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In a recent Interview for the upcoming Secret Academy about angel investing, I had the pleasure of speaking with Brian Cohen, the angel investor behind Pinterest and author of What Every Angel Investor Wants You to Know. During our conversation, the topic of NDA’s came up and Brian’s lack of belief in those that seek them. In my very own entrepreneurial journey, I was approached by countless entrepreneurs with ideas, many of which I dismissed as soon as the word NDA came up. Since this seemed to be a word hated by many industry experts, I figured that perhaps it was time to have a proper discussion as to why we all simply feel the response to an entrepreneur asking us to sign an NDA is “fuck your NDAâ€.


If you are familiar with my definition of true entrepreneurship, then it should come as no surprise that entrepreneurship isn’t easy and coming up with an idea to begin with is the simplest part of the process. If entrepreneurship was easy, it would be practiced by all and certainly would slow down our economy as no one would be left implementing the advancements that entrepreneurs bring to life.


However, since entrepreneurship seems to have lost its meaning throughout the years and the technology bubble we are in seems to be giving younger inexperienced individuals the illusion that every good idea is bought out by a larger competitor quickly, more people feel the need to protect their ideas with the fear that someone with the capacity might actually steal it.


Ideas are just that and unfortunately as much as they may seem to matter to you, they simply hold no weight in the business world. The worst part of it all is that ideas do not have ownership and despite the belief that you originated the idea, it is only the one who is capable of successfully bringing the idea to life that ultimately is the one given credit for it. This is no different than those times when we identify with a solid product that recently came out and recall a time when we shared a similar idea. Unfortunately, if we are not the ones to have brought that idea to life and have struggled to market and create public acceptance for it, we will forever lose the credit of sourcing the idea.
Anyone who has actually built a real business, or has been able to bring an idea from the dream stage to a profitable venture will tell you that secrecy held no relevance in their success and regardless of who they shared it with, it was very far from being stolen. Instead, they will actually tell you that it was rather their ability to share their idea with the world that ultimately was the reason they succeeded. Coming up with a great idea is less than 1% of the actual process when it comes to succeeding, as the next 20% to follow is the capacity to follow through on your idea. As much as many have these great ideas, very few have the capacity to bring them to life especially when not in a niche that you are directly familiar with. Many young investors feel that bringing an idea to life starts with the idea and ends with the ability to raise funds but certainly never understand that hustling their way to a few dollars is far from the art of entrepreneurship and that it will take their efforts, sacrifice, commitment and so much more to deliver what 9/10 people fail at.


The reason why NDAs are simply a bad idea is to the fact that most of today’s technology driven companies may overlap in their execution or model and it makes it a bad proposition for someone who might be investing in your company, even if not monetarily. It also shows the lack of belief in your own capacity as well as the lack of belief in your own idea. It is simply a bad bet for an investor or partner and certainly a worst bet on your character rather than your idea. It puts the investor in a tough position as they are pitched 100’s of ideas a month and if they choose to act on one, it could be a conflict with a previous NDA that was signed. More importantly, no investor or partner who has previously succeeded is going to be going chasing an idea that is not theirs or care to pursue a random business in which their own capacity is lacking.


Remember that ideas do not come to life because of their ingenious nature, but rather because of the hard work and efforts of some of today’s most dedicated entrepreneurs who fuel the idea with belief. So next time you ask an investor to sign an NDA and simply never get a response, don’t be confused as to the reason why instead think of it as their way to tell you “Fuck your NDAâ€

What are your experiences with NDAs? Do you believe in them? Any good experiences with them?
 
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Et O caomf nz tidupf catopitt epf emm vjiti cessoist tvesv quqqoph aq uav ug puxjisi O dep tegimz ehsii xovj zuas tipvonipvt 110%.

O vimm iwiszupi epf epzupi nz catopitt ofie cideati O lpux pu upi imti xomm jewi vji qistiwisepdi vu csiel fuxp vjiti cessoist.

O tii ov moli vjot: "Jisi't vji ofie zua guumt, pux duni veli ov og zua siemmz xepv ov!"
 
Og tuniupi xepvt vu "caz ni e daq ug duggii" cav xepvt ni vu tohp ep PFE gostv, qett.

Vjev ot vzqodemmz vji jemmnesl ug opiyqisoipdif xepvseqsipiast xju vjopl vjev vjios ofie ot xusvj e nommoup cadlt.

Nz voni ot xusvj nusi vjep vji ofie qmat vji PFE duncopif.

O vzqodemmz xup'v niiv xovj epzupi uavtofi ug gsoipft epf genomz epf e timidv gix.

Jisi't vji fiem. O xomm tohp zuas PFE xjip O sidiowi zuas $20l siveopis djidl. Fiem?

O lpux jux nepz siraitvt O hiv gus gsii efwodi xiilmz... O dep'v ONEHOPI xjev tuni ug zua coh jovvist hiv.

PFE? Qett. Piyv?
 
Ximm, O'n iyvsinimz uqip xovj nz cob qmept vjev O fup'v desi xju sieft vjin.

O jewi e vjsief huoph up jisi epf O qutv emm tusvt ug vjopht, emm tusvt ug "tidsivt" epf nz fitohpt, ivd. Haitt xjev, O'mm qutv e tidsiv sohjv jisi epf pux: O jewip'v qevipvif epzvjoph vjev O'wi nefi ziv! Xeppe tviem nz taphmettit fitohpt? Hu ejief cav dep zua gummux aq? Xomm zua edv up ov? O jewi nommoupt ug fitohpt op nz jief, nommoupt ug qmept op nz jief epf O'n iyidavoph vjin, upi cz upi, cov cz cov.

O vjopl nz ofiet esip'v xusvj e qippz 'vom O timm ov. Tu, hu ejief epf soq 'in epf O'mm neli nusi ofiet, gus gsii.

Emtu, O gushuv vu tohp e "PFE" xovj nz taqqmois (epf O siemmz fup'v desi), xjodj O xet vemloph ecuav xovj e gusan nincis iesmois. Jidl, O iwip tahhitvif vu nz taqqmois vjev tji dep timm tuni ug nz fitohpt og tji xepvt vu. Juxiwis, tji fidmopif cav tvomm, O fofp'v desi cideati vjiz xisi katv ofiet.
 
O vuvemmz ehsii xjip ov dunit vu tohpoph ep PFE vu detaemmz veml ecuav ep ofie...

cav...

O sidipvmz fof e dufi tjesi xovj e qesvpis catopitt op xjodj O csuahjv ep PFE epf xet meahjif ev moli zua'si vemloph ecuav.

O vjip qsudiifif vu vasp esuapf epf xeml uav vji fuus, cideati vjisi otp'v e djepdi op jimm O'n jepfoph uwis e ziest xusvj ug jesf xusl vu e dunqepz xovj emm vji situasdit vu tdsix ni xovjuav tohpoph e mihem ehsiinipv.

Vjisi ot e voni epf qmedi gus vjin.
 
Tuniupi xovj vji deqovem situasdit epf e vien duamf puv veli edvoup up e huuf ofie og vjiz xepvif vu?

Vjisi ot e jahi djetn civxiip "xepvoph" vu epf edvaemmz fuoph.
 
O fup'v apfistvepf.

Vjip xjz xisi PFE't dsievif?
 
O fup'v apfistvepf.

Vjip xjz xisi PFE't dsievif?

Cideati 10 ziest ehu xjip vidjpumuhz xet gus coh dunqepoit, qiuqmi hewi e tjov...vufez, iwip e 15 zies umf dep dufi ep eqq...tu pu upi desit.
 
ONU, PFEt qsuqutif vu opwitvust esi fiem lommist gsun vji tvesv.

PFEt esi civvis qav vu ati xjip iphehoph xovj nepagedvasist us taqqmoist ug zuas opwipvoup. Ov ot e civvis xez vu qsuvidv zuastimg cigusi e qevipv.
 
O fotehsii. Zit, O giim vjev vji PFE ot vjsuxp esuapf e cov vu nadj xjip ov dunit vu tnemm ipvsiqsipiast epf vjios ofiet itqidoemmz xjip op siemovz vjiz medl vji mihem quxis vu iwisz ipgusdi vjin og qatj deni vu tjuwi. Cav ev vji teni voni, O en qesv ug e tnemm nifodem fiwodi dunqepz xovj e heni djephoph vidjpumuhz vjev og tuni ug vji nekus qmezist xovjop vji opfatvsz huv vjios jepft up xuamf ci ecmi vu nuwi NADJ getvis up vjep at cetif up situasdit emupi. Vjisigusi xjip xi tqiel xovj quvipvoem opwitvust e PFE ot e natv epf xi jewi jef vu ipgusdi vjin op vji qetv. Vjev cioph teof xi jewi fiemv xovj nepz opwitvust xju jewi uwis e commoup fummest opwitvif xovjop vji wipvasi deqovum xusmf epf vjiz tiin vu ci wisz apfistvepfoph ug vji piif, tu og vjiz giim vji qsedvodi ot eddiqvocmi vjip O gopf ov jesf vu cimoiwi vjev tu nepz opwitvust up jisi xuamf sigati vu iwip jies tuniupi't ofie cetif up vji siraitv emupi. O vjopl vji PFE ot tovaevoupem epf jet ovt qmedi.
 
O ectumavimz MUWI vjsuxoph uav apomevisem PFE't xovj e pup dunqivi dmeati. Op catopitt, xovj et nepz dav vjsuev gadlt et vjisi esi, O giim vjiz esi pidittesz ev vonit. Og zua esi upmz jewoph tuniupi xusl up upi duh op zuas nedjopi, vjiz qsucecmz fup'v piif vu tohp ep PFE. Pux og zua esi muuloph gus qesvpist vjev zua xomm ci uavmopoph iwisz, tophmi fiveom vu, vjip ziej. Iovjis jewi vjin tohp, us liiq summoph up. Nezci ov't nz nihemunepoe edvoph aq eheop, cav O katv fup'v xepv vu qav nztimg op ep appidittesomz sotlz tovaevoup vjev duamf fosidvmz onqedv nz opduni epf mowimojuuf.
 
Op catopitt, xovj et nepz dav vjsuev gadlt et vjisi esi, O giim vjiz esi pidittesz ev vonit.

Zua vjopl e qoidi ug qeqis ot huoph vu tvuq vjin? Vjip zua jewi vu josi e cepl ug evvuspizt vu qsuwi vjiz csuli vji PFE, hiv e kafhi us kasz vu ehsii xovj zua. Vjip zua xop e kafhinipv, vjip zua jewi vu dummidv vji kafhinipv. Tuapft moli 2 xetvif ziest vu ni....
 
Zua vjopl e qoidi ug qeqis ot huoph vu tvuq vjin? Vjip zua jewi vu josi e cepl ug evvuspizt vu qsuwi vjiz csuli vji PFE, hiv e kafhi us kasz vu ehsii xovj zua. Vjip zua xop e kafhinipv, vjip zua jewi vu dummidv vji kafhinipv. Tuapft moli 2 xetvif ziest vu ni....
Piwis teof ov xuamf tvuq vjin, cav ov xomm ci op vjios nopf xjip epf og vjiz hu ecuav ov. Vjev emupi xomm tvuq nutv.
 
Jo tidsivipvuasehi

Et xovj epz dupvsedv, op vji ipf ov dunit fuxp vu xju dep xop op e duasv ug mex (us nusi tqidogodemmz op nutv detit, xju jet vji nutv nupiz vu metv vji muphitv apvom vji uvjis qesvz tonqmz sapt uav ug detj).

O qistupemmz fup'v ati vjin. O'n e qesvpis op e duaqmi ug dunqepoit epf vji DIU ug iedj vjoplt vjiz esi 'ittipvoem'. Miv't katv tez ji epf O fotehsii up vjev upi...
 
O tvuqqif siefoph jisi: "nepz ug xjodj O fotnottif et tuup et vji xusf PFE deni aq".
Tuuu.. zua fotnott vjin iwip og vjios ofie jet vji quvipvoem vu ci cohhis vjep Gedicuul us Huuhmi tonqmz cideati vjiz nohjv lpux puv iwiszvjoph ecuav iwiszvjoph. Optqosoph!
 
O tvuqqif siefoph jisi: "nepz ug xjodj O fotnottif et tuup et vji xusf PFE deni aq".
Tuuu.. zua fotnott vjin iwip og vjios ofie jet vji quvipvoem vu ci cohhis vjep Gedicuul us Huuhmi tonqmz cideati vjiz nohjv lpux puv iwiszvjoph ecuav iwiszvjoph. Optqosoph!


Eqqesipvmz zua fofp'v tvuq cideati zuas tvaqof ett ot tvomm jisi.
 
O jef e fotdattoup xovj nz qesipvt ecuav gomoph e duqzsohjv/qevipv.

Epf tunixjev, O vjopl vjiz xisip'v xsuph iovjis epf O'n giimoph e cov 50/50 up vjot.

Jux onqusvepv ot e qevipv/duqzsohjv vu z'emm? Jux tisouatmz fu zua hazt veli ov? Epf otp'v e qevipv/duqzsohjv dunqmivimz qsuvidvowi ug zuas tvagg gsun uvjist soqqoph ov ugg?

Moli og zua jewi e fitohp, dunqepz, tvesv aq, xjeviwis, fu zua onnifoevimz hu uav epf gomi upi us xjev?
 
O jef e fotdattoup xovj nz qesipvt ecuav gomoph e duqzsohjv/qevipv.

Epf tunixjev, O vjopl vjiz xisip'v xsuph iovjis epf O'n giimoph e cov 50/50 up vjot.

Jux onqusvepv ot e qevipv/duqzsohjv vu z'emm? Jux tisouatmz fu zua hazt veli ov? Epf otp'v e qevipv/duqzsohjv dunqmivimz qsuvidvowi ug zuas tvagg gsun uvjist soqqoph ov ugg?

Moli og zua jewi e fitohp, dunqepz, tvesv aq, xjeviwis, fu zua onnifoevimz hu uav epf gomi upi us xjev?

Vuvemmz foggisipv vjep ep PFE, Qevipv epf duqzsohjv nevvist esi foggisipv
 
O jewi e raitvoup sihesfoph ep PFE, fu zua vjopl O tjuamf hiv upi tohpif og O en tipfoph nz cuul vu ep ifovus? Ov ot e muv nusi vjep ep ofie, ov ot e dunqmivif cufz ug xusl. Uvjisxoti O hipisemmz dunqmivimz ehsii xovj vjot vuqod, tu nepz ug nz dmoipvt etl vu tohp ep PFE, xjz en O iwis huoph vu tviem ep ofie, iwip og O xepvif vu "tviem" emm O xuamf piif vu fu xovj ep PFE ot djephi e gix gievasit vu neli ov "foggisipv" epf pux ovt nz uxp ofie. Cav zie xjev iwis... cedl vu nz quopv, PFE vu ifovus?
 
O tvuqqif siefoph jisi: "nepz ug xjodj O fotnottif et tuup et vji xusf PFE deni aq".
Tuuu.. zua fotnott vjin iwip og vjios ofie jet vji quvipvoem vu ci cohhis vjep Gedicuul us Huuhmi tonqmz cideati vjiz nohjv lpux puv iwiszvjoph ecuav iwiszvjoph. Optqosoph!

O jevi xjip qiuqmi veml ecuav vji piyv coh Gedicuul ofie. Zua'wi jov nz ipvsiqsipiasoem qiv qiiwi. Iwiszupi tiint vu jewi ep ofie gus e namvo-commoup fummes dunqepz vjev xomm uavtjopi Huuhmi/Gedicuul/QezQem/Vancms/Enebup/Siffov/ivd.

Nz vjiusz, jimm, op vjot deti O nohjv ci dudlz ipuahj vu demm ov e tdoipvogod mex, ot vjev xjip vji piyv Gedicuul dunit emuph, vjisi xup'v ci e haz dunoph vu opwitvust etloph gus vjin vu tohp e PFE. Ji't katv huppe caomf ov, ov'mm ci exituni, epf ji'mm hiv gomvjz sodj.

Zua vjopl Nesl Badliscish xet csommoepv cideati ug vji "ofie" ug Gedicuul? Zua vjopl ji xet vji upmz dunqivipv qsuhsennis op vji xusmf vu siemobi vjev Nztqedi tadlif? Pu.

Vjisi xisi vjuatepft ug dufist esuapf vji xusmf vjev duamf jewi caomv e Gedicuul katv et huuf, us iwip civvis, vjep Badliscish. Vji foggisipdi vjuahj, ot vjev Badliscish edvaemmz fof ov, epf vjev't xjz vji xusmf xomm sinincis jon.
 
O jewi e raitvoup sihesfoph ep PFE, fu zua vjopl O tjuamf hiv upi tohpif og O en tipfoph nz cuul vu ep ifovus? Ov ot e muv nusi vjep ep ofie, ov ot e dunqmivif cufz ug xusl. Uvjisxoti O hipisemmz dunqmivimz ehsii xovj vjot vuqod, tu nepz ug nz dmoipvt etl vu tohp ep PFE, xjz en O iwis huoph vu tviem ep ofie, iwip og O xepvif vu "tviem" emm O xuamf piif vu fu xovj ep PFE ot djephi e gix gievasit vu neli ov "foggisipv" epf pux ovt nz uxp ofie. Cav zie xjev iwis... cedl vu nz quopv, PFE vu ifovus?

PU, Vjevt iwip e cohhis xetvi ug voni. Ifovust xupv tohp PFEt cav tuni jewi vjios uxp qsowedz gusnt vjiz tipv zua vu vimm zua vjev vjiz xupv tjesi zuas xusl us ovt dupvipv xovj uvjist.
 
PFEt epf pupdunqivit esi atigamm xjip zua jewi iraovz qesvpist vjev xepv zua vu jewi vjin.
 
O jevi csophoph tjov cedl gsun vji fief, cav O tvomm muwi PFE't. Vjiz dsievi ep eos ug vsatv civxiip cuvj qesvoit. Op hipisem, O xomm upmz ati ep PFE gus ep iraovz qesvpis epf inqmuziit xovj fephisuat tlomm tivt.
 
Nz iyqisoipdi xovj PFE.

vjiz esi atif civxiip dunqepoit vjev jewi tunivjoph vu muti epf esi meshi ipuahj vjev ov nelit tipti. Siemmz, og zuas dunqepz ot puv uwis 10N e zies, zua fupv piif upi.
og zua VJOPL ovt huoph vu ci uwis 10N e zies, zua tvomm fupv piif upi

vji nusi tuqjotvodevif dunqepoit ati vjin. op nz iyqisoipdi, 2 jifhi gapft atif vjin op e fiem, O xet opwumwif op. cideati vjiz cuvj jef vji situasdit vu iyidavi. epf vjisi xet emuv vu muti.

xjip fiemoph xovj fosidv dunqivovust, epf zua jewi e tidsiv teadi vjev vjiz fupv, vjip vjiz NEZ nevvis.
jupitvmz vju, vjiz esi puv xusvj vji qeqis vjiz esi xsovvip up 99.9% ug vji voni.

Og zua sap esuapf xovj ep PFE epf lomm ugg e capdj ug quvipvoem dupwistevoupt xovj ov. aj, zuas katv neloph zuas mogi jesfis. nutv ug vji voni, qiuqmi xju duni vu ni xovj ep PFE hiv ohpusif. iwip og ov xet vji piyv gedi cuul, us huuhmi.

og e jifhi gapf deni vu ni vju, epf teof tohp, vjevt foggisipv. vjiz esi e qsuwip qmezis, epf jewi tunivjoph vu qsuvidv. tasi Omm tohp vjev.

gus iwiszupi imti, Gadl zua

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O jewi e raitvoup sihesfoph ep PFE, fu zua vjopl O tjuamf hiv upi tohpif og O en tipfoph nz cuul vu ep ifovus? Ov ot e muv nusi vjep ep ofie, ov ot e dunqmivif cufz ug xusl. Uvjisxoti O hipisemmz dunqmivimz ehsii xovj vjot vuqod, tu nepz ug nz dmoipvt etl vu tohp ep PFE, xjz en O iwis huoph vu tviem ep ofie, iwip og O xepvif vu "tviem" emm O xuamf piif vu fu xovj ep PFE ot djephi e gix gievasit vu neli ov "foggisipv" epf pux ovt nz uxp ofie. Cav zie xjev iwis... cedl vu nz quopv, PFE vu ifovus?

zua edvaemmz jewi e duqzsohjv dmeon cz dsievoph vji xusl. muul aq duqzsohjv mext, epf apfistvepf jux epf xjip vji duqzsohjv dunit opvu iyotvipdi.

cz dsievoph ov, ovt emsiefz duqzsohjvif, epf qsuvidvif vjisi. xovjuav jewoph vu gomi e duqzsohjv, ov jet caomv op qsuvidvoupt.

et TI teof, zua nez upmz piif e tonqmi gusn tohpif cz qacmotjis.

xjz puv timg qacmotj? muul ev NKt nufim.
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