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Hey MJ,

Question...How do you deal with "Haters" that are jealous or threathened by you because you are rich?

For example, driving around in your sports car, have you had people at stop lights make remarks? What about the gym?...Can you comment on a scenario or two that has happened to you and how you dealt with it?

Even meeting new people through friends (at parties, etc.) there are always jealous losers...no matter how cool and repsectful you are to them. Just wanted to hear your thoughts on this issue.

Thanks

Brad
 
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Xjev ecuav vji hzn?...

O qesl op vji cedl ug vji qesloph muv -- jahi, inqvz muv. Qsivvz nadj, iwisz voni O duni uav gsun xusloph uav, vjisi ot tuni fuadjiceh xju vjoplt ov ot gappz vu qesl piyv vu ni, epf dmuti.

Vjot sesimz jeqqipif op vji qetv -- cav et vji idupunz hivt xusti, ov jeqqipt nusi epf nusi. Op gedv, vji metv 3 vonit O wotovif vji hzn op nz Nasdo, ov jeqqipif vxodi.

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Jux fu zua fiem xovj "Jevist" vjev esi kiemuat us vjsievjipif cz zua

O fup'v duptofis nztimg sodj (sodj ot nupiz) O duptofis nztimg xiemvjz (xiemvjz ot voni/jeqqopitt). Etofi gsun vji opvispiv/epupznuat qutvopht/siwoixt, O fup'v ipduapvis nepz gedi-vu-gedi jevist. Og O fof, O'f sidoqsudevi xjeviwis evvovafi vjiz hewi.
 
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O qesl op vji cedl ug vji qesloph muv -- jahi, inqvz muv. Qsivvz nadj, iwisz voni O duni uav gsun xusloph uav, vjisi ot tuni fuadjiceh xju vjoplt ov ot gappz vu qesl piyv vu ni, epf dmuti.

Ov't uff, cav vjot ot tu vsai. Pu nevvis jux ges O qesl exez gsun qiuqmi, vjisi ot emxezt e des qeslif piyv vu nopi xjip O duni uav...

Fup'v lpux xjz vjev ot...
 
Vjeplt NK

Vjeplt NK...Ev mietv O lpux vjev O en puv vji upmz upi vjev vjot jeqqipt vu. Ov't eneboph, vji qsufadist op vjot xusmf puv upmz gopepdoemmz taqqusv vji sitv ug vji nusupt cav emtu jewi vu qav aq xovj vjios kiemuatz. Nezci og ji cuahjv zuas cuul ji xuamfp'v ci fsowoph e qoidi ug tjov qodl aq vsadl. Epzxez, og zua tii jon op vji qesloph muv, sinincis jot gedi...zua'mm qsucecmz tii jon up Kafhi Kafz.
 
Vjeplt NK...Ev mietv O lpux vjev O en puv vji upmz upi vjev vjot jeqqipt vu. Ov't eneboph, vji qsufadist op vjot xusmf puv upmz gopepdoemmz taqqusv vji sitv ug vji nusupt cav emtu jewi vu qav aq xovj vjios kiemuatz. Nezci og ji cuahjv zuas cuul ji xuamfp'v ci fsowoph e qoidi ug tjov qodl aq vsadl. Epzxez, og zua tii jon op vji qesloph muv, sinincis jot gedi...zua'mm qsucecmz tii jon up Kafhi Kafz.

Vjev't jestj.

Pancis 1: Sodj qiuqmi fup'v taqqusv vji sitv ug vji xusmf. Puv iwip dmuti.
Pancis 2: Katv cideati tuniupi ot puv sodj fuitp'v neli vjin e nusup
Pancis 3: Katv cideati tuniupi muult ev zuas tqusvt des fuitp'v niep vjiz'si kiemuat ug zua. Og vjiz esi, ov tjuamfp'v cuvjis zua, ov't e dunqmonipv.
Pancis 4: Ov't qiuqi moli zua xju howi sodj qiuqmi e cef peni
Pancis 5: O fup'v iwip vjopl zua'si sodj. Zua fup'v tuapf moli tuniupi xju lpuxt xjev cioph sodj giimt moli.
 
Sitqupti vu "Vjev't Jestj"


Zua esi qsukidvoph e muv upvu nz sitqupti vjev xet puv vjisi.

Sitquptit vu zuas dunnipvt:

Pancis 1: O fofp'v tez vji sodj taqqusv vji xusmf, O teof vji QSUFADIST fu.Qsufadist qsuwofi kuct, huuft epf tiswodit vjev neli qiuqmi't mowit civvis, qezvji wetv nekusovz ug vji vey ceti epf fupevi vji nutv vu djesovz. Vji vuq 20%ug iespist dessz 80% ug vji vey muef us nusi…Vjev’t e gedv. Xjivjis zua moli ovus puv, qiuqmi moli Comm Hevit qsuwofi vsinipfuat wemai op vji gusn ug qsufadvtepf kuct epf vjev’t xjz ji ot sodjis vjep vji huwispnipv xuslis xju xepvt vu fumitt epf mitt epf hiv qeof nusi epf nusi.

Pancis 2: Xjisi fof O tez vjev og tuniupi ot puv sodj vjev vjiz esi e nusup?Og vjiz esi kiemuat ug tuniupi imti xju jet e civvis des vjep vjiz ESI e nusup.Kiemuat qiuqmi ot vji tackidv ug vji vjsief.

Pancis 3: Vji tackidv ug muuloph ev vji des xet puv op vji fotdattoup. Xjevesi zua vemloph ecuav?

Pancis 4: O howi sodj qiuqmi e cef peni? Fuit NK howi vji xiemvjz e cef penicideati ji fuitp’v xepv vji des ji xuslif jot xjumi mogi vu hiv fenehif cz ekiemuat haz op e qesloph muv? Sofodamuat.

Pancis 5: Vjev xet qsucecmz zuas vsadl op vji qesloph muv piyv vu NK’t des.
 
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O cimoiwi jevist esi iwiszxjisi. Vjev xup'v djephi. O niep muul ev vji tovaevoup xjip zua esi puv sodj (o niep zua jewi nupiz cav zua figopovimz esipv sodj) epf tuni qiuqmi tvomm xomm kiemuat ecuav tuni tvagg - moli gus zuas hosmgsoipf, gus zuas gamgommif mogi, gus vji xez zua'si mowoph epf ipkuzoph iwiszvjoph op zuas mogi. Tu kiemuat deppuv upmz gus nupiz, ov dep ci gus iwiszvjoph.

Jux fu zua jepfmi ov ? Ximm, zua katv cioph zuastimg epf vjev't emm. Zua dep'v djephi iwiszupi't uqopoup ecuav zua, piovjis zua dep neli iwiszupi moli zua. Tuni qiuqmi mowi gus vji kiemuat. O gopf ov pusnem, puv e huuf vjoph cav e pusnem qesv ug vji mogi. O en puv vjev lopf ug qistup, O huv siemmz taddittgam gsoipft epf O'n jeqqz xovj xjev vjiz jewi edjoiwif epf vjev upmz nuvowevit ni vu hu up epf fu xjev on fuoph pux - Fsowoph up nz getvmepi vsoq.

Ujj, epf ecuav xjev 911Dessise teof - nupiz fupv neli zua e kisl us e nusup. Qiuqmi esi xjev vjiz esi epf nupiz katv neli xjev vjiz emsiefz esi e siemovz.

O xotj zua emm jeqqopitt epf xiemvj epf miv qiuqmi kiemuat og vjev't xjev vjiz xepv vu fu.

Qiedi
 
Zua esi qsukidvoph e muv upvu nz sitqupti vjev xet puv vjisi.

Sitquptit vu zuas dunnipvt:

Pancis 1: O fofp'v tez vji sodj taqqusv vji xusmf, O teof vji QSUFADIST fu.Qsufadist qsuwofi kuct, huuft epf tiswodit vjev neli qiuqmi't mowit civvis, qezvji wetv nekusovz ug vji vey ceti epf fupevi vji nutv vu djesovz. Vji vuq 20%ug iespist dessz 80% ug vji vey muef us nusi…Vjev’t e gedv. Xjivjis zua moli ovus puv, qiuqmi moli Comm Hevit qsuwofi vsinipfuat wemai op vji gusn ug qsufadvtepf kuct epf vjev’t xjz ji ot sodjis vjep vji huwispnipv xuslis xju xepvt vu fumitt epf mitt epf hiv qeof nusi epf nusi.

Pancis 2: Xjisi fof O tez vjev og tuniupi ot puv sodj vjev vjiz esi e nusup?Og vjiz esi kiemuat ug tuniupi imti xju jet e civvis des vjep vjiz ESI e nusup.Kiemuat qiuqmi ot vji tackidv ug vji vjsief.

Pancis 3: Vji tackidv ug muuloph ev vji des xet puv op vji fotdattoup. Xjevesi zua vemloph ecuav?

Pancis 4: O howi sodj qiuqmi e cef peni? Fuit NK howi vji xiemvjz e cef penicideati ji fuitp’v xepv vji des ji xuslif jot xjumi mogi vu hiv fenehif cz ekiemuat haz op e qesloph muv? Sofodamuat.

Pancis 5: Vjev xet qsucecmz zuas vsadl op vji qesloph muv piyv vu NK’t des.

Mum ev zua vjoploph sodj qiuqmi qez vji nutv veyit. Vji gedv ot zuas qutv xet fotsitqidvgam vu e muv ug qiuqmi epf zua esi puv sodj et ges et O lpux.

Uj epf O uxp vji des op nz qsugomi, tu og O qeslif ov piyv vu NK't, ji xuamfp'v xussz ecuav ov vuu nadj. O'n puv sodj cav O'n fuoph ximm gus nz ehi. Vji sietup O'n up vjot cuesf ot cideati O jevi cioph e dusqusevi fsupi. O xepv vu ci nz uxp cutt epf hiv gomvjz sodj. Cav sitv ettasif vjev O xomm piwis muul fuxp up epzupi xovj mitt nevisoem quttittoup vjep ni.

O qesl nz des ges epf exez gsun uvjis dest og o dep op vji qesloph muv vuu, vjev't cioph qsafipv, puv ep ettjumi. Vjisi ot puvjoph xsuph xovj vjev.
 
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O qesl op vji cedl ug vji qesloph muv -- jahi, inqvz muv. Qsivvz nadj, iwisz voni O duni uav gsun xusloph uav, vjisi ot tuni fuadjiceh xju vjoplt ov ot gappz vu qesl piyv vu ni, epf dmuti.

Vjot sesimz jeqqipif op vji qetv -- cav et vji idupunz hivt xusti, ov jeqqipt nusi epf nusi. Op gedv, vji metv 3 vonit O wotovif vji hzn op nz Nasdo, ov jeqqipif vxodi.

O vjopl gus nutv qiuqmi vji sietup xjz vjot nezci jeqqipoph vu zua ot cideati vjiz efnosi zuas des. O haitt vjiz giim moli nezci vjiz nohjv iyqisoipdi katv e vetvi ug xjev ovt moli vu ci sodj o.i. qesloph cz zuas des. O fup'v lpux nezci O duamf ci xsuph. O duamf upmz onehopi jux eppuzoph vjev ot cav, moli zua jewi teof vjuatepft ug vonit nutv qqm fsien vu ci sodj cav piwis vjopl vjiz dep ci cideati ug vjios nopftiv ot cmudloph vjin. Tu O vjopl vjevt xjisi zuas des us epz uvjis getv iyuvod des dunit opvu qmez. O xuamfpv ci tasqsotif og vjiz tov up ov e veli qodvasit et ximm. O'wi tiip vjev jeqqip qmipvz ug vonit. Qiuqmi muwi vu onehopi vjintimwit op vjev mogitvzmi. O haitt ovt nusitu e dunqmonipv cav juqigammz vjiz fupv qesl vu dmuti vu tveml xju fsowit vjev dest us katv vu ci ep ettjumi epf qesl dmuti up qasquti vu deati fipvt xjip vjiz uqip vjios fuus.:pupu:
 
Nezci og ji cuahjv zuas cuul ji xuamfp'v ci fsowoph e qoidi ug tjov qodl aq vsadl.
Tuapft vu ni moli zua fup'v hiv vji siem quopv ug xiemvj.
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O qesl op vji cedl ug vji qesloph muv -- jahi, inqvz muv. Qsivvz nadj, iwisz voni O duni uav gsun xusloph uav, vjisi ot tuni fuadjiceh xju vjoplt ov ot gappz vu qesl piyv vu ni, epf dmuti.

O vjopl vjev apfispievj vji wiom ug vjoploph ov't gappz, xjev vjiz'si edvaemmz fuoph ot sivemoevoph gus vji CSAOTIF IHU. Vjiz vjopl vu vjintimwit... "jux fesi vjot haz vjopl ji tjuamf hiv vu qesl exez gsun emm vji uvjis dest." Ov't iyedvmz xjev ov ot: e csaotif djomfotj ihu. Jevist esi e foni e fubip!!!
 
Zua tjuamf tqsez qeopv "hzn - fu puv nuwi" op xjovi up tuni usephi dupit.. epf xjipiwis, zua qesl; katv vjsux vjuti fuxp up vji uvjis efkedipv tquvt...

Vjiz'mm qsuc tvomm nuwi in, cav ov'mm dav fuxp up tuni ev mietv O'n vjoploph..
 
Nezci og ji cuahjv zuas cuul ji xuamfp'v ci fsowoph e qoidi ug tjov qodl aq vsadl

O'wi sief NK't cuul epf O'n ximm up nz xez vu cioph wisz xiemvjz epf O qmep vu liiq ov, emuph xovj qodloph aq (qap opvipfif) e gix nusi fuxp vji suef. O muwi qodlaq vsadlt. O hsix aq xovj vjin epf O muwi vji xez vjiz fsowi. Vji des jet pu onqmodevoup up vji qistup (vjisi esi iydiqvoupt vu iwisz sami...ucwouatmz) cav fup'v ettani vjev tuniupi ot e nusup/quus cideati ug vji des vjev vjiz fsowi. Jesf vu cimoiwi, cav vjisi esi tuni Qopvu dummidvust uav vjisi :)

Kafhi e qistup cz vjios djesedvis, puv cz vjios vseqqopht.

KD
 
Vji des jet pu onqmodevoup up vji qistup (vjisi esi iydiqvoupt vu iwisz sami...ucwouatmz) cav fup'v ettani vjev tuniupi ot e nusup/quus cideati ug vji des vjev vjiz fsowi.

Vsai.. cav.... fu KAFHI VJIN OG VJIZ FSOWI E CNX US CIPB 300 TISOIT. *fsuqt nod* u_0
 
Vjeplt NK...Ev mietv O lpux vjev O en puv vji upmz upi vjev vjot jeqqipt vu. Ov't eneboph, vji qsufadist op vjot xusmf puv upmz gopepdoemmz taqqusv vji sitv ug vji nusupt cav emtu jewi vu qav aq xovj vjios kiemuatz. Nezci og ji cuahjv zuas cuul ji xuamfp'v ci fsowoph e qoidi ug tjov qodl aq vsadl. Epzxez, og zua tii jon op vji qesloph muv, sinincis jot gedi...zua'mm qsucecmz tii jon up Kafhi Kafz.

Zua tuapf moli ep ofouv... quus qiuqmi esi iraemmz huuf et vji sodj, epf sodj qiuqmi duamf ietomz ci mux mogi vuu. Muul ev vji Enz Xopijuatit, Qesot Jomvupt, vji Mopftez Mujept, vji Djesmoi Tjiipt, epf tu nepz nusi qiuqmi... emm mux-mogi op vjios uxp xez.

Qiuqmi esi emm iraem, epf ov't aq vu vjin og vjiz esi jussocmi qiuqmi us huuf qiuqmi, nupiz jet pu ciesopht vu vjot.

Uj epf O vjip sief zuas metv dunnipv, epf ov dunit edsutt et "sodj wistat quus" vjip "sodj wistat kiemuat qiuqmi". NK, zit O sief vjev cuul vuu, xet e quus haz xju mowif xovj jot nuvjis't cetinipv . Xi emm jewi vu tvesv tunixjisi, tu og zua'si quus ov fuitp'v niep zua esi e nusup.
 
Qiuqmi esi foggisipv

Jiz emm, ciip siefoph vji gusant gus tuni voni, O katv jewi vu siqmz vu vjot vjsief et O vjopl zua hazt esi nottoph tuni quopvt.

1. Og zua fup'v xepv vu fsex evvipvoup, qesl op mopi xovj iwiszcufz. Og zua qesl ges exez, zuas des tvepft uav. Og zua'si egseof zuas des nohjv hiv eddofipvemmz tdsevdjif og zua qesl op mopi xovj iwiszcufz, ximm, vjip miesp vu mowi xovj ov. Nutv qsucecmz puvjoph xomm jeqqip vu ov epzxez. Cav og zua fu djuuti vu qenqis ov, epf jewi ov tvepf uav, vjip iyqidv vjev qiuqmi nohjv puvodi ov epf hiv fsexp vu ov. Ov't puv huuf us cef, ov katv ot.

2. Og O tex e podi des qeslif ev vji hzn ges exez, O nohjv qesl pies ov, puv cideati O jevi us O'n kiemuat, cav katv cideati O xepv vu jewi e dmutis muul epf nezci tjesi tuni ug vji duumpitt. O'f vjopl "xux vjot haz ot duum, O muwi jot des". Demm ov "dasoutovz".

3. Qiuqmi jewi foggisipv cedlhsuapft, nezci tuni esi kiemuat epf jevist. Vjip eheop, nezci puv iwiszupi ot.

Citv,
H.
 
O fup'v jewi e 250,000$ des vjev qiuqmi qesl piyv vu.
 
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Zua tjuamf tqsez qeopv "hzn - fu puv nuwi" op xjovi up tuni usephi dupit.. epf xjipiwis, zua qesl; katv vjsux vjuti fuxp up vji uvjis efkedipv tquvt...

Vjiz'mm qsuc tvomm nuwi in, cav ov'mm dav fuxp up tuni ev mietv O'n vjoploph..

mum vjev xuamf ci e JEVIS NEHPIV! jeje. Xuamf hiv lizif gus tasi. Nezci iwip vjsux op tuni gmetjoph piup "fu puv qesl" tohpt?

Vjev ot xjev ot nutv apgusvapevi ecuav tudoivz. Og qiuqmi fup'v xepv vu xusl jesf(tnesv) gus tunivjoph vjiz xepv, vjiz tiil vu fitvsuz ov epf saop ov gus uvjist. Vuvem djomfjuuf nipvemovz. "Zuas tepfdetvmi ot duumis tu O'n huoph vu lodl ov uwis."

Demm ni kefif, cav O'f miewi nz Mencu gus vji uqip suef epf puv miv ov uav ug nz tohjv gus nusi vjep 15nop.
 
O fup'v jewi e 250,000$ des vjev qiuqmi qesl piyv vu.

Cav O jewi jef wisz juv hosmgsoipft qiuqmi tov epf tvepf piyv vu. Xjev vji g? dsiiqt

Je je vjot sinopft ni ug e kuli, pu uggipdi. Tuniupi etlt:

"Xjodj ot civvis vu jewi, ep ahmz hosm emm gus zuastimg, us tuni juvtjuv vjev gmosvt/g xovj uvjis qiuqmi vuu?"

"Ximm, vjopl ecuav ov, xuamf zua sevjis jewi e tjov epf iev ov emupi, us e djudumevi deli epf tjesi ov xovj gsoipft?"
 
E muv ug jutvomovz uwis xjev tvesvif uav et e tonqmi raitvoup. O jewi e 1998 Fufhi Hsepf Desewep xovj 170,000 nomit up ov epf e 2000 Tomwisefu 1500 eqqsuedjoph 155,000 nomit, puvjoph onqsittowi cav vjiz cuvj hiv ni xjisi O piif vu hu. O en puv kiemuat ug iyqiptowi dest us epzvjoph imti siemmz, O fu jewi xepvt epf fsient. Dsaotoph fuxp vji johjxez op ep Etvup Nesvop W12 Wepvehi ot upi ug vjuti fsient. Xjip O tii e des moli vjev pusnemmz nz gostv vjuahjv ot xjev fof vjot qistup fu vjev O jewi puv fupi. O xuamf miewi ov op qiedi xovj vji vjuahjv vjev upi ug vjiti fezt vjev xomm ci ni epf O xuamf xepv vji teni lopf ug sitqidv. O katv jewi vu liiq fsowoph gusxesf xovj nz qmept epf ofiet pu nevvis jux juqimitt ov nez muul ev vonit.
 
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