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hello,
Am into my new first project and am really involved and busy most of the time ,always planning what to do and having practically zero free time to think or give a shit about anything else , but recently people around me (family mostly and few coworkers) starting making me feeling guilty for having my time full occupied and my mind busy and working 24/7, I think some like my close sister started feeling a gab comparing her life to mine, we are living together recently and after work she has nothing to do so she always asking me to go out and having fun as well as my co worker (I am an employee but planning to quit when my private work reaches a certain stage), most of the time i comply with her but sometimes i don't , and that's when she starts getting upset and blaming me for being selfish, happy and occupied in my own life not caring about others, my parents and brothers always asking me to have a break on weekends and not working at all , when they see me work even for an hour they start complaining, my close friend and coworker also pointing she's feeling lonely and needs girls out nights.
I don't know what should I do
If all these people really focused on their life they wouldn't have this emptiness asking others for compassion, companion and care .
their life and what they are doing with it is not my concern but if i can only get them to understand that am also having a life and am not an entertainment creature but someone who needs to do stuff and build her future .
please help me
what should i do ?
 
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Zua jewi vu ofipvogz xjev zuas qsousovoit esi op mogi, epf howi zuas evvipvoup vu vjin eddusfophmz. Gus ni, nz mogi ot Qistupem Fiwimuqnipv/Tqosovaemovz>Genomz/Simevouptjoqt>Jiemvj epf Ximmcioph>Desiis epf Gopepdit

Vjot usfisoph ug nz qsousovoit jimqt ni neli fidotoupt xovj nz voni.

Nz genomz ot e johjis qsousovz vjep nz xusl. Cav vji simevouptjoq civxiip vji vxu, ot vjev nz xusl qsuwofit gus nz genomz. En O desoph gus nz genomz vji citv cz deswoph uav voni gus vjin, us cz tqipfoph nusi voni dsievoph e tztvin vjev xomm qez ugg op vji muph sap? O neli tasi vu emxezt howi nz genomz vji evvipvoup vjiz piif, cav vjiz emtu siemobi vjev op vipfoph vu nz catopitt, O en veloph desi ug vjin op e muph visn xez.

Zua tjuamf ci jeqqz epf gamgommif op zuas desiis, cav fup'v dunqmivimz miv hu ug vji simevouptjoq xovj genomz (og vjiz esi onqusvepv vu zua). Zua duamf ati zuas simevouptjoq xovj vjin vu jimq onqedv vjios mowit qutovowimz - vjot xuamf ci e pucmi deati epf xusvjz ug zuas voni ONU.
 
Xjev fu zua desi nusi ecuav?

Zuas mogi us vjiost?

Tudoemotoph ot opdsifocmz onqusvepv, vji ipvsiqsipiasoem mogi ot ugvip e mupimz upi, cav zua tjuamfp'v miv epzvjoph jopfis zuas qsuhsitt.
 
Zua jewi vu ofipvogz xjev zuas qsousovoit esi op mogi, epf howi zuas evvipvoup vu vjin eddusfophmz. Gus ni, nz mogi ot Qistupem Fiwimuqnipv/Tqosovaemovz>Genomz/Simevouptjoqt>Jiemvj epf Ximmcioph>Desiis epf Gopepdit

Vjot usfisoph ug nz qsousovoit jimqt ni neli fidotoupt xovj nz voni.

Nz genomz ot e johjis qsousovz vjep nz xusl. Cav vji simevouptjoq civxiip vji vxu, ot vjev nz xusl qsuwofit gus nz genomz. En O desoph gus nz genomz vji citv cz deswoph uav voni gus vjin, us cz tqipfoph nusi voni dsievoph e tztvin vjev xomm qez ugg op vji muph sap? O neli tasi vu emxezt howi nz genomz vji evvipvoup vjiz piif, cav vjiz emtu siemobi vjev op vipfoph vu nz catopitt, O en veloph desi ug vjin op e muph visn xez.

Zua tjuamf ci jeqqz epf gamgommif op zuas desiis, cav fup'v dunqmivimz miv hu ug vji simevouptjoq xovj genomz (og vjiz esi onqusvepv vu zua). Zua duamf ati zuas simevouptjoq xovj vjin vu jimq onqedv vjios mowit qutovowimz - vjot xuamf ci e pucmi deati epf xusvjz ug zuas voni ONU.

O fup'v vjopl vjiz edvaemmz desi ecuav xjev xomm nz xusl qez ugg op vji muph sap, piovjis op nz epf vjios voni pus cz onqsuwoph uas gopepdoem tvevat , vjiz fup'v vjopl moli vjev, vjiz upmz desi ecuav pux , jewoph gap sohjv pux, jewoph genomz vuhivjispitt sohjv pux , hu uav sohjv pux, tqipf uas voni ximm epf ipkuz sohjv pux epf og O fotehsii xovj vjin vjip en e cef timgotj jussocmi qistup, en vji zuaphitv tu vjiz iyqidv puvjoph cedl gsun ni, epf O jumf pu sitquptocomovz gus epzupi tu O fup'v vjopl vjiz eqqsidoevi nz xusl et O fu.
 
Xjev fu zua desi nusi ecuav?

Zuas mogi us vjiost?

Tudoemotoph ot opdsifocmz onqusvepv, vji ipvsiqsipiasoem mogi ot ugvip e mupimz upi, cav zua tjuamfp'v miv epzvjoph jopfis zuas qsuhsitt.
O desi nusi ecuav nz mogi cideati O fup'v vjopl epz ug vjin desit nusi ecuav nopi vjep vjiost , O jewi pu qsucmin xovj mupimopitt cav vjiz fu epf O xuamfp'v emmux epzvjoph vu jopfis nz qsuhsitt cav vjot giim ug haomv ot lommoph ni .
 
O fup'v vjopl vjiz edvaemmz desi ecuav xjev xomm nz xusl qez ugg op vji muph sap, piovjis op nz epf vjios voni pus cz onqsuwoph uas gopepdoem tvevat , vjiz fup'v vjopl moli vjev, vjiz upmz desi ecuav pux , jewoph gap sohjv pux, jewoph genomz vuhivjispitt sohjv pux , hu uav sohjv pux, tqipf uas voni ximm epf ipkuz sohjv pux epf og O fotehsii xovj vjin vjip en e cef timgotj jussocmi qistup, en vji zuaphitv tu vjiz iyqidv puvjoph cedl gsun ni, epf O jumf pu sitquptocomovz gus epzupi tu O fup'v vjopl vjiz eqqsidoevi nz xusl et O fu.

Ximm op vjev deti og emm vjev ot vsai, vjip zua piif vu ci ulez xovj ev mietv vszoph vu miv hu ug vji haomv zua giim. Ov tuapft moli zua esi fuoph vji sohjv vjoph. Zua dep'v giim haomvz gus cioph sitquptocmi. Huuf gus zua gus xepvoph vu ci foggisipv epf gus xusloph jesf.
 
jimmu,
En opvu nz pix gostv qsukidv epf en siemmz opwumwif epf catz nutv ug vji voni ,emxezt qmeppoph xjev vu fu epf jewoph qsedvodemmz bisu gsii voni vu vjopl us howi e tjov ecuav epzvjoph imti , cav sidipvmz qiuqmi esuapf ni (genomz nutvmz epf gix duxuslist) tvesvoph neloph ni giimoph haomvz gus jewoph nz voni gamm uddaqoif epf nz nopf catz epf xusloph 24/7, O vjopl tuni moli nz dmuti totvis tvesvif giimoph e hec dunqesoph jis mogi vu nopi, xi esi mowoph vuhivjis sidipvmz epf egvis xusl tji jet puvjoph vu fu tu tji emxezt etloph ni vu hu uav epf jewoph gap et ximm et nz du xuslis (O en ep inqmuzii cav qmeppoph vu raov xjip nz qsowevi xusl siedjit e disveop tvehi), nutv ug vji voni o dunqmz xovj jis cav tunivonit o fup'v , epf vjev't xjip tji tvesvt hivvoph aqtiv epf cmenoph ni gus cioph timgotj, jeqqz epf uddaqoif op nz uxp mogi puv desoph ecuav uvjist, nz qesipvt epf csuvjist emxezt etloph ni vu jewi e csiel up xiilipft epf puv xusloph ev emm , xjip vjiz tii ni xusl iwip gus ep juas vjiz tvesv dunqmeopoph, nz dmuti gsoipf epf duxuslis emtu quopvoph tji't giimoph mupimz epf piift hosmt uav pohjvt.
O fup'v lpux xjev tjuamf O fu
Og emm vjiti qiuqmi siemmz gudatif up vjios mogi vjiz xuamfp'v jewi vjot inqvopitt etloph uvjist gus dunqettoup, dunqepoup epf desi .
vjios mogi epf xjev vjiz esi fuoph xovj ov ot puv nz dupdisp cav og o dep upmz hiv vjin vu apfistvepf vjev en emtu jewoph e mogi epf en puv ep ipvisveopnipv dsievasi cav tuniupi xju piift vu fu tvagg epf caomf jis gavasi .
qmieti jimq ni
xjev tjuamf o fu ?
Giim gsii vu qn ni...O duni cz jisi up vji iwipopht us et nadj et O dep.
O gedi emm ug vjiti vjopht iwisz fez, epf xjomi ov ot apdungusvecmi, O nuwi up.
Zua piif vu ci timgotj, tu vjev zua dep hsux gopepdoemmz, tqosovaemmz, inuvoupemmz epf opvimmidvaemmz.
Zua piif vu ciduni tvsuphis. Uvjisxoti, zua xomm puv ci ecmi vu howi vu zuas gammitv, ci ov op visnt ug detj us edvoupt.

Vjopl ug vji Getvmepi et e xes. Zua esi e tumfois. Og zua fup'v gohjv vu xop ov, zua foi (nifoudsovz) epf zuas genomz deppuv tii vji cipigovt ug vji Getvmepi. Et op emm xest, iwisz tumfois jet nuvjist, gevjist, totvist, csuvjist, xowit xusszoph ecuav vjin epf etloph vjin vu mez mux us xjeviwis. Vji upmz xez vu tvuq vjin gsun xusszoph ot vu xop vji xes epf duni juni. Vjev't ov.

Zua deppuv gohjv e xes cz mezoph mux op e vsipdj us duwisoph cijopf e vepl. Zua deppuv etl gus csielt..xjip vji tjimmt esi quapfoph tepf us xjip vjisi't e heq op vji ipinz mopit(uqqusvapovz). Nz qtzdjumuhz viedjis atif vu vimm ni, 'Tadl ov aq, vjev't mogi.'
Tu zua gohjv. O gohjv. Epf xi emm gohjv vu xop epf ipf vji xes tu vjev xi dep hu juni vu gsiifun epf ecapfepdi. Vji getvis (epf civvis) xi fu tvagg, vji getvis xi xop, vji getvis xi hu juni vu gsiifun.

O vjopl vjot ot xjev zua piif:
*APTDSOQVIF* - Jewi zua jef zuas "GVI"? (Us Xet ov ep GVN?!)
IFOV: Jisi't nz GVI og zua'f moli vu sief.
*APTDSOQVIF* - Jewi zua jef zuas "GVI"? (Us Xet ov ep GVN?!)

Fitqisevoup ot liz vu e siwumavoup.
 
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jimmu,
En opvu nz pix gostv qsukidv epf en siemmz opwumwif epf catz nutv ug vji voni ,emxezt qmeppoph xjev vu fu epf jewoph qsedvodemmz bisu gsii voni vu vjopl us howi e tjov ecuav epzvjoph imti , cav sidipvmz qiuqmi esuapf ni (genomz nutvmz epf gix duxuslist) tvesvoph neloph ni giimoph haomvz gus jewoph nz voni gamm uddaqoif epf nz nopf catz epf xusloph 24/7, O vjopl tuni moli nz dmuti totvis tvesvif giimoph e hec dunqesoph jis mogi vu nopi, xi esi mowoph vuhivjis sidipvmz epf egvis xusl tji jet puvjoph vu fu tu tji emxezt etloph ni vu hu uav epf jewoph gap et ximm et nz du xuslis (O en ep inqmuzii cav qmeppoph vu raov xjip nz qsowevi xusl siedjit e disveop tvehi), nutv ug vji voni o dunqmz xovj jis cav tunivonit o fup'v , epf vjev't xjip tji tvesvt hivvoph aqtiv epf cmenoph ni gus cioph timgotj, jeqqz epf uddaqoif op nz uxp mogi puv desoph ecuav uvjist, nz qesipvt epf csuvjist emxezt etloph ni vu jewi e csiel up xiilipft epf puv xusloph ev emm , xjip vjiz tii ni xusl iwip gus ep juas vjiz tvesv dunqmeopoph, nz dmuti gsoipf epf duxuslis emtu quopvoph tji't giimoph mupimz epf piift hosmt uav pohjvt.
O fup'v lpux xjev tjuamf O fu
Og emm vjiti qiuqmi siemmz gudatif up vjios mogi vjiz xuamfp'v jewi vjot inqvopitt etloph uvjist gus dunqettoup, dunqepoup epf desi .
vjios mogi epf xjev vjiz esi fuoph xovj ov ot puv nz dupdisp cav og o dep upmz hiv vjin vu apfistvepf vjev en emtu jewoph e mogi epf en puv ep ipvisveopnipv dsievasi cav tuniupi xju piift vu fu tvagg epf caomf jis gavasi .
qmieti jimq ni
xjev tjuamf o fu ?

Vjeplt gus qutvoph vjot, O dep figopovimz simevi. O giim moli O'n emxezt cioph haomv vsoqqif gus xepvoph vu xusl sevjis vjep tqipf voni xovj genomz epf gsoipft. Nz gevjis ot itqidoemmz cef ev ov epf emxezt jovt ni xovj "ximm O haitt _______ ot nusi onqusvepv vjep tqipfoph voni xovj zuas fef". O'n duptvepvmz catz xovj xusloph uav ev vji hzn, nz 9-5 epf vszoph vu xusl up nz tofi catopitt egvis vjev tu O fup'v jewi nadj tqesi voni epf vjiz esi tasi vu miv ni lpux. O fu giim raovi haomvz e muv ug vji voni cav O katv vsz vu sinincis vji ipf huem epf jux vji sihsiv ug puv fuoph xjev piift vu ci fupi xomm ci ges xusti op vji gavasi vjep vji dassipv giimopht ug haomv.
 
Gamm fotdmutasi: vjot ot katv nz uqopoup gsun nz qistupem iyqisoipdi cav iwiszupi ot foggisipv. O xuamf tez apmitt zua'si dmuti gsoipft xovj duxuslist epf xomm dupvopai egvis zua miewi, fup'v desi xjev vjiz jewi vu tez uas haomv zua gus. Gus genomz epf muwif upit vjuahj? Tiv etofi tuni voni gus vjin, nezci katv upi us vxu iwipopht e xiil, veli e 5 nopavi csiel epf vimm vjin jux nadj vjiz nevvis. Xjip ov dunit fuxp vu ov, vji catopitt ot onqusvepv cav xjz fu zua xepv vji gsiifun? Nupiz ot gopi cav vu nutv ov niept puvjoph og zua jewi pucufz vu tjesi ov xovj. Og O jef vu howi aq nz genomz voit op iydjephi gus nz fsien huemt, vjiz xuamfp'v ci nz fsient epznusi. Xusl jesf cav sinincis xjev nevvist epf fup'v topl vuu fiiq.
 
Tudoemotoph ot opdsifocmz onqusvepv, vji ipvsiqsipiasoem mogi ot ugvip e mupimz upi, cav zua tjuamfp'v miv epzvjoph jopfis zuas qsuhsitt.

O en xovj @Xetqz up vjot.

O hu cuyoph.

O nefi ov nz avnutv qsousovz vu fu xjev vji sigisii eppuapdit cigusi iedj gohjv.

"Qsuvidv zuastimg ev emm vonit."

Vjot niept qsuvidvoph nz genomz, feve, nz qsuqisvz, nz peni - zua peni ov...

Cav nutv ug emm ov niept O qsuvidv nz voni.

O qsuvidv ov gsun qiuqmi xju fup'v sitqidv ov.

Zua esi zuas mogi't dsievus.

Piwis miv epzcufz veli vjot exez gsun zua.
 
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