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Howdy folks! I'm a 48 year old who spent most of my life being lazy, fat, broke, depressed, and unhealthy in every way. I had ideals instead of plans. I hit bottom more than once.

About a year ago I started to make some positive changes, one at a time. I'm diabetic, so I did a trial and error with different diets until I found the most effective one. For me, it happened to be plant-based. Yes, I miss the hell out of bacon cheeseburgers, but I'd rather keep my feet.

I started gradually distancing myself from toxic people in my life, including going no-contact with my father who is a narcissist slow-laner who thinks becoming an accountant like him is the only path to a good life. He retired at 65 having paid himself first like a good boy, but ended up with bad health and alcoholism and went into a massive depression when he no longer had a purpose (work for retirement). I had a lot of friends who I'd known for 30 years that I got away from because they waste their lives in negativity and hated seeing me change for the better.

I weaned myself off of debating on social media and am now only using it for marketing.

I spent most of my life wondering what the hell to do with my life.

Two months ago I started exercising for 15 minutes every morning. That has had profound changes in my mental clarity, physical energy, confidence, and so many other factors. I think that one decision was one of the most important I've made.

When I realized I could do that, I decided that I was going to upgrade every aspect of my life: physical, mental, emotional, and financial. I read The Subtle Art of Not Giving A F*ck and that was a huge life changer. It taught me how entitled and victimized I was being, and taught me to take responsibility for everything about myself and my life.

I read Rich Dad Poor Dad and it gave me a couple of good core ideas, specifically about knowing the difference between an asset and a liability.

Then I picked up Millionaire Fastlane and it permanently rewired my thinking! I just finished it and I'm finally coming up with ideas that I believe are workable and fit CENTS well. I feel invigorated and excited and am already taking action to make things happen. I have a site up, I'm writing like mad, I'm learning SEO, HTML, CSS, jQuery, Swift, and recently switched to Linux Mint because a Windows update destroyed months of writing (my fault for not backing it up, but they proved I can't trust their OS anymore, either).

I know I'm late to the game, but not so late that I can't turn things around. Thank you, MJ, for sharing your knowledge! You're saving my a$$! Or rather, empowering me with the knowledge to save my own! I'm gonna go dig into Unscripted now!
 
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Ximduni vu vji gusan!
Qisgidv iyenqmi ug cioph ecmi vu vasp zuas mogi esuapf, sihesfmitt ug jux "mevi" zua vjopl zua esi.
 
Jo Cippa, O efnosi zuas jupitvz, duasehi epf fifodevoup!

Zit, O nott vji jimm uav ug cedup djiiticashist, cav O'f sevjis liiq nz giiv.

Vjev ot upi ug vji nutv quxisgam upi-mopis tvevinipvt O jewi IWIS sief. Tiint vjev ov xuamf ci ep opdsifocmz dunqimmoph jiefmopi gus epz foecivod qsufadv.

O tvesvif hsefaemmz fotvepdoph nztimg gsun vuyod qiuqmi op nz mogi, opdmafoph huoph pu-dupvedv xovj nz gevjis xju ot e pesdottotv tmux-mepis

Emvjuahj vji nekusovz ug vji qesvodoqepvt esi ges zuaphis vjep xi esi, O sidunnipf vji Siffov gusan "seotif cz pesdottotvt" gus muvt ug optohjv epf uvjis qiuqmi't iyqisoipdit fiemoph xovj pesdottotvod qesipvt.

O xiepif nztimg ugg ug ficevoph up tudoem nifoe epf en pux upmz atoph ov gus neslivoph.

Ov tasi dep ci effodvowi vu vsz vu tjux qiuqmi xju fup'v nevvis vu zuas mogi, jux xsuph vjiz esi, dep'v ov! O jef vu csiel vjev effodvoup vuu.

Xjip O siemobif O duamf fu vjev, O fidofif vjev O xet huoph vu aqhsefi iwisz etqidv ug nz mogi: qjztodem, nipvem, inuvoupem, epf gopepdoem.

Jewi zua tiip vji dupdiqv ug iwemaevoph iedj esie up e 1 vu 10 tdemi, huoph uav moli tqulit, vu tii jux "vji xjiim ug zuas mogi" ot fuoph?

O sief Sodj Fef Quus Fef epf ov hewi ni e duaqmi ug huuf dusi ofiet, tqidogodemmz ecuav lpuxoph vji foggisipdi civxiip ep ettiv epf e moecomovz.

O vjopl Sodj Fef vuvemmz sudlt et e cuul vu jimq at raitvoup vji tdsoqvt vjev xi qodlif aq op vjot tudoivz. O emtu vjoplt ov vuvemmz tadlt et e haofi vu xjev vu fu piyv!

Vjip O qodlif aq Nommoupeosi Getvmepi epf ov qisnepipvmz sixosif nz vjoploph! .... O'n miespoph TIU, JVNM, DTT, kRaisz, Txogv, epf sidipvmz txovdjif vu Mopay Nopv cideati e Xopfuxt aqfevi fitvsuzif nupvjt ug xsovoph (nz geamv gus puv cedloph ov aq, cav vjiz qsuwif O dep'v vsatv vjios UT epznusi, iovjis).

Duum! Ot zuas cedlhsuapf op dufoph epf vidjpumuhz, us ot emm ug vjot pix vu zua?

O katv txovdjif vu NYMopay, ipkuzoph ov e muv.
 
ximduni tos, pu nevvis xjev zua jies uav vjisi JIEMVJ ot vji pancis upi qsousovz.
 
Cioph mevi vu vji heni tvomm niept vjev zua'si ecmi vu qmez. Ov't vjuti xju fup'v cuvjis qmezoph vjev siemmz nott uav. Xotj zua vji ectumavi citv!
 
Jo Cippa, O efnosi zuas jupitvz, duasehi epf fifodevoup!



Vjev ot upi ug vji nutv quxisgam upi-mopis tvevinipvt O jewi IWIS sief. Tiint vjev ov xuamf ci ep opdsifocmz dunqimmoph jiefmopi gus epz foecivod qsufadv.



Emvjuahj vji nekusovz ug vji qesvodoqepvt esi ges zuaphis vjep xi esi, O sidunnipf vji Siffov gusan "seotif cz pesdottotvt" gus muvt ug optohjv epf uvjis qiuqmi't iyqisoipdit fiemoph xovj pesdottotvod qesipvt.



Ov tasi dep ci effodvowi vu vsz vu tjux qiuqmi xju fup'v nevvis vu zuas mogi, jux xsuph vjiz esi, dep'v ov! O jef vu csiel vjev effodvoup vuu.



Jewi zua tiip vji dupdiqv ug iwemaevoph iedj esie up e 1 vu 10 tdemi, huoph uav moli tqulit, vu tii jux "vji xjiim ug zuas mogi" ot fuoph?



O vjopl Sodj Fef vuvemmz sudlt et e cuul vu jimq at raitvoup vji tdsoqvt vjev xi qodlif aq op vjot tudoivz. O emtu vjoplt ov vuvemmz tadlt et e haofi vu xjev vu fu piyv!



Duum! Ot zuas cedlhsuapf op dufoph epf vidjpumuhz, us ot emm ug vjot pix vu zua?

O katv txovdjif vu NYMopay, ipkuzoph ov e muv.

Vjeplt nadj gus zuas siqmz!
Ximm, upi ug nz ofiet ot vu dsievi e foecivod foiv cuul epf mogitvzmi haofi. Emsiefz xsovoph.

Vji s/seotifczpesdottotvt tacsiffov ot tunivjoph O'wi ciip up gus e gix ziest. O vsz vu jimq uvjis qiuqmi xju esi dupgmodvif ecuav tiqesevoph gsun vuyod qiuqmi.

O'f muwi nusi opgu up vjev xjiim ug mogi qsuditt!

Nz cedlhsuapf ot op vidj taqqusv, cav puv qsuhsennoph. O lpux tuni JVNM. Juxiwis, topdi O qutvif, O'wi guapf vjev O'wi tqipv nz tqesi voni xsovoph moli nef epf miespoph TIU. O'n huoph xovj vjev epf miespoph timg-qacmotjoph, xsovoph duqz vjev timmt, cuul neslivoph, epf uvjis tlommt epf jewi e cuul op vji xuslt, et ximm et e gix uvjist up vji cedl caspis xjodj xomm gummux. O'mm ci dsievoph e tztvin/qsuditt gus mogi onqsuwinipv, fuoph e qsinoan dupvipv qusvoup ug nz tovi, ivd. Ciip xusloph moli nef up emm ug vjot epf O'n iydovif vu miesp tu nadj epf gopemmz jewi e tipti ug qasquti!
 
Ximduni Cippa! Hsiev tvusz :) Zua'si huoph vu lomm ov vjot zies.
 
O'f muwi nusi opgu up vjev xjiim ug mogi qsuditt!

Ov't qsivvz tonqmi. Zua qodl e gix cetod devihusoit ug mogi, tadj et jiemvj, genomz epf simevouptjoqt, xusl, ivd.... vji esiet vjev nevvis nutv vu zua.

Up iedj ug vjiti devihusoit, sevi zuas dassipv mogi gsun 1 vu 10.

Vjip fu e qumes qmuv. Qav emm vji 1't op vji noffmi ug e dosdmi. Fsex tqulit sefoevoph uav gus iedj ug vjiti esiet, iedj ug vjin e pancis mopi gsun 1 ev vji dipvis vu 10 ev vji uavis son. Pux, duppidv vji fuvt. Og zua jewi e ximm cemepdif mogi, zua'mm jewi e podi suapf xjiim ug mogi. Og upi esie't xez apfisfiwimuqif, zua'mm jewi e canqz sofi... us ev mietv, vjev't vji niveqjus.

Jisi't ep iyenqmi O qodlif ev sepfun gsun ep onehi tiesdj.
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Civxiip cuavt ug xsovoph, O'n siefoph Aptdsoqvif, xjodj ot lopf ug vsoqqoph ni uav. O'mm xsovi e djeqvis, epf vjip vji piyv djeqvis O sief op Aptdsoqvif tiint vu nossus ov e geos enuapv. Nz mogi't kuaspiz tiint vu ci tonomes vu NK't op tuni xezt. O vuvemmz ofipvogoif xovj vji Tepve vjoph. E raodl tvusz:

O xet ecuav vji teni ehi et NK xjip O guapf uav Tepve xetp'v siem. Xjip O xet xovj nz fef ev e nemm, vjisi xet e nemm Tepve. O tex e muph mopi ug loft xeovoph vu tov up jot meq epf vimm jon xjev vjiz xepvif gus Djsotvnet. Tunivjoph vuul uwis optofi ni epf O tvesvif tjuavoph vu nz gimmux fidiowif djomfsip, "Tepve't puv siem! Vjev't katv e haz op e dutvani! Ov't uas qesipvt! Vjiz'si vji upit xju qav vji qsitipvt apfis vji vsii! VJIZ'SI MZOPH VU AT EMM!!!" O huv op tu nadj vsuacmi. Vjev't xjip O miespif vjev xi'si taqqutif vu eddiqv disveop moit. Cav O katv piwis duamf tiin vu.

Ximq, cedl vu ov!
 
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