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Hello everybody,
I´m new here, I haven´t had the chance to write here before, but I have read a lot of your posts here, and found them AMAZING and life changing! I have even saved some of them in my laptop so I can check them continuously.
First of all and before you say anything, I will ask you to forgive me if I make a mistake here with my grammar, my main language is Spanish, yeah, yeah ESPAÑOL!
so I will definitely not write perfectly your language, English, but I´ll try my best. :smxB:
Ok, my question for all of you and the reason for this post is as the title says, How do I get rid of negative people that are suposed to be around me?
MJ explains something about it in his book and he says you should turn your back on them so you can move on. And for me it makes sense but it´s been really difficult!
I´m a 23 years old woman, who recently graduated from college so EVERYBODY expects me to find a job, and live with it. I constantly say to my father that´s not the only way to get things in life but he doesn´t understand. He is always saying to me... "They are looking for a person in whatever company", or if he is reading the newspaper he would say "Look, they are looking for a girl like you, why don´t you send them your resume". The same happens with
my best friend, sometimes she says "Hey where were you lastnight?, I couldn´t find you?" and I said "Oh sorry I was planning and strategy for a new business idea I just got, it´s amazing and I have a big chance and a great opportunity". She literally looks at me like I was crazy, or speaking chinesse :coco: And in one or two days later, she acts like I didnt said anything that day, and asks "How about you sending your resume to my company? They are looking for a...." :nonod: I love her, I mean she´s my best friend, and also happens with my dad, and others relatives and friends (almost everyone around me). But It makes me feel bad that they don´t belive in me, they don´t believe I can do it, they think it´s impossible I can find a good business idea and develop it, or they just think I´m making a mistake dreaming with impossible things, or things that I should not do, because that´s not the normal thing to do... obviously! It would be really SAD if I made normal things like everyone else, because I would end up being like everybody ..poor, stressed out, with no time or health!
Well, to finish, I will like you to help me and tell me what would you if you were in a similar position..or what can I do so that this does not negatively affect me? I will definitely keep trying, thinking and thinking for Fastlane business ideas, but I do not want this to affect me or my motivation. I know and I´m sure (100%) I can do it, I haven´t hit it yet with the best idea, but I´m definitely trying and trying, and I know one day not so far I will achieve it, and I would just blow their minds. :huh2:
Thanks for your help in advance! :smxB:
I´m new here, I haven´t had the chance to write here before, but I have read a lot of your posts here, and found them AMAZING and life changing! I have even saved some of them in my laptop so I can check them continuously.
First of all and before you say anything, I will ask you to forgive me if I make a mistake here with my grammar, my main language is Spanish, yeah, yeah ESPAÑOL!
so I will definitely not write perfectly your language, English, but I´ll try my best. :smxB:Ok, my question for all of you and the reason for this post is as the title says, How do I get rid of negative people that are suposed to be around me?
MJ explains something about it in his book and he says you should turn your back on them so you can move on. And for me it makes sense but it´s been really difficult!
I´m a 23 years old woman, who recently graduated from college so EVERYBODY expects me to find a job, and live with it. I constantly say to my father that´s not the only way to get things in life but he doesn´t understand. He is always saying to me... "They are looking for a person in whatever company", or if he is reading the newspaper he would say "Look, they are looking for a girl like you, why don´t you send them your resume". The same happens with
my best friend, sometimes she says "Hey where were you lastnight?, I couldn´t find you?" and I said "Oh sorry I was planning and strategy for a new business idea I just got, it´s amazing and I have a big chance and a great opportunity". She literally looks at me like I was crazy, or speaking chinesse :coco: And in one or two days later, she acts like I didnt said anything that day, and asks "How about you sending your resume to my company? They are looking for a...." :nonod: I love her, I mean she´s my best friend, and also happens with my dad, and others relatives and friends (almost everyone around me). But It makes me feel bad that they don´t belive in me, they don´t believe I can do it, they think it´s impossible I can find a good business idea and develop it, or they just think I´m making a mistake dreaming with impossible things, or things that I should not do, because that´s not the normal thing to do... obviously! It would be really SAD if I made normal things like everyone else, because I would end up being like everybody ..poor, stressed out, with no time or health!
Well, to finish, I will like you to help me and tell me what would you if you were in a similar position..or what can I do so that this does not negatively affect me? I will definitely keep trying, thinking and thinking for Fastlane business ideas, but I do not want this to affect me or my motivation. I know and I´m sure (100%) I can do it, I haven´t hit it yet with the best idea, but I´m definitely trying and trying, and I know one day not so far I will achieve it, and I would just blow their minds. :huh2:
Thanks for your help in advance! :smxB:
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