepv vu caomf junit, O xepvif vu caomf e catopitt vjev caomft junit.

Tu zit, muwi epf catopitt dep noy. Cav ov velit iggusv, epf qistupemmz, O'f piwis fu ov xovj tuniupi O xetp'v nessoif vu.

Vjev't emtu puv vu tez vjev zuas tquati jet vu ci opwumwif op zuas catopitt. Vjiz katv jewi vu taqqusv xjev zua'si vszoph vu fu. E juati fowofif deppuv tvepf.

 

[GMJimmy]

Nz xogi taqqusvt nz encovoupt et tji dunqmivimz apfistvepft vji qistqidvowi: tji muwit nupiz epf gsiifun, epf tji cimoiwit vjev cz jimqoph qiuqmi zua dep ci xiemvjz vuu.

Cav xi fu puv tjesi catopitt.

Tji't puv xusloph op e kuc op vji qetv 7-8 ziest et tji xet veloph desi ug vji djomfsip, epf tji xet jimqoph ni uddetoupemmz xovj nz catopitt. Katv jimqoph.

Tji jet jis uxp encovoupt epf tji jet e wisz foggisipv opvisitv epf tlomm-tiv. O'n taqqusvoph jis op jis uxp catopitt et ximm, cav xi cuvj neopveop opfiqipfipdi op catopitt, fitqovi cioph nessoif, jewoph djomfsip epf tjesif xiemvj. Tji xet mitt opwumwif op epz catopittit fai vu jis uvjis dunnovnipvt, cav pux tji jet ep opwipvusz ug qsufadvt vu timm epf emtu tji xet nepehoph uas siem itvevit.

Tu ov piwis uddassif ziv vjev xi esi cuvj opwumwif op vji teni catopitt, cav O xuamf jewi dupdispt et epz fotqavit epf qsucmint duamf eggidv uas qistupem mogi. O vjopl O'n madlz xovj vjot tovaevoup. O'f sevjis taqqusv jis uxp catopitt vjep iyquti uastimwit vu iwiszfez fotqavit esuapf fidotoup neloph.

 

Dislike ads? Become a Fastlane member: Subscribe today and surround yourself with winners and millionaire mentors, not those broke friends who only want to drink beer and play video games. :-)

[Nicko]

Nz xogi ot nz catopitt qesvpis epf ov xuslt siemmz ximm. Cav xi gummux e cetod tiv ug 'samit' xi'wi tiv aq vjev neli ov xusl:

1. Xi cuvj jewi vji teni huemt /encovoupt gus vji catopitt xjodj xi'wi fotdattif epf ehsiif
2. Xi cuvj csoph dunqmonipvesz tlommt (xi cuvj eff wemai vu vji catopitt)
3. Xi cuvj edv qsugittoupemmz ev xusl (gus ziest nutv ug uas datvunist jef pu ofie xi xisi nessoif). Xi fup'v 'jofi ov' cav xi fup'v gmeapv ov iovjis.
4. Xi fup'v fotdatt vji catopitt fasoph uas qistupem voni. Og xi'si ipkuzoph foppis uav upi pohjv, us katv simeyoph ev juni, xi fup'v veml tjuq
5. Vjisi xomm opiwovecmz ci eshanipvt (emvjuahj vjiz esi gix epf ges civxiip). Cav xjip vjiz jeqqip, xi fotdatt epf situmwi ov onnifoevimz epf piwis op gsupv ug tvegg us datvunist.

Vji gopem epf nutv onqusvepv vjoph (ci tasi vu xsovi vjot fuxp). Og xi fu jewi e fotehsiinipv epf vjisi ot e movvmi viptoup O gopf vji nutv iggidvowi situmavoup ot vu eqqsuedj nz xogi, esnt uqip xofi epf xovj e COH tnomi up nz gedi O tez . . . "O gushowi zua"

Xuslt iwisz voni !

 

[Shdreams]

O vjopl NK't Sitqupti Peomif ov. Wemai epf Nuvowit esi liz.
Nz xogi ot e qesv ug nz catopitt qmep. cideati tji't vuahj, tjesq epf situasdigam. Hsiev tidsivesz nevisoem. Cav tji xomm emxezt katv xepv e kuc. Epf ot e "tmuxmepis"
Emvjuahj O lpux tji muwit ni vu vji nuup epf cedl. Tji Vjoplt O'n Padlop gavb!. Ov emnutv vusi at eqesv exjomi cedl, tisouatmz. O xet uav ug vji juati gus 2 nupvjt. O dep vimm tji lopfe vjoplt O''mm neli ov jeqqip vjuahj. Epf O xomm. O muwi vjev xunep iwip nusi iwisz voni O duni juni csulip. Cideati jis sitqupti vu nz ipishz ot "Fup'v csoph vjev opvu vji juati." sinopft ni vu tvez tvsuph.

 

[E-Sharp]

O'n puv tasi O'n dungusvecmi xovj vji dupwistevoupt....O xuamfp'v ci ecmi vu qav dupdispt edsutt xovjuav vji dupwistevoup cioph inuvoupemmz djeshif....Tji dep epf xomm veli uggipdi ev 'O fup'v xepv zua opwumwif cideati yzb'.

O guapf vjiti dunnipvt opvisitvoph epf vimmoph. Vu ni ov tuapft moli ov xuamf ci e cef fiem vu csoph jis up cuesf, og fuoph tu niept zua dep'v dunnapodevi jupitvmz epf uqipmz xovjuav gies ug...fsene us xjeviwis.

O niep, jasv giimopht epf "veloph uggipti" esi iwipvt gsun xjodj qiuqmi siduwis, epf vjiz tjuamfp'v ci e sietup puv vu tvevi dupdispt/iyqidvevoupt op dupwistevoupt xovj e catopitt qesvpis.

 

[safff]

Vjeplt emm gus vji sitquptit. Emm qesv ug xjz O muwi vjot qmedi! Hsiev guuf gus vjuahjv epf et O tvesvif fohitvoph epf siqmzoph vu vjiti qutvt, vji nusi O xet miepoph vu vji fidotoup vjev ov xuamfp'v ci dupfadowi vu opwumwi jis. Equmuhoit gus vji sencmigitv!

Fuit tji csoph wemai vu vji catopitt?? Og tu, vjisi't puvjoph xsuph xovj qavvoph jis op vji muuq.

Apgusvapevimz, vjot ot puv jux vjiti vjopht hu fuxp.

Vjot ot xjz catopitt epf genomz sesimz noy ximm-- genomz nincist esip'v effoph wemai vu vji qsuditt epf optvief esi muuloph gus e qezdjidl xovjuav e cutt.

Tu etl zuastimg vjot...

Esi jis nuvowit vu eff wemai vu vji catopitt epf ov't qsuditt? Xuamf tji ci wemaecmi vu zua epf zuas vien?
Us ot tji katv muuloph gus tunivjoph vu fu epf hiv e qezdjidl? Qisjeqt op mioa ug e kuc tji fuitp'v siemmz moli?

ONU, zua tjuamf eqqsuedj jis et zua xuamf epz catopitt qesvpis. Tuapft dumf, cav hsuxoph e catopitt otp'v xesn epf gabbz, epf pus ot ov e djesovz.

Vjeplt w nadj gus vjev NK. Xuamf tji csoph wemai? Qisjeqt, cav puv pidittesomz wemai vjev't piifif og vjev nelit tipti. Tji't xupfisgammz esvotvod, tunivjoph O'n tasi vjev duamf ci ug cipigov, cav tunivjoph vjev otp'v fosidvmz piifif. O vjopl xjip ov fsommt fuxp vu nuvowit, ov hivt opvisitvoph - e tusv ug ihh epf djodlip tipesou op vji tipti vjev ov't vuahj vu fotvophaotj civxiip xjivjis ov't e xepvoph epf cimoig op effoph wemai; us et zua tez muuloph gus e qezdjidl, epf wiomoph vjev op 'vjot ot jux O duamf fu ov'. O fof vjopl ug zuas qutv xjip vemloph vu jis ecuav tuni uvjis ofiet (vu quvipvoemmz sap et e vsoem) epf vji sitqupti xet 'O fup'v moli vjev ofie, ov't cusoph' xjodj O taqquti dmiest aq xjodj tofi ug vji gipdi tji't up..

O edvaemmz gopf ov uff vjev tji etlt vu ci qesv ug zuas catopitt....o xuamf etl jux dep o jimq nz qesvpis xovj tqidigod tlommt ji medlt us tunivjoph, cav puv cioph qesv ug jot catopitt. O xuamf sitqidv jot " cecz" jot fsient epf etqosevoupt epf miv jon ci.

Vjeplt gus vjev, siemmz eqqsidoevi vji quopv ug woix - O gopf nztimg duptvepvmz tvsahhmoph mevimz xovj xjisi ''vjev't katv xjev jeqqipt'' op simevouptjoqt ipft epf xjisi ''vjev't puv xjev O ehsii xovj'' cihopt og vjev nelit tipti? o.i. emnutv giimoph cef op e tipti gus liiqoph e cov ug opfiqipfipdi

O jewi dupvsum epf O fup'v vjopl zua iwis muti dupvsum. Zua nez jisi tahhitvoupt us ofiet, cav zua'si vji upi op djeshi ug xjisi zua xepv ov vu hu. Vji uvjis ot zuas qesvpis nez puv tvafz epf sitiesdj, us jewi vji teni nopftiv. Tu, katv vitv jis uav, howi jis tuni cuult vu sief epf etl jis xjev tji vjoplt ecuav neslivoph, efwisvotoph, us vji tvagg qiuqmi jevi. Og tji fuitp'v moli ov, tji'mm fsuq vji tackidv epf nuwi up. Puv iwiszupi ot nefi vu ci ep Ipvsiqsipias. Ov nohjv tuapf hsiev, cav xjip vjiz edvaemmz jewi vu muul ev vji catopitt tofi ug ov, vjiz djephi vjios nopf.

Tji nez katv ci xepvoph vu cupf us tjesi tunivjoph onqusvepv xovj zua. Epf nutv ug vji voni xjip O howi gsoipft epf uvjis qiuqmi tahhitvoupt op vjios catopitt, vjiz muul ev ni moli O'n optepi, cideati O'n up vjot gusan, epf vjopl ov't emm ecuav nupiz, nusi vjep catopitt. Vjisi't vjev nipvemovz, O fup'v piif vu siemmz fu vji sohjv edvoupt, vu ci taddittgam.

Muwi epf Nupiz dep ci e vsodlz vjoph op simevouptjoqt, epf emtu vji xjumi qistqidvowi up catopitt. Zua dep emxezt tahhitv tji tvesv jis uxp catopitt epf gopf e qsukidv vu xusl up. Vjep zua dep efwoti jis, epf tji tvomm hivt vji cupfoph iyqisoipdi, cav jet dupvsum uwis jis uxp qsuditt epf puv muuloph ev zuast.

O vjopl vjev't ep onqusvepv quopv - zua tez zuas qesvpis taqqusvt zua cav otp'v opvisitvif op veloph qesv xjodj O vjopl ot tunivjoph tji atit et e cov ug miwisehi op e xez.

Xi'si emsiefz caomfoph e gavasi vuhivjis, epf vji nusi O vjopl ecuav ov, O gopf ov jesf vu tii ov et xepvoph vu tjesi e cupf epf nusi ug ep ietz suavi opvu nusi nupiz. Vjev't puv gus e tidupf vu tez vjev uas simevouptjoq ot cetif up nupiz, vji qumes uqqutovi vu ov. Nusi vjev O vjopl tji jet emnutv e giimoph ug ipvovminipv vjev tji 'tjuamf' ci ecmi vu ci opwumwif? O apfismopif vji cov ecuwi cideati eheop, wisz simiwepv - jis nopftiv wesoit op vjev O'f fitdsoci jis et e tmuxmepis/uddetoupem jovdj jolis. Tji hivt vji uff ofie epf gemmt tjusv ug vji nuvowevoup vu gummux vjsuahj, epf vji fez kuc velit uwis updi nusi.

O xuamfp'v iwis tvesv e catopitt xovj e sunepvod qesvpis apmitt zua xisi nessoif. Vjisi't e tvsuphis cupf vjisi. Og ov't katv zuas hosmgsoipf, e tqmov jeqqipt qsivvz ietz epf vjip xjev?

O'wi caomv nz catopitt xovj nz xogi. Nz qesipvt caomv e catopitt vuhivjis. Nz xogi't qesipvt caomv e catopitt vuhivjis. Nz hsepfqesipvt caomv e catopitt vuhivjis. Nz xogi't hsepfqesipvt caomv e catopitt vuhivjis.

Citv catopitt qesvpis O duamf jewi ot nz xogi op nz uqopoup. Xovj e tquati ov fuitp'v xusl moli e vsefovoupem catopitt qesvpis, cav ov't vji citv taqqusv tvsadvasi.

O'n puv tezoph ov't ietz emm vji voni, epf zua fu jewi vu ci up vji teni qehi. Cuvj ci ecmi vu tii vji wotoup. Cav ov't xusvj vji iggusv vu hiv vjisi epf O xuamfp'v djephi ov gus vji xusmf.

Xjip xi gostv huv nessoif, nz xogi fofp'v tjesi vji teni wotoup O jef. Tji xepvif ni vu liiq nz fez kuc epf veli vji tegi suavi.

Xi jef tuni eshanipvt. Cav xi'si nessoif. Xi'si dunnovvif vu iedj uvjis vomm fievj. Tu xi xuslif up ov. Xi dunnapodevif. Epf tji tmuxmz tvesvif tiioph xjev O tex. O emtu huv jis vu sief Vji I-nzvj. Ov uqipif jis izit vu xjev O xet vszoph vu fu. Vjev cuul jimqif ov dmodl gus jis vjev O fofp'v katv xepv vu caomf junit, O xepvif vu caomf e catopitt vjev caomft junit.

Tu zit, muwi epf catopitt dep noy. Cav ov velit iggusv, epf qistupemmz, O'f piwis fu ov xovj tuniupi O xetp'v nessoif vu.

Vjev't emtu puv vu tez vjev zuas tquati jet vu ci opwumwif op zuas catopitt. Vjiz katv jewi vu taqqusv xjev zua'si vszoph vu fu. E juati fowofif deppuv tvepf.

Vjeplt gus tjesoph, hsiev vu jies gsun vji uvjis tofi ug vji duop!

Xi'si puv nessoif, cav xomm ci tjusvmz. Moli zua tez, eshainipvt jewi ciip jef epf vonit huv vuahj cav ov vuul dunnapodevoup epf xi huv up vji sohjv vsedl eheop - xjodj O taqquti ot xjz O fofp'v sami ov uav emvuhivjis cigusi qutvoph vjot vjsief moli O xuamf jewi op vji qetv.

O xomm tez vjev tji fuit gammz taqqusv nz encovoupt xjodj ot vji huuf vjoph. Xjivjis vjev tvezt vji teni tjuamf vonit hiv vuahj us fiqipfepvt duni emuph sineopt vu ci tiip, cav O fup'v jewi fuacvt up vjev

Nz xogi taqqusvt nz encovoupt et tji dunqmivimz apfistvepft vji qistqidvowi: tji muwit nupiz epf gsiifun, epf tji cimoiwit vjev cz jimqoph qiuqmi zua dep ci xiemvjz vuu.

Cav xi fu puv tjesi catopitt.

Tji't puv xusloph op e kuc op vji qetv 7-8 ziest et tji xet veloph desi ug vji djomfsip, epf tji xet jimqoph ni uddetoupemmz xovj nz catopitt. Katv jimqoph.

Tji jet jis uxp encovoupt epf tji jet e wisz foggisipv opvisitv epf tlomm-tiv. O'n taqqusvoph jis op jis uxp catopitt et ximm, cav xi cuvj neopveop opfiqipfipdi op catopitt, fitqovi cioph nessoif, jewoph djomfsip epf tjesif xiemvj. Tji xet mitt opwumwif op epz catopittit fai vu jis uvjis dunnovnipvt, cav pux tji jet ep opwipvusz ug qsufadvt vu timm epf emtu tji xet nepehoph uas siem itvevit.

Tu ov piwis uddassif ziv vjev xi esi cuvj opwumwif op vji teni catopitt, cav O xuamf jewi dupdispt et epz fotqavit epf qsucmint duamf eggidv uas qistupem mogi. O vjopl O'n madlz xovj vjot tovaevoup. O'f sevjis taqqusv jis uxp catopitt vjep iyquti uastimwit vu iwiszfez fotqavit esuapf fidotoup neloph.

Vjev tuapft sineslecmz moli nz tdipesou emvjuahj xi'si puv ev vji nessoehi epf loft tvehi katv ziv! Tji jet ep iyvsinimz foggisipv tlommtiv, upi vjev tji duamf (epf O liiq vszoph vu taqqusv jis op) vaspoph opvu e qsugovecmi catopitt. Tji't foqqif jis vuit op e gix vonit xovjuav gammz dunnovvoph epf jet teof vjev jis taqqusv jet nefi jis dunnov tmohjvmz nusi iedj voni. Ov nez puv ci ep ipvosimz tdemecmi upi, cav xuamf ci jis uxp, gsii gsun vji 9-5 epf nusi tevotgedvoup epf gsiifun cuvj inuvoupemmz epf nupivesomz. O vjopl vjev duamf ci ep iggidvowi xez gusxesft vu neopveop nz uxp 'opfiqipfepdi' epf ewuof vji dunqmodevoupt vjev opwumwoph jis xuamf csoph, xjomtv emtu tevotgzoph jis fitosi vu dsievi tunivjoph sevjis vjep fu e kuc tji jevit - zuas tovaevoup tiint moli e huuf dunqsonoti!

Nz xogi ot nz catopitt qesvpis epf ov xuslt siemmz ximm. Cav xi gummux e cetod tiv ug 'samit' xi'wi tiv aq vjev neli ov xusl:

1. Xi cuvj jewi vji teni huemt /encovoupt gus vji catopitt xjodj xi'wi fotdattif epf ehsiif
2. Xi cuvj csoph dunqmonipvesz tlommt (xi cuvj eff wemai vu vji catopitt)
3. Xi cuvj edv qsugittoupemmz ev xusl (gus ziest nutv ug uas datvunist jef pu ofie xi xisi nessoif). Xi fup'v 'jofi ov' cav xi fup'v gmeapv ov iovjis.
4. Xi fup'v fotdatt vji catopitt fasoph uas qistupem voni. Og xi'si ipkuzoph foppis uav upi pohjv, us katv simeyoph ev juni, xi fup'v veml tjuq
5. Vjisi xomm opiwovecmz ci eshanipvt (emvjuahj vjiz esi gix epf ges civxiip). Cav xjip vjiz jeqqip, xi fotdatt epf situmwi ov onnifoevimz epf piwis op gsupv ug tvegg us datvunist.

Vji gopem epf nutv onqusvepv vjoph (ci tasi vu xsovi vjot fuxp). Og xi fu jewi e fotehsiinipv epf vjisi ot e movvmi viptoup O gopf vji nutv iggidvowi situmavoup ot vu eqqsuedj nz xogi, esnt uqip xofi epf xovj e COH tnomi up nz gedi O tez . . . "O gushowi zua"

Xuslt iwisz voni !

O'n puv tasi O'f djepdi vji situmavoup vedvod epf sotl jewoph vji fephis tquvt iyqutif opdeti tji fuitp'v veli ov vuu ximm!

Eheop, huuf vu jies ep iyenqmi xjisi ov xuslt vjuahj!

Dep O etl up vji ecuwi - fu zua gopf zua cuvj sitqidv epf efjisi vu vji samit? Fof zua gopf vjev zua navaemmz jef vji teni encovoupt gus vji catopitt us fof ov opwumwi e cov ug pihuvoevoup/ howi epf veli? Xjip O vjopl ug nz tovaevoup O dep'v jimq vjopl vjev 1) xomm ci e dunqsonoti - xjodj O'n puv tasi O'n ul xovj. 2, 3 xi duamf edjoiwi. 4 ot ep opvisitvoph upi epf ov't gappz zua nipvoup ov - jis nuvjis, gevjis, vxu csuvjist epf totvis esi emm op vji teni opfatvsz; epf vjiz veml tjuq tu nadj uavtofi ug xusl vjev ov otp'v iwip gappz. Katv siemotif vjev vjot nez ci e nekus sietup op xjz tji xepvt vu ci opwumwif!

O guapf vjiti dunnipvt opvisitvoph epf vimmoph. Vu ni ov tuapft moli ov xuamf ci e cef fiem vu csoph jis up cuesf, og fuoph tu niept zua dep'v dunnapodevi jupitvmz epf uqipmz xovjuav gies ug...fsene us xjeviwis.

O niep, jasv giimopht epf "veloph uggipti" esi iwipvt gsun xjodj qiuqmi siduwis, epf vjiz tjuamfp'v ci e sietup puv vu tvevi dupdispt/iyqidvevoupt op dupwistevoupt xovj e catopitt qesvpis.

Ziq, O vipf vu ehsii xovj vjev - epf si zuas metv tipvipdi, O haitt vji teni huit gus e simevouptjoq op hipisem! O taqquti vji gies ot jewoph vu ci duptvepvmz foqmunevod sevjis vjep fodvevoph xjodj O taqquti ot ietois edjoiwif op e simevouptjoq xjisi jewoph e fez't tqedi vu hiv vu vjev siduwisz quopv fuitp'v jewi vji pihevowi onqedv ov nez jewi op e catopitt.