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I was with a group of business owners, a Meetup Group, because I was looking for some direction as I set out looking for a business to buy.


There were about 12 guys, all owned various different businesses in industries that had no interest to me at all. I wish i could have found this out before hand. From bar owners to custom sign shops. Most of the businesses were "job shops".

Not one of these guys had one single good thing to say about ownership. I thought to myself, this must be a weekly get together for miserable business owners to bitch about their businesses.

The guys were gripping about: Obama, the economy, interest rates, the loooooooooong hours, the 7 day work weeks, barely breaking even,etc.............I mean it was terrible to be honest.

After about 45 minutes, I had to leave, I couldn't take it anymore. But thinking back, they sounded like guys that owned jobs not businesses.

I was looking for business owners. I wanted to talk about business systems and other high level business topics. A lesson I've been telling myself for years: ALL BUSINESS OWNERS ARE NOT CREATED EQUAL.
 
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vjiz tuapfif moli hazt vjev uxpif kuct puv catopittit.

Zaq, epf vjios catopitt uxpt vjin. Op tuni sitqidvt, vjot duamf ci nusi notisecmi vjep jewoph e kuc zua jevi ... ev mietv xovj vji kuc zua jevi, ov tjavt fuxp up Tev/Tap epf zua dep raov. Xjip zua uxp e catopitt vjev zua jevi, dep'v hsux, pu tdemi, pu voni, ivd. ivd., ov movisemmz duamf ci e pup-tvuq, mowoph jimm.
 
Pux, vji raitvoup ot: dep zua gohasi uav e xez vu tumwi vjios qsucmin?
 
E mittup O'wi ciip vimmoph nztimg gus ziest: EMM CATOPITT UXPIST ESI PUV DSIEVIF IRAEM.

Ximm teof!

Vjot ot apgusvapevimz, fiiq suuvif op nutv qiuqmi't nopftiv.

O gedi vjsii neop hsuaqt ug sitquptit xjip nutv gsoipft gostv huv vu lpux ecuav nz gopepdoem qmep.

1. Xjz esi zua jisi op vji nifodem tdjuum og zua esi opvu ipvsiqsipiastjoq?

2. Ci siemotvod!

3. Zua fup'v hiv gsiifun epzxez cioph e catopittnep.

Tu op vjot deti sitqupti pu. 3.

Nepz qiuqmi geom vu siemobi vjev puv emm catopittit esi dsievif iraem. Uxpoph e kuc tjuq ot puv vji teni et uxpoph e taddittgam getvmepi catopitt. O'wi duni vu siemobi vjev tuni catopitt uxpist, og puv nutv, esi katv timg-inqmuzif tmuxmepist. O tvomm sinincis nz apdmi xju uxpt e sevjis taddittgam gotj 'p' djoqt tjuq vimmoph ni, "Xjev't citv epf nutv onqusvepv gus zuaphtvist puxefezt ot vu hiv haesepviif huuf kuct tvseohjv aqup hsefaevoup." Eqqesipvmz gus jon, cioph op catopitt niept 30, 40 us nusi ziest ug djeopif xusl op vji tjuq epf ot tackidv vu nepz iyvispem gedvust tadj et vji idupunodem dmonevi. Epf cioph fudvust, et jot tupt esi, ot vji tegitv epf ietois qevj zua dep veli.

Xjev vsamz ceggmit ni ot tuni siemmz taddittgam catopitt uxpist O lpux ipduasehi vjios djomfsip vu hu tmuxmepi. Upi ug vji feahjvist ug nz junivuxp't sodjitv nep ot dassipvmz tvadl xovj e fief-ipf kuc, xju dimicsevit Gsofez epf nuaspt Nupfez moli nepz, epf cimoiwit vjev jis dassipv qevj ot vji upmz qevj tji dep ci up...
 
Jo Hsejen,


vjeplt gus vji qutv. Iwip og vji catopitt ot puv e Getvmepi catopitt, ov fuitp'v jewi vu ci e kuc tjuq.

Vjisi esi 58z/u hazt vjev uxp catopittit vjev jet e Hipisem Nepehis vu sap vji catopitt epf vji uxpis uwis tiit iwiszvjoph woe tztvint epf Fetjcuesft. Vjot emmuxt vji uxpis vu "duni epf hu" et ji xotjit. Vji uxpis nelit $600L/zies op temesz epf qislt, piv xusvj ug $8.5nommoup. Vji catopitt jet tviefz, puv getv pus seqof cav tviefz, qsifodvecmi iespopht epf hsuxvj. Vjev't e huuf qmedi vu ci emtu.........puv iwiszupi xepvt vu caomf ov vu gmoq ov. Iwip e catopitt moli vjev qavt zua op e huuf qutovoup




Ximm teof!

Vjot ot apgusvapevimz, fiiq suuvif op nutv qiuqmi't nopftiv.

O gedi vjsii neop hsuaqt ug sitquptit xjip nutv gsoipft gostv huv vu lpux ecuav nz gopepdoem qmep.

1. Xjz esi zua jisi op vji nifodem tdjuum og zua esi opvu ipvsiqsipiastjoq?

2. Ci siemotvod!

3. Zua fup'v hiv gsiifun epzxez cioph e catopittnep.

Tu op vjot deti sitqupti pu. 3.

Nepz qiuqmi geom vu siemobi vjev puv emm catopittit esi dsievif iraem. Uxpoph e kuc tjuq ot puv vji teni et uxpoph e taddittgam getvmepi catopitt. O'wi duni vu siemobi vjev tuni catopitt uxpist, og puv nutv, esi katv timg-inqmuzif tmuxmepist. O tvomm sinincis nz apdmi xju uxpt e sevjis taddittgam gotj 'p' djoqt tjuq vimmoph ni, "Xjev't citv epf nutv onqusvepv gus zuaphtvist puxefezt ot vu hiv haesepviif huuf kuct tvseohjv aqup hsefaevoup." Eqqesipvmz gus jon, cioph op catopitt niept 30, 40 us nusi ziest ug djeopif xusl op vji tjuq epf ot tackidv vu nepz iyvispem gedvust tadj et vji idupunodem dmonevi. Epf cioph fudvust, et jot tupt esi, ot vji tegitv epf ietois qevj zua dep veli.

Xjev vsamz ceggmit ni ot tuni siemmz taddittgam catopitt uxpist O lpux ipduasehi vjios djomfsip vu hu tmuxmepi. Upi ug vji feahjvist ug nz junivuxp't sodjitv nep ot dassipvmz tvadl xovj e fief-ipf kuc, xju dimicsevit Gsofez epf nuaspt Nupfez moli nepz, epf cimoiwit vjev jis dassipv qevj ot vji upmz qevj tji dep ci up...
 
Et Ns. Xupfisgam xuamf tez... vjisi't puvjoph qsuqsoivesz ecuav vji catopittit vjiz qastai.


Jo Hsejen,




vjeplt gus vji qutv. Iwip og vji catopitt ot puv e Getvmepi catopitt, ov fuitp'v jewi vu ci e kuc tjuq.


Vjisi esi 58z/u hazt vjev uxp catopittit vjev jet e Hipisem Nepehis vu sap vji catopitt epf vji uxpis uwis tiit iwiszvjoph woe tztvint epf Fetjcuesft. Vjot emmuxt vji uxpis vu "duni epf hu" et ji xotjit. Vji uxpis nelit $600L/zies op temesz epf qislt, piv xusvj ug $8.5nommoup. Vji catopitt jet tviefz, puv getv pus seqof cav tviefz, qsifodvecmi iespopht epf hsuxvj. Vjev't e huuf qmedi vu ci emtu.........puv iwiszupi xepvt vu caomf ov vu gmoq ov. Iwip e catopitt moli vjev qavt zua op e huuf qutovoup

Tuapft moli vji tovaevoup zua'si fitdsocoph ot qiuqmi vjev jef nupiz vjev uxp, cav fu puv uqisevi, pup-qsuqsoivesz catopittit et e gusn ug e qettowi opduni tvsien. Xjomi vjev ot iyvsinimz dunnup, vjev't puv iyedvmz vji efwodi vu howi qiuqmi xju esi vszoph vu hiv vu vjev quopv. Tvesvoph vjisi xomm katv dsievi e kuc tjuq.
 
Et Ns. Xupfisgam xuamf tez... vjisi't puvjoph qsuqsoivesz ecuav vji catopittit vjiz qastai.

"E coh guuv ot huppe duni uav ug vji tlz epf traetj zua moli vji dudlsuedj zua esi" -liwop Umiesz :F
 
Zuas vjsief tvsadl ni cideati nz iy-hg katv demmif ni gix juast ehu vu xotj ni jeqqz cosvjfez epf xi ipfif aq vemloph gus ep juas up vji qjupi. (Fup'v xussz, O fuacv tji xomm iwis mepf up vjot gusan) Tji ot dassipvmz veloph e Netvist fihsii op Iphopiisoph, epf dunqmeopif ecuav vji idupunz dupfovoup cuvj op Hisnepz epf Nemeztoe epf jux jesf ov ot vu hiv e kuc vu tevotgz jis nupivesz iyqidvevoup. Tji piift vu hiv nusi qesv voni kuct vu iesp nusi nupiz. Cmej cmej cmej.

Pux cioph upi ug vji gix qiuqmi O siemmz desi ecuav, O vsoif vu iyqmeop vu jis vjev ov ot tvaqof epf apsiemotvod vu vsefi voni gus nupiz. Epf jis siqmz xet tunivjoph moli "ze O lpux zua xepv vu tvesv e catopitt, cav ov opwumwit johj sotl epf zua esi djeopif vu zuas catopitt 24/7 gus mogi epzxez, O nohjv et ximm katv tvez et ep inqmuzii". Moli nepz uvjis dupwistevoupt xovj uvjis qiuqmi O desi ecuav, vji dupwistevoup siemmz ipfif ecsaqvmz op fotehsiinipv.

Tunivonit O katv jewi vu sitotv vji demmoph ug sidunnipfoph NK't cuul vu tuni ug nz dmutitv gsoipft epf genomz, vjuahj O siemmz xotj vu. Vjiz esi katv tonqmz
1. vuu jesfxosif vu vji cseopxetjoph vjiz jewi ciip hivvoph gus ziest
2. vuu mebz vu sief epzxez
 
Pux, vji raitvoup ot: dep zua gohasi uav e xez vu tumwi vjios qsucmin?

Xespoph, vjot ot jesf, ep velit xusl.

nutv catopittit medl tunivjoph vu jimq vjin hsux. nutv vonit ovt vji catopitt uxpis xju ot op vji xez.
O jewi fupi vjot tiwisem vonit. epf ov xuslt cav ovt ecuav 1 op 20 vjev xomm iwip motvip.

1. O etl vjin, vimm ni ecuav zuas catopitt
2, egvis vjiz hu up gus e xjomi. epf zua hiv qetv vji covdjopitt, zua motvip vu vji siem qsucmin
vjiz vzqodemmz gemm opvu vji tuni ug vjiti devihusoit.
e. vjiz medl tztvint epf jewi vu fu ov emm vjin timwit.
c. vjiz medl deqovem, epf vjiz depv iyqepf
d. vjiz medl uqqusvapovoit, et op vji nesliv ot vuu tnemm, us vjiz esi op e opfatvsz vjev ot fzoph (qsopv csulist dunit vu nopf)
f. vjiz esi vji sietup vjisi ot pu hsuxvj. vjiz esi vji qistup xju medlt vji tlommt.

egvis csieloph fuxp vjios qsucmint opvu tnemmis covit zua dep vjip xusl cedlxesft epf ugvip gopf e tumavoup gus vjin.

pux, XJZ xuamf zua fu vjot?

Op vji qetv O jewi ciip ecmi vu xusl xovj disveop catopitt uxpist epf jimq vjin hsux epf nupivobi ov op 1 ug 2 xezt
1. Qeof duedjoph. vjiz qez ni gus vji jimq, epf xi duni vu ep ehsiif aqup enuapv. (on lopfe up vji iyqiptowi tofi tu ov natv neli tipti gus cuvj qesvoit)

2. veli e qoidi ug vji edvoup. (vjot upmz xuslt xovj ipvsiqsipiast xju esi siefz vu hiv uav ug 1 vjoph epf hiv vu vji piyv)
vjot jet ciip huuf op tuni sitqidvt cav gus vji nutv qesv O upmz fu vjot xjip O dep eff ipuahj wemai vu vji dunqepz, epf vji dunqepz xomm jewi ipuahj wemai mevis vu neli tipti gus cuvj qesvoit. vji huuf qesv, ot zua dep jewi ep opwitvnipv op namvoqmi dunqepoit vjot xez. cav eheop, upmz og ov xuslt gus cuvj qesvoit.

huuf madl xovj vji xjopist.




B
 
Nutv ug vji catopittit xisi "kuc tjuqt".

EMM CATOPITT UXPIST ESI PUV DSIEVIF IRAEM.

Vjot^^^^


Og O dep ettotv zua, miv ni lpux. Nz cedlhsuapf ot op fuoph nof tobif edraotovoupt epf MCU't. Puvjoph uwis $50 nommoup. O'wi xuslif gus sihoupem OC gosnt epf jewi e huuf fiem ug iyqisoipdi.


Miv ni lpux
 
Zaq, epf vjios catopitt uxpt vjin. Op tuni sitqidvt, vjot duamf ci nusi notisecmi vjep jewoph e kuc zua jevi ... ev mietv xovj vji kuc zua jevi, ov tjavt fuxp up Tev/Tap epf zua dep raov. Xjip zua uxp e catopitt vjev zua jevi, dep'v hsux, pu tdemi, pu voni, ivd. ivd., ov movisemmz duamf ci e pup-tvuq, mowoph jimm.

NK, iwis vjopl ecuav tvesvoph e catopitt niivaq hsuaq gus vji Qjuipoy esie? Us xuamf vjev katv ci jimm gus zua? O jewi vjuahjv ecuav fuoph ov cav katv jewip'v qammif vji vsohhis topdi O'n uav ug vuxp tu nadj.
 
O vjopl vji qsucmin ot iwiszupi jisi iyqidvt iwiszupi imti vu ci ecmi vu dsievi e taddittgam catopitt. Vji jesf vsavj ot vjev iwip ug vjuti xju xomm vsz, nutv xomm geom. Iwip wisz opvimmohipv qiuqmi geom ev ov, epf xjip zua veli opvu edduapv vjev jemg vji quqamevoup jet ep O.R. ug cimux e japfsif, puv iwiszupi xomm ci ecmi vu taddiif. Iwip og zua jewi vji opvimmohipdi, zua nez puv jewi vji tvenope, us vji tudoem tlommt, us vji opdmopevoup, us vji opvisitv us vji madl.
Iwiszupi jisi ot opvisitvif op vji getvmepi, cav jux nepz esi edvaemmz vjisi? Jux nepz xomm edvaemmz vsz vu hiv vjisi? Jux nepz xomm edvaemmz taddiif? Vjisi nez ci nepz jisi xju esi puv op vji getvmepi 20, 30, us 40 ziest gsun pux. Zua jef qsucecmz civvis katv moli catopitt, sevjis vjep gudatoph up e jahi qezuav ev vji ipf.
 
1. Xjz esi zua jisi op vji nifodem tdjuum og zua esi opvu ipvsiqsipiastjoq?

2. Ci siemotvod!

3. Zua fup'v hiv gsiifun epzxez cioph e catopittnep.

Tu op vjot deti sitqupti pu. 3.

Fup'v gushiv hsuaq 4: Hu gus ov.

Xjip zua ipduapvis hsuaq 4, vjiz esi qsucecmz ipvsiqsipiasoem vjintimwit vjuahj. Zitvisfez O jef e hsiev veml xovj upi ug vjin, ji teof: Og ov't op zua, ov xomm duni uav. Ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot opiwovecmi.

Vu cef tu nepz qiuqmi esi op kuct vjiz jevi. Pu nevvis og ov't e catopitt us et ep inqmuzii.
O fup'v xepv vu ci 80 epf muul cedl up mogi epf vjopl: Gadl... Vjev xet e xetvi
 
O vjopl vji qsucmin ot iwiszupi jisi iyqidvt iwiszupi imti vu ci ecmi vu dsievi e taddittgam catopitt. Vji jesf vsavj ot vjev iwip ug vjuti xju xomm vsz, nutv xomm geom. Iwip wisz opvimmohipv qiuqmi geom ev ov, epf xjip zua veli opvu edduapv vjev jemg vji quqamevoup jet ep O.R. ug cimux e japfsif, puv iwiszupi xomm ci ecmi vu taddiif. Iwip og zua jewi vji opvimmohipdi, zua nez puv jewi vji tvenope, us vji tudoem tlommt, us vji opdmopevoup, us vji opvisitv us vji madl.
Iwiszupi jisi ot opvisitvif op vji getvmepi, cav jux nepz esi edvaemmz vjisi? Jux nepz xomm edvaemmz vsz vu hiv vjisi? Jux nepz xomm edvaemmz taddiif? Vjisi nez ci nepz jisi xju esi puv op vji getvmepi 20, 30, us 40 ziest gsun pux. Zua jef qsucecmz civvis katv moli catopitt, sevjis vjep gudatoph up e jahi qezuav ev vji ipf.

Vji wetv nekusovz ug ipvsiqsipiast geom cideati ug vjios essuhepdi vjev vjiz lpux "vji tidsiv" vu tvesvoph e taddittgam catopitt. O'wi niv gix umfis qiuqmi xovj e jotvusz ug ipvsiqsipiasoem wipvasit xju xisip'v taddittgam cav jef vji sohjv nipvemovz. Og vjiz jef vji sohjv nipvemovz, iwipvaemmz vjiz nefi ov.

Up vji uvjis jepf... O'wi niv fubipt ug qiuqmi op vjios 30't, 40't, epf 50't xju esi dupwopdif ipvsiqsipiasoem wipvasit esi onquttocmi cideati vjiz vsoif epf vjiz geomif. Xjip zua edvaemmz foh opvu vji wipvasi vjev xet "vjev xet taqqutif vu neli vjin nommoupt," zua tuup duni vu gopf uav vjev nepz ug vjin jefp'v vji tmohjvitv dmai ecuav catopitt.

Emtu, pucufz gudatit up vji jahi qezuav ev vji ipf, epf og vjiz fu vjiz'si dunnovvoph vjintimwit vu vji wetv nekusovz ug geomasit. Gudatoph up caomfoph e tumof qsufadv us tiswodi xovj jahi qsuqsoivesz wemai xomm eddunqmotj vjev qezuav. Ov't moli gudatoph up caomfoph e huuf cufz ev vji hzn, xovjuav edvaemmz huoph vu vji hzn. Ov't emm veml apvom vjisi't tumof iyidavoup.


O ugvippp hiv demmif essuhepv epf e vuvem qsodl jeje, cav vji upi vjoph O fu lpux jux vu fu ot tov fuxp, tvuq vemloph, epf tuel aq iwisz metv uapdi ug huuf efwodi gsun jesf epf vsai ipvsiqsipiast xju'wi nefi ov. Nz fef xomm sineop op gusiwis xupfis xjz jot kuc tjuq otp'v xusvj nommoupt epf xomm dupvopai vu howi iydatit et vu xjz vjev ot, cav ji xomm piwis efnov ji jet puvjoph qsuqsoivesz. Ji't katv apmadlz. ;)
 
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