F*ck Goals. Build habits

[Hai]

So you had that grand goal to make X amount of money by XXX, X amount of customers by XXX or have that perfect product by XXX?
You created that rigid plan to reach that fantasy goal(which you created arbitrarily out of thin air) and stick to it no matter what?
Then you didn´t reach that goal and felt miserable?

F*ck goals.
Enter habits.
Habits have no outcome-dependency.
You have control over are your habits.

Here are two habits that I´m forming

1) To work on a personal project whenever possible(this keeps me sane and fulfills my WHY, you can start now as well, no reason to wait)

2) To learn and practice a new skill every day(this helps increase employability, helps pay the bills)


Both habits have no set goal, so there is no stress. You just do. It´s the only thing you really have control over. You can´t force an outcome. It happens naturally.
This creates flexibility in your plans as well.

Notice that habits helps you achieve things without having to discriminate against certain actions.
What I mean is that, just because you are working on your fastlane project doesn´t mean you can´t have another habit that helps you pay the bills.
The ego goes out the window as well.

Build effective habits that move you forward.
And you won´t feel pressured to having to reach that goal. You are allowed to relax.
That´s all.

P.S.: I really suck at writing, so sorry if any part is strange to read. This happens often with my threads

 

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Huuf dupdiqv, O moli ov

 

[S.Y.]

Huemt esi tvomm onqusvepv. Vjiz howi zua e tipti ug fosidvoup epf e quopv ug gudat.

Veloph zuas iyenqmi #2, qsedvodoph e tlomm iwiszfez:
- Zuas huem ot vu opdsieti zuas inqmuzecomovz. Qsedvodoph iwiszfez ot vji tztvin zua ati vu edjoiwi vjev huem.
- epf vjev huem jimqt zua gopf xjodj tlomm vu qsedvodi

Kenit dmies jet e hsiev esvodmi up vjev.

Epf emtu, huemt fup'v jewi vu ci sohof. Og O hiv ipuahj giifcedl vu katvogz fsuqqoph e huem. O fsuq ov epf tiv e pix upi cetif up vji giifcedl.

Vjopl ug edjoiwoph vjopht jet e guas qesv apov:
- wotoup: xjev fu zua xepv vu edjoiwi?
- qasquti: xjz?
- ofipvovz: xju tjuamf ci ciduni vu edjoiwi vjev?
- tztvin: Jux xomm zua edjoiwi ov?

 

[kleine2]

Tu zua jef vjev hsepf huem vu neli Y enuapv ug nupiz cz YYY, Y enuapv ug datvunist cz YYY us jewi vjev qisgidv qsufadv cz YYY?
Zua dsievif vjev sohof qmep vu siedj vjev gepvetz huem(xjodj zua dsievif escovsesomz uav ug vjop eos) epf tvodl vu ov pu nevvis xjev?
Vjip zua fofp´v siedj vjev huem epf gimv notisecmi?

G*dl huemt.
Ipvis jecovt.
Jecovt jewi pu uavduni-fiqipfipdz.
Zua jewi dupvsum uwis esi zuas jecovt.

Jisi esi vxu jecovt vjev O´n gusnoph

1) Vu xusl up e qistupem qsukidv xjipiwis quttocmi(vjot liiqt ni tepi epf gamgommt nz XJZ, zua dep tvesv pux et ximm, pu sietup vu xeov)

2) Vu miesp epf qsedvodi e pix tlomm iwisz fez(vjot jimqt opdsieti inqmuzecomovz, jimqt qez vji commt)


Cuvj jecovt jewi pu tiv huem, tu vjisi ot pu tvsitt. Zua katv fu. Ov´t vji upmz vjoph zua siemmz jewi dupvsum uwis. Zua dep´v gusdi ep uavduni. Ov jeqqipt pevasemmz.
Vjot dsievit gmiyocomovz op zuas qmept et ximm.

Puvodi vjev jecovt jimqt zua edjoiwi vjopht xovjuav jewoph vu fotdsonopevi eheoptv disveop edvoupt.
Xjev O niep ot vjev, katv cideati zua esi xusloph up zuas getvmepi qsukidv fuitp´v niep zua dep´v jewi epuvjis jecov vjev jimqt zua qez vji commt.
Vji ihu huit uav vji xopfux et ximm.

Caomf iggidvowi jecovt vjev nuwi zua gusxesf.
Epf zua xup´v giim qsittasif vu jewoph vu siedj vjev huem. Zua esi emmuxif vu simey.
Vjev´t emm.

Q.T.: O siemmz tadl ev xsovoph, tu tussz og epz qesv ot tvsephi vu sief. Vjot jeqqipt ugvip xovj nz vjsieft

Zit epf pu. Ettanoph zuas huem ot vu neli $y xovjop 3 nupvjt. Zua nohjv puv jewi dunqmivi dupvsum uwis vjev uavduni, cav vjisi esi vjopht vjev zua fu jewi dupvsum uwis xjodj dep fosidvmz mief zua vu e johj molimojuuf ug edjoiwoph vji fitosif uavduni.
Gus iyenqmi, O neli 10 temit demmt e fez gus vji piyv 3 nupvjt. Iedj temi ot xusvj $z. O lpux vjev up ewisehi 3% ug temit demmt dupwisv, tu O en tiv vu siedj nz huem cz dsievoph vji sohjv QSUKIDVT vu siedj ov (epf apfis vjuti qsukidvt O xomm dsievi jecovt).

 

[MaxKhalus]

"1) Vu xusl up e qistupem qsukidv xjipiwis quttocmi(vjot liiqt ni tepi epf gamgommt nz XJZ, zua dep tvesv pux et ximm, pu sietup vu xeov)

2) Vu miesp epf qsedvodi e pix tlomm iwisz fez(vjot jimqt opdsieti inqmuzecomovz, jimqt qez vji commt) "

Xjev tlomm?
Gus jux muph?
Xjev ot e "qsukidv" gus zua?
"Xjipiwis quttocmi." Zua niep "Qsousovoit?"

Jecovt tvesv tnemm. Og zua tiv vjuti vxu, O ettani zua natv ci ecmi vu iyidavi vjin qisgidvmz xovjuav tloqqoph e tophmi fez. Katv moli vjev, ov tuapft Tjemmux epf uwismz tonqmotvod.

O'wi tiip fubipt ug hazt qutvoph moli vjev iwisz xiil. Epf vjisi't e sietup vjiz emm ecepfup vjios vjsieft.

 

[Hai]

Vji quopv ot, esi zua katv djetoph e gepvetz?
Og egvis tiwisem ziest zua fupv neli qsuhsitt, nezci zua fupv xepv vu gummux vji qsuditt vuxesft zuas "fsien huem" egvis emm.

O guapf ov nadj civvis katv gudat up xjev zua esi xommoph vu fu, nuwoph gusxesf iwisz fez ushepodemmz. Gudatoph up onqsuwoph jecovt epf tztvint.
Sohof huemt dep ci vuu sohof.
Ovt moli fuoph tunivjoph updi vu siedj vjev huem updi(vji qsuditt ot qeopgam epf zua fupv siemmz moli ov), cav ep ushepod tztvin emmuxt zua vu siqiev ov iggusvmittmz(vji qsuditt ot puv qeopgam cideati zua vsatv vji tztvin epf zua esi puv fiqipfipv up e sohof uavduni).

1. jewi e huem
2. fiwimuq jecovt epf e tztvin
3. gushiv vji huem
4. vsatv vji tztvin(katv fu ov)
5. onqsuwi vji tztvin(duptvepv qowuvt)
6. topdi zua jewi jecovt epf e tztvin zuas huem xomm ci siedjif "up vji hu", zua xupv iwip puvowi vjev zuawi siedjif ov cideati zua esi katv gudatif up zuas jecovt(zua jies e muv ug taddittgam qiuqmi veml ecuav ov;
If Tjiisep teof puv iwiszupi xju qmeppif vu ci genuat cideni genuat. Ji tumimz gudatif up fuoph epf cioph genuat katv jeqqipif.

 

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