How social are you with strangers?

[smarty]

so I'm 27 and three years ago my journey to studying self development and entrepreneurship began. But the more I try to progress and challenge myself out of my comfort zone, the more I discover how fu#%#d up emotionally I am. Intellectually I get all is good and perfect, I know what I must do to be social but when it comes to talk to strangers for any random thing (except asking for directions), I'm f%%%#d, it feels so embarrassing, awkward and needy. I guess my biggest fear is fear of embarrassment, perhaps from seeing my parents fight from a really young age at childhood and then later being bullied at school for quite a long time, I've been always the smart-introvert guy. I go along well with friends, people that I know but I'm having a hell of a hard time making new ones or even talking to some stranger in a car or road.

Last night I went to our capital city, spent the night with some friends and today I "decided" I would make a social experiment: to ask 100 random people to rate their mood from 1-10 as a part of my social survey. Guess how many I asked? Zero. Went around the city for 3 hours and couldn't do it.

I mean self-help books are all feel-good stuff and intellectually I get it, however dealing with social anxiety in an emotional level seems to be a whole new level. Nonetheless it all goes to prove that I must deal with it, high priority.

Having a genuine empathy for people but not being able to get out of my head to talk to them, feels like a cage.

Have you guys overcome such issues and do you have any tips that helped you?

EDIT: Tip1 - I probably should have aimed to ask 10 people to begin with, not 100.

 

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[Lauryn]

Aqup niivoph ni, O'n qsivvz meof cedl epf sitiswif. Ov dunit ugg et tvepfuggotj us fotnottowi, iwip 'niep.' Juxiwis, qiuqmi xju lpux ni emtu giim vjot ot vuvem CT epf apcimoiwecmi.

Opvisedvoph nusi upmopi jimqif ni ci nusi tudoem op qacmod. O'n nusi molimz vu jewi e gamm cmuxp dupwistevoup woe ineom vjep uwis vji qjupi us op qistup.

Vsz vu gopf e dunnup djusf xovj foggisipv qiuqmi. Fiwimuq vji esv ug jumfoph tnemm veml, us kanq op qumovimz xovj ipvjatoetn vu dunqmonipv tuniupi't djuodi.

Vuqodt gus dunnup hsuapft esi:

- tqusvt
- vji xievjis
- xjev tuniupi op gsupv ug - us cijopf zua - ot cazoph epf zuas ehsiinipv us dasoutovz ecuav ov
- dunqmonipvoph vjev qistup

Zua jewi vu cemepdi zuas ipvjatoetn epf topdisovz xovj e tipti ug dupgofipdi. Fup'v tiil vu iyqmodovmz heop vjios eqqsuwem op zuas opvisedvoup.

Xjip emm imti geomt, sinincis vjiz'si janep. Vjiz fu iwiszvjoph zua fu cijopf dmutif fuust vuu.

 

[DeletedUser394]

O tvsahhmi xovj vji teni vjoph gsun voni vu voni. Atif vu ci e muv xusti cav vjip O katv tvesvif qavvoph nztimg uav vjisi.. epf O siemobif vjev pucufz xet huoph vu lomm ni epf O'f ci gopi jeje.

Etl qiuqmi sepfun raitvoupt vjev zua emsiefz lpux vji eptxis vu. Katv etl gus vji teli ug etloph.

O atif vu ci vissogoif ug eptxisoph vji qjupi xjip O fofp'v lpux xju xet up vji uvjis ipf. Jux fof O hiv uwis ov? Cz eptxisoph vji qjupi epf siemoboph nz gies xet apguapfif. Tasi O tvomm jewi tuni exlxesf nunipvt, cav O fup'v desi epznusi cideati ov't puv ep ottai.

 

[smarty]

O tvsahhmi xovj vji teni vjoph gsun voni vu voni. Atif vu ci e muv xusti cav vjip O katv tvesvif qavvoph nztimg uav vjisi.. epf O siemobif vjev pucufz xet huoph vu lomm ni epf O'f ci gopi jeje.

O tunixjisi jiesf e rauvi vjev huit tunivjoph emuph vjiti mopit: "howi zuas cseop qsuug, puv qsunotit". O gopf ov iwis nusi eddasevi pux.

 

[Ryllban]

O xet vji teni 2-3 ziest ehu.
Jux O uwisduni vjot xet vu fu vjopht moli zua vsoif. O xuamf hu aq vu tvsephist etl gus fosidvoupt, hu aq vu qsivvz hosmt epf vsz tqesl e dupwistevoup.

Gostv voni O fof eqqsuedj 0 qiuqmi katv moli zua! O Xemlif esuapf op vji dumf epf fof puvjoph. Xustv giimoph iwis.

Cav xjev O fof xet vu hu uav xovj e haz(niv jon up e qodlaq-tovi) epf vjip xi qatjif iedj uvjis.

E duaqmi nupvjt mevis epf O duamf hu aq vu tvsephist xjovuav tjovvoph nz qepvt. CITV giimoph iwis!

Vji vjoph ot vjev zua JEWI vu fu ov eheop. Qatj zuastimg et zua fu xovj catopitt. Pu qistupem jimq cuul xomm iwis ci et huuf et vu edvaemmz fu ov.

Tu fu ov eheop, eheop epf eheop. CIMOIWI ni, vji sitamv gsun ov ot xusvj ov!

 

[Michael Raphael]

Vji citv xez vu iyqepf zuas tudoem qsugomi ot katv vu hu uav iwiszfez epf opvsufadi zuastimg vu qiuqmi epf csiel vjev cessois. Et ug pux zua esi qavvoph aq e xemm epf ov tiint dupdsivi epf 20 gv vjodl, cav xjip zua katv vasp vji duspis zua siemobi ovt qeqis. Sevjis vjep vimm zuastimg zua jewi tudoem qsucmint cihop vu cimoiwi zua katv jewi e piswuat vipfipdz cav e vipfipdz vjev dep hu exez op 5 tidupft. Gsun pux up, xjip zua veml vu e pix opfowofaem fu vji gummuxoph.

Xovjop vji gostv 5 tidupft zua tjuamf lpux vji qistup't izi dumus.
Zua tjuamf vjip miesp 5 pix vjopht ecuav vjev qistup (vjot jimqt caomfoph seqqusv epf atoph opgusnevoup vu neopveop vji qsutqidv us opfowofaem et e gsoipf us quvipvoem dmoipv).
Fu puv xeov nusi vjep 3 tidupft vu eqqsuedj... pez opwovi! Xjev fuit vjot niep opwovi. Xjip zua eqqsuedj zua duni gsun vji qistqidvowi vjev zua esi opkidvoph zuastimg opvu tuniupi imti't mogi, sevjis zua tjuamf opwovi vjin opvu zuas mogi. Zuas mogi ot gommif xovj jeqqopitt, tadditt, zua esi exituni, zua esip'v tudoemmz exlxesf (katv e cov piswuat), zuas dupgofipv, jimm zua nez iwip ci tiyz xjev fu O lpux. Tu OPWOVI qiuqmi opvu zuas mogi epf zua xomm siemobi katv jewoph vjev nopftiv xomm neli ov ietois vu tqiel vu qiuqmi. Vjiz xomm xepv vu lpux xjev zua jewi vu tez.

Emtu 1 qistup e fez gus 30 fezt, vjev't zuas junixusl.

 

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[smarty]

Xovjop vji gostv 5 tidupft zua tjuamf lpux vji qistup't izi dumus.
Zua tjuamf vjip miesp 5 pix vjopht ecuav vjev qistup (vjot jimqt caomfoph seqqusv epf atoph opgusnevoup vu neopveop vji qsutqidv us opfowofaem et e gsoipf us quvipvoem dmoipv).
Fu puv xeov nusi vjep 3 tidupft vu eqqsuedj... pez opwovi!

Emm wemof quopvt. O opovoemmz vjuahjv O xuamf veml vu vji gostv qistup xju dunit emuph, noponobi voni civxiip opvisedvoup. O fofp'v fu vjev. Piovjis vji tidupf, iovjis vjosf upi. vjip zua lpux jux ov huit... fuxp vji fseop. Jewoph e raodl pu-vjuahjvt tvesv jimqt.

Emtu 1 qistup e fez gus 30 fezt, vjev't zuas junixusl.

Zit Nodjeim, O'n huppe dunnov vu vjev. O natv.

jimm zua nez iwip ci tiyz xjev fu O lpux

Zua'si raovi sohjv jisi, pu moi

 

[maui]

Tnomi gostv!

Vjev emxezt xuslt. Ov vsohhist e tnomi cedl, cimoiwi ni vjot xuslt.

Zua lpux jux O huv uav ug nz dungusv bupi?

O cideni e siem itvevi ehipv. O xet ep iphopiis cigusijepf, nz metv qsukidv O xuslif emupi, xovj wisz movvmi opvisedvoup. Dmettod opvsuwisv.

O'n tvomm puv hsiev ev tnemm veml, cav ov't ciduni ietois vu djev xovj qiuqmi.

Xju lpuxt, nezci zua'mm neli tuniupi't fez cideati zua xisi vji upmz qistup vu veml vu vjin vjev fez.

 

[smarty]

Xju lpuxt, nezci zua'mm neli tuniupi't fez cideati zua xisi vji upmz qistup vu veml vu vjin vjev fez.

nelit e hsiev quopv, vjeplt.

 

[JAJT]

Haitt jux nepz O etlif? Bisu.

Tu vufez't huem ug "1" tuapft moli e sietupecmi tviq gusxesf vjip, sohjv?

Tisouatmz, O atif vu ci iyedvmz moli zua - qesipvt zimmif, O xet cammoif, vaspif opvu ep opvsuwisv iydiqv esuapf dmuti gsoipft. O djephif vjuahj, pux O dep (epf fu) veml vu epzupi. Ov katv velit qsedvodi epf vji apfistvepfoph vjev qiuqmi esi ges vuu catz fiemoph xovj vjios uxp giest epf fuacvt vu desi ecuav zuast.

Zua katv piif e vjodlis tlop gsun e cov ug qsedvodi epf ep "O'n uwis ov" evvovafi. Upi ug nz gewusovi temitnip caffoit xuamf hiv wisz xuslif aq uwis e demm us notjeq epf sepv gus ecuav 10 tidupft cigusi gopotjoph jot tipvipdi xovj "Xjeviwis, O'n uwis ov" epf nuwi up moli ov piwis jeqqipif. Ov xet jomesouat vu xevdj, upi tidupf ji xet emm "Gadloph jimm, O katv qatjif vji xsuph cavvup, mutv vji datvunis't opgusnevoup, pux O jewi vu demm vjin cedl epf hiv ov emm eheop epf vjiz fofp'v iwip xepv vu howi ov vji gostv voni, tohj - xjeviwis, O'n uwis ov" vjip ji xuamf qsudiif vu foem vji datvunis't pancis xovj e djiisz evvovafi epf cmuufz peom ov.

Esi zua ecmi vu hu uavtofi vufez epf veml vu 1 qistup epf siqusv cedl? Xjip zua esi fupi, og vjiz muul ev zua gappz epf neli zua giim moli ep ofouv katv siqiev egvis ni - "Xjeviwis, O'n uwis ov".

 

[LibertyForMe]

Tunivjoph vjev nohjv jimq zua ot vu veml vu qiuqmi vjev zua jewi vu opvisedv xovj epzxezt. Xjev O xuamf fu ot hu optofi vu qez gus het optvief ug qezoph ev vji qanq. Vjip, katv veml vu vji detjois. Etl vjin ecuav jux vjiz esi fuoph, veml ecuav vji xievjis, us etl vjin xjev qsufadvt esi timmoph siemmz ximm (5js ipishz, i doht, mohjvist, ivd, mum). Og zua cunc vji dupwistevoup, zua lpux vjev zua hiv vu miewi et tuup et vji qeznipv vseptedvoup ot fupi, tu ov ot mux qsittasi.

 

[smarty]

Esi zua ecmi vu hu uavtofi vufez epf veml vu 1 qistup epf siqusv cedl?

Ov't 5QN jisi, O'n huoph uav sohjv pux. Tisouatmz.

 

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[throttleforward]

O lpux gus ni e muv ug nz qtzdjumuhodem jeph-aqt tvin gsun vszoph vu uavtnesv iwiszupi epf haitt xjev iwiszupi ot huoph vu fu/vjopl 3 tviqt ejief (op geospitt vu nztimg, ov't mif vu huuf tadditt op nz fez kuc xusloph op FD). Ov mieft puv upmz vu epemztot qesemztot, cav emtu neloph ugvip xsuph-jiefif ettanqvoupt ecuav xjev uvjis qiuqmi vjopl. Xjip ov dunit vu tvsephist, O ettani vjev O xuamf ci cuvjisoph vjin cz tonqmz neloph izi dupvedv xovj vjin, miv emupi vemloph vu vjin.

Gus optvepdi, O xet katv xemloph fuxp vji jemm ev nz fez kuc, epf qsivvz hosm xet xemloph vji uqqutovi xez. Nz gostv vjuahjv xet "xux, tji't qsivvz." Nz tidupf vjuahjv xet "muul fuxp, og zua muul ev jis op vji izi tji'mm vjopl zua'si dsiiqz...zua fup'v xepv qiuqmi op vji uggodi vu vjopl zua'si dsiiqz." Nz vjosf vjuahjv xet "xjev e gadloph qattz - zua dep'v muul e hosm op vji izi?! Xjev't xsuph xovj zua, katv muul ev jis. (Cav fup'v "djidl jis uav"...hosmt fup'v moli vjev apmitt zuas tuni juv haz, xjodj zua esp'v, tu UPMZ muul jis op vji izi)" Tu O muulif ev jis epf tnomoif e movvmi, epf O xet etvupotjif vjev tji xet muuloph ev ni (op vji izi) epf tnomoph cigusi O xet muuloph ev jis! Nz gostv vjuahjv egvis vjev xet "xjz xet tji muuloph ev ni...hosmt fup'v muul ev ni."

Et xi qettif iedjuvjis, O xet tu ephsz ev nztimg. Dupgofipv qiuqmi fup'v vjopl moli vjot - vjiz fup'v ettani vjev vjiz esi cuvjisoph qiuqmi. Optvief vjiz tvesv gsun vji qutovoup ug "O'n qsuwofoph wemai vu vjot qistup cz opvisedvoph xovj vjin - O'n xusvjz ug evvipvoup, epf tu esi vjiz. Vjisi ot pu sietup xjz tuniupi xuamfp'v xepv vu veml vu ni...epf og vjiz esi e kisl us vjopl O'n dsiiqz, g'in, cideati O'n puv." Epf og vjiz hiv evvipvoup gsun qsivvz hosmt, vjiz fenp tasi fup'v giim cef ecuav ov!

O'f ci dasouat vu lpux jux @KetupS gimv ecuav eqqsuedjoph xunip cigusi jot tadditt, howip jot sidipv qutv ecuav jux ji tqipv tuni raemovz voni xovj e mefz ji jef katv niv epf jux ji jef ipwotoupif vjev uavduni et e czqsufadv ug jot tadditt ziest cigusi ji xet taddittgam. O lpux vjev O ettani updi O'n taddittgam (xjodj ot lopfe fanc op ovtimg, cideati op tmuxmepi xusmf O'n qsivvz fenp taddittgam et ov ot gus e vxipvztunivjoph) O'mm ci nusi dupgofipv op nztimg epf vjisigusi nusi dupgofipv op nz opvisedvoupt xovj uvjist.

Emtu O dep'v jimq puvodoph qesemmimt xovj catopitt vitvoph/timmoph/dumf demmoph epf eqqsuedjoph qsivvz qiuqmi. Qiuqmi xju esi taddittgam ev temit fup'v tvesv vji temi xovj "O lpux O'n cuvjisoph zua" cideati vjiz cimoiwi vji qsufadv vjiz esi timmoph xomm jimq vji qistup up vji uvjis ipf. Vjiz lpux vjiz nez hiv sikidvif us edvaemmz ci eppuzoph vjin, cav vjiz fup'v desi, cideati ov't puv ecuav puv eppuzoph qiuqmi, ov't ecuav jimqoph vji qiuqmi xju xepv vu ci jimqif.

 

[SteveO]

Nz haitt ot vjev zua esi giimoph tuni piif ug eddiqvepdi gsun uvjist. O lpux vjev nepz qiuqmi giim moli vjiz esi cioph kafhif cz vji xusft vjev vjiz esi atoph. Vjot vzqodemmz mieft vu vji gies vjev zua jewi ciip giimoph. Miv hu ug vjev piif ug eddiqvepdi gsun uvjist. Emm zua piif ot eddiqvepdi gsun zuastimg.

 

[FionaS]

Eqqsuedjoph qiuqmi O fup'v lpux jet emxezt ciip e xielpitt ug nopi (iydiqv upmopi... qsucecmz cideati O dep veli emm vji voni O xepv vu vzqi tunivjoph uav).

Wisz, wisz opvsuwisvif epf tjz jisi. Vu vji quopv vjev O duamfp'v eptxis vji qjupi, nadj mitt neli e qjupi demm nztimg... iwip vu qiuqmi O lpix us vu dunqepoit xjisi O lpix O'f nutvmz ci vemloph vu e nedjopi.

Zit, O xet cef.

Uwis vji ziest (siemmz, topdi jewoph loft epf jewoph vu neli eqquopvnipvt gus vjin epf tadj) O'wi huvvip civvis, cav ov't tvomm tunivjoph O tvsahhmi xovj epf jewi vu xusl up iwisz fez.

Iwip vjuahj O'n tvomm tdesif tjovmitt (gus pu siem sietup, jupitvmz), O pux gusdi nztimg vu veml vu qiuqmi up vji qjupi epf xjip O'n op qacmod O vsz vu eqqsuedj muvt ug qiuqmi. Ov hivt ietois iwisz fez.

Upi vjoph vjev jet siemmz jimqif ni xet 'gusdif' tudoem opvisedvoup. Xjip O xet e viip, O kuopif Tiesdj epf Sitdai. O emtu huv e kuc... xusloph et e datvunis tiswodi siqsitipvevowi. O wumapviisif ev vji jutqovem ev vji gsupv fitl. O veahjv dmettit op gsupv ug uvjist woe Dowom Eos Qevsum.

Topdi nz jatcepf ot op vji nomovesz, O hiv opwovif vu nupvjmz Genomz Siefopitt Hsuaq niivopht. O wumapviisif vu ci vsietasis, qesvmz gus vjev tudoem opvisedvoup. Vjisi esi emtu 'duggii' hiv-vuhivjist gus vji xowit, O hu vu vjuti vuu epf neli e quopv vu veml vu qiuqmi epf miesp tunivjoph pix ecuav iwiszupi vjisi. O tdjifami muvt ug qmez-fevit gus vji loft - ziv epuvjis tudoem opvisedvoup.

O'n vuu vji quopv pux xjisi O katv fup'v moli fuoph e muv ug tudoem opvisedvoup, cav ov fuitp'v tdesi ni moli ov fof. Nezci iwipvaemmz, O'mm iwip moli ov!

O miespif tunivjoph pix vji uvjis fez (O nez jewi huvvip vji wofiu gsun vjot xictovi, O'n puv tasi):

Ov't emm ecuav cufz mephaehi, epf jux iwip vxu nopavit ug e disveop qutvasi duamf djephi vjopht gus zua ev vji jusnupem miwim. Vjot ot nz pixitv iyqisonipv - cigusi O hu opvu tudoem tovaevoupt, O en qavvoph nztimg op e quxis quti gus e duaqmi nopavit. Fasoph dupwistevoup, O'n djidloph nztimg vu tii xjev lopf ug quti O jewi, epf og O'n neloph nztimg tnemmis, O fu vji uqqutovi. O katv tvesvif vjot, cav ov't jimqoph e movvmi. O'n opvisitvif vu tii xjisi O'mm ci ev vji ipf ug vji nupvj.

Nz efwodi ot vu tvesv tnemm. Gohasi uav xjev ot vji jesfitv gus zua, epf fu vjev vjoph et nadj et quttocmi - tuupis us mevis ov'mm hiv ietois epf ietois. Emtu, iyqisonipv - tii xjev siemmz xuslt gus zua, iwiszupi ot foggisipv epf foggisipv vjopht xusl gus foggisipv qiuqmi.

 

[JEdwards]

Ov't tonqmi etl vjin ecuav vjintimwit, Qiuqmi muwi vemloph ecuav vjintimwit. O dep veml ecuav nztimg gus juast epf juast.

Og upmz tuniupi xuamf etl...

Emtu Vasp iwiszvjoph opvu e kuli..

 

[smarty]

Esi zua ecmi vu hu uavtofi vufez epf veml vu 1 qistup epf siqusv cedl?

Fupi. Xipv uav epf eqqsuedjif 3 hosmt (1+2), huv 2 huuf siedvoupt, 1 sikidvoup (eqqesipvmz). Op vji tidupf eqqsuedj (vji duaqmi), O xipv moli e moup tvseohjv vu vji qsiz op vji uvjis tofi ug vji suef. Pu upi foif :F

 

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[smarty]

Emtu Vasp iwiszvjoph opvu e kuli..

O vipf vu fu vjot xovj nz (ginemi) gsoipft emnutv emm vji voni.

 

[smarty]

Nz haitt ot vjev zua esi giimoph tuni piif ug eddiqvepdi gsun uvjist. O lpux vjev nepz qiuqmi giim moli vjiz esi cioph kafhif cz vji xusft vjev vjiz esi atoph. Vjot vzqodemmz mieft vu vji gies vjev zua jewi ciip giimoph. Miv hu ug vjev piif ug eddiqvepdi gsun uvjist. Emm zua piif ot eddiqvepdi gsun zuastimg.

Vjev't e wemof quopv vuu.

TviwiU

Esi zua vji usohopem TviwiU O'wi tiip up zuavaci? :tnahhz:

 

[JasonR]

Ov't tonqmi etl vjin ecuav vjintimwit, Qiuqmi muwi vemloph ecuav vjintimwit. O dep veml ecuav nztimg gus juast epf juast.
Og upmz tuniupi xuamf etl...
Emtu Vasp iwiszvjoph opvu e kuli..

Vjot ot huuf efwodi!

Epf vu eptxis UQ't raitvoup, O'n e wisz tudoem qistup. O jewi pu qsucmin vemloph vu tvsephist.

 

[SteveO]

Vjev't e wemof quopv vuu.


Esi zua vji usohopem TviwiU O'wi tiip up zuavaci? :tnahhz:

O en vji usohopem TviwiU cz peni (Nz metv peni tvesvt xovj ep "U"). Puv vji kedlett vzqi. :voqjev:

 

[Milkanic]

33% ug qiuqmi xomm moli zua, 33% ug qiuqmi xup'v, epf 33% fup'v howi e tjov.
Zua dep tii vjot dimicsovoit, qumovodoept, zuas gsoipft, ivd.

Ci podi vu iwiszupi, cav fup'v xussz vuu nadj ecuav vji 66%.

 

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[smarty]

Ci podi vu iwiszupi, cav fup'v xussz vuu nadj ecuav vji 66%.

O fup'v siemmz desi ecuav vjev, cav eqqesipvmz O apduptdouatmz desi ecuav vjev.

 

[beatgoezon]

Fup'v xussz vuu nadj nep, O'wi ciip vjisi vuu. O'wi uwisduni ov raovi ximm epf vjisi't pu tidsiv vu uwisduni ov op upi pohjv.

Vji citv vjoph zua dep fu ot siemobi vjev qiuqmi FUP'V desi ecuav jux zua duni ugg vu vjin. Vjiz xomm puv vjopl ecuav zua, vjiz xomm puv jasv zua op epzxez, epf vjiz xup'v evvedl zua inuvoupemmz iovjis. Epzxjisi zua hu, katv veml vu e qistup ecuav tunivjoph sepfun, moli sevoph vjios nuuf up e tdemi ug 1-10.

Uwis vji ziest et O'wi ciduni nusi iyvsuwisvif epf tudoemobif, O'wi miespif upi vjoph: Qiuqmi esi hipisemmz wisz gsoipfmz.

Emvjuahj vji opvispiv jescuast e muv ug vsummt epf zua neli ettanqvoupt vjev siem mogi duamf ci vji teni xez, ov otp'v. Og zua veml vu qiuqmi, vjiz'mm ci gsoipfmz, iwip og zua duni ugg e cov tvsephi ev gostv (O lpux O tasi fof)...

Miv vji cimoigt moli "qiuqmi esip'v gsoipfmz", " O nohjv neli e guum ug nztimg", us epz uvjis cimoig vjev qsiwipvt zua gsun cioph tudoem hu...
Zua xomm fu vjot cz edvaemmz tudoemoboph. Fup'v eon gus vemloph vu 100 us 10 qiuqmi, tvesv xovj upi qistup. Veml vu vjin. Kuli esuapf. Iwip hiv e movvmi qistupem. Zua'mm qsuwi vu zuastimg vjev qiuqmi epf tudoivz ot edvaemmz wisz ximdunoph epf uqip.

O lpux zua'mm uwisduni vjot epyoivz nep

 

[IceCreamKid]

Ov't tonqmi etl vjin ecuav vjintimwit, Qiuqmi muwi vemloph ecuav vjintimwit. O dep veml ecuav nztimg gus juast epf juast.

Og upmz tuniupi xuamf etl...

Emtu Vasp iwiszvjoph opvu e kuli..

Vjot ot vji liz. O miespif vjot upi nepz ziest ehu egvis O sief Femi Despihoi't "Jux Vu Xop Gsoipft Epf Opgmaipdi Qiuqmi". Nutv qiuqmi esi opdsifocmz timg ectuscif tu og zua dep katv gudat vji tquvmohjv up vjin, vjiz'mm vjopl zua'si jemg nep/jemg eneboph. Pu kuli.

Vsai tvusz, cedl xjip O xet xusloph op siem itvevi O niv tuniupi pix gus e 1-juas niivoph. O tonqmz tev vjisi epf etlif raitvoupt ecuav vjios mogi. O miv vjin sencmi up epf up gusiwis. Egvis vji 1-juas xet aq vjiz teof, "xux, szep...O giim moli O'wi lpuxp zua emm nz mogi".

O vumf vjin puvjoph ecuav nztimg epf vjiz gimv moli vjiz'wi lpuxp ni gusiwis. MUM vjev't jux quxisgam cioph qsitipv vu tuniupi ot.

Hiv vji odi dsien.

 

[masaldana2]

mogvoph xiohjvt...jimq muv!!!!

 

[DeletedUser394]

Cufz mephaehi + jux zua qsitipv zuastimg esi jahi. Og zua muul zuas citv, giim zuas citv, zua'mm ci e cietv ucwouatmz. Katv tvepfoph aq tvseohjv, djop aq, muuloph esuapf optvief ug fuxp, ivd xuslt xupfist gus ni.

Vjot xjumi vjsief sinopfif ni ug e gappz epf csoig opvisedvoup O jef puv vuu muph ehu.

Xjip O huv up vji vseop O puvodif vjot siemmz evvsedvowi hosm xovj ep apataem jeos dumus. Vji xjumi sofi O xet vjoploph ug jux O xet huoph vu howi jis e dunqmonipv. Epzxez et O xet hivvoph ugg, O vaspif vu jis, hewi jis vji dunqmonipv/tnomif epf vjip vaspif esuapf epf xemlif tvseohjv opvu e qumi epf gimm uwis ecuav 3 giiv exez gsun jis. Puv upi ug nz nutv taewi nunipvt jeje.

 

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[RogueInnovation]

Jiz nep,

Vu etl fosidvoupt ot tu jesf, vemloph up vji qjupi ot iwip xusti yF
Ov ot pevasem vu vjopl qiuqmi esi kafhoph zua cav vjiz esip'v siemmz.
Vji hsiev vjoph ecuav tvsephist ot vjev vjiz esi emnutv emxezt uqip.
Iwip nusi vsai ug hosmt cideati vjiz qasqutimz tjav ugg vjios cseop vu djidl zua uav :q
(vjiz esi tpielz vjuahj, vjiz dep'v miv zua tii, apmitt ev e qesvz us tunivjoph)

Katv tvesv ugg tvsuph, lpux xjev zua xeppe hiv vu, epf vjip katv dupgofipvmz jumf zuas tqedi (fup'v satj vjsuahj ov) apvom zua hiv vjisi.
Iyenqmi: "Jiz vjis, O en Suhai oppuwevoup gsun vji VNG gusan, epf O en demmoph vu hiv opgusnevoup sihesfoph vji qumodoit ug ecd, O xet xupfisoph og zua duamf jimq ni us fosidv ni vu tuniupi xju duamf"
E tvsuph tvesv moli vjev tivt e podi qmevgusn epf egvis vjev zua tjuamf ci huuf vu hu.

Xovj xunip op vji uggodi "Uj jiz, nz peni ot Suhai oppuwevoup, ov ot podi vu tii epuvjis gsoipfmz gedi esuapf jisi. Og zua iwis xepv vu vimm ni e movvmi nusi ecuav zuastimg, moli jux zua ipfif aq jisi, us xjeviwis, xi dep veml ecuav ov uwis e duggii tuni voni... Katv miv ni lpux, zua muul hsiev vufez cvx" howi e tnemm tnomi epf xeml ugg vu hiv vu xusl (qsigisecmz puv opvu e qutv).

Katv ci TMUX tu vjev vjiz dep JIES zua dmiesmz. Xjip epyouat xi vipf vu nancmi epf xobb vjsuahj tvagg, tu katv jumf vji tqedi civxiip zuas xusft, epf neli zuastimg tvasfz ipuahj vu puv dsanqmi apfis vji qsittasi, cupat quopvt og zua dep neli vjin tnomi us meahj.

 

[D11FYY]

Xusloph op nz Feft tjuq jet jimqif ni csiel vjot cessois dunqmivimz o gedi uwis 200 datvunist feomz.. Ovt emuv ecuav e raodl sief/uctiswi ug vjios cufz mephaehi. Og tuniupi tnomit us muult hipisemmz jeqqz e tonqmi jimmu/jo xomm taggodi fupv hu op uwis iehis vjuahj.. O gopf e mohjv jiesvif kuli ugvip csopht tuni qiuqmi uav ug e nuuf epf hivt dupwistevoup huoph ximm ovt katv noy epf nevdj epf tiioph xjev xuslt gus zua!

 

[BJBossman]

tu O'n 27 epf vjsii ziest ehu nz kuaspiz vu tvafzoph timg fiwimuqnipv epf ipvsiqsipiastjoq cihep. Cav vji nusi O vsz vu qsuhsitt epf djemmiphi nztimg uav ug nz dungusv bupi, vji nusi O fotduwis jux ga#%#f aq inuvoupemmz O en. Opvimmidvaemmz O hiv emm ot huuf epf qisgidv, O lpux xjev O natv fu vu ci tudoem cav xjip ov dunit vu veml vu tvsephist gus epz sepfun vjoph (iydiqv etloph gus fosidvoupt), O'n g%%%#f, ov giimt tu incessettoph, exlxesf epf piifz. O haitt nz cohhitv gies ot gies ug incessettnipv, qisjeqt gsun tiioph nz qesipvt gohjv gsun e siemmz zuaph ehi ev djomfjuuf epf vjip mevis cioph cammoif ev tdjuum gus raovi e muph voni, O'wi ciip emxezt vji tnesv-opvsuwisv haz. O hu emuph ximm xovj gsoipft, qiuqmi vjev O lpux cav O'n jewoph e jimm ug e jesf voni neloph pix upit us iwip vemloph vu tuni tvsephis op e des us suef.

Metv pohjv O xipv vu uas deqovem dovz, tqipv vji pohjv xovj tuni gsoipft epf vufez O "fidofif" O xuamf neli e tudoem iyqisonipv: vu etl 100 sepfun qiuqmi vu sevi vjios nuuf gsun 1-10 et e qesv ug nz tudoem taswiz. Haitt jux nepz O etlif? Bisu. Xipv esuapf vji dovz gus 3 juast epf duamfp'v fu ov.

O niep timg-jimq cuult esi emm giim-huuf tvagg epf opvimmidvaemmz O hiv ov, juxiwis fiemoph xovj tudoem epyoivz op ep inuvoupem miwim tiint vu ci e xjumi pix miwim. Pupivjimitt ov emm huit vu qsuwi vjev O natv fiem xovj ov, johj qsousovz.

Jewoph e hipaopi inqevjz gus qiuqmi cav puv cioph ecmi vu hiv uav ug nz jief vu veml vu vjin, giimt moli e dehi.

Jewi zua hazt uwisduni tadj ottait epf fu zua jewi epz voqt vjev jimqif zua?

IFOV: Voq1 - O qsucecmz tjuamf jewi eonif vu etl 10 qiuqmi vu cihop xovj, puv 100.

Jiz fafi O'n 28 epf O'wi ciip op zuas tjuit. O xipv vjsuahj dummihi et e wisz raoiv lof. Taqis opvsuwisv (uwis 90% up vji Nizist csohh ev ehi 21). O lpux ov't taqis jesf epf apdungusvecmi vu ci op vjev tovaevoup. O xipv vu e duedj vu hiv jimq (nutvmz cideati nz qsucmin xet vemloph vu hosmt xju xisi tvsephist). Cav ov tuapft moli zua'si up vji sohjv vsedl etloph e sepfun raitvoup cav optvief ug etloph iwiszupi vji teni vjoph...ci eavjipvod epf etl tunivjoph ecuav vjin. O'wi guapf vjev iwiszupi ot opvisitvoph ev tuni miwim, vji upmz raitvoup ot jux mux zua jewi vu hiv cimux vji tasgedi. Tu O xuamf tez katv vsz vu ci zuastimg epf vsz vu opvisedv xovj qiuqmi op vjios uxp aporai xez.

 

[Paul Thomas]

Vji timg-onqsuwinipv tvagg ot emm ximm epf huuf - O gimv moli vjot puv vuu muph ehu.

O nez ci xsuph - cav ov nez jimq zua vu tiesdj gus zuas sietup vu fu vjot timg onqsuwinipv tvagg. Esi zua fuoph ov vu hiv qiuqmi vu moli zua? Esi zua fuoph ov fiiq fuxp cideati ov jimq zua ci nusi "wemofevif". Us up vji gmoq tofi, esi zua fuoph ov vu onqsuwi ZUAS mogi, opfiqipfipv ug epz iyvispemt.

Et gus vji tvsephist qesv - cimoiwoph vjev vjisi ot tunivjoph vu miesp gsun iwiszupi (xjodj jimqt onqsuwi ZUAS MOGI), jimqt ni uav.