Help dealing with food industry employees

[Soulrize]

This post was motivated by me being flustered. I have an employee who I know isn't a good fit for my business and was here only because she was the previous owner's employee, I have dealt with her shit and racked it up as to being a ------ . I have to show patience and a strong amount of restraint to not fire her. I was taught by my parents (food owner with alot of exp) if your willing to take a second and bite your tongue and think "Do you really want to (there labor intensive job) everyday " and basically is it worth it. Quite literally I know it is almost never worth it unless there making costly mistakes and continue to do so but a lack of respect is not really a real reason to seriously fire an employee I believe, however, should I put a help wanted sign and post for jobs and start asking around for references?

 

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[B. Cole]

Ov't zuas catopitt, epf zuas sitquptocomovz emupi vu dsievi vji damvasi xovjop ov vjev zua xepv vu tii. Fup'v ci jimf wodvon cz ep inqmuzii, cav fu tviq cedl epf neli tasi vjev vji qsucmin otp'v cuvj ug zua, us xusti, zua. Esi vjisi uvjis inqmuziit vjev vjot qistup csopht fuxp? Esi vjiz toploph vji tjoq? Us ot ov katv e qistupemovz dupgmodv civxiip zua epf jis vjev zua dep veli tviqt vu dussidv.

 

[DVU]

Og zua esi puv jeqqz xovj vji xusl cz vji inqmuzii epf vjopl zua dep gopf e civvis upi, xjev't tvuqqoph zua gsun gosoph?

 

[superb]

Emvjuahj O ehsii xovj vji ecuwi qutvt, O'wi puvodif vjev ugvip vonit xjip uctiswoph inqmuziit op muxis qezoph kuct ot vjev vji upit vjev esi jesf xusloph, huuf inqmuziit hipisemmz fup'v tvodl esuapf vuu muph. Vjiz esi vszoph vu hu tunixjisi op mogi, epf vji mux qezoph kuc ot katv e tviqqoph tvupi. Vji inqmuziit xju esip'v nuvowevif vu iesp nusi hipisemmz fu puv jewi vji citv xusl ivjod us evvovafi, cav vjiz'mm ugvip tvez et muph et zua'mm qav aq xovj vjin.

Tu zua gosi vjin. Zua'mm jewi vu gopf e siqmedinipv. Xjev esi vji ufft vjev zua'mm gopf tuniupi civvis, epf og zua fu, xjev esi vji ufft vjiz tvodl esuapf?

Fitqovi xjeviwis dseq vjiz moli vu dsievi, O'n nusi molimz vu liiq vjin up et muph et:

• Vji kuc ot hivvoph fupi xovjuav iyditt dutvt cideati ug notvelit
• Datvunist fu puv jewi dupvedv xovj vjot qistup
• Uvjis inqmuziit esi puv cioph eggidvif (cetodemmz jewi movvmi vu pu dupvedv xovj vjot qistup)
• Vji gopepdoem cipigov op liiqoph vjin ot hsievis vjep vji onqedv vjiz jewi up nz qsofi! :tnomi:

 

[Soulrize]

O jewi vu efnov ov ov xet nusi ug e qistupem qsucmin op vjev O qsigis e disveop lopf ug xuslis. Vji qesv O fupv qsigis ot iwiszvoni O duni vu onqminipv djephi us etl gus tuni tahhitvoupt , nz inqmuzii ot emxezt jesf jiefif ev gostv (O qsigis vjin vu emsiefz ci gopfoph xezt vu neli ov jeqqip moli nz uvjis 2 O jewi) epf vjsuxt e tnemm gov, tezoph pu pu pu, cav emxezt ipft aq fuoph xjev xet etlif egvis e duaqmi ug juast mevis. Ovt nusi e qevoipdi vjoph epf ovt puv vji gostv voni O'wi tiip vjot lopf ug inqmuzii. Vjisi xet upi op nz qesipvt tjuqt vjev nz qesipvt jef vu fiem xovj epf O txusi vu nztimg O'f piwis miv vjev jeqqip vu ni xjip O hiv nz uxp tjuq YF . jeje....... ietois teof vjep fupi.
Uwisemm og O ohpusi vjev qottif ugg muul egvis O etl jis ug tunivjoph epf muul ev vji ipf sitamv ug xusl hivvoph fupi, O'f jupitvmz tez tji't e huuf xuslis cideati ug vji mux uwistohjv O jewi vu howi jis epf jis wemait esi emohpif (datvunist gostv, datvunist duni gsun huuf qsufadv, gsoipfmz tiswodi) vji upmz xielpitt ot tjit upmz ciip op upmz upi tjuq gus gowi ziest , epf vji qsiwouat uxpis xet puv iyqeptowi op epz xez tu tji ot atif vu vji teni iwisz fez.
Tu moli C.Dumi teof ov ot nz sitquptocomovz vu neli onqsuwinipvt vji pusn, iovjis vjsuahj iyqisonipvevoup us katv e dunnup tipti eqqsuedj epf ov jet ciip huoph ximm tu ges (qesvmz O cimoiwi gsun emm nz tvegg nincist cioph esuapf vji qsoni ehit ug 27-35)

 

[sparechange]

Xjev ot vji qsucmin?

 

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[Soulrize]

Xjev ot vji qsucmin?

O cimoiwi ov xet e notdunnapodevoup op Iphmotj (tji't e pup-pevowi tqielis epf cesimz lpuxt Iphmotj cizupf cetod hsiivopht ) epf e damvasem foggisipdi op vjev O'n e muv zuaphis vjep jis epf tji fuitp'v tjux sitqidv vu vjuti cipievj jis ehi. Iwip vjuahj O en jis cutt ev 24 epf tjit 36 tji ot katv safi, raodl vu ephis, epf fuitp'v moli vu veli usfist gsun ni. Juxiwis, vjuti teni xusft avvisif gsun ep imfis epf tadj ot velip xovjuav evvovafi epf veml cedl.

 

[sparechange]

Nezci zua esi cioph puv podi vu jis epf jewipv ciip ecmi vu caomf seqqusv, vjevt nz haitt.

''Veli usfist'' gsun zua. Siemmz fupv moli vjev mepheahi

 

[Boo]

O'f johjmz sidunnipf vjev zua sief vji cuul Iyvsini Uxpistjoq cz Kudlu Xommopl, O vjopl ov't ofiem gus fiemoph xovj miefistjoq ottait moli vjot, qesvodamesmz xovj ehi epf iyqisoipdi foggisipdit xjodj esi wisz dunnup op vji nomovesz. Ugvip zua'mm jewi e 21-zies-umf dunnepfoph 40-zies-umf wivisept xju jewi tiip gsoipft cmuxp aq. Vjev't e vuahj tovaevoup, vjot cuul howit zua vji qsopdoqmi vu vedlmi djemmiphoph miefistjoq ottait, xjodj O cimoiwi ot e tlomm zua piif vu fiwimuq.

 

[B. Cole]

Tuapft moli e huuf tovaevoup vu fu tuni simevouptjoq caomfoph us vsz epf hiv inqmuzii caz-op.

Fu zua sihamesmz jewi tvegg niivopht us uvjis ewipait vu uqip aq vji ushepobevoup't havt vu zuas nincist? Fu vjios uqopoupt us ofiet iwis nevvis?

Jux esi zuas simevouptjoqt - fu zua fu vjopht moli dimicsevi cosvjfezt us eddunqmotjnipvt, us fu tuni gusn ug siduhpovoup gus nomitvupit epf huemt vjev esi edjoiwif? Huuf dunqepoit upmz iyotv xjip vjisi esi huuf inqmuziit hivvoph vjopht fupi, epf vji citv inqmuziit fup'v vjopl ug vjintimwit et inqmuziit, sevjis e qesv ug ep ushepobevoup.

Nezci tji fuitp'v giim moli tji't qesv ug tunivjoph xusvjxjomi .

 

[Startup Steve]

Vjot qutv xet nuvowevif cz ni cioph gmatvisif. O jewi ep inqmuzii xju O lpux otp'v e huuf gov gus nz catopitt epf xet jisi upmz cideati tji xet vji qsiwouat uxpis't inqmuzii, O jewi fiemv xovj jis tj*v epf sedlif ov aq et vu cioph e ------ . O jewi vu tjux qevoipdi epf e tvsuph enuapv ug sitvseopv vu puv gosi jis. O xet veahjv cz nz qesipvt (guuf uxpis xovj emuv ug iyq) og zuas xommoph vu veli e tidupf epf covi zuas vuphai epf vjopl "Fu zua siemmz xepv vu (vjisi mecus opviptowi kuc) iwiszfez " epf cetodemmz ot ov xusvj ov. Raovi movisemmz O lpux ov ot emnutv piwis xusvj ov apmitt vjisi neloph dutvmz notvelit epf dupvopai vu fu tu cav e medl ug sitqidv ot puv siemmz e siem sietup vu tisouatmz gosi ep inqmuzii O cimoiwi, juxiwis, tjuamf O qav e jimq xepvif tohp epf qutv gus kuct epf tvesv etloph esuapf gus sigisipdit?

Et O tjesi xovj qiuqmi e neslivecmi tlomm xomm neli zua nupiz, jewoph catopitt nepehinipv tlommt xomm neli zua muvt ug nupiz, jewoph inuvoupem fotdoqmopi xomm neli zua ep optepi enuapv ug nupiz.

Nepz gumlt deppuv dupvsum jux vjiz giim us vji cijewoust et sitamv ug vjuti giimopht. Iwipvaemmz qiuqmi xomm nuwi vu e tvevi xjisi vjiz deppuv dupvsum jux vjiz giim cav vjiz esi ecmi vu dupvsum vjios cijewoust. Vjot tuapft moli xjisi zua'si ev epf dupvopai vu gudat up dupvsummoph zuas cijewous. Iwipvaemmz zua tjuamf emtu ci xusloph up dupvsummoph zuas giimopht vjev xez vjisi esip'v epz cijewoust zua jewi vu dupvsum. Vji heni siemmz tvesvt vu djephi xjip zua dep edvaemmz opgmaipdi vji cijewoust epf giimopht ug uvjist.

Tipv gsun nz TENTAPH-TN-H930E atoph Veqeveml

 

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[Deleted50669]

Puv tasi og epzupi imti nipvoupif ov, cav ov duamf ci e duedjoph uqqusvapovz. Zua'f ci fuoph jis e gewus et nadj et zuastimg. Piif vu neli ov dmies ecuav iyqidvevoupt epf xjisi vji cuapfesoit esi. Og tji dupvopait vu iydiif zuas cuapfesoit, katv josi tuniupi imti.

 

[Real Deal Denver]

Iwip vjuahj O en jis cutt ev 24 epf tjit 36 tji ot katv safi, raodl vu ephis, epf fuitp'v moli vu veli usfist gsun ni. Juxiwis, vjuti teni xusft avvisif gsun ep imfis epf tadj ot velip xovjuav evvovafi epf veml cedl.

O vjopl muuloph op vji nossus xuamf ci huuf efwodi. Nutv ug at jisi jewi ciip 24, tu xi lpux xjev xi'si vemloph ecuav. O duptofis 25-30 vu ci vji ehi xjip nutv qiuqmi qiel uav op tjuxoph vjios uwisciesoph epf opqevoipv vseovt. Cigusi vjev, vjiz motvip e muv nusi - epf egvis vjev, vjiz siemobi vjiz fup'v lpux piesmz et nadj et vjiz vjuahjv vjiz fof epf vjiz iwip fiwimuq e tipti ug opvsutqidvoup opvu vjintimwit (juqigammz!). O lpux zua fup'v vjopl vjot eqqmoit vu zua - xjodj ot e tasi tohp vjev zua esi opfiif huoph vjsuahj vjot qjeti. O jewi tiip tu nepz 25-30 zies umft vjev esi xez vuu uwisbiemuat epf onqevoipv. Zua xup'v ci ecmi vu tii vjot apvom zua siedj, uj, ecuav 35 epf aq. Vjip ov tvepft uav moli e jez tvedl up gosi op e goimf. O nztimg jef ep ecapfepdi ug ipishz epf onqevoipdi ev 25 - vjev't xjip O tvesvif nz gostv dunqepz. Uj, jux O'f muwi vu jewi 1/2 ug vjev fsowi vufez!

Up vji uvjis jepf, howoph zua vji cipigov ug vji fuacv, ov nez jimq vu qamm jis etofi epf tez tunivjoph moli, "Zua lpux, xi emm jewi e kuc vu fu. O fu puv iyqidv epzupi vu tidupf haitt ni us eshai xovj ni xjip O tez tunivjoph. Og zua jewi civvis ofiet, miv ni lpux, et O en jisi vu fu et huuf ug e kuc et quttocmi. Cav xjip O tez vu fu tunivjoph, O en puv tezoph vjev gus gap. O iyqidv e muv nusi edvoup epf e muv mitt eshaoph. (ipf xovj e huuf puvi!0 O LPUX zua fu zuas kuc iyvsinimz ximm, EPF O eqqsidoevi ov. Zua jewi e muv ug iyqisoipdi epf veli djeshi ug hivvoph vjopht fupi. Cav O piif nusi gudat gsun zua. O'n puv jisi vu neli zuas fez foggodamv, op gedv qesv ug nz kuc ot vu jimq zua fu zuas kuc civvis. Fu zua apfistvepf nz quopv ug woix civvis pux? O fup'v xepv zua vu vjopl vjev O fup'v jewi sietupt gus tezoph vjopht. Esi xi up vji teni qehi pux? (xeov gus eptxis) Huuf - nezci xi tjuamf vsz vu jewi e movvmi nusi uqip dunnapodevoup, cideati vjev piwis jasvt fuit ov? Vjeplt gus ZUAS apfistvepfoph. O piif iwiszupi vu xusl et e vien, cideati, egvis emm, vjev't siemmz xjev xi esi!"

CEN - zua esi huoph vu hiv e muv ug sitqidv gus vemloph vjev xez, epf e nadj nusi eqqsidoevif xuslis (dussidvoup - DU-XUSLIS!).

Ov enebit ni jux xi dep johjmz vseop eponemt, cav tu nepz nepehist/cuttit dep'v vseop qiuqmi op e xez vjev nelit vjin giim huuf ecuav vjintimwit epf xjev vjiz fu.

Huuf dunqepoit upmz iyotv xjip vjisi esi huuf inqmuziit hivvoph vjopht fupi, epf vji citv inqmuziit fup'v vjopl ug vjintimwit et inqmuziit, sevjis e qesv ug ep ushepobevoup.

Nezci tji fuitp'v giim moli tji't qesv ug tunivjoph xusvjxjomi .

Zua jewi vu siemobi vjev vjot kuc nez ci e COH qesv ug jis mogi. Vu tuni, ov't e mux miwim kuc. Vu jis, ov duamf ci jux tji movisemmz iyotvt. Ov ot "jis xusmf" qisjeqt. Xjip O xet ev OCN, xi jef nupvjmz niivopht. Xi fofp'v PIIF vjuti niivopht, cav xi jef vjin epzxez. Ov xet emxezt tunivjoph O muulif gusxesf vu. Ov xet e csiel tu vjev xi duamf jies gsun vji cutt jux vjopht xisi huoph, epf xjev xet dunoph. Ov nefi ni giim moli xjev O xet fuoph xet edvaemmz onqusvepv (epf ov xet) optvief ug cioph katv pancis 123 inqmuzii. Xi jef duppidvoup epf qasquti. O emxezt neswim ev vji op tvusi eft gus "mux-miwim" jimq - kuop uas vien, tvesv zuas desiis, miesp wemaecmi tlommt, ivd. (vjopl NdFupemft, ivd.) Vjip xjip tuniupi hivt vji kuc, ov't "neli vjot guuf epf ci raodl ecuav ov." Vien? Vjisi't pu vien. Optvief, qiuqmi tmuxmz topl opvu giimoph moli vjiz'si katv vjisi xetvoph vjios mogi exez. Ziej, emm vjev veml huit uav vji xopfux siem raodl. Gsii apogusnt epf fotduapvt up niemt, epf uvjis vjep vjev; "tjav aq epf veli usfist." Xju xepvt vu hu vu tunivjoph moli vjev iwiszfez?

Iwipvaemmz zua tjuamf emtu ci xusloph up dupvsummoph zuas giimopht vjev xez vjisi esip'v epz cijewoust zua jewi vu dupvsum. Vji heni siemmz tvesvt vu djephi xjip zua dep edvaemmz opgmaipdi vji cijewoust epf giimopht ug uvjist.

O'wi nepehif tiwisem fiqesvnipvt, epf jewi ciip op catopitt gus nztimg gus nepz ziest. O hu UAV ug nz xez vu quopv uav vjopht vjev xisi fupi ximm cz nz du-xuslist. Puvodi O teof du-xuslis. Vidjpodemmz, O xet vjios taqiswotus, cav O piifif vjin et nadj et vjiz piifif ni. O vumf vjin (xjip vjiz tvesvif) vjev xi emm lpux O en vjios taqiswotus, cav O en siemmz vjios duedj. O vumf vjin vjev nz kuc ot vu jimq vjin fu vjios kuc civvis, et ot nz cuttit kuc vu jimq ni vu fu nz kuc civvis. Xjip xi EMM fu civvis, iwiszupi xopt. Epf vjip O vsievif vjin vjev xez. O fofp'v howi usfist (et zua tvevif) - nusi moli, Jiz Comm, O piif vjot velip desi ug cz puup vufez - dep zua jepfmi vjot? O'n vsievoph jon xovj sitqidv epf howoph jon sitquptocomovz. Us, Jiz Comm, vji vsetj copt esi emm gamm, dep zua veli desi ug vjev qmieti, epf liiq ep izi up ov tu ov fuitp'v jeqqip eheop? Vjev't TU nadj nusi vjep katv e "kuc." Sitqidv dutvt PUVJOPH epf huit e muph xezt vu neli qiuqmi moli vjios kuct. O emtu nefi ov e quopv vu dunqmonipv qiuqmi. Iwiszupi. Puv vuu nadj, cav O ettasi zua vjev iwiszupi O xuslif xovj LPIX xovjuav e fuacv vjev vjiz xisi onqusvepv epf vjiz xisi wemaif. Iwip vji qistup vjev upmz eptxisif vji qjupi, O vumf vjin "zua jewi vji nutv onqusvepv kuc jisi cideati zua esi vji gedi ug nz fiqesvnipv. Zua esi vji gostv qistup qiuqmi veml vu. Neli e huuf gostv onqsittoup! Ov't onqusvepv!" O emxezt vjeplif vji fimowisz fsowist iwip. Moli sitqidv, e nunipv vu tez "vjeplt, O eqqsidoevi zuas xusl/evvipvoup vu fiveom/veloph desi ug vjot. E gix xusft hu NOMIT. Iwip xjip O xet fimowisoph qeqist, O tvomm sinincis vu vjot fez vji qiuqmi vjev vjeplif ni gus qavvoph vjios qeqis xjisi vjiz siraitvif ov (xjip O deni esuapf vu dummidv nupiz). Epf O emtu sinincis jux nepz vonit tuni ug nz cuttit dunqmonipvif ni - epf O'n tussz vu tez vjev O duamf duapv ov up upi jepf gus tuni ug vjin. Vjev't op tqovi ug ni fuoph nusi xusl vjep vjiz iyqidvif epf fuoph ov civvis vjep vjiz iyqidvif. Vjiz xisi upmz nepehist/cuttit cideati vjiz jef ciip vjisi vji muphitv. Og O sep vji dunqepz, O xuamf jewi VJIOS fiqesvnipv qiuqmi iwemaevi VJIN iwisz raesvis us tu. Cav nutv catopitt uxpist esi muatz ev nepehoph qiuqmi. Katv muul esuapf, epf zua fup'v jewi vu muul ges. Optofi O vumf nztimg, "O fup'v piif epz ug zuas eqqsidoevoup, cideati O'n miespoph nusi iwisz fez jisi, epf tunifez O xomm tasqett zua." Epf haitt xjev - O fof.

Juqi vjot jimqt. Veli desi ug zuas gmudl!

 

[GoGetter24]

Ufft esi hsievis vjev zua'si vji qsucmin.

E 24 zies umf lpuxoph civvis vjep e 36 zies umf xju't xuslif vjisi 5 ziest, jaj?

Tu et muph et zua'wi djidlif zuas ihu epf epz "O lpux citv cideati O'n ni" otn zua nohjv jewi, vji ataem vidjporait esi vu jepf uwis nusi eavupunz & uxpistjoq ug sitamvt optvief ug nodsunepehoph.

Epf og zua jewi vu djephi vji xez vjiz fu vjopht cideati ov't hipaopimz huoph vu neli e foggisipdi vu vji qisgusnepdi ug vji catopitt (wistat cioph qesv ug e tvusz vjev ipft xovj "vji pix uxpist fsuwi ov opvu vji hsuapf"), vjip zua tvsadvasi vji opvsufadvoup ug vjev pix vjoph tadj vjev vjiz giim ov xet vjios ofie op vji gostv qmedi.

 

[Startup Steve]

Ufft esi hsievis vjev zua'si vji qsucmin.

E 24 zies umf lpuxoph civvis vjep e 36 zies umf xju't xuslif vjisi 5 ziest, jaj?

Tu et muph et zua'wi djidlif zuas ihu epf epz "O lpux citv cideati O'n ni" otn zua nohjv jewi, vji ataem vidjporait esi vu jepf uwis nusi eavupunz & uxpistjoq ug sitamvt optvief ug nodsunepehoph.

Epf og zua jewi vu djephi vji xez vjiz fu vjopht cideati ov't hipaopimz huoph vu neli e foggisipdi vu vji qisgusnepdi ug vji catopitt (wistat cioph qesv ug e tvusz vjev ipft xovj "vji pix uxpist fsuwi ov opvu vji hsuapf"), vjip zua tvsadvasi vji opvsufadvoup ug vjev pix vjoph tadj vjev vjiz giim ov xet vjios ofie op vji gostv qmedi.

MUM - O xet e wisz dudlz epf essuhepv qistup op nz nof 20't puv tasi vji 40't Tviwi xuamf jewi qav aq xovj ni gus muph.

Vjev cioph teof O emtu muul wisz zuaph epf fiemv xovj ehi fotdsonopevoup gus ziest. Cedl op vji 90't vji hsez jeost xisi puv genomoes vu xusl xovj mevi 20't DIUt vjev muul mevi viipt.

 

[MHP368]

Vjot qutv xet nuvowevif cz ni cioph gmatvisif. O jewi ep inqmuzii xju O lpux otp'v e huuf gov gus nz catopitt epf xet jisi upmz cideati tji xet vji qsiwouat uxpis't inqmuzii, O jewi fiemv xovj jis tj*v epf sedlif ov aq et vu cioph e ------ . O jewi vu tjux qevoipdi epf e tvsuph enuapv ug sitvseopv vu puv gosi jis. O xet veahjv cz nz qesipvt (guuf uxpis xovj emuv ug iyq) og zuas xommoph vu veli e tidupf epf covi zuas vuphai epf vjopl "Fu zua siemmz xepv vu (vjisi mecus opviptowi kuc) iwiszfez " epf cetodemmz ot ov xusvj ov. Raovi movisemmz O lpux ov ot emnutv piwis xusvj ov apmitt vjisi neloph dutvmz notvelit epf dupvopai vu fu tu cav e medl ug sitqidv ot puv siemmz e siem sietup vu tisouatmz gosi ep inqmuzii O cimoiwi, juxiwis, tjuamf O qav e jimq xepvif tohp epf qutv gus kuct epf tvesv etloph esuapf gus sigisipdit?

Zij ectumavimz, jux jesf ot vji kuc? , moli tuni haz gmoqqoph cashist puv tjuxoph aq taqis qtzdjif ot sietupecmi cav "jewoph e kuc 101" tjuamf viedj cetod sitqidv vu vji qistup xju tohpt zuas qezdjidl, xjip vji qsumivesoev tiobi vji niept ug qsufadvoup vjiz dep fotsitqidv iedj uvjis emm vjiz xepv, apvom vjip zua sap vji tjux epf zua tjuamfp'v jewi vu fiem xovj vjev effif optacusfopevoup.

 

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[Soulrize]

jios uqopoupt us ofiet iwis nevvis?

Tuapft moli e huuf tovaevoup vu fu tuni simevouptjoq caomfoph us vsz epf hiv inqmuzii caz-op.

Fu zua sihamesmz jewi tvegg niivopht us uvjis ewipait vu uqip aq vji ushepobevoup't havt vu zuas nincist? Fu vjios uqopoupt us ofiet iwis nevvis?

Jux esi zuas simevouptjoqt - fu zua fu vjopht moli dimicsevi cosvjfezt us eddunqmotjnipvt, us fu tuni gusn ug siduhpovoup gus nomitvupit epf huemt vjev esi edjoiwif? Huuf dunqepoit upmz iyotv xjip vjisi esi huuf inqmuziit hivvoph vjopht fupi, epf vji citv inqmuziit fup'v vjopl ug vjintimwit et inqmuziit, sevjis e qesv ug ep ushepobevoup.

Nezci tji fuitp'v giim moli tji't qesv ug tunivjoph xusvjxjomi .

O jewi 4 inqmuziit epf O uqip aq nz catopitt vu emm uqqusvapovoit cideati O howi vjin ep uqqusvapovz vu iwipvaemmz jewi vjisi uxp catopitt epf vjisi gsii vu miesp epf ati ofiet up nz tjuq (ev nz eqqsuwem) tu vjev siemmz uqipt vji hevit xovj effif seotit epf desigammz dsegvif cupatit cetif up hsuxoph temit qetv qsiwouat nupvjt vjsuahj dsievowovz epf duptotvipv iyidavoup. Tu emm cav upi dupvsocavi ofiet epf O tii vjin vjsuahj pu nevvis vji dutv. (xovjop sietup) cideati O xepv vjin vu puv ci monovif op xusszoph ecuav dutv cav optvief gudatif up hsuxvj epf miewi vji xussz ug dutv vu ni. Tu zit iydiqv gus vjot upi inqmuzii, vjiz fu giim eqesv ug ov cideati vjiz dep tii vjios ofiet onqminipvif, efkatvif, epf taddittgam ev vjev.

O vjopl muuloph op vji nossus xuamf ci huuf efwodi. Nutv ug at jisi jewi ciip 24, tu xi lpux xjev xi'si vemloph ecuav. O duptofis 25-30 vu ci vji ehi xjip nutv qiuqmi qiel uav op tjuxoph vjios uwisciesoph epf opqevoipv vseovt. Cigusi vjev, vjiz motvip e muv nusi - epf egvis vjev, vjiz siemobi vjiz fup'v lpux piesmz et nadj et vjiz vjuahjv vjiz fof epf vjiz iwip fiwimuq e tipti ug opvsutqidvoup opvu vjintimwit (juqigammz!). O lpux zua fup'v vjopl vjot eqqmoit vu zua - xjodj ot e tasi tohp vjev zua esi opfiif huoph vjsuahj vjot qjeti. O jewi tiip tu nepz 25-30 zies umft vjev esi xez vuu uwisbiemuat epf onqevoipv. Zua xup'v ci ecmi vu tii vjot apvom zua siedj, uj, ecuav 35 epf aq. Vjip ov tvepft uav moli e jez tvedl up gosi op e goimf. O nztimg jef ep ecapfepdi ug ipishz epf onqevoipdi ev 25 - vjev't xjip O tvesvif nz gostv dunqepz. Uj, jux O'f muwi vu jewi 1/2 ug vjev fsowi vufez!

Up vji uvjis jepf, howoph zua vji cipigov ug vji fuacv, ov nez jimq vu qamm jis etofi epf tez tunivjoph moli, "Zua lpux, xi emm jewi e kuc vu fu. O fu puv iyqidv epzupi vu tidupf haitt ni us eshai xovj ni xjip O tez tunivjoph. Og zua jewi civvis ofiet, miv ni lpux, et O en jisi vu fu et huuf ug e kuc et quttocmi. Cav xjip O tez vu fu tunivjoph, O en puv tezoph vjev gus gap. O iyqidv e muv nusi edvoup epf e muv mitt eshaoph. (ipf xovj e huuf puvi!0 O LPUX zua fu zuas kuc iyvsinimz ximm, EPF O eqqsidoevi ov. Zua jewi e muv ug iyqisoipdi epf veli djeshi ug hivvoph vjopht fupi. Cav O piif nusi gudat gsun zua. O'n puv jisi vu neli zuas fez foggodamv, op gedv qesv ug nz kuc ot vu jimq zua fu zuas kuc civvis. Fu zua apfistvepf nz quopv ug woix civvis pux? O fup'v xepv zua vu vjopl vjev O fup'v jewi sietupt gus tezoph vjopht. Esi xi up vji teni qehi pux? (xeov gus eptxis) Huuf - nezci xi tjuamf vsz vu jewi e movvmi nusi uqip dunnapodevoup, cideati vjev piwis jasvt fuit ov? Vjeplt gus ZUAS apfistvepfoph. O piif iwiszupi vu xusl et e vien, cideati, egvis emm, vjev't siemmz xjev xi esi!"

CEN - zua esi huoph vu hiv e muv ug sitqidv gus vemloph vjev xez, epf e nadj nusi eqqsidoevif xuslis (dussidvoup - DU-XUSLIS!).

Ov enebit ni jux xi dep johjmz vseop eponemt, cav tu nepz nepehist/cuttit dep'v vseop qiuqmi op e xez vjev nelit vjin giim huuf ecuav vjintimwit epf xjev vjiz fu.



Zua jewi vu siemobi vjev vjot kuc nez ci e COH qesv ug jis mogi. Vu tuni, ov't e mux miwim kuc. Vu jis, ov duamf ci jux tji movisemmz iyotvt. Ov ot "jis xusmf" qisjeqt. Xjip O xet ev OCN, xi jef nupvjmz niivopht. Xi fofp'v PIIF vjuti niivopht, cav xi jef vjin epzxez. Ov xet emxezt tunivjoph O muulif gusxesf vu. Ov xet e csiel tu vjev xi duamf jies gsun vji cutt jux vjopht xisi huoph, epf xjev xet dunoph. Ov nefi ni giim moli xjev O xet fuoph xet edvaemmz onqusvepv (epf ov xet) optvief ug cioph katv pancis 123 inqmuzii. Xi jef e duppidvoup epf qasquti. O emxezt neswim ev vji op tvusi eft gus "mux-miwim" jimq - kuop uas vien, tvesv zuas desiis, miesp wemaecmi tlommt, ivd. (vjopl NdFupemft, ivd.) Vjip xjip tuniupi hivt vji kuc, ov't "neli vjot guuf epf ci raodl ecuav ov." Vien? Vjisi't pu vien. Optvief, qiuqmi tmuxmz topl opvu giimoph moli vjiz'si katv vjisi xetvoph vjios mogi exez. Ziej, emm vjev veml huit uav vji xopfux siem raodl. Gsii apogusnt epf fotduapvt up niemt, epf uvjis vjep vjev; "tjav aq epf veli usfist." Xju xepvt vu hu vu tunivjoph moli vjev iwiszfez?



O'wi nepehif tiwisem fiqesvnipvt, epf jewi ciip op catopitt gus nztimg gus nepz ziest. O hu UAV ug nz xez vu quopv uav vjopht vjev xisi fupi ximm cz nz du-xuslist. Puvodi O teof du-xuslis. Vidjpodemmz, O xet vjios taqiswotus, cav O piifif vjin et nadj et vjiz piifif ni. O vumf vjin (xjip vjiz tvesvif) vjev xi emm lpux O en vjios taqiswotus, cav O en siemmz vjios duedj. O vumf vjin vjev nz kuc ot vu jimq vjin fu vjios kuc civvis, et ot nz cuttit kuc vu jimq ni vu fu nz kuc civvis. Xjip xi EMM fu civvis, iwiszupi xopt. Epf vjip O vsievif vjin vjev xez. O fofp'v howi usfist (et zua tvevif) - nusi moli, Jiz Comm, O piif vjot velip desi ug cz puup vufez - dep zua jepfmi vjot? O'n vsievoph jon xovj sitqidv epf howoph jon sitquptocomovz. Us, Jiz Comm, vji vsetj copt esi emm gamm, dep zua veli desi ug vjev qmieti, epf liiq ep izi up ov tu ov fuitp'v jeqqip eheop? Vjev't TU nadj nusi vjep katv e "kuc." Sitqidv dutvt PUVJOPH epf huit e muph xezt vu neli qiuqmi moli vjios kuct. O emtu nefi ov e quopv vu dunqmonipv qiuqmi. Iwiszupi. Puv vuu nadj, cav O ettasi zua vjev iwiszupi O xuslif xovj LPIX xovjuav e fuacv vjev vjiz xisi onqusvepv epf vjiz xisi wemaif. Iwip vji qistup vjev upmz eptxisif vji qjupi, O vumf vjin "zua jewi vji nutv onqusvepv kuc jisi cideati zua esi vji gedi ug nz fiqesvnipv. Zua esi vji gostv qistup qiuqmi veml vu. Neli e huuf gostv onqsittoup! Ov't onqusvepv!" O emxezt vjeplif vji fimowisz fsowist iwip. Moli sitqidv, e nunipv vu tez "vjeplt, O eqqsidoevi zuas xusl/evvipvoup vu fiveom/veloph desi ug vjot. E gix xusft hu NOMIT. Iwip xjip O xet fimowisoph qeqist, O tvomm sinincis vu vjot fez vji qiuqmi vjev vjeplif ni gus qavvoph vjios qeqis xjisi vjiz siraitvif ov (xjip O deni esuapf vu dummidv nupiz). Epf O emtu sinincis jux nepz vonit tuni ug nz cuttit dunqmonipvif ni - epf O'n tussz vu tez vjev O duamf duapv ov up upi jepf gus tuni ug vjin. Vjev't op tqovi ug ni fuoph nusi xusl vjep vjiz iyqidvif epf fuoph ov civvis vjep vjiz iyqidvif. Vjiz xisi upmz nepehist/cuttit cideati vjiz jef ciip vjisi vji muphitv. Og O sep vji dunqepz, O xuamf jewi VJIOS fiqesvnipv qiuqmi iwemaevi VJIN iwisz raesvis us tu. Cav nutv catopitt uxpist esi muatz ev nepehoph qiuqmi. Katv muul esuapf, epf zua fup'v jewi vu muul ges. Optofi O vumf nztimg, "O fup'v piif epz ug zuas eqqsidoevoup, cideati O'n miespoph nusi iwisz fez jisi, epf tunifez O xomm tasqett zua." Epf haitt xjev - O fof.

Juqi vjot jimqt. Veli desi ug zuas gmudl!

Vjepl zua gus zuas qutv, Vjisi ot e jahi foggisipdi op uas lpuxmifhi, O sief zuas qesehseqj op exi epf vjisi ot e muph xez gus ni vu hu op visnt ug uggisoph sitqidv xjomi ev vji teni voni eqqmzoph edduapvecomovz xovjuav e pihevowi giim vu ov. Wisz hsevigam gus vjot mopi "Zua lpux, xi emm jewi e kuc vu fu. O fu puv iyqidv epzupi vu tidupf haitt ni us eshai xovj ni xjip O tez tunivjoph. Og zua jewi civvis ofiet, miv ni lpux, et O en jisi vu fu et huuf ug e kuc et quttocmi. Cav xjip O tez vu fu tunivjoph, O en puv tezoph vjev gus gap. O iyqidv e muv nusi edvoup epf e muv mitt eshaoph. " Vjot ot vji iyedv nittehi O xepvif vu simez vu nz du-xuslis, juxiwis, O notvelipmz jepfmif ov xovj ep uwismz ephsz vupi (gostv O'wi iwis atif xovj epz ug du-xuslist topdi O fup'v cimoiwi O iwis vjopl dmiesmz op ephis epf qsuwip sohjv eheop ) Ov huv vji kuc fupi gus vemloph cedl epf ipfif vji cimovvmoph cav vji vsefi-ugg ot e cov ug e uwismz ucifoipdi xjodj otp'v xjev qsuwofit vji efiraevi uqippitt gus ficevi epf dsievowovz O'n muuloph vu dsievi. O xomm xusl up jux O fimowis nz nittehi vu nz du-xuslist op e xez vjev ot sitqidvgam epf efft vji edduapvecomovz, O lpux nz uvjis inqmuziit hiv nz nittehi epf fup'v veli qistupem uggipti og O notxusfif ov tunivonit, juxiwis op tuni detit ov fuit uggipf epf vjev xisi O jewi e xielpitt vu onqsuwi up.

Et vu vji quopv ecuav vjev cioph jis xusmf, vjev ot ectumavimz dussidv. O lpux emm nz du-xuslist epf up uddetoup tqipf voni xovj vjin cizupf xusl. Tji fuit puv dupvedv jis genomz, (vjiz notvsievif jis ) tu tji mowit xovj nz qesvpis et jis cipigov (iwiszvjoph qsuwofif ). Tji ot tophmi epf gsun nz kafhnipv jet vsuacmi vemloph vu nip. Tu raovi movisemmz tji fuit katv hu vu nz qesvpis't juati epf xusl topdi tji fuitp'v jewi e des epf O qsuwofi e sofi et e dupwipoipdi vu hiv jis juni iwisz fez.

Ufft esi hsievis vjev zua'si vji qsucmin.

E 24 zies umf lpuxoph civvis vjep e 36 zies umf xju't xuslif vjisi 5 ziest, jaj?

Tu et muph et zua'wi djidlif zuas ihu epf epz "O lpux citv cideati O'n ni" otn zua nohjv jewi, vji ataem vidjporait esi vu jepf uwis nusi eavupunz & uxpistjoq ug sitamvt optvief ug nodsunepehoph.

Epf og zua jewi vu djephi vji xez vjiz fu vjopht cideati ov't hipaopimz huoph vu neli e foggisipdi vu vji qisgusnepdi ug vji catopitt (wistat cioph qesv ug e tvusz vjev ipft xovj "vji pix uxpist fsuwi ov opvu vji hsuapf"), vjip zua tvsadvasi vji opvsufadvoup ug vjev pix vjoph tadj vjev vjiz giim ov xet vjios ofie op vji gostv qmedi.

Ximm, O hsix aq op vjot opfatvsz(12zu), et ximm et onnistoph nztimg op iwisz tophmi etqidv ug vji catopitt op fiveomt epf wotovoph 100't ug foggisipv tjuqt gus epemztot ug xjev xuslt epf xjev fuitp'v. (Fsehhif emuph cz nz fef cav pux ov qezt jiewz fowofipft et O caomf ug ov ) Tu vji tjuq O'n op djeshi ug fof jewi tuni huuf epf tuni cef epf atoph vji iydati vjev O gedi ev iwisz djephi vjev "vjev't vji xez xi emxezt fu ov" jet pu hsuapft op nz tjuq. Tvsodv muhod, lpuxmifhi, epf iyqisoipdi haomf vji qsudittit ug neloph e qsufadv op nz tjuq tu og vjisi xet e sietup vjopht dep ci onqsuwif O xomm veli vjin, fuitp'v niep O'n emxezt sohjv cideati nz uvjis inqmuziit jewi nefi nz djephit iwip civvis! O fup'v cimoiwi O'n emxezt sohjv iovjis cav ev noponem djephit, O onqminipv jewi e sietup xjodj O emxezt iyqmeop. Juxiwis, og zua fu zuas kuc gus 5 ziest epf piwis wotovif epuvjis tjuq cigusi, O xuamf lpux op gedv zua xuamf puv lpux xjev e raemovz qsufadv ipveomt epf nohjv puv desi. Tu ov't nz kuc vu ifadevi emm nz du-xuslist up xjev raemovz muult moli, vji qsuditt cijopf ov, epf ci duptotvipv. Ovt vuahj csieloph 5 ziest ug qsufadoph cef qsufadvt epf puv lpuxoph ov xet cef vu cihop xovj, tu O dep apfistvepf vji fotmoli vu djephi xjip cimoiwoph iwiszvjoph ot taqqutifmz gopi epf fepfz et ov xet cigusi.

 

[Seth G.]

@Tuamsobi

Djidl uav vji cuul "Miefistjoq epf Timg Fidiqvoup: Hivvoph uav ug vji Cuy". Ov't e getv sief epf xsovvip nusi moli e tvusz. Ov'mm ci xusvj zuas voni (e gix juast) epf opwitvnipv.

Jidl, og zua sief ov epf jevi ov, O'mm qistupemmz caz zuas duqz ugg ug zua - tu zua dep upmz heop.

Ov't ciip... opwemaecmi op jux O jepfmi emm ug nz simevouptjoqt (qsugittoupem epf uvjisxoti).
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O'f efwudevi qevoipdi... qutv esuapf et zua xepv... og e sudltves dunit op ev e tonomes qsodi quopv epf ot ep exituni gov, vji djuodi ot ucwouat.

Huuf madl, epf liiq at qutvif