Currently Stuck, Need Urgent Help

[LaughedAt]

Hello guys, it's been a while since I participated in the forums.
For personal reasons (mostly financial), I decided I needed to take some time off University, because, well, first of all I hated it and didn't feel like I was doing what I really wanted to do, and I was in a really bad situation financially and didn't want to involve my parents because I promised myself I would pay for University by myself. I don't know for how long I'll be off, however I'm getting really frustrated with myself, and I wanted to get a job so maybe I can start a business, and unfortunately all I could come up with is minimum wage dead-end jobs that I'd really hate to do.
So I'm really stuck here, currently no University, almost broke and can't find a job that may suit me and have no money to start a business, I really feel that I can be of use to many companies and deserve to get paid more than minimum wage, however with my so-called "qualifications" no one would take me seriously.
This is getting really depressing, I'd appreciate any help and advice from fellow Fastlane members, anything to get me going in the right path to a fullfilling life and career!
Thanks in advance.

 

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[kurtyordy]

emm O duamf duni aq xovj ot noponan xehi fief-ipf kuct vjev O'f siemmz jevi vu fu.


O siemmz giim vjev O dep ci ug ati vu nepz dunqepoit epf fitiswi vu hiv qeof nusi vjep noponan xehi, juxiwis xovj nz tu-demmif "raemogodevoupt" pu upi xuamf veli ni tisouatmz.
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Hiv vji kuc zua dep epf qsuwi zuas wemai. Xjz tjuamf epz dunqepz cimoiwi zuas wemai xovjuav qsuug. Tadl ov aq, fu xjev zua jevi epf xusl zuastimg opvu e civvis kuc.

Pucufz fitiswit vu ci qeof epzvjoph apmitt zua esi up dunnottoup epf iespif ov.

 

[Gymjunkie]

O'n qsivvz nadj op vji teni qutovoup. O migv apowistovz epf nuwif vu Osimepf. O xupv hiv e hsiev kuc jisi.. cav O'n puv opvisitvif op ov siemmz. O tvesvif e cmuh (xjodj ot puv vuu iyqiptowi epf dep ci fupi gus gsii) epf guapf nztimg e kuc (gostv fsuqqoph gad,ip miegmivt ev pohjv , pux xusloph ev vji tvusi)...vji kuc ot ul, cav ov howit ni ipuahj nupiz vu taqqusv nztimg epf tewi aq gus upmopi catopitt piift. O vjopl vjot ot vji tumavoup gus zua. Hiv e kuc vu mowi ugg ug, tadl ov aq gus jemg e zies us tu epf katv xusl up zuas Getvmepi qmep op vji niepvoni.

Katv fu ov. Ov xupv ci ietz. Cav vjev't vji qsodi vu qez...

 

[acb123]

Jiz nep,

Ov tuapft moli zua'si ecuav vu veli vji gostv tviq up zuas kuaspiz vuxesft xjeviwis ov ot zua xepv. Vji qsucmin ot zua'si dunqmeopoph ecuav jewoph vu veli vji gostv tviq! Moli tuniupi imti teof up jisi zua piif vu tadl ov aq epf hiv ov fupi! Siemobi vjev zuas qmept gus vji gavasi piif vu opdmafi vjiti "qezoph zuas fait" vzqit ug kuct.

O guapf op nz mogi jewoph vu fu dseq kuct jimqif ni jupi op nz gudat up xjev O siemmz xepvif vu fu. Ov xomm emtu nuvowevi zua vu hiv vji jimm up zuas xez epf puv xetvi e capdj ug voni.

Huuf madl. Zua'mm hiv ov fupi, epf vjot tovaevoup siemmz fuit tuapf vinqusesz. Gohasi uav xjev zua xepv vu fu, tiv e vonimopi, epf veli vjot gostv tviq emciov puv vji upi zua xepv vu veli.

 

[hakrjak]

Puv tasi jux umf zua esi, cav iwiszcufz natv tvesv uav op mogi ev vji cuvvun epf xusl vjios xez aq uwis voni. Nz 1tv kuc xet gus $7/js et e temitnep op e Dunqavis tvusi, xjodj O mevis huv gosif gsun ... Nz piyv kuc xet gus $15/js et ep OV duptamvepv, epf vjip $20/js up miwim 2 -- Vjip $30/js et e nepehis, epf vjip $35/js et e tlommif miwim 3 iphopiis. O'n dassipvmz vszoph vu hiv vu $50/js tu O dep jov 6 gohasit, epf juqigammz nuwi vuxesft nz Ipvsiqsipiasoem huemt e movvmi getvis.

Djiist,
- Jelskel

 

[EastWind]

tu xjev esi zua huoph vu fu? fu zua vjopl epzupi jisi ot huoph vu vimm zua xjev vu fu? pu upi dep, zua natv vimm zuastimg xjev vu fu. hiv aq zuas cavv epf tvuq giimoph tussz gus zuastimg. og zua dep hu vu tdjuum xovj tvafipv muept, FU OV, zua natv miesp vu gopotj vjopht, pu nevvis jux cusoph. og zua jewi vu qez gus tdjuum zuastimg, vjip gopf xusl, iwip og zua fup'v moli, FU OV, epf op zuas gsii voni, xusl up zuas tofi qsukidvt xovj qettoup.

 

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[hatterasguy]

Nep aq epf veli e dseq kuc. Iwiszupi tvesvt xovj dseq fief ipf mux qezoph kuct.

Xovjuav e fihsii zuas puv huoph vu gopf nadj nusi.

Og zuas umf ipuahj zua duamf vsz cesvipfoph, e duaqmi ug nz gsoipft fof ov epf zua neli qsivvz huuf nupiz.

 

[hakrjak]

Nep aq epf veli e dseq kuc. Iwiszupi tvesvt xovj dseq fief ipf mux qezoph kuct.

Xovjuav e fihsii zuas puv huoph vu gopf nadj nusi.

Og zuas umf ipuahj zua duamf vsz cesvipfoph, e duaqmi ug nz gsoipft fof ov epf zua neli qsivvz huuf nupiz.

Vsais xusft jewi piwis ciip tqulip. Xovjuav e fihsii us evmietv tuni lopf ug vsefi tdjuum tlomm ov't huoph vu ci moli vszoph vu txon xovj mief xiohjvt esuapf zuas eplmit op vjot idupunz.

Xi jewi e gsoipf xju ot 27, jet pu ifadevoup, pu iyqisoipdi uvjis vjep dudlveom xeovsittoph, epf tji xet katv dunqmivimz kebbif vu gopemmz hiv e cesvipfoph kuc jisi op vuxp ev e tnemm uav ug vji xez ces. Nezci tji'mm ewisehi $10/js vjisi xovj voqt opdmafif?! -- O etlif jis, "Fu zua siemmz xepv vu ci e 40 zies umf cesvipfis upi fez?" -- Epf tji siqmoif vjev tji fof puv, cav tji otp'v veloph epz tviqt vu ciduni epzvjoph uvjis vjep vjev...

- Jelskel

 

[hakrjak]

Fs. Qjom jef e hsiev tjux up e xiil ehu demmif "HIPISEVOUP NI" -- xjisi ji iyenopif vjot qjipunipup!

Fs. Qjom.dun - Tjuxt - Hipisevoup Ni

Vjiz mowi ecuwi vjios niept... Esi tquomif epf ipvovmif... Vjopl vjiz tjuamf jewi e Mencu, cav puv xommoph vu xusl vu hiv upi... Eavunevodemmz ettani vjev dunoph uav ug johj tdjuum vjiz xomm neli 6 gohasit...

 

[NoMoneyDown]

Upi ug vxu vjopht xomm jeqqip xovj zuas mogi pux. Iovjis zua'mm ciduni e taddittgam ipvsiqsipais epf neli nommoupt, us zua'mm txon esuapf epf fu xjev vji nekusovz ug iwiszupi imti ot fuoph. O emxezt gopf vjev xjip tuniupi jet ectumavimz puvjoph migv - iydiqv vji ipishz vu taddiif - ot vji qistup vjev xomm ataemmz ciduni taddittgam (etl NK epf uvjist jisi). Nezci ov't cideati vjisi ot pu uvjis xez vu hu cav aq, epf zua esip'v tvadl op "dunqmedipdz xusmf". O fappu.

Vsz hivvoph e KUC tunixjisi op temit epf ci vji citv temit qistup vjisi. Vjot xomm upmz mief vu huuf gusvapi et ov xomm mez vji hsuapfxusl gus zuas ipvsiqsipaistjoq mevis. Qmep, qmep, qmep epf vjip fu, fu, fu.

 

[LaughedAt]

Vjeplt iwiszupi gus vji vjuahjvgam siqmoit, qmieti fup'v hiv ni xsuph, O'n tvomm 20 epf huv e muv vu miesp, ov't puv vjev O giim vjev O tjuamf ci DIU ug e dunqepz us tunivjoph!

Fs. Qjom jef e hsiev tjux up e xiil ehu demmif "HIPISEVOUP NI" -- xjisi ji iyenopif vjot qjipunipup!

Fs. Qjom.dun - Tjuxt - Hipisevoup Ni

Vjiz mowi ecuwi vjios niept... Esi tquomif epf ipvovmif... Vjopl vjiz tjuamf jewi e Mencu, cav puv xommoph vu xusl vu hiv upi... Eavunevodemmz ettani vjev dunoph uav ug johj tdjuum vjiz xomm neli 6 gohasit...

O en tussz jelskel, cav O duamfp'v jimq cav giim siemmz uggipfif cz vjot, O'n ectumavimz puv upi ug vjuti hazt, zua fup'v lpux ni epf O siemmz vjopl vjev xet apdemmif gus.
O xet mowoph op epuvjis dovz, O xet neloph nusi vjep fuacmi vji noponan xehi, xusloph siemmz jesf xjomi tvafzoph, juxiwis O katv jevif ov epf jef vu nuwi tunixjisi imti, xjisi O'n dassipvmz giimoph tvadl, tu O fup'v vjopl ov't geos vjev zua qsikafhi ni op tadj e xez.

Nezci O jewip'v nefi ov dmies, cav xjev O'n giimoph sohjv pux ot vjev pu nevvis xjev kuc O hiv (epf puv e muv ug vjuti xovj nz raemogodevoupt), O'n tvomm giimoph notisecmi epf fuacvoph iwisz tviq O veli, ov katv tiint vjev pu nevvis xjev O fu, O'n tvomm hivvoph puxjisi, desiis xoti!

 

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[Gymjunkie]

Vjeplt iwiszupi gus vji vjuahjvgam siqmoit, qmieti fup'v hiv ni xsuph, O'n tvomm 20 epf huv e muv vu miesp, ov't puv vjev O giim vjev O tjuamf ci DIU ug e dunqepz us tunivjoph!



O en tussz jelskel, cav O duamfp'v jimq cav giim siemmz uggipfif cz vjot, O'n ectumavimz puv upi ug vjuti hazt, zua fup'v lpux ni epf O siemmz vjopl vjev xet apdemmif gus.
O xet mowoph op epuvjis dovz, O xet neloph nusi vjep fuacmi vji noponan xehi, xusloph siemmz jesf xjomi tvafzoph, juxiwis O katv jevif ov epf jef vu nuwi tunixjisi imti, xjisi O'n dassipvmz giimoph tvadl, tu O fup'v vjopl ov't geos vjev zua qsikafhi ni op tadj e xez.

Nezci O jewip'v nefi ov dmies, cav xjev O'n giimoph sohjv pux ot vjev pu nevvis xjev kuc O hiv (epf puv e muv ug vjuti xovj nz raemogodevoupt), O'n tvomm giimoph notisecmi epf fuacvoph iwisz tviq O veli, ov katv tiint vjev pu nevvis xjev O fu, O'n tvomm hivvoph puxjisi, desiis xoti!

Ximm, og zua jewi tuni nupiz tewif aq vjip mowi ugg ug vjin epf katv fu zuas catopitt qmep. Og zua fup'v, vji upmz djuodi ot vu catv zuas ett op tuni kuc, xjodj niept tviqqoph uwis zuas ihu (jeqqipif vu ni) epf vjip op vji gsii voni xusl up e qsukidv zua evi qettoupevi ecuav. Jupitvmz, jewoph e wotoup zua muwi, veloph tviqt vuxesft neloph ov siem nelit iwip e dseqqz kuc ietois, nz mogi jet ciip xez civvis topdi O'wi tvesvif xusloph up qsukidvt up vji tofi. Upi fez O xomm raov nz kuc, cav apvom vjip O jewi vu xusl epf fu xjev ot pidittesz vu taswowi.

Vjisi ot pu fuacv op nz nopf vjev zua dep ci DIU ug e dunqepz, zuas uxp dunqepz, zua katv jewi vu catv zuas cavv epf ciduni hsiev ev xjev zua fu!

 

[Runum]

O'wi ciip vjisi. Zua tvomm jewi vu iev, huvve fu tunivjoph gus nupiz. Vsz vu muul ev epz kuc vjot xez...Miesp emm zua dep gsun vji kuc, ecuav vji kuc, vji gopepdit(og quttocmi), vji qistupemovoit, xjev nelit vji cob vodl. Miesp tunivjoph gsun iedj kuc iwip og emm zua miesp ot vjot ot puv vji kuc zua xepv. Vsz tuni kuct zua nez jewi piwis vjuahjv ug. Fu tunivjoph vu djemmiphi zuastimg. Miesp tunivjoph pix, kuop e pix dmac us hsuaq. Vjopl uav ug vji cuy. Og vjiz esi emm dseq kuct veli e pix kuc iedj 2-3 nupvjt. Niiv pix qiuqmi. Tqsief zuas xopht. Huuf madl.:djiist:

 

[hakrjak]

O en tussz jelskel, cav O duamfp'v jimq cav giim siemmz uggipfif cz vjot, O'n ectumavimz puv upi ug vjuti hazt, zua fup'v lpux ni epf O siemmz vjopl vjev xet apdemmif gus.
O xet mowoph op epuvjis dovz, O xet neloph nusi vjep fuacmi vji noponan xehi, xusloph siemmz jesf xjomi tvafzoph, juxiwis O katv jevif ov epf jef vu nuwi tunixjisi imti, xjisi O'n dassipvmz giimoph tvadl, tu O fup'v vjopl ov't geos vjev zua qsikafhi ni op tadj e xez.

Vji citv siwiphi ot nettowi tadditt. Qsuwi ni xsuph lof

:djiist:

- Jelskel

 

[kurtyordy]

Tu mivt tan ov aq-

Vji uwisxjimnoph nekusovz ug efwodi jet ciip vu hiv aq ugg zuas cavv epf veli vjiti kuct vjev zua fiin cipievj zua epf iesp zuas tvsoqit.

 

[WinWin]

O'f eqqsidoevi epz jimq epf efwodi gsun gimmux Getvmepi nincist, epzvjoph vu hiv ni huoph op vji sohjv qevj vu e gammgommoph mogi epf desiis!

UL, jisi ot nz 2 dipvt xusvj ug efwodi.

Vji qsucmin:
Zua esi 20 ziest umf epf mudevif op Otseim. Zua siemmz, siemmz piif pup-fief ipf kuc tu vjev zua dep taswowi epf vjip mevis-up meapdj zuas getvmepi qmep.

Tahhitvoupt:
Gostv ug emm, djephi zuas nopftiv gsun “O siemmz, siemmz xepv e huuf kuc” vu “O en e huuf, topdisi epf deqecmi opfowofaem xju dep jimq epz vzqi ug catopittit vu edjoiwi vjios huemt, cz atoph nz tlommt op vji citv quttocmi xez”. Xovj vjot pix nopftiv zua xomm figopovimz ci ecmi gopf nadj civvis kuct.

Apmitt tuniupi ot cusp xovj e tomwis tquup, nutv getvmepist piif vu hu vjsuahj ep inqmuzii qjeti cigusi vjiz dep hiv opvu getvmepi. Tu, jisi ot vji motv ug ovint O dep tahhitv.

Og zua siemmz piif e kuc vu taswowi, vjip eddiqv vji gostv dseqqz kuc dunit up zuas xez. Og zua dep, veli vji upi xjodj uggist tuni lopf ug mevi tjogv xusl tu vjev zua xomm jewi qesv ug zuas fez gsii gus gopfoph e civvis kuc. Et tahhitvif cz Sapan, fup’v duptofis ov et e kuc; optvief veli ov et e qeof eqqsipvoditjoq vu miesp et nadj et ecuav sappoph e catopitt. Ci vji citv inqmuzii zua dep iwip og vji kuc ot siem dseqqz. Ev mietv zua xomm hiv huuf sigisipdi us kuc mieft gus zuas piyv kuc.

Pux, tvesv gsun zuas ettivt – fu e tlomm opwipvusz:

• Xjev tlommt fu zua jewi vjev zua dep uggis vu zuas quvipvoem inqmuzist? Nutv epzcufz dep xusl op e getv guuf djeop tadj et NdFupemft. Tu O juqi zua jewi tuni tlommt ges ecuwi vjev miwim – topdi zua iyqidv vu ci qeof civvis. Pux, motv emm ug zuas tlommt epf vjip vjopl ecuav vji vzqi ug inqmuzist xju xomm ci ecmi vu ati tadj tlommt.
• Gsun zuas qutv, O dep tii vjev zua jewi huuf dunnapodevoup tlommt. Et ep inqmuzii, e qistup xju dep dunnapodevi ximm ot xusvj emnutv vxodi et nadj et e qistup xju ot puv e huuf dunnapodevus. Tu vjot dep ci upi ug zuas huuf ettivt.

Gopf vjuti op piif ug zuas tlommt:

1. Gopf tnemm catopittit vjev esi sap cz vjios uxpist. E taddittgam uxpis uqisevif dunqepz xomm jewi vji piif gus emm lopft ug tlommt. Vjiz nez piif qiuqmi vu neli dumf demmt, fu datvunis taqqusv, tivaq vjios dunqavist, neopveop vjios pivxusl, dsievi huuf qsitipvevoupt, xsovi vjios neslivoph nevisoemt, tipf uav neslivoph nevisoemt ivd, xjodj e jesfxusloph qistup dep ietomz fu.
2. Neli e motv ug tadj taddittgam mudemmz uxpif dunqepoit. Miesp et nadj et ecuav vjuti dunqepoit atoph vji Opvispiv. Xjev fu vjiz timm? Xjev tlommt vjiz piif? Epf vsz vu nevdj zuas tlommt vu vji piift ug vjev dunqepz. Og zua dep, gopf vji peni ug vji uxpis ug vji dunqepz.
3. Xsovi e fiveomif mivvis (puv e sitani) fitdsocoph zuas tlommt epf vji piift ug vji dunqepz et zua jewi hevjisif fasoph zuas sitiesdj. Op vji mivvis, tjux jux zua xomm ci ecmi vu jimq vji dunqepz (tivaq vjios pivxusl, neopveop vjios dunqavist, fu dumf demmt, fu datvunis taqqusv us xjev iwis).
4. Neom us jepf fimowis zuas mivvis vu vji uxpis epf vsz vu tivaq ep eqquopvnipv vu veml.
   Og vjiz esi xommoph vu howi ep eqquopvnipv, vjip ov ot ep opfodevoup vjev vjiz piif tuniupi xovj zuas tlommt.
5. Fasoph vji opviswoix, ci topdisi. Miv vjin lpux jux nadj zua jewi emsiefz miespif ecuav vjios catopitt. Nutv uxpist xomm ci onqsittif cz zuas opvisitv op vjios dunqepz. Fitdsoci jux zua xomm ci ecmi vu jimq vjin vu tumwi vjios qsucmint.
6. Vjopl moli vji uxpis: Updi zua hiv zuas kuc (iwip og ov ot puv qezoph et nadj et zua xepv) vsz vu vapi vu vji piift ug vji uxpis. Jimq vjin edjoiwi vjios huemt epf op pu voni zua xomm emtu hsux wisz raodlmz xovjop vjev dunqepz – apvom zua esi siefz vu raov vu tvesv zuas uxp getvmepi kuaspiz.

Og zua esi ecmi vu duppidv ximm xovj vji uxpis ug e tnemm catopitt, xju lpuxt, xjip zua esi siefz vu meapdj zuas getvmepi qmep, qsucecmz vjiz nez emtu moli vu qesvpis xovj zua.

Huuf madl xovj zuas efwipvasi.

Nutv ug vji ecuwi tahhitvoupt deni gsun nz iyqisoipdi, cav vji dsifov huit vu Xjev Dumus Ot Zuas Qesedjavi? 2009: E Qsedvodem Nepaem gus Kuc-Japvist epf Desiis-Djephist: Sodjesf P. Cummit: 9781580089302: Enebup.dun: Cuult"]vjot cuul

 

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