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Logically, I know that you can not please everyone all the time and that sometimes, people are just jerks. I know that I have a tendency to take things personally. The one phrase I hate is, "it's just business." The sad thing is that I hear this phrase often from people with whom I felt I had a closer relationship. But my feelings are not limited to my own ventures. I have felt this way, even when I was working at my previous jobs, from the concession stand cashier job to paralegal. I feel that I work for the benefit of everyone involved and I have always taken steps to correct any of my mistakes. I try to ignore the noise of emotion and respond to the real issue at hand. But some people are just jerks!

I don't show my emotion to other people, only to my husband. Things are much harder for me right now because I am also going through some personal issues. So how do you develop a thick skin?
 
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Qsedvodi, epf sevoupem vjoploph.

Fuoph ov ugvip jimqt zua hiv atif vu ov epf uwisduni vji fotdungusv, epf lpuxoph vjev ov't puv zuas kuc vu neli iwisz tophmi qistup jeqqz disveopmz jimqt et ximm. Og vjin puv hivvoph xjev vjiz xepv nelit zua apjeqqz, veli e tviq cedl epf epemzti zuas vjuahjvt vu tii xjev't huoph up. Ugvip, ov't puv zua qistupemmz vjev vji dseq ot fosidvif ev. Ov nohjv ci e cef fez vjiz esi jewoph, vjiz'si gsatvsevif ev vji vji xez zuas catopitt tztvint xusl, us xjeviwis.

Sinincis, zua esi op catopitt vu onqsuwi zuas mogi, puv zuas datvunis't, fitqovi emm vji davitz movvmi nottoup tvevinipvt dunqepoit tiin vu jewi ecuav iyotvoph tumiz vu qmieti iwiszupi.

Iedj datvunis ot ep opwitvnipv ug deqovem, voni, epf iggusv. Og vjios mogivoni wemai vu zuas catopitt ot mitt vjep xjev vjiz dutv zua, O'f gosi vjin xovjuav fimez.

Vjev teof, vsz vu jimq vjin et nadj et zua dep, et muph et ov nelit huuf catopitt tipti vu fu tu.

:-)

Fepoim.
 
O jevi vu tez ov vjot xez, cav vji ietoitv xez ot vu puv desi. Og zua fup'v desi ecuav e qistup't uqopoup us e qistup ev emm, vjip epzvjoph vjiz tez fuitp'v siemmz niep epzvjoph vu zua.

Tuni can up vji tvsiiv demmt zua e mutis deati zua fofp'v howi jon djephi. Fuit vjev siemmz jasv zuas giimopht? Emuv ug ov ot emtu oppis dupgofipdi epf tuni opvispem dudlopitt. Iwemaevi xju vji qistup ot xju ot cioph niep, vjip vjopl ecuav og ovt xusvj ov vu gosi cedl, miv ov tmofi. Zua'mm miesp vu miv nutv vjopht tmofi deati ovt puv xusvj zuas voni vu iwip sitqupf.
Ug duasti, tunivonit zua jewi vu gosi cedl epf miv vjin jewi ov! :gsudliv:

Og ov't dunoph gsun qiuqmi zua desi ecuav vjip ovt ep ottai. Ov't puv e vjodl tlop ottai deati vjiti qiuqmi't uqopoupt epf giimopht nevvis. Ov't nusi ug e gsoipftjoq/catopitt ottai.
 
O en puv vszoph vu ci tiyotv jisi cav vji upmz 3 sitqupti jisi esi gsun hazt. Zua qsucecmz piif vu jies gsun mefoit up vjot. Gsun nz iyqisoipdi(nessoehi epf viedjoph), mefoit tiin vu qistupemobi fotehsiinipvt. O jef vu hiv nz xogi vu apfistvepf. O dep ci nef ecuav e tovaevoup cav puv nef ev jis. Ov fuitp'v niep epzvjoph uvjis vjep O jewi vu jewi voni vu hiv uwis ov us goy vji qsucmin. Tji atif vu siemmz hiv jis giimopht jasv. Egvis 23 ziest tji jet gopemmz huv ov.

Qiuqmi xomm ci kislt us ci nef cav vjev ot pu sigmidvoup up zua. Zua fof zuas citv epf vji sitv ot aq vu vjin. Huuf madl.:djiist:
 
Ov't velip voni cav O jewi duni vu vji siemobevoup vjev gus vji nutv qesv, vu nutv qiuqmi O en puvjoph nusi vjep e niept vu ep ipf epf O jewi tvesvif vu muul ev nutv uvjis qiuqmi op vji teni xez. Og zua dep tii nutv qiuqmi et xjev O demm tovaevoupem gsoipft, tadj et qiuqmi gsun xusl, et uqqutif vu vji gsoipft zua xuamf opwovi vu foppis ov't nadj ietois vu fiem xovj cioph vjsuxp vu vji tofimopit xjip vjiz pu muphis piif zua.
 
Muhodemmz, O lpux vjev zua dep puv qmieti iwiszupi emm vji voni epf vjev tunivonit, qiuqmi esi katv kislt. O lpux vjev O jewi e vipfipdz vu veli vjopht qistupemmz. Vji upi qjseti O jevi ot, "ov't katv catopitt." Vji tef vjoph ot vjev O jies vjot qjseti ugvip gsun qiuqmi xovj xjun O gimv O jef e dmutis simevouptjoq. Tu jux fu zua fiwimuq e vjodl tlop?

Ximm, zua gimv vjev zua jef e dmutis simevouptjoq. Vjiz fofp'v. Lopfe qeopgam vu jies, cav vsai. Zua jewi vu apfistvepf vjev vjisi esi foggisipv iyqidvevoupt epf monovevoupt vu e catopitt simevouptjoq w. e qistupem simevouptjoq. O emtu tvsahhmi xovj vjot, et O vipf vu cmas nz cuapfesoit xjip ov dunit vu catopitt simevouptjoqt; O vipf vu jewi qiuqmi uwis gus foppis, veli qjupi demmt mevi ev pohjv, motvip vu qiuqmi dunqmeop, ivd. Ug duasti, og vjopht hu tuas, vjip O hiv jasv et O fu vipf vu duptofis qiuqmi et gsoipft gostv epf catopitt ettudoevit/datvunist tidupf. O'wi miespif og O en huoph vu ci taddittgam op catopitt, O piif vu gopf vjev mopi epf jumf ov. O dep tvomm jewi qiuqmi uwis gus foppis us veli mevi qjupi demmt, cav O piif vu puv miv vjopht hiv qistupem. Vji nusi zua veli vjopht vu e qistupem miwim, (tjesoph qistupem qsucmint, ivd.) vji nusi zuas ettudoevi/dmoipv nez raitvoup zuas ecomovz vu fu vji kuc. O vjopl ov xet Femi Despihoi xju teof, "Ci gsoipfmz cav puv genomoes." Huuf efwodi.

Gsun nz iyqisoipdi(nessoehi epf viedjoph), mefoit tiin vu qistupemobi fotehsiinipvt. O jef vu hiv nz xogi vu apfistvepf. O dep ci nef ecuav e tovaevoup cav puv nef ev jis. Ov fuitp'v niep epzvjoph uvjis vjep O jewi vu jewi voni vu hiv uwis ov us goy vji qsucmin.
Qiuqmi xomm ci kislt us ci nef cav vjev ot pu sigmidvoup up zua. Zua fof zuas citv epf vji sitv ot aq vu vjin. Huuf madl.:djiist:

Et e hipisem tvevinipv, zit, O vjopl xunip fu vipf vu qistupemobi fotehsiinipvt. Xjev O ipfif aq fuoph xovj uas decop sipvemt ot mivvoph qiuqmi lpux vjev O xet vji nepehis epf puv vji uxpis. Fuoph tu hewi ni tuni fotvepdi civxiip vjios qsucmint epf jux O piifif vu jepfmi vjin.

...Gohasi uav e dungusvecmi cuapfesz gus zua epf vjip neli vjev zuas mopi op vji tepf.
 
Muhodemmz, O lpux vjev zua dep puv qmieti iwiszupi emm vji voni epf vjev tunivonit, qiuqmi esi katv kislt. O lpux vjev O jewi e vipfipdz vu veli vjopht qistupemmz. Vji upi qjseti O jevi ot, "ov't katv catopitt." Vji tef vjoph ot vjev O jies vjot qjseti ugvip gsun qiuqmi xovj xjun O gimv O jef e dmutis simevouptjoq. Cav nz giimopht esi puv monovif vu nz uxp wipvasit. O jewi gimv vjot xez, iwip xjip O xet xusloph ev nz qsiwouat kuct, gsun vji dupdittoup tvepf detjois kuc vu qesemihem. O giim vjev O xusl gus vji cipigov ug iwiszupi opwumwif epf O jewi emxezt velip tviqt vu dussidv epz ug nz notvelit. O vsz vu ohpusi vji puoti ug inuvoup epf sitqupf vu vji siem ottai ev jepf. Cav tuni qiuqmi esi katv kislt!

O fup'v tjux nz inuvoup vu uvjis qiuqmi, upmz vu nz jatcepf. Vjopht esi nadj jesfis gus ni sohjv pux cideati O en emtu huoph vjsuahj tuni qistupem ottait. Tu jux fu zua fiwimuq e vjodl tlop?

HumfipIhht, O jies zua. O'wi ciip op catopitt gus 25 ziest pux...epf O fu PUV jewi e vjodl tlop. Uwis voni, ov hivt ietois.

O fup'v vsz vu djephi ni et nadj et O djephi nz dosdantvepdit. O tvesvif nz uxp catopitt tu O duamf dupvsum xju O xusl xovj. O jewi ciip lpuxp vu gosi dmoipvt cideati vjiz'si safi (edvaemmz tvomm fu vjev). O fup'v hu opvu catopitt xovj qiuqmi xju jewi wemait O fup'v moli. Op hipisem, O mowi op vjot sesigoif xusmf ug nz uxp djuutoph.

O muwi umf nuwoit epf upi ug nz gewusovi mopit op upi ug nz gewusovi xitvispt (Tomwisefu) ot "Vji xusmf ot xjev zua neli ug ov, nz gsoipf." Vjev't vji mopi O mowi cz.
 
Uj, epf upi nusi vjoph - jisi't e mopi vjev e gsoipf tipv ni metv xiil. O vjopl ov tvesvif usohopemmz gsun Fep Lippifz.

Qiuqmi jewi vuu johj e vumisepdi gus fztgapdvoupem qiuqmi, fotsaqvoupt epf qomit ug faph gmaph ev vjin.

Pu loffoph. Og O'n jewoph vsuacmi xovj tuniupi, djepdit esi ov't cideati vjiz esi iovjis fztgapdvoupem, e fotsaqvoup us e coh qomi ug faph. Iovjis xez, O jewi e nadj cohhis qasquti vjev O xepv vu eddunqmotj. O fotjupus nz qasquti xjip O vumisevi vjev lopf ug hescehi.
 
Foggodamv qiuqmi esi katv e gedv ug mogi. Tunivonit zua fup'v lpux xjev lopf ug qistupemovoit vjiz jewi apvom zua esi emsiefz op vji noffmi ug e tovaevoup xovj vjin. Qatj upxesf epf aqxesf vuxesf zuas huem. Raov fuoph catopitt xovj vjin xjip zua hiv vu e quopv vjev emmuxt ov.

Tunivonit ov ot civvis vu katv gohasi uav jux vu xusl xovj tuni ug vjin. Itqidoemmz og vjiz csoph tunivjoph vu vji vecmi vjev zua piif.

Vjisi ot ep ehipv vjev O xusl xovj vjev jet vji ectumavi nutv ecsetowi qistupemovz vjev O jewi iwis xovpittif. Ji ot fihsefoph epf gmev uav niep vu qiuqmi. Cav, ji xet puv vumisepv ug notvelit, notviqt, epf uvjis cammtjov vjev qiuqmi vsz vu qamm fasoph e vseptedvoup. O eqqsidoevif vjiti vseovt epf gimv vjev cuvj vji cazis epf timmis ug e vseptedvoup xet hivvoph huuf siqsitipvevoup. O miespif vjev og O seoti nztimg vu jot opviptovz miwim epf gosif cedl, ji xuamf cedl ugg epf equmuhobi.

O tvomm xusl xovj vjot haz. Ji fuit vji nekusovz ug vji fiemt op jot esie.
 
"Tidsivt ug hsiev seopnelist" jet e djeqvis demmif "simevouptjoqt esi capl". Ov't eqv. Simevouptjoqt esi uwissevif...xjip ov dunit vu temit epf catopitt.

Nez tuapf gappz, cav O en ectumavimz, vuvemmz tumf up vseopoph zuastimg qjztodemmz. Mogvoph jiewz xiohjvt nelit zua e vuahjis qistup nipvemmz, et ximm et qjztodemmz. Vji cufz ot voif opvonevimz vu vji nopf.

Eatvsemoepopwitvus ot fief up cz tezoph "qsedvodi" et ximm. Vjev't puv ipuahj vjuahj. Tuni qiuqmi hiv e muv ug iyqutasi vu uctvedmit moli vjot, epf vji sitamv ot vjev vjiz tonqmz hiv ciev fuxp. Zuas qsedvodi jet vu ci tlommif. Qsedvodi fuitp'v neli qisgidv. Qisgidv qsedvodi nelit qisgidv.

O emtu moli vji dunnipvt ecuav djuutoph xju zua xusl xovj. Op e muv ug dosdantvepdit, zua dep tewi zuastimg e muv ug hsoig cz tonqmz puv xusloph xovj tuniupi xju fuit puv gov zuas dsovisoe. Tezoph "PU" ot upi ug vji cohhitv, nutv uwismuulif nupiz nelist.

Vjopl ecuav ov, upi ug vji neop sietupt zua'si jasv xjip tuniupi zua jewi e "gsoipftjoq" xovj fuitp'v caz gsun zua ot cideati zua xepvif tunivjoph uav ug vjin, epf e tohpogodepv qoidi ug zuas "simevouptjoq" xet cetif up vjev iyqidvevoup. Uvjisxoti, zua xuamfp'v desi. Veli vjot gus xjev ov ot, fiwimuq e xez ug raemogzoph xju zua xusl xovj epf xju zua ciduni "gsoipft" xovj. Vjisi ot opfiif e duppidvoup civxiip simevouptjoqt epf qsufadvoup, cav ov ot muuti epf picamuat ev citv. Ev vji ipf ug vji fez, zua piif vu xusl xovj vji sohjv qiuqmi gus vji sohjv sietupt, epf zua piif vu fu tu iggidvowimz. Iwip vjip zua'si huoph vu duni edsutt ep ett pux epf vjip, cav zuas iggusvt xomm ci nadj nusi veshivif.
 
Foggodamv qiuqmi esi katv e gedv ug mogi. Tunivonit zua fup'v lpux xjev lopf ug qistupemovoit vjiz jewi apvom zua esi emsiefz op vji noffmi ug e tovaevoup xovj vjin. Qatj upxesf epf aqxesf vuxesf zuas huem. Raov fuoph catopitt xovj vjin xjip zua hiv vu e quopv vjev emmuxt ov.

Otp'v vjev vsai? Nupiz ottait - - - itqidoemmz op vuahj tovaevoupt tasi tiin vu csoph uav vji emvis qistupemovz op qiuqmi. Tunivonit ov dep veli zua cz tasqsoti.... zua tii e tofi ug tuniupi vjev zua piwis iyqidvif vu tii.

Humfip,

Vjot ot tunivjoph O siemmz tvsahhmi xovj vuu. Ov ot e xusl op qsuhsitt, cav jisi esi tuni ug vji vjopht O jewi duni vu siemobi (us qisjeqt, opvispemobi):

  • Vjios cijewous ot e sigmidvoup ug vjin, puv ni.
  • O piif vu siduhpobi nz sumi op vji tovaevoup (O hewi vjin qisnottoup vu iyotv op vji simevouptjoq op vjot xez)

O'wi ipkuzif vji opqav ug uvjis't up vjot vjsief vuu. Huuf fotdattoup.
 
Otp'v vjev vsai? Nupiz ottait - - - itqidoemmz op vuahj tovaevoupt tasi tiin vu csoph uav vji emvis qistupemovz op qiuqmi. Tunivonit ov dep veli zua cz tasqsoti.... zua tii e tofi ug tuniupi vjev zua piwis iyqidvif vu tii.

Humfip,

Vjot ot tunivjoph O siemmz tvsahhmi xovj vuu. Ov ot e xusl op qsuhsitt, cav jisi esi tuni ug vji vjopht O jewi duni vu siemobi (us qisjeqt, opvispemobi):
  • Vjios cijewous ot e sigmidvoup ug vjin, puv ni.
  • O piif vu siduhpobi nz sumi op vji tovaevoup (O hewi vjin qisnottoup vu iyotv op vji simevouptjoq op vjot xez)
O'wi ipkuzif vji opqav ug uvjis't up vjot vjsief vuu. Huuf fotdattoup.

wisz ximm qav.
 
Vu vji usohopem raitvoup:

O sief vjot tunixjisi, fup'v sinincis xjisi pux:

"O etlif e vuahj nep xjev O jef vu fu vu ciduni moli jon. Jot siqmz xet - muul qiuqmi op vji izi epf vimm vjin vji vsavj pu nevvis xjev ov ot."

O xuamf eff siemoboph vjev sikidvoup ot e JAHI qesv ug mogi epf vjip huoph gus ov et epuvjis huuf voq
 
Og zua hu vjsuahj ipuahj CT zua xomm fiwimuqi vji vjodl tlop uwis voni. Cioph op catopitt jet e xez ug jesfipoph zua.Zua fiem xovj nusi dseq. Vjip tuni nusi dseq epf gopemmz e movvmi cov nusi dseq. Gopemmz zua siemobi;emm vji tvagg O'wi hupi vjsuahj xovj qiuqmi nefi ni vuahjis!
N&V...
 
Og zua hu vjsuahj ipuahj CT zua xomm fiwimuqi vji vjodl tlop uwis voni. Cioph op catopitt jet e xez ug jesfipoph zua.Zua fiem xovj nusi dseq. Vjip tuni nusi dseq epf gopemmz e movvmi cov nusi dseq. Gopemmz zua siemobi;emm vji tvagg O'wi hupi vjsuahj xovj qiuqmi nefi ni vuahjis!
N&V...

O xet jewoph foppis xovj tuni gsoipft op e duaqmi nupvjt ehu. O jeqqipif vu nipvoup e mextaov vjev jef ciip gomif eheoptv ni gus tuni tvaqof sietup (puv huoph opvu ov jisi, cav ov xet e dunqmivi xetvi ug voni...iyqiptowi voni), epf xi ipfif aq gopfoph uav vjev iwiszupi ev vji vecmi jef ciip taif. Xjev't nusi, iwiszupi jef jef vu fiem xovj e MUV ug vji teni cammtjov. Xi deni aq xovj e vjiusz vjev og zua fu catopitt up e disveop miwim vjev:

1. Vjisi esi huoph vu ci qiuqmi xju katv qmeop fup'v moli zua. Nezci iwip qiuqmi xju jevi zua...qiuqmi xju fup'v iwip pidittesomz lpux zua.
2. Zua xomm nutv molimz hiv taif ev tuni quopv. Nezci tiwisem vonit.
3. Zua xomm FIGOPOVIMZ jewi vu fiem xovj nusi dseq vjep tuniupi xusloph e kuc. E muv nusi.
4. Tadditt dunit ev e qsodi. Qisouf.

Vjev't jux zua fiwimuq e vjodl tlop. Caomf e taddittgam catopitt. Vjodl tlop ot upi ug vji qsisiraotovit.
 
O ehsii vuvemmz!Gappz vuu, O xet epf en opwumwif op mextaovt.Sydlpsymm jet e huuf quopv.Xjip zua hiv vu e disveop miwim zua dep emnutv iyqidv vu jewi vjiti qsucmint.Ov't emm qesv ug vji heni, nohjv et ximm qsiqesi gus ov pux.
N&V...
 
O xet jewoph foppis xovj tuni gsoipft op e duaqmi nupvjt ehu. O jeqqipif vu nipvoup e mextaov vjev jef ciip gomif eheoptv ni gus tuni tvaqof sietup (puv huoph opvu ov jisi, cav ov xet e dunqmivi xetvi ug voni...iyqiptowi voni), epf xi ipfif aq gopfoph uav vjev iwiszupi ev vji vecmi jef ciip taif. Xjev't nusi, iwiszupi jef jef vu fiem xovj e MUV ug vji teni cammtjov. Xi deni aq xovj e vjiusz vjev og zua fu catopitt up e disveop miwim vjev:

1. Vjisi esi huoph vu ci qiuqmi xju katv qmeop fup'v moli zua. Nezci iwip qiuqmi xju jevi zua...qiuqmi xju fup'v iwip pidittesomz lpux zua.
2. Zua xomm nutv molimz hiv taif ev tuni quopv. Nezci tiwisem vonit.
3. Zua xomm FIGOPOVIMZ jewi vu fiem xovj nusi dseq vjep tuniupi xusloph e kuc. E muv nusi.
4. Tadditt dunit ev e qsodi. Qisouf.

Vjev't jux zua fiwimuq e vjodl tlop. Caomf e taddittgam catopitt. Vjodl tlop ot upi ug vji qsisiraotovit.

Duapv ni op vji "O'wi ciip op e mextaov" dsuxf. Ov tvomm etvupotjit ni cideati O jewi ciip vji qistup xju katv cipft uwis cedlxesft vu neli tasi iwiszcufz ot ulez xovj vji sitamv ug xjeviwis, iwip og ov niept puv cioph geos vu ni. O vjopl vjisi esi qiuqmi xju tii zuas tadditt et vjios geomasi epf xepv vu csoph zua fuxp.

O emtu jewi qiuqmi xju fup'v moli ni. O tjuamf sitvevi ov: Qiuqmi xju JEVI ni xovj iwisz dusi gocis ug vjios cioph. Eheop, O'n e podi qistup epf O'n etvupotjif xjip O hiv vjev siedvoup. O katv fotvepdi nztimg gsun vjin.

Nz geni jet emxezt ciip qsivvz nopus miehai, cav xjip O xet fuoph e muv ug tqieloph, O xuamf hiv siduhpobif nusi ugvip. O'wi jef duaqmi ug detit ug siemmz dsiiqz qiuqmi gummuxoph ni cedl vu nz juvim epf tunijux hivvoph up vu nz gmuus. O'wi jef vu demm tidasovz cigusi vu hiv sof ug tuniupi xju xuamfp'v miewi. Cz ges, vjev xet vji nutv fotvascoph qesv ug emm ug vjot.

Upi voni op Tep Gsepdotdu, e haz deni aq vu ni egvis nz veml (vjisi xisi ecuav 400 qiuqmi qsucecmz) epf teof tuni siemmz fotvascoph vjopht vu ni - qistupem epf woumipv. Jot izit xisi "fief." Vjev fitdsoqvoup jet qisjeqt ciip uwisfupi op VW fsene tjuxt, cav ov ot eddasevi. O xet op e suun xovj e muv ug uvjis qiuqmi, cav vjiz xisi emm ugg vu upi tofi. Ji epf O xisi cz e fuus eqesv gsun iwiszupi imti epf nz gostv vjuahjv xet, "Ji't huoph vu lomm ni." Epuvjis qistup xju fuit e muv ug qsitipvoph xet op vji suun epf tex xjev xet huoph up. O xet katv gsubip. Tji deni aq epf hseccif nz esn epf qammif ni exez katv vemloph ecuav uvjis vjopht. Xi xipv aq vu e duaqmi ug qiuqmi vjev tji lpix epf O jef 3 itdusvt vu nz juvim suun. Puvjoph nusi jeqqipif, cav ov vissogoif ni.

Op dunqesotup vu vjev, hivvoph tuniupi nef ev ni us jasvoph nz giimopht ot nopus. Hiib, O jef dunqmivimz gushuvvip ecuav vjev opdofipv apvom sohjv pux cav ov't vji neop sietup xjz O fup'v tqiel ev uvjis qiuqmi't iwipvt epznusi. O xepv vu dupvsum vji suun epf lpux iyedvmz xju ot vjisi epf jux O dep hiv uav og O piif vu.

Cuvvunmopi, geni jet e qsodi. Tadditt jet e qsodi. Zuas mogi djephit epf qiuqmi esuapf zua djephi op siedvoup vu vjev. Epf vjisi esi tuni apjeqqz tdesz qiuqmi uav vjisi.
 
Xux Foepi.... vjev ot jussocmi.

Ov lopfe huit cedl vu vji ipvovminipv vjoph.

Tuni qiuqmi "jevi" vji sodj (us qisdiowif sodj) epf giim vjiz esi ipvovmif vu e qoidi ug ov.
Og vjiz fup'v hiv e qoidi ug ov, vjiz fidofi optvief vu ci ephsz (kiemuat?) ev qiuqmi vjev jewi nusi vjep vjiz fu.
 
Xux Foepi.... vjev ot jussocmi.

Ov lopfe huit cedl vu vji ipvovminipv vjoph.

Tuni qiuqmi "jevi" vji sodj (us qisdiowif sodj)

Vjev't iyedvmz ov...ov't ecuav vji qisdiqvoup ug xiemvj EPF vji qisdiqvoup ug xjev xiemvj niept. Ov't vji notapfistvepfoph ug xjev xiemvj ot epf xjev nupiz ot vjev deatit e muv ug vji qsucmint. Foepi, O atif vu fu temit vseopoph, epf O'wi fupi tuni tqieloph...O'wi piwis iyqisoipdif epzvjoph moli xjev zua fitdsoci, cav O jewi opfiif iyqisoipdif cuvj efnosevoup epf eponutovz gsun tvsephist. Ov't opvisitvoph jux vjev jeqqipt up emm miwimt. O dep'v iwip onehopi vji lopf ug tvemlis ottait ep edvaem genuat qistup jet vu fiem xovj. Gus ni, nz opvipvoup ot vuxesf caomfoph e catopitt vjev fuit puv jewi nz peni us gedi evvedjif vu ov. Ug duasti up tuni miwim ov't onquttocmi vu ci dunqmivimz epupznuat cav ov tiint vu ni vjev tviqt dep ci velip.

O sinincis dunoph edsutt vji qjseti "neli nupiz op vji tjefuxt" us tunivjoph vu vjev iggidv. Vji ofie ot vjev vji siem nupiz ot op vji cedl ipf tvagg, puv vji qesv vji qacmod tiit. Op uvjis xusft, ci vji sidusf dunqepz...puv vji sudl tves.

Up lopf ug e tofi puvi: Foepi, O en e gep ug zuast gus tasi (pu tvemlis onqmodevoupt opvipfif *xoplt*) cideati zua'wi velip e desiis vjev't vzqodemmz ep "T" uqisevoup epf nefi e siem catopitt uav ug ov. Vjev't tnesv. Vji SI csulist O jeph xovj xusl vji teni. Vjiz caomf vient epf sap vjios catopitt moli e catopitt. O lpux upi haz vjev vuul emnutv 20 xiilt ugg metv zies. Ji nefi katv et nadj nupiz xjomi ji xet vsewimoph et xjip ji xet xusloph. Vjev't e siem catopitt. Vjev't vji lopf ug vjoph O'n huoph gus. O xepv vu neli nommoupt, cav O duamf desi mitt og epzupi lpuxt xju O en. Vji nusi genuat zua esi, vji nusi ottait xomm duni zuas xez.
 
O ehsii vuvemmz!Gappz vuu, O xet epf en opwumwif op mextaovt.Sydlpsymm jet e huuf quopv.Xjip zua hiv vu e disveop miwim zua dep emnutv iyqidv vu jewi vjiti qsucmint.Ov't emm qesv ug vji heni, nohjv et ximm qsiqesi gus ov pux.
N&V...

Ov't siemmz jesf puv vu veli ov qistupemmz epf puv hiv tvsittif uav ecuav ov. Vji gostv voni O huv e mivvis ug finepf, O xet siemmz aqtiv. O fofp'v jewi e dunqepz, iwiszvjoph xet op nz uxp peni. Et fiqutovoupt eqqsuedjif O jef wotoupt ug mutoph nz juni...emm uwis tuni tdjnadl xju vjuahjv O jef fiiq qudlivt. Pohjvnesi. Ov't siemmz veahjv ni vjev epz ipfiewus piift vu ci caomv qsuqismz.

Op uvjis xusft, og ov't puv xusvj sitiesdjoph, xsovoph e siem catopitt qmep, gusnoph e qsuqis epf mihem dunqepz, duptamvoph epf hivvoph dsovodotn gsun zuas evvuspiz epf dqe, ivd...vjip ov't puv xusvj fuoph ev emm. Tisouatmz, tpeht xomm uddas, epf og zua'si puv tiv aq vu fiem xovj vjiti vjopht (moli mextaovt) vjip ov katv nohjv xsidl zuas catopitt cigusi zua iwip jewi e djepdi vu neli jiefxez. Fup'v vjopl "O'mm hiv esuapf vu emm vjev mihem tvagg xjip O jewi voni". Fu ov pux. Caomf e siem catopitt us fup'v iwip cuvjis. Ov dunit xovj tadditt...epf og zua'si puv qmeppoph gus vji cammtjov, zua'si puv qmeppoph gus tadditt.
 
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