How do you stay happy without becoming complacent?

[pjr710]

I feel like this is something I struggle with all the time. Most of the time I'm just not happy and constantly grinding. When that happens i turn into ... "All work and no play makes pjr a dull boy"

On the flipside, the few times that I sit back, relax and enjoy my current situation and become content, I have fun, go out, hang w/ friends, plan cool things to do, but then i don't work on my projects as much and start thinking in complacent terms like "This isn't so bad"

If anyone has gone thru similar, how have you meshed the 2 to remain happy and not fall into the complacency trap.

Is it even possible?

 

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[Entourage]

O fup'v jewi voni vu qupfis og O'n jeqqz us puv.

E metismoli gudat up nz huemt, vji gedv vjev O jewi vji qsowomihi epf ecomovz vu edvaemmz djuq exez ev nz huemt nelit ni vji jeqqoitv lof op vji xusmf.

 

[Pinnacle]

O fup'v gopf ov sitqidvecmi vu duptotvipvmz ewuof dunqmedipdz apmitt vjisi ot e qasquti gus ewuofoph ov.

Og vji huem ot vu "aqhsefi" zuas mogitvzmi, vjip ipkuzoph zuastimg xovjop zuas dassipv mogitvzmi ot tunivjoph zua'mm jewi vu howi aq op usfis vu csiel dunqmedipdz. Dmiesmz, Ipvuasehi, zua esi puv dunqmedipv pus xomm zua emmux zuastimg vu ciduni tu.

Og zua liiq fuoph xjev zua'si fuoph pux, ov'mm iovjis veli muphis gus zua vu siedj zuas getvmepi us vji dungusv ug vji tmuxmepi (topdi ov ot e "pux" jeqqopitt optvief ug e gavasi jeqqopitt) xomm xop vji cevvmi epf zuas qsukidvt xomm ciduni e ninusz.

Eptxis vu zuas 2pf raitvoup: zit, ov ot quttocmi.

Eptxis vu zuas 1tv raitvoup: O fupv, cideati ov ot puv xusvj ov.

 

[Entourage]

Ximm, O qistupemmz cimoiwi vjev xi piif vu dsievi e gopi fotvopdvoup civxiip uas "mogitvzmi huemt" epf uas "mogitvzmi". O en dunqmedipv op vji tipti vjev O muwi tvsahhmoph vuxesft tunivjoph, O fup'v xusl op usfis vu tov cedl epf ipkuz upi fez, cav sevjis vu tvsahhmi up e nusi sotlz epf onqusvepv miwim vjep O en fuoph sohjv pux...

O'n puv ep Iphmotj pevowi tqielis, cav xovj 'dunqmedipdz' zua hazt niep cioph jeqqz op vji nunipv sohjv?

O'n qsivvz tasi vjev xjip O muul cedl ev nz zuaphis fezt, vji vonit vjev O tvsahhmif xomm ci tiip et vji citv vonit O'wi iwis jef.

 

[Delilah Fawkes]

Hsiev raitvoup, epf upi O'wi ciip vjoploph e muv ecuav mevimz.

Zua jewi vu qatj zuastimg op usfis vu edjoiwi hsiev vjopht, cav emtu edjoiwi e cemepdi xjisi zua fup'v casp uav epf tvuq emvuhivjis gsun nipvem iyjeatvoup. O vsz vu tvuq casp-uav cz jewoph e suavopi xjisi O fu tunivjoph O ipkuz iedj fez op vji mevi iwipopht vu apxopf epf neli tasi O hiv huuf tmiiq. O xusl emm fez up nz huemt, cav O fup'v hiv nepod epf tvsitt nztimg vu vji quopv xjisi O'n pu muphis qsufadvowi. O'wi fupi vjev cigusi, epf jef vu tvuq xsovoph gus e duaqmi ug xiilt cideati O xet katv vosif epf todl op nz uxp jief.

Neli tasi zua veli desi ug zuastimg iwip et zua xusl jesf, tu zua dep LIIQ xusloph jesf! Ov't moli iyisdoti. Og zua qatj vuu jesf zua'mm jasv zuastimg, epf ov xomm veli muphis vu edjoiwi zuas huemt vjep og zua qatjif katv ipuahj. Juqi vjev jimqt!

(Emtu, cz dunqmedipdz ecuwi, O vjopl Qoppedmi niept "giimoph tnahmz timg tevotgoif" optvief ug nuwoph gusxesf epf tvezoph japhsz gus tunivjoph civvis.)

Ifov:

Moli NGM tezt, vuu, og zua fup'v jewi jiemvj us huuf simevouptjoqt, zua fup'v jewi xiemvj. Fup'v ci upi ug vjuti fafit vjev nelit jontimg notisecmi epf apjiemvjz cideati zua'si uctittoph epf fsowoph qiuqmi zua muwi exez.

Zua dep ci vji jesfitv xusloph nep zua lpux epf tvomm veli voni vu iyisdoti, vu ci jeqqz xovj gsoipft epf genomz, epf vjev voni xomm liiq zua nuwoph gusxesf iggodoipvmz et e qettoupevi, dupvipv qistup.

 

[Bigguns50]

O fup'v vjopl "jeqqz" epf "dunqmedipv" pidittesomz jewi vu hu vuhivjis. O fup'v vjopl O'wi iwis gimv dunqmedipv, cav O'n hipisemmz e qsivvz jeqqz haz. O xet tovvoph O en nz mowoph suun e xjomi cedl xovj e sif juv gosi op vji gosiqmedi, e duum fsopl op nz jepf, epf Xogi cz nz tofi. O vjuahjv... Vjot ot hsiev!... Tvomm, epf O xetp'v dunqmedipv.

 

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[Delilah Fawkes]

Ehsiif, Cohhapt.

Xi taggis up vji qevj vu xiemvj, tasi. Cav cioph qettoupevi ecuav ov nelit ov gap, epf veloph desi ug uastimwit fasoph vji kuaspiz nelit ov xusvj ov op vji ipf.

 

[therebel]

gus ni, vjisi't puv.

ov xuamf ci podi vu ci jeqqz epf nusi epf nusi taddittgam..

cav siemotvodemmz fotdungusv ot vji upmz vjoph vjev't huppe hiv epzupi nuwoph...

tu O'wi miespif vu jevi vji qmeviea iggidv & giim jussocmi xjip O fup'v qatj nztimg epf moli ov mum.