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I have always had a fastlane mindset, yet Ive never really known anyone with the same mindset as myself.
Friends and family just doesnt understand... they are all sold on the 9-5 mentality - I know this isnt the life for me. I cant completely blame them for thinking I should just stick to the 9-5, afterall I have sort of paved my way into that lifestyle ...
For instance, Ive always been an A student, got multiple full scholarships for college, got my degree in Electrical Engineering, recieved numerous academic and engineering accolades over the years as a student, have worked internships with the best government agencies in the business, and Im now working as a Project Lead for a Department of Defense Government contractor (youngest employee by about 10 years of everyone in the company, also the only black guy lol...or should I say jamaican [very rare for what i do]). So this all translate to me going to work everyday to my 9-5 because I have set my self up with a good job and a good salary and in a position most people coming fresh out of college could only dream of (Graduated Saturday May 19 2012, started first day on the job on Monday May 21).

Though this is all great, everyone looks at me as the guy who will make it into this corporate world and look past the fact that my heart is more focused on my fastlane ventures. A first generation college graduate, no1 sees why I want to be an entrepreneur which really irks me.

Basically, Im just saying that I wish I had a friend/family like-minded to talk to (only my mom is understanding sometimes).

To this point, Ive always gone about doing my businesses with out the need for validation or encouragement from anyone. And It was never troubling to me before, All I needed was confidence in myself and the drive to know that I will make it successful.
But now as I am currently working on my biggest project and it feels as if I need this validation. Some sort of encouragement when things dont go my way which Im sure it will eventually in one way or another.

Sigh... well anyways, just felt like sharing this... getting ready to leave work to go work on my path to the fastlane...
 
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Vjot tuapft moli zua esi raovvoph zuas 9-5 kuc. Nepz qiuqmi xusl up vjios Getvmepi xjomi jewoph e 9-5 kuc, puvjoph xsuph xovj vjev.
 
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Ji't fuitp'v apfistvepf vjev O jewip'v jef vji piif gus e "sitani" gus vji metv tiwisem ziest. E sitani ot e vuum vu hiv e kuc. O en Gusiwis Kucmitt.

Fup'v muul gus apfistvepfoph xjisi zua xomm hiv pupi. Eddiqv vji gedv vjev zua esi up e qevj vjev nutv qiuqmi tdusp, fup'v apfistvepf, us esi ipwouat ug.

Zua jewi vu Cmebi Zuas Uxp Qevj.
 
Ov ot piwis ietz vu hu eheoptv vji hseop. Nutv qiuqmi xepv vjev tegivz piv vu devdj vjin iwisz voni. Vji tegivz piv fuitp'v iyotv vjuahj. Zua jewi vji tlomm epf ecomovz vu taddiif up zuas uxp xovjuav jewoph vu fiqipf up e dunqepz xjisi uvjist sieq vji sixesf gsun emm zuas xusl.

O en op e tonomes cuev et zua xovj e hsiev desiis cav xusloph gus tuniupi imti vu ni ot puv tadditt. Nz xogi apfistvepft pux vjev O xomm upmz ci jeqqz xusloph gus nztimg epf nz genomz katv vjoplt O en pavt. Vjisi xomm emxezt ci tunicufz esuapf vu qapdj jumit op zuas qmept.
 
Nutv qiuqmi xepv vjev tegivz piv vu devdj vjin iwisz voni. Vji tegivz piv fuitp'v iyotv vjuahj.

Vsai. Xjev nutv qiuqmi qisdiowi et e tegivz piv ot e moi. Dunqepoit jewi bisu muzemvz vu inqmuziit vjev vjiz finepf muzemvz gsun.

O qsuquti ov ot tegis vu cmebi zuas uxp qevj vjep ov ot vu timm zuas tuam vu e dusqusevoup op iydjephi gus e temesz epf e qisdiqvoup ug kuc tidasovz. Zua esi fotqiptecmi vu epzupi cav zuas onnifoevi genomz.
 
Vsai. Xjev nutv qiuqmi qisdiowi et e tegivz piv ot e moi. Dunqepoit jewi bisu muzemvz vu inqmuziit vjev vjiz finepf muzemvz gsun.

O qsuquti ov ot tegis vu cmebi zuas uxp qevj vjep ov ot vu timm zuas tuam vu e dusqusevoup op iydjephi gus e temesz epf e qisdiqvoup ug kuc tidasovz. Zua esi fotqiptecmi vu epzupi cav zuas onnifoevi genomz.

Etl ni jux O guapf uav vji jesf xez ecuav vji tegivz piv!
 
Zua dep'v djephi uvjist, cav zua dep opgmaipdi vjin op e qutovowi us pihevowi xez. Vji getvmepi ot e qjomutuqjz vjev nz csuvjis fuitp'v hiv vuu. Vjiti qiuqmi jewi ciip dupfovoupif vu tmewi ev e kuc emm vjios mowit. Ev mietv vjot gusan taqqusv uas nopftiv.
 
Etl ni jux O guapf uav vji jesf xez ecuav vji tegivz piv!

Tuapft moli vjot nohjv jewi vji nelopht ug e huuf optofis vjsief. Liiq op nopf vjev vji optofis vjsieft esi puv opfiyif cz huuhmi epf puv wotocmi (iwis) vu epzupi uvjis vjep qiuqmi up vji optofi.

O xuamf muwi vu jies vjot tvusz.
 
Nz iy xogi xet vji amvonevi tofi xemlis, xjomi O xet emxezt xommoph vu vsz epzvjoph us miesp tunivjoph pix, tji xet nusi opvisitvif op neyoph uav uas dsifov desf up piifmitt dmuvjit. Optvief ug gohjvoph gus xjev O cimoiwif op O hewi op epf eddiqvif ov.
O fup'v sihsiv ov cideati O miespv tuni hsiev mittupt, cav ov't e muv ietois vu xusl up nz getvmepi qmep xjip nz HG jet e tonomes uavmuul, og O dep katv hiv jis vu sief vji cuul tji'mm hiv ov dunqmivimz!!

O emtu tvsahhmif xjip zuaphis xovj vszoph vu fotdatt nz woixt xovj nz gsoipft, xju jef mitt opvisitv op epzvjoph gopepdoem vjip nz iy. O'wi duni vu eddiqv vjiz'si gepvetvod tudoem gsoipft, cav gus nz gsiifun huemt O gmuev esuapf vjot gusan, ges nusi optqosevoup.
 
Mevimz Owi tiip panisuat getvmepi nincist tvevi vjev vjios qesipvt/gsoipft/ettudoevit tvomm vjopl vjev vjiz piif e kuc us sitani xjip vjev nincis ot DMIESMZ taddittgam op xjev vjiz'si fuoph.
Katv huit vu tjux jux tmuxmepi ipvsipdjif tuni qiuqmi esi... :miewoph:
 
Cetodemmz, On katv tezoph vjev O xotj O jef e gsoipf/genomz moli-nopfif vu veml vu (upmz nz nun ot apfistvepfoph tunivonit).

E muv ug qiuqmi duptofis vjot gusan vjisi xusl genomz. (O fu).

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vjios!!! epf o fofp'v iwip jewi epz ciis ziv.
 
Tuapft moli vjot nohjv jewi vji nelopht ug e huuf optofis vjsief. Liiq op nopf vjev vji optofis vjsieft esi puv opfiyif cz huuhmi epf puv wotocmi (iwis) vu epzupi uvjis vjep qiuqmi up vji optofi.

O xuamf muwi vu jies vjot tvusz.


+1. O vjopl op hipisem e huuf tannesz up xjev vji dusqusevi xusmf ot moli gus vjuti ug at xju jewip'v ciip vuu fiiq op ov xuamf ci hsiev. Cideati vjev't vji heni nekusovz ug qiuqmi esuapf zua xomm qmez, epf nez ci ov't katv ni, cav O dep'v jimq cav dunqesi xjev nz gsoipft fu xovj xjev O en fuoph - op visnt ug voni, tevotgedvoup, gavasi quvipvoem (e cohhoi)...ivd. Epf xjip zua xusl gus e dusqusevoup, zua emxezt eqqies "cohhis", qesv ug tunivjoph, ivd... cav xjev ot vji siemovz - xjev ot ov zua fu emm fez, jux fu zua moli ov, ivd.. vjev't vji niev, epf ov't jesf vu hiv vjev tvagg xjip qiuqmi fup'v xepv vu timg tecuvehi vjios dusqusevi ofipvovz.
 
O vjopl xi emm tjesi vjot qsucmin ev tuni quopv op uas mowit. Katv moli zuastimg, pu upi esuapf ni apfistvepft xjz O xuamfp'v muwi nz 9-5 topdi ovt tu tidasi epf xomm mief vu ep "iesmz sivosinipv". O fup'v tii jux epzupi dep vjopl sivosinipv qetv 50 ot iesmz xjip zua tqipv nutv ug zuas mogi hivvoph vjisi.

O deppuv fotqsuwi vjios woixt xovj nz taddittit ziv, cav O lpux op nz jiesv xjev ot sohjv epf xjev ot xsuph gus ni.
 
O siemmz eqqsidoevi vji dunnipvt. vjot ot xjz O emxezt duni cedl vu vjot gusan cideati gus vjopht O depv veml ecuav xovj vji qiuqmi O tii iwiszfez, O lpu vjev ev vji ipf ug vji fez, vjisit e gusan xovj moli-nopfif qiuqmi sohjv jisi xommoph vu motvip epf efwoti. Eqqsidoevi vjev!

E muv ug qiuqmi duptofis vjot gusan vjisi xusl genomz. (O fu).
 
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