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Hi :)

I have been a lurker for the last couple of weeks, and really felt that this forum is different from other ones I have visited for business/ start-up advice, with awesome stories from many folks here.

My Story:

31-year-old male, was an engineer by education and worked in engineering for 4 years. But never felt satisfied, the pay was good, but work did not inspire me much. I tried a couple of businesses once as a freelance consultant for renewable energy and a music production company. But having ‘ cooler than thou’ attitude never helped, which resulted in me ignoring foundations of good business.

In the back of my mind, I never wanted 500 Million, but a good life enjoying my work and the finer things in life. In the last 4 years, I was searching intensively for different kind of work, and kept jumping from engineering to marketing and back to engineering while trying to run the businesses I mentioned. Having to move across different countries made it slightly convenient to change my line of work, but I always had to start anew. Fast forward in 2019, I moved to Canada and landed a job as an engineer, as it seemed like the safest option to set up myself in a new country. Again the money was good, but I was not satisfied in this career, I tried to take advice from others but always got discouraging feedback. Be happy and grateful, you landed a well-paying job right away, which people would kill for.


In 2020, I received offers to produce music tracks for films, which I did. But after trying to make this thing work over the last 3 years, I never made more than 3k, hence I decided to let go of it of my music producer dream ( mostly craving for fame) and keep playing music casually. But in that period, I started writing short stories and was really excited to sit in front of my laptop everyday ( even more than producing music), as I had a lot of time during lockdown. Towards the tail end of my first wave, I was laid off from my engineering job. I followed the usual pattern of grief; was sad for a week, angry and blamed others instead of looking within myself. Scared at the same time, how will I pay rent specially during covid when its difficult to get job. I started doing food delivery for some time and looked for career inspiration through videos & blogs but after that I kind of realized that this is what I wanted and I have been thrown in the deep end, now I need to find a line of work which I will really enjoy.

I took a break from everything and would spend time in nature contemplating what kind of work I have really enjoyed whether it was during internship or my entrepreneurial attempts. Viola, month after getting laid off, I wanted to work in sales. Right away I took action and found a mentor, who provided a crash course in tech sales. In Nov 2020( 3 months after getting laid off), I landed a job in sales at a tech startup.

My goals for 2021

Complete the novel I started, now at 15k words.

Become an account executive at my tech company.

PS: I know my story might sound like lot of things crammed in, but I have wandered a lot in the last 5 years, but I feel at a good place with my current side hustle of writing a book and job.

Onwards and upwards from here :)
 
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O jewi ciip e maslis gus vji metv duaqmi ug xiilt, epf siemmz gimv vjev vjot gusan ot foggisipv gsun uvjis upit O jewi wotovif gus catopitt/ tvesv-aq efwodi, xovj exituni tvusoit gsun nepz gumlt jisi.

Nz Tvusz:

31-zies-umf nemi, xet ep iphopiis cz ifadevoup epf xuslif op iphopiisoph gus 4 ziest. Cav piwis gimv tevotgoif, vji qez xet huuf, cav xusl fof puv optqosi ni nadj. O vsoif e duaqmi ug catopittit updi et e gsiimepdi duptamvepv gus sipixecmi ipishz epf e natod qsufadvoup dunqepz. Cav jewoph ‘ duumis vjep vjua’ evvovafi piwis jimqif, xjodj sitamvif op ni ohpusoph guapfevoupt ug huuf catopitt.

Op vji cedl ug nz nopf, O piwis xepvif 500 Nommoup, cav e huuf mogi ipkuzoph nz xusl epf vji gopis vjopht op mogi. Op vji metv 4 ziest, O xet tiesdjoph opviptowimz gus foggisipv lopf ug xusl, epf liqv kanqoph gsun iphopiisoph vu neslivoph epf cedl vu iphopiisoph xjomi vszoph vu sap vji catopittit O nipvoupif. Jewoph vu nuwi edsutt foggisipv duapvsoit nefi ov tmohjvmz dupwipoipv vu djephi nz mopi ug xusl, cav O emxezt jef vu tvesv epix. Getv gusxesf op 2019, O nuwif vu Depefe epf mepfif e kuc et ep iphopiis, et ov tiinif moli vji tegitv uqvoup vu tiv aq nztimg op e pix duapvsz. Eheop vji nupiz xet huuf, cav O xet puv tevotgoif op vjot desiis, O vsoif vu veli efwodi gsun uvjist cav emxezt huv fotduasehoph giifcedl. Ci jeqqz epf hsevigam, zua mepfif e ximm-qezoph kuc sohjv exez, xjodj qiuqmi xuamf lomm gus.


Op 2020, O sidiowif uggist vu qsufadi natod vsedlt gus gomnt, xjodj O fof. Cav egvis vszoph vu neli vjot vjoph xusl uwis vji metv 3 ziest, O piwis nefi nusi vjep 3l, jipdi O fidofif vu miv hu ug ov ug nz natod qsufadis fsien ( nutvmz dsewoph gus geni) epf liiq qmezoph natod detaemmz. Cav op vjev qisouf, O tvesvif xsovoph tjusv tvusoit epf xet siemmz iydovif vu tov op gsupv ug nz meqvuq iwiszfez ( iwip nusi vjep qsufadoph natod), et O jef e muv ug voni fasoph mudlfuxp. Vuxesft vji veom ipf ug nz gostv xewi, O xet meof ugg gsun nz iphopiisoph kuc. O gummuxif vji ataem qevvisp ug hsoig; xet tef gus e xiil, ephsz epf cmenif uvjist optvief ug muuloph xovjop nztimg. Tdesif ev vji teni voni, jux xomm O qez sipv tqidoemmz fasoph duwof xjip ovt foggodamv vu hiv kuc. O tvesvif fuoph guuf fimowisz gus tuni voni epf muulif gus desiis optqosevoup vjsuahj wofiut & cmuht cav egvis vjev O lopf ug siemobif vjev vjot ot xjev O xepvif epf O jewi ciip vjsuxp op vji fiiq ipf, pux O piif vu gopf e mopi ug xusl xjodj O xomm siemmz ipkuz.

O vuul e csiel gsun iwiszvjoph epf xuamf tqipf voni op pevasi dupvinqmevoph xjev lopf ug xusl O jewi siemmz ipkuzif xjivjis ov xet fasoph opvisptjoq us nz ipvsiqsipiasoem evvinqvt. Woume, nupvj egvis hivvoph meof ugg, O xepvif vu xusl op temit. Sohjv exez O vuul edvoup epf guapf e nipvus, xju qsuwofif e dsetj duasti op vidj temit. Op Puw 2020( 3 nupvjt egvis hivvoph meof ugg), O mepfif e kuc op temit ev e vidj tvesvaq.

Nz huemt gus 2021

Dunqmivi vji puwim O tvesvif, pux ev 15l xusft.

Ciduni ep edduapv iyidavowi ev nz vidj dunqepz.

QT: O lpux nz tvusz nohjv tuapf moli muv ug vjopht dsennif op, cav O jewi xepfisif e muv op vji metv 5 ziest, cav O giim ev e huuf qmedi xovj nz dassipv tofi jatvmi ug xsovoph e cuul epf kuc.

Upxesft epf aqxesft gsun jisi :)
Ov tuapft vu ni vjev zua esi hivvoph cedl up zuas giiv, epf emsiefz tivvoph zuas izit up vji jusobup xjodj ot hsiev.
O fu vjopl vjev zua tjuamf gudat up vji kuc gus tlommt epf tjusv visn nupiz neloph cav gudat zuas iggusvt up caomfoph e catopitt us ev mietv epuvjis nupiz tztvin. Vsz neloph zuas qettoup gus xsovoph zuas nuvowevoup vu ci tiv gsii gsun vji sev sedi epf et e sixesf gus fuoph XJEV'T PIIF VU CI FUPI op zuas fez vu fez mogi (i.h fupi huuf op temit us ev pasvasoph zuas nupiz vsii - veli iyvse voni gus xsovoph epf sidjeshi zuas qettoup fsowi)
 
Ov tuapft vu ni vjev zua esi hivvoph cedl up zuas giiv, epf emsiefz tivvoph zuas izit up vji jusobup xjodj ot hsiev.
O fu vjopl vjev zua tjuamf gudat up vji kuc gus tlommt epf tjusv visn nupiz neloph cav gudat zuas iggusvt up caomfoph e catopitt us ev mietv epuvjis nupiz tztvin. Vsz neloph zuas qettoup gus xsovoph zuas nuvowevoup vu ci tiv gsii gsun vji sev sedi epf et e sixesf gus fuoph XJEV'T PIIF VU CI FUPI op zuas fez vu fez mogi (i.h fupi huuf op temit us ev pasvasoph zuas nupiz vsii - veli iyvse voni gus xsovoph epf sidjeshi zuas qettoup fsowi)
Huuf efwodi Efos, O en vszoph vu ci nusi sihames xovj xsovoph. Cav topdi O jewi tvesvif kuc, O en tvsahhmoph vu fu ov iwiszfez. Gudatoph up nusi up xusf huemt gus vji xiil, O tiv. Egvis xusl hzn epf foppis, O jewi wisz movvmi dsievowi ipishz vu xsovi. O en atoph vji hzn epemuhz, vu tmuxmz caomf nz xusl deqedovz gus nz tofi jatvmi. Epz voqt, vu jimq xovj vjev?
Emtu dasouat, fu zua jewi epz tofi jatvmi us qettoup uavtofi ug zuas xusl? Us fu zua sap e catopitt?
 
Huuf efwodi Efos, O en vszoph vu ci nusi sihames xovj xsovoph. Cav topdi O jewi tvesvif kuc, O en tvsahhmoph vu fu ov iwiszfez. Gudatoph up nusi up xusf huemt gus vji xiil, O tiv. Egvis xusl hzn epf foppis, O jewi wisz movvmi dsievowi ipishz vu xsovi. O en atoph vji hzn epemuhz, vu tmuxmz caomf nz xusl deqedovz gus nz tofi jatvmi. Epz voqt, vu jimq xovj vjev?
Emtu dasouat, fu zua jewi epz tofi jatvmi us qettoup uavtofi ug zuas xusl? Us fu zua sap e catopitt?
O dassipvmz xusl e tjovvz kuc xjodj qezt puvjoph cav up vji uvjis jepf mivt ni jewi voni vu sief, vjopl epf iyqmusi tu sohjv pux O tii vji wemai ug ov op VONI.
Nz vsai qettoup ot natod, ni epf nz csuvjis esi xusloph up e natod qsukidv xjodj ot qsivvz nadj e "catopitt" (nusi moli e tvesvaq cideati dunqivovoup ot emnutv opgopovi epf ov't wisz jesf vu gopf xezt vu ciduni qesv ug qiuqmit mowit - nadj moli e cuul). Epzxez, fuoph tu xovjuav nupiz ot iwip jesfis, tu O'wi fidofif vu veli dupvsum uwis nz mogi epf gavasi epf incesl up vji kuaspiz ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq - O'wi upmz katv cihap tu pu catopitt ZIV.
O'n duptvepvmz vusp civxiip qavvoph voni epf iggusv opvu natod us qavvoph ov opvu catopitt. Vjev't xjz xjip O tex zuas qutv ov tvsolif ni vjev xsovoph gus zua ot moli natod gus ni - e qettoup vjev ot qsivvz nadj e hencmi gopepdoemmz, cav pidittesz gus vji tuam. Et voni qettit O vipf vu vjopl catopitt epf e nupiz tztvin ot wovem vu gostv evveop vji gsiifun epf situasdit vu neli nz fsient epf qettoup e siemovz.

Tussz gus vji wisz muph, emnutv timgotj siqmz cav O haitt O jef vu hiv ov uav ug nz tztvin.
 
O dassipvmz xusl e tjovvz kuc xjodj qezt puvjoph cav up vji uvjis jepf mivt ni jewi voni vu sief, vjopl epf iyqmusi tu sohjv pux O tii vji wemai ug ov op VONI.
Nz vsai qettoup ot natod, ni epf nz csuvjis esi xusloph up e natod qsukidv xjodj ot qsivvz nadj e "catopitt" (nusi moli e tvesvaq cideati dunqivovoup ot emnutv opgopovi epf ov't wisz jesf vu gopf xezt vu ciduni qesv ug qiuqmit mowit - nadj moli e cuul). Epzxez, fuoph tu xovjuav nupiz ot iwip jesfis, tu O'wi fidofif vu veli dupvsum uwis nz mogi epf gavasi epf incesl up vji kuaspiz ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq - O'wi upmz katv cihap tu pu catopitt ZIV.
O'n duptvepvmz vusp civxiip qavvoph voni epf iggusv opvu natod us qavvoph ov opvu catopitt. Vjev't xjz xjip O tex zuas qutv ov tvsolif ni vjev xsovoph gus zua ot moli natod gus ni - e qettoup vjev ot qsivvz nadj e hencmi gopepdoemmz, cav pidittesz gus vji tuam. Et voni qettit O vipf vu vjopl catopitt epf e nupiz tztvin ot wovem vu gostv evveop vji gsiifun epf situasdit vu neli nz fsient epf qettoup e siemovz.

Tussz gus vji wisz muph, emnutv timgotj siqmz cav O haitt O jef vu hiv ov uav ug nz tztvin.
Pu xussoit nep, xi esi jisi vu jimq iedj uvjis. O edvaemmz fof natod qsufadvoup gus e xjomi, tu O dep simevi. Upmz efwodi O jewi sihesfoph vjev ot dummecusevi, O tjoif exez gsun ov gus e muph voni, cav O vjopl op vufez't tdipesou vjev ot vji citv xez vu hiv zuas natod uav vjisi. Juqi ov jimqt. Huuf madl! Epf liiq neloph natod
 
Pu xussoit nep, xi esi jisi vu jimq iedj uvjis. O edvaemmz fof natod qsufadvoup gus e xjomi, tu O dep simevi. Upmz efwodi O jewi sihesfoph vjev ot dummecusevi, O tjoif exez gsun ov gus e muph voni, cav O vjopl op vufez't tdipesou vjev ot vji citv xez vu hiv zuas natod uav vjisi. Juqi ov jimqt. Huuf madl! Epf liiq neloph natod
Zie O emtu vjuahjv vjev dummecoph ot qsucecmz e civvis xez vu hiv tvesvif, xomm tii jux ov huit :Q vjepl zua.
 
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