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Hello All
I have been reading many posts on this sub forum that feels like some sort of trap, I would like to offer a bit of of advice to some reoccurring believes spread across many posts in the relationship forum.
I read alot of members posting that they have cut off friends/people/family because they are either slowlane/ do not understand/hurtful/hindering.
I would like to ask, why do you put yourself in a position, enough to end a relationship when someone threatens your path?. Why have you defined those actions as threatening?. What are the emotions you felt?. Are they Anger, bitterness, disappointment? Why do they even ask? Why do they feel this way?
The difference between me and you is.
I don't need people around me to be faslane, because I am already it. I don't need to get rid of my friends because I am the person that changed, not them. ME. And I did not even change, I was always the same guy, I just implemented my ability to a certain part of my life. And that part involves money, whether it takes all my time or not.
Do you understand what I am trying to say, you are the same person, they are the same people. and even if you did change, How do they know you changed?. Did you show them?.
Don't mix the business/work you with your social life, its the same.. keep it as is and be the same guy you always were. You are hard at work all week, and lets say you go meet up with some old friends. Just be the same you you always were to them. And when you see your family, be their crutch. They are all wounded soilders and you are the apachee helicopter trying who throw the rope down. Who are you to judge them for being slow lane, they can't move. Fastlane is great but only to us, because we value fastlane, some people value other things.
When people ask me what I do I tell them I have a job. When they say I am wrong, I say yes, I am wrong. Why? because it makes no difference to me at all, it irrelevant to my path because they don't get it, there is no way they can help me in the first place.I would rather be neutral with people thank seek their approval that my path needs to be respected. The only time I have enemies or people I dislike is if they they try to rob or kill me. I have built myself from ground zero, I am here to HELP, guide, inspire, lead, help these people. They look up to me. They need me and my support. I am strong, they are weak. I do it for those that cannot. This is one thing you have to understand.
Many of you have to change your frame and be less negative about relationships, and how they attack your path. The only person attacking your path is yourself. If you feel that you are the victim, a victim in a scenario, guess what? YOU ARE THE VICTIM. This is also a part of not fighting energy directed to you, but to just let is go through you and be unaffected by it. Its just going to get bored and go to someone else who feeds off of it. Me and my partners call it " brawl of the minds"
I have been reading many posts on this sub forum that feels like some sort of trap, I would like to offer a bit of of advice to some reoccurring believes spread across many posts in the relationship forum.
I read alot of members posting that they have cut off friends/people/family because they are either slowlane/ do not understand/hurtful/hindering.
I would like to ask, why do you put yourself in a position, enough to end a relationship when someone threatens your path?. Why have you defined those actions as threatening?. What are the emotions you felt?. Are they Anger, bitterness, disappointment? Why do they even ask? Why do they feel this way?
The difference between me and you is.
I don't need people around me to be faslane, because I am already it. I don't need to get rid of my friends because I am the person that changed, not them. ME. And I did not even change, I was always the same guy, I just implemented my ability to a certain part of my life. And that part involves money, whether it takes all my time or not.
Do you understand what I am trying to say, you are the same person, they are the same people. and even if you did change, How do they know you changed?. Did you show them?.
Don't mix the business/work you with your social life, its the same.. keep it as is and be the same guy you always were. You are hard at work all week, and lets say you go meet up with some old friends. Just be the same you you always were to them. And when you see your family, be their crutch. They are all wounded soilders and you are the apachee helicopter trying who throw the rope down. Who are you to judge them for being slow lane, they can't move. Fastlane is great but only to us, because we value fastlane, some people value other things.
When people ask me what I do I tell them I have a job. When they say I am wrong, I say yes, I am wrong. Why? because it makes no difference to me at all, it irrelevant to my path because they don't get it, there is no way they can help me in the first place.I would rather be neutral with people thank seek their approval that my path needs to be respected. The only time I have enemies or people I dislike is if they they try to rob or kill me. I have built myself from ground zero, I am here to HELP, guide, inspire, lead, help these people. They look up to me. They need me and my support. I am strong, they are weak. I do it for those that cannot. This is one thing you have to understand.
Many of you have to change your frame and be less negative about relationships, and how they attack your path. The only person attacking your path is yourself. If you feel that you are the victim, a victim in a scenario, guess what? YOU ARE THE VICTIM. This is also a part of not fighting energy directed to you, but to just let is go through you and be unaffected by it. Its just going to get bored and go to someone else who feeds off of it. Me and my partners call it " brawl of the minds"
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