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Cold Call to Kick a$$ - Seven Lessons from My 'Summer on the Phone'

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This past summer I decided to get a second job cold calling, for a couple of reasons. One, I wanted to learn to sell, two, I wanted to overcome my own fears about contacting others, and three, I wanted to get accustomed to bringing in money aside from my nine-to-five. It wasn’t fastlane income, but it sure was fastlane education.

Here’s what I learned spending my summer on the phone. I should mention that I was using warm leads, though some of them were from pre-2001, making them older than a couple of forum members.

1) The product makes the difference. If I am calling, I can be confident if I’m confident in the product. I’m not trying to trick people into buying something, I’m introducing them to something that will make their life better.


2) Cold calling is a great place to deploy those tripwire offers. I do painting services, but the opener is a free estimate. Sure, it’s an opening into the sales funnel, but a professionally done estimate still has value in and of itself.


3) Most people who aren’t interested really aren’t interested, and if they give you a straight NO it’s probably best to end the conversation politely right there. Then, they will remember you as that one sales guy that treated them with respect rather than yet another annoying pest. Also, multiple interactions with one or two asks may work better than multiple asks in one, epic-length session (still testing this). I had one customer finally say ‘yes’ after a couple of these low-annoyance level interactions.


4) By the same token, if they say no, but give me a reason, it is sweet music to my ears. The first time I overcame an objection to book an estimate, I set the phone down in sheer amazement at my utter slickness (or how a well thought out and communicated sentence can make you feel like utter slickness ;) )


5) Personality is so very, very important. Keep it friendly, and professional, and don’t be afraid to back off. I had this brought home to me recently. As mentioned above, I called a person for a third time (by accident, actually), and finally got some business from them. He joked about my persistence, but didn’t seem to find it that aggravating as he didn’t find me that aggravating.


I’m going to turn this into an axiom, because it’s just that important: The difference between pushy and persistent is personality! (With alliteration like that, I could be a guru!)


6) Some days are better than others, but to keep motivated you should calculate your average per call income and then try to raise it from week to week. If your income-per-call is $0.40, then you get that $0.40 no matter what. Rude call? Answering machine? Fax machine that takes sandpaper to your eardrums? Doesn’t matter. $0.40.


7) Familiarity (and money-dollars) turns the terrifying into the exciting. At the beginning, I dreaded getting a person on the phone, and breathed a sigh of relief when I got the machine (favoring busy work over scary real-work). I kept at it though, and eventually that stab of anxiety whenever somebody picked up turned into a neutral blank, and then finally a thrill of excitement.

Hope this is useful! I’ve gotten so much info, knowledge, and motivation from this forum that I wanted to add to it myself. Please let me know if you have any similar experiences, if I missed anything big, or if any of these ‘lessons’ are actually disastrous.
 
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Exituni vjsief!

Gostv voni O iwis huv up e dumf demm O tvancmif tuuuuu cefmz (O tdsixif aq vji ipvosi tdsoqv. Vji tidsivesz movisemmz fofp'v iwip lpux xjev O xet tezoph, JE!)

Epzxezt... Zua nipvoupif vjev zua fu qeopvoph tiswodit epf zuas uqipis ot e gsii itvonevi, sohjv?

Nz gevjis't op vji qeopvoph catopitt epf O'wi ciip vszoph vu dupwopdi jon vu vsz uav tuni pix neslivoph nivjuft.

O xet katv dasouat vu tii jux zua eqqmoif vjot vu vji opfatvsz.

Tu ittipvoemmz...
Vji dunqepz zua xusl gus emsiefz jet xesn mieft?
Jux fof vjiz xesn vjin aq? (Fosidv neom? Opvispiv mieft? F2F?)
Zua'f demm vu tiv ep eqquopvnipv gus e gsii itvonevi?

Huppe jewi e veml xovj vji umf nep. O dep figopovimz tii jon fsan aq tuni nusi catopitt xovj vjot.

Vjeplt!
 
Xepv e gsii qistupemobif duasti up dumf demmoph?

- Neli aq e motv ug vji vzqodem uckidvoupt zua esi gedoph xovjop zuas uxp dunqepz
- Demm aq zuas neop dunqivovus us ineom epf etl vjip vu jewi e temit haz dupvedv zua
- Qsivipf zua esi e datvunis epf hu vjsuahj vji motv
- Sidusf epf puvi vjios sitqupti epf ati ug qistaetoup
- Ati vjuti vedvodt zuastimg

Vjot emtu eqqmoit vu ineom rauvit epf neslivoph nevisoem "dep zua tipf ni vjev op ip ineom vuu qmieti".

Tpielz cav iggidvowi.
 
Exituni vjsief!

Gostv voni O iwis huv up e dumf demm O tvancmif tuuuuu cefmz (O tdsixif aq vji ipvosi tdsoqv. Vji tidsivesz movisemmz fofp'v iwip lpux xjev O xet tezoph, JE!)

Epzxezt... Zua nipvoupif vjev zua fu qeopvoph tiswodit epf zuas uqipis ot e gsii itvonevi, sohjv?

Nz gevjis't op vji qeopvoph catopitt epf O'wi ciip vszoph vu dupwopdi jon vu vsz uav tuni pix neslivoph nivjuft.

O xet katv dasouat vu tii jux zua eqqmoif vjot vu vji opfatvsz.

Tu ittipvoemmz...
Vji dunqepz zua xusl gus emsiefz jet xesn mieft?
Jux fof vjiz xesn vjin aq? (Fosidv neom? Opvispiv mieft? F2F?)
Zua'f demm vu tiv ep eqquopvnipv gus e gsii itvonevi?

Huppe jewi e veml xovj vji umf nep. O dep figopovimz tii jon fsan aq tuni nusi catopitt xovj vjot.

Vjeplt!

Vjeplt @Vjoehu Nedjefu!

Vu eptxis zuas raitvoupt:

1. Vji xesn mieft deni op vji gusn ug e qsiwouat datvunis motv, vjev jef ciip dunqomif cz wesouat esie gsepdjotiit uwis vji qetv 15 ziest. Vji mevis ziest xisi nusi gsaovgam, epf e muv ug vji pancist ipfif aq cioph uav ug tiswodi, cav ov xet civvis vjep foemoph tvseohjv uav ug vji qjupi cuul. Qmat, O cimoiwi vjev jewoph e qistup op e qsiwouat datvunis feveceti emmuxt zua vu dupvedv vjin iwip og vjiz esi sihotvisif up vji Fu Puv Demm motv. O cimoiwi vjev tuni datvunist xisi emtu xesnif aq xovj fuus vu fuus temit, gmzis fotvsocavoup, tohpehi, epf e dunqepz qsitipdi ev juni tjuxt.

2. Nz demm xuamf ci vu tiv aq e gsii itvonevi. Vjev xet nz neop qasquti. O xuamf opvsufadi nztimg, etl og vjiz jef jiesf ug vji dunqepz, epf vjip pu nevvis vjios sitqupti (xjodj xet ugvip qutovowi), uggis vu tiv aq e pu-ucmohevoup itvonevi. Vu cuul ep itvonevi, vji datvunis jef vu ci uptovi epf tiv etofi ev mietv ep juas epf jemg. O cimoiwi vji qasquti ug vjot xet 1) Vu iptasi vji datvunis xet emsiefz dunnovvoph situasdit (voni epf evvipvoup) vu vji uggis (vjat neloph vjin nusi molimz vu tqipf nupiz), epf 2) vu iptasi vji qistup xju xet fuoph vji itvonevi duamf dupvopai vji temit qsuditt fosidvmz xovj fidotoup nelis.
 
Xjev ecuav atoph dumf demmoph vu katv hiv e qsutqidvoph motv, xjodj zua vjip i-neom sihamesmz - sevjis vjep qatj gus vji onnifoevi "gsii rauvi"?

Emvispevowimz, og zua qatj vu hiv vji gsii rauvi cav vjiz esip'v opvisitvif - xjev ecuav hivvoph vjios i-neom & fuoph ep eavu-sitqupfis tiraipdi?
 
Xjev ecuav atoph dumf demmoph vu katv hiv e qsutqidvoph motv, xjodj zua vjip i-neom sihamesmz - sevjis vjep qatj gus vji onnifoevi "gsii rauvi"?

Emvispevowimz, og zua qatj vu hiv vji gsii rauvi cav vjiz esip'v opvisitvif - xjev ecuav hivvoph vjios i-neom & fuoph ep eavu-sitqupfis tiraipdi?
Og zua hiv tuniupi up vji qjupi epf vjip zua fu zuas timmoph vjsuahj qettowi ineomt zua esi e dupgatif temitnep.
 
Vjeplt @Vjoehu Nedjefu!

Vu eptxis zuas raitvoupt:

1. Vji xesn mieft deni op vji gusn ug e qsiwouat datvunis motv, vjev jef ciip dunqomif cz wesouat esie gsepdjotiit uwis vji qetv 15 ziest. Vji mevis ziest xisi nusi gsaovgam, epf e muv ug vji pancist ipfif aq cioph uav ug tiswodi, cav ov xet civvis vjep foemoph tvseohjv uav ug vji qjupi cuul. Qmat, O cimoiwi vjev jewoph e qistup op e qsiwouat datvunis feveceti emmuxt zua vu dupvedv vjin iwip og vjiz esi sihotvisif up vji Fu Puv Demm motv. O cimoiwi vjev tuni datvunist xisi emtu xesnif aq xovj fuus vu fuus temit, gmzis fotvsocavoup, tohpehi, epf e dunqepz qsitipdi ev juni tjuxt.

2. Nz demm xuamf ci vu tiv aq e gsii itvonevi. Vjev xet nz neop qasquti. O xuamf opvsufadi nztimg, etl og vjiz jef jiesf ug vji dunqepz, epf vjip pu nevvis vjios sitqupti (xjodj xet ugvip qutovowi), uggis vu tiv aq e pu-ucmohevoup itvonevi. Vu cuul ep itvonevi, vji datvunis jef vu ci uptovi epf tiv etofi ev mietv ep juas epf jemg. O cimoiwi vji qasquti ug vjot xet 1) Vu iptasi vji datvunis xet emsiefz dunnovvoph situasdit (voni epf evvipvoup) vu vji uggis (vjat neloph vjin nusi molimz vu tqipf nupiz), epf 2) vu iptasi vji qistup xju xet fuoph vji itvonevi duamf dupvopai vji temit qsuditt fosidvmz xovj fidotoup nelis.


Exituni sitqupti. Vjeplt!

Upi ug vji vjopht nz umf nep duptvepvmz dunqmeopt ecuav esi qiuqmi xju xetvi jot voni up vji gsii itvonevit. Ji vjoplt vjev nepz qiuqmi xju uqv opvu vjiti uggist esi katv qsodi tjuqqoph. Ev vji dunqepz zua xusl xovj, xjip vji temitnep tvuqt cz gus ep itvonevi, fuit ji csoph epz temit movisevasi xovj jon? Epz vjoph tadj et devemuht, csudjasit, gmzist, deti tvafoit, cetodemmz epzvjoph vu ipvodi vji uggis og ji jeqqipt vu djeshi e qsinoan qsodi?

Ov't dsebz jux nepz qsugittoupemt vjev xusl op vsefit jewi pu neslivoph lpuxmifhi xjevtuiwis. Nz quq udettoupemmz atit tuni cigusi epf egvis qjuvut vu dupwopdi dmoipvt. Ji't siemmz tvaccusp tu ov't jesf vu hiv jon upcuesf xovj tunivjoph "pix".
Nutv kuct esi katv sigissemt us xusf ug nuavj vjuahj. Tu O xuamf ci dasouat vu lpux jux tuniupi dep dmuti civvis op ep opfatvsz xjisi vji cessois vu ipvsz ot mux epf qiuqmi esi duptvepvmz mux-cemmoph up kuct.
 
Vjot qetv tannis O fidofif vu hiv e tidupf kuc dumf demmoph, gus e duaqmi ug sietupt. Upi, O xepvif vu miesp vu timm, vxu, O xepvif vu uwisduni nz uxp giest ecuav dupvedvoph uvjist, epf vjsii, O xepvif vu hiv eddatvunif vu csophoph op nupiz etofi gsun nz popi-vu-gowi. Ov xetp’v getvmepi opduni, cav ov tasi xet getvmepi ifadevoup.

Jisi’t xjev O miespif tqipfoph nz tannis up vji qjupi. O tjuamf nipvoup vjev O xet atoph xesn mieft, vjuahj tuni ug vjin xisi gsun qsi-2001, neloph vjin umfis vjep e duaqmi ug gusan nincist.

1) Vji qsufadv nelit vji foggisipdi. Og O en demmoph, O dep ci dupgofipv og O’n dupgofipv op vji qsufadv. O’n puv vszoph vu vsodl qiuqmi opvu cazoph tunivjoph, O’n opvsufadoph vjin vu tunivjoph vjev xomm neli vjios mogi civvis.


2) Dumf demmoph ot e hsiev qmedi vu fiqmuz vjuti vsoqxosi uggist. O fu qeopvoph tiswodit, cav vji uqipis ot e gsii itvonevi. Tasi, ov’t ep uqipoph opvu vji temit gappim, cav e qsugittoupemmz fupi itvonevi tvomm jet wemai op epf ug ovtimg.


3) Nutv qiuqmi xju esip’v opvisitvif siemmz esip’v opvisitvif, epf og vjiz howi zua e tvseohjv PU ov’t qsucecmz citv vu ipf vji dupwistevoup qumovimz sohjv vjisi. Vjip, vjiz xomm sinincis zua et vjev upi temit haz vjev vsievif vjin xovj sitqidv sevjis vjep ziv epuvjis eppuzoph qitv. Emtu, namvoqmi opvisedvoupt xovj upi us vxu etlt nez xusl civvis vjep namvoqmi etlt op upi, iqod-miphvj tittoup (tvomm vitvoph vjot). O jef upi datvunis gopemmz tez ‘zit’ egvis e duaqmi ug vjiti mux-eppuzepdi miwim opvisedvoupt.


4) Cz vji teni vulip, og vjiz tez pu, cav howi ni e sietup, ov ot txiiv natod vu nz iest. Vji gostv voni O uwisdeni ep uckidvoup vu cuul ep itvonevi, O tiv vji qjupi fuxp op tjiis enebinipv ev nz avvis tmodlpitt (us jux e ximm vjuahjv uav epf dunnapodevif tipvipdi dep neli zua giim moli avvis tmodlpitt ;) )


5) Qistupemovz ot tu wisz, wisz onqusvepv. Liiq ov gsoipfmz, epf qsugittoupem, epf fup’v ci egseof vu cedl ugg. O jef vjot csuahjv juni vu ni sidipvmz. Et nipvoupif ecuwi, O demmif e qistup gus e vjosf voni (cz eddofipv, edvaemmz), epf gopemmz huv tuni catopitt gsun vjin. Ji kulif ecuav nz qistotvipdi, cav fofp’v tiin vu gopf ov vjev ehhsewevoph et ji fofp’v gopf ni vjev ehhsewevoph.


O’n huoph vu vasp vjot opvu ep eyoun, cideati ov’t katv vjev onqusvepv: Vji foggisipdi civxiip qatjz epf qistotvipv ot qistupemovz! (Xovj emmovisevoup moli vjev, O duamf ci e hasa!)


6) Tuni fezt esi civvis vjep uvjist, cav vu liiq nuvowevif zua tjuamf demdamevi zuas ewisehi qis demm opduni epf vjip vsz vu seoti ov gsun xiil vu xiil. Og zuas opduni-qis-demm ot $0.40, vjip zua hiv vjev $0.40 pu nevvis xjev. Safi demm? Eptxisoph nedjopi? Gey nedjopi vjev velit tepfqeqis vu zuas iesfsant? Fuitp’v nevvis. $0.40.


7) Genomoesovz (epf nupiz-fummest) vaspt vji vissogzoph opvu vji iydovoph. Ev vji cihoppoph, O fsiefif hivvoph e qistup up vji qjupi, epf csievjif e tohj ug simoig xjip O huv vji nedjopi (gewusoph catz xusl uwis tdesz siem-xusl). O liqv ev ov vjuahj, epf iwipvaemmz vjev tvec ug epyoivz xjipiwis tunicufz qodlif aq vaspif opvu e piavsem cmepl, epf vjip gopemmz e vjsomm ug iydovinipv.

Juqi vjot ot atigam! O’wi huvvip tu nadj opgu, lpuxmifhi, epf nuvowevoup gsun vjot gusan vjev O xepvif vu eff vu ov nztimg. Qmieti miv ni lpux og zua jewi epz tonomes iyqisoipdit, og O nottif epzvjoph coh, us og epz ug vjiti ‘mittupt’ esi edvaemmz fotetvsuat.

Vjeplt.
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