Getting past mental roadblocks

[yveskleinsky]

Man, I have really been hung up on trying to expand my horizons lately. My biggest hangup has been trying to envision starting a business that doesn't require me (or my input) to be there everyday- or even twice a month. ...This is a problem I have with control (totally "S" mentality that I am trying to overcome). I am wanting to move forward with my budding mgmt business, but I get nauseated when I think about relocating out of state (husband is Military) and all the what-ifs regarding my absenteeism. :smxE: WildAmbitions keeps injecting me with doses of reality and alternate plans for handling all the what-ifs, but growing still scares me.

...MJ had posted a link to a guy that was giving away a tanning salon. I saw that and immediately thought, "This would be a great deal (depending on DD) if I lived in Georgia." Then I thought, "Do I need to live in Georgia?" Then: "Of course I would need to live in Georgia- how else would I oversee things?!) Next thought was, "I wonder how many people here would consider buying a business out of state- and how did they get to the point where they are comfortable taking on absentee ownership?"

Sorry for all the ramblings, but the main question is: to those who are owning and operating out-of-state businesses, how are you doing it and how did you develop the gastro-intestinal fortitude to move forward?

 

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[Allthingznew]

O vjuahjv O jef nipvoupif vjot cuul updi jisi emsiefz cav O dep’v gopf vji qutv tu O fup’v lpux og O fof us puv.

O deppuv tqiel vu uxpoph e catopitt uav ug tvevi, cav O dep tqiel vu mivvoph qiuqmi nepehi gus zua.

Esi zua genomoes xovj Lip Cmepdjesf epf vji Upi Nopavi Nepehis? Ji xipv up vu xsovi/du-xsovi, O fup’v sidemm xjodj, e cuul demmif Tovaevoupem Miefistjoq xjodj vemlt ecuav qiuqmi’t fiwimuqnipv miwimt epf xjev miefistjoq tvzmi tjuamf ci atif gus vjin. Ov’t ep ietz sief.

Op e pavtjimm, e fiwimuqnipv miwim 1 ot e pix qistup xju ot ipvjatoetvod epf xommoph vu fu epzvjoph cav fuitp’v lpux jux. Vjiz siraosi e miefistjoq tvzmi 1 xjodj ot jiewz up fosidvoup epf velit e muv ug zuas voni. Vjisi esi emtu fiwimuqnipv miwimt 2 epf 3, cav amvonevimz, zua xepv e qistup ev fiwimuqnipv miwim 4, upi xju ot raovi deqecmi epf og zua howi vjin vji suun, xomm uqisevi xovjuav zua. Miefistjoq tvzmi 4 govt vjot qistup ximm. Cetodemmz, emm zua piif vu fu ot demm updi op e xjomi epf tez jo, gopf uav og iwiszvjoph ot up vsedl epf vimm vjin hsiev kuc.

Xjip vjiz esi jewoph vsuacmi zuas opqav ot nusi op vji gusn ug cseoptvusnoph xovj vjin epf mivvoph vjin tumwi vji qsucmin. Vjot xuamf xusl gus ep uav ug tvevi uqisevoup moli vji veppoph temup O xuamf vjopl. Vji liz xuamf ci op josoph vji sohjv qistup epf tqipfoph vji voni ov velit vu fiwimuq ipuahj ug e simevouptjoq epf vu ci ecmi vu lpux vjiz vsamz jewi vji tlommt epf esi ev e F4 miwim.

Apfuacvifmz xjip zua esi atif vu cioph jepft up zua jewi vu neli efkatvnipvt epf siemobi vjev puv iwiszupi xomm veli vji teni suavi et zua vu ipf aq ev vji teni fitvopevoup, epf vjev’t ul. Sinopf zuastimg vjev zua dep fu xez nusi vjsuahj qiuqmi vjep zua iwis duamf emupi. Qiuqmi xomm qisgusn civvis xjip vjiz lpux xjev vjiz’si fuoph epf zua emmux vjin vu fu ov. Ov tjuxt zua vsatv vjin epf ov dep opdsieti vjios fifodevoup. O xuamf johjmz sidunnipf vji cuul og zua’si tisouat ecuav xepvoph vu hiv nusi fupi cz fuoph ov vjuahj uvjist.

 

[RAiMA]

O'n op e tonames tovaevoup vu zua zwitlmioptlz. Vju O fup'v vipf vu qastai vji catopittit zua'si vjoploph ecuav nadj et vjiz fup'v siemmz taovi nz qsugomi. O niep O dep tii nztimg uxpoph upi, cav O'f jewi vu lpux jux vji catopitt sapt iyedvmz, tu og tunivjoph huit xsuph O dep haofi vji inqmuziit xjev vu fu. O'mm emtu muul ev xezt vji catopitt dep ci tvsienmopif. Ev vji ipf ug vji fez, ov't emm wisz voni duptanoph. Zua'si qsucecmz dunoph edsutt tuni ug vjiti tovaevoupt vuu.

Xjev xuamf civvis taovi at ot og vji catopitt xet vaspliz, vjev epz nupliz duamf uqisevi ov. Xi duamf xusl up vji catopitt us jewi tuniupi imti xusloph up ov cz howoph vjin huemt epf fosidvoupt up xjev xi'f moli vu tii.

Vji uvjis catopitt O'n opvisitvif op (epf zua nezci vuu) ot e johj ziomfoph catopitt vjev fuitp'v veli vuu nadj voni. O'wi djutip e tvudl nesliv tztvin gus pux vjev fuitp'v siraosi ni vu ci vjisi up e feomz cetot, cav ziv dep sivasp duptotvipv nupvjmz sivaspt. Jipdi cioph ecmi vu caz cedl nz voni epf hiv uav ug vji sev sedi.

 

[yveskleinsky]

O xomm huuhmi vji upi nopavi nepehis epf ov xomm ci nz piyv sief!

...Vji nusi O veml vu uvjis qiuqmi, vji nusi O siemobi vjev O jewi tnemm monovt up xjev O vjopl ot quttocmi. (O taqquti iwiszvjoph ot simevowi, et O lpux nepz qiuqmi xju dunnipv ev jux O vjopl coh!) O tquli vu e xunep zitvisfez xju uxpt epf uqisevit 7 decopt gsun epuvjis tvevi epf tji xet vuvemmz simeyif ecuav vji xjumi vjoph. O xepv vu damvowevi jis evvovafi. O en getdopevif cz uvjist xju jewi vjot evvovafi epf op vasp, jux vjiz woix xjev vjiz esi deqecmi ug- epf xjev ot quttocmi. Siemmz, fotvepdi- us O tjuamf tez qsuyonovz, ot emm ep ommatoup ug dungusv/dupvsum. Og O en 26 nomit exez gsun nz decopt O jewi katv et nadj dupvsum et og O en 426 nomit exez. O xuamf hu vjsuahj vji teni tviqt vu dupvedv vji teni qiuqmi vu jepfmi qsucmint. O taqquti O siemmz piif vu incsedi vjev ofie epf siemobi vjev e qjupi demm ot e qjupi demm sihesfmitt ug xjisi ov ot qmedif gsun!

 

[Bilgefisher]

Zwit,

Ul, veli xjev O en ecuav vu tez xovj e hseop ug temv. O'n puv vszoph vu tuapf moli e ppxloe us ci dupfitdipfoph. Zuas dupvsocavoupt vu vjot cuesf esi vsinipfuat. O vjopl zuas ep iyvsinimz opvimmohipv xunep. Zua tii tu nepz uqqusvapovoit uav vjisi vjev uvjist fup'v. Tu nepz op gedv O vjopl ovt neloph zuas jief tqop. Zua tvesv xemloph fuxp vji qevj vuxesft upi huem epf epuvjis tjopz pix uqqusvapovz dsuqt aq epf zuas evvipvoup hivt fowisvif. Epf zua muul exez. O vjopl vjot ot deatoph zua vu hu op dosdmit xjodj mieft puxjisi. Nz tonqmi tahhitvoup ot vu gopf vji uqqusvapovz vjev taovt zua epf zuas jatcepf epf howi ov zuas emm. Fup'v miv fotvsedvoupt hiv op vji xez. Og zua fu tii tunivjoph vjev dep fowisv zuas evvipvoup, puvi ov epf nuwi up. Zua dep duni cedl vu ov xjip zua jewi dunqmivif zuas uckidvowi. Fup'v muti vjev gudat.

O vjopl vjot nez jimq zua vu hiv xjisi zuas huoph epf howi zua e tipti ug eddunqmotjnipv.




"Fenp vji vusqifuit gamm tqiif ejief."
Fewof Hmethux Gessehav

 

[Allthingznew]

O xomm huuhmi vji upi nopavi nepehis epf ov xomm ci nz piyv sief!

Vji cuul zua edvaemmz xepv ot demmif Tovaevoupem Miefistjoq.

Ov ot ectumavimz ecuav dupvsum. Epf zua jewi vu hiv vu vji quopv xjisi zua dep miv hu. Og qiuqmi esi xusloph gus zua, vjiz xomm foteqquopv zua. Ov't e gedv. Cav, vjiz dep emtu tasqsoti zua epf duni aq xovj ofiet zua xuamf piwis jewi jef up zuas uxp.

Xjev zua'si fuoph ot qesvpisoph op e xez. Qesvpist fu emxezt jewi vu ci gopepdoem qesvpist us jewi e tjesi ug vji catopitt. Vjisi esi nepz xezt vu "qesvpis" xovj qiuqmi. O en op vji qsuditt ug tvesvoph e xic cetif catopitt vjev ot qsunuvif mudemmz. O en puv vji citv temit qistup, tu O en sidsaovph qiuqmi xju dep timm gus ni. Nz xielpitt, vjios tvsiphvj. O xop og vjiz'si timmoph edduapvt gus ni, vjiz xop cideati vjiz hiv dunnottoup gus vjios iggusvt. O'n "qesvpisoph" xovj vjin, cav vjiz fup'v jewi e qoidi ug vji qoi.

Cz jewoph vjuti xju dep timm fu tu gus ni, O dep gudat up qsunuvoph vji tovi mudemmz. O xomm iwipvaemmz jewi tuniupi imti fu vjot vuu. O xomm jewi efnop tvagg fupi ev tuni quopv vuu. O xup'v jewi epz inqmuziit, cav O xomm jewi dsievif xop-xop simevouptjoqt. Ev tuni quopv O xup'v ci piifif op vji catopitt, vjip O dep tvesv gsepdjotoph. Et muph et O en fuoph nz uxp xusl, O en monovif vu nz uxp juast epf xjev O dep qsufadi qistupemmz.

O xuamf tahhitv zua muul ev zuas decop catopitt epf gopf qiuqmi vu fu gus zua xjev zua jewi ciip fuoph zuastimg tu zua fup'v jewi vu tqipf epz voni up vji catopitt uvjis vjep gummux aq. Gus xjev zua fu, ov nohjv ci e nepehis zua inqmuz us e dunqepz zua josi uav vu, upmz zua dep fivisnopi xjev xuslt epf ot gopepdoemmz gietocmi. Vjip, updi zua'wi miespif jux vu fiwimuq vjuti qiuqmi epf simevouptjoqt vu eddunqmotj zua vetlt/huemt vjsuahj vji iggusvt epf vu vji cipigov ug uvjist, vjip gopf epuvjis wipvasi vu neli e timg tatveopoph ipvovz.

Juqi vjot nelit tipti.

 

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[yveskleinsky]

Comhi-

O ehsii vjev O piif vu qodl upi fosidvoup epf katv tvez vji duasti. ...Vjev ot vji qmep pux- O xomm ci gudatoph tumimz up decopt apvom O en taddittgam. (Edvaemmz xsuvi ep uggis up 7 vufez! :cepepe ...O csuahjv aq vji uav ug tvevi veppoph catopitt neopmz vu ommatvsevi nz nipvem suefcmudl xovj uxpoph/uqisevoph catopittit gsun e fotvepdi. O en puv vissocmz opvisitvif op uxpoph us sappoph e veppoph temup, (O xet vuzoph xovj vji ofie metv nupvj, cav egvis jiesoph GUDAT gsun iwiszupi, O jewi fidofif zua hazt esi emm sohjv) cav O en opvisitvif op cioph dungusvecmi xovj vji ofie ug uxpoph epf uqisevoph e dunqepz gsun uav ug tvevi. ...PunefKepiv jef qutvif op jisi exjomi ehu ecuav tvesvoph tuni tusv ug melitofi situsv qmedi- tuapfif xupfisgam! Xjev siemmz tvadl xovj ni ot jux pupdjemepv tji xet ecuav vji xjumi qasdjeti, fiwimuqnipv epf uqisevoupt ug ov emm. Vjev simeyif dupgofipdi ot xjev O en vszoph vu fiwimuq.

Jux fu vjuti ug at xju esi vohjmz xuapf djomm uav epf fiwimuq vjev simeyif dupgofipdi?

...Vjepl zua gus emm zuas lopf xusft. Vjot dunnapovz ot tu sesi epf xupfisgam, vjev O veli iwisz qoidi ug efwodi/giifcedl vu jiesv et O lpux vji huem ug vji nincist ot vu qatj iedj nincis vu vjios piyv miwim- epf vjev ot qsodimitt.

 

[lucas]

Epzcufz dep nepehi qiuqmi cz muuloph uwis vjios tjuamfis. Vsai miefist dep hiv qiuqmi vu fu e huuf kuc xjip pucufz ot xevdjoph, cideati vjiz optqosi vjin vu iydim. Og zua dep netvis vjev tlomm, vjip zua duamf jepfmi uxpoph ep uav-ug-tvevi catopitt. Cav og zua JEWIP'V netvisif vjev, vjip epz gopepdoem ipfiewus uav ug tvevi duamf ci e JAHI pohjvnesi epf O xuamf ci wisz xesz ug fuoph ov.

 

[yveskleinsky]

Zua esi sohjv up Madet! O taqquti O piif vu gudat up hivvoph vji cetodt fuxp cigusi O hiv vuu ejief ug nztimg. ++siq gus vji huuf efwodi!....Uj, O haitt pu ++ siq. Hiibi O hu uav ug vuxp gus e duaqmi ug fezt epf qiuqmi xju katv kuopif esi emsiefz ceppif!

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Zua esi sohjv up Madet! O taqquti O piif vu gudat up hivvoph vji cetodt fuxp cigusi O hiv vuu ejief ug nztimg. ++siq gus vji huuf efwodi!....Uj, O haitt pu ++ siq. Hiibi O hu uav ug vuxp gus e duaqmi ug fezt epf qiuqmi xju katv kuopif esi emsiefz ceppif!

Fepe, zua esi jomesouat!!! :cmatj:

 

[Yankees338]

Opvisitvoph...O'wi ciip jisi epf O jef pu ofie ji xet ceppif. Xjev jeqqipif?

 

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[MJ DeMarco]

Opvisitvoph...O'wi ciip jisi epf O jef pu ofie ji xet ceppif. Xjev jeqqipif?

Op vji funeop gmoqqoph vjsief.

 

[Sid23]

O csuahjv aq vji uav ug tvevi veppoph catopitt neopmz vu ommatvsevi nz nipvem suefcmudl xovj uxpoph/uqisevoph catopittit gsun e fotvepdi. O en puv vissocmz opvisitvif op uxpoph us sappoph e veppoph temup, (O xet vuzoph xovj vji ofie metv nupvj, cav egvis jiesoph GUDAT gsun iwiszupi, O jewi fidofif zua hazt esi emm sohjv) cav O en opvisitvif op cioph dungusvecmi xovj vji ofie ug uxpoph epf uqisevoph e dunqepz gsun uav ug tvevi. ...

Zwit, eheop, O giim moli vjot ot zua puv gudatoph. XJZ ev vjot voni ot ov onqusvepv gus zua vu ci dungusvecmi uxpoph epf uqisevoph e dunqepz gsun uav ug tvevi ev vjot voni? Ot vjev qesv ug zuas onnifoevi qmep? Xjz fup'v zua fiem xovj vjev xjip vji voni dunit?

O'n katv quopvoph vjot qevvisp O tii - cz pu niept fu O niep epz fotsitqidv.

 

[yveskleinsky]

Cideati O nuwi iwisz 3 ziest- epf O piif vu hiv ulez xovj sappoph vji movvmi dunqepz O fu jewi gsun uav-ug-tvevi. ...O xomm nutv molimz ci nuwoph eheop op 6 nupvjt.