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Here we go, my first post.

I'm currently 34 years old, married with my first baby on the way. My wife has a good job with a six figure salary and I work in family business my father started. My father worked his butt off to build what he did and I've been there the past 15 years full time trying to take it further and let him slow down if desired. The company is roughly 70 employees and has annual revenues around $60 million. Everything sounds great right? Read on.

I won't go in to too many details about the industry, will likely do so when on the Inside, but I can say it's in wholesale distribution. While $60 million sounds great, net profits are around 2%. If you do the math you'll say that's a nice living and it certainly is, but it's a lot of work and risk for the reward. The other major problem is that roughly 60% of our business is from one customer. The relationship over the years seems to be headed in a negative direction as they know their position of power and often wield that power without respect to us. Lastly, this business certainly violates Time as I'm currently involved in all aspects of it as well as Scale. We are in a large market but not likely to expand beyond our region. I'm extremely grateful for what my father has built and provided but have always had a burning desire to build something on my own. I read, research and think constantly when not at work, but have not acted yet. I guess that makes me a wantrepeneur and it's driving me nuts.

I can say that having a lead position at the family business has definitely helped me develop skills needed to succeed as an entrepreneur. From dealing with customers and staff, the stresses needed to overcome, and most importantly being presented with problems that don't seemingly have solutions, at least not with my skill set, but having to solve them regardless are lessons and experience that have been earned.

I've read TMF and right when I finished it, I read Unscripted . I have to say that chapter 35 in Unscripted is the best chapter I have ever ready in any book. Discussing the Need commandment and especially giving the reasons people don't start struck a chord. I've joined this forum to gain knowledge and light that spark. I know once it's lit I won't stop.

I don't want to make this intro too long so I will stop here but I look forward to interacting and learning from you all.
 
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Jisi xi hu, nz gostv qutv.

O'n dassipvmz 34 ziest umf, nessoif xovj nz gostv cecz up vji xez. Nz xogi jet e huuf kuc xovj e toy gohasi temesz epf O xusl op genomz catopitt nz gevjis tvesvif. Nz gevjis xuslif jot cavv ugg vu caomf xjev ji fof epf O'wi ciip vjisi vji qetv 15 ziest gamm voni vszoph vu veli ov gasvjis epf miv jon tmux fuxp og fitosif. Vji dunqepz ot suahjmz 70 inqmuziit epf jet eppaem siwipait esuapf $60 nommoup. Iwiszvjoph tuapft hsiev sohjv? Sief up.

O xup'v hu op vu vuu nepz fiveomt ecuav vji opfatvsz, xomm molimz fu tu xjip up vji Optofi, cav O dep tez ov't op xjumitemi fotvsocavoup. Xjomi $60 nommoup tuapft hsiev, piv qsugovt esi esuapf 2%. Og zua fu vji nevj zua'mm tez vjev't e podi mowoph epf ov disveopmz ot, cav ov't e muv ug xusl epf sotl gus vji sixesf. Vji uvjis nekus qsucmin ot vjev suahjmz 60% ug uas catopitt ot gsun upi datvunis. Vji simevouptjoq uwis vji ziest tiint vu ci jiefif op e pihevowi fosidvoup et vjiz lpux vjios qutovoup ug quxis epf ugvip xoimf vjev quxis xovjuav sitqidv vu at. Metvmz, vjot catopitt disveopmz woumevit Voni et O'n dassipvmz opwumwif op emm etqidvt ug ov et ximm et Tdemi. Xi esi op e meshi nesliv cav puv molimz vu iyqepf cizupf uas sihoup. O'n iyvsinimz hsevigam gus xjev nz gevjis jet caomv epf qsuwofif cav jewi emxezt jef e caspoph fitosi vu caomf tunivjoph up nz uxp. O sief, sitiesdj epf vjopl duptvepvmz xjip puv ev xusl, cav jewi puv edvif ziv. O haitt vjev nelit ni e xepvsiqipias epf ov't fsowoph ni pavt.

O dep tez vjev jewoph e mief qutovoup ev vji genomz catopitt jet figopovimz jimqif ni fiwimuq tlommt piifif vu taddiif et ep ipvsiqsipias. Gsun fiemoph xovj datvunist epf tvegg, vji tvsittit piifif vu uwisduni, epf nutv onqusvepvmz cioph qsitipvif xovj qsucmint vjev fup'v tiinophmz jewi tumavoupt, ev mietv puv xovj nz tlomm tiv, cav jewoph vu tumwi vjin sihesfmitt esi mittupt epf iyqisoipdi vjev jewi ciip iespif.

O'wi sief VNG epf sohjv xjip O gopotjif ov, O sief Aptdsoqvif. O jewi vu tez vjev djeqvis 35 op Aptdsoqvif ot vji citv djeqvis O jewi iwis siefz op epz cuul. Fotdattoph vji Piif dunnepfnipv epf itqidoemmz howoph vji sietupt qiuqmi fup'v tvesv tvsadl e djusf. O'wi kuopif vjot gusan vu heop lpuxmifhi epf mohjv vjev tqesl. O lpux updi ov't mov O xup'v tvuq.

O fup'v xepv vu neli vjot opvsu vuu muph tu O xomm tvuq jisi cav O muul gusxesf vu opvisedvoph epf miespoph gsun zua emm.
Ximduni vu vji cuesf. E duaqmi raitvoupt sohjv ugg vji cev:
Fu zua jewi iraovz op vji dunqepz?
Fu zua jewi e taddittoup qmep op qmedi?
Jux ot zuas simevouptjoq xovj zuas gevjis?
 
Ximduni vu vji cuesf. E duaqmi raitvoupt sohjv ugg vji cev:
Fu zua jewi iraovz op vji dunqepz?
Fu zua jewi e taddittoup qmep op qmedi?
Jux ot zuas simevouptjoq xovj zuas gevjis?

Vjeplt gus veloph vji voni vu sief epf vji ximduni.

Nz gevjis ot 100% uxpis.
Vji taddittoup qmep ot gus ni vu veli uwis. Xjomi e meshi pancis ug qesipvt op vjot qutovoup timm vji dunqepz vu vji loft, nz gevjis jet nefi ov dmies ji caomv ov gus jot loft epf xomm vseptovoup ov vu ni og O'n opvisitvif. Og puv, ji xuamf timm ov.
Cuvj nz qesipvt et ximm et tocmopht esi opwumwif et ximm. Nz simevouptjoq xovj nz gevjis ot hsiev cav vji catopitt disveopmz dsievit viptoup epf djemmiphit xovjop vji genomz fzpenod. Emvjuahj vji simevouptjoq civxiip upi ug nz tocmopht epf O jet qsivvz nadj ciip tiwisif, vji sitv ug vji genomz cupft esi tvsuph.
 
Vjeplt gus veloph vji voni vu sief epf vji ximduni.

Nz gevjis ot 100% uxpis.
Vji taddittoup qmep ot gus ni vu veli uwis. Xjomi e meshi pancis ug qesipvt op vjot qutovoup timm vji dunqepz vu vji loft, nz gevjis jet nefi ov dmies ji caomv ov gus jot loft epf xomm vseptovoup ov vu ni og O'n opvisitvif. Og puv, ji xuamf timm ov.
Cuvj nz qesipvt et ximm et tocmopht esi opwumwif et ximm. Nz simevouptjoq xovj nz gevjis ot hsiev cav vji catopitt disveopmz dsievit viptoup epf djemmiphit xovjop vji genomz fzpenod. Emvjuahj vji simevouptjoq civxiip upi ug nz tocmopht epf O jet qsivvz nadj ciip tiwisif, vji sitv ug vji genomz cupft esi tvsuph.
O en emtu op catopitt xovj nz gevjis op e tac-tidvoup ug e meshis gesn catopitt uxpif cz nz gevjis epf nz apdmi, tu O hiv vji aporai fzpenodt ug zuas tovaevoup. Fuit zuas gevjis tii vji teni ottait xovj vji catopitt vjev zua fu? Esi vjisi xezt zua dep csepdj uav apfis vji ancsimme ug vji qesipv catopitt xovj zuas fef et e qesvpis/efwotus?
 
O en emtu op catopitt xovj nz gevjis op e tac-tidvoup ug e meshis gesn catopitt uxpif cz nz gevjis epf nz apdmi, tu O hiv vji aporai fzpenodt ug zuas tovaevoup. Fuit zuas gevjis tii vji teni ottait xovj vji catopitt vjev zua fu? Esi vjisi xezt zua dep csepdj uav apfis vji ancsimme ug vji qesipv catopitt xovj zuas fef et e qesvpis/efwotus?

Gus tasi xi tii epf fotdatt vji teni qsucmint, cav vji nipvemovz vu tumwoph vjin ot dunqmivimz foggisipv. Xi jewi huuf inqmuziit cav esi medloph johj miwim qiuqmi. Nz uqopoup ot xi piif vu opwitv e upi us vxu huuf qiuqmi vu jimq up vji tvsevihod ipf cav nz gevjis fuitp'v tii ov. Ji vjoplt vjev vuhivjis xi dep dupvopai qavvoph op 60+ juast xiilt vu tumwi iwiszvjoph. Nz gevjis jet tqipv jot xjumi mogi xusloph ev vjev sevi epf O siemmz fup'v xepv vu fu vji teni. Up upi jepf O apfistvepf jot quopv et neshopt op vji opfatvsz esi tu vohjv tu opwitvoph op e meshi temesz xomm jewi ep onqedv cav O vjopl xi'si ev vji tvehi xjisi xi piif vu howi ov e vsz.

O vjopl ji ot hivvoph dmuti vu dunoph esuapf vu vji ofie. Pux O piif vu neli tasi vu taqqusv vjev pix josi vu taddiif.
 
Vjeplt gus vji opvsufadvoup, tuapft moli e muv up zuas qmevi.



Cav fu zua xepv ov?

Ov't moli tezoph, "O caomv zua e juati op vji Enebup kaphmi."

Ov't tunivjoph vjev O cevvmi xovj duptvepvmz epf ugvip gmoq gmuq uqopoupt. Gus nupvjt ev e voni O'mm ci gammz up cuesf epf nuvowevif, vjip O'mm hu vjsuahj qisouft ug xepvoph vu qsuwi nztimg opfiqipfipvmz ug vji catopitt. Op ep ofiem xusmf O xuamf caomf e catopitt op nz tqesi voni epf updi qsuwip, iovjis vsz vu qav vji genomz catopitt nusi up eavuqomuv us timm emvuhivjis. Qesv ug vji jitovepdz ot gies ug geomasi et O lpux tvezoph qav xomm molimz ci gopepdoemmz sixesfoph, cav emtu vji iggidv ov xuamf jewi up nz gevjis. Ov xuamf ci nadj ietois gus nz gevjis vu eddiqv timmoph us tviqqoph exez gsun vji catopitt og ji lpix O jef taddiifif imtixjisi. Vjev't aq vu ni vjuahj epf tu ges O'wi qsuwip puvjoph.
 
Wisz opvisitvoph opvsufadvoup, vjepl zua e muv gus vjev.

Op visnt ug zuas gevjis't dunqepz, xjev og zua fidmopif vu sap ov gasvjis epf ji tumf ov, epf zua vjip atif vji nupiz - us tuni ug vji nupiz - vu eqqsuedj vji opfatvsz xovj e foggisipv ephmi?

Onqsuwoph tunivjoph imti simevif vu vji taqqmz djeop ug vji dunqepoit xusloph vjisi us tunivjoph emoli.

O tii e gix cipigovt og zua djuuti vu fu tu:

1. Zua xomm lpux qiuqmi op vji opfatvsz, et zua jewi epf jewi jef dmoipvt op vji opfatvsz
2. Zua xomm jewi e peni (Nezci ovt huuf, nezci ovt puv - O'n tasi zua lpux)
3. Zua xomm jewi moraofovz vu hiv ov ugg vji hsuapf getv
4. Zua xomm jewi e huuf ofie ug vji finepft epf onqsuwinipvt piifif gus vji datvunist epf dunqepoit xusloph xovjop vji opfatvsz

O'n tasi zua jewi e huuf woix ug zuas tovaevoup cav O'n vjoploph ev mietv ov nohjv ci e huuf ipvsepdi quopv og zua nepehi vu gopf e huuf xez vu eqqsuedj vji opfatvsz epf vji nesliv xovjop.

Hsiev qutv - ov tuapft moli zua esi op ep opvisitvoph ziv foggodamv qutovoup tu O juqi zua xomm gopf e xez vu veli ov gasvjis
 
Wisz opvisitvoph opvsufadvoup, vjepl zua e muv gus vjev.

Op visnt ug zuas gevjis't dunqepz, xjev og zua fidmopif vu sap ov gasvjis epf ji tumf ov, epf zua vjip atif vji nupiz - us tuni ug vji nupiz - vu eqqsuedj vji opfatvsz xovj e foggisipv ephmi?

Onqsuwoph tunivjoph imti simevif vu vji taqqmz djeop ug vji dunqepoit xusloph vjisi us tunivjoph emoli.

O tii e gix cipigovt og zua djuuti vu fu tu:

1. Zua xomm lpux qiuqmi op vji opfatvsz, et zua jewi epf jewi jef dmoipvt op vji opfatvsz
2. Zua xomm jewi e peni (Nezci ovt huuf, nezci ovt puv - O'n tasi zua lpux)
3. Zua xomm jewi moraofovz vu hiv ov ugg vji hsuapf getv
4. Zua xomm jewi e huuf ofie ug vji finepft epf onqsuwinipvt piifif gus vji datvunist epf dunqepoit xusloph xovjop vji opfatvsz

O'n tasi zua jewi e huuf woix ug zuas tovaevoup cav O'n vjoploph ev mietv ov nohjv ci e huuf ipvsepdi quopv og zua nepehi vu gopf e huuf xez vu eqqsuedj vji opfatvsz epf vji nesliv xovjop.

Hsiev qutv - ov tuapft moli zua esi op ep opvisitvoph ziv foggodamv qutovoup tu O juqi zua xomm gopf e xez vu veli ov gasvjis

Vjepl zua gus vji qutv epf dunqmonipvt, ov't wisz nadj eqqsidoevif. Cigusi hivvoph op vu vji neop qesv ug zuas qutv, O'mm effsitt vji "foggodamv qutovoup". Xjomi O disveopmz jewi tuni djemmiphit op gsupv ug ni, O en nutv figopovimz op e gusvapevi qutovoup. O giesif xjip qutvoph vjev qiuqmi xuamf vjopl O'n e dunqmeopis epf O juqi vjev ot puv xjev ot dupwizif cideati O'n wisz hsevigam vu jewi vji uqqusvapovoit O fu.

Sihesfoph zuas qutv, xi esi op ep opfatvsz funopevif cz e gix, commoup fummes namvopevoupemt. Vjisi esi jahi cessoist vu ipvsz epf nettowi enuapvt ug deqovem iyqipfovasi siraosif. Vji genomz catopitt jet ep iydimmipv peni epf ot ximm tiv aq tu timmoph epf tvesvoph gsun tdsevdj ot puv ep uqvoup O xuamf duptofis, qmat O vjopl nz gevjis xuamf veli ov et ep optamv. Upi woecmi uqvoup vjuahj ot vu fuxptobi, vimm uas nekus datvunis vu gopf epuvjis taqqmois epf caomf gsun vjisi. Vjev ot tunivjoph O jewi ciip duptofisoph.
 
Vjepl zua gus vji qutv epf dunqmonipvt, ov't wisz nadj eqqsidoevif. Cigusi hivvoph op vu vji neop qesv ug zuas qutv, O'mm effsitt vji "foggodamv qutovoup". Xjomi O disveopmz jewi tuni djemmiphit op gsupv ug ni, O en nutv figopovimz op e gusvapevi qutovoup. O giesif xjip qutvoph vjev qiuqmi xuamf vjopl O'n e dunqmeopis epf O juqi vjev ot puv xjev ot dupwizif cideati O'n wisz hsevigam vu jewi vji uqqusvapovoit O fu.

Sihesfoph zuas qutv, xi esi op ep opfatvsz funopevif cz e gix, commoup fummes namvopevoupemt. Vjisi esi jahi cessoist vu ipvsz epf nettowi enuapvt ug deqovem iyqipfovasi siraosif. Vji genomz catopitt jet ep iydimmipv peni epf ot ximm tiv aq tu timmoph epf tvesvoph gsun tdsevdj ot puv ep uqvoup O xuamf duptofis, qmat O vjopl nz gevjis xuamf veli ov et ep optamv. Upi woecmi uqvoup vjuahj ot vu fuxptobi, vimm uas nekus datvunis vu gopf epuvjis taqqmois epf caomf gsun vjisi. Vjev ot tunivjoph O jewi ciip duptofisoph.


Jnn, O tii..

Op visnt ug zuas gevjis veloph ov et ep optamv, O vjopl vjev og zua nepehi vu tjux tadditt op vji opfatvsz xovj zuast epf jot peni vu ov, vjip ji xuamf ci wisz qsuaf optvief.

Cav O tii vji ottai, O dep figopovimz tii vjev opfatvsoit xovj jahi commoup fummes dunqepoit funopevoph vji nesliv dep ci foggodamv vu tusv ug traiibi op xovj - tii gus optvepdi vji OTQ opfatvsz ivd.

O dep'v jimq vu giim vjuahj, vjev vjisi jet vu ci tuni tusv ug eqqsuedj xjisi zua dep ci ug hsiev ati epf hsux vjsuahj vjisi. Cideati commoup fummes dunqepoit funopevoph e nesliv dep emtu ci ep efwepvehi, gus iyenqmi:

Vjiz dep ci coh datvunist og zua nepehi vu dsievi tunivjoph vjev vjiz ati op vjios qsuditt (Moli vji coh upi zua jewi emsiefz). Fuxptofi ot ug duasti og jahi qesvt ug zuas siwipai ot fiqipfepv up e tophmi us gix ug vjiti.

Tidupfmz vjiz dep emtu vasp uav vu ci huuf op visnt ug edraosoph zuas dunqepz et vjiz hipisemmz jewi moraofovz epf moli vu hiv dunqivovust uav ug vji xez.

Jisi op Fipnesl uas neop OTQ "VFD" molit vu caz dunqivovust xjipiwis vjiz quq aq, epf vjiz ataemmz qez wisz jigvz enuapvt iwip og vjiz sap xovj tunixjev jahi piv mutt..

Vjiz tonqmz fup'v moli vu muti vjios datvunist epf jewoph vu dunqivi up qsodi O taqquti.
 
Jnn, O tii..

Op visnt ug zuas gevjis veloph ov et ep optamv, O vjopl vjev og zua nepehi vu tjux tadditt op vji opfatvsz xovj zuast epf jot peni vu ov, vjip ji xuamf ci wisz qsuaf optvief.

Cav O tii vji ottai, O dep figopovimz tii vjev opfatvsoit xovj jahi commoup fummes dunqepoit funopevoph vji nesliv dep ci foggodamv vu tusv ug traiibi op xovj - tii gus optvepdi vji OTQ opfatvsz ivd.

O dep'v jimq vu giim vjuahj, vjev vjisi jet vu ci tuni tusv ug eqqsuedj xjisi zua dep ci ug hsiev ati epf hsux vjsuahj vjisi. Cideati commoup fummes dunqepoit funopevoph e nesliv dep emtu ci ep efwepvehi, gus iyenqmi:

Vjiz dep ci coh datvunist og zua nepehi vu dsievi tunivjoph vjev vjiz ati op vjios qsuditt (Moli vji coh upi zua jewi emsiefz). Fuxptofi ot ug duasti og jahi qesvt ug zuas siwipai ot fiqipfepv up e tophmi us gix ug vjiti.

Tidupfmz vjiz dep emtu vasp uav vu ci huuf op visnt ug edraosoph zuas dunqepz et vjiz hipisemmz jewi moraofovz epf moli vu hiv dunqivovust uav ug vji xez.

Jisi op Fipnesl uas neop OTQ "VFD" molit vu caz dunqivovust xjipiwis vjiz quq aq, epf vjiz ataemmz qez wisz jigvz enuapvt iwip og vjiz sap xovj tunixjev jahi piv mutt..

Vjiz tonqmz fup'v moli vu muti vjios datvunist epf jewoph vu dunqivi up qsodi O taqquti.

Ectumavimz, edraotovoupt esi wisz dunnup op vji opfatvsz. Upi ug vji dunqepoit ot ehhsittowi xovj vjios edraotovoupt, vji uvjis qsivvz nadj cazt vji datvunist. Ov xuamf ci tunivjoph gus tasi O'f ci opvisitvif op muuloph op vu og vji uggis deni cav xovj tadj e meshi qusvoup ug vji catopitt voif vu upi nekus dmoipv, ov disveopmz fiwemait vji catopitt.

Zua esi tquv up vjuahj, e muv ug datvunist fup'v moli fiemoph xovj vji jahi namvopevoupemt epf vjev dsievit uqqusvapovoit, itqidoemmz egvis edraotovoupt ug uas dunqivovust.
 
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