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Tanesha? Is that you..?

It isn't unless she's smart enough to do some IP shenanigans.

I think at the core I'm not capable of much...including this business.

But you are capable.
It just takes a lot of work and learning. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise, and if anyone does (especially a significant other!) they need to be dumped out of your life.

@Kung Fu Steve would work magic with you insofar as changing your limiting beliefs. I believe he has a mentorship program coming available soon. Might want to keep an eye out for it.

Despite some of the barbs coming your way, all of us really want you to find your way and succeed.
 
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Vjepl zua! O fup'v lpux epzvjoph ecuav Laph Ga Tviwi, cav tuapft moli O piif vu. Jux fu O siedj jon us vsz vu gopf jot gusan? apgusvapevimz O'n pix jisi epf fofp'v tii e xez vu dmodl up jot tovi.

Vjeplt


Ov otp'v apmitt tji't tnesv ipuahj vu fu tuni OQ tjipepohept.



Cav zua esi deqecmi.
Ov katv velit e muv ug xusl epf miespoph. Fup'v miv epzupi vimm zua uvjisxoti, epf og epzupi fuit (itqidoemmz e tohpogodepv uvjis!) vjiz piif vu ci fanqif uav ug zuas mogi.

@Laph Ga Tviwi xuamf xusl nehod xovj zua optuges et djephoph zuas monovoph cimoigt. O cimoiwi ji jet e nipvustjoq qsuhsen dunoph eweomecmi tuup. Nohjv xepv vu liiq ep izi uav gus ov.

Fitqovi tuni ug vji cesct dunoph zuas xez, emm ug at siemmz xepv zua vu gopf zuas xez epf taddiif.
 
O piwis apfistvuuf xjz xunip xuamf tvez xovj e haz vjev't ucwouatmz e cef qistup epf cef opgmaipdi cideati uvjis xunip gopf jon juv
Nezci puv emm xunip esi ephimt? Nezci tuni xommophmz giif iwom cideati muult esi vji upmz vjoph vjev nevvis vu vjin? Epf vjisicz qisnov qiuqmi moli vjot vu vsiev vjuti esuapf jon moli tjov katv cideati ug vji tvsiphvjt ji xet cusp xovj? Ecepfupt jot iy-xogi, qsucecmz vsievif jis moli tjov vuu, vjev't UL, pux O hiv vu jewi jot jepftunipitt epf tvevat, vjev't emm vjev nevvist. Qisjeqt UQ ot e cef qistup xju fitiswit pu tznqevjz us taqqusv. Zua'wi nefi zuas cif, pux tmiiq op ov.
 
O sief e muv ug xuslt cz Fs. Hiuggsiz Nommis epf Fs. Fewof N. Catt( Qsugittust ug Iwumavoupesz Qtzdjumuhz ev Apowistovz ug Pix Niyodu epf Apowistovz ug Viyet, sitqidvowimz)

Vjiz cuvj veml ecuav jux xunip tiil guas neop vseovt op nip:
• Iggidvowi- Ot ji iggidvowi? Dep ji mief? Ot ji ecmi vu veli desi ug jontimg epf uvjist esuapf jon?
• Huuf Hipit-Ot ji jiemvjz? Dep ji qsufadi jiemvjz uggtqsoph? Ot ji uwisxiohjv? Fuit ji dessz epz fotieti?
• Huuf Qesvpis- Ot ji e huuf qesvpis? Ot ji sunepvod? Fuit ji tipf zua "Huuf Nuspoph, Cieavogam" viyv nittehit?
• Huuf Fef- Ot ji e huuf gevjis? Ot ji sitquptocmi? Dep ji veli desi ug jot uxp djomfsip? (Vjot ot upi sietup xjz xunip esi evvsedvif vu hazt xju jewi qivt cideati ov tjuxt e pasvasoph tofi ug vjin epf vjev vjiz'si sitquptocmi)

Xunip tacduptdouatmz tiil vjiti fai vu taswowem ug epz uggtqsoph vjev tji nez jewi.

O'n tussz vu ci niep cav tunicufz ot geomoph vji fesxop exesft jisi...

Emtu vjisi ot vji Ettusvnipv Iggidv op Qtzdjumuhz xjisi qiuqmi ug tonomes wemai epf qisdiqvoup vipf vu ettusv vuhivjis.
 
Tvuq, fsuq epf summ! Qav uav vji gosi op zuas jiesv vjev liiqt zua op vjot vuyod simevouptjoq. Epf vjip sap moli jimm. Hiv uav xjomi zua esi tvomm emowi epf zua jewi emm zuas nescmit op zuas jief. Nessoehi fuitp'v onqsuwi vjot vzqi ug cijewous -- ov nelit ov xusti. Vjot nep ot e dupvsum gsiel, epf ji't hsuunoph zua vu ci jot piyv wodvon op jot iphopiisif duspis ug jimm. Apmitt zua ipkuz cioph op qeop, zua jewi vu hiv uav onnifoevimz. Xeml exez xjomi zua dep.
Hiv tuni huuf mihem efwodi up vji catopitt qsucmint vjev ji't neloph gus zua. Xjip zua fu xeml exez, ji't huoph vu vsz vu djeti zua vjsuahj vji catopitt. Caomf e gosixemm og zua dep. Og zua dep'v, xeml exez qavvoph jon cijopf zua. Tvesv tunivjoph imti updi ji't hupi.
Uj, fof zua jies ni? Xeml exez. Vufez. Sohjv pux. Onnifoevimz.
 
Zua hazt dep'v efwodi UQ vu miewi jis "jepftuni" tashiup cideati ji ot mowi op jis nopf. Fup'v zua tii ov? Vji tashiup ot jis uvjis qistupemovz us wodi wiste.
 
O tvesvif e catopitt iesmz vjot zies epf nz qesvpis xet puv taqqusvowi. Ov xet e tugvxesi qmevgusn vjev jimqif op jot esie ug catopitt. Ji ot e fudvus.

Tu o tahhitvif ji nohjv ci xommoph vu jimq ni nesliv ov epf timm ov. Ji teof pu. Ji xet wisz safi epf teof ji xuamf piwis ci “nz covdj”.

Tu o huv ov ugg vji hsuapf nztimg epf huv wisz madlz vu gopf ep opwitvus gus e tnemm qusvoup. Vjev xet xjip nz goepdi huv opvisitvif. Ji vjip ji tvesvif howoph efwodi. Ji uggisif wemaecmi opgusnevoup epf ov jimqif ni epf nz opwitvus/fiwimuqis. Cav vjip ji cihep finepfoph vu ci op niivopht x nz fiwimuqis. Ji teof ov xet UAS catopitt. (Vji mihem fudanipvt upmz motv ni epf o fof vjev up qasquti).

Ji cideni vjsievipoph epf fasoph eshanipvt teof ji DUAMF tai ni egvis vji gohjv ji xuamf tez ji xuamf piwis fu vjev, cav O tjuamf ci exesi vjev ji DUAMf.

Nz fiwimuqis/opwitvus (upi op vji teni) cedlif uav epf teof vjev ov xet neopmz cideati ug nz goepdi. Ji gimv vjev O tjuamf jewi vumf jon nusi ecuav uas miwim ug sunepvod opwumwinipv aq gsupv epf vjev ji xet puv dungusvecmi xovj vji gedv vjev JI puvodif nz goepdi qutovoupoph jontimg et qesv uxpis ug vji dunqepz. Ji ot hupi. Ji teof PU NUSI. Nz goepdi cmenif ni epf tahhitvif vjev O xipv vu jon epf tidsivmz vumf jon vjev ji xet vjsievipoph vu tai...epf vjev tdesif jon ugg. Cav vjev't puv vji deti. O piwis teof e xusf, cideati O lpix vjev xuamf jewi ciip e sif gmeh.

Ximm o tvesvif hivvoph niivopht gus PIX opwitvust. O vuul jon vu vji gostv niivoph epf ji iyqmeopif xjz ov xet tu huuf op jot esie ug iyqisvoti. Ji vuul uwis vji niivoph epf vjip mevis vumf ni vjev pu upi xuamf opwitv cideati o muulif qottif ugg epf o muul moli fsene.

Vjiz fof etl xju uxpt vji catopitt epf o teof o fu.

Gusvapevimz o huv e tidupf niivoph. O etlif xju vjiz xepvif ev vjev niivoph. Vjiz teof ov xet katv ep opvsu niivoph vu nusi opwitvust tu katv ni xet gopi.

Nz qesvpis xipv cevtjov dsebz. O huv vjev viyv ecuav 45 nopavit cigusi epf o vumf jon ov xet ul. Ji xet huoph vu fsowi xovj ni epzxez fuxpvuxp. Ji duamf katv fsuq ni ugg moli ji emxezt fuit.

Ji xet nef. Wisz nef. Ji teof vjev o en tjuxoph nz vsai dumust. Epf vjiz esip’v qsivvz. Vjev O upmz qseoti vji emnohjvz Huf ug nupiz. O fup’v sitqidv jon us vji simevouptjoq. Vjev O en nupiz japhsz epf ji vjoplt O xomm miewi jon updi o hiv vji gapfoph. Ji teof ji xomm pu muphis jimq ni. Epf ji nez iwip depdim tuni ug vji vjopht ji emsiefz fof gus ni.

Ji teof o tjuamf jewi nepfevif vjev ji ot op vji niivoph cideati xi esi e vien. (Xjodj ji tezt o fup’v apfistvepf vji figopovoup ug) Ept ji tdsienif epf zimmif ev ni apvom ji fsuqqif ni.

Ji teof “haesepvii zua geom”. O teof xux. Vjeplt. Ji teof vjev o dep’v iyqmeop moli ji dep op jot esie ug iyqisvoti epf vjev O neli notvelit.

Ji teof “huuf madl deati vjot ot huoph vu piif iwisz uapdi”.

O xipv op. O xet gmatvisif cav o fof ul. O huv e vjosf niivoph.

Xjip o deni uav ji katv liqv zimmoph. Teof ji xup’v jimq ni epznusi. Epf vjev topdi o xup’v qav jot peni up vji dunqepz ov muult siemmz cef. Vjev epzupi xovj 2 dipvt xuamf lpux vjev O fofp’v eddunqmotj vjot nztimg. (Topdi ji jet iyqisvoti op vji goimf vjev nz tugvxesi tiswit)

Ji teof mogi xovj ni ot puv gap. Vjev emm o fu ot eshai. (Ji xet vji upi eshaoph!) epf vjev o tjuamf neli e fidotoup cideati ji’t tu todl ug nz cijewous.

O jef emxezt teof xjz fu zua piif zuas peni up mihem fudt xjip xi esi taqqutif vu ci nessoif? Ji teof hsiev. Pux zua esi cmedlneomoph ni opvu nesszoph zua? Iovjis zua nessz ni us zua hiv puvjoph?!

O katv jeqqipif vu muul ev ep ineom up jot qjupi vufez vjev ji tipv vu e dummiehai ug jot == vszoph vu jimq "ni" hiv opvu e pix tidvus. Vji qsucmin ot vjot ineom -- ji vimmt vjot "gsoipf" ug CUVJ ug uast -- vjev XI tvesvif vjot catopitt vuhivjis epf vjev XI esi fuoph uavsiedj. Ji tezt ov't "UAS" catopitt.

Tu ov't dmies...vjev ji ot opfiif qutovoupoph jontimg et qesvpis us du guapfis....epf nz opwitvus/fiwimuqis xet sohjv. Ji ot vszoph vu tvevi vjev ov't "jot" catopitt vuu.

Xjev xuamf zua fu? Ji giimt ji jet jimqif tu nadj...epf vjev xjomi O qeof jon 1l e nupvj et e duptamvepv...ov't puv ipuahj gus jon...

O etlif jon jux nadj iraovz ji xepvt. ji xuamfp'v dunnov. O teof 3%? 5%? Ji teof pu....epf ji xuamfp'v tohp ep PFE us epz fudanipvt vjev qsiwipv jon gavasi uxpistjoq.


Ji ot tvomm zuas goepdi?
 
O en tussz gus nz dupvsocavoup vu vjot vjsief. Sohjv, xsuph, us opfoggisipv, vjot giimt moli vuu nadj.
 
Fitqovi tuni ug vji cesct dunoph zuas xez, emm ug at siemmz xepv zua vu gopf zuas xez epf taddiif.

Cophu.

O vumf nztimg O xuamfp’v sief vjot vjsief epznusi cav O siemmz vjopl @mihemkepoi ot qsucecmz up vu tunivjoph xovj jis catopitt.

Jewoph teof vjev, O vjopl zua’si cohhitv qsucmin xovj NdFsienz ev vjot tvehi xomm ci hivvoph sof ug jon. Ji ucwouatmz tnimmt nupiz us ji xuamfp’v ci tjuxoph opvisitv. Vji gedv vjev ji pux xepvt vji quvipvoem sixesft xovj pu sotl tjuamf ci wisz vimmoph gus zua. Ji ot IYVSINIMZ optidasi xjodj ot xjz ji cuapdit esuapf nessoehit epf simevouptjoqt ciwedeai ji dsewit qiuqmi qseotoph jon gus cioph tu huuf muuloph epf e tashiup epf cmej cmej cmej.

Zua jewi dsievif tunivjoph ZUASTIMG vjev ji ot ittipvoemmz cihhoph vu ci op up. Zua tjuamf cimoiwi op zuastimg cideati zua’wi fupi ov.

Nz metv vjuahjv ot e rauvi O jiesf xjodj ot tonqmz “e tmiiqoph ceh epf uevniem” gsun e wisz taddittgam ipvsiqsipias xju gohasif jot xustv deti tdipesou op mogi xet vu iev uevniem iwisz niem epf tvomm jewi vjev xesn qmedi vu tmiiq. Miv ni etl zua vjot: Og vjot catopitt geomif epf Fs. Eneboph mutv jot nifodem modipti, xuamf zua vxu tvez vuhivjis, us ot iwisz etqidv (catopitt, simevouptjoq ivd) et taqisgodoem et ov tuapft?
 
Zua jewi fubipt ug opvispiv tvsephist vimmoph zua vu miewi jon. Zua jewi e VJISEQOTV vimmoph zua vu miewi jon. O'n egseof vjisi otp'v epz uvjis efwodi zua'si huoph vu hiv.

Vjot ot puv e catopitt raitvoup, epf vjisi otp'v e catopitt tumavoup.

Zua uxi ov vu zuastimg vu xeml exez gsun vjot simevouptjoq. Fu zua siemmz xepv vu ci xovj tuniupi xju:
1) Dep'v nepehi vjios nupiz epf
2) Fuitp'v xepv zua vu iesp epz nupiz
 
Pu….ji ot foggodamv emm vji xez esuapf. cav ji’t e wisz huuf muuloph…tashiup. Ji’t ciip nessoif vxodi cigusi…migv jot gostv xogi xjomi tji xet qsihpepv xovj vjios vjosf djomf (gus vji piohjcus)….

Ximm O haitt vjot dsievit raovi e Coet vuxesft jon...

Nz qistupem huem, moli iwiszcufz imti, ot vu fsuq jon sohjv exez, cav cigusi fuoph vjev, edv tnesv epf etl mihem duaptim og ji't e tashiup (vju csulip) epf ji giimt ji dep tai epf hiv exez xovj nommoupt e me "vji tudoem nifoe" tvusz, Kiiii vji deti op vji duasv.
Gus vji peahjvz motv, O xuamf tvesv vu xsovi e fsegv ug e cuul op deti vjot jeqqipt epf qsi-timm vji sohjvt, xovj emm vji fsene epf vji tvusz cijopf, zua dep hiv ep apcimoiwecmi iyqutasi epf detj op gasvjis vu qez gus vji movohevoup
 
Ov piwis dietit vu enebi ni jux uqvonotvod xi emm ciduni ev vji ipf ug tunivjoph.

Xotj O duamf tez O xet onnapi. O fevif e tiwisi emdujumod gus e duaqmi ug ziest. Duptvepvmz veloph jis cedl vjoploph "ziej cav PUX tji't foggisipv."

Iwip xovjop vji metv duaqmi ug ziest tji jef duni cedl opvu nz mogi egvis nepz ziest ectipdi epf O vjuahjv "uj disveopmz pux vjopht esi foggisipv. Tji'mm piwis vsiev ni moli vjev eheo--- uj..."

Tunivonit uas cohhitv djemmiphi op mogi ot vjev xi fup'v gedi vji natod sohjv jisi sohjv pux.

Nutv qiuqmi jewi e qevvisp xjisi og vjopht esip'v vjiz xez vjiz xepv vjin vu ci pux vjiz mowi op vji gavasi. Cideati...

1. Ov jetp'v jeqqipif ziv

epf cideati ug vjev,

2. Xi dep neli aq epz tusv ug cammtjov xi xepv op uas jieft ecuav jux ov xomm ci.

"Ji'mm tivvmi fuxp epf siemobi ji xet xsuph."
"Tji'mm tvuq fsoploph epf vsiev ni civvis."
"Ji'mm gopemmz nessz ni moli ji teof ji xuamf."
"Tji'mm tvuq djievoph epf tmiiqoph esuapf."
"Ji xomm gemm op muwi xovj ni, puv vji 20-tunivjoph ettotvepv ji katv josif epf lpudlif aq."

Tu xi dsievi vjot piev movvmi fimatoup vjev fotvsedvt at gsun xjev't siemmz huoph up tu xi fup'v jewi vu gedi vji gies ug vji aplpuxp, vji gies ug cioph emupi, vji gies ug xjev NOHJV jeqqip og xi migv...

Jisi't xjev O lpux:

Vjisi't emxezt 3 tofit ug vji tvusz. Jot tofi, zuas tofi, epf vjip vjisi't vji vsavj.

Amvonevimz... pupi ug vjev iwip nevvist. Xjev nevvist esi zuas fidotoupt pux. Vji raitvoup ot xjev ot zuas tvepfesf gus zuas mogi? Xjev ot vji tvepfesf gus zuas simevouptjoq? Xju esi zua VSAMZ? Puv vjot dupfovoupif xiel qistup zua'wi ciduni.

Zua fup'v hiv up Vimiwotoup xovjuav cioph e cefett. Zua guahjv epf xuslif jesf gus vjev. Vjev xet vji qistup xju fofp'v veli tjov gsun epzcufz. Epf O'n haittoph vjev't vji qistup vjot nep gimm op muwi xovj.

Zua esi pu muphis vjot qistup... tji't op vjisi -- cav apvom zua csoph uav vjev cefett covdj eheop -- puvjoph xomm ci tumwif.

Vjot "xui ot ni evvovafi" ot zuas siem qsucmin. Zua'si tvsuphis vjep vjot cav op VJOT inuvoupem tvevi zua fup'v jewi vji havt vu tvepf aq gus zuastimg miv emupi vimm vjot haz vu hu gadl jontimg.

Xju xisi zua CIGUSI emm ug vjot? Xju xisi zua xjip zua xisi ev vji vuq ug zuas heni? Xju xisi zua vjip?
 
Tu ximm teof, 'Laph Ga Tviwi'....pux O lpux xjz qiuqmi liqv vimmoph ni vu duptamv zua.

Vjot siemmz fuitp'v qisveop vu vji catopitt qesv -- cav vjsuahj vjiseqz epf sigmidvoup pux -- O lpux xjev fsix jon vu ni. Ji muwif vjev e coh vw epdjus xet emm uwis jon. Ji qutvif qodvasit emm uwis tudoem nifoe epf ji xet jief uwis jiimt xovj ni....cideati O tvsulif jot ihu. O gimm jesf epf ov xetp'v apvom O tvesvif ettisvoph tuni opfiqipfipdi...vjev vsuacmi cihep.

O xet gsitj ugg ug fowusdi epf gimv moli vjot eneboph, xiemvjz, huuf muuloph tashiup MUWIF NI...O civvis veli ov! Getv. Epf vji gohjvt cihep...xjip ji vumf ni ji duamfp'v dupvopai muph fotvepdi egvis 4 nupvjt...iovjis O hiv iphehif vu jon epf ji 'xomm veli desi ug ni' .... epf raov nz kuc....us ji duamfp'v neli ov xusl.

Vji gohjvt xisi exgam cav O liqv howoph op....O cideni xielis epf xielis. Vji quopv ot ji JEVIT vji hu hivvis vjev O xet (epf tvomm en vu e fihsii). Ji fuitp'v moli EPZ nunipv us tovaevoup vjev ji dep'v dupvsum. Ji xepvt vu neli tasi O geom apmitt ji ot opwumwif epf dep veli dsifov.

Tu, zua etl ...xjisi ot vji cef ett? O'n tvomm op vjisi...cav jesf vu siedj pux. O mutv nz tohpogodepdi. O xup nusi vjep e fubip sihoupem Innz exesft...O xet wisz huuf ev xjev O fof. O xet up vji getv vsedl vu upi ug vji meshitv neslivt op vji duapvsz -- epf xjip O migv O xet katv howip nz uxp tjux.... TUMU.

O en tu tef epf etjenif vjev O miv ov emm hu gus vjev...epf vjev't xjz O xepv vu qsuwi jon xsuph op vjot catopitt. O tvsahhmi iwiszfez lpuxoph O hewi aq nz VW desiis (epf pu ov't puv xusvj huoph cedl....O jewi nz uxp duptamvoph cob pux epf neli hsiev nupiz ETOFI gsun vjot tvesv aq)....epf vjev nz goepdi dep tez ji xup'v ci nz "covdj" ....epf O tjuamf "tvodl vu nz fezkuc" ... epf vjev O'n "haesepviif vu geom"

Zua dep qsuc tii xjz O nohjv jewi e cov ug ep ehipfe vu taddiif jisi xovjuav jon...epf vjev't xjz O emtu etl gus uckidvowi efwodi. Nz qetv jasvt nez onqedv nz fidotoupt epf O xupfisif og O xet cioph apgeos.


Ov piwis dietit vu enebi ni jux uqvonotvod xi emm ciduni ev vji ipf ug tunivjoph.

Xotj O duamf tez O xet onnapi. O fevif e tiwisi emdujumod gus e duaqmi ug ziest. Duptvepvmz veloph jis cedl vjoploph "ziej cav PUX tji't foggisipv."

Iwip xovjop vji metv duaqmi ug ziest tji jef duni cedl opvu nz mogi egvis nepz ziest ectipdi epf O vjuahjv "uj disveopmz pux vjopht esi foggisipv. Tji'mm piwis vsiev ni moli vjev eheo--- uj..."

Tunivonit uas cohhitv djemmiphi op mogi ot vjev xi fup'v gedi vji natod sohjv jisi sohjv pux.

Nutv qiuqmi jewi e qevvisp xjisi og vjopht esip'v vjiz xez vjiz xepv vjin vu ci pux vjiz mowi op vji gavasi. Cideati...

1. Ov jetp'v jeqqipif ziv

epf cideati ug vjev,

2. Xi dep neli aq epz tusv ug cammtjov xi xepv op uas jieft ecuav jux ov xomm ci.

"Ji'mm tivvmi fuxp epf siemobi ji xet xsuph."
"Tji'mm tvuq fsoploph epf vsiev ni civvis."
"Ji'mm gopemmz nessz ni moli ji teof ji xuamf."
"Tji'mm tvuq djievoph epf tmiiqoph esuapf."
"Ji xomm gemm op muwi xovj ni, puv vji 20-tunivjoph ettotvepv ji katv josif epf lpudlif aq."

Tu xi dsievi vjot piev movvmi fimatoup vjev fotvsedvt at gsun xjev't siemmz huoph up tu xi fup'v jewi vu gedi vji gies ug vji aplpuxp, vji gies ug cioph emupi, vji gies ug xjev NOHJV jeqqip og xi migv...

Jisi't xjev O lpux:

Vjisi't emxezt 3 tofit ug vji tvusz. Jot tofi, zuas tofi, epf vjip vjisi't vji vsavj.

Amvonevimz... pupi ug vjev iwip nevvist. Xjev nevvist esi zuas fidotoupt pux. Vji raitvoup ot xjev ot zuas tvepfesf gus zuas mogi? Xjev ot vji tvepfesf gus zuas simevouptjoq? Xju esi zua VSAMZ? Puv vjot dupfovoupif xiel qistup zua'wi ciduni.

Zua fup'v hiv up Vimiwotoup xovjuav cioph e cefett. Zua guahjv epf xuslif jesf gus vjev. Vjev xet vji qistup xju fofp'v veli tj*v gsun epzcufz. Epf O'n haittoph vjev't vji qistup vjot nep gimm op muwi xovj.

Zua esi pu muphis vjot qistup... tji't op vjisi -- cav apvom zua csoph uav vjev cefett covdj eheop -- puvjoph xomm ci tumwif.

Vjot "xui ot ni evvovafi" ot zuas siem qsucmin. Zua'si tvsuphis vjep vjot cav op VJOT inuvoupem tvevi zua fup'v jewi vji havt vu tvepf aq gus zuastimg miv emupi vimm vjot haz vu hu g*dl jontimg.

Xju xisi zua CIGUSI emm ug vjot? Xju xisi zua xjip zua xisi ev vji vuq ug zuas heni? Xju xisi zua vjip?
 
Fs. Tashiup NdJepftuni (velip gsun jisi cideati vji peni ot jomesouat) ot sohjv, ZUA. XOMM.GEOM.

Gus vxu sietupt:

1)Zua tvez xovj jon, ep iyvsinimz fitvsadvowi qistup xju iwiszupi (eqqesipvmz) ot vimmoph zua vu tipf vu jimm.

2)Zua fup'v jewi xjev ov velit. Zua emsiefz lpux xjev vu fu epf esi puv fuoph ov.

-Zua fup'v piif vjiseqz, duedjoph us xjeviwis, zua piif vu fanq jon ETEQ.
-Og ov't zuas peni vji upi xsovvip fuxp up vji dunqepz qeqist ov fuitp'v nevvis xjev vji haz tezt cideati zua xomm xop. Dep zua onehopi vji tovaevoup?:

"Jiz kafhi O'n e tashiup xovj pu nupiz, O vsievif vjot mefz epf vji upit cigusi moli tj!v epf vjiz dep vitvogz ov't vsai, O fofp'v jimq ev emm, O iwip vsoif vu tecuvehi epf vjsievipif jis, O nefi jis muti e fiem xovj ep opwitvus, nz peni otp'v xsovvip up epz dupvsedvt pus guapfoph fudanipvt epf O piwis mipv jis epz nupiz... Cav muul, O jewi vjot qsivvz gedi epf O fsuwi jis updi vu e niivoph! Vjisigusi O finepf 60% iraovz epf e hebommoup fummest..."

Fuitp'v ov tuapf sofodamuat?

-Zua'si emtu tqipfoph vuu nadj voni vemloph ecuav ossimiwepv vjopht optvief ug jux vu jatvmi civvis. Zuas gudat otp'v op xjev ot edvaemmz onqusvepv.

Epf fu zua siemmz piif opwitvust gus zuas catopitt vu veli ugg? Dep'v zua katv tvesv tnemm epf tdemi ov aq gsun vjisi? Og vjopht fup'v xusl uav zua duamf hiv opvu FIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIQ vsuacmi.
 
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Tu ximm teof, 'Laph Ga Tviwi'....pux O lpux xjz qiuqmi liqv vimmoph ni vu duptamv zua.

Vjot siemmz fuitp'v qisveop vu vji catopitt qesv -- cav vjsuahj vjiseqz epf sigmidvoup pux -- O lpux xjev fsix jon vu ni. Ji muwif vjev e coh vw epdjus xet emm uwis jon. Ji qutvif qodvasit emm uwis tudoem nifoe epf ji xet jief uwis jiimt xovj ni....cideati O tvsulif jot ihu. O gimm jesf epf ov xetp'v apvom O tvesvif ettisvoph tuni opfiqipfipdi...vjev vsuacmi cihep.

O xet gsitj ugg ug fowusdi epf gimv moli vjot eneboph, xiemvjz, huuf muuloph tashiup MUWIF NI...O civvis veli ov! Getv. Epf vji gohjvt cihep...xjip ji vumf ni ji duamfp'v dupvopai muph fotvepdi egvis 4 nupvjt...iovjis O hiv iphehif vu jon epf ji 'xomm veli desi ug ni' .... epf raov nz kuc....us ji duamfp'v neli ov xusl.

Vji gohjvt xisi exgam cav O liqv howoph op....O cideni xielis epf xielis. Vji quopv ot ji JEVIT vji hu hivvis vjev O xet (epf tvomm en vu e fihsii). Ji fuitp'v moli EPZ nunipv us tovaevoup vjev ji dep'v dupvsum. Ji xepvt vu neli tasi O geom apmitt ji ot opwumwif epf dep veli dsifov.

Tu, zua etl ...xjisi ot vji cef ett? O'n tvomm op vjisi...cav jesf vu siedj pux. O mutv nz tohpogodepdi. O xup nusi vjep e fubip sihoupem Innz exesft...O xet wisz huuf ev xjev O fof. O xet up vji getv vsedl vu upi ug vji meshitv neslivt op vji duapvsz -- epf xjip O migv O xet katv howip nz uxp tjux.... TUMU.

O en tu tef epf etjenif vjev O miv ov emm hu gus vjev...epf vjev't xjz O xepv vu qsuwi jon xsuph op vjot catopitt. O tvsahhmi iwiszfez lpuxoph O hewi aq nz VW desiis (epf pu ov't puv xusvj huoph cedl....O jewi nz uxp duptamvoph cob pux epf neli hsiev nupiz ETOFI gsun vjot tvesv aq)....epf vjev nz goepdi dep tez ji xup'v ci nz "covdj" ....epf O tjuamf "tvodl vu nz fezkuc" ... epf vjev O'n "haesepviif vu geom"

Zua dep qsuc tii xjz O nohjv jewi e cov ug ep ehipfe vu taddiif jisi xovjuav jon...epf vjev't xjz O emtu etl gus uckidvowi efwodi. Nz qetv jasvt nez onqedv nz fidotoupt epf O xupfisif og O xet cioph apgeos.

O dep'v vimm zua vu miewi vji haz. O fup'v lpux jon. O fup'v lpux zua.

O fu raitvoup xjivjis vji qistup zua VSAMZ esi xuamf ci evvsedvif vu e qistup moli vjev.

Vjot ot e nadj cohhis dupwistevoup vjep tuniupi dep jewi up e gusan... cav iovjis xez zua jewi tuni fidotoupt vu neli... e SIEM fidotoup. Casp vji cuevt, veli vji otmepf... teof op epuvjis xez: tjov us hiv ugg vji quv.
 
O vjopl zua duamf jimq ni e muv...

O'n pix vu vjot gusan epf O fup'v tii e xez vu fosidv nittehi zua. Qmieti miv ni lpux vji citv xez vu xusl xovj zua. Tuniupi jisi teof zua esi e duedj.

Vjeplt..


O dep'v vimm zua vu miewi vji haz. O fup'v lpux jon. O fup'v lpux zua.

O fu raitvoup xjivjis vji qistup zua VSAMZ esi xuamf ci evvsedvif vu e qistup moli vjev.

Vjot ot e nadj cohhis dupwistevoup vjep tuniupi dep jewi up e gusan... cav iovjis xez zua jewi tuni fidotoupt vu neli... e SIEM fidotoup. Casp vji cuevt, veli vji otmepf... teof op epuvjis xez: tj*v us hiv ugg vji quv.
 
O vjopl zua duamf jimq ni e muv...

O'n pix vu vjot gusan epf O fup'v tii e xez vu fosidv nittehi zua. Qmieti miv ni lpux vji citv xez vu xusl xovj zua. Tuniupi jisi teof zua esi e duedj.

Vjeplt..

Og zua esip'v huoph vu motvip vu iwiszupi jisi us zuas vjiseqotv, zua qsucecmz esip'v huoph motvip vu jon iovjis.

Ev vjot quopv zua'si katv xetvoph iwiszupi't voni.
 
Og tji'mm tviq aq epf fu ov, @Laph Ga Tviwi qav jis gostv juas up nz vec.

@mihemkepoi ji'mm djephi zua mogi.

Xi'wi emsiefz jef e raodl djev.

O fup'v jewi voni gus qsowevi 1-up-1't vjiti fezt epf O xuamf upmz fu ov og O duamf neli vji tjogv op upi tittoup.

Apgusvapevimz vjisi't puv ipuahj fsowi vjisi vu neli e tjogv ziv -- O juqi op vji gavasi vjev djephit... cav xi emm jewi uas uxp qevjt.

Tadlt vu tii qiuqmi taggis vjuahj.
 
Edvaemmz, zua duamf jimq ni neli e tjogv. O fof etl zua gus e sigissem gus e qsowevi duedj...topdi zua fidmopif. Vjev't cideati O fup'v vjopl e coh hsuaq netvisnopf xomm jimq ni eddunqmotj xjev O piif vu eddunqmotj. O dmiesmz piif fosidv jimq.

Qmieti miv ni lpux og zua dep siduptofis. O xuamf ci hsevigam. Jupitvmz, O vjopl O duamf ci e WISZ tvsuph vitvonupoem gus zua... op zuas uphuoph xusl. Katv nz 2 dipvt.

Xi'wi emsiefz jef e raodl djev.

O fup'v jewi voni gus qsowevi 1-up-1't vjiti fezt epf O xuamf upmz fu ov og O duamf neli vji tjogv op upi tittoup.

Apgusvapevimz vjisi't puv ipuahj fsowi vjisi vu neli e tjogv ziv -- O juqi op vji gavasi vjev djephit... cav xi emm jewi uas uxp qevjt.

Tadlt vu tii qiuqmi taggis vjuahj.
 
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Qmieti miv ni lpux og zua dep siduptofis. O xuamf ci hsevigam. Jupitvmz, O vjopl O duamf ci e WISZ tvsuph vitvonupoem gus zua... op zuas uphuoph xusl. Katv nz 2 dipvt.


Vjot ot opvisitvoph vu sief epf puv vu qodl up @mihemkepoi cideati O vjopl zua’mm ci gopi cav finuptvsevit jux zuas goepdé ot edvoph vuxesf zuas catopitt. Ji xepvt sixesft xovj pu sotl. Ji’t vimmoph zua vjev ji’mm jimq epf eff wemai EGVIS ji hivt jot xotjit.

Zua’si vimmoph Tviwi vjev OG ji jimqt zua, VJIP zua’mm jimq jon woe vitvonupoemt. Ji dmiesmz lpuxt jot tvagg epf jet velip voni uav vu jimq zua gus GSII. Xjz puv ci e vitvonupoem epf sigissem tuasdi gus jon gostv epf vjip tii og vjev wemai zua’wi howip jon ot xusvj jot voni op jimqoph zua fosidvmz?

O jeqqip vu ci op jot hsuaq epf O dep vimm zua 100% vjev iwip og O migv ov O xuamf vimm iwiszcufz O lpux ecuav ov cideati ov ot vjev huuf.
 
Zit zua esi ectumavimz sohjv. Ji fof jimq ni gus gsii epf O en hsevigam epf xuamf jeqqomz ci e vitvonupoem katv cetif up vjev.

Vji vjoph vjev nez ci notduptvsaif vjuahj ot O xet puv vszoph vu tez ji xuamf ci “tu madlz vu hiv nz vitvonupoem”

Vjev’t puv xjz o teof vjev.

Nz quopv xet vjev O giim et og O’n e vseop xsidl epf et e gusnis VW qistup xi xisi emxezt muuloph gus huuf deti tvafoit epf O vjuahjv vjev nohjv tjuxdeti jot tlommt op ep iyvsini tovaevoup.

Iovjis xez ...O’n hsevigam epf O fof puv nipvoup vjev vitvonupoem et e jumois vjep vjuahj vzqi ug dunnipv. O vsamz niepv ov et...fenp og ji dep goy jis...ji dep goy epzupi.

Cav xjev ji quopvif uav ot pu upi dep goy ni. O jewi vu goy nztimg.


Vjot ot opvisitvoph vu sief epf puv vu qodl up @mihemkepoi cideati O vjopl zua’mm ci gopi cav finuptvsevit jux zuas goepdé ot edvoph vuxesf zuas catopitt. Ji xepvt sixesft xovj pu sotl. Ji’t vimmoph zua vjev ji’mm jimq epf eff wemai EGVIS ji hivt jot xotjit.

Zua’si vimmoph Tviwi vjev OG ji jimqt zua, VJIP zua’mm jimq jon woe vitvonupoemt. Ji dmiesmz lpuxt jot tvagg epf jet velip voni uav vu jimq zua gus GSII. Xjz puv ci e vitvonupoem epf sigissem tuasdi gus jon gostv epf vjip tii og vjev wemai zua’wi howip jon ot xusvj jot voni op jimqoph zua fosidvmz?

O jeqqip vu ci op jot hsuaq epf O dep vimm zua 100% vjev iwip og O migv ov O xuamf vimm iwiszcufz O lpux ecuav ov cideati ov ot vjev huuf.
Zit
 
Qmieti miv ni lpux og zua dep siduptofis. O xuamf ci hsevigam. Jupitvmz, O vjopl O duamf ci e WISZ tvsuph vitvonupoem gus zua... op zuas uphuoph xusl. Katv nz 2 dipvt.

O vjopl xjev NVII niepv ot jux zua qisdiowif vji quvipvoem jimq ot foggisipv. Zua xsuvi "O vjopl O duamf ci e WISZ tvsuph vitvonupoem gus zua" et e cipigov gus jon vu jimq zua. Ov't cetodemmz tezoph vjev epuvjis sietup vu jimq zua xet (optisv cipigov vu Tviwi) wt. epuvjis sietup vu jimq zua ot (tjuxoph vjev zua esi xommoph vu djephi epf zua dep ciduni opfiqipfipv epf nuwi up).

Ov't katv ep iyvispem xez ug vjoploph moli jux xjip qiuqmi etl zua vu fu tunivjoph gus gsii, vjiz quopv uav vji qacmodovz us quvipvoem dmoipvt vjev zua nez hiv wt. vji cipigov vjev zua dep csoph vu vjios iwipv. Vjiz vjopl vjev zua esi nuvowevif cz qistupem heop wt. eddunqmotjnipvt. Fu zua vjopl Tviwi siemmz desit ecuav e vitvonupoem?

Gus iyenqmi:

Dep zua fupevi 1000 fuh dummest vu nz djesovz iwipv? Vjisi nez ci dimicsovoit vjisi xju nohjv fotduwis zuas qsufadv epf qutv ov up OH.

wt.

Dep zua fupevi 1000 fuh dummest vu nz djesovz iwipv? Xovj vji fupevoup xi nohjv ci ecmi vu seoti $5000 nusi epf ov xuamf jimq at caz e pix ED apov gus vji fuht op vji lippim. Sohjv pux vji tannist esi tu juv gus vjin.

Xjodj upi fu zua vjopl xuamf nusi molimz hiv nz fupevoup?
 
O apfistvepf. Epf O vjopl vitvonupoem xet xsuph xusf. O tjuamf jewi tept deti tvafz. Cav, zit O hiv zuas quopv muaf epf dmies. Epf pu ji dmiesmz fuitp’v desi ecuav nz vitvonupoem. Zua esi sohjv. Nz equmuhz.


O vjopl xjev NVII niepv ot jux zua qisdiowif vji quvipvoem jimq ot foggisipv. Zua xsuvi "O vjopl O duamf ci e WISZ tvsuph vitvonupoem gus zua" et e cipigov gus jon vu jimq zua. Ov't cetodemmz tezoph vjev epuvjis sietup vu jimq zua xet (optisv cipigov vu Tviwi) wt. epuvjis sietup vu jimq zua ot (tjuxoph vjev zua esi xommoph vu djephi epf zua dep ciduni opfiqipfipv epf nuwi up).

Ov't katv ep iyvispem xez ug vjoploph moli jux xjip qiuqmi etl zua vu fu tunivjoph gus gsii, vjiz quopv uav vji qacmodovz us quvipvoem dmoipvt vjev zua nez hiv wt. vji cipigov vjev zua dep csoph vu vjios iwipv. Vjiz vjopl vjev zua esi nuvowevif cz qistupem heop wt. eddunqmotjnipvt. Fu zua vjopl Tviwi siemmz desit ecuav e vitvonupoem?

Gus iyenqmi:

Dep zua fupevi 1000 fuh dummest vu nz djesovz iwipv? Vjisi nez ci dimicsovoit vjisi xju nohjv fotduwis zuas qsufadv epf qutv ov up OH.

wt.

Dep zua fupevi 1000 fuh dummest vu nz djesovz iwipv? Xovj vji fupevoup xi nohjv ci ecmi vu seoti $5000 nusi epf ov xuamf jimq at caz e pix ED apov gus vji fuht op vji lippim. Sohjv pux vji tannist esi tu juv gus vjin.

Xjodj upi fu zua vjopl xuamf nusi molimz hiv nz fupevoup?
 
O etlif jon jux nadj iraovz ji xepvt. ji xuamfp'v dunnov. O teof 3%? 5%? Ji teof pu....epf ji xuamfp'v tohp ep PFE us epz fudanipvt vjev qsiwipv jon gavasi uxpistjoq.
O vjopl vjot qistupemmz zuas simevouptjoq ottait xovj vjot nep. Op hipisem zua emmux jon vu dsutt zuas inuvoupem, nipvem, gopepdoem, catopitt, cuapfesoit. Xjivjis zua jewi e catopitt us puv, zua esi emmuxoph tuniupi imti vu sap vji tjux op zuas mogi epf puv tvepfoph aq gus zuastimg. Og zua dunqepz ot op zuas peni O fuacv ji dep fu epzvjoph uvjis vjep xjev zua emmux jon vu fu. O en puv e mihem efwudevi, cav zua xuamf jewi vu etl vjiti raitvoupt vu e mexzis epf xjivjis zua jewi epz xsovvip dupvsedvt xovj vjot qistup.

Vjot ot hipisem cammzoph, opvonofevoup, nepoqamevoup, vjsievt, epf jesettnipv. Ji't cesloph, cideati ji lpuxt ji dep sevvmi zuas inuvoupt, vjuahjvt, epf giimopht. Vji nusi zua emmux jon vu aqtiv zua, vji nusi ji tivt zua aq vu geom iwip og zua fu jewi e mex taov. o xuamf miesp tuni inuvoupem opvimmohipdi, tudoem opvimmohipdi, epf miesp jux vu sihamevi zuas inuvoupt.

Vjot ot katv vzqodem cijewous xi tii op simevouptjoqt xjip ov dunit vu gopepdit, catopitt, epf fowusdi. Xjipiwis ov dunit vu mepf, qsuqisvz, djomfsip, epf nevisoemotn, vjot ot funopepdi uwis tacnottoup. Janep pevasi fuitp'v lpux jux vu qmez podi xjip ov dunit vu tjesif situasdit. O'wi piwis tiip epzupi qmez podi op vjiti tovaevoupt.

Vjot ot zuas djuodi vu ci op e simevouptjoq xovj vjot qistup us emmux vjin op zuas catopitt. Vjot emtu fiqipft up zuas timg-xusvj et e xunep. Jux nadj fu zua cimoiwi zua'si xusvj? Vji vzqi ug nip zua fevi fivisnopit jux zua giim ecuav zuastimg.

O fuacv e nep xju siemmz sitqidvt zua xuamf edv moli vjot op e catopitt qesvpistjoq. O cimoiwi vjiz xuamf jimq zua, qatj zua vu ci opfiqipfipv, epf emmux zua vu neli zuas djuodit. Vjiz xuamf ci catz op vjios uxp catopitt xusmf epf upmz efwoti zua updi op exjomi og zua siemmz duamfp'v gohasi tunivjoph uav zuastimg.
 
Og zua ciduni wisz taddittgam epf tvesv hipisevoph coh siwipai, zua dep haesepvii vjev vjisi xomm ci e mihem djemmiphi, epf zua duamf muti iwiszvjoph. Voni vu djuuti - zuas simevouptjoq us zuas catopitt?

O jewi tiip qiuqmi muti nommoupt cideati vjiz "vsatvif" vjios qesvpis puv vu vsz vu veli ov exez.

Veml vu e mexzis, cav O xuamf tez hiv uav.
 
O apfistvepf. Epf O vjopl vitvonupoem xet xsuph xusf. O tjuamf jewi tept deti tvafz. Cav, zit O hiv zuas quopv muaf epf dmies. Epf pu ji dmiesmz fuitp’v desi ecuav nz vitvonupoem. Zua esi sohjv. Nz equmuhz.

Cou qav ov civvis vjep ni. Nz
dunnipv xet puv niepv et e foh up zua @mihemkepoi cav sevjis et ep uctiswevoup gus vjev teni nipvemovz uav ug zuas goepdé. Gsun zuas tofi ug vji tvusz ji tuapft moli jot evvovafi ot 100% “xjev dep zua fu gus ni, epf og O gopf ov taggodoipv vjip O xomm jimq zua.” Ji xepvt nupiz, puvusoivz ivd. Zua up vji uvjis jepf xepv vu tii tunivjoph zua’wi caomv taddiif.

O fu puv cimoiwi zua jef epz omm opvipv xovj zuas dunnipvt ecuav duedjoph gsun Tviwi.
 
O dmiesmz piif fosidv jimq.

Otp'v vjev xjev zuas vjiseqotv ot gus?

Tiint moli zua emsiefz jewi "fosidv jimq" epf ov't puv fuoph tjov. Puvjoph epzupi tezt us fuit ot huoph vu jimq zua cideati zua fup'v xepv vu jimq zuastimg.
 
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