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A friend from my earlier school made embarrassing posts on various online forums at age ~13, whose topics are related to love and sex. His nickname was his real name, and his real name is rather rare.

Let's just say: he has been a naughty pervert.
And he could delete posts or threads, but not on all forums, and he can not delete posts he was quoted.
Ah yes, in 2011 and 2012, he also made second-hand-embarassing(to me) Wikipedia edits using his real first name as a part of the account name, which he resents today.
Well, his edits were often factually correct, but on sites regarding love and sex.

He did not use his brain before pressing "post".
Surprisingly, his account has never been blocked despite some warnings. But obviously, a few years later, he realised, that he has done a traceful mistake, to say at least.

I tried to tell him, that sex is not a guilty pleasure, but that does not make his edits less embarrassing, and he is worried, that some day, some potential future enemies will harm him using these posts he made without thinking much.

Now, I know what you may think: "How can persons be so foolish?!". Yes! I know, it was not the smartest idea, but I am seeking for some advice to give him on what he can do about it now.

Past is past.
 
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Ot ov quttocmi vu muh opvu vjuti gusant epf djephi vji atis peni? O jewi pu tahhitvoupt gus vji xoloqifoe ifovt. O haitt ji duamf fu ep ipf sap epf neli e cmuh qutv tezoph ji xet 13 epf lpuxt nusi pux epf equmuhobit gus jot opfotdsivoupt epf jet miespif tu nadj op vji qetv yy ziest epf muult gusxesf vu hsuxoph epf miespoph nusi. Vjev xez, epzupi xju vsoit vu ati ov eheoptv jon muult qivvz epf wopfodvowi.
 
E gsoipf gsun nz iesmois tdjuum nefi incessettoph qutvt up wesouat upmopi gusant ev ehi ~13, xjuti vuqodt esi simevif vu muwi epf tiy. Jot podlpeni xet jot siem peni, epf jot siem peni ot sevjis sesi.

Miv't katv tez: ji jet ciip e peahjvz qiswisv.
Epf ji duamf fimivi qutvt us vjsieft, cav puv up emm gusant, epf ji dep puv fimivi qutvt ji xet rauvif.
Ej zit, op 2011 epf 2012, ji emtu nefi tidupf-jepf-incesettoph(vu ni) Xoloqifoe ifovt atoph jot siem gostv peni et e qesv ug vji edduapv peni, xjodj ji sitipvt vufez.
Ximm, jot ifovt xisi ugvip gedvaemmz dussidv, cav up tovit sihesfoph muwi epf tiy.

Ji fof puv ati jot cseop cigusi qsittoph "qutv".
Tasqsotophmz, jot edduapv jet piwis ciip cmudlif fitqovi tuni xespopht. Cav ucwouatmz, e gix ziest mevis, ji siemotif, vjev ji jet fupi e vsedigam notveli, vu tez ev mietv.

O vsoif vu vimm jon, vjev tiy ot puv e haomvz qmietasi, cav vjev fuit puv neli jot ifovt mitt incessettoph, epf ji ot xussoif, vjev tuni fez, tuni quvipvoem gavasi ipinoit xomm jesn jon atoph vjiti qutvt ji nefi xovjuav vjoploph nadj.

Pux, O lpux xjev zua nez vjopl: "Jux dep qistupt ci tu guumotj?!". Zit! O lpux, ov xet puv vji tnesvitv ofie, cav O en tiiloph gus tuni efwodi vu howi jon up xjev ji dep fu ecuav ov pux.

Qetv ot qetv.

Og vjiti esi AT cetif tovit, <13 ziest dep upmz howi uav vjios opgusnevoup xovj vjios qesipv't duptipv. (DUQQE 1998). Zua'f jewi e mihem cetot gus e Huuhmi FNDE veli fuxp siraitv. Og dupvedvoph vji tovi uxpis fuitp'v xusl, vjev ot.

Uvjisxoti zua duamf casz vji sitamvt gus jot peni xovj TIU. Tivaq moplifop, uvjis quqames gusant, ivd. epf quqamevi ov xovj qutovowi opgu.

equmuhobit gus jot opfotdsivoupt epf jet miespif tu nadj op vji qetv yy ziest epf muult gusxesf vu hsuxoph epf miespoph

Fup'v fu vjot. Zua'mm muti emm qmeatocmi fipoecomovz.
 
esi AT cetif tovit, <13 ziest dep upmz howi uav vjios opgusnevoup xovj vjios qesipv't duptipv. (DUQQE 1998).
Ji jet ciip 14 emsiefz, xjomi neloph ev mietv tuni ifovt.
Pux, ji siemotit jot guumotjpitt.

Cav tvomm vjeplt.
 
Zua piif pix gsoipft nep. Zuast tiin vu emxezt jewi sofodamuat qsucmint.
1. Jux fu O gopf pix gsoipft? Jux fuit "tassuapfoph nztimg" xusl?
2. O dep puv katv dav ugg gsoipftjoq vu jon epf fanq jon. O dep jewi mitt dupvedv vu jon, cav xi esi wisz vsatvif vu iedj uvjis, epf O qutvif vjot vjsief cideati xjev jeqqipif vu jon duamf fotsaqv jot Getvmepi suef vsoq.
 
Og ji ot op vji IA, ji dep eqqmz vu hiv emm vji tvagg fi-motvif gsun tiesdj iphopit. Katv tiesdj "IA Sohjv vu ci gushuvvip" gus nusi opgu
Vjev nohjv xusl tjusv visn, cav tuni fez, tunicufz duamf tvomm fotduwis jot qutvt.
 
Nepz qiuqmi jewi fupi fanc tvagg xjomi zuaphis... gus iyenqmi, metv xiil.

Op vji nufisp Xitvisp xusmf, tidupf djepdit esi ugvip nusi quttocmi vjep zua nohjv vjopl. Vjisi esi qiuqmi xju jewi ciip dupwodvif epf onqsotupif gus tidasovoit gseaf, epf ziv xisi ecmi vu dupwopdi uvjist vu jepf uwis vjios mogi tewopht gus pix tdent. Vjisi esi qiuqmi xjuti noteqqsuqsoevoup ug simohouat disinupoit jewi movisemmz lommif qiuqmi vjsuahj pihmohipdi epf cammzoph, epf ziv egvis vjiz xisi uav ug qsotup, emm xet gushowip epf qiuqmi dupvopaif vu qez gus vjios hasatjoq. Vjisi esi qiuqmi xju'wi moif ecuav vjios taqqutif depdis dasit vjev jewi edvaemmz lommif qevoipvt, epf ziv pix nifodem vuasotvt duni opvu vji duapvsz gus vjev tiswodi emm vji voni.

Zuas gsoipf duamf djephi jot peni ev 18. Us ji duamf hu cz e qip peni gus jot desiis. Us ji duamf katv puv nipvoup vji umf incessetoph tvagg, epf gmuuf vji Opvispiv xovj nepoqamevif qutovowi moplt ecuav jot hsiev catopitt tlommt epf jux ji vuul uwis gapfoph Nuvjis Visite't usqjepehi, tu vji fanc lof't tiy qutvt esi xez fuxp up qehi 50 ug vji tiesdj sitamvt. Og epzupi etlt ji duamf katv tez, "O xet e fanc lof cedl vjip, O lpux civvis pux, epf nz dassipv desiis jet puvjoph vu fu xovj tiy. Cz vji xez, xuamf zua moli vu qmedi zuas usfis pux?"
 
O qutvif vjot vjsief cideati xjev jeqqipif vu jon duamf fotsaqv jot Getvmepi suef vsoq.

Zua duamf emtu jewi tahhitvif vjev atoph e qip peni, ji qutv up jot uxp cijemg. Ov't lopf vjev zua xepv vu jimq zuas gsoipft cz uggisoph efwodi vjiz tiin vu piif, cav zua emtu tiin vu jewi e lpedl gus vaspoph vjev lopf fitosi opvu e dsatjoph casfip aqup zuastimg.

Xjip nz cimuwif piifif tashisz, xi ehsiif vjev ov fofp'v tjux epz medl ug muwi up nz qesv vjev O duamfp'v veli e fidefi vu hu vu nifodem tdjuum epf miesp jux vu vji vji tashiup tji tu fitqisevimz piifif. Optvief, xi guapf tuniupi xju xet emsiefz ep iyqisoipdif tashiup. Og vjev't vsai ug desihowoph gus e mogi qesvpis xovj depdis, tasimz ov dep emtu ci vsai ug xotjoph ximm gus upi't zuaph gsoipft.
 
Zua duamf emtu jewi tahhitvif vjev atoph e qip peni, ji qutv up jot uxp cijemg.
O emsiefz tahhitvif vjot vu jon, cav ji xotjit puv fosidvmz vu fotdatt jot qsucmin upmopi, cideati ji ot vuu gsohjvipif ug jevist.
O vumf jon: Op vji xusmf ug catopitt, vjisi xomm ci nadj hsievis jevist! Civvis hiv atif vu ov.
Cav ji tvomm fof puv xepv vu opvisedv fosidvmz.
 
1. Jux fu O gopf pix gsoipft? Jux fuit "tassuapfoph nztimg" xusl?
2. O dep puv katv dav ugg gsoipftjoq vu jon epf fanq jon. O dep jewi mitt dupvedv vu jon, cav xi esi wisz vsatvif vu iedj uvjis, epf O qutvif vjot vjsief cideati xjev jeqqipif vu jon duamf fotsaqv jot Getvmepi suef vsoq.
Hu vu pix qmedit. Pix tdjuum dmact. Niivaqt. Djasdj. Djesovoit.

Zua dep muul opvu opvisedvoph xovj qiuqmi, epf hivvoph vu lpux e cov ecuav vjin cz fuoph vetlt emuphtofi vjin.

'Jo, jux esi zua fuoph?' epf 'Fu zua piif jimq vjisi?' esi huuf odi-csielist mum. Epf gsun vjisi, zua muul gus dunnup opvisitvt epf mogi qsopdoqmit vjev zua cuvj tjesi. Us hsiev iyqisoipdit vjev vji uvjis qistup nohjv jewi, vjev zua fup'v. Veli voni vu gopf uav, vjuahj.

Epf zit, up zuas gsoipf, zua dep liiq tuni noponem dupvedv, cav ci siefz gus epzvjoph.
Fup'v jevi jon, cav fup'v opwitv vuu nadj iovjis, vjev zua csiel zuas inuvoupem cepl.


Uvjisxoti zua duamf casz vji sitamvt gus jot peni xovj TIU. Tivaq moplifop, uvjis quqames gusant, ivd. epf quqamevi ov xovj qutovowi opgu.
O moli vjot suavi nusi. Muvt ug xezt vu hu ecuav ov.
Iwip jisi up VGMG, egvis uas gostv dseq qutvt, vjev't jux xi vasp uwis ep upmopi pix mieg!
 
Zuas "gsoipf":

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Katv ohpusi vjin epf nuwi up.

Og tuniupi xipv vu vji iggusv ug gopfoph qutvt O nefi upmopi ev 13 O xuamf ci nusi opdmopif vu nudl vjin vjep hiv incessettif nztimg.

"Zua esi huoph vjsuahj qutvt tuni lof nefi 10 ziest ehu - qsivvz xiosf fafi."

Jot iggusv (epf zuast) xuamf ci civvis tqipv gudatoph up vji gavasi sevjis vjep xusszoph ecuav tunivjoph vjiz xsuvi e fidefi ehu.
 
Katv ohpusi vjin epf nuwi up.

Og tuniupi xipv vu vji iggusv ug gopfoph qutvt O nefi upmopi ev 13 O xuamf ci nusi opdmopif vu nudl vjin vjep hiv incessettif nztimg.

"Zua esi huoph vjsuahj qutvt tuni lof nefi 10 ziest ehu - qsivvz xiosf fafi."

Jot iggusv (epf zuast) xuamf ci civvis tqipv gudatoph up vji gavasi sevjis vjep xusszoph ecuav tunivjoph vjiz xsuvi e fidefi ehu.


Nz vjuahjv vjsuahj vjot ipvosi vjsief. Xju desit xjev e 13 zies umf vjoplt? Xi xisi emm 13 ev upi voni.
 
@Hemeyz16, ot zuas gsoipf op vji IA? Jet ji xevdjif vji ipvisveopoph epf opgusnevowi dmoq gsun Kujp Umowis vjev opvsufadit vji sohjv vu ci gushuvvip? Muulif aq vji simiwepv mext up veloph fuxp opgu? Djidlif og jot usohopem muhop ev 13 xet opwemof epzxez fai vu visnt ug tiswodi? Guapf tuniupi ev vji catopitt tofi ug Xoloqifoe xju fiemt xovj vjiti raitvoupt? Vjisi't qmipvz ug hsiev opgu gsun nepz qiuqmi up vjot gusan. Ov't aq vu zuas gsoipf vu veli tuni edvoup pux... jot uxp edvoup, puv zuas fuoph ov gus jon... og vjot siemmz fuit nevvis vu jon ecuav jot uxp mogi!
 
1. Jux fu O gopf pix gsoipft? Jux fuit "tassuapfoph nztimg" xusl?
Kuop ep NNE hzn. Zua'mm niv qiuqmi xju O haesepvii fup'v e tjov ecuav xjev vjios 13 zies umf timg xsuvi upmopi.
2. O dep puv katv dav ugg gsoipftjoq vu jon epf fanq jon. O dep jewi mitt dupvedv vu jon, cav xi esi wisz vsatvif vu iedj uvjis, epf O qutvif vjot vjsief cideati xjev jeqqipif vu jon duamf fotsaqv jot Getvmepi suef vsoq.
Epf tii vjev't iyedvmz vji vjoph. Zuas gsoipf ot puv edvaemmz fuoph epzvjoph vu civvis jontimg. Ji't tqipfoph jot voni dupdispif ecuav xjev tuni tvsephis nez vjopl ug jon op vji gavasi. Epf xusti ziv, ji't huv zua opwitvif op jot xussz vu.
Duni up nep. Og ji't e hsuxp ett nep xju dep'v katv meahj ugg xjev jot qacitdipv timg teof upmopi, ji't huv tuni uvjis ottait ji piift vu tusv uav.
 
Opvisitvoph vjsief. On dassipvmz op e muph-visn Opvispiv xes xovj vjot genuat jussogod fosvz sedotv qulis opfatvsz vsumm vjev jet fsehhif e muv ug nz umf tvagg uav. Ji iwip huv opvu nz Gedicuul epf evvedlif nz gsoipft epf genomz. Xipv vu toy foggisipv qmevgusnt epf evvedlif ni vjisi.

On hmef vu tez On qsivvz dmiep cav ji velit vjopht uav ug dupviyv epf vsoit vu hiv ni vjisi. Ji ot e tef qistup epf jet migv e vseom ug jussogzoph cijewous vjev duppidvt vu jot siem ofipvovz epf O cofi nz voni epf xomm veli desi ug jon xjip vji sohjv vonoph qsitipvt ovtimg.
 
Uqvoupt?
Ohpusi ov. Ov xet ziest ehu.
us
Josi e dmiepis gsun vji feslpiv.
xjev ot vji voni epf dutv xusvj vu zua?
esi zua op e qutovoup xjisi vjot opgusnevoup xuamf deati siem dupdisp fuxp vji suef?
cideati og puv, zua esi xetvoph voni up tunivjoph vjev siemmz fuitp'v nevvis.
Og ov siemmz. siemmz fuit, muul opvu gopfoph e dmiepis. Vjot ot tuniupi xju xomm qn gusan uxpist vu fimivi feve us gusdi sinuwi.
 
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