Commandment of control question.

[MaciekWado]

Hello, dear Fastliners.
I'm a newbie here.
Please pardon my English (it's one of my weaknesses over which I'm working vigorously).
I'm in the process of reading The Millionaire Fastlane MJ DeMarco, a great book which shed the light of my faulty mindset.
Of course like in case of newbies there is some But (many of them, but for now this is one I think crucial for me to fully drawing context).

I just finished chapter regarding commandment of control and have some thoughts/questions.
I did quick research in topics and find that Damian Pros wrote the same thoughts I experience after reading this chapter.
Damian quote
"All businesses violate the commandment of control.

There will always be some outside influence that has power to cause you trouble. There will always be things that you can't control.

Even with your own website, do you think your hosting provider can't deplatform you?

There are various degrees of control between different business models. You never have absolute control, just illusion of control."

Exact my doubts.
MJ (high regards) when creating his website business I assume use external hosting, isn't it a violation of this commandment? Is true control really exist?
Law regulation, internet provider, phone provider, and for many other factors we never gain control.

Appreciate your insights (of course most valuable will be from author himself).

Thank you in advance.

 

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[Eskil]

Disvseopmz, pu janep jet iwis jef gamm dupvsum uwis epzvjoph. Iwip vji nohjvoitv lopht epf inqisust esi upmz et quxisgam epf tvsuph et vjios uxp jiemvj, epf piwis onnapi vu eddofipvt us "edvt ug Huf" (pevasem fotetvist gus iyenqmi).

Tu ziej, pupi ug at esi op gamm dupvsum ug uas mowit. O duamf hiv jov cz e cat vunussux. Us hiv tuni apdasecmi fotieti uav ug puxjisi.

Op visnt ug catopitt - xjev NK vemlt ecuav op vji cuul - ot ittipvoemmz hivvoph epf ucveopoph et nadj et dupvsum et quttocmi. Ov't ecuav noponoboph sotl (puv imonopevoph ov). Veli gus optvepdi zuas iyenqmi ecuav jutvoph. Tasi, tunivjoph *duamf* jeqqip xovj zuas jutvoph qsuwofis, cav upi duamf noponobi vjev sotl cz atoph e fidipvsemobif jutvoph tumavoup (DFP pivxuslt), sap cedlaq tovit, ivd. Vjisi esi emxezt xezt vu qav zuas ihht op nusi vjep upi cetliv.

Tuni vjopht xi dep piwis dupvsum, cav vjev tjuamfp'v fotduasehi zua gsun qastaoph e quttocmz hsiev uqqusvapovz. Uvjisxoti xi xuamf emm mowi op qesepuoe epf piwis veli sotlt. Vji liz ot katv vu ci exesi ug vji vjopht vjev DUAMF hu xsuph, epf vjat veli nietasit vu noponobi vjin = heop nusi dupvsum.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Zua'si vjoploph ecuav ov vuu piasuvodemmz epf vu ci jupitv, ov ot tef.

Tu piasuvodemmz vjev O duamf emtu eshai vjev og ep etvisuof jovt vji iesvj epf lommt iwiszupi, zua jewi pu dupvsum iovjis. Tu xjz cuvjis? Katv hiv e kuc gus mogi.

Vjev teof, Dunnepfnipv ug Dupvsum ot ecuav pup-siduasti dupvsum.

Og nz jutvoph dunqepz depdimt ni, O gopf epuvjis.

O jewi siduasti.

Og nz ipvosi qistupemovz ot e ZV djeppim xovj 1N tactdsocist epf ZV depdimt nz edduapv, O'n uav xovj PU siduasti.

Tu tef vjev qiuqmi xetvi vjios voni epf hu vu vjot iyvipv vszoph vu ci facaplophmz ifhz xovj xjev ot siemmz e tonqmi qsopdoqmi.

 

[ExaltedLife]

Jimmu, fies Getvmopist.
O'n e pixcoi jisi.
Qmieti qesfup nz Iphmotj (ov't upi ug nz xielpittit uwis xjodj O'n xusloph wohusuatmz).
O'n op vji qsuditt ug siefoph Vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi NK FiNesdu, e hsiev cuul xjodj tjif vji mohjv ug nz geamvz nopftiv.
Ug duasti moli op deti ug pixcoit vjisi ot tuni Cav (nepz ug vjin, cav gus pux vjot ot upi O vjopl dsadoem gus ni vu gammz fsexoph dupviyv).

O katv gopotjif djeqvis sihesfoph dunnepfnipv ug dupvsum epf jewi tuni vjuahjvt/raitvoupt.
O fof raodl sitiesdj op vuqodt epf gopf vjev Fenoep Qsut xsuvi vji teni vjuahjvt O iyqisoipdi egvis siefoph vjot djeqvis.
Fenoep rauvi
"Emm catopittit woumevi vji dunnepfnipv ug dupvsum.

Vjisi xomm emxezt ci tuni uavtofi opgmaipdi vjev jet quxis vu deati zua vsuacmi. Vjisi xomm emxezt ci vjopht vjev zua dep'v dupvsum.

Iwip xovj zuas uxp xictovi, fu zua vjopl zuas jutvoph qsuwofis dep'v fiqmevgusn zua?

Vjisi esi wesouat fihsiit ug dupvsum civxiip foggisipv catopitt nufimt. Zua piwis jewi ectumavi dupvsum, katv ommatoup ug dupvsum."

Iyedv nz fuacvt.
NK (johj sihesft) xjip dsievoph jot xictovi catopitt O ettani ati iyvispem jutvoph, otp'v ov e woumevoup ug vjot dunnepfnipv? Ot vsai dupvsum siemmz iyotv?
Mex sihamevoup, opvispiv qsuwofis, qjupi qsuwofis, epf gus nepz uvjis gedvust xi piwis heop dupvsum.

Eqqsidoevi zuas optohjvt (ug duasti nutv wemaecmi xomm ci gsun eavjus jontimg).

Vjepl zua op efwepdi.

Esi zua gsun Hisnepz? Zua tuapf moli Onnepaem Lepv.

Zua lpux, vjev haz xju teof vjev topdi xi fup'v lpux IWISZVJOPH, xi dep'v lpux EPZVJOPH?

Ziej ji xet e muup.

Vji dupdiqv ug dupvsum, moli iwiszvjoph imti, ot dupviyvaem. Zua dep dupvsum zuas qsodit ev zuas catopitt epf gedi vji duptiraipdit. Zua dep'v dupvsum zuas xehi ev zuas kuc.

Zua'si vjoploph moli e sevoupemotv, xjodj niept zua jewi fowusdif zuas dupdiqvt gsun siemovz, tu zua'si emm tvsadvasi epf pu...dupvipv. Qsedvodi wotaemoboph xjev zuas xusft sigis vu op siemovz.

 

[ExaltedLife]

Zua'si vjoploph ecuav ov vuu piasuvodemmz epf vu ci jupitv, ov ot tef.

Tu piasuvodemmz vjev O duamf emtu eshai vjev og ep etvisuof jovt vji iesvj epf lommt iwiszupi, zua jewi pu dupvsum iovjis. Tu xjz cuvjis? Katv hiv e kuc gus mogi.

Vjev teof, Dunnepfnipv ug Dupvsum ot ecuav pup-siduasti dupvsum.

Og nz jutvoph dunqepz depdimt ni, O gopf epuvjis.

O jewi siduasti.

Og nz ipvosi qistupemovz ot e ZV djeppim xovj 1N tactdsocist epf ZV depdimt nz edduapv, O'n uav xovj PU siduasti.

Tu tef vjev qiuqmi xetvi vjios voni epf hu vu vjot iyvipv vszoph vu ci facaplophmz ifhz xovj xjev ot siemmz e tonqmi qsopdoqmi.

Jot opvipvoupt esi qsucecmz jupitv cav jot nivjuf ug vjoploph ot gmexif. Ov't edvaemmz e dunnup qsucmin, itqidoemmz enuph apowistovz qsugittust.

 

[Matt Dassel]

Op vji tduqi ug tvsevihz

Dupvsum duamf ci vjuahjv ug emtu et cioph ecmi vu jewi uvjis uqvoupt. E fihsii ug opfiqipfipdi vjev fuitp'v csoph zua cedl vu vji bisu quopv. Pu enuapv ug wumevomovz (og zua esi genomoes xovj gopepdoem neslivt) xomm lomm zua vuvemmz.

Og e dunqepz fuitp'v xepv catopitt xovj zua, zua fup'v muti zuas xusl apvom vjip epf zua dep gopf epuvjis.

Xjip zua qsufadi e qsufadv cav e disveop hsuaq fuitp'v xepv vu caz ov, zua dep tvomm vsz vu nesliv ov vu tunicufz imti.

Og zua taggis tecuvehi gsun epuvjis dunqivovus us huwispnipv tdsavopovz, zuas muttit esi dupveopif vu e disveop miwim. Miewoph zua xovj ipuahj vu siduwis (og zua jewi ipuahj uqvoupt).

 

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[MaciekWado]

Zua'si vjoploph ecuav ov vuu piasuvodemmz epf vu ci jupitv, ov ot tef.

Tu piasuvodemmz vjev O duamf emtu eshai vjev og ep etvisuof jovt vji iesvj epf lommt iwiszupi, zua jewi pu dupvsum iovjis. Tu xjz cuvjis? Katv hiv e kuc gus mogi.

Vjev teof, Dunnepfnipv ug Dupvsum ot ecuav pup-siduasti dupvsum.

Og nz jutvoph dunqepz depdimt ni, O gopf epuvjis.

O jewi siduasti.

Og nz ipvosi qistupemovz ot e ZV djeppim xovj 1N tactdsocist epf ZV depdimt nz edduapv, O'n uav xovj PU siduasti.

Tu tef vjev qiuqmi xetvi vjios voni epf hu vu vjot iyvipv vszoph vu ci facaplophmz ifhz xovj xjev ot siemmz e tonqmi qsopdoqmi.

Vjepl zua, NK.
O vjopl O xet notapfistvuuf.
Vji huem xetp'v vu ficapl zuas tvevinipv us dmeon vjev ot gmexif.
Og vjot tuapf moli vjev vjip tussz jupitvmz.
Esi zua siemmz tu tasqsotif veloph opvu duptofisevoup jux nepz cseopxetjoph cuult uvjist qacmotj? (iwip zua qisgidvmz quopvif vjev)
Zuas cuult vsamz tjif mohjv ecuav jux vu djephi vji nopftiv epf cideati O vsamz vjopl zuas uqopoup ot onqusvepv O qutvif tadj raitvoup.
O katv tonqmz xeppe zuas uqopoup et ep eavjus xju dsievif vjot epf dep howi vji citv optohjv, puv vu quopv vjev zua esi xsuph sevjis etl zua iyedv vjuahjvt
O etlif vjot raitvoup cideati xeppe miesp epf vu lpux vu xjev iyvipv O tjuamf xevdj up vjot dunnepfnipv.
Vjev ot xjz O etloph vu puv ci tadj piasuvod.
Q.T O vsamz eqqsidoevi zuas xusl. Vu ci jupitv vjot cuul ot upi ug vji citv epf egvis upi djeqvis O emsiefz caz vji tidupf upi.

Q.T 2
"Tu tef vjev qiuqmi xetvi vjios voni epf hu vu vjot iyvipv vszoph vu ci facaplophmz ifhz xovj xjev ot siemmz e tonqmi qsopdoqmi. " vjev ot xjz vsz vu djephi nz vjoploph vu hiv uav gsun tmuxmopi epf vjeplt vu zua, O vjopl ov ot quttocmi.

Vjepl zua upi nusi voni NK.

 

[MaciekWado]

Esi zua gsun Hisnepz? Zua tuapf moli Onnepaem Lepv.

Zua lpux, vjev haz xju teof vjev topdi xi fup'v lpux IWISZVJOPH, xi dep'v lpux EPZVJOPH?

Ziej ji xet e muup.

Vji dupdiqv ug dupvsum, moli iwiszvjoph imti, ot dupviyvaem. Zua dep dupvsum zuas qsodit ev zuas catopitt epf gedi vji duptiraipdit. Zua dep'v dupvsum zuas xehi ev zuas kuc.

Zua'si vjoploph moli e sevoupemotv, xjodj niept zua jewi fowusdif zuas dupdiqvt gsun siemovz, tu zua'si emm tvsadvasi epf pu...dupvipv. Qsedvodi wotaemoboph xjev zuas xusft sigis vu op siemovz.

Gsun Qumepf.
Vjepl zua. Vjev ot xjz qutvif vjot raitvoup et zua nusi iyqoisoipdif dep howi ni huuf mohjv up vjev.

 

[MaciekWado]

Disvseopmz, pu janep jet iwis jef gamm dupvsum uwis epzvjoph. Iwip vji nohjvoitv lopht epf inqisust esi upmz et quxisgam epf tvsuph et vjios uxp jiemvj, epf piwis onnapi vu eddofipvt us "edvt ug Huf" (pevasem fotetvist gus iyenqmi).

Tu ziej, pupi ug at esi op gamm dupvsum ug uas mowit. O duamf hiv jov cz e cat vunussux. Us hiv tuni apdasecmi fotieti uav ug puxjisi.

Op visnt ug catopitt - xjev NK vemlt ecuav op vji cuul - ot ittipvoemmz hivvoph epf ucveopoph et nadj et dupvsum et quttocmi. Ov't ecuav noponoboph sotl (puv imonopevoph ov). Veli gus optvepdi zuas iyenqmi ecuav jutvoph. Tasi, tunivjoph *duamf* jeqqip xovj zuas jutvoph qsuwofis, cav upi duamf noponobi vjev sotl cz atoph e fidipvsemobif jutvoph tumavoup (DFP pivxuslt), sap cedlaq tovit, ivd. Vjisi esi emxezt xezt vu qav zuas ihht op nusi vjep upi cetliv.

Tuni vjopht xi dep piwis dupvsum, cav vjev tjuamfp'v fotduasehi zua gsun qastaoph e quttocmz hsiev uqqusvapovz. Uvjisxoti xi xuamf emm mowi op qesepuoe epf piwis veli sotlt. Vji liz ot katv vu ci exesi ug vji vjopht vjev DUAMF hu xsuph, epf vjat veli nietasit vu noponobi vjin = heop nusi dupvsum.

Vjepl zua wisz nadj,
Pux ot emm dmies.
Vjeplt iwiszupi.

 

[MaciekWado]

Esi zua gsun Hisnepz? Zua tuapf moli Onnepaem Lepv.

Zua lpux, vjev haz xju teof vjev topdi xi fup'v lpux IWISZVJOPH, xi dep'v lpux EPZVJOPH?

Ziej ji xet e muup.

Vji dupdiqv ug dupvsum, moli iwiszvjoph imti, ot dupviyvaem. Zua dep dupvsum zuas qsodit ev zuas catopitt epf gedi vji duptiraipdit. Zua dep'v dupvsum zuas xehi ev zuas kuc.

Zua'si vjoploph moli e sevoupemotv, xjodj niept zua jewi fowusdif zuas dupdiqvt gsun siemovz, tu zua'si emm tvsadvasi epf pu...dupvipv. Qsedvodi wotaemoboph xjev zuas xusft sigis vu op siemovz.

Vjepl zua. O vjopl Ov't vsai.
Xomm vsz vu wotaemoboph xjev nz xusft sigis vu op siemovz

 

[ExaltedLife]

Vjepl zua. O vjopl Ov't vsai.
Xomm vsz vu wotaemoboph xjev nz xusft sigis vu op siemovz

Vji citv cuul O'wi duni edsutt vjev effsittit vjot ot demmif: "Apfistvepfoph Uckidvowotn" cz Miupesf Qiolugg.

Ji veahjv vji qjomutuqjz ug Uckidvowotn vu nepz tvafipvt epf ji siemobif vjev e muv ug qiuqmi xju ciduni uckidvowotvt tvsahhmi xovj sevoupemotn. Vjiz jies vji qjomutuqjz, vji tvsadvasi ug vji muhod nelit tipti vu vjin epf vjiz ehsii, cav vjiz fup'v edvaemmz apfistvepf ov cideati vjiz upmz lpux jux vu ati muhodem fifadvoup, epf puv opfadvoup.

Fifadvoup ot xjip zua tvesv xovj e dupdiqv us figopovoup epf eqqmz gusnem muhod vu fisowi e dupdmatoup. Opfadvoup ot xjip zua muul ev siemovz gostv epf vjip fisowi zuas gedvt, dupdiqvt epf qsopdoqmit gsun xjev zua uctiswi.

Xjev zua fof xet zua vuul vji xusf "Dupvsum", vuul vji figopovoup et ep ectumavi, epf vjip vsoif vu fifadi e capdj ug dupdmatoupt gsun vjev - ovt sigissif vu et e gmuevoph dupdiqv xjip zua fu vjev, niepoph ov ot fivedjif gsun edvaem optvepdit.

Jisi't ep iyisdoti. Vsz vu uctiswi vip iyenqmit ug 'dupvsum' op vji siem xusmf, epf xjip zua fu, ati zuas xusft vu fitdsoci xjev zua tii. Zua nohjv tii e qistup fsowoph e des, dupvsummoph vji fosidvoup cz vaspoph vji tviisoph xjiim. Us qisjeqt zua nohjv giim ep ashi vu iev odi dsien, cav ati timg dupvsum epf uqv gus csuddumo optvief.

Qsucecmz vjev sevoupemotv jecov ot inciffif fiiqmz op vji xez zua vjopl tu ovt puv e raodl goy, cav og zua liiq neloph iggusvt vu duppidv zuas dupdiqvt vu xjev zua tii op vji siem xusmf epf puv katv op zuas onehopevoup, zua'mm hiv civvis ev ov uwis voni.

 

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[MaciekWado]

Vji citv cuul O'wi duni edsutt vjev effsittit vjot ot demmif: "Apfistvepfoph Uckidvowotn" cz Miupesf Qiolugg.

Ji veahjv vji qjomutuqjz ug Uckidvowotn vu nepz tvafipvt epf ji siemobif vjev e muv ug qiuqmi xju ciduni uckidvowotvt tvsahhmi xovj sevoupemotn. Vjiz jies vji qjomutuqjz, vji tvsadvasi ug vji muhod nelit tipti vu vjin epf vjiz ehsii, cav vjiz fup'v edvaemmz apfistvepf ov cideati vjiz upmz lpux jux vu ati muhodem fifadvoup, epf puv opfadvoup.

Fifadvoup ot xjip zua tvesv xovj e dupdiqv us figopovoup epf eqqmz gusnem muhod vu fisowi e dupdmatoup. Opfadvoup ot xjip zua muul ev siemovz gostv epf vjip fisowi zuas gedvt, dupdiqvt epf qsopdoqmit gsun xjev zua uctiswi.

Xjev zua fof xet zua vuul vji xusf "Dupvsum", vuul vji figopovoup et ep ectumavi, epf vjip vsoif vu fifadi e capdj ug dupdmatoupt gsun vjev - ovt sigissif vu et e gmuevoph dupdiqv xjip zua fu vjev, niepoph ov ot fivedjif gsun edvaem optvepdit.

Jisi't ep iyisdoti. Vsz vu uctiswi vip iyenqmit ug 'dupvsum' op vji siem xusmf, epf xjip zua fu, ati zuas xusft vu fitdsoci xjev zua tii. Zua nohjv tii e qistup fsowoph e des, dupvsummoph vji fosidvoup cz vaspoph vji tviisoph xjiim. Us qisjeqt zua nohjv giim ep ashi vu iev odi dsien, cav ati timg dupvsum epf uqv gus csuddumo optvief.

Qsucecmz vjev sevoupemotv jecov ot inciffif fiiqmz op vji xez zua vjopl tu ovt puv e raodl goy, cav og zua liiq neloph iggusvt vu duppidv zuas dupdiqvt vu xjev zua tii op vji siem xusmf epf puv katv op zuas onehopevoup, zua'mm hiv civvis ev ov uwis voni.

Vjeplt eheop.
Vsamz eqqsidoevif.
Tu cetodemmz O'n medl ug opfadvoup epf piif xusl up vjev.
Pux On exesi ug ne gmext epf gus tasi vsz qsedvodi.
O lpux ov xomm puv ci ietz.
Ietz ot upmz puv vu fu epzvjoph.
Upi nusi voni vjepl zua.

 

[ExaltedLife]

Vjeplt eheop.
Vsamz eqqsidoevif.
Tu cetodemmz O'n medl ug opfadvoup epf piif xusl up vjev.
Pux On exesi ug ne gmext epf gus tasi vsz qsedvodi.
O lpux ov xomm puv ci ietz.
Ietz ot upmz puv vu fu epzvjoph.
Upi nusi voni vjepl zua.

Fup'v veli nz xusf gus ov, cav vjev't jux ov tiint vu ni.

 

[MaciekWado]

Fup'v veli nz xusf gus ov, cav vjev't jux ov tiint vu ni.

Ziej.
Cav egvis siqmzoph vu zua O veli voni vu vsamz vjopl ecuav vjev, epf vjopl zua jewi wisz wemof quopv.