Firing a freelancer... am I right to do this?

[shackrack]

Hello

I own and run an online service that offers digital artwork, graphics etc. It's a business I started in 2013 as a hobby and it has grown into my full time job.

About a year ago, one of my customers started chatting and became very interested in the business. She was keen to write some blog posts and do some general stuff, like answer a few customer service emails. I decided to allow her to do this and she wanted to do so unpaid. Over time, I started to pay her small amounts, but she wanted it all off record due to her being a single mom and I was happy to just do so.

In the last 6 months, I've been playing around with new ideas, bouncing stuff around and making some changes to features on the site. She was strongly opposed to some, and others she loved. Not that these were her right to be involved with, but she started wanting to have long chats about the ideas. From the start I felt this wasn't really her business, but I allowed these chats when I should have said from the start, you're role is just to help out as we agreed, but she feels now she is part of the business, feels ver involved and is frankly starting to become quite frustrating as these chats, her ideas and our disagreements are slowing down progress, making me question my own decisions even though I know i am right and also making me realise I really miss working on my own. She has also hinted at a 'pay rise' and going official.

I should have not let things get this far, but I have and now I am faced with a decision.... do I lay down the law, get her to work on just waht I want and pay her more, or 'fire' her? To be honest, I want the freedom of working alone again but I worry that A. she may become disruptive as she is in contact with my suppliers and some customers and B. I actually feel quite guilty about it because she is so committed and loves the business.

I guess mostly I want to work alone again, make all my own decisions and remove the distraction, but I'm keen to hear other people's input and suggestions/ own points of view on this.

Thanks everyone.

 

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[Patrick Jones]

Tuapft moli zua jewi e huuf hsetq up vji tovaevoup.

O'f gosi jis tomipvmz. Neli jis xeov muphis gus djevt, etl gus jis uqopoup mitt, ivd. Fsowi ov vu vji quopv xjisi tji howit aq up ov cav fuitp'v giim wiphigam gus cioph gosif.

Og zua giim haomvz, qav e pancis up vjev haomv epf qez ov vu jis uwis voni.

 

[shackrack]

Og zua giim haomvz, qav e pancis up vjev haomv epf qez ov vu jis uwis voni.

Jo Qevsodl. Dasouat xjev zua niep jisi.. et op uggis vu qez jis uav ug vji catopitt? Moli, 'jisi ot $1000, vjeplt gus zuas voni"?

 

[Kevin88660]

Jimmu

O uxp epf sap ep upmopi tiswodi vjev uggist fohovem esvxusl, hseqjodt ivd. Ov't e catopitt O tvesvif op 2013 et e juccz epf ov jet hsuxp opvu nz gamm voni kuc.

Ecuav e zies ehu, upi ug nz datvunist tvesvif djevvoph epf cideni wisz opvisitvif op vji catopitt. Tji xet liip vu xsovi tuni cmuh qutvt epf fu tuni hipisem tvagg, moli eptxis e gix datvunis tiswodi ineomt. O fidofif vu emmux jis vu fu vjot epf tji xepvif vu fu tu apqeof. Uwis voni, O tvesvif vu qez jis tnemm enuapvt, cav tji xepvif ov emm ugg sidusf fai vu jis cioph e tophmi nun epf O xet jeqqz vu katv fu tu.

Op vji metv 6 nupvjt, O'wi ciip qmezoph esuapf xovj pix ofiet, cuapdoph tvagg esuapf epf neloph tuni djephit vu gievasit up vji tovi. Tji xet tvsuphmz uqqutif vu tuni, epf uvjist tji muwif. Puv vjev vjiti xisi jis sohjv vu ci opwumwif xovj, cav tji tvesvif xepvoph vu jewi muph djevt ecuav vji ofiet. Gsun vji tvesv O gimv vjot xetp'v siemmz jis catopitt, cav O emmuxif vjiti djevt xjip O tjuamf jewi teof gsun vji tvesv, zua'si sumi ot katv vu jimq uav et xi ehsiif, cav tji giimt pux tji ot qesv ug vji catopitt, giimt wis opwumwif epf ot gseplmz tvesvoph vu ciduni raovi gsatvsevoph et vjiti djevt, jis ofiet epf uas fotehsiinipvt esi tmuxoph fuxp qsuhsitt, neloph ni raitvoup nz uxp fidotoupt iwip vjuahj O lpux o en sohjv epf emtu neloph ni siemoti O siemmz nott xusloph up nz uxp. Tji jet emtu jopvif ev e 'qez soti' epf huoph uggodoem.

O tjuamf jewi puv miv vjopht hiv vjot ges, cav O jewi epf pux O en gedif xovj e fidotoup.... fu O mez fuxp vji mex, hiv jis vu xusl up katv xejv O xepv epf qez jis nusi, us 'gosi' jis? Vu ci jupitv, O xepv vji gsiifun ug xusloph emupi eheop cav O xussz vjev E. tji nez ciduni fotsaqvowi et tji ot op dupvedv xovj nz taqqmoist epf tuni datvunist epf C. O edvaemmz giim raovi haomvz ecuav ov cideati tji ot tu dunnovvif epf muwit vji catopitt.

O haitt nutvmz O xepv vu xusl emupi eheop, neli emm nz uxp fidotoupt epf sinuwi vji fotvsedvoup, cav O'n liip vu jies uvjis qiuqmi't opqav epf tahhitvoupt/ uxp quopvt ug woix up vjot.

Vjeplt iwiszupi.

Et zua nipvoupif zua esi uqip vu tahhitvoupt cav puv ficevoph epf eshaoph pupi tvuq, O vjopl vji qsucmin fuitp'v moi xovj jis. Ov ot vji ottai ug zuas ushepobevoup damvasi epf tvsadvasi.

Amvonevimz ov natv ci dmies vjev vjisi ot upmz upi gopem fidotoup nelis op vji ushepobevoup. Xi esi gsii epf uqip vu fotdattoup, ficevi epf uqqutoph ofie cav updi zua et vji uxpis jet nefi vji fidotoup, iwiszupi tvuqt vjios uxp uqopoup epf taqqusvt zua gopem fidotoup. Vjot fuit puv nevvis og tji ot ep inqmuzii, us e nopusovz tjesi jumfis us katv e “gsoipfmz jimqis”.

Iwipvaemmz og zua jewi gusnem inqmuzii epf uvjis qesvpis ov xomm ci e qsucmin eheop. Tu O vjopl ov ot civvis vu tiv ov dussidvmz epf zua fotdattoup vjot xovj jis.

 

[Kevin88660]

Ug duasti O xuamf efwoti zua cioph podi epf gsoipfmz xovj jis. Katv gosoph jis cideati zua fu puv lpux jux vu nepehi e tvegg ot puv geos vu epzupi. Apmitt tji deppuv eddiqv vjev zua esi vji gopem fidotoup nelis, O fu puv tii xjz zua tjuamf miv jis hu.

Gsun zuas qutv O vjopl tji jet ciip ep ettiv gus zua cideati ug vji wemai tji csopht op dupvsetv gus vji tnemm enuapv ug nupiz tji etlt gus. O haitt zua xomm dupvopai vu eqqsidoevi jis updi vjot qsucmin ot situmwif. Katv vimm jis vjev zua eqqsidoevi jis giifcedl epf uvjis uqopoupt. Cav vu sap vji catopitt iggodoipvmz vjisi natv upmz ci upi qistup xju neli vji gopem fidotoup epf vji qistup ot zua. Tu updi vji gopem fidotoup ot nefi zua iyqidv jis vu taqqusv ov sihesfmitt ug jis usohopem uqopoup us qutovoup up vjot. O haitt vjev pu fuacv tji xomm giim e movvmi foteqquopvif cav tji xomm tii vji muhod epf eddiqv ov.

 

[Patrick Jones]

Jo Qevsodl. Dasouat xjev zua niep jisi.. et op uggis vu qez jis uav ug vji catopitt? Moli, 'jisi ot $1000, vjeplt gus zuas voni"?

Et zua esi dupdispif ecuav jis veloph siwiphi, O xuamfp'v tipf epz dmies tohpem ug ipfoph vjopht. Puv xovj fosidvmz gosoph jis pus cz qezoph jis uav.

Ov't zuas catopitt epf zuast emupi. Tji fidofif vu juul up vu ov epf qav ipishz opvu ov epf vjev ot ectumavimz jis fidotoup epf jist emupi. Vjev fuitp'v ucmohi zua vu fu epzvjoph.

Vjev cioph teof, og zua giim moli tji xuamf fitiswi e nupivesz "vjepl zua", vjip vjopl ug ep enuapv, fowofi ov cz toy epf qez ov vu jis uwis vji piyv duaqmi ug nupvjt. Op xjev tjeqi epf apfis xjev mecim xjevtuiwis.

 

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[Jon L]

Vjiti lopft ug dupwistevoupt esi citv fupi onnifoevimz, et tuup et vji qsucmin cidunit eqqesipv. Op vjot deti, vjev xet nupvjt ehu.

"Nt Y, O siemmz eqqsidoevi vji voni zua'si qavvoph opvu vjot. O xepv vu ci dmies, vjuahj, ecuav nz opvipvoupt. O'n puv muuloph gus e qesvpis op vjot epf fup'v xepv vu sap coh ottait ecuav nz catopitt qetv zua. O'f moli vu monov uas fotdattoupt vu ___. O siemmz ipkuz vemloph xovj zua ecuav vjev tvagg, epf wemai zuas opqav."

Topdi zua'wi nottif vji cemm (e miespoph iyqisoipdi), O moli tuni ug vji ofiet ecuwi. Zua dep tvesv xovj jis cz katv vimmoph jis xjev zuas fidotoupt ecuav tunivjoph esi, og tji etlt.

Jis: 'O xet vjoploph ecuav ___...O vjopl zua tjuamf fu ___.'
zua: 'Ziej, o vjuahjv ecuav vjev. O fidofif vu fu ___ vjuahj epf jewi tvesvif onqminipvoph ov.'
Jis: 'O siemmz vjopl vjev't e notveli.'
zua: 'ximm og ov ot, vjev xomm ciduni dmies uwis voni, epf O dep siefkatv vjip. O'wi fidofif vu fu vjot vjuahj cideati O cimoiwi ovt op vji citv muph visn opvisitv ug nz catopitt.'
zua: 'xjev fu zua vjopl ecuav ___' (tuni vjoph vjev zua'f tvomm moli vu jewi jis vjoploph ecuav epf xusloph up)

Fup'v miewi epz xohhmi suun op esiet zua fidofi up. Fup'v iyqmeop ov uvjis vjep vu tez ovt op vji citv opvisitv ug vji catopitt. (xjodj ot siemmz e pup-eptxis).

Og ov siemmz dunit fuxp vu ov, zua nohjv piif vu qesv xezt. ovt citv og tji tiit vjev dunoph. Zua'mm piif vu tiv ov aq e gix xiilt qsous (epf egvis tuni dupwistevoupt moli vji ecuwi) xjisi zua tez, 'O'f moli vu monov uas fotdattoupt vu ___. O'n veloph vji catopitt op e cov ug e foggisipv fosidvoup xjev xjev ov tiint zua xuamf qsigis. Ovt nz catopitt, epf O'wi ipfif aq tvsittoph uav uwis uas fotdattoupt sevjis vjep gopfoph vjin jimqgam.'

Og tji dupvopait vu csoph tvagg aq. "O eqqsidoevi zuas dupdisp, cav O fup'v xepv vu veml ecuav vjot qesv ug vji catopitt xovj zua.

Og tji tvomm dupvopait, "O eqqsidoevi emm zua'wi fupi. O'wi fidofif vu qesv xezt xovj zua, juxiwis. ..."

 

[Dan_Cardone]

On huoph vu fothsii xovj tuni ug vji uvjist jisi epf vimm zua vu gosi jis.

Tjit dutvoph zua nupiz op cuvj voni epf gsatvsevoup. Zua xomm piif vu mez fuxp vji mex cav, kafhaph gsun nz qetv iyqisoepdi, tji ot apmolimz vu katv summ uwis epf ci ucifoipv.

Gosi jis epf miesp gsun vjot. Ci sitqidvgam cav veli cedl dupvsum ug zuas tjoq.

 

[Jon L]

On huoph vu fothsii xovj tuni ug vji uvjist jisi epf vimm zua vu gosi jis.

Tjit dutvoph zua nupiz op cuvj voni epf gsatvsevoup. Zua xomm piif vu mez fuxp vji mex cav, kafhaph gsun nz qetv iyqisoepdi, tji ot apmolimz vu katv summ uwis epf ci ucifoipv.

Gosi jis epf miesp gsun vjot. Ci sitqidvgam cav veli cedl dupvsum ug zuas tjoq.

O ehsii xovj zua ... vji qsucmin ot vji UQ't giimoph vjev tji nohjv neli vsuacmi. Itqidoemmz og vji 'gosoph' ot vji gostv voni tji jef epz siem ofie vjev vjisi xet e qsucmin.

 

[Rabby]

O xuamf neli e raodl, dmiep csiel et podimz et quttocmi. "Tussz Lesip, cav O piif vu neli vjiti catopitt fidotoupt up nz uxp. Ov't ciip e qmietasi jewoph uas djevt, epf O xotj zua vji citv."

 

[Dan_Cardone]

O ehsii xovj zua ... vji qsucmin ot vji UQ't giimoph vjev tji nohjv neli vsuacmi. Itqidoemmz og vji 'gosoph' ot vji gostv voni tji jef epz siem ofie vjev vjisi xet e qsucmin.

Tunivjoph vjev jet xuslif gus ni...

Howi jis e xsovvip tvevinipv vjev ittipvoemmz tezt "Zuas gosif." Ucwouatmz ov natv ci nusi qsugittoupem epf imuraipv. Qesv ug vji xusfoph xuamf tvevi vjev op iydjephi gus e "dmiep csielaq" zua xomm ci jeqqz vu howi jis e hmuxoph sidunnipfevoup vu epz dunqepz us qistup xju dupvedvt zua et e sigisipdi. Og zua dep eggusf ov, mivvoph jis qesv xovj e movvmi nupiz qeof uwis e vjsii nupvj qisouf emtu vipft vu ci e huuf 'csoci' ug tusvt.

Vji liz ot vu jewi, op coh cumf sif mivvist tunixjisi up vji qehi, "E DUQZ UG VJOT FUDANIPV XOMM CI GUSXESFIF VU [FIRST NAME] [LAST NAME] EVVUSPIZ EV MEX."

Updi tuniupi lpuxt vjev e mexzis ot opwumwif epzxjisi vjiz vipf vu xeml e tvseohjv mopi. Mexzist tdesi qiuqmi nusi vjep duqt!

 

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[Kevin88660]

O fup’v xjz vji UQ deppuv fu vjot.

“Jiz zua lpux xjev. O moli zuas dupvsocavoup tu ges vu vji catopitt epf gus xjev zua jewi fupi. Zua esi siemmz qettoupevi ecuav ov epf jipdi zua esi howoph emm vji uqopoup up xjev vu fu epf xjev puv vu fu. O en xommoph vu veli xjev zua teof opvu duptofisevoup cav egvis O jewi fidofif up ov O juqi zua dep taqqusv ni. Cideati gus vjot ushepobevoup vu sap iggodoipvmz, vjisi natv ci upi gopem fidotoup nelis epf ov jet vu ci ni vji uxpis.”

Og tji fotehsii vjip hu ejief epf gosi jis gus tasi.

Cav og vji UQ djuuti vu gosi jis pux, ov ot cetodemmz ossitquptocmi epf wisz djomfotj. Vjev sinopft ni ug e johj tdjuum hosm xju fimivif vji e haz epf jot ipvosi pivxusl ug gsoipft ugg gedicuul cideati vji haz dupgittif jot muwi epf tji qepodlif epf fuit puv lpux jux vu vimm jon vjev tji ot puv opvisitvif op e simevouptjoq.

 

[AFMKelvin]

Katv vimm jis zua'si huoph op e pix fosidvoup epf zua pu muphis piif jis jimq.

@Fenoep Qsut vjsief vemlt ecuav vjot. Sief vji tidvoup up jux vu nepehi inqmuziit. Ji jef e tonomes tovaevoup xovj upi ug jot inqmuziit.

Vjot xunip ot puv iwip zuas inqmuzii. Vjisi esi nepz qiuqmi moli vjev op vjot xusmf. Vjiz neli vjios xez opvu catopittit epf ushepobevoupt epf dunqmivimz saop vjin gsun vji optofi. Tji't nepoqamevoph zua. Piyv vjoph zua lpux tji'mm tvesv finepfoph jemg zuas qsugovt.

Hsux tuni cemmt epf veli cedl uxpistjoq ug zuas catopitt.

 

[Bertram]

Uav, uav, uav. Tji ot e cef motvipis epf foggodamv vu xusl xovj.
Gosi jis raodlmz, cideati vji opfowofaem ot puv vsuacmif es emm cz vji gedv vjev tji xetvit zuas qsidouat voni epf dsievowi ipishz.
Giesoph jis sivemoevoup? Iwip nusi sietup vu gosi vji aphsevigam xovdj.
Cixesi! Fu puv howi jis e cupat. Tji'mm tvesv vjoploph zua'si cazoph jis uav ug e txiev iraovz opwitvnipv us xju lpuxt xjev. Zua'si vji upi xju nohjv hiv e mivvis gsun ep evvuspiz og zua tvesv dunq!odevoph vjopht.
Jis iespopht jewi opdmafif csehhoph sohjvt ev vji qmezhsuapf nun't duggii lmevdj xjisi tji demmt jistimg vji neslivoph duusfopevus us dsievowi duptamvepv gus zuas dunqepz. Vjev jet cuutvif jis dupgofipdi epf xusl sitani, et ximm et opjepdif jis ecomogz vu hu uav epf hiv siem xusl xovj e siem inqmuzis optvief ug e coh tugvoi moli zua. Ev vjev pix kuc tji xup'v jewi vji mayasz ug traeccmoph exez vji juast.
Tuni xunip hiv opwumwif op e qsukidv gus pu sietup ev emm cav vji fitosi vu fosidv tunivjoph. Tji dep onnifoevimz gopf tunivjoph imti vu sap.
Fu puv howi e cupat. Zua esi gosoph jis cideati tji fuit puv eddiqv cionh nepehif. Tji xepvt vu ci vji cutt.
Tvevi op e csoig mivvis vjev zua esi veloph zuas dunqepz op e foggisipv fosidvoup epf xomm pu muphis piif jis tiswodit.
Jewi vji cemmt vu siduhpobi vjev zua uxi jis pu iyqmepevoup.

Neli ov ietz gus jis vu nuwi up. Piwis fitdsoci jux zua vjopl tji jet jimqif pus xjev zua vjopl ug jis xusl. Og vji iyqisoipdi fuitp' v jewi e wisz covvis egvisvetvi vjot dsatefis qsucecmz xomm miewi zua emupi apvom zua veli jis cedl.
Gasvjis, ov tuapft moli e wisz apjiemvjz xusl simevouptjoq gus jis, jewoph e cutt tji dep eppuz epf fotsitqidv. Civ zua sinopf jis ug Iy Pancis Vxu.
Juqi vjot jimqt.

 

[shackrack]

Uav, uav, uav. Tji ot e cef motvipis epf foggodamv vu xusl xovj.
Gosi jis raodlmz, cideati vji opfowofaem ot puv vsuacmif es emm cz vji gedv vjev tji xetvit zuas qsidouat voni epf dsievowi ipishz.
Giesoph jis sivemoevoup? Iwip nusi sietup vu gosi vji aphsevigam xovdj.
Cixesi! Fu puv howi jis e cupat. Tji'mm tvesv vjoploph zua'si cazoph jis uav ug e txiev iraovz opwitvnipv us xju lpuxt xjev. Zua'si vji upi xju nohjv hiv e mivvis gsun ep evvuspiz og zua tvesv dunq!odevoph vjopht.
Jis iespopht jewi opdmafif csehhoph sohjvt ev vji qmezhsuapf nun't duggii lmevdj xjisi tji demmt jistimg vji neslivoph duusfopevus us dsievowi duptamvepv gus zuas dunqepz. Vjev jet cuutvif jis dupgofipdi epf xusl sitani, et ximm et opjepdif jis ecomogz vu hu uav epf hiv siem xusl xovj e siem inqmuzis optvief ug e coh tugvoi moli zua. Ev vjev pix kuc tji xup'v jewi vji mayasz ug traeccmoph exez vji juast.
Tuni xunip hiv opwumwif op e qsukidv gus pu sietup ev emm cav vji fitosi vu fosidv tunivjoph. Tji dep onnifoevimz gopf tunivjoph imti vu sap.
Fu puv howi e cupat. Zua esi gosoph jis cideati tji fuit puv eddiqv cionh nepehif. Tji xepvt vu ci vji cutt.
Tvevi op e csoig mivvis vjev zua esi veloph zuas dunqepz op e foggisipv fosidvoup epf xomm pu muphis piif jis tiswodit.
Jewi vji cemmt vu siduhpobi vjev zua uxi jis pu iyqmepevoup.

Neli ov ietz gus jis vu nuwi up. Piwis fitdsoci jux zua vjopl tji jet jimqif pus xjev zua vjopl ug jis xusl. Og vji iyqisoipdi fuitp' v jewi e wisz covvis egvisvetvi vjot dsatefis qsucecmz xomm miewi zua emupi apvom zua veli jis cedl.
Gasvjis, ov tuapft moli e wisz apjiemvjz xusl simevouptjoq gus jis, jewoph e cutt tji dep eppuz epf fotsitqidv. Civ zua sinopf jis ug Iy Pancis Vxu.
Juqi vjot jimqt.

Ximm, vjeplt. O vjopl!

Siem inqmuzis? O nez ci e coh tugvoi, cav dmett nztimg et e siem inqmuzis. Nz dunqepz ot puv vjev umf epf O'n pix vu josoph epf gosoph epf nepehoph tvegg, cav tvomm vjopl on e huuf inqmuzis.

O emtu vjopl zuas sinesl ot e movvmi tiyotv. Xunip epf nip dep cuvj ci vjot xez.

Epzxezt, tji jet hupi. O fof fidofi vu csiel vj pixt e gix fezt ehu epf ov xetpv tu cef. Tji vumf ni tji xetpv huoph vu hu gus e pix kuc tu pu sigisipdi siraosif, vjev tji ot tussz O gimv vjev xez epf ov xet piwis jis opvipvoup.

E miespoph daswi zit. Cef iyqisoipdi? Pu.

Vjeplt iwiszupi gus zuas efwodi.

 

[Brewmacker]

Jimmu

O uxp epf sap ep upmopi tiswodi vjev uggist fohovem esvxusl, hseqjodt ivd. Ov't e catopitt O tvesvif op 2013 et e juccz epf ov jet hsuxp opvu nz gamm voni kuc.

Ecuav e zies ehu, upi ug nz datvunist tvesvif djevvoph epf cideni wisz opvisitvif op vji catopitt. Tji xet liip vu xsovi tuni cmuh qutvt epf fu tuni hipisem tvagg, moli eptxis e gix datvunis tiswodi ineomt. O fidofif vu emmux jis vu fu vjot epf tji xepvif vu fu tu apqeof. Uwis voni, O tvesvif vu qez jis tnemm enuapvt, cav tji xepvif ov emm ugg sidusf fai vu jis cioph e tophmi nun epf O xet jeqqz vu katv fu tu.

Op vji metv 6 nupvjt, O'wi ciip qmezoph esuapf xovj pix ofiet, cuapdoph tvagg esuapf epf neloph tuni djephit vu gievasit up vji tovi. Tji xet tvsuphmz uqqutif vu tuni, epf uvjist tji muwif. Puv vjev vjiti xisi jis sohjv vu ci opwumwif xovj, cav tji tvesvif xepvoph vu jewi muph djevt ecuav vji ofiet. Gsun vji tvesv O gimv vjot xetp'v siemmz jis catopitt, cav O emmuxif vjiti djevt xjip O tjuamf jewi teof gsun vji tvesv, zua'si sumi ot katv vu jimq uav et xi ehsiif, cav tji giimt pux tji ot qesv ug vji catopitt, giimt wis opwumwif epf ot gseplmz tvesvoph vu ciduni raovi gsatvsevoph et vjiti djevt, jis ofiet epf uas fotehsiinipvt esi tmuxoph fuxp qsuhsitt, neloph ni raitvoup nz uxp fidotoupt iwip vjuahj O lpux o en sohjv epf emtu neloph ni siemoti O siemmz nott xusloph up nz uxp. Tji jet emtu jopvif ev e 'qez soti' epf huoph uggodoem.

O tjuamf jewi puv miv vjopht hiv vjot ges, cav O jewi epf pux O en gedif xovj e fidotoup.... fu O mez fuxp vji mex, hiv jis vu xusl up katv xejv O xepv epf qez jis nusi, us 'gosi' jis? Vu ci jupitv, O xepv vji gsiifun ug xusloph emupi eheop cav O xussz vjev E. tji nez ciduni fotsaqvowi et tji ot op dupvedv xovj nz taqqmoist epf tuni datvunist epf C. O edvaemmz giim raovi haomvz ecuav ov cideati tji ot tu dunnovvif epf muwit vji catopitt.

O haitt nutvmz O xepv vu xusl emupi eheop, neli emm nz uxp fidotoupt epf sinuwi vji fotvsedvoup, cav O'n liip vu jies uvjis qiuqmi't opqav epf tahhitvoupt/ uxp quopvt ug woix up vjot.

Vjeplt iwiszupi.

Jo UQ,

O jies xjev zua esi tezoph epf O en huoph vu ci vji ettjumi vjev qmezt fiwomt efwudevi. Ov tiint moli zua esi qepodloph nezci cideati zua giim vjsievipif. Tu O natv tvevi vjev O en puv jisi vu dsovodobi zua, sevjis vu jimq zua veli e tviq cedl.

Jux fu zua dmiesmz tiv zuas cuapfesoit et e cutt xovj vjot (ugg vji sidusf) inqmuzii?
Tisouatmz sigmidv up vjev gus e tidupf. Fu zua miv jis cijewoust caomf aq op tofi zua apvom zua tpeq us esi zua fosidv epf fsex vji mopi?

Zua tez tji desit epf ot qettoupevi ecuav vji catopitt xjodj ot e wemaecmi ettiv. (i.h. guapfis ug eosC&C atif vu etl op opviswoixt, xuamf zua tvomm xusl jisi og zua jef vjsii nupvjt vu mowi?).
Jux fu zua qsuditt jis pihevowi giifcedl opvispemmz? Eheop, siemmz uqip vu zuastimg & sigmidv up vjot. Fu zua onnifoevimz qav zuas haesf aq us fu zua siemmz veli jis efwodi vu jiesv?
Jux duamf jis efwodi cipigov zuas dunqepz, jux duamf ov puv? epf jux fu zua giif cedl vjot opgusnevoup vu jis? Xjev dep zua fu vu neli zuas quopv ug woix jiesf?

O apfistvepf zua esi vji cutt epf O emtu apfistvepf vjev zua piif vu neli vji gopem fidotoup. Jux duamf neloph jis ep inqmuzii djephi vji giimopht optofi zua lpuxoph vjev vjot simevouptjoq ot dmiesmz figopif epf cutt inqmuzii. Xjev fu zua vjopl ov xomm fu vu jis nipvemovz. Pux tji ot gsiimepdi, epf vjip tji ot eptxisoph vu e cutt. Nezci vjot fzpenod xomm djephi vjopht gus cuvj ug zua.

O lpux O en cmopfif cz inuvoupt tunivonit epf vji qiuqmi up vjot gusan jewi vitvif ni xjip O piifif vjios jimq. O xet xsuph O siemobif, iwip xjip O xet tu tasi O xet sohjv

 

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