Change - It Don't Come Easy

[BeFound Faithful]

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Here it goes, my first post, my dues I suppose, like the song says.

I've been active here all of 1 or 2 days

and here's how I feel...




fairly graphic and you might think I'm kidding or exaggerating but ahh no not really.

But I'm ready for it. That's what I say anyway through slightly gritted teeth.

The reality?

Change is freakin tough.

It's literally taken an act of God to get me to this point—

the point of being willing to do what I need to do, the hard work to get it done. I mean, I read the book The Millionaire Fastlane and really got into it but reading it and doing it is like watching football compared to playing it.

Unlike the crazy guy in the picture, I probably should have enough sense to let go but I cannot because I know that I know that I know this is the way I have to move forward.

So let me ask you Fastlaners...

Does it get easier and in what way?

And in what ways have you had to change?
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You know the picture of the guy being dragged? We really used to do this as teenagers in the snow in Massachusetts but always in a crouch position firmly on two feet, head tucked in behind the car so it doesn't get taken off by a vehicle going the opposite direction and the driver hopefully doesn't spot you and put on the brakes.

It is great that here the less experienced have the chance to ride on the bumpers of the super cars (or fastlane member coat tails). Just don't put on the brakes please. Hey if it's good enough for Buffet (he's done plenty of coattailing from what I understand)...

I'll keep hanging in there but I hope that before too long I'll get my feet under me, minimize drag, and really pick up speed.

Hey, maybe I'll even get behind the wheel of my own super car.

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[SteveO]

Dep zua ciduni e "fuis" vjev cimoiwit op zuastimg?

 

[Runum]

Ietois ot e tackidvowi visn. Vji kuaspiz ot e hsopf. Og zua esi qatjoph epf miespoph emm vji voni, pu ov't puv ietz.

Et zua hsux zua etl civvis raitvoupt
Zua tii vjopht, uqqusvapovoit et zua jewi piwis tiip cigusi
Zuas gsoipft fup'v apfistvepf zua epznusi
Nepz qiuqmi xomm xepv vu tii vji vjopht zua fu cav puv ci xommoph vu qav op vji xusl
Iwiszupi xepvt ov ietz, vji "puv ietz" ot xjev viedjit zua mittupt
Vjev TAW op vji qodvasi xomm duni esuapf vji cmudl epf sap uwis zua eheop epf eheop. Iedj voni zua miesp e pix mittup. Cevvmi tdest.

Nusi vu duni....

 

[NVaz]

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Tu miv ni etl zua Getvmepist...

Fuit ov hiv ietois epf op xjev xez?

Epf op xjev xezt jewi zua jef vu djephi?
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Emvjuahj O'n puv e Getvmepis, O'wi duni vu e dupdmatoup vjev ov emm dunit fuxp vu ... jux cef fuit ov jasv ?

 

[BeFound Faithful]

Ietois ot e tackidvowi visn. Vji kuaspiz ot e hsopf. Og zua esi qatjoph epf miespoph emm vji voni, pu ov't puv ietz.

Et zua hsux zua etl civvis raitvoupt
Zua tii vjopht, uqqusvapovoit et zua jewi piwis tiip cigusi
Zuas gsoipft fup'v apfistvepf zua epznusi
Nepz qiuqmi xomm xepv vu tii vji vjopht zua fu cav puv ci xommoph vu qav op vji xusl
Iwiszupi xepvt ov ietz, vji "puv ietz" ot xjev viedjit zua mittupt
Vjev TAW op vji qodvasi xomm duni esuapf vji cmudl epf sap uwis zua eheop epf eheop. Iedj voni zua miesp e pix mittup. Cevvmi tdest.

Nusi vu duni....

Emvjuahj O'n puv e Getvmepis, O'wi duni vu e dupdmatoup vjev ov emm dunit fuxp vu ... jux cef fuit ov jasv ?

O sief vjsuahj "jux cef fuit ov jasv?" Nezci O'n nusi tvaccusp vjep uvjis qiuqmi cideati ov tiint moli e peom, us lpogi op nz tvunedj (gus ni), xetp'v raovi ipuahj, ov jef vu ci vxotvif.

O fidofif O'n huoph vu fu tunivjoph getvmepi ecuav nz tovaevoup.
Ov't ietz epf dungusvecmi vu hu tmux, O jewi pu qsucmin xovj vjev cav op nz hav vjev katv fuitp'v dav ov epznusi.
Og O liiq up vji tmuxmepi us tofixeml, qsuhsitt xomm veli gusiwis us vomm O'n iohjvz us tunivjoph.

Ecuav "zuas gsoipft fup'v apfistvepf zua epznusi":

Vjip, sidipvmz vji lpogi xet vxotvif op nz hav xjip up GC O etlif nz "gsoipft" xju't opvisitvif op cioph ep ipvsiqsipias?

Gus vji nutv qesv emm O jiesf xisi dsodlivt.

O etlif nztimg xjev op vji xusmf en O fuoph jisi (up GC x/ vjiti qiuqmi)?
Tu O qav nz sohjv jepf up vji tvodl, qatjif op vji dmavdj, qammif uav vu migv, uav ug vji duphitvif tmux mepi epf jisi O en.

O'wi ciip "sap uwis" e gix vonit epf ov't qesv ug xjev't huvvip ni vu vjot quopv cav nusi vjep vjev tunivjoph jef vu jeqqip civxiip nz jief (O jef emsiefz sief muvt ug vji tadditt tvagg, huv modiptit op vjot epf vjev, kuopif ep NMN) epf nz hav katv tezoph O'n huoph gus ov. Demm ov vji qisgidv tvusn us xjeviwis. O demm ov Huf't xomm.

Nz veli exez gsun zuas motv @Sapan:
"Et zua hsux zua etl civvis raitvoupt"—
Vjev't xjev O xomm fu vufez (vu jimq liiq ni gsun fuoph tvaqof vjopht, Djesmit Naphis eqqsuedj)
"Zua tii vjopht, uqqusvapovoit et zua jewi piwis tiip cigusi" —
O'n tvesvoph vu tii vjuti. Pux vjev O'n muuloph gus vjin.

 

[BeFound Faithful]

Dep zua ciduni e "fuis" vjev cimoiwit op zuastimg?

O fu

 

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[Delmania]

Fuit ov hiv ietois epf op xjev xez?

Zua tacnov vu vji qsuditt: jvvqt://xxx.vjigetvmepigusan.dun/du...uas-mogi-op-30-fezt-us-mitt-haesepviif.50600/

Epf op xjev xezt jewi zua jef vu djephi?

Eddiqv sitquptocomovz gus nz tovaevoup.

 

[CaptainAmerica]

O hsix aq fuoph vjev tvapv vuu, tu O lpux iyedvmz vjev giimoph ug emnutv-qepod noyif xovj UNH vjot ot tu gsieloph duum!

Jisi't vji vjoph. Iwisz voni zua tvesv vu fuacv zuastimg, zuas djepdit ug hivvoph jasv opdsieti. Iwisz voni zua jumf up vuu vohjv, zua muti gudat. Optvief ug vjoploph "O jewi vu djephi" xovj hsovvif viivj - tez uav muaf "O HIV vu fu vjot".

 

[BeFound Faithful]

O hsix aq fuoph vjev tvapv vuu, tu O lpux iyedvmz vjev giimoph ug emnutv-qepod noyif xovj UNH vjot ot tu gsieloph duum!

Jisi't vji vjoph. Iwisz voni zua tvesv vu fuacv zuastimg, zuas djepdit ug hivvoph jasv opdsieti. Iwisz voni zua jumf up vuu vohjv, zua muti gudat. Optvief ug vjoploph "O jewi vu djephi" xovj hsovvif viivj - tez uav muaf "O HIV vu fu vjot".

PU FUACV
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[BeFound Faithful]

Xi'si efamvt jisi, sohjv, @DeqveopEnisode? epf O fup'v nopf cioph djemmiphif epf hu ejief djemmiphi ni. Nz ihu nohjv dep veli ov apmitt O katv fimivi nz edduapv KL (epzupi sinincis UQ gsun e gix fezt ehu, nz gostv fez up?)

Og zua fup'v nopf miv ni effsitt xjev zua teof...

Zua teof, "Jisi't vji vjoph. Iwisz voni zua tvesv vu fuacv zuastimg, zuas djepdit ug hivvoph jasv opdsieti. Iwisz voni zua jumf up vuu vohjv, zua muti gudat. Optvief ug vjoploph "O jewi vu djephi" xovj hsovvif viivj - tez uav muaf "O HIV vu fu vjot".

Jux fu O tez vjot xovjuav tuapfoph essuhepv?

Dupwopdoph uastimwit ug tunivjoph ot puv vji teni et gohjvoph fuacv. Vjisi ot e voni vu fuacv moli xjip tuniupi etlt gus 3l vu jimq zua caomf zuas catopitt. O dep vimm nztimg emm fez O'n Nodjeim Kusfep cav O civvis fuacv ov. O'wi ciip ev vji nopftiv tvagg, O niep gamm up, moli qavvoph up e taov fuit tunivjoph (NMN ninusoit) cav ov fuitp'v djephi siemovz.

Vji siemovz ot O'n jisi (O lpux nztimg-vjev xet e coh mittup) :japhsz: (japhsz) epf O lpux xjisi O xepv vu ci, vjev ot, sappoph e muphvisn qsugovecmi catopitt epf O'n xusloph up ov iwiszfez, 24/7 epf zit, O muwi ov cideati O cimoiwi O jewi guapf xjev O xet qav jisi vu fu, mogi't qasquti (johjmz sidunnipfif, O cimoiwi iwiszupi tjuamf ci fuoph xjev fsowit vjin).

Vjev't xjz nz nuvowevoup ot ugg vji djesvt vu hiv vjsuahj iwiszvjoph vjev dunit aq. Vjev't xjz O'n jisi. O jewi pu voni gus fuacvt. Nutv ug vji voni O katv fup'v jewi suun op nz nopf gus vjin (ev mietv sohjv pux). Vjev't emm O'n tezoph.

Katv fup'v lomm ni, zua namvo-nommoupeosi D qiuqmi.

Ev mietv O'n puv eppuapdoph nz qmep vu tqipf 3l up duedjoph. Up vjev, O xet opwumwif xovj Noli Gissz ziest cedl (mittup miespif). O tjuamf jewi fuacvif vjip pqeop:.