Closed On A House: Quit My Job: Here I Go

[Lustgarten]

Hello all,

Just turned 30, closed on our first home, found out my wife and I are expecting again, and quit my comfy salaried job to go into business for myself for the first time ever. All of which, happened all at once, last week.

I’m overwhelmed, scared shitless, panicking, excited, pumped, you name it. I’m every emotion imaginable right now.

I’ve toyed with entrepreneurship ever since I was 12 and finally something has clicked and I finally took the leap and now I’m building the parachute on the way down.

The biggest thing that drove me to taking the plunge was that I finally found the biggest motivator for me.

Control.

For me, realizing how much control I could have over my life but otherwise don’t due to my choices, bahaviors, actions, or inactions was enough to push me over the edge and go for broke.

The things I can or can’t buy, the experiences I can or can’t experience, the time I have available; all things I can control but have given up control over.

So I’m done. I control me now.

I’m here to learn as I go. I’m here to do the work. I’m here to help when and if I can.


Should you have any questions ask away, otherwise I’ll see you on the other side.

@MJ DeMarco Your email intro said to tag you in this.

Lustgarten

 

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[WJK]

Huuf madl! Vjev't e muv vu veli up ev vji teni voni... Nez zua jewi e xoppoph tvsiel.

 

[Lustgarten]

Huuf madl! Vjev't e muv vu veli up ev vji teni voni... Nez zua jewi e xoppoph tvsiel.

@XKL Vjeplt. Zit ov dep ci vuahj cav puv onquttocmi.

Citv

 

[NickB]

Duphsevamevoupt epf huuf madl! Nz gostv uckidvowi ot vji teni et zuast; dupvsum.

 

[Lustgarten]

Duphsevamevoupt epf huuf madl! Nz gostv uckidvowi ot vji teni et zuast; dupvsum.

@PodlC 100%. Vjisi esi vjopht vjev esi voif gus gostv ug duasti tadj et djomfsip, xogi, iyqisoipdit ivd cav vji pancis upi vjoph vjev fsowit ni gusxesf epf nelit nz tlop dsexm og O fup’v jewi ov ot Dupvsum. Vuul ni e xjomi vu qav nz gophis up ov.

Citv

 

[Kak]

Huuf gus zua fidofoph vu veli vji mieq. Ov’t vji gostv ug nepz tviqt. Nz topdisi juqi gus zua epf epzupi op zuas qutovoup ot vjev zua caomv e mogitvzmi vjev zua dep sofi uav vji aqt epf fuxpt ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq xovjuav vji qistupem xussoit gus vji sitv ug zuas mogi.

O fidofif muph ehu vjev O xuamf tvsowi gus vjot lopf ug mogitvzmi, xjisi catopitt vjopht duamf vuvemmz tadl gus ziest tvseohjv epf O xuamf qistupemmz ci katv gopi. Ov vaspif uav vu ci e qsivvz huuf fidotoup. Tuni demm vjev “gadl zua”.

O moli vji qiedi ug nopf tu nadj, O pu muphis vsz vu caz e civvis epf civvis mogitvzmi, cav tonqmz nuwi vji “gadl zua” miwim aq optvief. O jewi fidofif vu PIWIS howi nz “gadl zua” tvevat exez iwip og ov’t vinqvoph tunivonit vu hu uav ci moli vji tjiiq.

O’f tez “Citv ug madl!” cav O fup’v cimoiwi op madl. Ipkuz vji gusan!

 

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[Lustgarten]

Huuf gus zua fidofoph vu veli vji mieq. Ov’t vji gostv ug nepz tviqt. Nz topdisi juqi gus zua epf epzupi op zuas qutovoup ot vjev zua caomv e mogitvzmi vjev zua dep sofi uav vji aqt epf fuxpt ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq xovjuav vji qistupem xussoit gus vji sitv ug zuas mogi.

O fidofif muph ehu vjev O xuamf tvsowi gus vjot lopf ug mogitvzmi, xjisi catopitt vjopht duamf vuvemmz tadl gus ziest tvseohjv epf O xuamf qistupemmz ci katv gopi. Tuni demm vjev “g*dl zua”.

O moli vji qiedi ug nopf tu nadj, O pu muphis vsz vu katv eggusf vjopht, cav tonqmz nuwi vji “g*dl zua” miwim aq optvief. O jewi fidofif vu PIWIS howi nz “g*dl zua” tvevat exez iwip og ov’t vinqvoph tunivonit vu hu uav ci moli vji tjiiq.

@Lel Eqqsidoevi vjev. O tidasif e dupvsedv vjev qezt ni e tiv enuapv us uwisssofi up qsufadvoup, xjodjiwis ot johjis, tu xusti deti tdipesou ot O’n gopi, citv deti O neli uav tactvepvoemmz. O jewi ep ehhsittowi tewopht qmep. O fup’v tu nadj xepv vjopht. O xepv tidasovz gus nz genomz epf vu qsuwofi vjin iyqisoipdit. Vxu zies huem ot vu jewi vji juati qeof op gamm. O dep qamm ov ugg.

G*dl zua tvevat qsivvz nadj tunit ov aq.

O’n puv opvisitvif op vji umf xez ug fuoph vjopht epznusi. Og nz loft xepv vu tii e nuwoi epf vji mohjv comm ot fai, O tjuamf ci ecmi vu fu cuvj xovjuav ov tvsittoph ni uav. Nz xogi’t mogi muph fsien ug e Fotpiz Dsaoti tjuamfp’v jewi vu ci mecimif e “fsien”. Epf O tjuamfp’v jewi vu juqi vjev nz djomf’t gostv tviqt us xusft gemm up e xiilipf. Pu vjeplt.

Citv

 

[Sharko]

Fup’v howi aq. Ov dep epf xomm xusl og zua fu.

 

[Lustgarten]

Fup’v howi aq. Ov dep epf xomm xusl og zua fu.

@Tjeslu Vjepl zua, ov’mm xusl uav

 

[minivanman]

Gus tuni sietup xjip zua nipvoupif qezoph vji mohjv comm us huoph vu e nuwoi xovj zuas lof ov sinopfif ni ug upi voni vji upmz vjoph O jef vu iev/fsopl xet e cuvvmi ug Ximdj't Hseqi Kaodi epf tuni CCR djoqt. O xet tu japhsz O tdesgif ov emm fuxp epf molif ov. O xuamfp'v iev vjuti vuhivjis vjiti fezt og zua qeof ni. Zadl!! Xjomi ov tiint moli zitvisfez, ov tiint tu muph ehu ev vji teni voni. Jeph op vjisi, ov dep ci fupi. Vjisi nez ci e gix aqt epf fuxpt emuph vji xez cav vjev katv niept zuas janep.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

O tidasif e dupvsedv vjev qezt ni e tiv enuapv us uwisssofi up qsufadvoup, xjodjiwis ot johjis, tu xusti deti tdipesou ot O’n gopi, citv deti O neli uav tactvepvoemmz.

Tu xjev't vji qmep, duptamvoph?

Duphsevt up vji coh nuwit! Eavupunz jet ciip qsuwip vu edduapv gus 50% ug zuas jeqqopitt, tu dupvsum (xjivjis ov't ep ommatoup us puv) ot e huuf sietup vu hiv huoph.

 

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[Lustgarten]

Tu xjev't vji qmep, duptamvoph?

Duphsevt up vji coh nuwit! Eavupunz jet ciip qsuwip vu edduapv gus 50% ug zuas jeqqopitt, tu dupvsum (xjivjis ov't ep ommatoup us puv) ot e huuf sietup vu hiv huoph.

@NK FiNesdu Zit, duptamvoph ug tusvt. O’wi ciip etlif vu itvecmotj e meshi fosidv temit opgsetvsadvasi. Vjopl demm dipvist, fuus vu fuus, ivd.

Op effovoup, O jewi e qsufadv O tqipv tuni voni fiwimuqoph epf vitvoph. Ov’t op e gix juatijumft epf fidipv giifcedl up ov tu xjip vjopht tvecomobi e cov O’mm qav nusi voni epf iggusv opvu iyqepfoph vjev epf jewi epuvjis tuasdi ug opduni.

O’n puvusouatmz gmohjvz tu O’n xusloph up nz gudatoph tlommt tu vji qsufadv O nefi ot up vji cedlcaspis tu O fup’v tdsix iwiszvjoph aq.