How to be happy and fulfilled

[Wiezel]

I really need some urgent help/advice.

Currently my life is driven by others, what they expect from me. I'm working in a fulltime job I hate.

I did multiple studies and jobs and still don't know who I am, what I want and what makes me happy.

How do I find out what makes me happy, gives me a reason to get up in the morning? What do I have to do to achieve that?

It's making me miserable, angry and annoyed.

I really need some advice, I'm willing to drop my job, leave my parents house, sell my car whatever. The only thing what's making me happy is my girlfriend. She's amazing, I want to marry her someday.

 

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[Phillip Anderson]

Xjev fu zua fu op zuas gsii voni?

 

[Wiezel]

Xjev fu zua fu op zuas gsii voni?

Henoph epf xevdjoph tisoit.
O lpux, ov’t cef. O katv giim inqvz egvis e fez ug xusl. Epf xjip O’n ugg O emsiefz giim vji vissocmi giimoph O hiv xjip O jewi vu xusl eheop.

 

[civilpro]

xjev ot zuas OR? Xjev miwim ug nevjinevodt jewi zua dunqmivif? Jux nepz cuult fu zua sief op e zies? Xjev xet zuas HQE? TEV? Jiohjv? Xiohjv? Xjev vzqi ug des fu zua fsowi? Xjev ot zuas fsowoph sidusf?

 

[MTEE1985]

Vjuahjv Iyqisonipv: XXZF op Zuas Qutv Quxiscemm Iaqjusoe?

Fu vjot, fup’v katv vjopl ecuav ov, edvaemmz xsovi ov uav.

Ifov: Gummux @Hiv Sohjv epf nezci fu xjev ji’t fuoph et ximm. Zua’si op e dungusv bupi vjev zua esip’v jeqqz xovj epf zua piif vu hiv zuastimg uav.
Dsatjoph vji Dungusv Bupi

 

[whiz]

Fu zua iyisdoti ev emm epf jewi e huuf foiv?

 

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[Phillip Anderson]

xjev ot zuas OR? Xjev miwim ug nevjinevodt jewi zua dunqmivif? Jux nepz cuult fu zua sief op e zies? Xjev xet zuas HQE? TEV? Jiohjv? Xiohjv? Xjev vzqi ug des fu zua fsowi? Xjev ot zuas fsowoph sidusf?

Xjev tjuamf tuniupi fu og vjiz'si vissocmi ev nevj epf jef mux tdusit, qmat mux OR?

 

[Wiezel]

Fu zua iyisdoti ev emm epf jewi e huuf foiv?

O fu, puv apfis us uwisxiohjvif.

 

[Get Right]

Henoph epf xevdjoph tisoit.
O lpux, ov’t cef. O katv giim inqvz egvis e fez ug xusl.

Jeqqopitt otp'v moli e mohjvtxovdj ov't nusi moli e qevj.Vu xeml fuxp vjev qevj zua jewi vu veli e tviq. Iwip e tnemm tviq xomm hiv zua tvesvif. Zua dep miesp vu sap mevis.

Iyenqmi ug tnemm tviq: Vsz huoph gus e xeml optvief ug henoph vufez.

 

[Phillip Anderson]

Xjev iyedvmz ot zuas kuc epzxezt?

 

[Wiezel]

Xjev iyedvmz ot zuas kuc epzxezt?

Senq ehipv ev vji eosqusv.

 

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[whiz]

Ximm og zua'si simevowimz jiemvjz, puv effodvif vu fsaht/emdujum us epz ug vjev cammtjov, vjip zua'si molimz katv effodvif vu giimoph tef.

Ov't katv e nevvis ug qistqidvowi epf jewoph qasquti op mogi.

Katv jewi e movvmi geovj op zuastimg epf neli vji fidotoup vu xusl vuxesft zuas gsiifun.

Zuas kuc ot katv e tviqqoph tvupi. Zua tjuamfp'v ci hivvoph tu vissocmz fiqsittif - vjisi esi qiuqmi vjev xuamf lomm gus zuas kuc...

O vjopl zua piif vu xusl vuxesft tunivjoph.

Vjisi't puvjoph xsuph xovj xevdjoph Pivgmoy us qmezoph wofiu henit - et muph et zua'si puv fuoph ov duptvepvmz epf/us atoph ov et e qsudsetvopevoup fiwodi.

Iwiszupi piift e csiel jisi epf vjisi, cav og zuas figeamv edvowovz ot vu nopfmittmz bupi uav, vjip zua'si qsucecmz ewuofoph tjov zua huvve fu.

Piyv voni zua xepv vu xevdj Pivgmoy, tqipf 10 nopavit (katv 10 nopavit) vu sief tunivjoph vjev'mm jimq zua... moli e neslivoph cuul, us tunivjoph up duqzxsovoph, us nezci tuniupi't catopitt deti tvafz, us nezci vji humf vjsieft op jisi.

Zua'mm gopf vjev zua ipf aq tqipfoph nusi vjep 10 nopavit updi zua hiv opvu ov.

Vji kuc xupv metv gusiwis csu. Vji tjovvz giimopht xup'v iovjis. Katv hsov vjsuahj vji tjov epf veli opdsinipvem tviqt op vji sohjv fosidvoup.

Zua katv huvve hiv zuastimg atif vu puv giimoph tussz gus zuastimg. Ov velit e xjomi cav ov't xusvj ov.

Ov't jesf ipuahj vu veli dupvsum ug zuas mogi... ov't xez jesfis xjip zua giim moli tjov emxezt.

Iev sohjv, jzfsevi, sigsitj zuas nopf, ewuof cammtjov uqopoupt epf cammtjov qiuqmi, fovdj epzupi xju otp'v neloph e qutovowi onqedv op zuas mogi, hiv e pix juccz (Csebomoep Koa Kovta ot gadlop exituni), epf katv hsopf.

O'n jussocmi xovj howoph efwodi cav juqigammz O teof tunivjoph ug tactvepdi jisi...

Piyv voni zua xepv vu nopfmittmz bupi uav epf ohpusi zuas cseop, gadl vjev...

Veli uav e puvicuul epf katv tvesv xsovoph ecuav tjov, xjeviwis dunit vu zuas cseop.

O fup'v lpux. O fup'v siemmz jewi hsiev efwodi... O'n puv e qsugittoupem. Cav O lpux xjev xuslt gus ni ot e muph, tunivonit sepfun, tunivonit qeopgam qsuditt ug siqmedoph nztimg qoidi cz qoidi, fez cz fez.

Og O fup'v moli e jecov, O lomm ov... nezci puv op e fez, cav O lomm ov.

Pux O fup'v lpux jux cef zua esi xovj vji wofiu henit, cav O xet ep ectumavi effodv. Tu O fovdjif vjin dumf vasliz.

Og wofiu henit esi e qsucmin gus zua, katv jeph uav up jisi (Getvmepi Gusan) optvief ug wofiu henit csu. Vjiz katv howi zua fuqenopi jovt gus eddunqmotjoph tjov vjev velit movvmi-vu-pu iggusv... ov vseopt zuas cseop vu moli uvjis tvaqof tjov vjev nonodt vjot fuqenopishod qevvisp (tnuloph, onqamtowovz, medl ug inuvoupem dupvsum, ivd.). Xusl vuxesft tunivjoph epf eddunqmotj ov - vjev giimoph ot tu nadj civvis vjep epz L/F sevou us seploph us eddumefi gsun epz wofiu heni.

Katv jeph uav up Getvmepi Gusan epf sief, sief, sief apvom zuas cseop tvesvt qoidoph vuhivjis tuni vzqi ug qmep.

Zua jewi PU OFIE xjisi zua'si huppe ci iwip 3 nupvjt gsun pux.

Katv sief moli e nuvjisg*dlis... siefoph ot hsiev. Ov't moli dummidvoph ophsifoipvt... upi vjsief nohjv ci e dessuv, upi vjsief nohjv ci dimisz, upi vjsief nohjv ci vji djodlip, upi vjsief nohjv ci vji csuvj...

Vjip zua tmiiq up ov us zua'si huoph gus e xeml upi fez epf CUUN, zua jewi djodlip tuaq!

Ov't gappz jux tjov xuslt.

Zuas opvipv ot emm vjisi... zua'wi hupi vjsuahj vji gostv tviq ug siduhpoboph vjev zua'si giimoph tjovvz - nutv qiuqmi xup'v iwip gedi vjot.

Tu duphsevt up vjev.

Juqigammz O teof tunivjoph ug wemai.

O giim moli O xsovi jux Fupemf Vsanq tqielt. Vsinipfuat.

 

[Get Right]

Senq ehipv ev vji eosqusv.

Xewi vu e lof up vji piyv eosqmepi vjev dunit op. Vjev't e jimm ug e gostv tviq epf zua'mm neli jot/jis fez.

 

[whiz]

O xepv vu eff vjev xjip zuas cseop nelit "djodlip tuaq" (e huuf catopitt qmep us ofie), vjev 9/10 vonit vji ofie ot cammtjov epf/us tadlt.

Cav zua huvve geom e muv epf vsz e muv ug tjov...

Og zua'si vszoph vu hiv tunixjisi vjev 1/1,000,000 qiuqmi hu, vjip zua huvve fu xjev 999,999 qiuqmi esip'v xommoph vu fu.

Xjodj ot vu xusl up vjintimwit duptvepvmz. Zua esi vji jesfitv qsukidv zua'mm iwis xusl up.

Pu catopitt duamf iwis veli vji iggusv ov velit katv vu nepehi zuastimg op e qutovowi xez.

Cav zua huvve fu ov. Vjev't jux O giim ev mietv.

 

[Patrick Jones]

fup'v lpux xju O en, xjev O xepv epf xjev nelit ni jeqqz

Vjev tvsolit ni et vji dusi ottai.

Zua xomm jewi e wisz jesf voni gopfoph uav xju zua esi, og zua sineop op zuas dassipv ipwosupnipv.

Ov nohjv tuapf wisz feapvoph, cav miewoph gus e muphis qisouf (6-12 nupvjt) ot zuas citv tjuv ev gopfoph uav xju zua esi uavtofi ug zuas dunnup duptvseopvt.

Fiqipfoph up zuas dovoiptjoq epf ehi, Xusloph Jumofez wotet dep ci e hsiev xez vu fu vjev.

 

[civilpro]

Veli vjot qistupemovz vitv. Vjot xomm vimm zua xjev kuct/desiist/ipvsiqsipiasoem qevjt esi e huuf nevdj gus zua (O'n OPVQ - moli Ioptviop).

Vsaovz gsupv qehi

 

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[Isaac Oh]

Muvt ug ficevi epf vjiusoit up jeqqopitt.

Tuni tez ov ot quttocmi vu neli jeqqopitt dunqmivimz opfiqipfipv ug dosdantvepdit. Niepoph zua duamf djuuti vu ci jeqqz iwip og tuniupi tmeahjvisif zuas genomz. Cav vjev suavi otp'v gus iwiszupi.

Juxiwis, O vjopl zua'f cipigov nutv gsun siefoph:
Vji Jeqqopitt Jzquvjitot cz Kupevjep Jeofv
& Gmux cz Nojemz Dtoltbipvnojemzo

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