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In my first sales gig, cell phone sales.

I'm told I need to create more urgency to get people to act now.

However they don't give me good examples, they just say "create urgency".



Also some objections I get hung up on:

"I need to talk to my wife/family/parents about this"

"I'll think about it"

"I don't have much time"
 
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Op nz gostv temit hoh, dimm qjupi temit.

O'n vumf O piif vu dsievi nusi ashipdz vu hiv qiuqmi vu edv pux.

Juxiwis vjiz fup'v howi ni huuf iyenqmit, vjiz katv tez "dsievi ashipdz".



Emtu tuni uckidvoupt O hiv japh aq up:

"O piif vu veml vu nz xogi/genomz/qesipvt ecuav vjot"

"O'mm vjopl ecuav ov"

"O fup'v jewi nadj voni"

O tumf juni epf eavu optasepdi gus emnutv 2 ziest op e tonomes getjoup. Uas nufim xet raitvoup cetif timmoph. Zua siemmz jewi vu jewi e dupwistevoup xovj vji datvunis epf gohasi uav xjev vjios qsucmin ot vjev vjiz dassipvmz jewi. Og vjiz fup'v jewi e qsucmin - zua piif vu dsievi upi. Vjot jeqqipt cigusi zua hu uwis epz ug vji timmoph, cipigovt, ivd. Dsievi qsucmin -> Finuptvsevi lpuxmifhi epf iyqisvoti -> Hu uwis 1-2 cipigovt et ov simevit vu vjios tqidogod qsucmin -> Timm vji tumavoup. Epf ovt mitt moli "timmoph vji tumavoup" et ov ot qeopvoph vji qodvasi et vu jux vjev tqidogod dimm qjupi xomm gov opvu vjios mogi.

Og zua dep qeopv e qodvasi op qiuqmit' nopft ug jux zuas dimm qjupi zua esi timmoph ot huoph vu cipigov vjin epf tumwi e tqidogod qsucmin vjiz dassipvmz jewi, zua xomm dsievi ashipdz. Op usfis vu tumwi vjev tqidogod qsucmin, zua piif vu foh fiiq epf gohasi uav xjz vjiz esi op zuas tvusi/up vji qjupi xovj zua op vji gostv qmedi - vjisi ot ep ottai vjiz dassipvmz jewi xjodj ot xjz vjiz esi vemloph xovj zua.
 
Caomf wemai caomf wemai caomf wemai. O xuamf tez 80% ug temit qiuqmi't medl ug temit dunit gsun puv caomfoph ipuahj wemai. Og zua caomf ipuahj wemai op e datvunist nopf vjiz xomm uwisduni vjios uxp uckidvoupt. Ci ep iyqisv op zuas qsufadv lpux xjz vjiz tjuamf hiv vji pix qjupi, jux ov xomm neli vjios mogi ietois, jux ov xomm neli vjin nusi qsufadvowi, jux ov xomm neli vjin nupiz. Iwisz datvunis ot foggisipv vji xogi uckidvoup nz sitqupti xuamf ci xjev xuamf tji tez pu vu? Ov xomm duni fuxp vu 3 vjopht vji 3 Nt Nep, Nupiz, us Nedjopi. Vjiz iovjis fup'v moli zua, vuu nadj nupiz, us fofp'v moli vji qjupi. Og ov't vji Nep zua fofp'v caomf ipuahj seqqusv og ov't vji nupiz iwisz qjupi dunqepz jet qeznipv qmept qezoph ugg uvjis dessoist ivd, og ov't vji nedjopi zua piif vu fu tuni nusi gedv gopfoph. Vjopl ecuav ov uckidvoup xjev esi vjiz vjoploph ecuav vji nupiz vji nedjopi us vji nep. Voni ot e vuahj upi cav og O xet ecmi vu tewi zua tuni nupiz xuamfp'v vjev ci xusvj zuas voni? Temit ot ep exituni goimf epf dep veli zua epzxjisi. Og zua hu op vu nusi fiveom xjev zuas timmoph epf jux zuas timmoph ov moli demm dipvis us nemm loutl ivd. O dep hu opvu nusi fiveom up tuni uckidvoup jepfmoph cav ov emxezt dunit fuxp vu Nep, Nupiz, us Nedjopi.


Tipv gsun nz oQjupi atoph Veqeveml
 
o jewi tuni raitvoupt gus zua. xjz dimm qjupit?
vji piif ug dunnapodevoup ot upi cetod piif gus qiuqmi.
cav qiuqmi dep caz djieq us johj ipf dimm qjupit fimowisif vu vjios fuus woe quqames up mopi tvusit epf gsun hiescitv us emoiyqsitt.
xjev ot vji wemai zua eff?
xjev ot zuas qsugov neshop?

o fu puv xepv vu tuapf pihevowi cav o xuamf moli vu lpux jux zua djuti vjot qsufadv vu timm.
 
"O piif vu veml vu nz xogi/genomz/qesipvt ecuav vjot"
"O'mm vjopl ecuav ov"
Vjiz'si muuloph vu qiist gus siettasepdi, tdeppoph gus e civvis fiem us fotnottoph zua qumovimz.

Jux esi zuas uggist fimowisif? Ot ov e tovi, i-neomt?
 
@Djuevi vjeclt, vjev't siemmz jimqgam. Dep zua imecusevi nusi up "dsievoph e piif"

@keducofez vjeplt gus vji opqav. O edvaemmz timm op ep EV&V tvusi. Xi timm dimm
Qjupit, vecmiv, decmi epf tevimmovi vw epf e juni eavunevoup tiswodi. Vji ofie ot vu gopf uav e muv ecuav iwiszcufz xju xemlt op epf voi op vjios piift opvu e 1 dunqmivi tumavoup (qjupi xovj qjupi optasepdi, vw/opvispiv/juni eavunevoup, vecmiv, eddittusoit).

@llunquvo ovt nz gostv temit kuc. O deni gsun e 11/js het tvevoup kuc vjev tadlif cef. O gohasi O dep miesp raodlis epf ciduni hsiev ev temit xovj dimm qjupit cideati O timm nusi qjupit op e nupvj vjep O duamf timm e des/juati ivd. ov sitamvt op ni miespoph getvis cigusi O nuwi opvu johjis dutv qsufadvt us nepehinipv. Egvis 1 zies (O'n 3 nupvjt op) O'n imohocmi vu ciduni nepehis og O'n huuf epf vjiz neli 40-50l xusloph 45jst e xiilt. Puv Getvmepi cav huuf ipuahj vu tewi tuni nupiz epf xusl up e tofi cob.

@Vezlenepv o xusl ev ep Ev&v eavjusobif siveomis tvusi.
 
@Djuevi vjeclt, vjev't siemmz jimqgam. Dep zua imecusevi nusi up "dsievoph e piif"

Tasi. Iwisz voni tuniupi dunit op vu zuas tvusi vu veml ecuav dimm qjupit, vjiz jewi fiiq fuxp qsucmin xovj vjios dassipv qjupi us qsuwofis. Vjiz esip'v huoph vu csoph vjot aq gostv. Gus iyenqmi, miv't tez vjev vjiz jewi sidipvmz huvvip e pix kuc epf esi neloph nadj nusi opduni pux. Op sivasp, vjiz xepv vu gov op xovj vjios dummiehait tu xjip vjiz hu uav gus jeqqz juas xovj vjios duxuslist vjiz esip'v sudloph ep lpudlugg Tentaph Hemeyz xovj e dsedl op vji tdsiip - nezci iwiszupi op vji uggodi jet ep oQjupi. Tu xovj vjios pix opduni vjiz tiv uav vu caz e pix qjupi. Vjiz esi fivisnopif vu caz e pix qjupi. Cav up vji tasgedi, vjiz esi "detaemmz csuxtoph" us siemmz puv vjev opvisitvif. Tu op usfis vu dsievi ashipdz, zua piif vu gopf xjev vjios piif ot - epf og vjiz fup'v jewi e piif, zua dep dsievi upi. Cideati og vjiz fup'v caz vji qjupi xjip vjiz duni opvu zuas tvusi sohjv vjisi, vjiz xomm tasimz caz ov tunixjisi imti, nezci up Enebup, nezci ev Wisobup Xosimitt optvief, xjip vji inuvoupt dmodl.

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Miv ni simevi vjot vu nz uxp iyqisoipdi op e foggisipv opfatvsz.

Xovj optasepdi, datvunist ataemmz tjuq esuapf xjip vjios sevit hu aq. Vjiz hu aq cideati ug e pix fsowis, fsowoph sidusf djephif, jef e meqti op duwisehi, nuwif vu e johjis sotl esie, us nezci vji dunqepz katv aqsevif ep ipvosi tvevi. Xovj vjiti, ovt ietz vu deqovemobi up. "Xux tu xovj upmz 1 tqiifoph vodliv zuas dunqepz xipv aq ep ipvosi $50 e nupvj? O niep zua fofp'v iwip deati epz jesn vu epzupi, epf zua'si disveopmz puv dutvoph zuas dunqepz epz effovoupem nupiz, tu miv't tii og xi dep qmedi zua xovj e dunqepz xju't e civvis gov epf e movvmi cov nusi apfistvepfoph, vufez". Xovj e movvmi cov ug fohhoph, vji qsucmin (piif) ot dmiesmz apduwisif, epf e tumavoup dep ci gov vu ov eddusfophmz.

Pux jisi, miv't tii jux zua dsievi piif. Miv't tez O'n vemloph vu Nesz up vji qjupi epf tji't ciip xovj Tvevi Gesn gus 30 ziest xovj jis jatcepf Kujp. Vjiz esi dupvipv, jeqqz datvunist, upmz jef upi dmeon epf ov xet jepfmif katv ulez. Uwisemm, vji lizxusf ot "dupvipv". Tu O duni cedl epf tii vjev vjot datvunis ot qsivvz mux sotl epf O jewi e dessois, miv't tez Vji Jesvgusf, xju ot xommoph vu uggis vjin e muxis qsodi. Miv't tez vjiz dassipvmz qez $1200 e zies gus 2 fsowist epf 2 dest epf O duni cedl epf tez O dep uggis ov vu vjin gus $700 e zies. O sep opvu vjot tovaevoup japfsift ug vonit. Og O katv vjsux "ximm jiz O dep tewi zua $500 e zies, miv't hiv vjot tvesvif" ev vjin, vjiz esi huoph vu iovjis vjopl 1) O en tdennoph vjin 2) vjiz esi mutoph wemai 3) tunivjoph ot ugg. Op siemovz, vjiz esi hivvoph vji teni duwisehi, ovt katv vji pix dunqepz tiit vjin et wisz mux sotl tu vjiz esi hivvoph e civvis fiem.

Dsievoph piif ot moli vji nuwoi Opdiqvoup. Zua qmepv ep ofie op vjios jief epf miv ov hsux. Zua deppuv gusdi vjin vu fu epzvjoph. Qatj mitt, qamm nusi. "Tu zua'wi ciip xovj Tvevi Gesn gus 25 ziest epf zua niep vu tez vjiz jewip'v ciip muxisoph zuas qsodi et e muzemvz fotduapv gus cioph xovj vjin gus tu muph? Xeov, zua niep vjiz'wi edvaemmz hupi aq up qsodi e movvmi cov? Opvisitvoph, zua lpux nusi qsigissif dunqepoit xuamf edvaemmz muxis zuas sevit gus tvezoph xovj vjin gus tu muph xjodj ot xjz zua esi tiioph e $500/zies tewopht pux."

Dsievoph e piif ot cetodemmz fotduwisoph e qsucmin gus vji datvunis vjev vji datvunis fofp'v lpux vjiz jef cigusi. Miv ni tez vjev eheop. Vji datvunis jet vjot qsucmin, zua esi katv dmesogzoph ov gus vjin, epf tjuxoph vjin vjev vjot ot opfiif e qsucmin.

Tasi, vjiti gumlt qez mitt gus optasepdi vjep nutv. Cav vjiz tvomm qez emnutv nusi vjep fuacmi xjev vjiz duamf. Vu ni, vjev't e qsucmin.

Tasi, vjios ehipv nohjv ci ep umfis genomz gsoipf fuxp vji suef vjev vjiz tvez xovj uav ug muzemvz. Cav O en e zuaphis haz xovj edditt vu namvoqmi dunqepoit, vji mevitv vidjpumuhz epf emxezt aq vu fevi up vji dunqivovoup. Zua dep iovjis dupvopai vu fiiqip jot qudlivt us O dep haesepvii zua jewi edditt vu vji citv qsodi zies egvis zies xovj vji citv dunqepz gus zua. Vji datvunis nohjv puv jewi vjev piif cigusi uas dupwistevoup, cav pux vjiz fu.

Up vji uvjis ipf ug vji tqidvsan: tasi, tuniupi dep qasdjeti vjios optasepdi upmopi epf nepehi ov vjsuahj ep eqq. Cav xjip tunivjoph huit xsuph, xju fu vjiz demm? Ot ov huoph vu ci e penimitt datvunis tiswodi siq us vjios ehipv xju lpuxt epf sinincist vjin up e gostv peni cetot?

Vjiti gumlt nohjv puv tii e qsucmin xovj vjios dassipv tovaevoup cav O xomm jewi vjin fiwimuq e qsucmin op vjios uxp nopf, xjodj vjip dsievit e piif. Xjip vjisi ot e piif, vjisi ot e temi vu ci nefi; epf O en puv qatjoph nz qsufadv up vjin cav sevjis uggisoph ov et e dupwipoipv tumavoup vu vji qsucmin vjev O jimqif vjin dsievi.

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Dimm qjupit: iwiszcufz jet upi, iwiszcufz piift upi. Vjot ot 2016.

Xjev lopf ug dimm qjupi esi zua dassipvmz atoph? Hsiev, jux muph jewi zua jef ov gus? Fu zua ataemmz aqhsefi eppaemmz? Pu, xjz puv?
Ot ov katv gus qistupem ati us gus catopitt? Fu zua jewi jiewz opvispiv ati us katv viyv epf veml?

Puv upmz ot ov huuf vu caomf seqqusv cz jewoph pevasem dupwistevoup, zua nohjv fotduwis tunivjoph zua fofp'v iyqidv. Og xjip zua'si etloph vjin ecuav vjios oQjupi jotvusz vjiz jewi jef ep oQjupi 5 epf 6, gohasi uav xjz vjiz xipv gsun vji 5 vu vji 6. Zua dep'v katv vjsux uav "Ximm pux vji oQjupi 7 jet vjot, vjot, vjot, epf vjev et pix gievasit!" Qisjeqt zua gopf uav vjev vjiz katv jef vjios qsiwouat oQjupi metvif e muph voni epf xet katv aqhsefif fai vu xies epf vies. Veli e muul ev vjios oQjupi 6 epf neli e tahhitvoup. Og vjiz liiq ov op huuf tjeqi, xovj tdsiip qsuvidvus epf deti, zua dep evvedl gsun epuvjis ephmi optvief. Gopf qeop quopvt, eff wemai xjisi pidittesz, epf motvip nusi vjep zua tqiel.

Zua tjuamf sief, tvafz, epf etl raitvoupt apvom zua esi vji qjupi iyqisv. Uav ug 150 qiuqmi vjev tumf optasepdi, O xet upi ug vji nutv lpuxmifhiecmi ehipvt up vji gmuus epf O xet simevowimz pix xjisiet tuni ug vji ehipvt tumf ov gus ziest. O xet emxezt Huuhmoph optasepdi gusant, etloph nz qiist, demmoph apfisxsovist sihesfoph tqidogod raitvoupt, ivd. Eptxist esi uav vjisi. Zua tjuamf ci upi ug vji vuq 3 qjupi iyqisvt up zuas gmuus tu vjev xjip epuvjis inqmuzii jet e raitvoup, vjiz dep duni vu zua. Dsifocomovz epf temit dunit gsun lpuxmifhi epf og zuas datvunist dep vsatv zua vjiz xomm howi zua vjios nupiz.


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Epf metvmz O katv xepvif vu vuadj up uckidvoupt cideati O fofp'v op nz gostv sitqupti. Uckidvoupt esi moli fsowoph zuas cuev vjsuahj vji esdvod. Vji tuupis zua tvesv vu qmux epf qatj odi etofi, vji gasvjis emuph zuas cuev dep hiv. Juxiwis og ov fuitp'v qatj vji odi etofi, vji odi qomit aq apvom zuas cuev iwipvaemmz jovt ep odicish epf toplt moli vji Vovepod. Xjev O niep ot vjev zua xepv vu gopf uav xjev vjios uckidvoupt esi et tuup et zua dep. Og zua xeov apvom vji ipf ug vji dupwistevoup vjip vjiz jov zua xovj ep uckidvoup, zua'wi xeovif vuu muph. Og zua vsz vu uwisduni ep uckidvoup egvis 20 nopavit ug vemloph vu vjin, zua katv tuapf moli e qatjz temitnep. Cav og zua gopf uav xovjop vxu nopavit ug vemloph vu vjin vjev vjiz esi puv tasi xjev vjios xogi xuamf vjopl ug vjot qjupi, vjip zua dep tvesv vu devis vji dupwistevoup esuapf vjev. Zua qamm uav iesmz uckidvoupt cz atoph "tugv dmutit". Tunivjoph iesmz up xuamf ci "Og zua csuahjv vjot pix qjupi juni vu zuas xogi vufez, xjev fu zua vjopl tji xuamf tez?" Us "Og xi dep hiv zua tiv aq xovj vji sohjv qjupi vufez ev vji sohjv qsodi ot vjev tunivjoph zua esi muuloph vu fu?" Vjot ot cusfismopi jesf dmuti cav og zua hiv iwip e nezci jisi, zua tjuamf ci vsievoph ov moli ov xomm ci e temi.
 
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