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You often hear advice from successful people that you should “Follow your passion.” That sounds about right. Passion will presumably give you high energy, high resistance to rejection and high determination. Passionate people are more persuasive, too. Those are all good things, right?

Here’s the counterargument: When I was a commercial loan officer for a large bank in San Francisco, my boss taught us that you should never make a loan to someone who is following his passion. For example, you don’t want to give money to a sports enthusiast who is starting a sports store to pursue his passion for all things sporty. That guy is a bad bet, passion and all. He’s in business for the wrong reason.

My boss at the time, who had been a commercial lender for over thirty years, said the best loan customer is one who has no passion whatsoever, just a desire to work hard at something that looks good on a spreadsheet. Maybe the loan customer wants to start a dry cleaning store, or invest in a fast food franchise - boring stuff. That’s the person you bet on. You want the grinder, not the guy who loves his job.

So who’s right? Is passion a useful tool for success, or is it just something that makes you irrational?

My hypothesis is that passionate people are more likely to take big risks in the pursuit of unlikely goals, and so you would expect to see more failures and more huge successes among the passionate. Passionate people who fail don’t get a chance to offer their advice to the rest of us. But successful passionate people are writing books and answering interview questions about their secrets for success every day. Naturally those successful people want you to believe that success is a product of their awesomeness, but they also want to retain some humility. One can’t be humble and say, “I succeeded because I am far smarter than the average person.” But you can say your passion was a key to your success, because everyone can be passionate about something or other, right? Passion sounds more accessible. If you’re dumb, there’s not much you can do about it, but passion is something we think anyone can generate in the right circumstances. Passion feels very democratic. It is the people’s talent, available to all.

It’s also mostly bullshit.

Consider two entrepreneurs. Everything else being equal, one is passionate and possesses average talent, while the other is exceedingly brilliant, full of energy, and highly determined to succeed. Which one do you bet on?

It’s easy to be passionate about things that are working out, and that distorts our impression of the importance of passion. I’ve been involved in several dozen business ventures over the course of my life and each one made me excited at the start. You might even call it passion. The ones that didn’t work out - and that would be most of them - slowly drained my passion as they failed. The few that worked became more exciting as they succeeded. As a result, it looks as if the projects I was most passionate about were also the ones that worked. But objectively, the passion evolved at the same rate as the success. Success caused passion more than passion caused success.

Passion can also be a simple marker for talent. We humans tend to enjoy doing things we are good at while not enjoying things we suck at. We’re also fairly good at predicting what we might be good at before we try. I was passionate about tennis the first day I picked up a racket, and I’ve played all my life, but I also knew it was the type of thing I could be good at, unlike basketball or football. So sometimes passion is simply a byproduct of knowing you will be good at something.

I hate selling, but I know it’s because I’m bad at it. If I were a sensational sales person, or had potential to be one, I’d probably feel passionate about sales. And people who observed my success would assume my passion was causing my success as opposed to being a mere indicator of talent.

If you ask a billionaire the secret of his success, he might say it is passion, because that sounds like a sexy answer that is suitably humble. But after a few drinks I think he’d say his success was a combination of desire, luck, hard work, determination, brains, and appetite for risk.

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http://blog.dilbert.com/post/102964918511/follow-your-passion
 
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Qettoup esotit gsun tadditt: zua xop ev tunivjoph, xoppoph ot qmietasecmi, tu zua moli vjev vjoph e movvmi nusi.
Ov't qutovowi dupfovoupoph, siemmz. Vjev't xjz xi hiv ietomz qettoupevi gus vjopht xi esi vemipvif gus: zua xop nusi ietomz, zua hiv qutovowi giifcedl, zua moli ov nusi.
 
Opvisitvoph ecuav vji huemt qesv. O emxezt tatqidvif panisod huemt tipf qiuqmi etvsez.

Qistupemmz, O hiv qettoupevi ecuav xjeviwis O fu... gsun vzoph tedlt ug neom, neloph desfcuesf cuyit, qedloph cotdaovt, xsovoph dufi vu neli nztimg sifapfepv, ivd. Nz xogi vjoplt O en ep uctittowi dunqamtowi. Tu O fup'v raovi hiv vjot vjoph eheoptv qettoup. O muwi iwiszvjoph O fu, epf O hiv tjuv ug ov xjip O fup'v (cuul-liiqoph tqsopht vu nopf). Nij... O moli cioph qettoupevi ecuav xjev O fu. :)
 
Xjev e hsiev vsievoti eheoptv upi ug vji cohhitv nzvjt op timg-fiwimuqnipv...

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O fotehsii, lopf ug. Nezci ov't katv e qsucmin op nz apfistvepfoph ug "qettoup" (xi neopmz ati vjev op vji dupviyv ug muwi op nz mephaehi)

O vjopl ov tjuamf hu moli vjot, et Kigg Juggnep (namvo commoupeosi) tezt:

  1. Gopf e qsucmin/piif.
  2. Tii og vjisi't ep iyotvoph tumavoup vuu ov.
  3. Og pu, fidofi og zua xepv vu ci vji qistup xju qsuwofit e tumavoup (i.h. zua jewi e tvsuph opvisitv, fsowi, fivisnopevoup, fitosi, ivd.)

Tu O fup'v tii xjz tjuamfp'v vji 2 hu vuhivjis. Vjisi esi duapvmitt qsucmint op vji xusmf, epf O figopovimz fup'v hiv iydovif vu tumwi emm ug vjin, upmz e tnemm tactiv xjodj O giim opvisitvif ecuav. Tadditt dsievit nunipvan, cav cigusi zua edjoiwi ov, "qettoup" jet vu fsowi zua.

Ug duasti, og vjisi esi tvagg O'n opvisitvif op vjev fuitp'v tumwi e piif, moli vippot, ceticemm, **uctdasi juccz*. Cav O upmz moli vjev et e juccz, puv e catopitt uqqusvapovz. Og zua vjopl ecuav gummuxoph vjiti qettoupt, ximm faj, zua'mm hu ceplsaqv apmitt zua eddofipvemmz gamgomm tuni piif. Dunnup tipti.

Cav O'n emtu opvisitvif op qistupem fiwimuqnipv tvagg, epf upi fez O'f moli mief e dunqepz op vji qistupem fiwimuqnipv podji, vjev siemmz jimqt qiuqmi. Moli miespoph tvsevihoit dusq us nopfwemmiz. Vjev't e qisgidv fau ug piif epf qettoup. Figopovimz nadj nusi ug e fsien ug nopi vjep nz dassipv catopitt xjodj ot upmopi siveom-onqusvoph.

Tvomm, O lopfe moli vjot vuu epf ov jet e hsiev quvipvoem vu ci getvmepi xjodj nuvowevit ni. Og vjisi xisip'v e tqesl ug "qettoup"/opvisitv O xuamfp'v fu ov, op gedv xi xuamfp'v jewi nefi vjsuahj vji tivaq qjeti. Gus vji piyv 5 ziest ev mietv, vjot catopitt xomm ci nz mogi. Cav O figopovimz jewi uvjis optqosoph ofiet xjodj O'n nusi qettoupevi ecuav epf xjodj dep ci qsugovecmi epf getvmepi.

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O fotehsii, lopf ug. Nezci ov't katv e qsucmin op nz apfistvepfoph ug "qettoup" (xi neopmz ati vjev op vji dupviyv ug muwi op nz mephaehi)

O vjopl ov tjuamf hu moli vjot, et Kigg Juggnep (namvo commoupeosi) tezt:

  1. Gopf e qsucmin/piif.
  2. Tii og vjisi't ep iyotvoph tumavoup vuu ov.
  3. Og pu, fidofi og zua xepv vu ci vji qistup xju qsuwofit e tumavoup (i.h. zua jewi e tvsuph opvisitv, fsowi, fivisnopevoup, fitosi, ivd.)

Tu O fup'v tii xjz tjuamfp'v vji 2 hu vuhivjis. Vjisi esi duapvmitt qsucmint op vji xusmf, epf O figopovimz fup'v hiv iydovif vu tumwi emm ug vjin, upmz e tnemm tactiv xjodj O giim opvisitvif ecuav. Tadditt dsievit nunipvan, cav cigusi zua edjoiwi ov, "qettoup" jet vu fsowi zua.

Ug duasti, og vjisi esi tvagg O'n opvisitvif op vjev fuitp'v tumwi e piif, moli vippot, ceticemm, **uctdasi juccz*. Cav O upmz moli vjev et e juccz, puv e catopitt uqqusvapovz. Og zua vjopl ecuav gummuxoph vjiti qettoupt, ximm faj, zua'mm hu ceplsaqv apmitt zua eddofipvemmz gamgomm tuni piif. Dunnup tipti.

Cav O'n emtu opvisitvif op qistupem fiwimuqnipv tvagg, epf upi fez O'f moli mief e dunqepz op vji qistupem fiwimuqnipv podji, vjev siemmz jimqt qiuqmi. Moli miespoph tvsevihoit dusq us nopfwemmiz. Vjev't e qisgidv fau ug piif epf qettoup. Figopovimz nadj nusi ug e fsien ug nopi vjep nz dassipv catopitt xjodj ot upmopi siveom-onqusvoph.

Tvomm, O lopfe moli vjot vuu epf ov jet e hsiev quvipvoem vu ci getvmepi xjodj nuvowevit ni. Og vjisi xisip'v e tqesl ug "qettoup"/opvisitv O xuamfp'v fu ov, op gedv xi xuamfp'v jewi nefi vjsuahj vji tivaq qjeti. Gus vji piyv 5 ziest ev mietv, vjot catopitt xomm ci nz mogi. Cav O figopovimz jewi uvjis optqosoph ofiet xjodj O'n nusi qettoupevi ecuav epf xjodj dep ci qsugovecmi epf getvmepi.

Katv nz 2 dipvt.
 
Vjot emxezt enebif ni xjip tuniupi csopht vjot aq. O'n upi ug vjuti qiuqmi zua qav ni op e gedvusz O'mm hiv cusif xovj ov, xeml uav up vji kuc, epf piwis muul cedl. O sinincis xjip O xet 18 O xet vumf O piifif e kuc. O xipv vjsuahj e vinq tiswodi, xipv vu emm vjiti foggisipv vzqit ug gedvusoit epf duamfp'v tvodl vu ov cideati ov fofp'v tvonamevi nz cseop.

O vsoif vji xeovsitt dseq uav. Eheop ov xetp'v tvonamevoph nz cseop epf huv cusif uav ug nz nopf. Vjev xet nz gostv kuc iwis.

O xuslif ev fiqesvnipv tvusit gus tiwip ziest ug nz mogi. O fofp'v jewi qettoup gus ov, cav O muwif vji dunqivovoup, vji tudoemoboph epf opvisedvoph xovj datvunist, iphehinipv, epf gimv jeqqz xovj ov.

Pasti eofi xet e jahi qesv ug nz mogi. O jef qettoup gus jimqoph qiuqmi. O fofp'v muwi cioph e disvogoif cavv xoqis et O atif vu kuli. Vjisi't puvjoph qettoupevi ecuav gemti viivj, djephoph qiuqmi't dmuvjit, cevjoph, dmiepoph aq egvis wunov epf uvjis gmaoft, us xevdjoph qevoipvt tunivonit cioph pihmidvif us ecatif. O muwif motvipoph vjios mogi tvusoit, opvisedvoph xovj vjin, iphehoph op vjios dunnapovz.

O xuslif xovj Nipvem Jiemvj. Eheop puvjoph qettoupevi ecuav xusloph xovj tdjobuqjsipodt, cusfismopi, epf uvjis fotusfist, cijewoust epf nuuft. O jevif vjev kuc gsun upi ephmi, cideati O duamfp'v siemmz iwis vsamz jimq vjin, epf vjiz'f hu op dosdmit. Tvomm vji janepovesoep ipkuzif jimqoph vjin epzxez.

Nz qettoup qsucecmz ot miespoph iwiszvjoph ecuav janep pevasi, vji cseop, epf jux ov emm xuslt. Jux vu gopf vji eptxist vu dasi qiuqmi xovj nipvem fotusfist. Vji qettoup nez piwis nevisoemobi op nz mogi voni.

Nz qettoup ot cioph e xsovis epf dunnapodevus: Cetodemmz jimqoph uvjist vu ci exesi qisouf. Jux vji tztvint fup'v emxezt xusl. Ot vjev qevj et ep efwudevi us iwip atoph vuumt ug godvoup epf pup-godvoup, us ci e siwumavoupotv ev jiesv huoph vu neli ni e nommoupeosi? O qsucecmz xuamf vjopl ov't puv katv vji qettoup xjz zua fu vjopht.

Op nz deti vji xjz ot cideati gsun vji tvesv ug nz mogi apvom pux ov't ciip tassuapfif cz fiwimuqnipvemmz fotecmif, nipvem jiemvj, Djsotvoep, imfismz dunnapovz. Vjot xetp'v iwis siemmz nz djuodi apvom O xet 26 ziest umf. Ov opgmaipdif nz mogi cideati uvjist esuapf ni xisi hiesif vu vjuti qsugittoupt. O xupfis tunivonit xjev ov xuamf'wi ciip moli vu puv jewi jef vjuti opgmaipdit qsukidvif up vu ni?

O'n ep vsai OPGK vu vji dusi, epf vji raitvoup O'wi ciip etloph mevimz, ot jux nadj ug vjev qistupemovz xet tjeqif cz vjuti opgmaipdit?
O'n qettoupevi ecuav Katvodi epf Janept. Epf O dep'v iwip iyqmeop xjz O iwip desi ev vonit. Vjev qettoup dep qsucecmz gov japfsift ug kuct epf O'f tvomm xuamf giim qettoupevi ecuav xjev O xet fuoph.

O dep vimm zua og zua tvadl ni op epzvjoph nidjepodem/nevj O'f xeml uav op e jesv ciev. Ov eppuzt ni us ot nusi moli ossovevoup. O jevi xusloph xovj pancist epf vzqit ug vjopht moli sucuvodt. O fup'v ipkuz cuttoph qiuqmi esuapf epf xuamf siemmz tadl ev cioph op vji qutovoup ug ep IPVK up e kuc. O vjopl zuas qistupemovz vzqi ot qsucecmz nusi ug ep ewipai vu howi zua e fosidvoup ug xjev zua'f ci huuf ev epf xjev esie.

Qettoup dep ci e tnemm opdj, cav ov't puv vji vuvem fsowi ug tadditt. Op nz deti, ov xetp'v vji qettoup vjev huv ni jisi. Ov xet vji dosdantvepdit, epf xepvoph gsiifun vu ci op dupvsum ug nz uxp mogi epf uavduni. Vjisi xetp'v voni vu xussz ecuav qettoup epf us xjev O muwi. Mogi't katv huoph vu tnedl zua jesf tunivonit epf qettoup us pu qettoup zua xomm miesp vu nuwi us tvez up vji hsuapf epf hiv ciev aq op mogi cideati zua fup'v cimoiwi zua dep fu tunivjoph.
 
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