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Here's a 26-page PDF with a full business plan that I generated from Google Gemini 2.5 Pro w/ Deep Research in 15 minutes with a prompt I wrote in less than a minute. Targeting post-divorce execs with a service that can charge $250-$500/hour.

If you take away nothing else from the report itself, there's 55 quality sources cited at the end of the PDF on your competitors who are already doing what you want to do.

Thank you for this.

Aside from that, I'm gonna stop replying here. I said what I'm going to do, so I'll go do it, and provide updates here when I have something meaningful to report.

There's a lot of great advice, but some of the more recent "well-received" replies are more about bashing my previous mistakes, and extrapolating that out as an indicator of my future potential (or lack thereof) - such as those from @Simon Angel or @maverick . What's a bit ironic is that I had more than 1 person suggest I read Mindset by Carol Dweck. I just finished that last night, and it seems that some people claiming to "help" demonstrate a fixed-mindset about what's possible, given past results.

I don't expect cheerleaders, but the negativity isn't useful, so I'm going to stop engaging with it. Please feel free to "help" someone else, and I'll let you know how this evolves in my main progress thread.
 
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