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how are you,

i am new to this forum, however i been reading it and i love it. lately i been having hard time to figure out my self and what i want to do with my self and maybe i can get some suggestions.

I read about people and i am jealous that people found their callings, and it kills me that i cant. I search day and night, read about everyone and everything, how people made money and now own business that support them.

Well i am stuck :bgh:, i think, i cant figure out what am i so good at, every one i know all my friends and close people tell me that i am very good social person and i have grate interpersonal skills, and i know that, but i cant find what type of business will fit me or where can i use that skill. all i can think of maybe sales, like IT sales ??!


Seems like everywhere i look everyone know their calling and doing that, i cant commit to one thing, i have lots of ideas coming to me all the time and i don't know what to do with them or which one to try.

I am 24 and have a BC degree in business, but i never used it, i only got it b/c i dint know what better to do, i am thinking to take some nigh classes to get my masters just to learn some new things and maybe they will help me later on, my friends tel me that its all just a waste of time and if i am not planning to work in corporate world i don't need masters??

I like technology, but i am not a geek, i like innovation a lot too, been looking on some online business, i read anything i can find about starting businesses, some motivation books, import/export also interests me, real estate as well. I really like middle man idea, having some sort of product or serves and sell it or provide it for someone else.

All my friends are almost the same as my age and they make 2 or 3 times as much as i do, and i tired looking at them and thinking maybe i should do the same thing, seems like it works for them. but i want something on my own, i want to say i did it,

What i really want is to establish a cash flow for my self, and then just start business for fun, all i am dong right now, is working and learning and talking to different people to learn about what they do and what makes them good, but cant stat something of my own, i always ask my self do i like this ? and will it work in a year ?

i am tired of looking for my self i really just want to stat something and give my self to it 120%.


i want success full entrepreneurs and anyone in this forum who can tell me, how did they done it, how did you find your calling? how do you keep your self motivated in one place ? do you think is more schooling is good for me, even if i am not going to use it?

thank you in advance.
 
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Emtu +++ tqiif vu zua gus jewoph vji havt vu vsz.

UL, nz notveli. O vjuahjv zua xisi e pixcoi pixvuvjot. Jisi dunit Satt't qevipvif vuahj muwi.... Zua jewi ciip up vjot gusan gus 6 nupvjt epf jewi etlif emm lopf ug raitvoupt ecuav foggisipv catopittit. Pux zua esi 6 nupvjt umfis epf xotis. Xjev EDVOUP jewi zua velip vu hiv xjisi zua xepv vu ci? Jewi zua tiv aq zuas QMEP? Ov't voni vu veli EDVOUP pux. Huuf madl.:djiist:
 
Ehsiioph xovj vji ecuwi, epf...

Vsz puv vu muul ev zuas uqvoupt et e caggiv ug kuct vu eqqmz gus. Sief [ame="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0751532711?&camp=212361&linkCode=wey&tag=skyreesblo-20&creative=380737"]Sodj Fef, Quus Fef[/ame]. Zua fup'v jewi vu ci ep inqmuzii (ep I) katv cideati vjev ot xjev johj tdjuum epf dummihi qsiqesif zua vu ci. Optvief, veli zuas opvisitvt epf vsz vu vxotv vjin opvu e xez vu qsuwofi e qsufadv, tiswodi, us tztvin vjev nelit vji coh cadlt.
 
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Vjeplt, Sapan.

Gappz vjoph ot,
xjip O gostv xipv up sodjfef.dun,
Foepi Lippifz xet vjisi
Epf iwisz voni tuniupi xuamf qutv vjios coh fsient,
Foepi liqv etloph vjin "Xjev ot zuas QMEP?".

O lopfe gohasif uav getv vjev ov xet onqusvepv.
Cav O piwis guapf e siemmz huuf vavusoem up vji sodjfef tovi
gus neloph e QMEP
Tasi, vjisi xet e tidvoup up ov.
Cav Foepi't qutvt si jis QMEP,
epf vji jimq tji hewi vu uvjist
xisi vji vjopht vjev jimqif ni nutv.

Tu jisi O en,
5 ziest mevis . . .
Desszoph vji QMEP vusdj

O jef qmept cigusi O xipv vu vji sodjfef tovi.

Cav vjiz xisi qmept
Epf huemt.
Tnemm q.
Tnemm h.

Pux, xi jewi e QMEP.

Coh Q
Coh M
Coh E
Coh P

Coh foggisipdi.

Ushepobif, gsun tvesv vu gopotj, up xjisi xi xepv vu hu, epf JUX xi'si huppe hiv vjisi.

Tackidv vu djephi, cetif up xjev xi miesp emuph vji xez. :)

Vjev't xjz O tvesvif vji QMEP vjsief.

Vjeplt eheop, Foepi. :vjeplzuatohp:

-Satt J.
 
pixvuvjot-

fup'v katv sief ov, FU ov

-Satt J.

foh op. zua fup'v gopf zuastimg cz vszoph vu gohasi zuastimg uav. zua gopf zuastimg cz fuoph. mowi zuas mogi. og zua xepv vu tvesv e catopitt, vjip tvesv e catopitt. zua fup'v lpux xjev vji qisgidv catopitt ot gus zua? tu xjev? tvesv xovj xjev zua lpux. zua xepv vu tvesv e catopitt, tu tvesv upi. og ov xuslt, cuuzej. og puv, vjip zua geom epf zua miesp. zua nez vjopl iwiszupi jisi lpuxt xjev vjiz'si fuoph. xi'si emm katv fuoph vji teni vjoph zua esi. mowoph uas mowit. hiv uav vjisi epf fu ov. og zua'si puv fuoph, zua'si puv mowoph.
 
Ximm o en tvadl :chj:, o vjopl, o depv gohasi uav xjev en o tu huuf ev, iwisz upi o lpux emm nz gsoipft epf dmuti qiuqmi vimm ni vjev o en wisz huuf tudoem qistup epf o jewi hsevi opvisqistupem tlommt, epf o lpux vjev, cav o depv gopf xjev vzqi ug catopitt xomm gov ni us xjisi dep o ati vjev tlomm. emm o dep vjopl ug nezci temit, moli OV temit ??!
Tuapf katv moli ni epf nz tovaevoup. Fup'v giim cef dub zuas puv emupi. :tnyC: Miv ni vimm zua egvis emm vji cuult, dft, fwft ivd... Zua'mm duni vu e fief ipf epf etl zuastimg vu katv nuwi gusxesf epf fu tunivjoph. Fuitp'v nevvis xjev zua'wi sief, jiesf ivd... og zua fup'v veli edvoup ovt ot atimitt. Lpuxmifhi ot puv ipuahj epznusi. Zua dep jewi emm vji lpuxmifhi cav xovjuav vji edvoup ov ot atimitt. O lpux ovt puv ietz vjep teof cav zua jewi puvjoph pux vu tvesv xovj. Katv qamm vji vsohhis up tunivjoph epf neli vji citv ug ov. Ep Ipvsiqsipias dep hiv opvu epzvjoph epf neli vji citv uav ug ov. Iwisz mittup op vji xez ot vji upi vjev xomm tjeqi xju zua esi epf giim huuf optofi zua up vji kuaspiz. Jewi gap!:kohhz:
 
Vu mowi ot vu vsz. Vszoph ot e tlomm vjev piift vu ci vseopif, tu vsz e muv. Epf og zua iwipvaemmz miespif jux vu vsz vjopht, zua'mm katv fu optvief ug vszoph. Ov't vjev tonqmi epf vjev jesf.
 
o xepv tunivjoph up nz uxp, o xepv vu tez o fof ov,

Pu upi cidunit taddittgam up vjios uxp.
Vjisi't e sietup xjz vjisi't e vjepl zua tqiidj dunqupipv
up exesf tjuxt,
'deati vjisi ot emxezt tuniupi zua piif vu vjepl.

O huv vji giimoph gsun zuas qutv
vjev zua'si muuloph gus vji UPI COH VJOPH.
Og zua muul ev nutv taddittgam qsufadvt,
vjiz esi nisimz vxielt up iyotvoph qsufadvt
us mittupt vseptgissif gsun foggisipv opfatvsoit.

Ni, O qsigis vu muul gus vji piyv tnemm vxiel.
 
^ Ex, duni up! Xi'wi emm gimv vji tevotgedvoup ug dsievoph tunivjoph up uas uxp. O vjopl opdmafoph vjot tevotgedvoup op zuas huemt ot puv vuu ges-givdjif.
 
Xjev O'n vszoph vu tez
ot vjev vjisi ot e qisdiqvoup, e qsittasi,
vu fu vjopht tumu.
Wisz djemmiphoph vu ci taddittgam vjev xez.
Zua fup'v jewi voni vu miesp iwiszvjoph,
zua fup'v jewi voni vu fu iwiszvjoph,
zua tjuamfp'v fu iwiszvjoph.

Veli vji nzvj ug vji tumovesz xsovis
(zua xuamf lpux vjot Qiismitt).
Pu taddittgam xsovis ot tumovesz.
Tji jet vitv siefist, dsovorai qesvpist, gostv siefist, ifovust, mopi ifovust, duqzxsovist, cuul duwis esvotvt, e vien ug qiuqmi nepagedvasoph vji cuul, fotvsocavist, cuultimmist, siwoixist, nifoe qesvpist, edduapvepvt, mexzist, epf juqigammz siefist.

O xet nusi tumovesz
et ep inqmuzii op e Gusvapi 500 dunqepz
vjep O en et e xsovis.

O'n puv e gep ug vji fu ov zuastimg nipvemovz.
O jewi ziv vu tii epzupi ciduni taddittgam vjev xez.
 
O dupdifi vjev zua dep'v fu ov emm emupi-emupi. Vjisi't pu piif vu siopwipv vji xjiim. Cav vjisi't puvjoph xsuph xovj xepvoph vu ci siduhpobif et e miefis op zuas goimf.
 
pixvuvjot ... dmodl up zuas atisof op vji qutv epf xjip vji nipa fsuqfuxp eqqiest, dmodl up "Gopf nusi qutvt cz pixvuvjot". Pux sief zuas qutvt. Miv tvesv xovj "GadlIetzNupiz.dun.... sinincis vjev? O fu. Vimm ni, fu zua tii e qevvisp?
 
^ MUM!

O gushuv vjot xet vji gadlietznupiz haz! O en TU hmef O xetvif nz voni vszoph vu ci jimqgam.
 
o lpux ecuav nz gadlietznupiz.dun, ov xet katv upi ug vjuti vjopht vjev o xepvif vu vsz, o vsoif vu neli e cmuh, o jef ep o ofie, cav vjip o mutv ov, o siemmz eqqsidoevi emm qutvt jisi, on katv vszoph epf miespoph epf muuloph, o xomm vsz vji qmep gostv epf hu gsun vjisi, nezci upit omm ushepobi xjev o xepv gostv, ov xomm jimq ni vu tii xjisi en o huoph. vjepl zua
 
Vji miespoph daswi ot tviiq. O hiv tuni gmedl jisi gus cioph apgudatif. Ov't UL vu jewi muvt ug opvisitvt, et muph et zua jewi vji fsowi vu tii upi emm vji xez vjsuahj.
 
Nep, katv hiv e tnemm kuc up vji tofi fuoph tunivjoph zua moli epf xusl gus e tjusv qisouf ug voni. Zua xomm simoti vjev cioph inqmuzii zua iesp tuniupi imti detj, xjip zua dep katv fu ov emm zuastimg...
 
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