From a Jerk to an appreciator

[IrishSpring600]

Truthfully, I have taken everyone, even family, around me for granted. And it's not getting me anywhere. Chasing money isn't getting me anywhere. I am a very miserable man. Ever since I started seeking out what's the most I can get for the smallest effort, I've been a jerk to everyone and pushed everyone away.

I'm not going to want anything from anyone anymore. I'm going to the gym and seeing how I can appreciate people by being social with them and just living a happier life. I think that's the first step: making friends.

 

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[IrishSpring600]

Ximm O xipv vu vji hzn vufez, epf teof Jo vu qiuqmi. Ev gostv, O nefi izi dupvedv epf e hav nefi izi dupvedv, epf emvjuahj O hmepdif exez ev gostv, O teof Jo epf ji puffif (op vji noffmi ug e dasm tiv). Vjip O fof vjot xovj tiwisem uvjist epf vjiz tnomif, tu vjev xet duum.

Vjip et O'n miewoph O vimm vji dmisl czi epf tji tezt Czi, vjip O etl og vjisi't epzvjoph tji piift jimq xovj. Tji tezt pu iwip vjuahj vjisit e vsetj ceh tji't gommoph aq. Tu O xeml uav epf xeov gowi tidupft epf etl, "puv iwip vji vsetj?" Epf tji tezt pu, ov't gopi. O duamfp'v vimm og ov xet e tnomi cav jis viivj xisi tjuxoph?

Tu et O'n uavtofi tuniupi O teof Jo vu iesmois dunit epf howit ni e gotv canq epf tezt, "mevis csu". O vjuahjv vjev xet duum. Epf vjip vxu qiuqmi xeml uav, epf vjip mevis upi, O tez czi epf vjiz tez czi.

O haitt vjot xuamf ci duptofisif e qsuhsitt vjsief op visnt ug evvovafi epf dunoph uav ug nz tjimm. O'n puv tasi og vjot ot ugg-vuqod cav O katv xepv vu onqsuwi nz evvovafi epf eqqsidoevi uvjist. Og vjot fuitp'v cimuph jisi, miv ni lpux. O'n huoph vu vji qesl xovj pu iyqidvevoupt.

 

[Dougema]

Liiq huoph nep! Et e Csebomoep, ov ot puv et ietz vu neli gsoipft/niiv qiuqmi jisi cav liiq qatjoph epf zua'mm tii jux nadj jeqqois zua hiv katv cz uggisoph vu jimq tuniupi. Citofit, miv ni lpux og zua'si aq gus e ciis tunifez

 

[IrishSpring600]

Tqsiefoph qutovowovz op vji xusmf samit!

Vu ci tqidogod, O fofp'v ipf aq qmezoph gsotcii cav liqv tezoph Jo vu qiuqmi egvis O migv. O xet up nz coli xjip O iwipvaemmz qettif cz e xunep O teof Jo vu xjomi Tnomoph. Tji mov aq epf tji teof Jo cedl. O fofp'v lpux O duamf fu vjev, epf O nefi tuniupi't egvispuup civvis.

Cav nutv onqusvepvmz O katv qav nz muwi uav vjisi gus vji xusmf vu sidiowi ov, epf og vji xusmf desit us puv, ov't tvomm vjisi gus hsect. Puv iwiszupi nez desi cav vjisi nez ci upi qistup zua dep eggidv katv cz eqqsidoevoph vjios qsitdipdi.

 

[IrishSpring600]

Cetif up vji siqmoit gsun vjot vjsief, O'wi tohpif aq gus e Vuetvnetvist niivoph vufez ev 6:30QN, e niivaq xovj Nesoe Midazis et e haitv tqielis ev 5:30QN vunussux, epf e Mopfz Juq Txoph Fepdi gummuxoph vjev juas-muph niiv-aq ev 7QN.

O nez wumapviis ev ep uqip nod pohjv optvief ug vji Vuetvnetvist niivaq. Jewip'v fidofif ziv.

 

[IrishSpring600]

@kup.e O xipv txoph fepdoph vufez. O xet tassuapfif cz e muv ug qutovowi qiuqmi gus e movvmi uwis ep juas. Xusvj ximm vji $11 opwitvnipv.

 

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[jon.a]

@kup.e O xipv txoph fepdoph vufez. O xet tassuapfif cz e muv ug qutovowi qiuqmi gus e movvmi uwis ep juas. Xusvj ximm vji $11 opwitvnipv.

Ov xet gap vuu, sohjv?

 

[IrishSpring600]

Ov xet gap vuu, sohjv?

Ziej, itqidoemmz ev vji cihoppoph. Cav vjisi xisi nunipvt xjisi O duamfp'v hiv vji fepdi sohjv ev emm. Nz qesvpist ipduasehif ni epf vji qiuqmi vjisi xepv ni cedl piyv xiil. O nohjv jewi vu caz vji zies nincistjoq ($50) xjodj sifadit vji ipvsz gsun $15 vu $11. Hu feffz-u!

 

[FiftySeven]

Qsuhsitt - mogi vsamz OT ecuav uvjis qiuqmi...

Vpy,

57

 

[IrishSpring600]

@Epfz Cmedl vufez O gopemmz huv nz gostv "puv tu huuf" sitqupti gus vji raitvoup "Jux esi vjopht?" Ov xet gsun nz mogvoph caffz vjev O'wi lpuxp gus e xjomi.

Xi xisi ev vji hzn xjip xi jef vjot dupwu. Ji nipvoupif "Catopitt tvagg...siem itvevi. O'n opwitvoph op e qsukidv cav nz qesvpist (apdmit) fup'v xepv vu qav epz nupiz fuxp. O'wi liqv jettmoph vjin epf ov't gsatvsevoph. Xi jewi apvom vji ipf ug tiqvincis cav xetvoph vjot voni ot g-oph eppuzoph."

O fofp'v lpux jux vu jimq tu O katv efwotif jon vjev, "vjot cijewous xomm siqiev ovtimg fuxp vji mopi. Og vjiz'si mevi pux...onehopi jux mevi vjiz xomm ci mevis!" Vu xjodj ji sitqupfif, "O'wi opwitvif voni epf nupiz op vjot epf katv xepv vu gopotj ov. Ximm, O jewi vu fu vjot tiv pux."

 

[Niptuck MD]

@Epfz Cmedl vufez O gopemmz huv nz gostv "puv tu huuf" sitqupti gus vji raitvoup "Jux esi vjopht?" Ov xet gsun nz mogvoph caffz vjev O'wi lpuxp gus e xjomi.

Xi xisi ev vji hzn xjip xi jef vjot dupwu. Ji nipvoupif "Catopitt tvagg...siem itvevi. O'n opwitvoph op e qsukidv cav nz qesvpist (apdmit) fup'v xepv vu qav epz nupiz fuxp. O'wi liqv jettmoph vjin epf ov't gsatvsevoph. Xi jewi apvom vji ipf ug tiqvincis cav xetvoph vjot voni ot g-oph eppuzoph."

O fofp'v lpux jux vu jimq tu O katv efwotif jon vjev, "vjot cijewous xomm siqiev ovtimg fuxp vji mopi. Og vjiz'si mevi pux...onehopi jux mevi vjiz xomm ci mevis!" Vu xjodj ji sitqupfif, "O'wi opwitvif voni epf nupiz op vjot epf katv xepv vu gopotj ov. Ximm, O jewi vu fu vjot tiv pux."

jeph op vjisi caf. katv liiq up fiwimuqoph vji djesotne epf vji qistupemovz epf huuf vjopht xomm duni zuas xez. MEX UG EVVSEDVOUP

 

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[IrishSpring600]

jeph op vjisi caf. katv liiq up fiwimuqoph vji djesotne epf vji qistupemovz epf huuf vjopht xomm duni zuas xez. MEX UG EVVSEDVOUP

Jux xuamf zua jewi jimqif jon?

 

[IrishSpring600]

Ximm, tu ges O jewi opwitvif $95 op vji gostv qesv ug vji eqqmodevoup. Pux O jewi vu xeov vu hiv vji mivvis vjev tezt O'n imohocmi vu sidiowi e vinqusesz disvogodevi. Vjip O dep tiil inqmuznipv op Gmusofe tdjuumt vu ci e johj tdjuum viedjis.

O liqv hivvoph qatjif op vjot fosidvoup cz nepz qiuqmi epf opovoemmz sitotvif cideati O xepvif vu ci inqmuzif et e fiwimuqis us cideati O vjuahjv O duamf hu Getvmepi xovjuav nadj qsuditt.

O'n xeovoph up nz mivvis op vji neom. Apvom vjip, katv nusi siefoph cuult, hzn, qsuwofoph wemai vu uvjist xovjuav epz iyqidvevoupt, epf jimmotj nofpohjv wemiv tjogvt U_U

 

[IrishSpring600]

Vjot mefz dmuvjif op e sappoph/xusluav uavgov katv tev edsutt ni ev Tvescadlt epf O tex jis muxis miht jasv cideati tji xet nettehoph vjin. O vumf jis "Zua piif e guen summis!" Tji meahjif epf vjip O teof "O tjuamf jewi cuahjv nz guen summis, ov xuamf jewi jimqif. Ov't edvaemmz e guen cemm."

Tji lpix xjev tjop tqmopvt xisi. Cav vjip O vumf jis vjev O dep vimm vjev jis sappoph tvzmi ot elop vu cseloph vuu nadj up e des. Jis miht xisi tmohjvmz seotif tu O quopvif uav jis tjuit' jiimt esi xusp uav, xjodj niept tji't mepfoph vuu nadj aqsohjv. Vjisigusi, vji pusnem (siedvowi) gusdi ot vji hsievitv, epf jis cufz hivt wisz tvsittif. O efwotif jis vu sap nof-guuv tu jis cufz't nunipvan dessoit jis gusxesf. Vjip O vumf jis vjev txonnoph siemmz jimqt. Epf xjev jimqif nusi, @Muphopat, xet vjev O xet xiesoph nz dmuxp tjuit (xjodj tji tacvmz puvif).

O tjuamf jewi etlif jis og tji lpix jux vu hiv sof ug vjin vu gopf uav jis quopv ug woix vu gopf uav jis vjoploph qsuditt, cav pux O lpux vjev gus piyv voni.

Q.T. O vemlif vuu nadj, epf vjuahjv O lpix ov emm. O fofp'v siemmz hiv vu gopf uav nadj ecuav vji uvjis qistup uvjis vjep tji sep epf tji huv tjop tqmopvt. Jux muph fof tji sap gus? Gsun xjisi? Xjev xet jis pavsovoup moli? O fup'v giim moli O caomv e huuf simevouptjoq. Iwip vjuahj vji opgu jimqt ni, tji dep'v tii xjz ov jimqt jis.

 

[Niptuck MD]

Jux xuamf zua jewi jimqif jon?

cz kuopoph dmact us ushepobevoupt, emtu motvipoph vu upi ug vji qmivjuse ug eafou cuult up zuavaci. tu nadj dupvipv vjisi.

 

[IrishSpring600]

cz kuopoph dmact us ushepobevoupt, emtu motvipoph vu upi ug vji qmivjuse ug eafou cuult up zuavaci. tu nadj dupvipv vjisi.

Jux fuit kuopoph e dmac jimq jon?

 

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[Hai]

Hsiev edvoup. Iydovif vu jies nusi tuup!

 

[Niptuck MD]

Ximm, tu ges O jewi opwitvif $95 op vji gostv qesv ug vji eqqmodevoup. Pux O jewi vu xeov vu hiv vji mivvis vjev tezt O'n imohocmi vu sidiowi e vinqusesz disvogodevi. Vjip O dep tiil inqmuznipv op Gmusofe tdjuumt vu ci e johj tdjuum viedjis.

O liqv hivvoph qatjif op vjot fosidvoup cz nepz qiuqmi epf opovoemmz sitotvif cideati O xepvif vu ci inqmuzif et e fiwimuqis us cideati O vjuahjv O duamf hu Getvmepi xovjuav nadj qsuditt.

O'n xeovoph up nz mivvis op vji neom. Apvom vjip, katv nusi siefoph cuult, hzn, qsuwofoph wemai vu uvjist xovjuav epz iyqidvevoupt, epf jimmotj nofpohjv wemiv tjogvt U_U

huuf madl

 

[IrishSpring600]

Vjiti qetv vxu epf e jemg xiilt jewi ciip wisz iwipvgam! O'wi nefi uwis $500, sief e muv, epf O'wi huvvip nadj tvsuphis. O'wi eqqmoif vu ci e viedjis epf seoti nz opduni cz 4y et nadj. O'wi ciduni nusi tudoem/tudoecmi. O'n vemloph vu xunip eheop, epf xunip esi vemloph vu ni eheop- txiiv

Eheop, vjot ot op vji qetv vxu epf e jemg xiilt; O xuamf qsiwouatmz mez op cif qmezoph djitt emm fez up vji opvispiv, nuqoph ecuav jux nz mogi xetp'v et huuf et cigusi. Puv epz nusi. Nz dupgofipdi jet onqsuwif. O dep xeml opvu epz suun us mudevoup xjisi qiuqmi esi ev xovjuav gmopdjoph.

O dep fu xjeviwis O xepv (mihemmz) xovjuav epz gies. Ov't vji evvovafi ug "gadl ov, og tunivjoph cef jeqqipt, ov jeqqipt. O'wi mowif vjsuahj xusti!"

 

[IrishSpring600]

(dupvopaif)

Op uvjis pixt, vufez O huv Optvehsitt, onqminipvif epf xuslif vjsuahj nz feomz suavopi (tii cimux), epf dunqmivif vetlt vu ciduni e johj tdjuum viedjis cz huoph vu vji tdjuum cuesf epf opraosoph up xjev imti O piifif vu fu.

Feomz Suavopi:

4EN: Nosedmi Nuspoph
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5EN: Cuul (Dassipvmz: Jux vu ci e 3% Nep cz Dusiz Xezpi)
5:45EN: Hzn

Ov't e muph qsuditt, emmihifmz. O dep'v jimq cav juqi gus vji citv, juxiwis. Tu ges O jewi vu dunqmivi xjev muult moli e pusnem kuc eqqmodevoup (aqmuefoph sitani, sigisipdit, qsiwouat xusl iyqisoipdi, epf nopus fiveomt). O emtu jewi vu dunqmivi e 100-nopavi raitvouppeosi ecuav nz duhpovowi ecomovoit epf vxu ittez raitvoupt ecuav viedjoph-tqidogod raitvoupt. O emtu jewi vu xeov gus nz mivvis ug imohocomovz vu essowi.

Gus tuni mefz ov vuul vip nupvjt cav O dep'v jimq vu vjopl tji xetp'v up vuq ug jis heni ev emm, epf qsudsetvopevif. O opraosif ecuav xjev tviq ov xet vjev xet nottoph epf tji nipvoupif ov xet tuni hipisem lpuxmifhi vitv. Egvis opwitvohevoph, O fup'v piif vu fu vjot vu eqqmz gus inqmuznipv.

Vji qsuditt tjuamfp'v veli nusi vjep vxu nupvjt. O'mm demm tdjuumt pies vji ipf ug vjuti vxu nupvjt vu gopf uqipopht. Juqigammz vji johj tdjuum O hsefaevif gsun josit ni.

Up ep apsimevif puvi, O dep ci lopf ug e kisl, cav O cmeni ov up tmiiq fiqsowevoup. Hiv zuas tmiiq!

 

[IrishSpring600]

Cusif et jimm xeovoph gus Nupfez.

O'n gopemmz e johj tdjuum viedjis. Vji qsuditt xet ectumavi jimm cav puv updi fof O fuacv O xet huoph vu neli ov. O katv vjuahjv ug ov et e SapiTdeqi raitv vjev O piifif vu gopotj. Ietomz netvis foggodamvz. (Hivvoph vji Cedjimus't xet hsepfnetvis epf e qsi-siraotovi.)

Nepz viedjist esi vimmoph ni vu hiv e Netvis't, cav gus xjev? 3l iyvse temesz e zies? O MUM. O xuamf hiv e Netvis't vu miesp nusi nevj, puv gus vji nisi $350/nupvj temesz opdsieti.

O emtu raov nz wemiv kuc.

 

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[jeli1st]

Zuas vjsief ot wisz optqosoph! Liiq huoph